No disrespect, but it sounds like alcohol depression has kicked in after your bender on Soi 6, lay of the booze, stay away from the tourist bars, get yourself feeling fresh, and think positive.
I follow all of your content, you are very honest also & we need more of it, Men are losing there way, minds & lives out here. Enough is enough, maybe I can stop one of the many men I see drinking in a restaurant or bar at 9am every morning while im on my morning walks
I had similar problems with the younger girls I’m 31 so I go for the older women mid 30,s to mid 40,s they still look great and have a lot more respect. New subscriber mate.
You have to play them at their own game mate, always say its your first night, tell them you want to meet them every night for 2 weeks, they will treat you good because they want a customer for 2 weeks, but never go back same bar, then repeat the next day at another bar lol
well I go once a week, I like to find one out of a thousand girls to drink with thats the fun part, its the disrespect from the girls when you drink with them that pisses me off
Bro the beauty of Pattaya is you find what you look for. Soi 6 is Simp Street, you are not finding respect there when the women dont respect themselves. Selling their body proves that. I moved to Jomtien nearly 5 years ago after 16 years living and working in bkk. I am 50 next month. Stopped drinking 13 years ago, never done the prostitute thing. I would never move back to Australia, this place is amazing if you control it, not let it control you. A great video, your honesty shows you know what you need to do to fix it. Good luck bro
Great comment, and amazing that you don’t drink, and have worked in BKK for 15 years. You should have a channel or business giving out honest advice to the next batch of men coming over to Thailand looking for all things. 👍
I think the first mistake you made was going to Soi 6, it's an expensive kip with some pretty scenery but unless you're minted then you're just a seat warmer until a better option for them comes along. 10 lady drinks to get their Line or to bar fine? eh, no, steer clear of those places for sure. Definitely better spots in the city to go and find fun but without all the hoopla.
Alpha Omega sent me here! 👍 Good honest channel, no fancy editing, subscribed! 🥳 You need a hobby, something to keep you occupied and away from the alcohol and the sharks in Soi 6. Join a gym, get a mountain bike to keep fit and go on daily rides out of town, thats what i do. Take Thai language classes, whatever, just stay occupied, have a reason to get up in the morning with passion, that will change your mindset and get the happy hormones raging! 👍 Also, get out of Pattaya for a day each week to film new content in different areas. Naklua, Bang Saray, Sri Racha, Rayong, Sattahip, there are loads of places within an hour of Jomtien you can explore. Just do it and see the change! 👍
thanks for your advice! 😁👍 well routine is important to me, im at jomtien beach every day for exercise for up to four hours, come back to my condo enjoy watching youtube & some playstation gaming. I know I get bored easily & end up buying beers from 7-11 and drinking in my condo, at least im not as bad as so many others I see drinking in bars at 9am while im out for my daily exercise but im working on myself 👌
Nothing changes until rock bottom, bro listen to your self defeatism? These are working girls…the hustle is making money - get yourself home and help, get yourself together mentally
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCity Bro from the way you are talking Thailand is not the place for you. Seen it too many times. Get yourself somewhere with supporting people around you. Pattaya breaks more guy's than i can count. Stay strong.
Don't beat yourself up making a life around the bar scene is no life get yourself out to other areas of the country there's all kinds of regular women available see how the rest of the people live you might enjoy yourself a lot more and people won't be at you for your money every second of the day I enjoyed the honesty in your video in my opinion the bar scene is a weekend trip then leave it behind you good luck to you
Pattaya is what it is. Live it up then move on. I loved it the girls are only there to make money but I got no hate on them I had a ripper of a time. Will always return again and again.
I remember when King Alcohol nearly took my happiness. I thank God for the rooms of recovery and the battle hardened sober soldiers who save lives, including mine. I hope you begin to see life can be beautiful-it’s liberating to be sober and pockets full!
Unwinnable game, it's the situation that you explained yourself. Somes days the luck is there, when its not i just change and do something else. Peace comes from within
Good morning mate,just noticed your latest vlog on Pattaya 365 site,ex Aussie here from Central coast Sydney,I am a lot older than you but have made a few mistakes here like most of us have. Firstly the biggest mistake you made was heading to soi 6,it is a money pit,more ladies than punters,and they will attack you for drinks,yes they get 50 baht per drink but…any bar wherever here I refuse to buy a lady a drink if she asks for one,if I like her company I will buy her one,full stop,I find once they realise you live here they realise you know their game.havnt set foot in the 6 since Xmas arvo last year a group of us had lunch in Queen Vic,then the lads headed out to bars there I headed out.been coming here for 20 years,yes got out of Dodge..Aus so expensive.i headed back once a year to see my family and grand kids. Just a suggestion try and find a few lads in Jomtien go out together so many good bars there,give 7/11 a miss my god. I am in a condo in Pattaya, met some great guys in here from many countries some nights we head out with 10 plus guys. But I like to travel so every few months a group of us do that. Take care stay away from the 6.
I don’t know if you work out or like running but that’s what’s cool about Pattaya is you can balance a hard night with working out in the morning. It’s beautiful to go running on beach road or workout at CoCo they got so much good equipment. Work hard, play hard. You can’t enjoy yourself If you don’t deserve it
Im glad i was in thailand during the 1990s.. stayed 5 years best time of my life i was in my 20's Now im late 40's in usa nothing to do except go to sleep and its fukin cold
Soi 6 is for tourists. 2 week millionaires 😅 It's certainly not for finding a regular gf. I agree that a lot of the girls down there will flirt with other customers and go off even when you've brought them a drink. Most people who live in Pattaya don't bother with the place or just go once in a blue moon and then more often than not regret it.
I know this & I dont go all the time, It is nice to go to look for a girl to drink with though, where else is there a thousand girls in one soi to choose from? its just the lack of respect when you sit with them or spend time with them for the extra stuff, 7/10 times they rip you off. the 3/10 times I can say I got my money's worth
You are only supposed to go there for a bit of fun, like the sideshow alley at the royal show, you go on the rides and go home, and come back next year. Try some multivitamins from the chemist,10 baht mix with water, might make you feel better.
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCity That's too bad. I play alone at the Youth Centre in Jomtien. Let me know if you fancy joining me some time? I'm an English teacher here from England, great footballer too. I stay well away from the bar scene and I've witnessed your struggles.
Only go too soi 6 but one drink and go upstairs..not a good place too hang out too expensive..I have fun there there go find a lazy beer bar with average girls who don't push for drinks
I try my hardest to buy as least lady drinks as possible but pretty hard when theyll neck them in 10 minutes & hassle for another one while youve had a few sips of your beer, take them upstairs they rip off about 20 minutes of time
@MataiosWorldPattayaCity sometimes that's true just quickly quickly but not always I've met a lot of girls on soi 6 who where not rushing or wanted too stay longer for same money but same with working girls anywhere never can be sure what you are going too get
Pattaya in particular will chew you up and spit you out, the whole fun of it is that its just that.... fun. If you want a quiet romantic night dont go to Soi 6 for starters in fact Pattaya on the whole is a game of chess with the farang as the sacrificial pawn. Take it for what it is!
@TheNicholaas , only if you play their game. I've never had a real bad experience that springs to mind, had some that I say go home but that's about it. Mainly drink have fun and take them home for a price. I never do short time, just treat them as a mate and fill em up with booze. 😊
Some Advice for yaa mate. . no matter if your hitched or chasing the Pink&Stink it all costs you coin..try looking after you first..try sport's or join a club or get into some hobby you like .. I always think even a shit-day in Asia is better than a day back in Sydney existing trying to keep my head above water After Bad good always comes..give yourself some love remember your worth it..next time you get some Bar Minge make sure she earns her Money...😊
hahaha well thats the intention its not always bad im just sharing my experiences, I enjoy gaming, this channel started like that but its a saturated niche, I enjoy sports I cant play anymore due to a bad knee injury, I do try my best to get my moneys worth but its an uphill battle, 8/10 times I lose. cheers for the advice! 😁👍
Yeah I hear you. I’ve been coming to Pattaya since 2006. I’ve been here since 1st November. I’ve noticed the change from my last trip last year. I’m going home early and don’t think ill be back
wow thats crazy man & yes ive noticed a change in Soi 6 since last year when it was all the Managers from overseas who I got to know and become friends with I still see them around now, now its all Mamasans, it seems & feels ruthless & can never win a dispute with a Mamasan
Get to a meeting buddy sounds like you need one. Loads of them in Thailand, I know mate lived in Chiangmai mai for a few years used to do 3 meetings a week to keep my head straight
Some bars have non contract agreements with freelancers. The freelancer agrees to work so many hours or sell so many drinks. If she doesn’t fulfill her obligations then the bar won’t let her come back.
So many “han$um men” think Pattaya is the real Thailand, when nothing could be further than the truth. Soi 6 especially is a jungle. Not for the faint of heart. But how many of them are even curious to explore the real Thailand, away from the tourist trap$ …
If you've got issues with drinking, the last place you should be living is pattaya. If you're in thailand for cost of living, there are cheaper and nicer areas than pattaya.
Bro, stay away from the bars and take the shortcut. A lot of those same broads are online ( TF, etc). Sign up, post some pics, hit them up( or rather they'll hit you). Have your choice. Negotiate a time after work. Grab your alcohol from the 7/11 at a fraction of the price and make your pad the bar/ boom boom room.... Stay up!
yea man TF can be very hit & miss though, girls using filters on pics etc. first time I used TF was in Phuket & none of her pics were filtered she showed up to my room & she looked smoking hot! latest experience on TF looked for a girl go on a date with for the fireworks festival, she video called me to meet up that night & I made an excuse to not meet her 😂 she looked like a 4/10 at best
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCity crazy how across all of western nations it is the samething. In USA, Canada , Europe , Aus , they are pricing us out of decent lives whilst the borders sit wide open!
I know you're saving on rent and cheaper cost of living if you avoid going to bars regularly. But i imagine you were working in Australia, how do you support yourself Thailand? (Over from alpha channel)
I had my own businesses back in Australia, then when the world shut down I created online businesses. I have multiple streams of income to support myself, now focusing on my youtube channel to add to my income stream 😁
Sooner or later you will meet a genuine girl, but it wont happen in a bar. It will happen when you least expect it mate. Change your lifestyle. Make some non-pisshead mates that dont talk shit😊 Not easy, I know, I have been coming since 1991 and nothing changes🙄
I totally know that, I like to keep to myself mostly & I dont trust people. sadly ive tried finding a genuine girl and its just been about money to them regardless but thanks for the advice 😁👍
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCityBro, stay well clear of soi 6. And don't be forced to buy lady drinks, if you like a lady and want to take her back buy for her only not her friends. And don't buy her too many.
You have to learn not to play the game. There are many different ways to get bang for buck in Pattaya, just don't drink in the touristy bars that milk you dry.
It hit my current age and all of a sudden i cant even drink half a beer. I get acid reflux. Maybe it's a gift, so i stop drinking. Alcohol isn't anything worth being in a relationship with. I imagine the massage shops are less expensive and you won't drink.
Good thing is you have worked out what the problem is, now all you need to do is fix it. There is more to Pattaya that Soi 6, and I don't mean Buakhao or Walking Street either. These places are like casinos, been doing it a long time, know how to fleece as much as possible, lets say "professional?" If you are looking for something different you need to go to other places. Plenty of lovely Thai ladies that are not like that, in fact more than you know, they just happen to be concentrated in Pattaya. Most are not local, they have left their families from the farms and are in town to make a living for their families, and get exploited by the bar owners. Thailand is not like that, and most of Pattaya isn't if you take time to look around. You can have a great life here. Don't waste it.
That’s how the woman are bro 👊🏿 it’s all about the money 💰 ps I have seen you on Beach 🏖️ road 🛣️ big respect brother keep up the good work stay positive
@MataiosWorldPattayaCity ok good for you, so why complain when women do what woman do? It's like being upset because dogs will steal your sausages if you leave them out
On and off 14 years in Thailand. I never played this game always hated the “one drink for me” and the screams “hello welcome” every time a man walked past. Hated that scene
You say cost of living in Australia is to much. How much money do you earn in Thailand, and how much super do you get.F--k all I would imagine. Thailand is only good for the people who have made their money.
Im not sure if it is, I went to buzzin lounge a few times if thats classed as a gents club, the girls treated me like shit & every other lad in there was probably 20 years older than me
Dude you can’t let them women play you,they are playing you because they don’t respect you for one reason or another,it’s all about how you carry yourself 🤷
@ you described it not me but from what you described you cannot let them play you like that. Let them know that you’re in control. Just trying to help.
i've rarely ever had a good time on soi 6. lacking soul, bill being padded, end up spending most of the time in conversation with the bar managers instead of cuddling with the girls, girls don't cuddle etc,.
I'm just out of a divorce and moving to Pattaya for 6 months. I'm not going to go to the bar much at all (I don't drink). My plan is just to lift weights, maybe do some muay thai, and just get in better health. Maybe meet some night friends from TF... but not from bars
You can’t stay off it ! You’re. On holiday ! Get back on. It with a vengeance !,🍻 I’m back in Pattaya 14 January. Be hitting Soi 6 a couple of times ! It will. Get better mate , stick at it , 👍🇹🇭😎
im not on holiday I live here, ive had a drinking problem for a long time but im aware of it but sometimes make a poor decision to drink too much, enjoy your time when youre back out here! 🥳
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCityMate, that’s GREAT that you are man enough to admit so publicly that you have a drinking problem, and you clearly are trying to address it. I am also an Aussie, that had enough of the fat lazy money focused woman in Australia, that came with 2-3 kids etc, and even more mental and emotional first world issues. I am 54 now, and was just holidaying in Thailand 1-2 months per year for about 4 years from 2012, then moved there full time in about 2016. And have done all of the usual things that a single man would do there, in relation to bars. NEVER intended to have a permanent girl, and also worked offshore for at least 6 months per year. I left Aus due to money issues, I had 4 properties there basically neutrally balanced, then one of them, in a mining town, went REALLY bad…$$$$ and I was effectively forced to sell them all over the next 3 years, and declare bankruptcy with about $450,000 owing…. I’ve gotten out of it all now, and live in Bangkok, with a Thai wife, and her son…. And yes, I did meet her in soi 6, and it’s 5 years together now, and still going well….. so it can actually work out, but Pattaya is a huge money exchange…..from you to them….
Hay bro, The night wish situation aside(that’s just ridiculous) I’m reading between the lines here but it sounds like you are competing against 2 week millionaires on a limited budget. Maybe stick to jomtien or dark side expat places. Less of a rush to fleece you and will be a slower pace.
Bro, if you don’t get your act together, mentally you’re gonna be on the streets and that’s not a joke bro you need to pick yourself up. Looks like a lot of alcohol. A lot of women that’s not good combination. I mean I’m not gonna comment on your life. I’m not gonna get involved but from what I can see if I could try to help you I would love to, but this is not a road that I would ever travel upon
Don't leave the game, just change the way you play. Try something completely opposite from the usual. Go to Soi 6, drink only water, be nice, and buy lady drinks on your own accord. Even if nothing happens, you still have some dignity, not that you don't right now.
So what do you do for income? You know yourself you need to seek out like minded to move on with something that provides some sort of fulfilment. Obviously voicing what you have shows you've actually identified your weaknesses to a degree and you know you are the only one who can make changes. I think your seeking deeper values to build upon? I might be wrong but it sounds much like that. Have a look around other parts, not the main attractions, you might just come into a conversation with better more down to earth people to begin something else. All foreigners in other countries are viewed as $ and nothing more. They thrive off of other demise. Anyway, I'm sure after more soul searching you'll get to where you should be.
cheers for your advice its greatly appreciated 😁👍 I have created my own streams of income I am now working on YT to be the next one, I understand it is better in rural areas but it can be tougher as it can be boring & less english is spoken, i am comfortable in Pattaya, Bangkok scares me & Phuket is worse
You dont know Howe to play The game learn The rules ... Alkohol girls and money take your mind If you dont play right If you dont learn joining Pattaya Air forces is too easy😬. 👍👍
Situation in so many Western countries continues to deteriorate, it seems that greed in the first world countries is out of control, and peoples attitudes are shit. It's tough to deal with in the U.S..
Yes its a sad world we live in now where people are leaving there home countries for the hope of a better life but poorer countries want to take advantage anyway 🤷♂️💵
It’s Pattaya bud party & sex capital & everything in between keep it to once a week and you’ll feel better hard to do I know but you can do it plenty of hobbies you can do to keep yourself busy
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If you follow others programs then expect to be mistreated If they're not following your program and rules then you wont get good out of the situations The idea of wanting lady company then paying for it and losing it is a false pursuit This is why you describe it as an unwinnable game, because you're not in control of anything You cant be tired of the games because you're the one turning up to play their game Therefore you want to be part of their game
I remember the good old days (pre-covid) where every bar on soi 6 had the same price when it came to the girls. I believe they all have even had the same room fee. Are those Nightwish idiots responsible for screwing that up as well? That was crazy to hear you say that at certain bars, it will take 10 drinks before you're eligible to take a chick upstairs. Way too much competition and options in Pattaya for any bar to have rules like that. However, these bars are only getting away with it, based on the clientel's willingness to pay for it. If a dude doesn't like the rule and pays for the 10 drinks anyway, then he has no right to complain. He is contributing to the problem. Need more guys to do like you did and just walk out, but most will be too wasted and horny to walk out and leave.
was never here before CV but this rule is now in nightwish bars that are all run by mamasans now, i had much better experiences last year with all the managers from overseas & this is to barfine going upstairs is fine, which is what i did. hit it & left
Sad man, I hope you see the light and wake up before it’s too late.
No disrespect, but it sounds like alcohol depression has kicked in after your bender on Soi 6, lay of the booze, stay away from the tourist bars, get yourself feeling fresh, and think positive.
thanks for the advice! 👍 feeling pretty good now dont worry 😁
I battle with the same thing mate. This is a very honest video.
I follow all of your content, you are very honest also & we need more of it, Men are losing there way, minds & lives out here. Enough is enough, maybe I can stop one of the many men I see drinking in a restaurant or bar at 9am every morning while im on my morning walks
Here from alpha omega, good video mate.
Ne too, from alpha omega
Same here
And me
Yup, me too
I had similar problems with the younger girls I’m 31 so I go for the older women mid 30,s to mid 40,s they still look great and have a lot more respect. New subscriber mate.
Its a business, they respect the money, not you. So, work on yourself, and do not spend your money on anything else but to improve yourself.
You have to play them at their own game mate, always say its your first night, tell them you want to meet them every night for 2 weeks, they will treat you good because they want a customer for 2 weeks, but never go back same bar, then repeat the next day at another bar lol
Disrespecting people is disrespecting yourself. Stop going to bars.
If you're not a newbie, then why frequent Soi 6?
well I go once a week, I like to find one out of a thousand girls to drink with thats the fun part, its the disrespect from the girls when you drink with them that pisses me off
I'm sure they have in house facilities on Soi 6 so you don't take the girl out of the bar.
Bro the beauty of Pattaya is you find what you look for. Soi 6 is Simp Street, you are not finding respect there when the women dont respect themselves. Selling their body proves that. I moved to Jomtien nearly 5 years ago after 16 years living and working in bkk. I am 50 next month. Stopped drinking 13 years ago, never done the prostitute thing. I would never move back to Australia, this place is amazing if you control it, not let it control you. A great video, your honesty shows you know what you need to do to fix it. Good luck bro
Great comment, and amazing that you don’t drink, and have worked in BKK for 15 years. You should have a channel or business giving out honest advice to the next batch of men coming over to Thailand looking for all things. 👍
Soi 6 absolutely sucks ass
I bet you go to church every Sunday too..
I think the first mistake you made was going to Soi 6, it's an expensive kip with some pretty scenery but unless you're minted then you're just a seat warmer until a better option for them comes along. 10 lady drinks to get their Line or to bar fine? eh, no, steer clear of those places for sure. Definitely better spots in the city to go and find fun but without all the hoopla.
cheers! 👍
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCityDon't be so naive, play the game not get played.
Alpha Omega sent me here! 👍 Good honest channel, no fancy editing, subscribed! 🥳
You need a hobby, something to keep you occupied and away from the alcohol and the sharks in Soi 6.
Join a gym, get a mountain bike to keep fit and go on daily rides out of town, thats what i do. Take Thai language classes, whatever, just stay occupied, have a reason to get up in the morning with passion, that will change your mindset and get the happy hormones raging! 👍
Also, get out of Pattaya for a day each week to film new content in different areas. Naklua, Bang Saray, Sri Racha, Rayong, Sattahip, there are loads of places within an hour of Jomtien you can explore. Just do it and see the change! 👍
thanks for your advice! 😁👍 well routine is important to me, im at jomtien beach every day for exercise for up to four hours, come back to my condo enjoy watching youtube & some playstation gaming. I know I get bored easily & end up buying beers from 7-11 and drinking in my condo, at least im not as bad as so many others I see drinking in bars at 9am while im out for my daily exercise but im working on myself 👌
Great advice…👍
Does this stuff occur all over Thailand, or is it only in certain parts of Pattaya, Bangkok, etc?
Phuket and Bangkok are the main areas. And much worse than Pattaya. Way more expensive.
Every where in thailand T.I.T.
just the tourist areas...Chiang Mai vibe is way different for example. like a different country
It's basically just the tourist traps as that's where the money is. Go to the countryside and it's a different scene entirely.
Nothing changes until rock bottom, bro listen to your self defeatism? These are working girls…the hustle is making money - get yourself home and help, get yourself together mentally
my home country & home situation is worse, thats why I left
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCity Bro from the way you are talking Thailand is not the place for you. Seen it too many times. Get yourself somewhere with supporting people around you. Pattaya breaks more guy's than i can count. Stay strong.
Don't beat yourself up making a life around the bar scene is no life get yourself out to other areas of the country there's all kinds of regular women available see how the rest of the people live you might enjoy yourself a lot more and people won't be at you for your money every second of the day I enjoyed the honesty in your video in my opinion the bar scene is a weekend trip then leave it behind you good luck to you
Pattaya is what it is. Live it up then move on. I loved it the girls are only there to make money but I got no hate on them I had a ripper of a time. Will always return again and again.
I remember when King Alcohol nearly took my happiness. I thank God for the rooms of recovery and the battle hardened sober soldiers who save lives, including mine. I hope you begin to see life can be beautiful-it’s liberating to be sober and pockets full!
Unwinnable game, it's the situation that you explained yourself. Somes days the luck is there, when its not i just change and do something else. Peace comes from within
Cut down on the drinking mate or it isnt going to end good.
Money trap bye bye gone.soi 6 sharks r waiting for u.wake up buddy stop drinking that's it
thanks for the advice 😁👍 and yes I have already cut back & dont drink every day like I was
Good morning mate,just noticed your latest vlog on Pattaya 365 site,ex Aussie here from Central coast Sydney,I am a lot older than you but have made a few mistakes here like most of us have. Firstly the biggest mistake you made was heading to soi 6,it is a money pit,more ladies than punters,and they will attack you for drinks,yes they get 50 baht per drink but…any bar wherever here I refuse to buy a lady a drink if she asks for one,if I like her company I will buy her one,full stop,I find once they realise you live here they realise you know their game.havnt set foot in the 6 since Xmas arvo last year a group of us had lunch in Queen Vic,then the lads headed out to bars there I headed out.been coming here for 20 years,yes got out of Dodge..Aus so expensive.i headed back once a year to see my family and grand kids. Just a suggestion try and find a few lads in Jomtien go out together so many good bars there,give 7/11 a miss my god. I am in a condo in Pattaya, met some great guys in here from many countries some nights we head out with 10 plus guys. But I like to travel so every few months a group of us do that. Take care stay away from the 6.
I've never suffered from depression but by God l am now after watching this video cheer up mate and enjoy life your in paradise stop moaning
cheers for the advice 😁👍
I don’t know if you work out or like running but that’s what’s cool about Pattaya is you can balance a hard night with working out in the morning. It’s beautiful to go running on beach road or workout at CoCo they got so much good equipment. Work hard, play hard. You can’t enjoy yourself If you don’t deserve it
1:45 The best part of it...
Even if you get completely destroyed, you still can't shake the smile.
haha cheers 😁
Im glad i was in thailand during the 1990s.. stayed 5 years best time of my life i was in my 20's
Now im late 40's in usa nothing to do except go to sleep and its fukin cold
I'm in my 40s and moving to Pattaya for min 6 months
Soi 6 is for tourists. 2 week millionaires 😅 It's certainly not for finding a regular gf. I agree that a lot of the girls down there will flirt with other customers and go off even when you've brought them a drink. Most people who live in Pattaya don't bother with the place or just go once in a blue moon and then more often than not regret it.
I know this & I dont go all the time, It is nice to go to look for a girl to drink with though, where else is there a thousand girls in one soi to choose from? its just the lack of respect when you sit with them or spend time with them for the extra stuff, 7/10 times they rip you off. the 3/10 times I can say I got my money's worth
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCityTrue, once in a while you'll get lucky and have fun as well.
Like anywhere else, its state of mind. If you're expectations are inline, you will not be disappointed. Expecting soi 6 to change?
correct & no it will only get worse 👍
You are only supposed to go there for a bit of fun, like the sideshow alley at the royal show, you go on the rides and go home, and come back next year. Try some multivitamins from the chemist,10 baht mix with water, might make you feel better.
best to play a sport perhaps golf or enjoy the jet ski life boxing . the tourist areas sound expensive
I walk every day along the beach rd's jomtien or central, I have a bad knee injury so I am limited now but I did go to a driving range yesterday 😁
Welcome to hight season dude 😎.
Are you talking about caboolture?
I used to live in Kedron Brisbane and it was the same. Crime everywhere now.
haha yes I am 👍
You cannot buy love in a bar.
thats never the intention, its the disrespect when dealing with them that pisses me off, its a one night rule for me
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCity Fair point
Wy must you drink ? I have just come Home from Thailand. Went to Soi6 ang walking street. But never go in to bars and drinks. Take Freelancer instead
he's strayan, he has to drink.
@@w.urlitzer1869😂
Hey. I live in Jomtien. Do you play football yourself?
I used to in my home country but not anymore, I suffered a bad knee injury im living with being in pain all the time now
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCity That's too bad. I play alone at the Youth Centre in Jomtien. Let me know if you fancy joining me some time? I'm an English teacher here from England, great footballer too. I stay well away from the bar scene and I've witnessed your struggles.
Maybe Pattaya is not for you try Ko Samui a younger crowd at Chaweg and Lamai.
Ko Samui would be more expensive I believe, Bangkok scares me & Phuket is worse
@MataiosWorldPattayaCity there's just no pleasing some people.
Only go too soi 6 but one drink and go upstairs..not a good place too hang out too expensive..I have fun there there go find a lazy beer bar with average girls who don't push for drinks
I try my hardest to buy as least lady drinks as possible but pretty hard when theyll neck them in 10 minutes & hassle for another one while youve had a few sips of your beer, take them upstairs they rip off about 20 minutes of time
@MataiosWorldPattayaCity sometimes that's true just quickly quickly but not always I've met a lot of girls on soi 6 who where not rushing or wanted too stay longer for same money but same with working girls anywhere never can be sure what you are going too get
you should ask Aussie in Pattaya for advice, he's an expert!
Pattaya in particular will chew you up and spit you out, the whole fun of it is that its just that.... fun. If you want a quiet romantic night dont go to Soi 6 for starters in fact Pattaya on the whole is a game of chess with the farang as the sacrificial pawn. Take it for what it is!
Check mate u lose always here in the bar
@TheNicholaas , only if you play their game. I've never had a real bad experience that springs to mind, had some that I say go home but that's about it. Mainly drink have fun and take them home for a price. I never do short time, just treat them as a mate and fill em up with booze. 😊
Some Advice for yaa mate. . no matter if your hitched or chasing the Pink&Stink it all costs you coin..try looking after you first..try sport's or join a club or get into some hobby you like .. I always think even a shit-day in Asia is better than a day back in Sydney existing trying to keep my head above water
After Bad good always comes..give yourself some love remember your worth it..next time you get some Bar Minge make sure she earns her Money...😊
hahaha well thats the intention its not always bad im just sharing my experiences, I enjoy gaming, this channel started like that but its a saturated niche, I enjoy sports I cant play anymore due to a bad knee injury, I do try my best to get my moneys worth but its an uphill battle, 8/10 times I lose. cheers for the advice! 😁👍
Yeah I hear you. I’ve been coming to Pattaya since 2006. I’ve been here since 1st November. I’ve noticed the change from my last trip last year. I’m going home early and don’t think ill be back
wow thats crazy man & yes ive noticed a change in Soi 6 since last year when it was all the Managers from overseas who I got to know and become friends with I still see them around now, now its all Mamasans, it seems & feels ruthless & can never win a dispute with a Mamasan
That sounds very expensive... Almost as expensive as a real girlfriend...
Pattaya has to be one of the most soulless, depressing places on earth.
It's just a different version of Las Vegas or Disney World: completely set up to make money from tourists.
Pattaya has everything just make wise choices.
Pattaya is paradise never had a problem in 20 years there...
yes, high season all ready kick in
Get to a meeting buddy sounds like you need one. Loads of them in Thailand, I know mate lived in Chiangmai mai for a few years used to do 3 meetings a week to keep my head straight
cheers for the advice 👍
@ stay safe buddy ; )
@ although I gave some advice now I’m back in the UK maybe I need to take my own advice : /
Some bars have non contract agreements with freelancers. The freelancer agrees to work so many hours or sell so many drinks. If she doesn’t fulfill her obligations then the bar won’t let her come back.
yea Ive heard about this
So many “han$um men” think Pattaya is the real Thailand, when nothing could be further than the truth. Soi 6 especially is a jungle. Not for the faint of heart. But how many of them are even curious to explore the real Thailand, away from the tourist trap$ …
If you've got issues with drinking, the last place you should be living is pattaya. If you're in thailand for cost of living, there are cheaper and nicer areas than pattaya.
Fair call 👍 past few weeks I have not been drinking every day so I have already made progress
Disagree Pattaya is the cheapest tourist town in Thailand if you know the score.
Go for a visit to Koh Samet for beach getaway mate it’s just right there so close
cheers I will look into it 👍
Everyone needs someone 'real' in life or we go crazy :) Family is real , the rest is bullshit :)
Honest video.
cheers! 👍
Bro, stay away from the bars and take the shortcut. A lot of those same broads are online ( TF, etc). Sign up, post some pics, hit them up( or rather they'll hit you). Have your choice. Negotiate a time after work. Grab your alcohol from the 7/11 at a fraction of the price and make your pad the bar/ boom boom room.... Stay up!
yea man TF can be very hit & miss though, girls using filters on pics etc. first time I used TF was in Phuket & none of her pics were filtered she showed up to my room & she looked smoking hot! latest experience on TF looked for a girl go on a date with for the fireworks festival, she video called me to meet up that night & I made an excuse to not meet her 😂 she looked like a 4/10 at best
Correct
Drink in Nikom court 70 bht big beer good for chit chat with like minded guys and freelancers same as Kasigaree.
Tell them ur Ashley Cole and you’ll be sorted 👌
😂
The spitting image.555
I hear ya 😫little buddy 👊 I hear ya
haha cheers 😁
Try MP girls. They will be willing to hang out with you after work. Much better vibe. Too many Maneaters on that soi.
MP girls? sorry never heard of that term
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCity Massage Parlor 👍
Just go gents clubs much more fun 👍
Im worried that its only for the older wiser men & I will feel intimidated
Love the honesty SUBBED
cheers I appreciate it 👍
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCity crazy how across all of western nations it is the samething. In USA, Canada , Europe , Aus , they are pricing us out of decent lives whilst the borders sit wide open!
I know you're saving on rent and cheaper cost of living if you avoid going to bars regularly. But i imagine you were working in Australia, how do you support yourself Thailand? (Over from alpha channel)
I had my own businesses back in Australia, then when the world shut down I created online businesses. I have multiple streams of income to support myself, now focusing on my youtube channel to add to my income stream 😁
Sooner or later you will meet a genuine girl, but it wont happen in a bar. It will happen when you least expect it mate. Change your lifestyle. Make some non-pisshead mates that dont talk shit😊 Not easy, I know, I have been coming since 1991 and nothing changes🙄
I totally know that, I like to keep to myself mostly & I dont trust people. sadly ive tried finding a genuine girl and its just been about money to them regardless but thanks for the advice 😁👍
bro thats why i dont go to soi 6, go to kings club on 3rd road
Il have to check it out 👍 cheers bro
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCityBro, stay well clear of soi 6. And don't be forced to buy lady drinks, if you like a lady and want to take her back buy for her only not her friends. And don't buy her too many.
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCity def a fun place. ill be back in pattaya on Sunday
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCity also Heaven Above on Soi Boomerang is awesome
You have to learn not to play the game. There are many different ways to get bang for buck in Pattaya, just don't drink in the touristy bars that milk you dry.
thanks for the advice! 😁👍
You mind sharing any of those different ways? I don't drink and don't go to bars
Thai Friendly!
Honest enough brother, wish you all good
cheers & same to you bro! 👍
100% right........
cheers! 😁👍
Have you considered setting up a religion,cult or joining the church of Jesus Christ?
I am Catholic I pray every day 🙏🙌
They have no respect for use as they say up to u.u r taking it to serious.
Many blessings to you 🙏❤️ your so handsome 😍
haha thank you for your kind words 🙏
@MataiosWorldPattayaCity ❤️😘 Aloha from Big Island Hawaii 🤙🙏🌺🏝️
“An unwinnable game” pretty much sums it up.
It depends how you define winning.
cheers 👍
Kiwi brothers 🥳🫡🍻🐸
nice I am mixedrace euronesian not from NZ tho 😁👍
T Shirts that say No Phones, No Lady Drinks,No Bar Fines.....& Remember to call me,"Handsome Man."....That's what we need.
😂
It hit my current age and all of a sudden i cant even drink half a beer. I get acid reflux. Maybe it's a gift, so i stop drinking. Alcohol isn't anything worth being in a relationship with. I imagine the massage shops are less expensive and you won't drink.
Good thing is you have worked out what the problem is, now all you need to do is fix it. There is more to Pattaya that Soi 6, and I don't mean Buakhao or Walking Street either. These places are like casinos, been doing it a long time, know how to fleece as much as possible, lets say "professional?" If you are looking for something different you need to go to other places. Plenty of lovely Thai ladies that are not like that, in fact more than you know, they just happen to be concentrated in Pattaya. Most are not local, they have left their families from the farms and are in town to make a living for their families, and get exploited by the bar owners. Thailand is not like that, and most of Pattaya isn't if you take time to look around. You can have a great life here. Don't waste it.
thank you so much for your advice! 😁👍
That’s how the woman are bro 👊🏿 it’s all about the money 💰 ps I have seen you on Beach 🏖️ road 🛣️ big respect brother keep up the good work stay positive
haha cheers for the advice 👍 and yes im at the beach rd in central or jomtien or sometimes both in a day for exercise not drinking in a bar 😁
80 baht I paid for a large beer, Chang, Singha 90 baht.
cool 👍
mate if someone has more money than you the girls will go for them, law of the jungle. get ya money up
no one knows my money situation, I have created multiple streams of income. Im in my 30's living in Thailand I must be doing something right
@MataiosWorldPattayaCity ok good for you, so why complain when women do what woman do? It's like being upset because dogs will steal your sausages if you leave them out
It's Friday once again let's party
indeed! 😁👍
On and off 14 years in Thailand. I never played this game always hated the “one drink for me” and the screams “hello welcome” every time a man walked past. Hated that scene
fair enough 👍
You say cost of living in Australia is to much. How much money do you earn in Thailand, and how much super do you get.F--k all I would imagine. Thailand is only good for the people who have made their money.
I have created multiple streams of income for myself thats all you need to know 😁
Come on Dude…. Soi 6 and walking street are for tourists you live there you know better
Gentlemen clubs are what you’re looking for
Im not sure if it is, I went to buzzin lounge a few times if thats classed as a gents club, the girls treated me like shit & every other lad in there was probably 20 years older than me
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Try CatFlaps in Phratamnak I don’t think you will be disappointed
Working girls out to make 💰 as quickly as they can and your buying 🍺 from 7/11 come on think about it .
yea to get on it before going to the bars like most do anyway 🤷♂️
Mate, this is the game , go with a plan and stick to it
cheers for the advice 😁👍
Dude you can’t let them women play you,they are playing you because they don’t respect you for one reason or another,it’s all about how you carry yourself 🤷
If thats what you think without knowing me than okay 👍
@ you described it not me but from what you described you cannot let them play you like that. Let them know that you’re in control. Just trying to help.
Cheer up mate ❤
im all good now 😁 cheers!
I hope all gets better for you :)
Thank you for your kind words 👍 just trying to help other men that maybe struggling with life in Pattaya, I see alot worse than me every day
They are bar girls...hate the game not the players
The game is fun, unless you’re a $imp … 🥳
i've rarely ever had a good time on soi 6. lacking soul, bill being padded, end up spending most of the time in conversation with the bar managers instead of cuddling with the girls, girls don't cuddle etc,.
yea ive had better nights drinking with managers & farangs in soi 6 😁👍
From alpha omega ! Great video mate
thanks for watching! 😁👍
I'm just out of a divorce and moving to Pattaya for 6 months. I'm not going to go to the bar much at all (I don't drink). My plan is just to lift weights, maybe do some muay thai, and just get in better health. Maybe meet some night friends from TF... but not from bars
nice! 👍 best wishes mate 😁
alpha and omega. The beginning and the end
thanks for watching 😁👍
You can’t stay off it ! You’re. On holiday !
Get back on. It with a vengeance !,🍻
I’m back in Pattaya 14 January. Be hitting Soi 6 a couple of times !
It will. Get better mate , stick at it ,
👍🇹🇭😎
im not on holiday I live here, ive had a drinking problem for a long time but im aware of it but sometimes make a poor decision to drink too much, enjoy your time when youre back out here! 🥳
@@MataiosWorldPattayaCityMate, that’s GREAT that you are man enough to admit so publicly that you have a drinking problem, and you clearly are trying to address it. I am also an Aussie, that had enough of the fat lazy money focused woman in Australia, that came with 2-3 kids etc, and even more mental and emotional first world issues. I am 54 now, and was just holidaying in Thailand 1-2 months per year for about 4 years from 2012, then moved there full time in about 2016. And have done all of the usual things that a single man would do there, in relation to bars. NEVER intended to have a permanent girl, and also worked offshore for at least 6 months per year. I left Aus due to money issues, I had 4 properties there basically neutrally balanced, then one of them, in a mining town, went REALLY bad…$$$$ and I was effectively forced to sell them all over the next 3 years, and declare bankruptcy with about $450,000 owing…. I’ve gotten out of it all now, and live in Bangkok, with a Thai wife, and her son…. And yes, I did meet her in soi 6, and it’s 5 years together now, and still going well….. so it can actually work out, but Pattaya is a huge money exchange…..from you to them….
Hay bro,
The night wish situation aside(that’s just ridiculous)
I’m reading between the lines here but it sounds like you are competing against 2 week millionaires on a limited budget.
Maybe stick to jomtien or dark side expat places.
Less of a rush to fleece you and will be a slower pace.
cheers for the advice 😁👍
Bro, if you don’t get your act together, mentally you’re gonna be on the streets and that’s not a joke bro you need to pick yourself up. Looks like a lot of alcohol. A lot of women that’s not good combination. I mean I’m not gonna comment on your life. I’m not gonna get involved but from what I can see if I could try to help you I would love to, but this is not a road that I would ever travel upon
cheers for the advice 👍 I dont drink every day like I was thats already progress
5 minute boom boom 8 thousand baht omg
Wake up people.its a business the money game .u will lose everytime here 😢😢😢
2k baht max
cheers for the advice 😁👍
Don't leave the game, just change the way you play. Try something completely opposite from the usual. Go to Soi 6, drink only water, be nice, and buy lady drinks on your own accord. Even if nothing happens, you still have some dignity, not that you don't right now.
Nice?!😂😂 You've never been, obviously.
thats an interesting way to look at it, I guess it can make for an interesting experience I can bring to my channel 😆
thank god i dont drink and only smoke weed
I couldnt do that out here it scares me I think I would pass out somewhere 😆
Dude, just play the game back at them. It's just one big hustle and YOU have many, many more options then they do.
yea youre right! it just shouldnt be such a headache every single time, oh well just gota play the game better 👍
Be careful because you might end up in Soi 9 jail, same as me. Try to reduce the drinking mate.
soi 9 jail? sorry Ive never heard of it & yes I am aware of my drinking ive stopped drinking every day like I was
@MataiosWorldPattayaCity Pattaya jail is on Beach Road, corner of soi 9. It's no walk in the park if you get arrested!
Seems like the black dog of reality setting in Going to Pattaya vs living their permanently a diffrent animal bruz.
yea man I guess so 👍
I think you should watch this video before you head out and repeat the insanity, it might give you reason to rethink your decision.
Poor farmer Isaan families send their girls to Pattaya and the tourist traps to earn money for the family.A lot already have children themselves.
Absolutely, sad situation for the girls I know
So what do you do for income?
You know yourself you need to seek out like minded to move on with something that provides some sort of fulfilment.
Obviously voicing what you have shows you've actually identified your weaknesses to a degree and you know you are the only one who can make changes.
I think your seeking deeper values to build upon? I might be wrong but it sounds much like that.
Have a look around other parts, not the main attractions, you might just come into a conversation with better more down to earth people to begin something else.
All foreigners in other countries are viewed as $ and nothing more. They thrive off of other demise.
Anyway, I'm sure after more soul searching you'll get to where you should be.
cheers for your advice its greatly appreciated 😁👍 I have created my own streams of income I am now working on YT to be the next one, I understand it is better in rural areas but it can be tougher as it can be boring & less english is spoken, i am comfortable in Pattaya, Bangkok scares me & Phuket is worse
You dont know Howe to play The game learn The rules ... Alkohol girls and money take your mind If you dont play right If you dont learn joining Pattaya Air forces is too easy😬. 👍👍
cheers for advice 👍
Situation in so many Western countries continues to deteriorate, it seems that greed in the first world countries is out of control, and peoples attitudes are shit. It's tough to deal with in the U.S..
Yes its a sad world we live in now where people are leaving there home countries for the hope of a better life but poorer countries want to take advantage anyway 🤷♂️💵
Las Vegas is cheaper 😂
nice 👍
It’s Pattaya bud party & sex capital & everything in between keep it to once a week and you’ll feel better hard to do I know but you can do it plenty of hobbies you can do to keep yourself busy
If you follow others programs then expect to be mistreated
If they're not following your program and rules then you wont get good out of the situations
The idea of wanting lady company then paying for it and losing it is a false pursuit
This is why you describe it as an unwinnable game, because you're not in control of anything
You cant be tired of the games because you're the one turning up to play their game
Therefore you want to be part of their game
cheers for the advice 😁👍
I remember the good old days (pre-covid) where every bar on soi 6 had the same price when it came to the girls. I believe they all have even had the same room fee. Are those Nightwish idiots responsible for screwing that up as well? That was crazy to hear you say that at certain bars, it will take 10 drinks before you're eligible to take a chick upstairs. Way too much competition and options in Pattaya for any bar to have rules like that. However, these bars are only getting away with it, based on the clientel's willingness to pay for it. If a dude doesn't like the rule and pays for the 10 drinks anyway, then he has no right to complain. He is contributing to the problem. Need more guys to do like you did and just walk out, but most will be too wasted and horny to walk out and leave.
was never here before CV but this rule is now in nightwish bars that are all run by mamasans now, i had much better experiences last year with all the managers from overseas & this is to barfine going upstairs is fine, which is what i did. hit it & left
Dude, you chose to go to girly bars. What do you expect? Grow up, bro. Boo hoo.
cheers for the advice 😁👍