@Waldel Martell You right, in quarantine learn would be so hard for me. But my mom is paying a personal teacher and the subjects has never been so easy, i love how my teacher teach me, she made everything looks interesting. Sorry about my English, i'm nor fluent :(
My parents are both teachers and they can’t even guide me on studying that’s why I’m trying hard to do the “self study” and It’s hard. It’s hard because our school is really advance in terms of lessons/topics. Mom and Dad are always busy making modules for the students but I’m not complaining about it. I told myself that I’ll just understand them. After all my mom helping me in financial things. ✨Except for dad he never actually cares about me✨
I always told myself chemistry wasnt for me, never fit me the way schools taught it. I had a major life change that made me chage my major to biology, and I had to pass a placement test to get in the program. I bought a digital course for 25 bucks and taught myself 3 semesters of chemistry in 1 month. I will never see anything the same. I passed the test 29/30 and I am now teaching myself physics and stats. It's amazing that I taught myself in one month what I couldnt learn in my lifetime.
@@fitnessabdul6811 it was mathtutordvd chemistry course. I def recommend it. It breaks everything down and explains it in a way that’s understandable. I’m now doing their physics and stats courses before the spring semester
just left my online classes cause i feel exhausted with my grades and im so so scared with the teachers and found myself listening to this is just giving me a lot of hope
Quarantine taught me that health is more important than education (namely mental health). Without it, we won't be able to score well. Conversely, with good health, studying becomes easy. Now that I think about it, we might be the first to gain the opportunity to think about life at an early age, without the constant distraction of schools. With that said, take quarantine as an opportunity. I rather spend time living the new life than try to revert and maintain the old.
I was homeschooled... I was always determined to do better every year, to apply myself and form better habits. But then I'd end up on the couch pretending to "read" history (a subject I would theoretically enjoy) while falling asleep and skimming just enough to ace the tests. What's my excuse? The textbooks were so dry. You're talking about history, a record of real people who lived and made an impact of the world and did amazing things. And what do you want me to learn? The dates and places. UGH. Dates and places have a reason, but not at the expense of understanding the historical events themselves.
@Indigo Rodent Yeah, I know, but you'd think they'd make it more interesting. I'm quite sure they could. Although yes, dates are important for refence, context is also important. I think we could also do with studying more original source material like ACTUALLY reading parts of letters and treatises written by our founding fathers. History has frankly become social studies... and it's not the same thing
thats why i really respect my history teacher. he doesnt make us learn dates cuz thats boring!! he lets us understand the history through class discutions, reading old documents, letting us choose the way he'll grade us and more. he really makes us understand the concepts and sometimes we have to act like the people from the history books and recreate it. he leaves room for creativity and even though im terrible at history his classes still inspire me to learn more. i mean my best grades come from his classes (literally got an A+ and an A- the last 2 years)
@@jiminjams52 Same! I had such a great teacher that encouraged creativity and discourse. He never demanded we memorize anything, just to understand it. It always encouraged me to actually go the extra mile and look more into it myself if I was every curious
I love history but this year I lost my motivation for it because it was so dry and uninteresting. I heard we were doing WW1 and got really excited and assumed my history teacher would be as good as the last one I had :/
True wow. What if instead of school we would spend our time experiencing new things. Go fishing with your family. Visit new places. Discover what you love and what interests you... damn
Honestly, idk why we are pretending this is a woke discussion. Before kids were in school, they were doing labor and working jobs (you would know this if you payed attention lol). I think the school system could use some changes, but I am not here for raising a generation of academically limited kids because school is "boring or hard". You should learn how to read and write, and more while young. And you should learn the practical skills like self discipline, time management, and learning about yourself in school. Yes, kids should also be playing and exploring but why not do both?
Summary: Solution/s - Do it yourself. Self-educate. Do new stuff yourself without constricted by some higher voice. View laborious tasks at school as character building.
School is literally gaslighting me into thinking i am stupid when I know i'm not. (Update: I got diagnosed with ADHD today. Maybe it was the disorder gaslighting me then. It's no wonder I hate school LOL!!!)
@@edawn7615 The problem with Math and why a lot of people find it difficult is because it's a step by step process. Mathematics as a whole is HUGE and very complex. But anything that is complex is made out of simple parts. And the problem is, most people in school miss a critical step, because they actually physically miss a day of school and never catch up, and/or they don't have time to formally practice and solidify the concept in their minds. The key is at first learning critically, then understanding it intuitively. You can't do Calculus if you don't know how fractions work, or you don't know algebra.
University killed my curiosity. I'm a 3rd year engineer and only working hard to get good grades. I really don't care anymore and can't quite figure out how to get my inspiration and passion back.
Same here! My professors and especially their assistance killed my passion for electrical engineering for not wanting for me to be creative on most of my projects sigh
Same. I remember when I was 11 and I used to actually have an interest for learning. But now, at 15, I’ve lost all motivation and I really couldn’t care less. I assume this will increase as I go to colleges and university unless I get good teachers
man that's so true! i just can't get myself to study the way i used to. engg is way tooo boring rn and trust me eveyday i ask myself the same questions if i'm doing right or not. :(
@@taigaramsey8061 Yeah as someone with a similar perspective as the video maker, I could see myself being a teacher and actually caring about real learning and teaching, but then I see that the current education system doesn't really allow for real teaching/learning. I recommend the book "Dumbing us Down" by John Taylor Gatto. He won teacher of the year in the state of New York for 2 years and he talks about how our education system is kinda bullshit. He encouraged his students to work in their on projects outside of the normal curriculum, and he saw how kids already had their own gifts and genius characteristics that werent really being addressed and grown. We need an entirely different system of schooling. Although, I did have 1 or 2 really good teachers in elementary and highschool. Only 1 or 2 out of 30 lol.
@@taigaramsey8061 If you look deep enough you will realize how American schools have been turned into indoctrination centers on purpose, and are meant to dumb us down and make us compliant. Our whole system of society is controlled in a negative manner by the ruling elite.
You know, people always say, “Oh, you’re just smart and talented,” or, “It’s natural skill, I could never be as smart as you,” just because I get straight A’s, just because I work so hard to be the best version of myself. But I think nobody realizes how much of a pain it is, and how sad of a fact it is that I’m not really learning anything, because all I do is work for the grade, never for my interest of learning. Get a bad grade? Oh, they say it’s your fault, that you’re not enough. So we are in a sense brainwashed to get good grades, because that “defines” us for what they say is the rest of our lives. This is our school system, this is their influence, this our reality...let that sink in.
same thing with drawings or things like that: they say you must be born to do it, you must be talented. but saying like this to someone you're putting limits on yourself making you believe that you can't do it, but you're also limiting others making them believe that. we, the society, are all making and putting limiting beliefs on ourselves while everyone can do anything.
"But I think nobody realizes how much of a pain it is" Yes they do... That's why they don't get straight A's, themselves... They aren't masochists, they don't enjoy torturing themselves. :P You might be thinking "I'm not a masochist", but the fact that you exposed yourself to so much self-torture means you must like it, or that the pain doesn't bother you as much as the success rewards you, in which case, you're clearly exaggerating your suffering... There are no other alternatives. xD EDIT: FYI, i never fell for the whole grade system and educational expectations... I tried, but it wasn't rewarding, so i stopped, immediately.. Since then i half-assed school with perfectly average grades, i prioritized comfort and mental health over grades. :P
@@MyouKyuubi And thats what i am realising now. For 6 straight years, i studied so hard a month before exams that i ended up weakening my physical health and diet patterns. I was metally unsatisfied with everything, no sort of curiousity. Felt like my parents enjoyed seeing me being a labour to grades. It was a brainwashing pill, forcefully dissolved deep in my unconscious by school and parents. And after i got the first position in class, it wasa feeling of emptiness. Studied almost 12 hours a day whole month, for being rewarded with a fake smile and appreciation. Didn't even get any money for buying books i was interested in. I have realised this now, and will no longer be a slave to false ambitions. Thank you all for awaring me!
As a medical student, i always get into a major burnout throughout the school year. The only time i can get my motivation back is when i take electives in the medical fields i’m interested in during the break.
Relatable. I remembered during premed days that despite my art appreciation class being scheduled on my most busiest day of the week I still took it and I was actually excited for that day. I was kinda sad that I wasn't as enthusiastic with my major subjects and I hated that since it wasn't my major's fault that I was feeling that way towards it, but still it is sad that learning is kinda about passing a subj. rather than actually learning it.
I'm a second year medical student i can relate.I'm always tired and burned out.When i'm at an intership,or surgery class(my fav class) i truly enjoy,but when i go home to study,i have zero motivation.
I learned english reading romance books that I liked, watching english subbed dramas and games because older ones weren't translated to spanish, even in high school we were still learning basic 3rd year english
I'm Spanish myself and I can tell the education system here is trash too. I'm sixteen and we're still learning past simple and present continuous and pretty basic vocabulary. They start teaching us english when we're three and still most of people don't understand anything, only the ones that go to private classes and stuff. It wasn't until I was eleven that I began to understand better english because I got my first phone and I would look up the lyrics of the songs I liked , watch cartoons they got tired of translating here , playing video games that didn't have the "select Spanish" option , I mean , for once I understood that learning english was useful for me and I ended up teaching myself (I still have a lot more to learn obviously) I always pass with god grades my english tests because???? I choose the answers that just sound right??? But If i wasn't interested in any of the things that were worth learning for, i still wouldn't be able to tell the difference between "too" and "to"
@@ludogutori6730 Same here,every year we study the basic,like verb to be and simple past but nobody really learn something.I also learned a little of english by myself listening to songs and watching some things,school is so boring and demotivating :(
There is nothing sadder than losing the joy of learning and losing curiosity. I’ve been there and I had to drop out of college years ago. I truly lost myself due to depression and mental health. I want what I lost and I know it’s possible to get it back. Randomly coming across your video has inspired me. You’re doing a great thing and I know you are helping many people. Much love.
Dude, this is exactly how I feel! In college, I have to remember myself all the time that learning is not that "do this massive amount of homework" or "get better grades even if some of your teachers are a pain on the ass". Really, it irritates me so much how people cannot see that THIS IS NOT WORKING, we're just becoming more stressed and depressed people.
Exactly!!! We've got so much work to do and I feel like I'm constantly drowning... I'm in a language pathway in France and we have 13 subjects per semester yet the teachers are expecting us to know EVERYTHING wow.... Just let us breathe for a minute ffs. I feel like my entire self-worth is based on grades and I'm struggling a lot because I don't want to associate my passion of learning languages with GRADES.
@@JulieChanDoitsu Yeah, it's a shame that we need to fit temporarily on this failed system... I'm kinda trapped on these "grades thing" cause I really need to maintain my discount on the university... but I really think we need to amplify this topic, maybe in the near future, this situation could change... Until there I wish you the best on this part of your journey! Just remember to refresh how good it is to REALLY learn things sometimes!
Actually i was so stressed bc of this system and i may commit suicide bc my parents puts me in pressure just bc i got 79% of one subject,and i was failing bc of my parents verbal threats bc of that my only way out of my anxiety is by being my self just resting my mind without getting commanded by my parents and i was just watching yt on my phone and got to be ordered again bc of this i may disapear in this world i have a small deppresion but i cant blame myself bc of the trash school system that the government gave us and the government dint explained what to do in that worksheet only to findout that the teachers dont even know how to do that Life sucks schools are just the way u get out of your time as a youth and by the time u finished school u get a job and after 1 or 2 decades of work maybe u get married and may have family and retired after all of that u only spend the rest of your time on your family and get bedridden bc of old age and we die,bc of this we may regret being born or regret being not with your family all the time u spend with the youth and the time u have a job and getting new friend all the time u got to spend for your own family will only be a memory by those who know u Stay safe and remember to be happy remember to enjoy life the years u have left in your life time Well then.....
@@angeloiturriaga1327 hey dude! I was going to say "how are u", but I think your messages explains a lot. Look, I totally understand that it sucks to lose your time with things that might be useful in the future or not. you don't know if it is a total waste, or if it might be important in some moment in your life. Before I continue, how old are u man?
@@angeloiturriaga1327 look, I think that it might be a good start trying to explain how you're feeling to your parents. Like, really: tell them you're not standing all this pressure anymore. I don't think they'll do "nothing", but if this was the case, then bro: you have to stay strong for yourself. You don't need to be on the top of the professions list to be happy, or to live a decent and happy life. I'm talking about this because basically all these years in school, then in college are the way for you to get a job, and to receive some money. Some people do it because they want more of it, even if they're searching for their "dream job" or their "passion". So think about it: what you're searching for? couldn't you be happy in a "regular job"? without all these worries about grades and stuff?
I enjoyed reading as a young kid but when I got to high school I started to enjoy it less and less. It became negatively associated with schoolwork and also I would always choose to watch a show instead. Reading is actually a skill that I think I lost over time. Obviously I can read but reading a book and retaining the contents isn’t something I practiced for a long time outside of school. Reading a book puts me to sleep really quickly. Despite all of this I want to start reading more books that I choose instead of just college textbooks.
@@xKawaiiMikuChanx Actually I made it a routine to read before bed every night and the more I do it the less sleepy I get from reading. It could also be that I’m getting more into the book series I’m reading. I still take Melatonin because otherwise it would just take too long for me to fall asleep at night. I’m sleepiest during the day and in the morning right after I wake up.
exact same thing happened to me. good to hear that it's improving for you though! hopefully anyone else who lost their love of reading can also regain their interest :)
I exactly have the same problem. I used to enjoy reading, but then my teachers/parents forced me to regurgitate books with boring topics or some that didn't get my interest. Now I dont even want to open one single book ever
here is "what to do" → 12:55 "How develop mental capacity to face catastrophes ?" stood with me "How to Self Study?" stood How to fall in love with life? they didn't teach us. He gave solutions too NOT just talk. This is timeless!
I have adhd and it was really nice to hear someone talk about how much suffering being under pressure of your whole life being attached to what grade you have
before high school, i was so thrilled that physics finally made into the curriculum i had already studied part of the subject during vacation and i loved it... but then the teacher was a piece of garbage. He would always ignore me with a smile on his face, one time he asked something to the class I WAS THE ONLY ONE THAT RAISED MY HAND he looked at me in the eyes and said something like: well if no one knows the answer lemme tell ya ARG I HATE HIM. It was clear that he liked just ONE of his students, every time he asked something only they could answer he would ignore the rest. Since then my joy for physics is nowhere to be seen
It is the same case as mine. I easily feel extremely discouraged whenever I am really interested with the subject but the professor ignores or completely neglects it, rather, they pay more attention to other people that are already knowledgeable and good with the subject. We, who wanted to learn more tend to be ignored while those who already get it, tend to be noticed. It's just..... depressing
Listen, don't base how you feel on what one person, out of 8 billion, has treated you. If you like it, check out better teachers. Walter Lewin on youtube is awesome. Audit a class.
Everyone needs to listen to this video instead of wasting numerous hours playing video games and watching series on Netflix, people always want the easy way to get things, a very few would sacrifice time for learing I appreciate your thinking and ideas Robin, you have a beautiful mind!!
I, too, agree with you. Many people I know whine when I tell them that I’m studying instead of hanging out with them. They tease that they are screwed I’d someone smart like me is studying (their words, not mine). Yet when I recommend that they study, they complain that they are too lazy. Truly sad.
This is the most capitalist bs comment ever. I used to enjoy learning new things but sometimes you burn out and your mental health really dies out which can cause you to procrastinate. Maybe instead of shamming those people who are already at a tipping edge maybe offer some actual helpful advise?😕 Stg you neurotypicals lack basic empathy sometimes
@@lordeselenite7538 For me personally , the lost of interest in learning make me want to escape more. Like playing videogame because it easier to do so.
I just lost all interest in it. School made it so exhausting and boring for me. Also there's people that, the educational system just isn't for them. People with real conditions that make school so much harder for them. It is really ignorant saying that people are just "lazy". Maybe some people enjoy studying but others might not. Not everyone is the same
For those that get anxious every time he says “be responsible”. An idea that helps me is how “doing things that give you purpose counteracts things that take it away.” So, if you feel pressured by the idea of taking responsibility, know that doing these fulfilling things for yourself can help ease the suffering/stress from school or work.
It took me a year to find you but but i love learning english while listening to people who have something to say and say it in such a way that you end up not only learning english but something more. Greeting from Colombia
God I wished that your channel existed while I was in highschool and university. Despite loving a lot of the ideas and things I was learning, I ended up dropping out of my Bachelor of Arts (Politics/Literature) because I was so damn depressed and anxious. All the joy got overtaken by the bad feelings.
I remember wanting to make a pattern of patterns at 5 years old when the assignment was to string beads- the teacher came by and tore mine up because rather than ask, she assumed I was doing it wrong- no. I was trying to do it better than the 19 other kids I saw around me (as competition, and rightly so.)
honestly this reminds me of how I miss being a child just because I i used my imagination a lot especially having to learn on my own which was fun and also I agree witht he comment reply section
I used to be passionate about technology and astrophysics, to the point I sneaked on my mom’s office and stayed up all night just trying to understand this little piece of info I was missing. It felt amazing when I finally figured it out and even more so when I reached that conclusion on my own. I NEVER did well at school, I didn’t care. Yet still I aced most tests and that was the only thing that stopped my teachers from kicking me out. I never understood why they made such a fuss out of a number that clearly didn’t reflected my performance, but yeah, “rules”. I wish I could say the same about nowadays, but I can’t even remember my own birthday, I’m really slow to understand everything, and my creativity is just dead. And my curiosity? It’s still there, but there’s not much of a drive to satisfy it and that has made me depressed. I seriously feel like I was much smarter when I was little than I am right now, and that really discourages me from learning more. I’m working hard to overcome it, but it still feels like I grow dumber by the day.
You remind me of Henry Winter-dark haired, with cute glasses, and a genius mind unimpressed with the traditional education system. I love your channel, please keep making videos! (And stay away from dumb blondes named Edmund.)
@@nicolediaz3688 Oh Secret History by Donna Tart right? I wish to read that book but in my country the price is wayy to much and due to Covid I don't know if my library has it. Hopefully the price will come down as Covid will be tamed and maybe prices would come down
"In case you've forgotten, here's how things work. I order the food, you cook the food, and the customer _gets_ the food. We do that for fourty years, and then we die. Sounds like a pretty good deal to me, what do you say?" -Squidward Tentacles
Another reason why learning isn’t as fun is because we were taught from a young age that getting things wrong or getting the wrong answer is a bad thing and regresses your progress. Which is totally not true if you acknowledge and learn from mistakes. Perfection is just not a humane expectation and it deteriorates our other human qualities like passion and curiosity. We learn more from making mistakes and fixing them in the process versus constraining ourselves to do things a certain way in order to fit a certain standard.
Ah yes, where failure is often discouraged. Failure is the best teacher since it will give you hard reminder of it. Yeah, some failure should be avoided at all cost that result death of other people... But in general, it should be fine to fail once and learn from it (and sometimes learn from other's failure too).
Note: Ever since I made this comment, I have come to a slightly better place in life now and I must say I am not as unstable as I was before. But the battle's not over yet and there is still a lot to do. However, I shall take my time with it. -------++++--+----------- **Original Comment** This ended up making me cry. I ended up learning science and microbiology but in reality I was never into it with passion. I didn't pursue it further and then entered the education field. But again, it's not something I am passionate about. I know that with time and effort, we can give birth to new interests and do things but I just didn't find my passion with anything that I did so far. Why did I do it then? Because I had no idea what I actually wanted to do. Then a family member got me into coding and I am learning it but again I am detached from it. Everything that I did or doing is turning out to be sort of bland or just not my cup of tea. Coding isn't bad but I am not looking forward to doing it everyday. I do like the idea of making a game though and just thinking about it that way, I decided to give it a try. My detachment from things probably has to do with my mental state but since I am no doctor, I cannot say. I just know that everything feels stale. I don't wanna be curious or learn or get grades or do anything. I dunno why I have turned out like this. I hate the way I am now. I am just being super lazy, pessimistic and none of that going to make me take responsibility for myself. People might matter to me but I never mattered to myself or maybe I have just decided that I shouldn't matter because I am not worth my respect or patience or effort. When did I and why do I hate myself this way? I have no idea. But when you said at the end, that if the joy of learning doesn't matter to me then it could be end of the discussion - something overwhelmed me. I don't know why things don't matter to me anymore. I feel like one day people won't matter to me too. When you said to take the responsibility to learn, read and more, it made me think about the times I downloaded books on my phone but avoided reading them , thinking it was a "hassle". Even though, I downloaded them because I wanted to read them, I didn't open them and they are just there, taking up space in my phone. I have hard copies too but that feels bothersome too. Why are things bothersome to me? Why are they no longer interesting for me? I cannot tell. The shows I watched or the activities I did, none of them seem interesting to me anymore. I have decided to stop learning as well but doing a job also makes crazy with anxiety. None of this is anyone's fault. I shouldn't be dumping all this on a public forum but I cannot help it. I have two exams tomorrow and the day after but I couldn't bring myself to open my book and just read anything. Tomorrow, I will panic with the syllabus and maybe start studying in the evening, even though I should be doing in the morning. I dunno. Why am I like this? Why am I not worthy of my own respect and love. Why is it so much work to look after myself? I don't know. I didn't mean to whine. I'll probably even get comments saying to stop whining and I should stop whining but something about this video just made me feel so full of emotions that I couldn't control. Thank you for your video. The mess I am in is probably hard to clean and I swear to god I am not here for sympathy of any kind. I'll give it my all to be curious again. To be responsible again. I don't think I'll succeed but I wanna try. I will give it a try. I am scared but I will try. Thank you.
Perhaps I'll muse on this and find a better way to advise you. If I never do, I just want you to know, one stranger to another, that I respect you. I respect you and your self awareness. Time will inevitably change you, and may very well take you to where you want to be at some point. It's annoyingly difficult to avoid clichés when I'm being honest, but to achieve anything in life you can only *try.* I believe that someone who cares as much as you do will take to that journey well, though you may not even realize it. Maybe the nature of progress is feeling unsatisfied to some degree. Maybe you're already halfway to where you want to be. Sorry for going on like this. I empathize strongly with you because I'm in a similar situation.
@@lucasmckenzie8525 I didn't think people would even read this because I tend to write a lot. Thank you for taking your time to read and for empathising with me. I have been holding onto a small hope that trying will get me somewhere but without a goal or destination, I am just walking a road with no location in sight. But I think I'll keep walking it and pause whenever I am tired. Somehow and somewhere, I will find a place for myself.
@@CindyWarren2004 First off, thank you for reading all of this. I never thought someone would read this essay of a comment and that's also why I decided to post it. It won't get too much attention and won't get too many replies. But then again, I am happy to see your reply. I have tried writing but then I ended up deleting everything because I was too critical of myself. I am trying to get back into it but my English isn't the best so it'll take a while.
I relate to this a lot. It is a large burden that all of us want to be removed, the *anxiety*. For me, the best antidote is reading other's stories about it. The thought of 'you are not alone' really helps. Love Nala, you did not make any mistakes along your way. Your state of life now just the present, so we must accept that. I'll be rooting for you, so try to be your best for us (people who face the same situation as you)
man, so glad I've discovered your channel. your type of thinking is rare. Just wanted to ask, how do you approach time management when you have so many interests? More specifically, say you have 3 hours of free time. how do you decide what to fill it up with?
I will deliberately allocate those free time to do those things that offer the most delight. Intentionality is important; the default tendency is for us to fall for the easiest ways of entertainment that don't really relax nor content us. Maybe, instead of drowning in hours of UA-cam binging, I could devote an hour to hone my skill of writing: as it both delights me and gives me a sense of calm. Or more passively, I could also choose to pick up a great classic along with a cup of hot beverage to waste the night away. See, it's about developing an acquired taste for subtle ways of relaxation. Most "immediate" means of relaxation don't actually relax us, it is only through clarifying: "What is my own unique taste?" can we really find something that both satisfy us and gives us contentment during our idle hours. Hope it helped :)
@@RCWaldun I find you very aspiring and genuinely wanted to ask you...when you want to pick up a completely new hoby, one that you've never had anything to do with, how do you find the right sources to learn and go in-depth with it, for all you know you might be teaching yourself completely useless things...so how do you know where to start, how to choose the hobi in the first place and how to keep yourself interested while learning about something you know nothing about?
@@anniem5473 I might have an idea. I'm really passionate about self learning and was, even before I even clicked on this video. When I did, I found myself agreeing with everything he's saying. I'm in my senior year of high school. In our modern age, we have all the resources we need. I think the key components are: *1* ) Videos, Google, and Wikipedia *-* On the surface, Google and Wiki don't seem very credible, but they're amazing tools. In order to pursue a topic you want to learn, you need to learn what questions to ask first. Videos can provide AT LEAST the very basics in an easy to understand form. From there, you can get an idea on what resources you need to continue learning. Also, using google, you can ask very specific questions in order to get an answer, one you know to ask them. *2* ) Dedicated websites *-* I'm very passionate about learning other languages, and I have a very effective system in place just by searching up "How to learn Japanese" on google. I found a dedicated website with amazing insight and suggested resources. I used this, and my other knowledge I gained from UA-cam to find: 1: An app with around 6000 Japanese Kanji(pictographs), how to draw and pronounce them, their uses in vocabulary words, and more. 2: A place to learn grammar, and 3: An app called AnkiDroid which uses science (spaced repetition) to create my own decks to memorize every single one of those Kanji. (I'm learning 15 per day and will know ~5400 in a year.) *3* )Books *-* Books are a one-on-one teaching session of their own with insights from the author, personally. Invaluable. *4* )Community *-* Communities of like minded people drive us and answer our questions from simple interaction. I've found many dedicated UA-cam channels of polyglots (people who have learned multiple languages) and I have learned so much about how to learn them, and they're super entertaining. (look up Laoshu5500, or Ikkenna) There is a community for everything, and you don't even have to interact with it in order to learn. Simply observing what people are saying will push you forward.
@@etherealstars5766 Thats a good advice. However, theres a problem that bothers me. When I study on a certain topic, i just try gathering knowledge from many sources although i know i should stick to just one. You end up getting confused and a bit demotivated when learning from different sources at once. And when i stick to one source, it gets a bit boring. So, maybe to end that, choose the best source you can find after researching a lot and then, stick to it. I will try this method out and see, how it goes.
@@anniem5473 a college library is a fantastic place to find new things you’re interested in. I used to go to the one near me all the time as a teenager. You browse the shelves until you see a (nonfiction) book that seems kind of interesting. You flip through it and if it still seems interesting, put it in your growing stack of books. Keep going until you have a stack of like 10 books. Take these over to a reading area and just sit down and read. Check the table of contents for the most interesting sections, and go more in depth on stuff that really interests you. Keep a written list of books you want to come back to, or of subjects you want to know more about. Bring that list with you every time you go to the library. And don’t feel obligated to read anything that bores you!
School has always been a huge part of my personal identity and realizing that good grades doesn't equal intelligence was one of the biggest and toughest realizations I've had in my life. I've only recently re-discovered learning and I'm glad I found your channel just in the right timing for it. Thanks for everything.
I wanna be an OS developer, a writer, a musician, a painter, a game player, a fitness body builder and diet. How do I choose from so many things that I like.
Easy, you can mix many of those together. A writer can write about music, painting, games, and fitness. Body building and diet will be easier to manage, since one is a meal and the other is an activity. Meaning you aren't able to spend excessive time on exercise since you will fatigue eventually. Therefore leaving enough time for Developing, game playing, and music which you can adjust to your schedule. You don't always need to fit all of them in one day. To maintain interest you can work on one every other day
Many people like to dismiss it, but this one seminar class I'm taking has taught me alot. Even if it's bits and pieces, I can say I've learned from it.
OMG I needed this so. Bad. I’m a junior in high school and school plus the pandemic is just chipping away at my spirit and I felt to relieved to hear someone who recognizes what’s happening in our education. And not just when students are like “ugh we don’t even use algebra, why don’t we learn how to do taxes,” I think you went in on such a deeper level. My parents have actually commented that I used to love school and now I’m dragging my feet and fall into a depression sometimes because I feel such a lack of purpose that would normally be filled by truly learning something. I miss that feeling. I don’t even care about being a genius, I just don’t want to be incapable of original thoughts; I’m not saying I want to burn with passion for something, but I want to look at the thing I’m doing and like it. Thank you for saying that it’s not okay to like what we’re doing in school (at least that’s what I took away). I can’t make any promises but I’m gonna try to put room in my day to read and do something I care about. LMFAO that’s like way too deep and personal for UA-cam but idc. Thank you.
I remember when I use to ask so many questions, and was so talkative and open and happy, happy with learning, happy with everything. But now all that is gone and I don't even know what I want to be, I lost all my childhood hopes and dreams and I just can't keep up, school honestly ruined my life in that way.... but I'm hoping I can regain that side of me, I know it's hidden somewhere deep deep deep deep inside
@@nox9749 I'm so sorry to hear that. I know how you feel. I hope things get better, but if you're ever feeling bummed on school just remember that the system isn't meant to make you happy. Unfortunately that's something we have to be responsible for ourselves, which is hard, but that's the way stuff is. keep on goin
this video is everything, I’d give anything for any sort of change in this ‘system’ we’re all in. it’s pretty demoralising whenever I think about how excited I am to graduate, only to realise how I’m excited over joining this rat race for... pretty much the rest of my life. A direct solution might never be discovered or implemented but... self-learning and staying curious is definitely a good start ☺️ I hope everyone (and Waldun!) reading this stays open minded and hopeful, you are in the system, not a part of it! 🍀
you have one of the most important qualities of a leader which is finding the solution with the problem. and it makes me honestly proud. i also appreciate how you made the video with no cuts but was able to explain what we feel about the system. and thats so big brain lol. but thank you for making the video and thank you for being a leader.
I'm very happy that UA-cam decided to give me the chance of watching this video and encountering your channel. It's been a while since I felt just as you said - frustrated, stressed out and without any joy in gaining knowledge. I will try to do my best, I will try to stop gaming so much and binge watching UA-cam, however this time doing it, I actually learned something. Thank you a lot. I feel like a new person, I regained hope to press on.
My parents just shouted at me for having no motivation for school which resulted in me getting an 8.5. This just popped up in my recommendations, thanks.
Really, you're helping me so much coping with my anxiety and all the other consequences that my ED implies. I try to stick to what you say and be the better version of myself by dedicating some time to my passions everyday, while continuing to study literature at the university. Thank you so much, you're an inspiration!
I'm glad that all this years of school have not been wasted. I have UA-cam and I've learned a lot more useful things for my life than what I've learned at school. UA-cam has done so much for our education in life than what we realize. At least in my case.. 1-Psychology 2- relationships 3 - English practice (or any other language) 4 - photography 5 - illustrations 6 - finances 7 - sexual orientation 8 - proper pet care And of course, all the AMAZING people (youtubers) out there with amazing content obviously. Thank you :)
You speak my mind. I feel as though I have always known what you have been saying but having someone say it in an organised fashion is just something else. Love from London :)
Yep, learning is not fun anymore. Here in our country the education system is really crucial. We're not learning anything yet the teachers have the audacity to tell us that we're lazy. The typhoon had hit our country recently but the officials are still continuing the s.y despite of the condition of our country and its kinda killing every student here.
This is so true, especially in 2020... without any ability to really talk with other people about my interests and learn in some of the non-traditional routes that my college offers, I’ve really lost most of my passion for my major in Economics. I feel like my brain is too tired by the endless striving and so I can’t bring myself to pick up a book on the shelf and really learn something just because I’m interested in. I look at freshman and I’m like omg they’re so eager 😂😂 sad because I miss that eagerness for learning and my natural curiosity. But this really motivated me to pursue my goals because of my passion instead of panicking. I’m tired of the rat race, I just want to learn for myself now.
School for me was horrible. Apart from the stress of needing to score well, the joy and the enthusiasm I had got sucked out. The only moment of happiness I got was alone in the Physics lab with tools or the library surrounded by books. Some moments I felt happy and grateful to have gotten the chance to get an "education" (which is now more of a word than something related to learning OR development). Every time I watched or learnt about pioneers in different feels I was filled with this energy of wanting to do something big. But you have your teachers who say you won't be able to study if you do that, what about your grades? You won't be successful,etc. I want to create. I want to do something big. Each day I struggle to bring back that joy, but I think now I know where to begin.
Thanks, I needed this. I feel like I get so lost in the grind that I forget to think about these things from time to time. Currently in college and still trying to find myself. I'm definitely going to take your advice moving forward. You're awesome man, keep doing what you're doing
Really nice video, almost in the right time. But I have a question, "how can you learn how to learn, when you don't know how to learn?" and do you need to know learning to learn?
Learning how to learn comes with experience. Studying is a skill that needs to be cultivated over time; things like grappling with confusion, knowing what to put into your commonplace book and what not to, developing a conceptual map, knowing how to read a book etc etc. Of course it'd help if you first of all "learn how to learn", but trial and errors also work if you want to figure it out by yourself.
i’ll be going to college next year... it really helps a lot listening to your perception of school and how you manage to keep a good balance in your life. thanks for the vid ! love your content
Hello Robin! I want to ask you whether I can put greek or english subtitles to this amazing video. I'm a high school student from Greece and we are currently installing ethernet in my class. I wanted to show this video during English lesson so that we start an interesting conversation between us. Excuse me for any grammatical errors. Bravo for the enrichened vocabulary, this is a thesaurus 😁
I've been stuck in this cycle of avoiding homework and studies as a whole and it's been eating at me for months because I couldn't pull up the motivation to actually do stuff. Your video is exactly what i needed to hear, seeing someone addressing these problems as they are and presenting a balanced suggestion really helped me a lot. I think I might be able to reach the goals I set for myself today. Thank you.
I am over the moon that I'm not the only one who thinks like this! I see it like I should almost "play the system" and read or watch resources that genuinely interest me by myself. It's upsetting to see my peers do homework like a chore just to get the grade rather than knowing the deeper meaning/theory behind it. Of course this is hard to do when you're not interested in the subject in the first place. I always feel accomplished when I study by myself, but at school I feel very stupid as you're told to say things in a certain way, which is mostly memorising.
I remember when I was taking AP Bio and freshman bio I would do so much self-study because it was really fun to explore these concepts. I had perfect grades because there was a light enough workload that I had the space to spend all this time studying the fun way. Then when I got to classes like cell and molecular bio (as a biochem major) I absolutely hated it because there was so much stuff to memorize and memorization is not fun at all for me. I ended up graduating with degrees in chemistry and physics in the end, but I would say my actual passions didn't develop until after college when I had the space to explore them myself.
While I love the concept of taking responsibility and taking your education in your own hands there are a couple points I'd like to discuss: 1) the Idea that the school system is all about grades seems wrong, like we are approaching grades in reverse. Grades are a tool, not the ultimate goal. They are put in place to give a clear feedback of how well your learning method is performing, for example. the sooner we realize that grades are just a side product of *************, the sooner we will stop stressing out about them 2) about the evergreen anthem of "they teach us useless things at school": while it is true that not everyone will use every single notion we are taught in school, the system is meant to teach you how to tackle abstract problem, how to research, how to analyze data, how to think critically. Once you have those tools you should be able to go about your business and learn everything you deem worthy of you attention my point being, while school can be a terrible system, there are actually useful things in it that we can exploit to pursue our personal goals.
I am at least 20 years your senior, and I must say you are truly an inspiration. The information you share has helped me to realize that I am an autodidact and a polymath, honestly terms I was unaware of until watching your videos. At 40 years old I scored very high percentages on being an introverted intuitive, two more terms I was unaware of, and I have been studying ever since. One hell of a wake-up call, but your information helps me through it. Thank you! Embracing my weirdness. 😊
That's right prioritize your main ideas and sacrifice some other things to still been on the road of learning for yourself. ♥ Take actions and drastic actions ♥ Revive your learning and increment your curiosity ♥
I agree. All I want from my school is knowledge but the marks and gradings always give me a headache, I hate running after marks, they don't decide our future.
This video is amazing! In a few minutes all solutions to the current education problem were stated in a manner that used complex vocabulary while still being understandable to all watching. With obviously a lot of research, Waldun has created a simple solution, without talking around the bush or only judging what has already been done like many educational „experts“ nowadays do. He really is a person, with whom I’d like to have a philosophical discussion someday
I watched some of your videos and I can tell that your mind is so advance at a very young age. I do not know what MBTI - personality type you have but I can sense that you are one of those rarest ones with a higher level of thinking. I'm an INFJ.
Just some days ago I was thinking about how the perception that I have of myself is based on my grades only, which would be the reason why I care about them so much and why college makes me so anxious to the point that I avoid even thinking about it unless is necessary, making me not go in-depth about any subject or really learn anything.
I was SO excited to enter highschool, especially with ending my middle school years as the "valedictorian". 4.0 gpa all the way through. And then they said we wouldn't be going to school because of Covid-19, and that's understandable! But I completely lost all my confidence, and I realized that without being school smart, I was just this blank person with no personality. I was told multiple times by my family that I was super awkward and acted like a robot most of the time. I spent all my time focusing on school that I didn't even enjoy myself. All my friends have inside jokes that I don't understand, I feel blank. Now in Highschool, I'm dumb in school smarts and I have no personality. LOL
How to fix that. Simply force yourself to talk to people. Make a good first impression then observe the people that let you hang with them try to understand how the act and why they act that way. Books can help
I haven’t cared about learning in along time. I’m about to enter college and I’m quite scared of the eventual disinterest of my major since I’m already coding. All I can say is, if I lose interest in coding due to the system, I never had the conviction to go through it.
Technically you're still enthusiastic about learning, whenever you play a videogame and try to understand its mechanic is technically learning so we haven't really lost that natural curiosity that we had before. It's just that it's directed towards something else.
Sometimes it feels like yt is watching me and literally throws the stuff I need to hear at me
Yeah, and I’m not complaining
probably because u looked at similar topics before or because since google is recording your voice while you have a headset or phone or whatever
same lol
Honestly I only finished half my notes for my ap test tmrw
They want to make us better and im not complaining too lol
"The consumption of knowledge without application is distraction."
"If your every action is utilitarian, your life becomes a job."
balance is the key
A balance is needed. I would not want to learn all the physics equation. Fundamental ones are ok.
whenever I go on YT....
school in a nutshell
the way this popped up while i was procrastinating on 20 missing assignments-
Only 20 huh
Same, youtube be in our business
Same literally my grades went to shit 😫
Bruhh same
Same lol
Self-studying is the best education you can give to yourself. No school can't replace that.
@Waldel Martell You right, in quarantine learn would be so hard for me. But my mom is paying a personal teacher and the subjects has never been so easy, i love how my teacher teach me, she made everything looks interesting. Sorry about my English, i'm nor fluent :(
The way I’m finally learning geography after I understood I don’t need to regurgitate it on a paper and then forget about it 💀
i wish but i have adhd 💀 self studying is extremely hard
truly, deeply,madly
My parents are both teachers and they can’t even guide me on studying that’s why I’m trying hard to do the “self study” and It’s hard. It’s hard because our school is really advance in terms of lessons/topics. Mom and Dad are always busy making modules for the students but I’m not complaining about it. I told myself that I’ll just understand them. After all my mom helping me in financial things. ✨Except for dad he never actually cares about me✨
So true. If it wasn’t for self study, I would have lost interest in most of my subjects under the current education system.
same dude same
I always told myself chemistry wasnt for me, never fit me the way schools taught it. I had a major life change that made me chage my major to biology, and I had to pass a placement test to get in the program. I bought a digital course for 25 bucks and taught myself 3 semesters of chemistry in 1 month. I will never see anything the same. I passed the test 29/30 and I am now teaching myself physics and stats. It's amazing that I taught myself in one month what I couldnt learn in my lifetime.
@@PhylumVertebrae What course was it?
@@PhylumVertebrae please let me know where your learning physics and chem
@@fitnessabdul6811 it was mathtutordvd chemistry course. I def recommend it. It breaks everything down and explains it in a way that’s understandable. I’m now doing their physics and stats courses before the spring semester
just left my online classes cause i feel exhausted with my grades and im so so scared with the teachers and found myself listening to this is just giving me a lot of hope
Same here.
We'll get through this!
Good for you while my parents force me to (like wtf its pandemic give my brain a rest)
Your not the only one we got this
Quarantine taught me that health is more important than education (namely mental health). Without it, we won't be able to score well. Conversely, with good health, studying becomes easy. Now that I think about it, we might be the first to gain the opportunity to think about life at an early age, without the constant distraction of schools. With that said, take quarantine as an opportunity. I rather spend time living the new life than try to revert and maintain the old.
I was homeschooled... I was always determined to do better every year, to apply myself and form better habits. But then I'd end up on the couch pretending to "read" history (a subject I would theoretically enjoy) while falling asleep and skimming just enough to ace the tests. What's my excuse? The textbooks were so dry. You're talking about history, a record of real people who lived and made an impact of the world and did amazing things. And what do you want me to learn? The dates and places. UGH. Dates and places have a reason, but not at the expense of understanding the historical events themselves.
@Indigo Rodent Yeah, I know, but you'd think they'd make it more interesting. I'm quite sure they could. Although yes, dates are important for refence, context is also important. I think we could also do with studying more original source material like ACTUALLY reading parts of letters and treatises written by our founding fathers. History has frankly become social studies... and it's not the same thing
thats why i really respect my history teacher. he doesnt make us learn dates cuz thats boring!! he lets us understand the history through class discutions, reading old documents, letting us choose the way he'll grade us and more. he really makes us understand the concepts and sometimes we have to act like the people from the history books and recreate it. he leaves room for creativity and even though im terrible at history his classes still inspire me to learn more. i mean my best grades come from his classes (literally got an A+ and an A- the last 2 years)
@@jiminjams52 Same! I had such a great teacher that encouraged creativity and discourse. He never demanded we memorize anything, just to understand it. It always encouraged me to actually go the extra mile and look more into it myself if I was every curious
This is the exact reason I found history a lot more interesting for some topics, which contain pictures and stuff that takes you to that time
I love history but this year I lost my motivation for it because it was so dry and uninteresting. I heard we were doing WW1 and got really excited and assumed my history teacher would be as good as the last one I had :/
He talked so much sense i felt intelligent just listening to him.
same here
😂
Honestly quite sad we have to spend our entire youth in school..
Well you wont get anywhere without some sacrifice.
yo even from a young age i knew how much i hated it
Huh, I'm confused?
True wow. What if instead of school we would spend our time experiencing new things. Go fishing with your family. Visit new places. Discover what you love and what interests you... damn
Honestly, idk why we are pretending this is a woke discussion. Before kids were in school, they were doing labor and working jobs (you would know this if you payed attention lol). I think the school system could use some changes, but I am not here for raising a generation of academically limited kids because school is "boring or hard". You should learn how to read and write, and more while young. And you should learn the practical skills like self discipline, time management, and learning about yourself in school. Yes, kids should also be playing and exploring but why not do both?
Summary: Solution/s - Do it yourself. Self-educate. Do new stuff yourself without constricted by some higher voice. View laborious tasks at school as character building.
Thanks. He was just rambling on and on and on
Thank you so much! I was getting so bored with his “school bad” rant even though I agree with the points he made
I totally agree, especially about viewing school tasks as character building
School is literally gaslighting me into thinking i am stupid when I know i'm not.
(Update: I got diagnosed with ADHD today. Maybe it was the disorder gaslighting me then. It's no wonder I hate school LOL!!!)
I got F from mathematics so I know I'm a stupid
The teachers must have a vad impression of you.
My math teacher doesn’t even teach so I end up not doing the work . At this point school is making me dumb
@@edawn7615 The problem with Math and why a lot of people find it difficult is because it's a step by step process. Mathematics as a whole is HUGE and very complex. But anything that is complex is made out of simple parts. And the problem is, most people in school miss a critical step, because they actually physically miss a day of school and never catch up, and/or they don't have time to formally practice and solidify the concept in their minds. The key is at first learning critically, then understanding it intuitively. You can't do Calculus if you don't know how fractions work, or you don't know algebra.
@Jenevieve Majoor bro I wrote a mathematics exam for only 1.5 hours like wtf then history was all abt writing essays and it was only 1.5 hrs.
University killed my curiosity. I'm a 3rd year engineer and only working hard to get good grades. I really don't care anymore and can't quite figure out how to get my inspiration and passion back.
Same here! My professors and especially their assistance killed my passion for electrical engineering for not wanting for me to be creative on most of my projects sigh
Same. I remember when I was 11 and I used to actually have an interest for learning. But now, at 15, I’ve lost all motivation and I really couldn’t care less. I assume this will increase as I go to colleges and university unless I get good teachers
@@jesusssugarbabyuwu78yearsa63 Don’t rely on your motivation, rely on your discipline.
@@jordankersg wym?
man that's so true! i just can't get myself to study the way i used to. engg is way tooo boring rn and trust me eveyday i ask myself the same questions if i'm doing right or not. :(
You are such an amazing person, keep on doing this, youre helping alot of people. I wish you the best of luck!
Thank you!
I am fully agree with this statement.
@@taigaramsey8061 Yeah as someone with a similar perspective as the video maker, I could see myself being a teacher and actually caring about real learning and teaching, but then I see that the current education system doesn't really allow for real teaching/learning.
I recommend the book "Dumbing us Down" by John Taylor Gatto. He won teacher of the year in the state of New York for 2 years and he talks about how our education system is kinda bullshit. He encouraged his students to work in their on projects outside of the normal curriculum, and he saw how kids already had their own gifts and genius characteristics that werent really being addressed and grown. We need an entirely different system of schooling.
Although, I did have 1 or 2 really good teachers in elementary and highschool. Only 1 or 2 out of 30 lol.
@@taigaramsey8061 If you look deep enough you will realize how American schools have been turned into indoctrination centers on purpose, and are meant to dumb us down and make us compliant. Our whole system of society is controlled in a negative manner by the ruling elite.
I agree with you Mr. Poopie butthole
You know, people always say, “Oh, you’re just smart and talented,” or, “It’s natural skill, I could never be as smart as you,” just because I get straight A’s, just because I work so hard to be the best version of myself. But I think nobody realizes how much of a pain it is, and how sad of a fact it is that I’m not really learning anything, because all I do is work for the grade, never for my interest of learning. Get a bad grade? Oh, they say it’s your fault, that you’re not enough. So we are in a sense brainwashed to get good grades, because that “defines” us for what they say is the rest of our lives. This is our school system, this is their influence, this our reality...let that sink in.
same thing with drawings or things like that: they say you must be born to do it, you must be talented.
but saying like this to someone you're putting limits on yourself making you believe that you can't do it, but you're also limiting others making them believe that.
we, the society, are all making and putting limiting beliefs on ourselves while everyone can do anything.
"But I think nobody realizes how much of a pain it is"
Yes they do... That's why they don't get straight A's, themselves... They aren't masochists, they don't enjoy torturing themselves. :P
You might be thinking "I'm not a masochist", but the fact that you exposed yourself to so much self-torture means you must like it, or that the pain doesn't bother you as much as the success rewards you, in which case, you're clearly exaggerating your suffering... There are no other alternatives. xD
EDIT: FYI, i never fell for the whole grade system and educational expectations... I tried, but it wasn't rewarding, so i stopped, immediately.. Since then i half-assed school with perfectly average grades, i prioritized comfort and mental health over grades. :P
@@MyouKyuubi And thats what i am realising now. For 6 straight years, i studied so hard a month before exams that i ended up weakening my physical health and diet patterns. I was metally unsatisfied with everything, no sort of curiousity. Felt like my parents enjoyed seeing me being a labour to grades. It was a brainwashing pill, forcefully dissolved deep in my unconscious by school and parents. And after i got the first position in class, it wasa feeling of emptiness. Studied almost 12 hours a day whole month, for being rewarded with a fake smile and appreciation. Didn't even get any money for buying books i was interested in. I have realised this now, and will no longer be a slave to false ambitions. Thank you all for awaring me!
@@costamicaco yup, but its really hard to stop studying. :(
@@xKawaiiMikuChanx Thats true. I still couldn't find a way out of this fear, its so habitual for me to be dead serious of exams.
As a medical student, i always get into a major burnout throughout the school year. The only time i can get my motivation back is when i take electives in the medical fields i’m interested in during the break.
Relatable. I remembered during premed days that despite my art appreciation class being scheduled on my most busiest day of the week I still took it and I was actually excited for that day. I was kinda sad that I wasn't as enthusiastic with my major subjects and I hated that since it wasn't my major's fault that I was feeling that way towards it, but still it is sad that learning is kinda about passing a subj. rather than actually learning it.
This is probably one of those annoying comments, because I don't know what it is like to be a med student. But have you tried meditation before?
@@sultanabdulhaqiii1633 I’ve attempted it but sadly I’m incapable of quieting my mind, I’ve found that exercise works best for me.
felt this as I'm trying to get my nursing degree ;-;
I'm a second year medical student i can relate.I'm always tired and burned out.When i'm at an intership,or surgery class(my fav class) i truly enjoy,but when i go home to study,i have zero motivation.
honestly, i think that if i learned Spanish by myself and not in a class i would've learned more
I learned english reading romance books that I liked, watching english subbed dramas and games because older ones weren't translated to spanish, even in high school we were still learning basic 3rd year english
@@notangevip537 Are you brazilian?
@@lorenaf.7175 nope I speak spanish as my first language
I'm Spanish myself and I can tell the education system here is trash too. I'm sixteen and we're still learning past simple and present continuous and pretty basic vocabulary. They start teaching us english when we're three and still most of people don't understand anything, only the ones that go to private classes and stuff. It wasn't until I was eleven that I began to understand better english because I got my first phone and I would look up the lyrics of the songs I liked , watch cartoons they got tired of translating here , playing video games that didn't have the "select Spanish" option , I mean , for once I understood that learning english was useful for me and I ended up teaching myself (I still have a lot more to learn obviously) I always pass with god grades my english tests because???? I choose the answers that just sound right??? But If i wasn't interested in any of the things that were worth learning for, i still wouldn't be able to tell the difference between "too" and "to"
@@ludogutori6730 Same here,every year we study the basic,like verb to be and simple past but nobody really learn something.I also learned a little of english by myself listening to songs and watching some things,school is so boring and demotivating :(
I was more curious about this video than my current chemistry class.
Same except with biology
same except I have Physics exam in 2 hours
Fuck my classes
@@bigkoi1015 How’d it go ?
@@leem.5917 i did pretty well...I am expecting at least 80
See this guy gets it; it’s not that I don’t want to learn, it’s just that the method used isn’t for me. 👏🏻
Simple...
Less Homeworks and assignments and more fun activities and stimulating programs that actually uses the things that the school teaches
That's what happens in Finland
Just like in Finland
I wish i was in finland
Wow, now I wanna see what happened to Finland's Education system
Thank god no one said India..cause we are messed up.
There is nothing sadder than losing the joy of learning and losing curiosity. I’ve been there and I had to drop out of college years ago. I truly lost myself due to depression and mental health. I want what I lost and I know it’s possible to get it back. Randomly coming across your video has inspired me. You’re doing a great thing and I know you are helping many people. Much love.
Dude, this is exactly how I feel! In college, I have to remember myself all the time that learning is not that "do this massive amount of homework" or "get better grades even if some of your teachers are a pain on the ass". Really, it irritates me so much how people cannot see that THIS IS NOT WORKING, we're just becoming more stressed and depressed people.
Exactly!!! We've got so much work to do and I feel like I'm constantly drowning... I'm in a language pathway in France and we have 13 subjects per semester yet the teachers are expecting us to know EVERYTHING wow.... Just let us breathe for a minute ffs. I feel like my entire self-worth is based on grades and I'm struggling a lot because I don't want to associate my passion of learning languages with GRADES.
@@JulieChanDoitsu Yeah, it's a shame that we need to fit temporarily on this failed system... I'm kinda trapped on these "grades thing" cause I really need to maintain my discount on the university... but I really think we need to amplify this topic, maybe in the near future, this situation could change... Until there I wish you the best on this part of your journey! Just remember to refresh how good it is to REALLY learn things sometimes!
Actually i was so stressed bc of this system and i may commit suicide bc my parents puts me in pressure just bc i got 79% of one subject,and i was failing bc of my parents verbal threats bc of that my only way out of my anxiety is by being my self just resting my mind without getting commanded by my parents and i was just watching yt on my phone and got to be ordered again bc of this i may disapear in this world i have a small deppresion but i cant blame myself bc of the trash school system that the government gave us and the government dint explained what to do in that worksheet only to findout that the teachers dont even know how to do that
Life sucks schools are just the way u get out of your time as a youth and by the time u finished school u get a job and after 1 or 2 decades of work maybe u get married and may have family and retired after all of that u only spend the rest of your time on your family and get bedridden bc of old age and we die,bc of this we may regret being born or regret being not with your family all the time u spend with the youth and the time u have a job and getting new friend all the time u got to spend for your own family will only be a memory by those who know u
Stay safe and remember to be happy remember to enjoy life the years u have left in your life time
Well then.....
@@angeloiturriaga1327 hey dude! I was going to say "how are u", but I think your messages explains a lot.
Look, I totally understand that it sucks to lose your time with things that might be useful in the future or not. you don't know if it is a total waste, or if it might be important in some moment in your life. Before I continue, how old are u man?
@@angeloiturriaga1327 look, I think that it might be a good start trying to explain how you're feeling to your parents. Like, really: tell them you're not standing all this pressure anymore. I don't think they'll do "nothing", but if this was the case, then bro: you have to stay strong for yourself. You don't need to be on the top of the professions list to be happy, or to live a decent and happy life. I'm talking about this because basically all these years in school, then in college are the way for you to get a job, and to receive some money. Some people do it because they want more of it, even if they're searching for their "dream job" or their "passion". So think about it: what you're searching for? couldn't you be happy in a "regular job"? without all these worries about grades and stuff?
I enjoyed reading as a young kid but when I got to high school I started to enjoy it less and less. It became negatively associated with schoolwork and also I would always choose to watch a show instead. Reading is actually a skill that I think I lost over time. Obviously I can read but reading a book and retaining the contents isn’t something I practiced for a long time outside of school. Reading a book puts me to sleep really quickly. Despite all of this I want to start reading more books that I choose instead of just college textbooks.
I used reading to fall asleep easy, now it doesnt make me sleepy anymore haha. Try doing it before bed!
@@xKawaiiMikuChanx Actually I made it a routine to read before bed every night and the more I do it the less sleepy I get from reading. It could also be that I’m getting more into the book series I’m reading. I still take Melatonin because otherwise it would just take too long for me to fall asleep at night. I’m sleepiest during the day and in the morning right after I wake up.
exact same thing happened to me. good to hear that it's improving for you though! hopefully anyone else who lost their love of reading can also regain their interest :)
I exactly have the same problem. I used to enjoy reading, but then my teachers/parents forced me to regurgitate books with boring topics or some that didn't get my interest. Now I dont even want to open one single book ever
If school doesn't exist maybe now I'm a polyglot already, or even a musician.
The weird thing is most professions are starting to demand thinking and schools rank memorization of random info being most of them useless
@@JoaoVictor-ye5hd so true!
I would be an ✨artist✨
if school didn't exist I would be happy
You can be. And you will if you decide. Go for it. You better
here is "what to do" → 12:55
"How develop mental capacity to face catastrophes ?" stood with me "How to Self Study?" stood How to fall in love with life? they didn't teach us.
He gave solutions too NOT just talk.
This is timeless!
"learning no longer is an authentic activity" so excellently said!!
I have adhd and it was really nice to hear someone talk about how much suffering being under pressure of your whole life being attached to what grade you have
before high school, i was so thrilled that physics finally made into the curriculum i had already studied part of the subject during vacation and i loved it... but then the teacher was a piece of garbage. He would always ignore me with a smile on his face, one time he asked something to the class I WAS THE ONLY ONE THAT RAISED MY HAND he looked at me in the eyes and said something like: well if no one knows the answer lemme tell ya
ARG I HATE HIM.
It was clear that he liked just ONE of his students, every time he asked something only they could answer he would ignore the rest. Since then my joy for physics is nowhere to be seen
It is the same case as mine. I easily feel extremely discouraged whenever I am really interested with the subject but the professor ignores or completely neglects it, rather, they pay more attention to other people that are already knowledgeable and good with the subject.
We, who wanted to learn more tend to be ignored while those who already get it, tend to be noticed. It's just..... depressing
Don’t worry bud, selfish teachers like them exist. Some of these become such good friends with other teachers that you can’t complain to anyone now.
Listen, don't base how you feel on what one person, out of 8 billion, has treated you. If you like it, check out better teachers. Walter Lewin on youtube is awesome. Audit a class.
i feel so mad after i read this. im sorry that happened to u..
@@kazumakiryu9369 lmao exactly.
Taught myself to code at 30. Marijuana makes anything fun.
Hol up , LMAO
Weed gives me too much of a headache as of late. Having a slight high can def help with learning I think tho, I’ve been able to pull it off before
@@crystola99 That's too bad :( Seems to effect everyone differently. Guess I a got good roll for my drug buffs ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
This can prove to be serious for young viewers, so you may delete this or edit.
Weed makes me forget everything 😂
Everyone needs to listen to this video instead of wasting numerous hours playing video games and watching series on Netflix, people always want the easy way to get things, a very few would sacrifice time for learing
I appreciate your thinking and ideas Robin, you have a beautiful mind!!
Flattered : )
I, too, agree with you. Many people I know whine when I tell them that I’m studying instead of hanging out with them. They tease that they are screwed I’d someone smart like me is studying (their words, not mine). Yet when I recommend that they study, they complain that they are too lazy. Truly sad.
This is the most capitalist bs comment ever. I used to enjoy learning new things but sometimes you burn out and your mental health really dies out which can cause you to procrastinate. Maybe instead of shamming those people who are already at a tipping edge maybe offer some actual helpful advise?😕 Stg you neurotypicals lack basic empathy sometimes
@@lordeselenite7538 For me personally , the lost of interest in learning make me want to escape more. Like playing videogame because it easier to do so.
I just lost all interest in it. School made it so exhausting and boring for me. Also there's people that, the educational system just isn't for them. People with real conditions that make school so much harder for them. It is really ignorant saying that people are just "lazy". Maybe some people enjoy studying but others might not. Not everyone is the same
For those that get anxious every time he says “be responsible”. An idea that helps me is how “doing things that give you purpose counteracts things that take it away.”
So, if you feel pressured by the idea of taking responsibility, know that doing these fulfilling things for yourself can help ease the suffering/stress from school or work.
It took me a year to find you but but i love learning english while listening to people who have something to say and say it in such a way that you end up not only learning english but something more. Greeting from Colombia
3:20 is when he gets to the point.
Intro is cool but I needed to get to the point.
Thanks
100th like is mine.
Thx
He didn't answer the question then.
You're both interesting and adorable. Congratulations
WAHAHAJHA FACTS
God I wished that your channel existed while I was in highschool and university. Despite loving a lot of the ideas and things I was learning, I ended up dropping out of my Bachelor of Arts (Politics/Literature) because I was so damn depressed and anxious. All the joy got overtaken by the bad feelings.
that's currently happening with me i was in love with socialogy but now it's feels like idk
I remember wanting to make a pattern of patterns at 5 years old when the assignment was to string beads- the teacher came by and tore mine up because rather than ask, she assumed I was doing it wrong- no. I was trying to do it better than the 19 other kids I saw around me (as competition, and rightly so.)
Yeah looking back a lot of my younger level teachers stopped me from going above and beyond the main excuse I remember is “you’ll learn it later”
honestly this reminds me of how I miss being a child just because I i used my imagination a lot especially having to learn on my own which was fun and also I agree witht he comment reply section
Fractals!
I used to be passionate about technology and astrophysics, to the point I sneaked on my mom’s office and stayed up all night just trying to understand this little piece of info I was missing. It felt amazing when I finally figured it out and even more so when I reached that conclusion on my own.
I NEVER did well at school, I didn’t care. Yet still I aced most tests and that was the only thing that stopped my teachers from kicking me out. I never understood why they made such a fuss out of a number that clearly didn’t reflected my performance, but yeah, “rules”.
I wish I could say the same about nowadays, but I can’t even remember my own birthday, I’m really slow to understand everything, and my creativity is just dead. And my curiosity? It’s still there, but there’s not much of a drive to satisfy it and that has made me depressed. I seriously feel like I was much smarter when I was little than I am right now, and that really discourages me from learning more. I’m working hard to overcome it, but it still feels like I grow dumber by the day.
You remind me of Henry Winter-dark haired, with cute glasses, and a genius mind unimpressed with the traditional education system. I love your channel, please keep making videos! (And stay away from dumb blondes named Edmund.)
I literally love this comment 🙈
But look for a skinny redhead called Francis
Umm who's Henry Winter? If he's a book character it seems like a great book to read!
@@tejasdeepsingh456 Henry winter is from the book the secret history !
@@nicolediaz3688 Oh Secret History by Donna Tart right?
I wish to read that book but in my country the price is wayy to much and due to Covid I don't know if my library has it. Hopefully the price will come down as Covid will be tamed and maybe prices would come down
"Knowledge without understanding is but a sword stuck in its sheath"
"In case you've forgotten, here's how things work. I order the food, you cook the food, and the customer _gets_ the food. We do that for fourty years, and then we die.
Sounds like a pretty good deal to me, what do you say?"
-Squidward Tentacles
Another reason why learning isn’t as fun is because we were taught from a young age that getting things wrong or getting the wrong answer is a bad thing and regresses your progress. Which is totally not true if you acknowledge and learn from mistakes. Perfection is just not a humane expectation and it deteriorates our other human qualities like passion and curiosity. We learn more from making mistakes and fixing them in the process versus constraining ourselves to do things a certain way in order to fit a certain standard.
Ah yes, where failure is often discouraged. Failure is the best teacher since it will give you hard reminder of it. Yeah, some failure should be avoided at all cost that result death of other people... But in general, it should be fine to fail once and learn from it (and sometimes learn from other's failure too).
@@GregorianMG very true!! 😊
Dude not to be awkward but ily for this
personally, i learn best with... discussion, and digging deeper. why, and how things are the way things are
Note: Ever since I made this comment, I have come to a slightly better place in life now and I must say I am not as unstable as I was before. But the battle's not over yet and there is still a lot to do. However, I shall take my time with it.
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**Original Comment**
This ended up making me cry.
I ended up learning science and microbiology but in reality I was never into it with passion. I didn't pursue it further and then entered the education field.
But again, it's not something I am passionate about. I know that with time and effort, we can give birth to new interests and do things but I just didn't find my passion with anything that I did so far.
Why did I do it then?
Because I had no idea what I actually wanted to do.
Then a family member got me into coding and I am learning it but again I am detached from it.
Everything that I did or doing is turning out to be sort of bland or just not my cup of tea. Coding isn't bad but I am not looking forward to doing it everyday.
I do like the idea of making a game though and just thinking about it that way, I decided to give it a try.
My detachment from things probably has to do with my mental state but since I am no doctor, I cannot say.
I just know that everything feels stale. I don't wanna be curious or learn or get grades or do anything.
I dunno why I have turned out like this.
I hate the way I am now.
I am just being super lazy, pessimistic and none of that going to make me take responsibility for myself.
People might matter to me but I never mattered to myself or maybe I have just decided that I shouldn't matter because I am not worth my respect or patience or effort.
When did I and why do I hate myself this way? I have no idea.
But when you said at the end, that if the joy of learning doesn't matter to me then it could be end of the discussion - something overwhelmed me. I don't know why things don't matter to me anymore.
I feel like one day people won't matter to me too.
When you said to take the responsibility to learn, read and more, it made me think about the times I downloaded books on my phone but avoided reading them , thinking it was a "hassle". Even though, I downloaded them because I wanted to read them, I didn't open them and they are just there, taking up space in my phone.
I have hard copies too but that feels bothersome too.
Why are things bothersome to me? Why are they no longer interesting for me? I cannot tell.
The shows I watched or the activities I did, none of them seem interesting to me anymore.
I have decided to stop learning as well but doing a job also makes crazy with anxiety.
None of this is anyone's fault. I shouldn't be dumping all this on a public forum but I cannot help it.
I have two exams tomorrow and the day after but I couldn't bring myself to open my book and just read anything. Tomorrow, I will panic with the syllabus and maybe start studying in the evening, even though I should be doing in the morning.
I dunno. Why am I like this? Why am I not worthy of my own respect and love. Why is it so much work to look after myself? I don't know.
I didn't mean to whine. I'll probably even get comments saying to stop whining and I should stop whining but something about this video just made me feel so full of emotions that I couldn't control.
Thank you for your video. The mess I am in is probably hard to clean and I swear to god I am not here for sympathy of any kind.
I'll give it my all to be curious again. To be responsible again. I don't think I'll succeed but I wanna try. I will give it a try. I am scared but I will try. Thank you.
Perhaps I'll muse on this and find a better way to advise you. If I never do, I just want you to know, one stranger to another, that I respect you. I respect you and your self awareness.
Time will inevitably change you, and may very well take you to where you want to be at some point. It's annoyingly difficult to avoid clichés when I'm being honest, but to achieve anything in life you can only *try.* I believe that someone who cares as much as you do will take to that journey well, though you may not even realize it.
Maybe the nature of progress is feeling unsatisfied to some degree. Maybe you're already halfway to where you want to be.
Sorry for going on like this. I empathize strongly with you because I'm in a similar situation.
Have you tried writing? You will be a good writer i think
@@lucasmckenzie8525 I didn't think people would even read this because I tend to write a lot. Thank you for taking your time to read and for empathising with me. I have been holding onto a small hope that trying will get me somewhere but without a goal or destination, I am just walking a road with no location in sight.
But I think I'll keep walking it and pause whenever I am tired. Somehow and somewhere, I will find a place for myself.
@@CindyWarren2004 First off, thank you for reading all of this. I never thought someone would read this essay of a comment and that's also why I decided to post it. It won't get too much attention and won't get too many replies.
But then again, I am happy to see your reply.
I have tried writing but then I ended up deleting everything because I was too critical of myself. I am trying to get back into it but my English isn't the best so it'll take a while.
I relate to this a lot. It is a large burden that all of us want to be removed, the *anxiety*. For me, the best antidote is reading other's stories about it. The thought of 'you are not alone' really helps.
Love Nala, you did not make any mistakes along your way. Your state of life now just the present, so we must accept that. I'll be rooting for you, so try to be your best for us (people who face the same situation as you)
his mouth says hes 60 years old, but his cheeks tell me he's 8
Pause
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Hold up..
wait
You might wana re-word that
I was not expecting that voice ! It feels like I'm watching a movie trailer
Dude you have such a beautiful voice. Also you explain AMAZINGLY. plus NO CUTS?! Good job
man, so glad I've discovered your channel. your type of thinking is rare.
Just wanted to ask, how do you approach time management when you have so many interests?
More specifically, say you have 3 hours of free time. how do you decide what to fill it up with?
I will deliberately allocate those free time to do those things that offer the most delight. Intentionality is important; the default tendency is for us to fall for the easiest ways of entertainment that don't really relax nor content us. Maybe, instead of drowning in hours of UA-cam binging, I could devote an hour to hone my skill of writing: as it both delights me and gives me a sense of calm. Or more passively, I could also choose to pick up a great classic along with a cup of hot beverage to waste the night away. See, it's about developing an acquired taste for subtle ways of relaxation. Most "immediate" means of relaxation don't actually relax us, it is only through clarifying: "What is my own unique taste?" can we really find something that both satisfy us and gives us contentment during our idle hours. Hope it helped :)
@@RCWaldun I find you very aspiring and genuinely wanted to ask you...when you want to pick up a completely new hoby, one that you've never had anything to do with, how do you find the right sources to learn and go in-depth with it, for all you know you might be teaching yourself completely useless things...so how do you know where to start, how to choose the hobi in the first place and how to keep yourself interested while learning about something you know nothing about?
@@anniem5473 I might have an idea. I'm really passionate about self learning and was, even before I even clicked on this video. When I did, I found myself agreeing with everything he's saying. I'm in my senior year of high school.
In our modern age, we have all the resources we need. I think the key components are:
*1* ) Videos, Google, and Wikipedia *-* On the surface, Google and Wiki don't seem very credible, but they're amazing tools. In order to pursue a topic you want to learn, you need to learn what questions to ask first. Videos can provide AT LEAST the very basics in an easy to understand form. From there, you can get an idea on what resources you need to continue learning.
Also, using google, you can ask very specific questions in order to get an answer, one you know to ask them.
*2* ) Dedicated websites *-* I'm very passionate about learning other languages, and I have a very effective system in place just by searching up "How to learn Japanese" on google. I found a dedicated website with amazing insight and suggested resources. I used this, and my other knowledge I gained from UA-cam to find: 1: An app with around 6000 Japanese Kanji(pictographs), how to draw and pronounce them, their uses in vocabulary words, and more. 2: A place to learn grammar, and 3: An app called AnkiDroid which uses science (spaced repetition) to create my own decks to memorize every single one of those Kanji. (I'm learning 15 per day and will know ~5400 in a year.)
*3* )Books *-* Books are a one-on-one teaching session of their own with insights from the author, personally. Invaluable.
*4* )Community *-* Communities of like minded people drive us and answer our questions from simple interaction. I've found many dedicated UA-cam channels of polyglots (people who have learned multiple languages) and I have learned so much about how to learn them, and they're super entertaining. (look up Laoshu5500, or Ikkenna) There is a community for everything, and you don't even have to interact with it in order to learn. Simply observing what people are saying will push you forward.
@@etherealstars5766 Thats a good advice. However, theres a problem that bothers me. When I study on a certain topic, i just try gathering knowledge from many sources although i know i should stick to just one. You end up getting confused and a bit demotivated when learning from different sources at once. And when i stick to one source, it gets a bit boring. So, maybe to end that, choose the best source you can find after researching a lot and then, stick to it. I will try this method out and see, how it goes.
@@anniem5473 a college library is a fantastic place to find new things you’re interested in. I used to go to the one near me all the time as a teenager. You browse the shelves until you see a (nonfiction) book that seems kind of interesting. You flip through it and if it still seems interesting, put it in your growing stack of books. Keep going until you have a stack of like 10 books. Take these over to a reading area and just sit down and read. Check the table of contents for the most interesting sections, and go more in depth on stuff that really interests you. Keep a written list of books you want to come back to, or of subjects you want to know more about. Bring that list with you every time you go to the library. And don’t feel obligated to read anything that bores you!
School has always been a huge part of my personal identity and realizing that good grades doesn't equal intelligence was one of the biggest and toughest realizations I've had in my life. I've only recently re-discovered learning and I'm glad I found your channel just in the right timing for it. Thanks for everything.
I wanna be an OS developer, a writer, a musician, a painter, a game player, a fitness body builder and diet. How do I choose from so many things that I like.
Gosh me too and I'm heading towards med school with so many existential questions ugh😞
If i was you, I would do my best to achieve all of those dreams of yours.
Why limit yourself to one? It’s all about how you manage your time.
That’s my struggle rn
Easy, you can mix many of those together. A writer can write about music, painting, games, and fitness. Body building and diet will be easier to manage, since one is a meal and the other is an activity. Meaning you aren't able to spend excessive time on exercise since you will fatigue eventually. Therefore leaving enough time for Developing, game playing, and music which you can adjust to your schedule. You don't always need to fit all of them in one day. To maintain interest you can work on one every other day
WHERE THE HELL WERE YOU 6 YEARS AGOOOOOOO. GOSH. You are good. This is the pep students NEED. 👏🏾👏🏾
Facts
Such a good video. I'd like to to educate myself, but school is so tiring, I even loose the strength to learn about stuff I actually care abt
Many people like to dismiss it, but this one seminar class I'm taking has taught me alot. Even if it's bits and pieces, I can say I've learned from it.
Dude you are giving me answers to questions I’ve been myself asking for years. Thank you so much 👍🏻
I love the background. The curtains, the bookshelf in the background. It gives a very cozy feel to it.
OMG I needed this so. Bad. I’m a junior in high school and school plus the pandemic is just chipping away at my spirit and I felt to relieved to hear someone who recognizes what’s happening in our education. And not just when students are like “ugh we don’t even use algebra, why don’t we learn how to do taxes,” I think you went in on such a deeper level. My parents have actually commented that I used to love school and now I’m dragging my feet and fall into a depression sometimes because I feel such a lack of purpose that would normally be filled by truly learning something. I miss that feeling. I don’t even care about being a genius, I just don’t want to be incapable of original thoughts; I’m not saying I want to burn with passion for something, but I want to look at the thing I’m doing and like it. Thank you for saying that it’s not okay to like what we’re doing in school (at least that’s what I took away). I can’t make any promises but I’m gonna try to put room in my day to read and do something I care about. LMFAO that’s like way too deep and personal for UA-cam but idc. Thank you.
I remember when I use to ask so many questions, and was so talkative and open and happy, happy with learning, happy with everything. But now all that is gone and I don't even know what I want to be, I lost all my childhood hopes and dreams and I just can't keep up, school honestly ruined my life in that way....
but I'm hoping I can regain that side of me, I know it's hidden somewhere deep deep deep deep inside
@@nox9749 I'm so sorry to hear that. I know how you feel. I hope things get better, but if you're ever feeling bummed on school just remember that the system isn't meant to make you happy. Unfortunately that's something we have to be responsible for ourselves, which is hard, but that's the way stuff is. keep on goin
this video is everything, I’d give anything for any sort of change in this ‘system’ we’re all in. it’s pretty demoralising whenever I think about how excited I am to graduate, only to realise how I’m excited over joining this rat race for... pretty much the rest of my life. A direct solution might never be discovered or implemented but... self-learning and staying curious is definitely a good start ☺️ I hope everyone (and Waldun!) reading this stays open minded and hopeful, you are in the system, not a part of it! 🍀
you have one of the most important qualities of a leader which is finding the solution with the problem. and it makes me honestly proud. i also appreciate how you made the video with no cuts but was able to explain what we feel about the system. and thats so big brain lol. but thank you for making the video and thank you for being a leader.
I'm very happy that UA-cam decided to give me the chance of watching this video and encountering your channel. It's been a while since I felt just as you said - frustrated, stressed out and without any joy in gaining knowledge. I will try to do my best, I will try to stop gaming so much and binge watching UA-cam, however this time doing it, I actually learned something. Thank you a lot. I feel like a new person, I regained hope to press on.
I'm sorry but can we just talk about how he's cute and smart...
i know right i'm already all ❤️_❤️
no pls
huhuhu yeeeah
@@_mahiii bru moment
Well he is cute but his words in the video should be taken attention. : )
This was incredible. I hope you go on to become a professor, sir. The world needs more of that
I certainly will. :)
My parents just shouted at me for having no motivation for school which resulted in me getting an 8.5. This just popped up in my recommendations, thanks.
Really, you're helping me so much coping with my anxiety and all the other consequences that my ED implies. I try to stick to what you say and be the better version of myself by dedicating some time to my passions everyday, while continuing to study literature at the university. Thank you so much, you're an inspiration!
I'm glad that all this years of school have not been wasted. I have UA-cam and I've learned a lot more useful things for my life than what I've learned at school. UA-cam has done so much for our education in life than what we realize.
At least in my case..
1-Psychology
2- relationships
3 - English practice (or any other language)
4 - photography
5 - illustrations
6 - finances
7 - sexual orientation
8 - proper pet care
And of course, all the AMAZING people (youtubers) out there with amazing content obviously. Thank you :)
you reminded me of Charlie... i love that you don't use background music. it seems like an audiobook, i love it
Who is Charlie, curious so I can check them out
Charlieissocoollike?
Charlie in the novel 'Perks of being a wallflower' :)
I actually haven't watch the movie xD but the book is great
@@Skye-vj7lr oh okay I’ll read it and get back to you, about what I think about the book
I just noticed this and and I really appreciate that there is no background music in any of your videos(atleast not in the ones ive seen so far).
You speak my mind. I feel as though I have always known what you have been saying but having someone say it in an organised fashion is just something else. Love from London :)
Yep, learning is not fun anymore. Here in our country the education system is really crucial. We're not learning anything yet the teachers have the audacity to tell us that we're lazy. The typhoon had hit our country recently but the officials are still continuing the s.y despite of the condition of our country and its kinda killing every student here.
I bet you're from the Philippines too. And I feel what you're feeling right now. I hope this situation will end soon.
@@mr.alejandre9428 yep, I hope so too. Our voices must be heard.
Ibilad si Deped lol
This is so true, especially in 2020... without any ability to really talk with other people about my interests and learn in some of the non-traditional routes that my college offers, I’ve really lost most of my passion for my major in Economics. I feel like my brain is too tired by the endless striving and so I can’t bring myself to pick up a book on the shelf and really learn something just because I’m interested in. I look at freshman and I’m like omg they’re so eager 😂😂 sad because I miss that eagerness for learning and my natural curiosity. But this really motivated me to pursue my goals because of my passion instead of panicking. I’m tired of the rat race, I just want to learn for myself now.
He took the words out of my head and rephrased it for me. This is the best. Thank you.
the fact that i got this while i'm currently losing sleep doing work on the verge of dropping out-
School for me was horrible. Apart from the stress of needing to score well, the joy and the enthusiasm I had got sucked out. The only moment of happiness I got was alone in the Physics lab with tools or the library surrounded by books. Some moments I felt happy and grateful to have gotten the chance to get an "education" (which is now more of a word than something related to learning OR development).
Every time I watched or learnt about pioneers in different feels I was filled with this energy of wanting to do something big. But you have your teachers who say you won't be able to study if you do that, what about your grades? You won't be successful,etc.
I want to create. I want to do something big. Each day I struggle to bring back that joy, but I think now I know where to begin.
you are one ofe the only people who do this type of videos and actually help, so thanks
Thanks, I needed this. I feel like I get so
lost in the grind that I forget to think
about these things from time to time. Currently in college and still trying to find myself. I'm definitely going to take your advice moving forward. You're awesome man, keep doing what you're doing
Really nice video, almost in the right time. But I have a question, "how can you learn how to learn, when you don't know how to learn?" and do you need to know learning to learn?
Learning how to learn comes with experience. Studying is a skill that needs to be cultivated over time; things like grappling with confusion, knowing what to put into your commonplace book and what not to, developing a conceptual map, knowing how to read a book etc etc. Of course it'd help if you first of all "learn how to learn", but trial and errors also work if you want to figure it out by yourself.
read a book about learning i guess, like the book make it stick
i’ll be going to college next year... it really helps a lot listening to your perception of school and how you manage to keep a good balance in your life. thanks for the vid ! love your content
Hello Robin! I want to ask you whether I can put greek or english subtitles to this amazing video. I'm a high school student from Greece and we are currently installing ethernet in my class. I wanted to show this video during English lesson so that we start an interesting conversation between us. Excuse me for any grammatical errors. Bravo for the enrichened vocabulary, this is a thesaurus 😁
I gotta say watching your videos really revived my passion and curiosity on certain topics. You're a genius.
This world needs more persons like you! You best my friend, with a beautiful mind! Go on! ^.^
I've been stuck in this cycle of avoiding homework and studies as a whole and it's been eating at me for months because I couldn't pull up the motivation to actually do stuff. Your video is exactly what i needed to hear, seeing someone addressing these problems as they are and presenting a balanced suggestion really helped me a lot. I think I might be able to reach the goals I set for myself today. Thank you.
I am over the moon that I'm not the only one who thinks like this! I see it like I should almost "play the system" and read or watch resources that genuinely interest me by myself. It's upsetting to see my peers do homework like a chore just to get the grade rather than knowing the deeper meaning/theory behind it. Of course this is hard to do when you're not interested in the subject in the first place. I always feel accomplished when I study by myself, but at school I feel very stupid as you're told to say things in a certain way, which is mostly memorising.
I remember when I was taking AP Bio and freshman bio I would do so much self-study because it was really fun to explore these concepts. I had perfect grades because there was a light enough workload that I had the space to spend all this time studying the fun way. Then when I got to classes like cell and molecular bio (as a biochem major) I absolutely hated it because there was so much stuff to memorize and memorization is not fun at all for me. I ended up graduating with degrees in chemistry and physics in the end, but I would say my actual passions didn't develop until after college when I had the space to explore them myself.
While I love the concept of taking responsibility and taking your education in your own hands there are a couple points I'd like to discuss:
1) the Idea that the school system is all about grades seems wrong, like we are approaching grades in reverse. Grades are a tool, not the ultimate goal. They are put in place to give a clear feedback of how well your learning method is performing, for example. the sooner we realize that grades are just a side product of *************, the sooner we will stop stressing out about them
2) about the evergreen anthem of "they teach us useless things at school": while it is true that not everyone will use every single notion we are taught in school, the system is meant to teach you how to tackle abstract problem, how to research, how to analyze data, how to think critically. Once you have those tools you should be able to go about your business and learn everything you deem worthy of you attention
my point being, while school can be a terrible system, there are actually useful things in it that we can exploit to pursue our personal goals.
I am at least 20 years your senior, and I must say you are truly an inspiration. The information you share has helped me to realize that I am an autodidact and a polymath, honestly terms I was unaware of until watching your videos. At 40 years old I scored very high percentages on being an introverted intuitive, two more terms I was unaware of, and I have been studying ever since. One hell of a wake-up call, but your information helps me through it.
Thank you!
Embracing my weirdness. 😊
That's right prioritize your main ideas and sacrifice some other things to still been on the road of learning for yourself. ♥ Take actions and drastic actions ♥ Revive your learning and increment your curiosity ♥
30 seconds into the video, I can already tell that you are a very wise man indeed. Thank you Sir. This video is a gem.
I agree. All I want from my school is knowledge but the marks and gradings always give me a headache, I hate running after marks, they don't decide our future.
This video is amazing! In a few minutes all solutions to the current education problem were stated in a manner that used complex vocabulary while still being understandable to all watching. With obviously a lot of research, Waldun has created a simple solution, without talking around the bush or only judging what has already been done like many educational „experts“ nowadays do. He really is a person, with whom I’d like to have a philosophical discussion someday
I watched some of your videos and I can tell that your mind is so advance at a very young age. I do not know what MBTI - personality type you have but I can sense that you are one of those rarest ones with a higher level of thinking. I'm an INFJ.
INTJ.
I'm an INFJ as well
Hello fellow infj
Yeaaaahhh mbtiiii!!!
Honestly, I really needed this one especially with the new normal. My passion for learning almost burned out, I’m glad I watched this. Thanks sir.
I cant be the only one that clicked on this expecting some 15 year old talking and instead was surprised with Asian Einstein right?
Really well put. You've taken time in understanding what really is going on here. Thanks!
Just some days ago I was thinking about how the perception that I have of myself is based on my grades only, which would be the reason why I care about them so much and why college makes me so anxious to the point that I avoid even thinking about it unless is necessary, making me not go in-depth about any subject or really learn anything.
I think I desperatley needed this video during quarantine. Thank you
Dude this showed up in my recommendations at a perfect time. Thank you so much for making these videos 😔❤️✨
I’m really happy that you can turn that concepts to words, understandable.
I was SO excited to enter highschool, especially with ending my middle school years as the "valedictorian". 4.0 gpa all the way through. And then they said we wouldn't be going to school because of Covid-19, and that's understandable! But I completely lost all my confidence, and I realized that without being school smart, I was just this blank person with no personality. I was told multiple times by my family that I was super awkward and acted like a robot most of the time. I spent all my time focusing on school that I didn't even enjoy myself. All my friends have inside jokes that I don't understand, I feel blank. Now in Highschool, I'm dumb in school smarts and I have no personality. LOL
How to fix that. Simply force yourself to talk to people. Make a good first impression then observe the people that let you hang with them try to understand how the act and why they act that way. Books can help
Your voice is so satisfying to hear that you can give me a lecture on a subject I absolutely despise, and I would love it.
I haven’t cared about learning in along time. I’m about to enter college and I’m quite scared of the eventual disinterest of my major since I’m already coding. All I can say is, if I lose interest in coding due to the system, I never had the conviction to go through it.
I'm 40 years old and I liked what I heard, excellent information, keep up the great work!
Technically you're still enthusiastic about learning, whenever you play a videogame and try to understand its mechanic is technically learning so we haven't really lost that natural curiosity that we had before. It's just that it's directed towards something else.