00:33 Ability to handle small setsbacks - don't let small things bother you! 02:10 Attention to detail - listen to pay attention, not to "listen". Remember the details! (and don't forget the small details about YOURSELF TOO) 05:20 Put effort into where you go/take her 07:15 Posture and body language is key! Good eye contact, stand strong, don't fidget 09:22 Treat others with respect!!! (If you can't treat others with respect, you'll eventually treat her the same. LIKEWISE GUYS, DON'T LET OTHERS DISRESPECT YOU! Goes both ways!) 10:25 Be present, don't play on your phone/no distractions. Basic respect for others time is important 11:52 End on a high note - the last impression is just as important as the first impression! It's no good to make a good first impression if you ruin it with your last impression. Leave her wanting more by making sure you end on a good note.
@andrewq159 Honestly? Easiest answer is to pay for it 😂 I've had a couple of casual hookups that happened same day but I couldn't tell you any tricks. It's more like you gotta be at the right place at the right time and for the right person to think you're attractive enough that they want to do so. Paying for it is the closest thing to a cheat code (outside of genetics)
Courtney, have you considered collaborating with like-minded men in your videos. I realize that most of your subscribers are men who want to hear a woman's perspective, but hearing from men can enhance your message. Just a thought. Thank you.
@@pace1195 Or the trial of Bundy. The interviews prove that supposed "intelligent" women care about looks over malignance. One woman even accepted his proposal.
The other day I went on a coffee date. I'll admit that I didn't feel an immediate connection, but I still had a fun date because we had a flowing conversation in which we shared stories, goals, and philosophies. Positive vibes even if it's not meant to be!
@@CourtneyRyan I can honestly say that my re-entry into the dating scene has been smooth so far: I've met some polite people, as well as formed a few friendships. Your advice on compatibility has also come in clutch a couple of times. A key thing I've learned in the last month is that there's still plenty to look forward to, and I can always find ways of getting better!
@DDD11239 thanks for the recommendation. I should clarify that when I said philosophies, I was referring to the exchange of ideas on a variety of subjects such as music, sports, etc. So, not necessarily the subject of pure philosophy itself.
Body language is something I constantly work on. Things like eye contact and posture don't come naturally to me, but I can tell the difference in my personal confidence and the quality of my interactions if I actually remember to do those things.
I can say after being married nearly 20 years, Courtney's advice applies to keeping a marriage relationship happy for husband and wife. Listen to your spouse,show them respect and watch your marriage thrive!
Thanks for this video. In my experience emotional presence is so important between male&female in order to build connection. Woman wants to feel that she is noticed and she is being adored and even admired. Being emotional presence with woman has in my opinion huge succes rate in dating because it shows that you are committed and genuinely interested about her. Every woman is individual, emotionally orientated so showing emotional presence indicates that you are genuinely interesting to building emotional connection to her.
My advice. I'm a male in my late thirties. Be good/generous (don't be nice). Be confident yet humble. Be genuine, authentic and mature. Have a warm sense of humour. By your thirties you should have learned some important lessons including money, style, and personality. You are amazing, go out there and get the girl of your dreams. Have a good day reader.
Handling minor and even major misfortunes with calmness, class, and even a sense of humor while taking action to overcome the problem was once considered the universal ideal. More people today idealize magnifying and spreading outrage and panic. Not a great way to make others (particularly women) feel safe in your presence.
Being able to handle setbacks maturely is a big one. I subconsciously notice this with women also. If they can handle a setback with grace vs getting all dramatic, that’s a huge green flag for me.
Imma be honest. Can we teach what women need to do and how women should act too. The amount of videos on how men should behave is infinite but rare for women.
I seen plenty. No joke, stuff like "How to manifest a high value man". Step 1 - Channel your inner goddess. 2 - Eat health. 3 - Read a book in public. 4 - Do Yoga. 5 - Focus on yourself for once. 6 - Friends who match your vibe.
I respect All persons different opinions view points self-control is essential i agree with You every video You Do helped me to be More considerate and understanding
Good call on the Apple Watch. Only way I feel like I need to wear it is just in case my co-parent needs me if there's a kid emergency. I'll just have to figure out something where that's the only kind of notification I get on a date.
Thank you Courtney Ryan for the helpful advice. I’m actually nervous when I do start dating in like 5 years from now. Because I’m currently 15 years old and sometimes I have difficulty keeping my temper under control. So I don’t think I handle a romantic relationship either at least right now anyway. But watching your videos has given me a lot of useful information and insight about dating. Thanks again ❤
It’s my pleasure, I’m so glad you’re here! The fact that this is something you recognize and are working on is such a great place to start ❤️ whenever I feel overwhelmed or emotional, taking deep breaths always helps me. Hugs!!
My dude if you’re 15 years old and already so mindful about your shortcomings, you’re already 10 steps ahead of the game imo. Keep aiming to grow as a man and figure out what that truly means. Get comfortable in your own skin, but always aim to improve, You’ll attract the right kind of attention when you’re ready to be dating. All the best to you.
@ aw thank you Ami for the support and encouragement it truly means a lot and you bent that I will keep aiming to grow into a better man and aim to improve myself so that eventually I will be able to attract a good woman in the future.
Isn't the first point just another way of saying that women prefer stoic men? The last thing that women want to deal with is a man who can't stay composed during an adverse situation. If his emotions hijack his ability to reason, it's a turnoff. Anytime someone is able to point to seemingly minor changes that they notice about you, it's a good sign that they genuinely care. This is why tailored compliments are so much more effective than generic ones. As a general rule of thumb, first dates should take place somewhere that best facilitates conversation and is low cost. You want to make sure the venue allows you both to get acquainted and isn't financially burdensome. The last thing you want is to realize that you've wasted a ton of money on someone that you see no potential with. If a guy finds a woman highly attractive and doesn't have a lot of dating experience, nervous body language is something that he may not be able to correct or control. Many women will be unforgiving here because it may signal insecurity, but I think it should be taken as a compliment, if anything. Also, the guy could just clear the air by verbalizing this instead of trying to suppress it. I think most people behave differently when they know they're in the presence of someone they like. Generally speaking, a guy who's courteous in public is a good indicator that he's also courteous in private, but there are people who put on an act and then flip the switch behind closed doors. Yeah, it's a telltale sign when someone starts checking their phone when you're talking to them in person. Easiest way to know they're trying to zone out and deliver a soft rejection. By the end of a first date, both parties intuitively know whether there'll be a second one. And if the date went well, you won't have to ask to see her again because she'll express interest in following up.
As long as you aren't hypocritical about supposed emotional stability. **Do you refrain from crying over stressful actions, by instead putting it into action? **Do you refrain from forming the excuse of supposed manipulation, when confronted with the witness of your immature actions? **Do you refrain from arguing over small things? **Do you practice stoicism? **Do you refrain from listening to gossip and friendship drama? **Do you judge both genders, without making a hypocritical statement? **Do you know how to supoort yourself, and take care of yourself, without relying on your partner? **Do you reserve s3ggual actions for only one partner, in private?
As long as you aren't hypocritical about supposed emotional stability. **Do you refrain from crying over stressful actions, by instead putting it into action? **Do you refrain from forming the excuse of supposed manipulation, when confronted with the witness of your immature actions? **Do you refrain from arguing over small things? **Do you practice stoicism? **Do you refrain from listening to gossip and friendship drama? **Do you judge both genders, without making a hypocritical statement? **Do you know how to supoort yourself, and take care of yourself, without relying on your partner? **Do you reserve s3ggual actions for only one partner, in private?
As long as you aren't hypocritical about supposed emotional stability. **Do you refrain from crying over stressful actions, by instead putting it into action? **Do you refrain from forming the excuse of supposed manipulation, when confronted with the witness of your immature actions? **Do you refrain from arguing over small things? **Do you practice stoicism? **Do you refrain from listening to gossip and friendship drama? **Do you judge both genders, without making a hypocritical statement? **Do you know how to supoort yourself, and take care of yourself, without relying on your partner? **Do you reserve s3ggual actions for only one partner, in private?
I'd like your opinion of this: "hold her hand" When you've had a nice first date and the vibe is good, when you get up to leave, hold her hand going out. If you have to jump a table or it would be otherwise awkward, don't do that, but if you hold her hand going out the door it is a mini PDA and shows her you have affection for her without saying a word. Also; when going into or out of a theater, grocery store, about anywhere in public (going into a club? boy howdy), hold her hand when it's not awkward or uncomfortable. It is subtle affection for all to see. "Me and my Baby".
Hello, I frequently enjoy these videos for tips. Thank you for making them. I want to share an experience that has made it difficult for me to date anyone in the hopes it helps someone reading this. Growing up, my mom took it on herself (due to having a negative experience in public school)to homeschool us. Instead of teaching us anything, she became chronically addicted to the early internet. My father waited until my youngest brother came of age as in the state where we lived, you'd need to be 18+ to be able to choose which parent to be with during a divorce. During this timeframe, I developed type 1 diabetes while studying to take the Hi-set test. My mother used funds set up in a joint account that was meant for me to use towards a collage education for lawyer fees during the divorce. For a long time after that I pursued sports with passion and rage, slowly working towards having more full time steady jobs. I've began reconciling and turning my life around, I've started going to collage much later then planned. I am terrified of women and think of self harm whenever I find someone attractive. I am going to therapy for this but wanted to put it out there.
What fragrances do You recommend to the rest of the world? That are easily available in Europe for example? Up to this point, I have been using David Beckham fragrances, but that's only because it had a man's name written on it. I have no other idea, how to select one. Others could very well be for women, I would not know the difference. So I have been using Beckham ones for... 10+ years now.
When I'm eating alone in a restaurant I'll take off my jacket and fold it and put it on the seat next to me women stare. What fascinates them about folding a jacket I wonder?
hello courtney and how your own day and night going and have you thought about live streaming on twitch and kick at the same time at once and starting your own podcast and starting your own vlog channel on youtube and starting your own discord account and starting your own patreon account in the future
Important things: 0:32 First Thing ÷ Ability To Handle Small Setbacks; 2:10 Second Thing ÷ Attention To Details; 5:20 Third Thing ÷ Effort You Put Into The Environment; 7:15 Fourth Thing ÷ Posture And Body Language; 9:21 Fifth Thing ÷ How You Treat Those Around You; 10:23 Sixth Thing ÷ Being Present With No Distractions; 11:51 Seventh Thing ÷ Ending On The High Note; and 13:00 To summarize all the told here. The deeds are very important, cause they do say if someone not just cares, or listens, it even shows the values efforts to our time. Like you said, Courtney: "Action speaks louder than words." And that goes in every life situations. When I was listening to you, I remember that I some situations when I talked to someone, and that person did something else.They either watched TV, or they either reed the newspaper, or like you said: they watched at the phone. And that's very rude, and immature. Once I remembered that one of my colleagues had one exam on faculty. And during that time the colleague entered the professors office, suddenly professor starting doing a phone call, and the same professor told the colleague this: "You start talking colleague, I'm listening." Such a rude treatment to that colleague, although the colleague passed the exam at that professor. But let me say positive side. Positive side is that I did compliment some women saying about the details. And some of them told me this: "You have an eye for details." And I showed the gratitude for that compliment. P.S. I do model kits and I have an eye for details 😉🙃🙂🤓😎✈🛩🛫🛬🛶🚤🛳⛴🚁🚟🚠🚐🚓🚑🚒🚋🚌🚍🚂🚃🚖🚗🚘🚔🚙🛵🛺🚲 (but this can be another topic that we can discuss about hobbies, dear people). When I was listening you I remembered following quotes that I have seen them. And those are these: 1. In Balkan peninsula we say this thing: ,,Kakav na jelu, takav na delu." Translation is: The way how the person eats is the way that shows deeds. Reading between the lines means this: The way how person does it's job is the way how it shows interests in following things. 2. In Balkan peninsula we say this thing: I don't remember the people in they way as they are behaving at the beginning, but I do remember them as they are behaving at the end. In the beginning, they are all friendly and kind. 3. This quote goes like this: "Don't listen the words, and look at mouth, cause they will say many lies and things. Watch the eyes, cause they will say a lot about that person." The color of the eyes goes well with the pattern of the shirt, Courtney 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏. La perfection madam ❤💙🤍.
The problem with this high expectation from women is its simply not sustainable! Its also not realistic for men to expect women to be on top of their game all the time! Unless the goal is for a short term relationship, but if its for marriage and long term all these acts will be impossible to keep up with year over year
Lol, its so easy. Just be your best self and if you have a genuine connection everything will fall in line. Its not science or a job interview, dont overthing it.
2:31 Hey Courtney! I’m talking to a girl named Marie. She told me no man in her life has ever displayed more interest in her as a person or made her feel more special than me. How about that?
who are you i don't know you and don't hate on nobody for giving someone a compliment that's what's wrong with society people like you are miserable in your own life you need Jesus for real
Why you are hating on someone for giving a compliment to a beautiful woman you are what's wrong with society today you must be miserable in your life you need Jesus for real you are a weirdo for that
Let's say a restaurant order comes out wrong. In your opinion, does it make a better impression to accept it or to address it politely? It would seem like the first demonstrates better that you don't make a mountain out of a molehill, while the second demonstrates polite assertiveness.
How can I stay on topic in a conversation and not go off topic in 8 different directions. Whenever I talk to someone, it seems like we can't stay on topic for more than a few paragraphs. Thoooooughts?
If I wanna say based off of a first impression, this would not be that kind of thing that you would not want to happen on a first date or on a second date aren’t even on a third day. and also making an impression on as well for a girl who never ever lean into a table if you have water right next to you or else it’s gonna drop over you and then you’re gonna be like oh no what just happened…. 😂 trust me men it did happen to me and let me say it was not my brightest moment. I mean, my pants and in the crotch area were soaked. I’m like oh no what am I gonna do now? How do you fix that in a problem when you’re about to lean in to get a kiss? Especially on the first day to well maybe not on a first date but I would say I think this was either like the second or a third date and with my girlfriend and I was just like oh no I thought I had ruined my chances of getting another date with her, but she didn’t think anything of it and I was damn happy that she didn’t care about that either because I was like oh no about the situation with the water tipping over and it getting all over the crotch area of the pants I’m mean seriously.
Perfumes/Fragrances are for women. Unscented products is 2 shelves in the back where its dark and cold. Meanwhile, there's whole scented stores. This is outrage!
Why would I do all that for a woman? Unless I deeply value and appreciate her I’m not moving heaven and earth for her f that. She would have to really deserve to be given the world and she would have to be the ONE. But just being a good person and having good manners is a must I think for any relationship.
This was totally out of touch with reality and how God created male and female and what true men and women are. All these suggestion are geared toward how men should acquiescence to women and their needs which is completely opposite of what God designed. Scripture teaches that women were created for a help mate and the story of Ruth shows how the spirit and personality of a women wins and compliments men. The curse at the fall that was placed upon humanity show the women would envy and try to elevate themselves to the office of men. Making an endless list of what men should do to accommodate women is the wrong approach. We should be teaching women how to accommodate men as help mates.
Courtney, your tips helped me so much with dating and self-confidence! I have been dating my beatiful, smart, and kind girlfriend for two and a half years now. We met shortly after I began watching your videos and focusing on finding a partner. You are genuinely helping young men! Thank you :)
“Last impressions are lasting impressions.” Some comments are about first impressions, but first impressions are actually throwaways unless you really are on the fringes of behavior or dress.
Hey Courtney I find myself approaching women in groups! I have noticed that I am a decent guy and usually 1 of the 4-5 ladies is generally interested in me. I have also noticed that there is usually 1 woman in the group that is active trying to stop guys from interacting with her friends! What is your best advice for handling the force field lady that is actively trying to stop guy’s from interacting with her friend’s? The force field lady is usually the one that most guys are least interested in.
Hey Courtney. I'd like to see you react to some of HealthyGamerGG's content about relationships and getting a girlfriend etc. It's nothing got to do with gaming at all, he's an American psychiatrist who trained as a monk for 7 years and his perspectives on things are incredible. Everyone just calls him Dr K but his full name is Alok Kanojia.
Five bucks says the chefs in a five star restaurant are wearing crocs. Therefore, crocs are very appropriate in a five star restaurant. How can this simple fact escape women?
00:33 Ability to handle small setsbacks - don't let small things bother you!
02:10 Attention to detail - listen to pay attention, not to "listen". Remember the details! (and don't forget the small details about YOURSELF TOO)
05:20 Put effort into where you go/take her
07:15 Posture and body language is key! Good eye contact, stand strong, don't fidget
09:22 Treat others with respect!!! (If you can't treat others with respect, you'll eventually treat her the same. LIKEWISE GUYS, DON'T LET OTHERS DISRESPECT YOU! Goes both ways!)
10:25 Be present, don't play on your phone/no distractions. Basic respect for others time is important
11:52 End on a high note - the last impression is just as important as the first impression! It's no good to make a good first impression if you ruin it with your last impression. Leave her wanting more by making sure you end on a good note.
How can I get same-day lays?
@andrewq159 Honestly? Easiest answer is to pay for it 😂
I've had a couple of casual hookups that happened same day but I couldn't tell you any tricks. It's more like you gotta be at the right place at the right time and for the right person to think you're attractive enough that they want to do so.
Paying for it is the closest thing to a cheat code (outside of genetics)
@@andrewq159 Nevada has legal brothel prostitution. So money🤣
Courtney, have you considered collaborating with like-minded men in your videos. I realize that most of your subscribers are men who want to hear a woman's perspective, but hearing from men can enhance your message. Just a thought. Thank you.
Eye contact, Body language, clear/precise communication make a HUGE impact when giving off a first impression. Courtney is LEGIT!!!
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Everything’s easy on the first impression. It’s when you really dig to the bottom and find the red flags that’s the hard part of a relationship.
Very true!
@@CourtneyRyan and whereas men seek to qualify, women seek to generally disqualify.....
@@CourtneyRyankisses 💋😘 hugs Courtney " Beloved."
@@cocobolooooooooo Right, look at all the women fanboying over Luigi Mangione. No reason to disqualify him.
@@pace1195 Or the trial of Bundy. The interviews prove that supposed "intelligent" women care about looks over malignance. One woman even accepted his proposal.
The other day I went on a coffee date. I'll admit that I didn't feel an immediate connection, but I still had a fun date because we had a flowing conversation in which we shared stories, goals, and philosophies. Positive vibes even if it's not meant to be!
Wonderful!
@@CourtneyRyan I can honestly say that my re-entry into the dating scene has been smooth so far: I've met some polite people, as well as formed a few friendships. Your advice on compatibility has also come in clutch a couple of times. A key thing I've learned in the last month is that there's still plenty to look forward to, and I can always find ways of getting better!
Start reading books by Ancient Stoics, if you want philosophical discussions. Or, the 8 volume Encyclopedia of Philosophy.
Nice attitude. Good luck out there. 👍
@DDD11239 thanks for the recommendation. I should clarify that when I said philosophies, I was referring to the exchange of ideas on a variety of subjects such as music, sports, etc. So, not necessarily the subject of pure philosophy itself.
Body language is something I constantly work on. Things like eye contact and posture don't come naturally to me, but I can tell the difference in my personal confidence and the quality of my interactions if I actually remember to do those things.
I can say after being married nearly 20 years, Courtney's advice applies to keeping a marriage relationship happy for husband and wife. Listen to your spouse,show them respect and watch your marriage thrive!
Love this 🥰
Thanks for this video. In my experience emotional presence is so important between male&female in order to build connection. Woman wants to feel that she is noticed and she is being adored and even admired. Being emotional presence with woman has in my opinion huge succes rate in dating because it shows that you are committed and genuinely interested about her.
Every woman is individual, emotionally orientated so showing emotional presence indicates that you are genuinely interesting to building emotional connection to her.
My advice. I'm a male in my late thirties. Be good/generous (don't be nice). Be confident yet humble. Be genuine, authentic and mature. Have a warm sense of humour. By your thirties you should have learned some important lessons including money, style, and personality. You are amazing, go out there and get the girl of your dreams. Have a good day reader.
Does that get you a lot of action?
I agree with this video. Not going psycho about every little thing shows class.... like that Sting song 'Englishman in New York'.
Handling minor and even major misfortunes with calmness, class, and even a sense of humor while taking action to overcome the problem was once considered the universal ideal. More people today idealize magnifying and spreading outrage and panic. Not a great way to make others (particularly women) feel safe in your presence.
You have such a wonderful and positive channel 💜 I always watch to keep improving. Thank you for your work.
Being able to handle setbacks maturely is a big one. I subconsciously notice this with women also. If they can handle a setback with grace vs getting all dramatic, that’s a huge green flag for me.
Rack of these things come pretty natural to me, and they are very important to show respect for someone’s time!
Imma be honest. Can we teach what women need to do and how women should act too. The amount of videos on how men should behave is infinite but rare for women.
Amen.
I seen plenty. No joke, stuff like "How to manifest a high value man". Step 1 - Channel your inner goddess. 2 - Eat health. 3 - Read a book in public. 4 - Do Yoga. 5 - Focus on yourself for once. 6 - Friends who match your vibe.
I always come back to your channel when I'm trying to be at my best. Thanks for your content. Keep it coming.
I respect All persons different opinions view points self-control is essential i agree with You every video You Do helped me to be More considerate and understanding
Good call on the Apple Watch. Only way I feel like I need to wear it is just in case my co-parent needs me if there's a kid emergency. I'll just have to figure out something where that's the only kind of notification I get on a date.
Thank you Courtney Ryan for the helpful advice. I’m actually nervous when I do start dating in like 5 years from now. Because I’m currently 15 years old and sometimes I have difficulty keeping my temper under control. So I don’t think I handle a romantic relationship either at least right now anyway. But watching your videos has given me a lot of useful information and insight about dating. Thanks again ❤
It’s my pleasure, I’m so glad you’re here! The fact that this is something you recognize and are working on is such a great place to start ❤️ whenever I feel overwhelmed or emotional, taking deep breaths always helps me. Hugs!!
My dude if you’re 15 years old and already so mindful about your shortcomings, you’re already 10 steps ahead of the game imo. Keep aiming to grow as a man and figure out what that truly means. Get comfortable in your own skin, but always aim to improve, You’ll attract the right kind of attention when you’re ready to be dating. All the best to you.
@ thank you great advice ma’am.
@ aw thank you Ami for the support and encouragement it truly means a lot and you bent that I will keep aiming to grow into a better man and aim to improve myself so that eventually I will be able to attract a good woman in the future.
Kid, teenagers shouldn't be focused romance. It's distracting, time-wasting, and filled with pointless drama.
It's an absolute fact that in 2 and half years following this channel I've improved every small detail from grooming to lifestyle and I enjoy it
This video is discussing the date but what about the impression before you get the date?
Love the videos Courtney,❤
Great advice. Simple and to the point. Have a great day.
Isn't the first point just another way of saying that women prefer stoic men? The last thing that women want to deal with is a man who can't stay composed during an adverse situation. If his emotions hijack his ability to reason, it's a turnoff.
Anytime someone is able to point to seemingly minor changes that they notice about you, it's a good sign that they genuinely care. This is why tailored compliments are so much more effective than generic ones.
As a general rule of thumb, first dates should take place somewhere that best facilitates conversation and is low cost. You want to make sure the venue allows you both to get acquainted and isn't financially burdensome. The last thing you want is to realize that you've wasted a ton of money on someone that you see no potential with.
If a guy finds a woman highly attractive and doesn't have a lot of dating experience, nervous body language is something that he may not be able to correct or control. Many women will be unforgiving here because it may signal insecurity, but I think it should be taken as a compliment, if anything. Also, the guy could just clear the air by verbalizing this instead of trying to suppress it.
I think most people behave differently when they know they're in the presence of someone they like. Generally speaking, a guy who's courteous in public is a good indicator that he's also courteous in private, but there are people who put on an act and then flip the switch behind closed doors.
Yeah, it's a telltale sign when someone starts checking their phone when you're talking to them in person. Easiest way to know they're trying to zone out and deliver a soft rejection.
By the end of a first date, both parties intuitively know whether there'll be a second one. And if the date went well, you won't have to ask to see her again because she'll express interest in following up.
Vamos Courtney 💟
Hey, Courtney and everyone.
Hey Yosef!
Emotionally strong is important
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As long as you aren't hypocritical about supposed emotional stability. **Do you refrain from crying over stressful actions, by instead putting it into action?
**Do you refrain from forming the excuse of supposed manipulation, when confronted with the witness of your immature actions?
**Do you refrain from arguing over small things?
**Do you practice stoicism?
**Do you refrain from listening to gossip and friendship drama?
**Do you judge both genders, without making a hypocritical statement?
**Do you know how to supoort yourself, and take care of yourself, without relying on your partner?
**Do you reserve s3ggual actions for only one partner, in private?
As long as you aren't hypocritical about supposed emotional stability. **Do you refrain from crying over stressful actions, by instead putting it into action?
**Do you refrain from forming the excuse of supposed manipulation, when confronted with the witness of your immature actions?
**Do you refrain from arguing over small things?
**Do you practice stoicism?
**Do you refrain from listening to gossip and friendship drama?
**Do you judge both genders, without making a hypocritical statement?
**Do you know how to supoort yourself, and take care of yourself, without relying on your partner?
**Do you reserve s3ggual actions for only one partner, in private?
As long as you aren't hypocritical about supposed emotional stability. **Do you refrain from crying over stressful actions, by instead putting it into action?
**Do you refrain from forming the excuse of supposed manipulation, when confronted with the witness of your immature actions?
**Do you refrain from arguing over small things?
**Do you practice stoicism?
**Do you refrain from listening to gossip and friendship drama?
**Do you judge both genders, without making a hypocritical statement?
**Do you know how to supoort yourself, and take care of yourself, without relying on your partner?
**Do you reserve s3ggual actions for only one partner, in private?
Number six was a major concern of mine with my second ex.
Noticed how she said be early, however it's OK when the woman is late.
Yep. Which is TOTALLY disrespectful. Standard female hypocrisy.
I'd like your opinion of this: "hold her hand" When you've had a nice first date and the vibe is good, when you get up to leave, hold her hand going out. If you have to jump a table or it would be otherwise awkward, don't do that, but if you hold her hand going out the door it is a mini PDA and shows her you have affection for her without saying a word. Also; when going into or out of a theater, grocery store, about anywhere in public (going into a club? boy howdy), hold her hand when it's not awkward or uncomfortable. It is subtle affection for all to see. "Me and my Baby".
I must be a rare person who despises hand-holding. I like my arms free. We're not gorillas; we won't take another man's partner in the street.
Hello, I frequently enjoy these videos for tips. Thank you for making them. I want to share an experience that has made it difficult for me to date anyone in the hopes it helps someone reading this. Growing up, my mom took it on herself (due to having a negative experience in public school)to homeschool us. Instead of teaching us anything, she became chronically addicted to the early internet. My father waited until my youngest brother came of age as in the state where we lived, you'd need to be 18+ to be able to choose which parent to be with during a divorce. During this timeframe, I developed type 1 diabetes while studying to take the Hi-set test. My mother used funds set up in a joint account that was meant for me to use towards a collage education for lawyer fees during the divorce. For a long time after that I pursued sports with passion and rage, slowly working towards having more full time steady jobs. I've began reconciling and turning my life around, I've started going to collage much later then planned. I am terrified of women and think of self harm whenever I find someone attractive. I am going to therapy for this but wanted to put it out there.
I add the appropriate scent to my bunny slippers so that when I experience traffic jams I smell great!
What fragrances do You recommend to the rest of the world? That are easily available in Europe for example? Up to this point, I have been using David Beckham fragrances, but that's only because it had a man's name written on it. I have no other idea, how to select one. Others could very well be for women, I would not know the difference. So I have been using Beckham ones for... 10+ years now.
Wear a nice, if upscale watch that's completely covered by long sleeves due to it being winter. ;-)
ding ding Nailed it!!
It's amazing how many women don't do these things.
Good job, enjoy your day.
When I'm eating alone in a restaurant I'll take off my jacket and fold it and put it on the seat next to me women stare. What fascinates them about folding a jacket I wonder?
10:45 attention to detail guys. She did show 4:20 on the phone on purpose
I spend less time in the gym than most women spend on their phones, yet they complain when men make the gym a habit.
The cats on the phone! Kkkkkkkkkkkk
hello courtney and how your own day and night going and have you thought about live streaming on twitch and kick at the same time at once and starting your own podcast and starting your own vlog channel on youtube and starting your own discord account and starting your own patreon account in the future
Important things: 0:32 First Thing ÷ Ability To Handle Small Setbacks; 2:10 Second Thing ÷ Attention To Details; 5:20 Third Thing ÷ Effort You Put Into The Environment; 7:15 Fourth Thing ÷ Posture And Body Language; 9:21 Fifth Thing ÷ How You Treat Those Around You; 10:23 Sixth Thing ÷ Being Present With No Distractions; 11:51 Seventh Thing ÷ Ending On The High Note; and 13:00 To summarize all the told here.
The deeds are very important, cause they do say if someone not just cares, or listens, it even shows the values efforts to our time. Like you said, Courtney: "Action speaks louder than words." And that goes in every life situations.
When I was listening to you, I remember that I some situations when I talked to someone, and that person did something else.They either watched TV, or they either reed the newspaper, or like you said: they watched at the phone. And that's very rude, and immature. Once I remembered that one of my colleagues had one exam on faculty. And during that time the colleague entered the professors office, suddenly professor starting doing a phone call, and the same professor told the colleague this: "You start talking colleague, I'm listening." Such a rude treatment to that colleague, although the colleague passed the exam at that professor.
But let me say positive side. Positive side is that I did compliment some women saying about the details. And some of them told me this: "You have an eye for details." And I showed the gratitude for that compliment.
P.S. I do model kits and I have an eye for details 😉🙃🙂🤓😎✈🛩🛫🛬🛶🚤🛳⛴🚁🚟🚠🚐🚓🚑🚒🚋🚌🚍🚂🚃🚖🚗🚘🚔🚙🛵🛺🚲 (but this can be another topic that we can discuss about hobbies, dear people).
When I was listening you I remembered following quotes that I have seen them. And those are these:
1. In Balkan peninsula we say this thing: ,,Kakav na jelu, takav na delu." Translation is: The way how the person eats is the way that shows deeds. Reading between the lines means this: The way how person does it's job is the way how it shows interests in following things.
2. In Balkan peninsula we say this thing: I don't remember the people in they way as they are behaving at the beginning, but I do remember them as they are behaving at the end. In the beginning, they are all friendly and kind.
3. This quote goes like this: "Don't listen the words, and look at mouth, cause they will say many lies and things. Watch the eyes, cause they will say a lot about that person."
The color of the eyes goes well with the pattern of the shirt, Courtney 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏.
La perfection madam ❤💙🤍.
Your longest comment yet.
@DDD11239 Thank you very much, dear friend.
Atmosphere... communication; is heavy and light.
She's into you, looks, voice, calmness (coolness) or she's not. Rest of these compliance tests will NOT win her over.
I have always put my phone in my pocket at singles events. However most women have their phone out
The problem with this high expectation from women is its simply not sustainable! Its also not realistic for men to expect women to be on top of their game all the time! Unless the goal is for a short term relationship, but if its for marriage and long term all these acts will be impossible to keep up with year over year
Dang, I keep hoping to hear "Work 12-14 hours a day on your computer with bad posture" as one of the suggestions.
Lol, its so easy. Just be your best self and if you have a genuine connection everything will fall in line. Its not science or a job interview, dont overthing it.
2:31 Hey Courtney! I’m talking to a girl named Marie. She told me no man in her life has ever displayed more interest in her as a person or made her feel more special than me. How about that?
You look absolutely pretty
Complimenting a woman's appearance online won't make her respect you. Stop simping.
who are you i don't know you and don't hate on nobody for giving someone a compliment that's what's wrong with society people like you are miserable in your own life you need Jesus for real
Why you are hating on someone for giving a compliment to a beautiful woman you are what's wrong with society today you must be miserable in your life you need Jesus for real you are a weirdo for that
Let's say a restaurant order comes out wrong. In your opinion, does it make a better impression to accept it or to address it politely? It would seem like the first demonstrates better that you don't make a mountain out of a molehill, while the second demonstrates polite assertiveness.
If you address it, you run the risk of someone spitting in your food.
@DDD11239 Only clean for you Mr. Durden!
I approached a girl in the gym today and got rejected......that's why i'm here
Immediately putting down the right amount before the encounter without haggling. lol
So, why do married people don't keep these subtle things just like when dating? Or are they exclusive for a first impression?
How can I stay on topic in a conversation and not go off topic in 8 different directions. Whenever I talk to someone, it seems like we can't stay on topic for more than a few paragraphs. Thoooooughts?
If I wanna say based off of a first impression, this would not be that kind of thing that you would not want to happen on a first date or on a second date aren’t even on a third day. and also making an impression on as well for a girl who never ever lean into a table if you have water right next to you or else it’s gonna drop over you and then you’re gonna be like oh no what just happened…. 😂 trust me men it did happen to me and let me say it was not my brightest moment.
I mean, my pants and in the crotch area were soaked.
I’m like oh no what am I gonna do now? How do you fix that in a problem when you’re about to lean in to get a kiss? Especially on the first day to well maybe not on a first date but I would say I think this was either like the second or a third date and with my girlfriend and I was just like oh no I thought I had ruined my chances of getting another date with her, but she didn’t think anything of it and I was damn happy that she didn’t care about that either because I was like oh no about the situation with the water tipping over and it getting all over the crotch area of the pants I’m mean seriously.
First Impression goes both ways. But don't you think some women have different expectations on a first day on what they're looking for in a man?
How do woman to teach me how to love with out hurting them🤔
I’m pretty great at cracking jokes and making situations at lighthearted. Sometimes I do get carried away tho 😂
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Perfumes/Fragrances are for women. Unscented products is 2 shelves in the back where its dark and cold. Meanwhile, there's whole scented stores. This is outrage!
TressaHairdressa is doing a bang up job on those hair curls! Also, there's something mesmerizing about the makeup Courtney's been sportin' lately.
Second date: I was late like 10 minutes and I forgot my wallet, think I am about to get ghosted. We had a nice day together though.
Found a book from Cryptic Lore called Magnet for Women. It’s surprisingly helpful for anyone looking to improve their relationships.
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spammer
1. Look like Chad
2. Act like Chad
3. Be Chad
Stop being bitter. Why are you here? If I, an average man, get lusted over, so can you. (Stable relationships are another story).
@DDD11239 no one's lusting after you bro who you tryna impress here? 🤣
Why would I do all that for a woman? Unless I deeply value and appreciate her I’m not moving heaven and earth for her f that. She would have to really deserve to be given the world and she would have to be the ONE. But just being a good person and having good manners is a must I think for any relationship.
Hey… I always say this,
Saying hello can take you a long way 😊
It sure can!
@@CourtneyRyan whatever!
I'm still in shock of Luka trade and cant focus on this video lol
Don't worry you'll get over by 2035
This was totally out of touch with reality and how God created male and female and what true men and women are. All these suggestion are geared toward how men should acquiescence to women and their needs which is completely opposite of what God designed. Scripture teaches that women were created for a help mate and the story of Ruth shows how the spirit and personality of a women wins and compliments men. The curse at the fall that was placed upon humanity show the women would envy and try to elevate themselves to the office of men. Making an endless list of what men should do to accommodate women is the wrong approach. We should be teaching women how to accommodate men as help mates.
It all depends if a woman already finds you attractive
Courtney, your tips helped me so much with dating and self-confidence! I have been dating my beatiful, smart, and kind girlfriend for two and a half years now. We met shortly after I began watching your videos and focusing on finding a partner. You are genuinely helping young men! Thank you :)
Almost Valentine’s Day.💝
Yay!
FML
you are such an help courtney!!!
Have a good day Courtney ❤
You too!
“Last impressions are lasting impressions.” Some comments are about first impressions, but first impressions are actually throwaways unless you really are on the fringes of behavior or dress.
First impression ain't enough though. You can't tell when it's game over for you
Hey Courtney I find myself approaching women in groups! I have noticed that I am a decent guy and usually 1 of the 4-5 ladies is generally interested in me. I have also noticed that there is usually 1 woman in the group that is active trying to stop guys from interacting with her friends! What is your best advice for handling the force field lady that is actively trying to stop guy’s from interacting with her friend’s? The force field lady is usually the one that most guys are least interested in.
Damn got here early.
Happy Sunday!
Never been so early here
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Did anyone out there take a break from dating and watch the royal rumble? I ❤Alexa bliss ! 😮😮😮
I liked her Fiend tribute. I started watching in 2008, but spent my childhood watching over 7 decades of wrestling.
She almost laughed out loud after saying smokey patchouli, But she held it in. Rock solid professional at work, Stand back everyone.
how about making a video on how to avoid high maintenance women and their red flags
I learn so much watching u
Definitely good posture while walking around. Trust me, women do notice this 😊
Valid lol
You are assuming that all these women are high quality, which they simply aren’t.
That’s true Courtney, but you’re assuming that all men go on first dates with intelligent women.😂
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Love your shirt
You’re stunning
Hey Courtney. I'd like to see you react to some of HealthyGamerGG's content about relationships and getting a girlfriend etc. It's nothing got to do with gaming at all, he's an American psychiatrist who trained as a monk for 7 years and his perspectives on things are incredible. Everyone just calls him Dr K but his full name is Alok Kanojia.
Dude is a legend.
I learn from you and your husband fragrance is part of daily life I have to have it forte series in this video I'm in heaven
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I got 3 bottles form$12 total, at Walmart. You don't need overpriced ones.
I follow & love your videos .
I'm a 59 yr old guy , looking to date younger women.
I find your videos very helpful , & a big thankyou to you 😊
Nice iPad kid comparison.
LOL
13 min ago, you must be east coast... ;p
Five bucks says the chefs in a five star restaurant are wearing crocs. Therefore, crocs are very appropriate in a five star restaurant. How can this simple fact escape women?
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Question: Why do some women speak so softly that you have to get really close to hear her? When she speaks to others she is much louder.
I like your smartphone
Your lovely
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This gave me hope is the bar is this low to make a good impression