African Mum Chooses a Wife For Her Son

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  • @GABRIELSalifu
    @GABRIELSalifu 7 днів тому +359

    Mum has a strong instinct and can discern sincerity. Fatima was very honest and fearless. She wasn't trying to impress that woman

    • @vtee549
      @vtee549 6 днів тому +12

      Exactly from the first intro, it's Fatima 😂💯💯

    • @woodmanmorning1234
      @woodmanmorning1234 6 днів тому +3

      @@vtee549and the part she asked about physical preference ❤❤love it

    • @Joyjoyjoy4
      @Joyjoyjoy4 2 дні тому +2

      Fatima was trying the hardest actually

    • @thezambianfiles
      @thezambianfiles 2 дні тому

      discernment and instinct are not reliable sources of knowledge. social psychology already proves this. Humans are complex.

    • @woodmanmorning1234
      @woodmanmorning1234 2 дні тому +1

      @ you are telling me carnal world and spiritual world.. in other words, according to my calculation, judging by your response.. you rejected God

  • @motivational.university01
    @motivational.university01 8 днів тому +859

    Don't pretend like you don't see this, may your mom live more than 80 years ❤️

  • @ElizabethOloruntola
    @ElizabethOloruntola 8 днів тому +696

    Am I the only one that likes the mom more than the son sef😭😹

  • @Enkaybe
    @Enkaybe 8 днів тому +169

    I can listen to this woman talk all day long lol😂
    She has a really nice voice ! Coming from a fellow girl 🥺

  • @Ofthegoodlife-j7s
    @Ofthegoodlife-j7s 8 днів тому +205

    Ifeoma doesn’t look confident in her outfit, the way she’s hugging her body and all.

    • @RobertMorgan-ne4tb
      @RobertMorgan-ne4tb 7 днів тому +6

      @@Ofthegoodlife-j7s maybe shy

    • @empresscrafts689
      @empresscrafts689 6 днів тому +16

      Maybe she felt different once she turned up on set

    • @MummysFave-vw6gp
      @MummysFave-vw6gp Годину тому

      She didn’t once she realized she was in front of someone’s mom

  • @Debvibe
    @Debvibe 8 днів тому +174

    His mother speaks soooo well❤❤❤

    • @Maifoods
      @Maifoods День тому +2

      Yeah that's our madam Irene

    • @Debvibe
      @Debvibe 21 годину тому +2

      @Maifoods 😁😁😁❤️❤️❤️😘

  • @innocentvictormark5381
    @innocentvictormark5381 8 днів тому +219

    I'm a simple man, i see a cruise video, i like before i watch

  • @Ibijoju
    @Ibijoju 7 днів тому +171

    Mummy said she doesn’t have a problem with what Ifeoma is wearing but went on to state the problem 😭😂😂😂, you just have to love our mothers

    • @Alice-Not-In-Chains
      @Alice-Not-In-Chains 6 днів тому +4

      No u just have to not us. Marry ur momma 😂

    • @Dynamo_studio
      @Dynamo_studio 6 днів тому +10

      @@Alice-Not-In-Chains sense of humor left you

    • @cherylseebreth328
      @cherylseebreth328 14 годин тому

      Mom said she has a problem with THEIR hair. THE HAIR IS NOT THEIRS, for God's sake. I have a serious problem with the fake hair African young women are wasting money on. They are giving their money to China, India, and horses. It's a serious colonial mentality and flying in the face of God. Everything God made is beautiful, including African hair.

  • @205thelostsongs
    @205thelostsongs 8 днів тому +61

    I absolutely enjoyed this. I am South African. The mother has such grace understanding and wisdom. She is strict but open-minded and patient enough to know that things can be improved overtime with guidance. I love the relationship of mother and son…loving and comical…and he knows his boundaries. Thank you for this, these are things that make us see how similar we are. She can be my mother and we will get along like a house on fire. I need her assistance too by the way😅.

    • @SAMUELBELA
      @SAMUELBELA 7 днів тому +3

      House on fire😂😂😂😂
      We're all similar honestly

    • @PoetrywithSusan
      @PoetrywithSusan 7 днів тому +2

      Pay me, I might just allow you be my sibling. I'm the daughter she was talking about

    • @205thelostsongs
      @205thelostsongs 7 днів тому +1

      @@SAMUELBELA absolutely!!😅

    • @205thelostsongs
      @205thelostsongs 7 днів тому

      @@PoetrywithSusan 😅😅okay that’s nice🫶🏾

  • @taylormadechamp
    @taylormadechamp 8 днів тому +43

    This was an enjoyable watch. His mom is cool and she shows her son well.

  • @ayodejimosopefoluwa7527
    @ayodejimosopefoluwa7527 8 днів тому +49

    Toju, was my classmate in secondary school. I think from SS1-3 if I'm not mistaken, and he hasn't changed one bit.

  • @jennyximalyn
    @jennyximalyn 7 днів тому +90

    As a young lady, I would have chosen Fatima or the lady in jeans... They both sound really simple and could be homely

    • @Lhvlly
      @Lhvlly 7 днів тому +8

      same. lola was my winner at first. outfit wise they came prepared.

    • @ArowoloSamson
      @ArowoloSamson 4 дні тому +1

      Exactly

    • @folamola7686
      @folamola7686 3 дні тому

      Me too

    • @hanzosiku
      @hanzosiku 3 дні тому

      Not a lady but me too

  • @Ofthegoodlife-j7s
    @Ofthegoodlife-j7s 8 днів тому +76

    This mama definitely flexed when she was young, I can tell from her responses.😂

    • @samchs222
      @samchs222 4 дні тому +3

      yeah, she still does not see anything wrong with clubbing but then her son is a nightlife influencer most likely an euphemism for owning or running night life events/ club

  • @jessicapeyton5444
    @jessicapeyton5444 4 дні тому +16

    22:57 Mom facepalming as soon as he starts his game 😂😂

  • @ShagzzLovesJuice
    @ShagzzLovesJuice 8 днів тому +267

    You think she is overdoing it until u meet my own mom😂

  • @acidicsoul4978
    @acidicsoul4978 4 дні тому +29

    I need a Dad and daughter version.

    • @Tolu_Wyse
      @Tolu_Wyse День тому +4

      That will be so difficult. Dad's are over protective to their daughter. No man will ever qualify. .

    • @acidicsoul4978
      @acidicsoul4978 День тому +1

      @Tolu_Wyse 💀🤣😂 honestly, you've got a point

  • @Blueorangered
    @Blueorangered 7 днів тому +96

    Nice episode, Cruise!
    I have a suggestion inspired by Fatima's comment about her reservations regarding inter-tribal marriage due to her mother's influence. I think it would be great to have a face-to-face episode featuring Igbos and Yorubas (Gen Z and older adults) to discuss major tribal issues. Although it's a sensitive topic, I appreciate how your show has tackled controversial topics in previous episodes, so this shouldn't be different at all.

  • @ItslowlahVlogs
    @ItslowlahVlogs 8 днів тому +163

    You guys should do an abroad nigerian vs born and raised nigerian video. I’ll participate this December 👀🙂‍↕️

    • @jointhecruise
      @jointhecruise  8 днів тому +13

      Please click on the link in our description to sign up for our mailing list and you'll be notified when we're casting for that.

    • @SAMUELBELA
      @SAMUELBELA 7 днів тому +7

      ​@@jointhecruiseI'll be in Nigeria December and would love to participate too

    • @naqeebayodamolaraji5718
      @naqeebayodamolaraji5718 7 днів тому +5

      Wish I had Fatima's contact/email/handle
      Really impressed

    • @SAMUELBELA
      @SAMUELBELA 7 днів тому +3

      @naqeebayodamolaraji5718 check out the comments. She might have made a comment

    • @Oponu-Ayirada
      @Oponu-Ayirada 7 днів тому

      @@naqeebayodamolaraji5718 just wish her luck n keep it going, me i like the girl on jeans sha.

  • @drwench9310
    @drwench9310 8 днів тому +62

    Naomi and Fatima total packages. Strong, bright, gorgeous.

  • @Kashleighsays
    @Kashleighsays 7 днів тому +12

    She seems like such a good mom 🥹🫶🏽sweet lady, funny, kind & understanding!

  • @lovelyabaa1671
    @lovelyabaa1671 8 днів тому +133

    Mummy's dress sense 💯😊

  • @benjaminologunde1085
    @benjaminologunde1085 7 днів тому +45

    Naomi is truly fierce, I like her spirit. Fatima is truly a take home girl. I like her simplicity.

  • @itschidera
    @itschidera 8 днів тому +70

    The way his mum looked down when he started talking to the girl is funny to me 😂 22:58

  • @ezinneonuoha4206
    @ezinneonuoha4206 8 днів тому +55

    You guys just have to continue this series anyhow because I'm loving every video!!

  • @socialvegan1826
    @socialvegan1826 8 днів тому +37

    this episode was very refreshing, the girls interacted with the mom from the onset

  • @farmassistNene
    @farmassistNene 7 днів тому +31

    Mum speaks really well, I love how she was intentional about the whole process. Son talks a lot😅

  • @davidjayeola9251
    @davidjayeola9251 8 днів тому +28

    The mum is well spoken

  • @Niri777
    @Niri777 8 днів тому +75

    Naomi is so pretty and classy.

    • @NaomiSeesTheWorld
      @NaomiSeesTheWorld 8 днів тому +6

      @@Niri777 awww thank you 💙

    • @Niri777
      @Niri777 8 днів тому

      @@NaomiSeesTheWorld you’re welcome!

    • @vtee549
      @vtee549 6 днів тому +1

      ​@@NaomiSeesTheWorld Rest

    • @JoshuaBotchway-fz4xm
      @JoshuaBotchway-fz4xm 2 дні тому

      Very true

    • @fatiha.a_k
      @fatiha.a_k День тому

      e​@@vtee549 abeg sit somewhere... @naomiseestheworld yu re fine nd elegant mamas

  • @josephomole6404
    @josephomole6404 8 днів тому +29

    21:48 omo, you will know a rich family when you hear their response😅

  • @merseilekeyz
    @merseilekeyz 4 дні тому +10

    The editing is top notch, production crew is super hot 🥵
    Audio too is lovely
    Camera view on point
    I wasn’t going to watch for long
    But I was glued with the visuals

  • @Abim-y4c
    @Abim-y4c 6 днів тому +16

    After the interview, i picked the number 1 myself in my mind before Toju's mum picked. I was right afterall. I love to sleep too and i like the fact that she was damn honest! The 2nd is equally okay too.

  • @sophieb24
    @sophieb24 3 дні тому +11

    His mother sounds well read and spoken, while her son sounds like a trader in Oshodi.

  • @moladam
    @moladam 7 днів тому +10

    And here I am blushing 😂😂😂
    I prefer to sleep than doing anything stressful, if I don't have to do it I want to sleep.
    Mymmy why are you covering your face? 😂😂I love you already. You and your son pass every vibe check ❤❤

  • @BadmusKehinde-z1k
    @BadmusKehinde-z1k 3 дні тому +2

    Pls do more video like this ,I just found this channel and there is only three video of this and I want to watch more ,so pls do more video of this thank you

    • @jointhecruise
      @jointhecruise  3 дні тому

      More of this show are coming sooooonnn❤️, but in the main time you can check out our other shows ❤️

  • @omeizasanni
    @omeizasanni 7 днів тому +18

    Is the mom a teacher? She speaks so well

    • @joneschilufya867
      @joneschilufya867 7 днів тому +2

      She definitely does look like a teacher cos I remeber all my teachers then were grown women and modest 😅

  • @gamewithjoshh
    @gamewithjoshh 8 днів тому +27

    Fatima >>> ❤

  • @itsqueenlicia
    @itsqueenlicia 8 днів тому +37

    Mummy is going to church from here 😂

  • @phrezzzalfred1267
    @phrezzzalfred1267 8 днів тому +43

    Immediately the mother said "This one is different" I knew she was going to end up at her number 1

    • @Maifoods
      @Maifoods День тому

      Yeah , the girl wasn't pretending to be who she's not, very natural

  • @majorbriggs8876
    @majorbriggs8876 8 днів тому +27

    As a guy, the mum actually selected the most suitable amongst them, if I were there, thats the girl I'd go for.

  • @tofunmish
    @tofunmish 8 днів тому +31

    Mums intuition>>>>>

  • @osaretinomo6242
    @osaretinomo6242 7 днів тому +21

    Fr I like Fatima she was very interactive

  • @DavidDayol
    @DavidDayol 8 днів тому +36

    Aswe my mumsi would have left that place as soon as she saw the dresees😂😂😂

  • @RobertMorgan-ne4tb
    @RobertMorgan-ne4tb 8 днів тому +51

    Naomi is the best she has courage,she is matured

    • @NaomiSeesTheWorld
      @NaomiSeesTheWorld 8 днів тому +7

      @@RobertMorgan-ne4tb Thank youuuuuu

    • @RobertMorgan-ne4tb
      @RobertMorgan-ne4tb 8 днів тому

      @NaomiSeesTheWorld God will help fulfil your dreams.so make sure you travel the world. Have you visited Ghana?

    • @bemmanuelvip
      @bemmanuelvip 8 днів тому +1

      @NaomiSeesTheWorld is just like her younger sister , she’s so mature and well spoken ❤

    • @KateisaacEdos
      @KateisaacEdos 7 днів тому

      I like 😂😂😂😂

    • @oluwoleodetola1626
      @oluwoleodetola1626 7 днів тому

      You are right, but you see her dressing ehn that one was a turn off

  • @real_emeldah
    @real_emeldah 6 днів тому +21

    Mummy be like "I don't have a problem but my problem is..." 😂😂😂

  • @Only1MaryamJ
    @Only1MaryamJ 8 днів тому +15

    This mother is smart

  • @tellymas4572
    @tellymas4572 2 години тому

    Trust Nigeria 🇳🇬 to come up with something like this, a breathe of fresh air in the entertainment industry…. Love from a Zimbish 🇿🇼 in the land down under 🇦🇺

  • @NaomiSeesTheWorld
    @NaomiSeesTheWorld 8 днів тому +151

    Naomi hereeeee 🤭

    • @joelasuku9599
      @joelasuku9599 8 днів тому +16

      you sound way mature than the young man.... and that is aside the age thing.Good luck though

    • @nessaomotola1036
      @nessaomotola1036 8 днів тому +4

      You did well, girl❤

    • @NaomiSeesTheWorld
      @NaomiSeesTheWorld 8 днів тому +11

      @@joelasuku9599 Thank you, it’s life experience for me and everyone has it differently

    • @NaomiSeesTheWorld
      @NaomiSeesTheWorld 8 днів тому +2

      @@nessaomotola1036 Thank youuu 💙

    • @raymondaworo
      @raymondaworo 8 днів тому +3

      Hii Naomi.. you did sooo well and sound sooo matured and confident of yourself.. that’s really good.

  • @victoradebayo2584
    @victoradebayo2584 8 днів тому +17

    "Another one" in DJ Khaled's voice😂😂😂

  • @gideonolusola4390
    @gideonolusola4390 4 дні тому +2

    This was really a good watch 👏

  • @Andr34_bau11
    @Andr34_bau11 8 днів тому +7

    I didn't know the girls in Nigeria were this beautiful😍They all breath-taking

  • @achigbeleonard2425
    @achigbeleonard2425 5 днів тому +21

    The Woman's command of english is amazing..

  • @cashcool1930
    @cashcool1930 7 днів тому +8

    Nothing even concerns commenters and the outcome, it's just the mum's smooth English and Naomi's classyness.

    • @NaomiSeesTheWorld
      @NaomiSeesTheWorld 6 днів тому +1

      Awwww Thank you 💙

    • @vtee549
      @vtee549 6 днів тому

      There's nothing spécial about smooth English. Una too inferior for this Africa😂🤦

  • @AmeliaWade-b8d
    @AmeliaWade-b8d 5 днів тому +6

    I will still go for lola i love her simplicity

  • @adeolaakinyemi119
    @adeolaakinyemi119 День тому +1

    I love the mother son relationship, the openness of the mother and truly I love the choice of Fatima, she's real, unpretentious and I believe she'll make that kind of added daughter ,the mom envisaged ❤

  • @CollinsAlexander001
    @CollinsAlexander001 8 днів тому +13

    Naomi is my kind of woman 💯....love the energy

  • @esthernwanekezie6308
    @esthernwanekezie6308 7 днів тому +5

    The fact that having this kinda mother in law will make you want to marry the guy! I love her already

  • @davidojeifo2084
    @davidojeifo2084 2 дні тому +2

    I really like this mommy, she is well grounded and informed. She really bridged the generational gap.

  • @vanessachip4843
    @vanessachip4843 8 днів тому +9

    How did he not tell Fatima she’s beautiful??!! She is stunning! Like that should have been the first thing he said 😂 #nerves

  • @stephanyadoiweh7982
    @stephanyadoiweh7982 5 днів тому +1

    This episode is epic! More please 🙏🏼

  • @bemmanuelvip
    @bemmanuelvip 8 днів тому +6

    @NaomiSeesTheWorld is just like her younger sister , she’s so mature and well spoken ❤

  • @nwachukwuirene9771
    @nwachukwuirene9771 6 днів тому +6

    The mum is so well spoken

  • @jaydon161
    @jaydon161 2 дні тому +1

    Fatima is perfect for him. Awwwww. I was over here shouting pick Fatima please from the minute she started talking.. Lol. I like to sleep passed the vibe check for me.

  • @Mobolajii
    @Mobolajii 8 днів тому +14

    Lola is my favorite 🥹🤭

  • @user-Strong.Trinitarian
    @user-Strong.Trinitarian 8 днів тому +12

    I like her son❤😂😂"sorry please who here is in a serious relationship?"

  • @OlaGrace139
    @OlaGrace139 7 днів тому +3

    Mummy is so cool and understand love her.she made a great choice for her son 😊

  • @Maifoods
    @Maifoods День тому +1

    Madam Irene 👏👏👏 good job

  • @LifeofGlowri
    @LifeofGlowri 8 днів тому +13

    Just finished watching the video 🤭 now let me read the comments 🙃

  • @emmanuelk.amedzorku6116
    @emmanuelk.amedzorku6116 6 днів тому +4

    I really admire Lola a lot. She is just simple and easy to go with I guess. I will be glad if the guy’s mum will pick her.

  • @Honey_Wealth.
    @Honey_Wealth. День тому +2

    I love mummy's vibe ❤.

  • @hanzosiku
    @hanzosiku 3 дні тому +2

    African mums don't like wives that give issues. They dont want wahala. No1 is a perfect pick. Beautiful, chill and speaks well.

  • @soderuifeoluwapojohnson7723
    @soderuifeoluwapojohnson7723 8 днів тому +3

    The moment I saw the ladies from the cover, I knew it was about to go down😂😂

  • @thaddnarrative
    @thaddnarrative 7 днів тому +1

    I enjoyed watch this!
    I love Naomi's aura!

  • @phoenixeunoia156
    @phoenixeunoia156 11 годин тому

    I like this mother composed and smart..... Kudos mama

  • @itschidera
    @itschidera 8 днів тому +1

    I really love this video idea. I’d LOVE to see more of it

  • @Pdaramol
    @Pdaramol 2 дні тому +1

    Lady with a black top is the my best option. very calm and looks covered

  • @jasminR107
    @jasminR107 12 годин тому

    Mama is so wise. She didn’t make any of them feel self conscious about their bodies or clothing. She said what she said but didn’t move their ranking on appearances. 😍

  • @eninnendahqueen9879
    @eninnendahqueen9879 8 днів тому +9

    I liked the final girl too at first

  • @AllTimePrecious
    @AllTimePrecious 7 днів тому +2

    Mummy said "sleeping competition" 😂😂😂😂

  • @SamTheHitmaker
    @SamTheHitmaker 8 днів тому +13

    Pauuusseeee!! we could have actually moved you to number 1 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Bartha79
    @Bartha79 6 днів тому +4

    If your mom choose a woman for you and you marry her, she don get another daughter , you see that mother in-law and daughter in law problem, you will not see it, she go treat and love ur wife like her daughter ❤

  • @jesuferanmi
    @jesuferanmi 3 дні тому +1

    21:52 “ We have table o” this love go sweet

  • @dedemandy-
    @dedemandy- 11 годин тому

    I hope they are truly a match. They look great together. Mom is amazing. She's open minded and straight forward as well as welcoming. ❤❤

  • @DaberechiFaithorakwe
    @DaberechiFaithorakwe 8 днів тому +8

    Is the sleeping a lot for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @OriginalAfricanTales
    @OriginalAfricanTales 3 дні тому +2

    This woman is wise for not rearranging after the second stage

  • @2967_
    @2967_ 2 дні тому

    Arranged marriage is the way to go, if it's done like this. This lady is educated, gracious and wise. I wish I had a mom like her as a young woman. I had no Mother to help orteach me, so I never married. We in the West suffer for lack of good mothers who have traditional African cultural values. The son said, "we have table our table is full." Simultaneously the mother says, "we don't need" (what you bring to the table). That's such a gift to a young woman who has to have children and keep house. I'm happy for all of them. They will find a husband for sure. Blessings to Nigeria.

  • @jaddypee
    @jaddypee 3 дні тому

    Wow! Love this 😂
    This woman made me subscribe to your channel 😂

  • @Nelsonjolly
    @Nelsonjolly 8 днів тому +32

    We don't need your table
    Big flex

  • @eselevi6132
    @eselevi6132 7 днів тому +3

    Fatima is a vibe.

  • @Boniks_Ashbee
    @Boniks_Ashbee 3 дні тому +1

    Mum speaks really well. I like Fatima’s too, she’s not a pretender

  • @ellen5276
    @ellen5276 8 годин тому

    I love this mum, clear thinker!

  • @AllTimePrecious
    @AllTimePrecious 7 днів тому +11

    Ladies should understand that different occasions require different outfits.

  • @oluwatokifattah946
    @oluwatokifattah946 7 днів тому +2

    I knew it would be Fatima from the get go🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Enkaybe
    @Enkaybe 8 днів тому +4

    They’ll put a timer there, whoever wakes up first will loose the sleeping competition 😂😭

  • @hillaryebose7855
    @hillaryebose7855 День тому

    This was good. 😊❤

  • @tshireletsophenyolebotse4187
    @tshireletsophenyolebotse4187 8 днів тому +3

    This mother is a G😂❤❤

  • @uchennachibuzor1719
    @uchennachibuzor1719 22 години тому

    I like his Mum,well spoken,liberal minded and easy to talk to.

  • @KeionEdwards-j3y
    @KeionEdwards-j3y 7 днів тому +4

    Bro bring back Mom to choose wives for other men this can be a good thing

  • @noelpercy1601
    @noelpercy1601 12 годин тому

    This Mom is likeable a million times ❤

  • @mabelowolabi4111
    @mabelowolabi4111 22 години тому

    Mummy say na “ah ahn you’re my guy naw “😂 I like her steady 😂

  • @MummysFave-vw6gp
    @MummysFave-vw6gp Годину тому

    She said my daughter is always wearing trousers and we talked about it but that is just her style. That is just your style too 😂😂😂 after saying you’re ok . Damn