Thank u so much appa for supporting us. We suffering a lot after marriage we treated as slave. I lost myself after marriage who I am. After this video I had a great support from u. Pls do more video like. God bless appa.
பெண்கள் என்றும் தனக்காக வாழாமல் தன் குடும்பத்தை மட்டுமே உலகம் என்று வாழ்பவர்கள்.(somebody) ஆண் சமுதாயம் புகழவேண்டாம் இகழாமல் இருந்தால் போதும்.❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀
Sir, 7 years-a. அ நான் இதை face பண்றேன். நான் என்ன செய்யனும்ன்னு கடவுள் முடிவு பண்ணிட்டாரு. உங்களுடைய வார்த்தைகள் எனக்கு உத்வேகமா இருக்கு Sir. என்னுடைய அப்பா இறந்து 3 வருஷம் ஆகப்போகுது. உங்களை என்னுடைய அப்பா இடத்தில் வைத்து நன்றி சொல்கிறேன்🌺🌺💯🔥🔥
U r absolutely right sir. My father always treated my mother like a Queen. N treated us like princess. He sacrificed his whole life to give a beautiful peaceful life for us. He was a great human being. Never asked any financial help from anyone till his last moment. We r really proud of him sir. We miss him. We thank God to give such a wonderful father. God bless you and your family sir...
Sir, I amazed that How u came as an financial expert after completing the Engineering?! wow !!! An Engineering deg can make anyone to be an expert on anything! Engineers Rocks!
There is nothing to talk about Engineering here... he studied about finace and practiced finance decipline... over the years he gained ample experience which he is sharing with us, where not many will do.
Thank you sir, unga life ah example ah sonnadhu yengalukku nalla puridhu, unga amma really great, what she said is true and practical, ippdi yella ammakalum irrundha india vallarasu aidum sir.
ஐயா நீங்கள் சொல்வதை ஏற்கிறோம். அதேபோல் மனைவி கணவனை எப்படி நடத்தவேண்டும் என்று இன்னும் கொஞ்சம் விரிவாக சொன்னால் நன்றாக இருக்கும். நீ எப்படி என்னை வேலைக்கு போக சொல்லலாம். நான் போகமாட்டேன். ஆனால் எனக்கு சொகுசு வாழ்க்கை அமைத்து கொடுக்க வேண்டியது உன்னுடைய வேலை. பெரும்பாலான முடிவுகளை நான் தான் எடுப்பேன். என்று சொல்லி, சுயநலமே முக்கியம் என்று வாழ்கிற பெண்களும் இங்கே இருக்கிறார்கள். நிறைய கணவர்கள் இதை வெளியே சொல்லமுடியாமல் வலியோடே வாழ்ந்து கொண்டிருக்கிறார்கள். அவர்களுக்கும் சிறுது உதவுங்கள்.
ஐயா திரு ஆனந்த் சீனிவாசன் அவர்களே.நேற்று என் வீட்டில் நடந்த சம்பவம் எப்படி தங்களுக்கு தெரிந்தது.? வீட்டுக்கு வீடு வாசற்படி. என்பது சரிதானோ !!!. பெண்ணியம் போற்றப் பட வேண்டும். நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி வாழ்த்துக்கள் ஐயா
Going for job is depend upon individual choice. But as per my opinion women must be financially independent and we can also contribute to our family financial need.
Sir, you are correct...but one of my relative case I will tell you. His wife going for job.. Her brother borrowed huge money went in dept and her brother asked her.. Husband said no because he knows her brothers behaviour. Wife told I am also earning we need give money like that... They gave 90lakh and saved her brothers house and other property. But simply after that... Her brother didn't care paying back. Many girls family side easily do emotional blackmail for working girls. Now even hardwork of the husband money also gone.
Sir. Great... In New generation its changed a lot. Now female dominate is high.. Main prob. who has money they dominate others... Money decides in many places (not everywhere, major part i am mentioning)
Absolutely You are right if the women is really good and valuable for the family .If not she can use lot of weapons law granted for women .In fact most of 498A , domestic violance cases filed so far are false they use it to threaten husbands and their family .There are lot of women mis use this law to extract money from husband family .Please have a video on these as well in the future .this is really needed for men who really living in metro cities .They lost their family , children etc ....Thank You Sir.
I agree dont beat them, but yes definitely have master control with you or if ur wife is smarter, responsible and disciplined then handover the key to them that's it but get everything done in a friendly manner..... that will be great....
Should Never force wife to stop going for job as well as Should Never force wife to go for job its their freedom they can choose Nowadays for middle class, Cost of women going for job > > Salary of Women Need to pay Maids , Day care for kids , wife job travel expenses and house rent for prime location in chennai (house should be near to husband nad wife ) If wife earns 25K almost 20K goes into expenses , Just 5K they get a meaning full income for a 8 hours job Quality of family life gets very bad if women goes for low income job So in my opinion women can go for job if atleast they can earn above 50K in a city like chennai
Sir, you missed the point that they want the house near to their office location time spent for guys travelling daily 1 to 2 hours...and the travelling makes you tired so the guys travelling long can't do extra effort. Slowly their performance will reduce and their peers will start performing better than you. Finally the wife will start shout at you are not improving. They don't care about the sacrifice you do for her to go to job. After sometime when they get raise... they say we both are equal I will do whatever I want. If they get more raise they say I don't need to take care of your mother father we both equal like that. If they start to earn more than you they won't even respect you they will publicly insult you. If you scold back they will take the child and go to their home and ask for divorce with half of your property.
@@srikanthdevanathan1561 yes totally agree with you , 8 + hours Job and 2 hours travel =10 hours then where is the time to spend with family and friends , So Finally all our money will be locked in FD , Bonds and stocks Money we make, wont bring any use after we cross 50s cant even go trekking or proper tour At the end we will feel like whole life wasted and give pass our money to our kids who doesnt even know how hard we made it
Thala,,you show this video to your wife, she also feel like you that she made mistakes.. Nowadays men's are more responsible than women's interms of doing family and struggling connectly with society where wemens take more advantages this situations.
Thank u so much appa for supporting us. We suffering a lot after marriage we treated as slave. I lost myself after marriage who I am. After this video I had a great support from u. Pls do more video like. God bless appa.
Neengaluma??? 😒😒😒
Same
Me too
Me too 😭
Unga kutathula enium sethukonga ma
அருமையான பதிவு.... இதை சிறுவயதில் இருந்தே ஒவ்வொரு பையனுக்கும் சிந்தித்து உபதேசிக்க வேண்டும்...
நல்ல குடும்ப வாழ்க்கைக்கு ஒரு சூப்பர் அட்வஸ் சார். மிக்க நன்றி....
பெண்கள் என்றும் தனக்காக வாழாமல் தன் குடும்பத்தை மட்டுமே உலகம் என்று வாழ்பவர்கள்.(somebody) ஆண் சமுதாயம் புகழவேண்டாம் இகழாமல் இருந்தால் போதும்.❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀
Sir, 7 years-a. அ நான் இதை face பண்றேன். நான் என்ன செய்யனும்ன்னு கடவுள் முடிவு பண்ணிட்டாரு. உங்களுடைய வார்த்தைகள் எனக்கு உத்வேகமா இருக்கு Sir.
என்னுடைய அப்பா இறந்து 3 வருஷம் ஆகப்போகுது. உங்களை என்னுடைய அப்பா இடத்தில் வைத்து நன்றி சொல்கிறேன்🌺🌺💯🔥🔥
அருமை சார் .உங்கள் ஆலோசனைக்கு கோடி நன்றிங்க சார் .
Avanga wife a vA iruntha lum avangala adikra Rights nammakku illa ithu porunja Life romba happy ya irukkum💝
அவங்க நம்மள அடிக்கலாமாங்க?
vera level thalaiva... same thought sir.. everytime im behaving the same. i will do forever.. my wife is my first daughter.
Excellent and very educational content. It is vey much needed for most of Indian male
U r absolutely right sir. My father always treated my mother like a Queen. N treated us like princess. He sacrificed his whole life to give a beautiful peaceful life for us. He was a great human being. Never asked any financial help from anyone till his last moment. We r really proud of him sir. We miss him. We thank God to give such a wonderful father. God bless you and your family sir...
நீங்கள் சொன்ன இந்த ,message ஓவ்வொரு ஆணுக்கும் புரிந்தால் பெண்கள் கண்ணீர் விட வேண்டியது இல்லை
Sir, I amazed that How u came as an financial expert after completing the Engineering?! wow !!! An Engineering deg can make anyone to be an expert on anything! Engineers Rocks!
It's not about engineering degree he exposed to finance in very early age
Engineering should make engineers not anything.
There is nothing to talk about Engineering here... he studied about finace and practiced finance decipline... over the years he gained ample experience which he is sharing with us, where not many will do.
இதெல்லாம் பெண்களுக்கும் பொருந்தும் தானே ஐயா... இங்கே ஆண்களை அடிமையா நடத்தும் பெண்களும் இருக்காங்க ஐயா...
True
True
Thank you sir, unga life ah example ah sonnadhu yengalukku nalla puridhu, unga amma really great, what she said is true and practical, ippdi yella ammakalum irrundha india vallarasu aidum sir.
Valueable insights sir. Sir, Can you also talk about how to manage finance as a couple when both partners of the family are working.
I salute sir. i am your follower. i am listening your all videos. your speech is straight forward
your economic and social concern are realistics.
Thanks a lot sir. Feeling proud when legends like u who have many followers for the way u talk are discussing about these topics.
Thank you for this wonderful video!! The responsible sons raised by an educated and responsible mother always shines!!
சிறந்த உதாரணம் வணக்கம்
அது என்ன சார் வெறும் Engineering. Engineers can do any profession. Best example is you.
Double dose 👍👍👍🤝
Women's freedom is good.
Men and women need self discipline.....
Definitely you have a greater influence in many people like me sir.. Thanks alot ❤️
Well said sir I am facing this. I am praying all come to end as soon as possible
Very clear explanation ... your strategy of earning with social responsibility speech... very great sir.
Wow ... Feeling happy to see this type of video from You Sir...Thank You So Much For Sharing....
Super sir thank you 🙏🙏🙏 so much ithai parthalum sila jenmangal thirunthathu
Super message Thank you sir
Super. I tried to search for "The Intelligent Investor" and found till Chapter 9.
Can you please start the remaining chapter too. Thanks in advance.
Nalla pattram theiyunga mr.Anand
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It's true good msg sir.menmakkal menmakkal dan.👍🙏
Thank you brother for your message🙏
Thank u lot sir, I respect ur mom, she guide u in a correct way
Nice message Sir.. 👌🏻
ஐயா நீங்கள் சொல்வதை ஏற்கிறோம். அதேபோல் மனைவி கணவனை எப்படி நடத்தவேண்டும் என்று இன்னும் கொஞ்சம் விரிவாக சொன்னால் நன்றாக இருக்கும்.
நீ எப்படி என்னை வேலைக்கு போக சொல்லலாம். நான் போகமாட்டேன். ஆனால் எனக்கு சொகுசு வாழ்க்கை அமைத்து கொடுக்க வேண்டியது உன்னுடைய வேலை. பெரும்பாலான முடிவுகளை நான் தான் எடுப்பேன். என்று சொல்லி, சுயநலமே முக்கியம் என்று வாழ்கிற பெண்களும் இங்கே இருக்கிறார்கள்.
நிறைய கணவர்கள் இதை வெளியே சொல்லமுடியாமல் வலியோடே வாழ்ந்து கொண்டிருக்கிறார்கள். அவர்களுக்கும் சிறுது உதவுங்கள்.
Awesome
Give some more such vedioes sir
good message sir thank you sir
Sir ...ur really great human...hats off to u
👌👌👌👍👍 Super sir. Truth of Life . Love and forgiveness leads to Happiness.
Well said! Absolutely right!
ஐயா திரு ஆனந்த் சீனிவாசன் அவர்களே.நேற்று என் வீட்டில் நடந்த சம்பவம் எப்படி தங்களுக்கு தெரிந்தது.?
வீட்டுக்கு வீடு வாசற்படி. என்பது சரிதானோ !!!.
பெண்ணியம் போற்றப் பட வேண்டும்.
நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி நன்றி வாழ்த்துக்கள் ஐயா
Going for job is depend upon individual choice.
But as per my opinion women must be financially independent and we can also contribute to our family financial need.
Sir, good morning. Most wonderful topic. I respect you very much for this greatest topic. God bless you abundantly. Long live sir
Thank you sir for supporting us.🙏🙏
Awesome 👏 really true
Nice speech
Sir,. Thank you so much for this timely advice to the younger generation 🙏🙏🙏
Very good advice sir..👍🙏
hats off sir..
இதுக்குதான் நான் கட்டபிரம்மசாரியா இருக்கறேன்.நம்மாள ஆவரது இல்ல😁😁😁
:) hahaha..
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Nega perapu
Positive man 👌
After seeing this tears coming. Nowards
Thanks for making this video and openly talking
Very nice thanks Sir 🙏💯👌👌👍👍
True sir,that's why you are gentleman...
Super sir,
Thank you Thalaiva.
Happy morning 🌞
தாங்க்யூ சார் உங்க பதிவை கேட்டு நிறையகடவுளைநாங்க
Super sir 🙂
Superb sir. You give wonderful advice.
வாழ்க வளமுடன்🌷
Well said well said sir
Sir your mother is very great
Very nice.
Sir, you are correct...but one of my relative case I will tell you. His wife going for job.. Her brother borrowed huge money went in dept and her brother asked her.. Husband said no because he knows her brothers behaviour. Wife told I am also earning we need give money like that... They gave 90lakh and saved her brothers house and other property. But simply after that... Her brother didn't care paying back. Many girls family side easily do emotional blackmail for working girls. Now even hardwork of the husband money also gone.
Yes. Ennoda wife kooda avanga parants emotional blackmail panni kootitu poitanga, one year aaguthu.
Really very bad parents.
Super👍👍👍
1000's of namashkaram sir 🙏
Tq Sir
Thank you sir 👍🙏
Ennoda husband neenga sonna Ella freedom kuduthurkanga sir I love my husband ❤️
Many irrational narrow-minded immatured ladies misuse law for their ego with the help of their parents. You should also talk about that
சரியா சொன்னீங்க....சார் அதையும் பேசினா நல்லா இருக்கும்ங்க
Aama Sir. Please ithyum sollunga, Naa kastapatutu iruken ennoda life pochi
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Sir. Great...
In New generation its changed a lot. Now female dominate is high..
Main prob. who has money they dominate others... Money decides in many places (not everywhere, major part i am mentioning)
Well said sir 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Good one Sir, My mom, and dad thought me the same. I am following.
Absolutely You are right if the women is really good and valuable for the family .If not she can use lot of weapons law granted for women .In fact most of 498A , domestic violance cases filed so far are false they use it to threaten husbands and their family .There are lot of women mis use this law to extract money from husband family .Please have a video on these as well in the future .this is really needed for men who really living in metro cities .They lost their family , children etc ....Thank You Sir.
Good morning thanks 👍 anand
Well Said sir 🙏.
Semmmaaa sir
Very nice...
I agree dont beat them, but yes definitely have master control with you or if ur wife is smarter, responsible and disciplined then handover the key to them that's it but get everything done in a friendly manner..... that will be great....
Super sir ❤️❤️❤️😎
Great sir
well said sir.
Should Never force wife to stop going for job as well as
Should Never force wife to go for job
its their freedom they can choose
Nowadays for middle class, Cost of women going for job > > Salary of Women
Need to pay Maids , Day care for kids , wife job travel expenses and house rent for prime location in chennai (house should be near to husband nad wife )
If wife earns 25K almost 20K goes into expenses , Just 5K they get a meaning full income for a 8 hours job
Quality of family life gets very bad if women goes for low income job
So in my opinion women can go for job if atleast they can earn above 50K in a city like chennai
Sir, you missed the point that they want the house near to their office location time spent for guys travelling daily 1 to 2 hours...and the travelling makes you tired so the guys travelling long can't do extra effort. Slowly their performance will reduce and their peers will start performing better than you. Finally the wife will start shout at you are not improving. They don't care about the sacrifice you do for her to go to job. After sometime when they get raise... they say we both are equal I will do whatever I want. If they get more raise they say I don't need to take care of your mother father we both equal like that. If they start to earn more than you they won't even respect you they will publicly insult you. If you scold back they will take the child and go to their home and ask for divorce with half of your property.
Well said
@@srikanthdevanathan1561 yes totally agree with you , 8 + hours Job and 2 hours travel =10 hours then where is the time to spend with family and friends , So Finally all our money will be locked in FD , Bonds and stocks
Money we make, wont bring any use after we cross 50s cant even go trekking or proper tour
At the end we will feel like whole life wasted and give pass our money to our kids who doesnt even know how hard we made it
Thank you sir
Sir ..well said sir
வணக்கம் சார்
Great Sir...
Correct sir
Thala, Nee yeppaiyum Gethu Thala!
North indian women ipo kalyana medailayae othaikranga sir. Namba naatu pengal eh paravala
Good morning sir
Very practical advice sir!
I do have made couple of mistakes sir.Need to correct it.
Thala,,you show this video to your wife, she also feel like you that she made mistakes..
Nowadays men's are more responsible than women's interms of doing family and struggling connectly with society where wemens take more advantages this situations.
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Sir
Now vice versa
Deivame.....ninga enga irukinga
Thalaivar ethirneechal paakuraru😂😂
Evanume follow pannradhulla
இப்ப எல்லாம் எங்க sir புருசன் பொண்டாட்டிய அடிக்கிறான் பொண்டாட்டி தான் புருசனை அடிக்கிறா
Manavi purushanai epdi nadathanum podunga sir😂
Unga wife a arimuga paduthunga sir
*Superrrrrr !!! 👌*
ஒருவரை ஒருவர் விட்டு கொடுத்து செல்வது தான் நல்லது...