Thank you for these wonderful tips! Imposter syndrome can be hard to overcome, and these ideas are extremely helpful. The guide on Patreon makes it even better! ❤ Also, I love the look of this video, beautiful colors and lighting, and You look amazing as always, Ms. Elle. I am very excited for the upcoming videos in this series!
The moment you said "is there a certain character (etc) that inspires you?" I immediately thought of the way Meryl Streep played MIranda Priestly ! I love your tips, just discovered your channel thanks to friends and I am glad they linked your video! Can't wait to learn more and more~ thank you very much for doing this!
Love how you talk about the energy you create in a scene...so key! The examples you give were perfect. I can't wait to check out your guide on Pantreon.
Thank you for your videos. We stumbled into this life style by accident but you videos have help me understand the psychology of our marriage and my relationships in the rest of my life. Please do a video on poly d/s dynamic.
I love this video ... communication is something i struggle with in my daily life and i very much want to learn how to comminicate with confidence & authority not just privately, but elsewhere.
Can’t believe this channel exists. I have been a dumb once in a blue moon. It comes very naturally to me, but I definitely need it more help. So glad you exist and for all your work!
I feel a bit like I'm in a rut, I don't feel like planning sessions anymore, I'm uninspired, normally it's something that makes me feel like a bad bitch and something I do with few effort because I feel like a bad bitch, kinda like a cycle, that powefull feeling is the cause and outcome of sessions too, at this point it feels like something I have to do rather than something I want to do, idk how to get back in that mindset
Sounds like you’re burnt out and possibly over extending yourself. Maybe take a small break from Topping and focus on rest and rebuilding your creative energy!
Your videos as ever are helpful, reassuring with rational and cut through the internet noise. I would like to purchase your books now I’m aware of them however I can only do audiobooks could you guide me to where I may locate them. Thank you
There's so many moments when I do or notice something in myself I don't like because it doesn't reflect who I want to be ( as a dom) and I think " how would my ideal model act in this situation?"
@@ElleX I thought the video was very insightful. As a switch I often neglect my Dominant side because I don't feel as comfortable in that mode, so this helps give me ideas for things I can do/work on to be better.
That’s a lot of good information. I just thought that person I mentioned before would be a great dominant caricature. That’s the person I chose to emulate. It wasn’t to make Female Dominates feel bad. I just think that caricature fits my personal personality. That caricature is Lieutenant Frances Castiglione! 💪 🧔🏻♂️😃
Thank you for these wonderful tips! Imposter syndrome can be hard to overcome, and these ideas are extremely helpful. The guide on Patreon makes it even better! ❤
Also, I love the look of this video, beautiful colors and lighting, and You look amazing as always, Ms. Elle.
I am very excited for the upcoming videos in this series!
Thank you for watching!
It's interesting how the concepts you eloquently demonstrated in this video are applicable to many aspects of life.
Yup! Kink is everywhere! 🙌🏼😘❤️
@@ElleX It's clearly a set of components of primordial human nature.
I make notes, keep a list on a phone app. Helpful, good to practice with, to plan a scene with. Reviewing it is a hot way to get into that mindset.
The moment you said "is there a certain character (etc) that inspires you?" I immediately thought of the way Meryl Streep played MIranda Priestly !
I love your tips, just discovered your channel thanks to friends and I am glad they linked your video!
Can't wait to learn more and more~ thank you very much for doing this!
Love how you talk about the energy you create in a scene...so key! The examples you give were perfect. I can't wait to check out your guide on Pantreon.
I can attest that this is absolutely correct. I’m a sub myself and the examples melted me.
😂😏😘❤️
@@ElleX I have been out of the scene for a while. No Domina at the moment. As soon as I have more time, I need to get back on the horse.
Same, I may have hit sub space so hard for a quick min lol
Me too. I watch this Channel purely BC "damn id love that" XD
*subby puddle*
Incredible information, as a Dom i find this very intriguing and excited to work on voice inflection with my sub. thanks again
My pleasure! 🙏🏼😘❤️
Thank you for your videos. We stumbled into this life style by accident but you videos have help me understand the psychology of our marriage and my relationships in the rest of my life. Please do a video on poly d/s dynamic.
I already did! Check out My series on polyamory from a few weeks ago!
@@ElleX ok thank you
I love this video ... communication is something i struggle with in my daily life and i very much want to learn how to comminicate with confidence & authority not just privately, but elsewhere.
Seriously, thankyou.
🙏🏼😘❤️
Can’t believe this channel exists. I have been a dumb once in a blue moon. It comes very naturally to me, but I definitely need it more help. So glad you exist and for all your work!
I love the Video Game Reference and I Love this Channel. You Rock!!!!!!
Hey, I have found a mistress. It's Playtime very soon. x
I love your content as a new Dom❤❤❤❤
THATS THE FUNNEST PART TO ME! ONCE IM IN THEIR HEAD,, THEYRE PUTTY IN MY HANDS!
Yay subby putty!
Can you please send me your Patreon name on here please xxxx 🙏👸🏻
Very good videos Miss,, congrat
2.25 omg me tooo such a insprational performance
Thank you for watching!
I feel a bit like I'm in a rut, I don't feel like planning sessions anymore, I'm uninspired, normally it's something that makes me feel like a bad bitch and something I do with few effort because I feel like a bad bitch, kinda like a cycle, that powefull feeling is the cause and outcome of sessions too, at this point it feels like something I have to do rather than something I want to do, idk how to get back in that mindset
Sounds like you’re burnt out and possibly over extending yourself. Maybe take a small break from Topping and focus on rest and rebuilding your creative energy!
Love this series! Happy to be a Patreon!
And I’m so happy you’re here with us! ❤️
I am a hard working business man who wears suits and ties but is also very into BDSM.
Glad you’re here!
Miss Elle X looking hot...
🙏🏼❤️💋
Your videos as ever are helpful, reassuring with rational and cut through the internet noise. I would like to purchase your books now I’m aware of them however I can only do audiobooks could you guide me to where I may locate them. Thank you
I’ve got a variety of audio stories on My Patreon! patreon.com/ellexerotica
Great video as always! Can’t wait for the next one!
Thank you for watching! 🙏🏼😘❤️
How you move your hands in space is hypnotizing. I know that has come over time. Well done. It serves you well
There's so many moments when I do or notice something in myself I don't like because it doesn't reflect who I want to be ( as a dom) and I think " how would my ideal model act in this situation?"
Wen you said that I realised I've been emulating Olivia Pope for years haha
I couldn’t find the dominant communication guide on your patreon page :(
It’s literally the most recent post there…
. . . and finally, it all falls into place . . .
It is time to ask my questions boldly to my partner.
You look more amazing as a blonde ❤❤❤
*Puts on spy cosplay* Seduce me
First lol. I am so interested for this video.
And what did you think, Mr. First?
@@ElleX I thought the video was very insightful. As a switch I often neglect my Dominant side because I don't feel as comfortable in that mode, so this helps give me ideas for things I can do/work on to be better.
Can doms be brats?
Wonderful tips
🙏🏼😘❤️
4:57 general Kenobi
Could you do a video on what are the favoured things used for Dom in a play? And probably a demo? 😁
What a Dominant favorites will vary drastically between Dominants. And I might do a demo video…private for Patrons only… 😏
That’s a lot of good information. I just thought that person I mentioned before would be a great dominant caricature. That’s the person I chose to emulate. It wasn’t to make Female Dominates feel bad. I just think that caricature fits my personal personality. That caricature is Lieutenant Frances Castiglione! 💪 🧔🏻♂️😃
Thank you for watching!
@@ElleX You’re Welcome. Thank You for replying! 😃
Awesome
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She coaches yessss 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
But of course! 😆😘❤️
20 years ago? so in other words, since you were born?
I appreciate the compliment! 🙏🏼😘❤️