“This Woman Is Deranged!”
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40k??? While you’re at it file charges against the lawyer too. What a scammer
I wonder if the husband isn't tying everything up and preventing them from filing criminal charges.
None of what the wife said makes any sense.
They should be able to file criminal charges, then sue the mother for attorney's fees and damages. Settling with a criminal who is extorting you is never the correct option.
I was thinking the same thing! $40K and nothing done!!!!! That's crazy!!!!!!
Nice to have Dave back again.
Yeah, some of the newer
People are lame
I realize he's probably working a little less and having fun. however, I'll enjoy his advice when he's 95. Of course Id be 100 and drooling in my shoes.
@@JB-ku7kv i really like George hes hip to the game. Suprisingly a decent young man with a good head on his shoulders. He will be the new Dave.
@@davysmith8569 lmao
Jade the only one with the close intensity to Dave. George is chill too. Tbh I really only care for those 2.
Hell, they ought to file charges against the attorney for ripping them off!
I once hired a bad attorney, they will drag your case out and ask for more money, listen to Dave and if you have to cut your losses ( bad attorney fees ), and fire said attorney.
not only is mom a crook, her attorney is a crook too
They're in Detroit ... 🤷♂️
@@F_T2D_Dreware u sure they are not in Uranus ?
@@luisfernando5998 Same difference.
@@jculver1674 oh so same shit ?
They need to file a complaint with the state bar against this attorney.
He attorney is trash, she needs to fire him.
File criminal charges, push for an actual conviction and get a court order for the reversal that way.
had troble with mom's estate
turned out it was a small town and all the lawyers where in each other's
pocket...money changes everything.
He's very good. He knows how to milk his clients.
lawyers suck. it's all about the billables.@@sleepyjoe1685
The son is weak for not filing charges.
Maybe there is more to this than we know. I'm not keen on the demonisation of older women based on a phone call.
@@nicolascott672so it’s just older women that can’t be criticized for being insane?
@@Geletin911Typical 2024 libtard response lmao. Two things can be true you know.
To say your original comment is not helpful is an understatement
@@mahnamahna3252 u aren't saying it's wrong though
It looks like the attorney is milking them. 2 years and they still don’t have the title? Get rid of that lawyer
That honor thy mom & father message. People use that as an excuse to tolerate narcissist abuse from their family.
Brainwashed by religion into being people pleasers.
I agree, the parents need to stop provoking their children. Ephesians 6:4
Thank you! Amen ❤
They went along with this for two years without filing charges. Why is the world so full of doormats? Too many doormats. I hate doormats.
40k with a lawyer and still not resolved.
That's what mommy dearest is betting on.
@@clarifyingquestionsyeah what are they paying this guy for???
The lawyer is robbing them more than the mother.
Ah this is the result of being taught that you need to be "fair" and that if you set boundaries you are a bully.
Someone knocks on your door and say this is my house 19 years after you bought it and now you are down 40k in lawyer fees faced with settle or go to court?!!!!!
Gotta love America
Kind of like squatters rights isn’t it?
This can’t happen if you have a mortgage. Don’t pay off your house unless you’re ready to sell.
They made up this BS or they're complete idiots. In PA you could settle this case without a lawyer in 20 minutes. Just bring mortgage documents to County Clerks office. Not rocket science. Boyfriend/ husband is a total idiot and the wife is a clueless jackass. My 12 year old son has more balls than this woke, no backbone dishrag. Backbones are in Aisle 3 of Wal-Mart.( My favorite Dave Ramsey expression. ) MIL would not have waited 20 years if she was legitimately owed money. The fact they had a closing 19 years suggests she got all the money she was entitled to. This woman and her boyfriend should get married and title the deed in both names, then they would not have to deal with this BS. You're pretty stupid if you're over 30 years old and you can't deal with this on your own without talking to a entertainment podcast, radio, TV personality. I hope these stupid, idiotic calls are made up.
@@miketheyunggod2534this is crazy but I think you are right. This almost happened to me, but because the deed needed all signatures notarized by all parties to refinance there is a legal paper trail. This means you can prove fraud very easily.
Where are all the lawyers at in the comment section? How could this guy have 19 YEARS of mortgage payments, ownership, taxes, insurance, and the mother signature as seller - and this not be settled in 5 minutes with the mother’s garbage being thrown out?
Sounds like all the squatters mommy has more rights than the legal owners. I'd sue the hell out of her, also the legal costs, psychological damage and my lost time if at all possible.
@@kokoskokso She's broke.
@@OtisFlint ...except for all that real estate the caller mentioned.
@@kokoskokso She's broke she's not gonna pay up anything
@@OtisFlint at least to scare her off, so she realizes illegal actions have unpleasant consequences
The woman who married my FiL threatened to do this exact thing to us. After five years of owning the property, she got mad about something (I forget what set her off that particular time) and she threatened to go to the courthouse and say we obtained the deed to the property fraudulently. Luckily for us, she died of a heart attack a month later and never followed through with her threats. We had a party to celebrate and sang "Ding Dong The Witch Is Dead."
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this was funny
@@t3morga Not really. Serious lack of guts and balls to confront situiation. Afraid of an old woman? Give me a break!
The Bible also tells parents not to exasperate their children.
Don’t you love it when people quote the part that benefits them but not the balance to it??
Fathers do not nag your children , lest they lose heart
“How long has he known she’s crazy?”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The local DA's office isn't likely to pursue this criminally. They, along with local law enforcement, will almost invariably tell the caller "this is a civil matter."
I agree, but maybe could use the pressure of criminal convictions to force a better settlement in civil court.
I think a new lawyer may be in order or this woman needs to change her mindset. Criminal charges are a kick in the ass for the criminal to begin cooperating. She was talking about paying ransom when she should’ve been talking about considering dropping the criminal charges if the criminal pays all the legal fees and gives the property back
I would stop calling her, "Mom."
Yes…I can think of a better name…starts with B ends with H
I'd probably prepare to stop calling him HUSBAND
Copied word for word..
@@cyoohoos haha! Great point! 😂
Mommy Dearest
There's no honor among thieves, so stealing from your own child isn't a stretch.
My aunt went to jail for stealing from a church. I remembered when I was a child, she stole my Nintendo and pawned it and never got it out. She first said she gave it to the less fortunate, then she said it melted in the back seat. I found the pawn shop receipt.
And…..your PARENTS……let Auntie get away with this ? BAD PARENTS.
There’s crazy in every family. If you don’t think so, you’re the crazy!
She might be. It was exasperating because she woudn’t stop talking.
One ask why they are crazy? It has to be reason behind the craziness.
The attorney is a crook too. 40K in the hole and he's still avoiding doing the thing that would fix the issue quickly (and cut down on his income stream). Just as doctors, a patient healed is a patient lost.
100%
Yep, you got that right.
They need to file a state bar complaint for poor representation. That doesn't mean it will solve all the problems, but it helps in some way.
@@vanesslifeygo They could have filed the case in PA on their own for about $40. I don't blame the attorney,. I blame their stupidity and their lack of guts in confronting this situitation. I would taken care of this in one day 2 hours without an attorney. Read law books, do research, and use your God-given brain for Christ's sake. Younger generation seriously needs to smarten up. No guts, no glory. And no money. And no house. And no wife/girlfriend. And no honor.
@@garykeith1048 I get why people might have reservations about confronting their mother, not wanting to lose that relationship, although she did that for them. But I wonder if they could literally just walk into a police station and file a complaint? By which all else would get taken care of?
How on earth did this woman do this? You can’t file quit claim without notary signature of all
Owners. How did she get their signature to sign off the deed? If she forged or lied to a notary this is definitely fraud and you can file criminal misdemeanor charges!
Very true. And you'd also have a claim on the Notary's Bond and any title company involved. Geez - I worked as a legal secretary for 3 years and I could have defended this case better than this so- called attorney.
imho her husband isn't being honest with her, and she sounds naive
So sad. Instead of good memories and a loving family she will have nothing.
Talk about the archetypal DEVOURING MOTHER, as described by Jung. What a delight that lady is.
They need to report this to the police, NOW! He paid on the house for 19 years and it a snit, she stole it from him. She is either a petty spiteful person, or mental. Or both.
The lawyer is milking her
mother in law either got dementia and thinks the house she gave to her son is her house or she is a super controlling greedy freak
Single mothers often (not always) are so codependent their children because they don’t have a spouse - that they feel their adult children should act as their spouses. This caller said her MIL started getting nasty when her husband chose to be “the man of the house” for his family, and not for his mother.
@@katiejon17mommy needs to get a dam job instead of trying to leech off her son like he’s her husband. She’s taking advantage of him.
Pure greed. Evil...
File charges against the attorney too.
Tell the mother to sign off the house or you go to the cops with a fraud charge and she can tell it to the judge. Your attorney is financially screwing you over too.
No ifs or buts, she needs to go to prison and all their expenses extracted from her. Also restraining order might be in order.
I would fire your attorney, file criminal charges and then sue your former attorney for fraud.
Huh?! How can someone go in to the county clerk’s office and steal your house?!
Very important advice about lawyers. They often take advantage of people who don’t know they are working for you.
She’s a covert narcissist. She is trying to get back control of her son that she lost to the wife.
Sadly there are a lot of controlling vindictive mothers like this woman’s mother-in-law.
They are very gullible people, they need smart and decisive people around them.
Couldn’t they sue her for costs if she is found to be guilty
Ummm…they also need to sue the notary who notarized the fraudulent quit claim deed. In order for a quit claim deed/warranty to be recorded, it needs to be notarized.
Dave called it, if you settle, she will simply turn around and do it all over again. Consider filing for CONSERVATORSHIP! That way, you get control of the house and everything else. (Appreciate the title correction.) ☺
*There’s clearly more to the case than she’s disclosing.*
No client is that stupid to pay $40K in legal fees on an open and shut case, particularly without resolving it.
Guessing the original property transfer has some defects.
If this is Detroit-proper, yah the Wayne County prosecutor isn’t going to mess with a criminal action.
But if this actually is in one of the suburbs and outside Wayne County, the prosecutors might take action… only if it is an iron clad open and shut case.
That the attorney - she claims - did not first recommend criminal action also hints there’s more to the case.
This is exactly what came to mind. The mother actually found a legal loophole or something to drag out the process to use as leverage.
I want to know how the mom lost all the houses she owned. I'm guessing she overleveraged and lost them in 2008. I'd like to hear that story.
I love that she mentioned it's a Christian thing to hOnOuR your mother and father, which is stupid. Some of our parents just suck.
Nah actually Dave said on this particular topic we're supposed to honor the institution of parenthood but in no way are we to tolerate or enable bad behavior/abuse. That has nothing to do with God's commandments.
Unfortunately, like in this situation, that Bible verse was used to brainwash the kids.
Yeah “honor and forgiveness” get abused regularly by Christians.
What? I did something horrible to you? Well you need to forgive me.
Thou shall not steal.
@@rayhill5767 forgive but not forget and definitely not enable. Allowing someone to perpetrate abuse against me and thus sin ain't doing any good for their eternal life.
I think Dave was ready to send them his own lawyer just on principle alone.
This why I learned not to do business with family. So sad. But true.
So most states the years of occupancy for adverse possession to stick is 20 years. Except he bought the home legitimately 19 years ago so its almost as if the mom saw this as the last chance to claim the home. I dont understand how this is possible.
Normally both parties have to sign a quitclaim deed, but I guess at this point the crazy mom forged her son's signature, if it was needed. It's also crazy that the quitclaim can be done for practically free, but they've paid $40k in attorney's fees to try to reverse it.
They're stupid. 40K attorneys fees is total BS. I think they made it up or won't pay it anyway since they're morally and financially broke. One of the dumbest calls on the Dave Ramsey show. That stupid laughter from the caller is really annoying and aggravating. If she had had a brain she and her boyfriend could have settled this BS in less than 24 hours. I did it in less than 1 hour at County Court house without a lawyer on my own. People are so stupid its enough to make you pull your hair out.
Preach it, Dave!
I love it when Dave's on. Definitely got to learn something new in this video, and it was also entertaining. It's nice that George kept his mouth shut on this one.
What you gone whoop his butt? Lol
Their lawyer should go to jail as well, wtf, milking them
The attorney should be reported to the 'BAR' and the state to have license revoked.
file criminal charges and then sue her in civil court.
Yea I would say I will see ya in court crazy!!!
Wow how messed up is this. Your own mother trying to kick you out of your own house because she is not getting her way.
It's HIS mother. Not Hers. She's not giving the whole story because... where does he stand in all this?
She is a b….
@@cyoohoos He should marry his mother. The guy is an idiot and a moron. What she sees him has me totally confused. I guess woman like losers and guys they can fix.
I’m betting there’s more to the story that we didn’t hear. How many 19 year olds can buy houses? Some, but not many
I’m guessing it was a rent to own arrangement that has gone sour
Yes I agree 100%. This callers story is goofy.
Yeah, there are some holes in the story, but of course, Dave and his crew jump in and declare that the lawyers the caller has are idiots, without having crucial information. And that bit where Dave thinks that a lawyer has to do anything their customer tells them to is the most asinine thing I've heard. Lawyers, typically now the law and people ask all sorts of stupid crap, that might be illegal. So a real lawyer doesn't just do whatever their customer asks them to.
@@Aki_Lesbrinco yes you are correct.
If you’re a lawyer and do “whatever your client says to do” you’re going to lose a lot of cases and eventually lose your license.
How can you claim AFTER a closing on a house, that the previous owner didn't sell it? I don't understand. Can someone explain? Who paid the taxes?
“You whacked chick” “Unbelievable” “go to jail” “do not pass go” “do not collect $200” 😂😂😂 I hollered “go straight to jail” 😭
Sorry but I’m distracted by when did he become a single dad if they started dating at 16? And he bought house from mother at 19 because he was a single dad?
I was wondering about that too.
Three sides to every story. In this case four. We only got 25% of it
16 years ago, not at 16
@@riku3716 19 years ago when the girl was 16
She might have been 16 and he a couple years more?
too much interrupting on both sides.
Fire the lawyer and get an attorney.
In some states (mine) if you do this, you’ll get your block rocked off. Period
I'm struggling with this. So according to this call anyone can just go down to a county clerk and file a quitclaim deed on anyone's house without the owner''s signature and the county clerk files them as the owner? That can't be right.
There's definitely more to this. Otherwise even if there was an error with filing it it'd be pretty easily resolved and wouldn't cost $40k.
MIL sounds awful but story doesn't quite pass my sniff test.
Probably never paid the mother a dime for the house. Guy sounds like a total jerk. Wife/girlfriend has to make the call? What does he do all day? apparently, as little as possible.
That’s illegal yeah she can go to jail
It is nice to have Dave back.
Well, why is your husband not managing this? It is his mother? And if he can't protect his family from his own mother, then maybe you need to question your relationship with him. Most men would not want their wives getting this involved with issues with their mother. I'm not saying they didn't give you good advice ... I'm just saying apples rarely fall far from the tree.
And if I were you... I would quietly be gathering a *leap* fund because filing criminal charges against a MIL....
She should have dumped the jerk 20 years ago. No balls. No guts to stand up for his wife.
I discovered the hard way lawyers will drag out the matter for as long as they a)can get away with and/orb) the money holds out
This lady and her husband are just too friggin nice!
Need laws that specifically protect children from their parents financially. Parents have so much personal info they can forge all kinds of paper work.
Ruby Franke make millions off her kids, didn’t pay them a dime, tortured them, then said the day they turn 18 they have to leave. Many parents are horrific, but that fact makes most people *uncomfy* so they pretend it’s not true.
It never ceases to amaze me the depths people, let alone family members, are willing to go for the Almighty Dollar.
When I read the title I got excited because I thought Nancy Pelosi called in to the show
lol awesome :)
Why are people such wimps and so afraid to press charges?!That's YOUR house!!!
People can't press charges. People can file police reports and indicate they'll cooperate with prosecutors but individuals have zero control over whether charges are pressed once a report is made.
@@janise01 What's the reason for that?
@@RiSkyNick The prosecutor is who makes the decision on whether to press charges. Otherwise we'd have people not charged with serious crimes b/c their victim is scared/intimidated or loves their attacker which increases risk tl everyone and also people going around pressing charges for asinine "offenses" (for example charging someone for assault b/c they accidentally bumped into you on the street which resulted in no injury whatsoever).
Where people get confused and probably where the confusion comes is sometimes the cop on the scene (who also doesn't make a decision on whether charges are pressed) may ask if you want to file a report or decide not to arrest the perpetrator if you (the victim) indicate you won't cooperate with any police/prosecutor action.
So there’s a lot to think about here. Who’s been paying the taxes? What are the squatters rights in Michigan? How much does mom want? Is mom in good health (can they wait her out)? They’re also in Detroit, wouldn’t be hard to find someone to take care of this if you know what I mean.
Prosecutors are quick to deny charges and says it’s a civil matter
Couple just can't deal with the mother being a criminal and it's not helping them at ALL!
More Dave rants !!!!😂😂😂😂
YES PLEASE!
The advice is worth exactly what you pay for it. Hilarious!
So......any endorsed local legal "providers of justice" in the caller's area?
Im glad the caller got to speak w/ Dave. Didn't need to hear Dr Doofus recommending she tell her mother in law how "she cant breathe anymore" or Rachel telling her to follow the baby steps 😂😂😂
Yep.. Rachel telling her to write out their grocery budget and put the cash in an envelope.. as a non-sequitur to be asked about tax return.
She’s so lucky nepotism was allowed at Ramsey and Daddy gave her a c-suite level job. She’s absolutely not competent enough to have gotten where she is via purely meritocratic means.
Dr. Doofus . Right on. I call him Dr. John Pass the Bread, Here Comes the Dr. Baloney. Old high school joke.
@@Alex-mj5dv At least she's pretty. Eye Candy. Better than nothing. At least Dave admits the advice is worth exactly what you pay for it. Nothing. Better than what I deserve is so true. The guy is a dog and pony show. Oh well, nobody's perfect. Sounds like a familiar phrase on Fox News Channel.
Dave and George’s matching outfits 😄
Did she say she was 19 at the time? Did she mean her husband was 19?
Criminal always precedes related civil cases
MIL is making a power play. The son needs to put his big boy trousers on. I feel sorry for this lady.
I know it is only anecdotal,
"They all cry when you throw dirt down on them."
Lawyers in smaller communities won’t take on clients if you’ve leaving a different lawyer. I’ve seen this in my small community. It’s egregious, imo
If she’s convicted trying to steal your house then it ends
The attorney sounds like a friggin scammer too.
Unless the husband was tying the attorney's hands by refusing to pursue criminal charges.
Screw "settling" with the mother. File criminal charges then counters her for damages to cover your attorney fees and damages for her fraud.
99% sure that the mother sold the house for like $1 to her son and later she needed help and he declined her. We always only get 1 side of the story and yet the hosts go ham on the people mentioned.
Doesn’t matter. The deal was done.
@@tonycrabtree3416 It does in fact matter when you're on a show and go off on a person without knowing anything. This is not a math question.
@@sebastianbachee2961 The deal was done.
See you next Tuesday 😎
Criminal prosecution is brought by the state so there is no cost besides taxes
She needed to get another attorney
Mama wants her sonsband back.
Sonsband may want to be back with Mama
The son is in a band? I’m confused.
@@11plus3 short for son-husband
@@tjbalistic Got it. Makes sense now. Thank you for clarifying
live spell check is crazy
Never allow religion to be used as a shield for bad behavior!!
Dirty deeds done dirt cheap
So what would happen if there was a relative that was left out
Dave missed the point that before this come up they were helping mom when she got in a bind and when they didn't hand over money she did this..
What does this change? She’s an evil witch of a mother.
This is what happens when you pay off your house.
My Mum went to a Solicitor because my brother's girlfriend borrowed £34,000 and wouldn't pay it back. The girlfriend said it was a gift. It went to Court and my Mum got some of it back. Too many people go to Solicitors instead of the Police when this crime is committed. I think they must be too embarrassed to admit they fell for it. The Solicitor is happy to make easy money so they'll just go ahead and make what they can out of it.
Don't do favors for family always ends bad
Noooo…..why hasn’t the HUSBAND filed charges ? WIFE…..Zip It ! HUSBAND , TAKE CHARGE.
Why is this even possible?
Every time I hear people take abuse from their parents justifed by christian beliefs, I text my mom that I love her. I'm grateful my parents were the way they were.
Did they pay anything for the house? Or was the house transferred for free?
I love Dave’s advice but I think sometimes he overlooks that men have an advantage when it comes to getting answers and accurate information from say a lawyer or court system. In my personal experience, being a female, I’ve gotten dilly dallied around a lot because men don’t take me seriously. Or they don’t think I know what I know. It’s maddening to have to jump thru hoops because you get counted out that I know what I’m talking about as soon as I walk in the door. It sounds like her husband needs to step up and take some action in getting this resolved but he has been tiptoeing around it in fear of further upsetting his mother.
The guy is the Coward of the County.