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Could you maybe do a videi about autism ed and ocd your.video's are so clear that I can understand it better and I try to understand my.gf who has autism ocd and anorexia
“The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly.” ― F. Scott Fitzgerald
Happened to me when my mother got married, everyone moved away from each other and went to different places. My aunt was then living with my grandfather, and my grandmother was put in a nursing home. I then had to deal with my stepfather and mother's poor judgements of me and poor methods of discipline. As it turns out, constantly threatening to kick your kid out does really help then feel secure.
For me this quote resonates with me as it describes the last 4 years for me since my mom lost her mind. You kind of watch as the world unfurls like a loose string on a poorly made shirt. One half of my family told me to not feel anger about it, it was an illness and nothing warranted anger, the other said that there was nothing wrong with her. I had only my dad and brothers who truly understood and with it came sort of being removed from people, a result of mom and the situation. I didn’t tell anybody until last year, and now, only one or two of the handful I’ve told have been actually helpful. All of my meaningful relationships have been sort of snubbed due to this whole situation at large for all of us and it leaves an already lonely guy lonelier. It’s not always that all you can do is stare, but sometimes all you can do is let out a pain that has nowhere to go. Needless to say though, this quote resonates with me, thank you.
@@Orange_Swirl That's horrible. I hope you're doing well. I've been through the same so I know how that feel. Since my parents got divorced, I live with my grandma and mom. They constantly treathened me to send me to him while telling me how he never cared for me, how he is a monster since I'm in elementary school. It made my head spun because father always kind to me, to think he acted made me feel hurt. Even today I don't know which one is the truth or not, but I don't want to listen such crude words anymore. Sorry for blabbering stuff. I do really hope you get better as time goes on
This rings true for me alot that it kinda hurts to think about😏. Especially since it's been happening since childhood and things continue to slip from me. Not really anything I can do to stop it or change things I just kinda have to do my best to find happiness while going with the flow🤗
Your name starting with Christ that was meant to be your name before you came to earth. You have a good purpose to be here and it’s the reason why Satan wants to take away your strength. Stay strong
I'm sorry to hear that this year has brought you feelings of loneliness, depression, and anxiety. It's important to prioritize your mental well-being and seek support if needed, as you deserve to regain a sense of self amidst these challenges.
0:39 You don’t know how to connect with people 1:09 You’re afraid of intimacy 1:44 You’re going through a lot of change 2:17 You struggle with codependency 2:50 You’ve lost touch with yourself 3:23 You’re feeling misunderstood 3:54 You’re struggling to feel worthy 4:23 You’re spending time with the wrong people 4:50 You may have depression
I think there's a chicken-and-egg situation here. What if you're depressed *because* you feel lonely, *because* you feel misunderstood and not validated, *because* you're not a part of something bigger than yourself, *because* you're frustrated trying to find the right group(s) to feel less alone.
Why do I feel lonely? Because whenever I get close or vulnerable with someone, it just feels like I'm a burden to them and they already have someone they like better.
@@OverlandTT I'm so sorry to hear that 💕 Stay strong! This made me tear up a little. One of my greatest fears is losing my boyfriend and this was a reminder that I should always be grateful for what I have. Thank you for sharing 💕
1. I always see people on social media doing cool stuff with their friends like going to concerts or visiting lost places or whatever... whenever I meet someone (most likely with my twin brother because on my own I never had the chance to meet others) we only sit in a room and play video games... 2. I am 19 and I never had a closer relationship to anyone... especially not to girls... and I think that wont change because I always have this unconcious feeling of not being good enough... I cant keep good conversations going for long because after a few words I just dont know what to say anymore... I am super shy around others and cant come up with fun things to say or to do... i can imagine that being around me is super boring. 3. well...not really... I started going to college a year ago but my loneliness started way back in high school. 4. Since I never had someone like this I cant really tell why but I still make others source of my happines... on my own Im sad most of the time and dont know what to do because everything bores me. 5. I dont really know what I want from life and I dont even know what I enjoy doing... my interests change every few days and I just cant do anything for a longer period of time... 6. Especially my parents dont really know me... I am kind of different when I am with them... I actually think of mysef as funny and I can make them laugh but I dont tell them about my problems because they end up belittling everything I say. 7. Well... like I already mentioned I dont feel good enough for closer relationships but I never experienced a break up... its more like whenever I tried to arrange to see a "friend" they always made excuses why they dont have time all of a sudden. 8. I dont spend much time at all with anyone... only place I see people is work. 9. since this is a problem for me since I went to high school first I honestly think depression is a thing for me. I dont know why I wrote that... noone will read it anyways xD but I somehow wanted to write it down...
I don’t know what to tell you 😭 but from my experience i tried to mimic how other people talk as a kid because i was that weird, shy , lonely kid in school. Surprisingly it worked a little bit! Overtime you pick up some stuff. But you need to mimic only “how” they talk and then add your own uniqueness to it . I also watched a lot of youtubers in high school just to know how they talk with strangers. I feel like an alien learning how to be a human 😂💔 Hope you have a nice day 🥳
I can relate. I have friends online and in real life but I feel I am not close to anyone and it hurts to know that when I have problems I don’t know who to turn to. I try to be strong but I don’t know if I can handle it
Feeling lonely is harsh, not gonna lie. Give yourself time to be sad but after that I think you should put yourself out there and really try to create meaningful connections with others :)
Feeling lonely caused from heartbreak is the worst. Last year i get rejected and until now i feel lonely and still cant move on. now i even more lonely because of coronavirus quarantine.
I can’t make connections my mom said I can’t talk to anyone until school starts up so I have no way of talking to anybody at all and I’m gonna lose the connections that I had with people bc I can’t talk to them from March-August lol (I made this yt acc as a secret)
I have a group of friends. We're all epic gamers. But whenever I'm not communicating with them, I am lonely and every time I wanna play a game, I have to be playing with someone. Or I have to watch a video with someone. That's why I like reaction videos, because it makes me feel like someone's there with me.
I'm lonely because nobody wants to spend time with me because I am Terminally Ill. My friends have told me that they feel uncomfortable being with me and don't know what to say. I have told them to talk to me about everyday things, the News, what they have been doing, etc and to laugh and joke with me.
That must be the saddest thing to experience, knowing you are terminally ill and nobody wants to spend time with you or talk with you. If you can view it as a gift to turn inward to find your best friend in your heart who is always with you, then you will be happy. May you be filled with the love and light that you are.
The only reason why I get lonely is when someone who I talk to every day stops talking. I get so used to it that I get so lonely even when I don't talk to them for just one day.
Basically, I fear making friends cause I always feel they will eventually turn on me. I get very excited and anxious around them, and now, I fear having friends sometimes. I've gone through 2 breakups with someone I still love, lost so many friends throughout only 2 years, and seemingly can't ever catch a break. Man, life just sucks sometimes.
Yep I've been down that road last year. someone turned on me because they told me to choose between my boyfriend and then going out and and were unreasonable when I did go out with them, expecting me to pay for everything, expecting me to nod my head and say yes to everything and I couldn't. I'm tired of people being friends with me to try and get stuff out of me. Im fed up with guys approaching me to exercise their mistaken right to try to treat me like a blow-up doll. I'd rather be lonely than with people and desperately unhappy.
I feel the same way…I lost my close friends less than a year plus at the time I was in a toxic and abusive relationship and they don’t understand what I went through so they drifted away from me. I had a boyfriend and he broke up with me after I felt like I had someone who I felt like I didn’t need to look anywhere else. Even with family I still feel so alone without friends. And it is really affecting me tonight.
I met a girl at work this past summer, we became pretty close. Now she's moved away and barely talks to me.... it hurts a lot more than I ever would have imagined, especially since making friends isn't easy for me (I only have a few) and have never had a girlfriend.
I am so sorry to hear that.:( if it makes you feel a bit better, I lost all the friends I was close with I considered real ones but it turned out they weren’t honest and real as I took our friendship to be (as I behaved towards them). In a matter of love, I ,lost’ 10 years with someone I loved deeply, my best years, the youth; we were breaking up for at least 10 times, I even moved out to another country for him (twice), and now? We are complete strangers, so the result is as if nothing that ever was really existed, result of it all is just a zero and he was the love of my life no matter result. I’ve heard thou he has a gf now, I am still alone (,,someone worthy” just didn’t come along). So what I meant to say with this my comment/ story to your story is that if it makes your pain a bit less heavier, I’m at least glad I could help.. ;)
I just can't make friends or give love anymore. I don't know why. I just can't anymore, there are so many reasons why. I'm constantly questioning myself about "Do I need friends?" "Will I live and die lonely? Unloved?" "What am I doing?" "Why?" "How?" And so much more. I'm just overwhelmed, but I'll never be able to make a new friend.
Same, I completely understood it just a few days ago. All those things I tried to identify as the reasons of my suffering are just small parts of the picture of loneliness
The Alternate Universe same all my friends hang out and go places with the whole friend group but don’t invite me. And my friends barely wanna text me anymore, heck most just stopped replying
It's understandable to feel protective after a heartbreak, but it's important to keep an open heart and allow new connections to form. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. 💜💜 Let's work through those fears and find new, supportive people to surround ourselves with. And always remember, I'm here to support you. 🌟💡🌳
Here is the summary of the video 1. You don't know how to connect with people 2. You are afraid of intimacy 3. You're going through a lot of change 4. You struggle with codependency 5. You've lost touch with yourself 6. You're feeling misunderstood 7. You're struggling to feel worthy 8. You're spending time with the wrong people 9. You may have depression
My condolences for your loss. Grief can be a difficult journey, but you don't have to go through it alone. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. 💜💜 Together, we can find ways to heal and honor the memory of your loved one. 🌟💡🌳
Wow this hit hard. I’m the loneliest I’ve ever been in my 31 years. I was codependent on my sister for so long and now have had to cut her off due to her becoming abusive and toxic. I don’t even know who I am outside of her. I can’t relate to people. I crave human interactions yet I have social anxiety. I struggle to even have conversations with coworkers. I see them all get along so well, even hanging out outside of work and I am struggling to try to be someone they can be friends with. I haven’t had friends in over 13 years and I feel empty. I spent all of yesterday and today in bed sleeping because I feel uninterested in anything. Why did I have to be this way 😞
I'm almost 24 and I can see my life going this way. I was also codependent on my sister but she travelled and we were separated so we so each other less and less but still kept a very good contact. Then I was with a friend of mine without realizing it before he cut me loose. I'm now uninterested in most things and struggle to interact with people if it's not meaningful. I won't engage in conversation unless there is something really profound to discuss. Sometimes I try but it just comes out the wrong way so sometimes I just don't. Sorry to bother you with my story. I just wanted to tell you I can relate somehow. Obviously I'm suffering from this but I think it helps me know myself better. I believe that I shouldn't be struggling to be friends with someone because I know I can be a very good friend and if people don't care to discuss/interact with me despite me trying, I let go. They probably don't feel the need/want to be friends with me and that's ok. Not everybody can get along. At this point in my life, I'm mentally preparing myself to be misunderstood and alone forever and that's ok because I learned through all my hardships being alone is a lot better than being with the wrong people or passing for someone I am not. I will not invest time in people who won't do the same for me and that would be my silly advice for you. Of course I'm in no position myself to advise you but you should do what's best for you.
You probably have got nothing in common with your co-workers. That doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you. It is possible to work well with people but not want a connection outside of work. That is fine. You have probably been let down by people so are finding it difficult to trust people again. People can have hundreds of friends but mainly “surface friends” (general chit chat friends, weather, holidays etc) rather than “deeper friendship” friends (meeting up, helping each other). Social networking can be misleading as people might have lots of friends but not who they know that well or people who have changed over the years. Hobbies might help you to connect with people who enjoy what you do, or eventually another line of work. Take care. It is possible to outgrow people or view people as “friendly professionals” rather than be “professional friends.” When people get divorced or face bereavement “friends” can easily disappear or even in an immature way take sides, or claim to want to “keep out of it” or “do not know what to say.” Well the problem is theirs. Good Luck!
the main reason you are lonely is because you were never there for yourself. In order to not feel lonely, you first have to know yourself and realize how beautiful you are. Once you learn to love yourself you don't need anybody to fill up your loneliness because you already got yourself a buddy which is you. "As long as I am with me than I know I will be alright," The quote is basically saying that s/he doesn't need anyone to keep him/her company since s/he already have someone to be with which is himself/herself.
Actually, if you go deeper into it, the feeling of loneliness stems from a feeling of being incomplete, not whole. Wholeness will come in a human only when the human integrates all parts of himself/herself - shadow integration. This will remove all sense of loneliness, even when a human is all alone, all the time.
Thank you for this, well said. Do you have any articles or books you can share that go deeper into the subject. I'm looking to heal myself and become whole 😊.
I really want to thank the narrator! Your smooth and calming voice helps to cope with all emotional turmoil I am in. And these videos really help and complement my therapy. Thanks to all who makes this content, I may not have friends, but I feel one in your videos.
I don't know why I mess up so much. I try so hard not to make any mistakes, but I just keep finding ways to make myself look so stupid. Its really pathetic for me to act like this, because I know I've been acting like a complete jerk around everyone. I let my anger get the best of me, I said things I should've never said, and tried to make it up to everyone. I feel like I'm just becoming a burden to everyone. I see everyone having a fun time, but the truth about me is that I never used to have fun. My parents always treated me like a servant, my old friends ditched me for someone popular, and of course whenever I try to ask for help I just get brushed to the side become ignored. I've been hiding this for the longest time, but I am not sure why I still say. I contradict myself so many times saying that I will stop doing this and I will stop doing that, but I mess up so much. I struggled to even make friends. Most people took advantage of me and just left me in the dust. All of my anger and depression finally snapped and I began becoming the most negative person around everyone and I ended up making myself look like such a fool to the point where people look at me as a vibe of "Nobody wants to be around you. You're too negative". I try so hard to be positive and pretend like everything is okay, but it is not okay because I find myself just finding it so hard to even try to ignore my problems and it becomes worse for me. Even when I try to open up a little bit, some people think I'm just overreacting or thinking that I am making the whole thing up. I don't expect anyone to feel bad for me or even open up to me, because I don't want to ruin their day or waste their time trying to solve my problems. Its something only me can solve. Of course I tell myself "well why I am saying this when I isolate myself?" Truth be told its because I have trust issues, due to being hurt so many times in the past and being mistreated. I don't deserve to be happy not after all the things I've said and done, I am just someone who has suffered through too much pain and whenever I do try to feel happiness its like its there at one point and it fades away. I know it should not be this hard but it is as someone who has an autistic disorder and suffers from depression.
ive been lonely since 13...and i'll laughed so hard cuz i know the "friends" that i had they just don't want me as a friend. but for all of you who more lonely than me, you guys have the strongest will and spirit. let yourself be true and be awesome what you do. cuz you are an awesome person. Stay safe and stay awesome
The main reason you are lonely is because you were never there for yourself. In order to not feel lonely, you first have to know yourself and realize how beautiful you are. Once you learn to love yourself you don't need anybody to feel up your loneliness because you already got yourself a buddy which is you. "As long as I am with me than I know I will be alright," The quote is basically saying that s/he doesn't need anyone to keep him/her company since s/he already have someone to be with which is himself/herself.
I think it's better being lonely rather than having a relationship with toxic people who use us.. I don't know why but I'm convinced that every one is not trustable.
I have that feeling too even though ive never rly been betrayed after elementary. Since high school i alwqys had platonic relationships with people because its hard for me to trust someone. Ive ended up with 2 close friends. Now im in university. wasted my first two semesters doing nothing during quarantine. I started to mistrust everyone even my close friends. I started to imagine which scenarios could happen and how my friends really are ln the inside. This got to a point where i have an attack of fear about my future literally everyday. Im always imagining the worst scenarios possible so that i cant get caught offguard and now im prepared for every bad situation and im an extremly good liar to the point where i pass the lie from one person to the next so that theres no chance of me getting exposed. This has caused many attacks of sudden uncontrollable fear about my future and about the worst outcomes of everything. The worst thing is that i can rationalize almost everything. I know that some fears are just downright stupid and really unlikely. Im always aware of what makes me feel a certain way and that most my negative thoughts are just psychological reactions to things. Im aware of all this because i always use logic and reason for everything but it only helps so mich knowing that and it mostly helped a few months ago. But ive got the feeling that the negative thoughts became mich more frequent and that even being aware about it doenst help anymore. I just want this to end
I see myself as an emotionally intelligent person, I love those around me and appreciate them but the fact that I have my own beliefs and interests and simply a different mind since there are things that I see okay but the people around me never see them acceptable always makes me feel lonely. People misunderstand me even though they see me as a great kind person, and it's like no matter how hard I try to be myself, my closest friends don't see it, they misunderstand it and interpret it in a different way (not as in rude or things like this). I feel like I understand those around me but there's no connection. That's why I want to study uni in another country (after I finish high school next year and hopefully get into astrophysics or an engineering major) meet new people and maybe find a new friend who would understand me! I'll try to make online friends from different places and religions to maybe understand people more and make great friends 😊
I thought I had a close friend when I was able to help them with their problems, but they could not accept my problems when they tried to listen to mine. It hurts that I lost someone so valuable just because they lacked patience with me. It's like the busier you get in your life, the more distances or changes you see between you and your friend (whom you thought would actually be a long term friend) I can understand emotions and also have a high EQ, yet still struggle in a world that only cares about the contributions you put to work or to help a team in project build-up. People need emotional connection, and a lot just take it for granted, or they cannot believe something good is happening to them hence they push the possibility of a decent friend. We humans are so complicated of what we want and when we want something. All the best for your future. Best to clear out some of your goals and naturally you may get the friend/s you have always needed. You look like your in the process of making decisions for your future and that requires a lot of planning and research. As long as you have good intentions, you shall be fine :). I am currently a college student in the field of Animation and design.
@@drakesmith471 True, there's also something disappointing in not being able to do something about it, this world is so big yet it makes me feel like there's a pattern for emotions and that there's not much to do about it.
I feel a similar way. I do have a few friends but I’m only partly emotionally connected to them (if that makes sense) . I have a lot of different interests that they don’t share so I only can talk about very few topics with them. I can’t really show them the person who I really am because I rarely show them my true emotions. I genuinely like them but I still feel lonely 😔. I hope someday I find a person who I can really talk to about my feelings and interests!
Here’s it applied to me: 1. Yes, this really affected me when I was younger, since I was a lot at home and never really learned to socialize 2. I have a great fear of rejection and abandonment 3. I’m in my 6th school and move all the time with the only thing not changing being my mother 4. So yeah, I started feel very codependent with my mother 5. I think this is a thing most teens go through but loneliness makes it even worse 6. Since I am an HSP people often didn’t understand my emotions and needs 7. My fathers ex made me feel unworthy 8. I used to hang out with a lot of people who bullied me everyday but they were the only people I had at that time so I couldn’t break the relationship 9. not really depression, but other mental health problems
It's hard when the only person you've ever truly connected with leaves you after a year and a half essentially because they just didn't feel anything towards you anymore and there was nothing you could do about it
I feel like I have a heart of an extrovert but with the soul of an introvert I want to be with others but I have no motivation to do it and just live the hermit life for most of the time
I'm quite lonely actually but feel more lonely when I'm surrounded by my immediate family. I've moved out of my parents house and I refuse to go back, even that they're begging me to do so. I hope you get what you want ☺️
This is a great video delivering a lot of awareness on loneliness. We are lonely because we have abandon our hearts and forgotten our true self, the Love and Light that we are. There are so many tools to get us back to connecting to our true self and let love in. Meditation is one of the best ways to heal our brokenness.
I honestly accepted being lonely. Like I’m good fr and more happy now . If someone was meant to be in your life they will never reject you. That’s how I feel
The main reason you are lonely is because you were never there for yourself. In order to not feel lonely, you first have to know yourself and realize how beautiful you are. Once you learn to love yourself you don't need anybody to feel up your loneliness because you already got yourself a buddy which is you. "As long as I am with me than I know I will be alright," The quote is basically saying that s/he doesn't need anyone to keep him/her company since s/he already have someone to be with which is himself/herself.
Hey Psych2go I understand if you are too busy to answer this but I have two questions; 1. What if you got rejected by someone close to you and you still want to hang out with them even thought it’s emotionally painful? 2. How do you tell someone sensitive you don’t want to be their friend anymore?
Being lonely was worse when I was a child. Being the only child was rough. But as I got older it wasn’t as bad. I finally got use to it. I got married and my wife and I had two children. Even though we’re divorced now we still stay in touch. Any thing you‘er not use to at first always seems hard but after time, you’ll get use to it. At least that’s how it was for me.
It's great to hear that you have found ways to overcome loneliness and build meaningful relationships throughout your life. Change can be hard, but it can also bring about new opportunities for growth and connection. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. 💜💜 Let's continue to find ways to build new relationships and overcome any obstacles that come our way. And always remember, I'm here to support you. 🌟💡🌳
I didn’t feel lonely until my ex dumped me and my freinds moving away. On top of that, i’ve been suffering from depression and anxiety, my medication for my bipolar disorder had to be increased, i’ve barely passed school, i’ve spent hours in therapy and despite all of that i’m still not been taken serious by my parents who just thinks i’m overreacting. How’s your 2020? :)
I read a quote that says , when the universe wants you to change for the better , it makes your current situation very uncomfortable such that you don't stay in that state or situation with the people around you. It could be your friends , family, people at work etc. So, we happen to feel lonely for that duration of time when the change happens. Embrace this change if you're in this phase.
@@Psych2go the last couple from 4-9 your videos help me out alot and have helped me realize alot of mental health problems I have like anxiety and depression and showing me I may be in a toxic relationship or friendship thank you for these videos 💞💕💖
Thank you Psych2Go with all of these videos this week. I've been going through a depressive episode and being emotionally numb all week. Your videos really help and I always enjoy watching them. Thank you for helping me learn and feel better. ❤️
This happpens when a person allows others to play specific roles that they should naturally fulfill for themselves. Find what that person stands for and take responsibility for it.
I was left completely alone in my own birthday party All of my family members had someone to speak to But I was left completely alone On a day that I supposed to be happy all day I instead Left all alone and I was crying that night Knowing How insignificant I am I am suffering from depression for nearly 10 years I have always struggled with loneliness and Suicidal thoughts all the time It's always a joke to people who hear me Complain about my uninteresting and One Agonizing Hellhole Of a life But they won't be laughing when they see my cold and dead Body Lying on the floor with wrists being cut out and bled to death
I've (and my other siblings) pretty much been at home all my life. My mom has always prevented us from making any friends, having people (except other family members) visit us, and just really going out to places. She has said she just wants to protect us but now she realizes that restricting basically everything a normal teenager does is not good and I'm really glad she is changing and allowing alot more stuff for us to have and do :)
tbh i have many friends but im only friends with them just because we have the same interests, not because we share feelings to each other. no wonder why im lonely :/
Thank you for reminding viewers that people with those symptoms might want to to seek professional care, because sometimes, it could be none of the above. I know of at least two people who complain of feeling lonely, but they will never recognize that they are the problem. Others may not want to be with them too long because they are constantly talking about what a poor, lonely victim they are. No body understands them or loves them even thought they are so loving, so on and so forth. A lay person such as myself, should never even imply they need help. But when they hear it from some one outside their circle, they might, just might take the suggestion seriously. Thanks.
reason why im lonely: "my girlfriend is the reason why i gain confidence until she broke up with me. Until 1week i found out she has another boyfriend even thou the boyfriend was our group friend. They keep their a relationship a secret that even my friends havent notice. I was depressed that day and so lonely. 1month has passed, i cant connect people anymore so i started being myself. People doesnt like me because im too bored to because i am a shy person and does not good communicating or should i say It depends of who im talking with. Its been 7yrs now and still idont have friends anymore. My ex got pregnant when there relationship went up to 6months so both of them drop off to school. And i was continuing schooling. And i found a girl that was the same as me. We talk all and shared out secrets we've been through and she said to me *"no one has ever know what ive been through except you. thank you for understanding my past, she hugged me and cried"* same as mine.. Until 3days we started to hangout but until tomorrow. she died of suicide. That was her last concerning message to me. I feel so much depressed to that time that i could even stab myself with a knife but life must go on. Keep going until you find yourself the real you. And a year past. I found out myself that im still depressed
Yes, being in quarantine is definitely going through a big social change, for all of us. I feel like codependent relationships can naturally evolve from grasping at someone so hard to prevent the persistent loneliness. It’s a big struggle, especially right now. :(
This is 100% me. I knew I was lonely but this confirms it. I don’t know who I am or what I want. No one does understand me, or even wants to. No one cares. I’m just here to pay the bills.
If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. 💜💜 You are not just here to pay the bills, you have so much value and worth. Let's take this time to rediscover who you are and what brings you joy. And if you ever need a listening ear or someone to support you, I'm here. 🌟💡🌳 You are not alone. 💜💜
I agree with number 1 wholeheartedly, and I'm unsure about number 9. I think for me I just don't want to feel like I'm alone. Even though I'm an introvert and like being alone, I feel like I've been alone most of my life, and I don't want to be alone anymore.
Being with someone who makes you feel invisible is not okay, and it's important to remember that you deserve to be seen and valued for who you are. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. 💜💜
I am literally at a point of lonliness where I feel like I'm never enough for anyone and feel like a burden to everyone out there... I gets thoughts like I'm boring, or not interesting at all.. basically I feel inferior to others in terms of socialising because I have been enduring so much lonliness that I think I deserve this for being the person that I'm am.. basically I m sick of myself
It's not uncommon to feel like you're not enough, or that you're a burden to others, especially when you're feeling lonely and isolated. However, these thoughts are not reflective of reality and it's important to remember that they are just negative self-talk that can be overcome with time and self-care. It's also important to recognize that everyone experiences rejection and disappointment at some point in their lives, and that doesn't make you inferior or not worthy of friendship and connection. Consider reaching out to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional for support. They can help you work through your feelings and provide you with new perspectives and coping strategies. Remember to take care of yourself and engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Don't be too hard on yourself and focus on your strengths and positive qualities. You deserve happiness and support, just like everyone else.💜💡
My problem is that I would very much like to have a relationship. But I don't like when someone touching me. Sex is a big problem because I find it disgusting. That's why I'm alone. Two years ago I bought a life-size fabric manga doll in Japan. I buy her clothes, do her hair. She lives with me, she has become my girlfriend. She listens to me when I'm feeling bad or we cuddle together when we watch anime. It makes my loneliness more bearable. I know it's not ideal, but that's what she was invented for. To keep a little company for people like me. I never used to go home because I was alone and did a lot of overtime at work. Now I'm looking forward to go home because I know she's waiting for me. I love her. Strange right?
I feel very lonely, i dont have any friends to hang out with. When i see the other people in my class talking and hanging out with each other i get so jealous and that makes me feel even more lonely. How are they so close, i really don't talk to the others in my class. They seem like they are all friends, i wish i could be closer to them and talk to them more.
It can be difficult to navigate changes in relationships, especially when it feels like the person you were closest with has become a stranger. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. Sometimes, taking a step back and allowing yourself time to reflect can help bring clarity to the situation. And, know that you're never alone, our circle of friends is always here to support each other. It would be great to have you as a part of our community 🌟💡🌳
I wanna share my pain.Today I've went to outside with my mom and brothers to taking a breath. I've promised me to delete toxic people instead of them meet new people and make friends a few month ago. Unfortunately, everything is the same I'm deceiving myself with different excuses. I was going to talk a boy sitting on the bench but this time I used the curfew as an excuse and mom was calling me. I just can't go and say hi to a person like something is preventing me I didn't figure it out yet but I guess it's a self lack of self-esteem from the past. I was a shy child people make fun of it and laughed at me. My middle school was also bad we bullied with my ex friend and a few weeks ago she doesn't answer my message and I block her bcs I couldn't stand it. I'm in high school now but even last year our teacher knowing that I couldn't solve the question she was putting me on the board and that it was stressing me out. I even was happy when the quarantine starts bcs of I've not surrounded by people and no stress. I felt in school like I'm hating. But now I feel the loneliness so deep and I'm thinking go to a psychologist . I have to go to a psychologist? (Sorry for english)
We released a bunch of videos on the topic of emotions this week. Were they helpful? Also, please welcome our newest animator Christian B. Let us know if you like this style, and want to see more!
Could you maybe do a videi about autism ed and ocd your.video's are so clear that I can understand it better and I try to understand my.gf who has autism ocd and anorexia
@@Chelaysiahsaturn That is terrible. Hopefully your gf is having a peachy day. 😎
All of them were helpful and welcome Christian B. 😄😄😄
Hello, could you say how I could make more friends that are girls? Seriously, I cant make any Feminine friendship.
i like the animation :D
“The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly.”
― F. Scott Fitzgerald
Happened to me when my mother got married, everyone moved away from each other and went to different places. My aunt was then living with my grandfather, and my grandmother was put in a nursing home. I then had to deal with my stepfather and mother's poor judgements of me and poor methods of discipline. As it turns out, constantly threatening to kick your kid out does really help then feel secure.
Orange Swirl I’m sorry to hear that. No person should have to deal with those kinds of underhanded things.😕 I hope things are better now.
For me this quote resonates with me as it describes the last 4 years for me since my mom lost her mind. You kind of watch as the world unfurls like a loose string on a poorly made shirt. One half of my family told me to not feel anger about it, it was an illness and nothing warranted anger, the other said that there was nothing wrong with her. I had only my dad and brothers who truly understood and with it came sort of being removed from people, a result of mom and the situation. I didn’t tell anybody until last year, and now, only one or two of the handful I’ve told have been actually helpful. All of my meaningful relationships have been sort of snubbed due to this whole situation at large for all of us and it leaves an already lonely guy lonelier. It’s not always that all you can do is stare, but sometimes all you can do is let out a pain that has nowhere to go. Needless to say though, this quote resonates with me, thank you.
@@Orange_Swirl That's horrible. I hope you're doing well. I've been through the same so I know how that feel. Since my parents got divorced, I live with my grandma and mom. They constantly treathened me to send me to him while telling me how he never cared for me, how he is a monster since I'm in elementary school. It made my head spun because father always kind to me, to think he acted made me feel hurt. Even today I don't know which one is the truth or not, but I don't want to listen such crude words anymore.
Sorry for blabbering stuff. I do really hope you get better as time goes on
This rings true for me alot that it kinda hurts to think about😏. Especially since it's been happening since childhood and things continue to slip from me. Not really anything I can do to stop it or change things I just kinda have to do my best to find happiness while going with the flow🤗
“The mirror is my best friend because when I cry it never laughs.”
― Charlie Chaplin
Hits deep
I mean it's true I do that :)
Woah
But if it does cry, it’s time you said goodbye to the mirror
Oh
I feel lonely but I don't want people around me.
Same
Edit : understandable
Same idk why
Same here. Even though feeling lonely is bad for me, i can't find anybody who i can contact with. They're just... weird to me
Same.
I swear this year made me feel lonely ,depression, anxiousness and to the point I feel like I’m starting to lose myself in all of this.
Your name starting with Christ that was meant to be your name before you came to earth. You have a good purpose to be here and it’s the reason why Satan wants to take away your strength. Stay strong
fellow christopher we have each other
When we change the way we look @ things the things we look @ change👍🙏
Same I feel like I'll just not talk to anyone since nobody wants to talk to me.
I'll only talk to online people
I'm sorry to hear that this year has brought you feelings of loneliness, depression, and anxiety. It's important to prioritize your mental well-being and seek support if needed, as you deserve to regain a sense of self amidst these challenges.
0:39 You don’t know how to connect with people
1:09 You’re afraid of intimacy
1:44 You’re going through a lot of change
2:17 You struggle with codependency
2:50 You’ve lost touch with yourself
3:23 You’re feeling misunderstood
3:54 You’re struggling to feel worthy
4:23 You’re spending time with the wrong people
4:50 You may have depression
Thank you 😊
I think there's a chicken-and-egg situation here. What if you're depressed *because* you feel lonely, *because* you feel misunderstood and not validated, *because* you're not a part of something bigger than yourself, *because* you're frustrated trying to find the right group(s) to feel less alone.
I swear this channel knows me better than I know me.
welcome to world of psychology lol
I know right🤣
I feel u
True
Yeah. Why tho
9 Reasons why you feel lonely:
1- You're lonely
No shit.
i never would’ve thought of that one, wow
i mean, thats a pretty good theory. ill have to think abt that later..
LOL
huh who knew?
“4. You struggle with codependency” - it all went downhill from there
Would you like a video on that?
@@Psych2go Yes!
@@Psych2go *raises hand* ✋ yes please..
Went downhill from 1 for me lel
@@Psych2go Pleeeaaaaaseee!
Why do I feel lonely? Because whenever I get close or vulnerable with someone, it just feels like I'm a burden to them and they already have someone they like better.
Thats exactly how I feel
@@imogenowen348 me too
That's how I feel even to my best friend
Yeah it seems like anyone who makes your top 3 closest people, you fall outside of their top 5.
Exactly
I feel lonely because the people I felt so close with ignore me for other people when in a social setting...just acknowledge me... please
Damn nobody replied to you 😭
*hugs you*
@@ivythealiencat A lot of people can be afraid to say the wrong thing, I just took a leap with what I wanted to say and am just leaving it to fate.
@@Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97 I feel bad tho bc they just wanted to be noticed yet was unanswered again lol
Yeah...I feel you :/
I swear this channel can read my thoughts haha. Whenever I struggle with something a video pops up on the topic!
Confirmation bias.
Same, I sreached everything but nothing described what I'm feeling but psych just read me
Katherine Surur my partner passed away seven weeks ago, I miss her so much... I'm very alone
@@OverlandTT I'm so sorry to hear that 💕 Stay strong! This made me tear up a little. One of my greatest fears is losing my boyfriend and this was a reminder that I should always be grateful for what I have. Thank you for sharing 💕
“All I ever wanted was to reach out and touch another human being not just with my hands but with my heart.”
― Tahereh Mafi
Others think about parties, alcohole, smoking, girl/boyfriends
I think about "How I need to live to be better person"
Me too
Same, I guess there are other people just like me huh
Same
Same
yeah mee too
1. I always see people on social media doing cool stuff with their friends like going to concerts or visiting lost places or whatever... whenever I meet someone (most likely with my twin brother because on my own I never had the chance to meet others) we only sit in a room and play video games...
2. I am 19 and I never had a closer relationship to anyone... especially not to girls... and I think that wont change because I always have this unconcious feeling of not being good enough... I cant keep good conversations going for long because after a few words I just dont know what to say anymore... I am super shy around others and cant come up with fun things to say or to do... i can imagine that being around me is super boring.
3. well...not really... I started going to college a year ago but my loneliness started way back in high school.
4. Since I never had someone like this I cant really tell why but I still make others source of my happines... on my own Im sad most of the time and dont know what to do because everything bores me.
5. I dont really know what I want from life and I dont even know what I enjoy doing... my interests change every few days and I just cant do anything for a longer period of time...
6. Especially my parents dont really know me... I am kind of different when I am with them... I actually think of mysef as funny and I can make them laugh but I dont tell them about my problems because they end up belittling everything I say.
7. Well... like I already mentioned I dont feel good enough for closer relationships but I never experienced a break up... its more like whenever I tried to arrange to see a "friend" they always made excuses why they dont have time all of a sudden.
8. I dont spend much time at all with anyone... only place I see people is work.
9. since this is a problem for me since I went to high school first I honestly think depression is a thing for me.
I dont know why I wrote that... noone will read it anyways xD but I somehow wanted to write it down...
@@redflower295 thank you, but nothing relly has changed apparently :/
I can't lie I also loose interest easily on things that used to be my thing
I don’t know what to tell you 😭 but from my experience i tried to mimic how other people talk as a kid because i was that weird, shy , lonely kid in school.
Surprisingly it worked a little bit! Overtime you pick up some stuff.
But you need to mimic only “how” they talk and then add your own uniqueness to it .
I also watched a lot of youtubers in high school just to know how they talk with strangers.
I feel like an alien learning how to be a human 😂💔
Hope you have a nice day 🥳
So relatable
Point number 2 is so relatable man. I always see myself as uninteresting, i always fear that the words i say arent good, etc.
The only reason I fell lonely is because i don't have friends and im getting bored talking to my parents all the time
Atleast you talking to your parents 🥺
I can relate. I have friends online and in real life but I feel I am not close to anyone and it hurts to know that when I have problems I don’t know who to turn to. I try to be strong but I don’t know if I can handle it
Will you be my friend
@wham s hey
At least you are able to talk to your parents
I almost cry watching this all the signs are so relatable
Oh my, i though it was weird that i cried watching this. Not alone huh
Which signs did you notice relate to you most?
@@Psych2go the "you struggle with codependency" and "you've lost touch with yourself" parts. The last part hits so bad
Same here.
Yeah it’s hits you it hits you hard
Feeling lonely is harsh, not gonna lie. Give yourself time to be sad but after that I think you should put yourself out there and really try to create meaningful connections with others :)
Thank you. I'll try.
Not when u have social anxietyyyyyyyyy
Feeling lonely caused from heartbreak is the worst. Last year i get rejected and until now i feel lonely and still cant move on. now i even more lonely because of coronavirus quarantine.
I can’t make connections my mom said I can’t talk to anyone until school starts up so I have no way of talking to anybody at all and I’m gonna lose the connections that I had with people bc I can’t talk to them from March-August lol (I made this yt acc as a secret)
It's quarantine😭
1: you're lonely
That's it
:'(
Андрей Метасов mood
I just want like not be freezing in my room and not be lonely
I have a group of friends. We're all epic gamers. But whenever I'm not communicating with them, I am lonely and every time I wanna play a game, I have to be playing with someone. Or I have to watch a video with someone. That's why I like reaction videos, because it makes me feel like someone's there with me.
@Julya Flyer Ok.
I'm lonely because nobody wants to spend time with me because I am Terminally Ill. My friends have told me that they feel uncomfortable being with me and don't know what to say. I have told them to talk to me about everyday things, the News, what they have been doing, etc and to laugh and joke with me.
if you feel lonely ... you can talk to me .. cause i am also alone
Hey I hope you are still around. Death is only a station on the tracks, not the end of the line.
Are you still with us?
That must be the saddest thing to experience, knowing you are terminally ill and nobody wants to spend time with you or talk with you. If you can view it as a gift to turn inward to find your best friend in your heart who is always with you, then you will be happy. May you be filled with the love and light that you are.
The only reason why I get lonely is when someone who I talk to every day stops talking.
I get so used to it that I get so lonely even when I don't talk to them for just one day.
This is so relatable with me 😭😭😭😢
I can absolutely relate!!🙏
Omg I can relate
1: you don't know how to connect with people
Me: well this is going great so far *sobbing*
Yep 🤣
😢it is true though
This is the most accurate thing I’ve heard all day
Basically, I fear making friends cause I always feel they will eventually turn on me. I get very excited and anxious around them, and now, I fear having friends sometimes. I've gone through 2 breakups with someone I still love, lost so many friends throughout only 2 years, and seemingly can't ever catch a break. Man, life just sucks sometimes.
Yep I've been down that road last year. someone turned on me because they told me to choose between my boyfriend and then going out and and were unreasonable when I did go out with them, expecting me to pay for everything, expecting me to nod my head and say yes to everything and I couldn't. I'm tired of people being friends with me to try and get stuff out of me. Im fed up with guys approaching me to exercise their mistaken right to try to treat me like a blow-up doll. I'd rather be lonely than with people and desperately unhappy.
I feel the same way…I lost my close friends less than a year plus at the time I was in a toxic and abusive relationship and they don’t understand what I went through so they drifted away from me. I had a boyfriend and he broke up with me after I felt like I had someone who I felt like I didn’t need to look anywhere else. Even with family I still feel so alone without friends. And it is really affecting me tonight.
I met a girl at work this past summer, we became pretty close. Now she's moved away and barely talks to me.... it hurts a lot more than I ever would have imagined, especially since making friends isn't easy for me (I only have a few) and have never had a girlfriend.
I am so sorry to hear that.:( if it makes you feel a bit better, I lost all the friends I was close with I considered real ones but it turned out they weren’t honest and real as I took our friendship to be (as I behaved towards them). In a matter of love, I ,lost’ 10 years with someone I loved deeply, my best years, the youth; we were breaking up for at least 10 times, I even moved out to another country for him (twice), and now? We are complete strangers, so the result is as if nothing that ever was really existed, result of it all is just a zero and he was the love of my life no matter result. I’ve heard thou he has a gf now, I am still alone (,,someone worthy” just didn’t come along). So what I meant to say with this my comment/ story to your story is that if it makes your pain a bit less heavier, I’m at least glad I could help.. ;)
I just can't make friends or give love anymore.
I don't know why. I just can't anymore, there are so many reasons why. I'm constantly questioning myself about "Do I need friends?" "Will I live and die lonely? Unloved?" "What am I doing?" "Why?" "How?" And so much more. I'm just overwhelmed, but I'll never be able to make a new friend.
I feel the same thing and idk how to do about it
“Because the person you spend the most time with has become a complete stranger to you.”
Wow. That hit different.
When you finally realize the mix of emotions you’ve been having was actually loneliness
Cheetahwarrior2054 Ah, so that’s why I’ve been cutting myself!
👌100% relating to this. :(
@@melodyal3357 Hope your doing better now buddy, it's been a year since you commented this.
Same, I completely understood it just a few days ago. All those things I tried to identify as the reasons of my suffering are just small parts of the picture of loneliness
4:06 I started crying with the lil plant dude 🥺
Same
Same here..
I feel lonely a lot
Me 2 Sans, i just don't show it.
Do you want to be lonely together? =)
The Alternate Universe same all my friends hang out and go places with the whole friend group but don’t invite me. And my friends barely wanna text me anymore, heck most just stopped replying
I’m lonely every day
same here, ........
I’m with the wrong people and a heartbreak made me be so protective over myself that I don’t let others in
It's understandable to feel protective after a heartbreak, but it's important to keep an open heart and allow new connections to form. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. 💜💜 Let's work through those fears and find new, supportive people to surround ourselves with. And always remember, I'm here to support you. 🌟💡🌳
That’s me. Even when I’m with my group of friends I feel like I don’t fit in and I don’t open up...
🥺🖤i know what it's like to wake up everyday and feel like you dont belong, you can be in a room with a million people and still feel alone .
Here is the summary of the video
1. You don't know how to connect with people
2. You are afraid of intimacy
3. You're going through a lot of change
4. You struggle with codependency
5. You've lost touch with yourself
6. You're feeling misunderstood
7. You're struggling to feel worthy
8. You're spending time with the wrong people
9. You may have depression
no thanks
Thank you
I'm 3, 5, 6, 7 and 9...... damn
@@simona_sigmund1001 don't worry things will get better
Man.. 1, 3, 5, 6, 7 AND 9.
I am not okay :(
The fact that all the things she stated in this video is what’s EXACTLY going on in my life rn , like everything relates to me
This is very valuable. I am struggling since the passing of my adored wife last year and feel that I have learned something today. Thank you.
My condolences for your loss. Grief can be a difficult journey, but you don't have to go through it alone. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. 💜💜 Together, we can find ways to heal and honor the memory of your loved one. 🌟💡🌳
Wow this hit hard. I’m the loneliest I’ve ever been in my 31 years. I was codependent on my sister for so long and now have had to cut her off due to her becoming abusive and toxic. I don’t even know who I am outside of her. I can’t relate to people. I crave human interactions yet I have social anxiety. I struggle to even have conversations with coworkers. I see them all get along so well, even hanging out outside of work and I am struggling to try to be someone they can be friends with. I haven’t had friends in over 13 years and I feel empty. I spent all of yesterday and today in bed sleeping because I feel uninterested in anything. Why did I have to be this way 😞
I'm almost 24 and I can see my life going this way. I was also codependent on my sister but she travelled and we were separated so we so each other less and less but still kept a very good contact. Then I was with a friend of mine without realizing it before he cut me loose. I'm now uninterested in most things and struggle to interact with people if it's not meaningful. I won't engage in conversation unless there is something really profound to discuss. Sometimes I try but it just comes out the wrong way so sometimes I just don't.
Sorry to bother you with my story. I just wanted to tell you I can relate somehow.
Obviously I'm suffering from this but I think it helps me know myself better. I believe that I shouldn't be struggling to be friends with someone because I know I can be a very good friend and if people don't care to discuss/interact with me despite me trying, I let go. They probably don't feel the need/want to be friends with me and that's ok. Not everybody can get along. At this point in my life, I'm mentally preparing myself to be misunderstood and alone forever and that's ok because I learned through all my hardships being alone is a lot better than being with the wrong people or passing for someone I am not.
I will not invest time in people who won't do the same for me and that would be my silly advice for you. Of course I'm in no position myself to advise you but you should do what's best for you.
Ironically you’re not alone ❤️
You probably have got nothing in common with your co-workers. That doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you. It is possible to work well with people but not want a connection outside of work. That is fine. You have probably been let down by people so are finding it difficult to trust people again. People can have hundreds of friends but mainly “surface friends” (general chit chat friends, weather, holidays etc) rather than “deeper friendship” friends (meeting up, helping each other). Social networking can be misleading as people might have lots of friends but not who they know that well or people who have changed over the years.
Hobbies might help you to connect with people who enjoy what you do, or eventually another line of work. Take care. It is possible to outgrow people or view people as “friendly professionals” rather than be “professional friends.”
When people get divorced or face bereavement “friends” can easily disappear or even in an immature way take sides, or claim to want to “keep out of it” or “do not know what to say.” Well the problem is theirs. Good Luck!
the main reason you are lonely is because you were never there for yourself. In order to not feel lonely, you first have to know yourself and realize how beautiful you are. Once you learn to love yourself you don't need anybody to fill up your loneliness because you already got yourself a buddy which is you. "As long as I am with me than I know I will be alright," The quote is basically saying that s/he doesn't need anyone to keep him/her company since s/he already have someone to be with which is himself/herself.
You're perfect in your own way! Hope you can get better and find some amazing ppl, sending my love and support 💖💕
When you realize you have all these signs: (chuckles) *I’m in danger*
Ah ha ha ha....same😭
Haha yeah
Same
Same here 😅
Same
Actually, if you go deeper into it, the feeling of loneliness stems from a feeling of being incomplete, not whole. Wholeness will come in a human only when the human integrates all parts of himself/herself - shadow integration. This will remove all sense of loneliness, even when a human is all alone, all the time.
Thank you for this, well said. Do you have any articles or books you can share that go deeper into the subject. I'm looking to heal myself and become whole 😊.
@@midnightblues9974 I have some self help videos on my channel. Please feel free to check them out 😊
Sounds interesting. We would need more explanations, with more details regarding to your comment.. :)
I really want to thank the narrator! Your smooth and calming voice helps to cope with all emotional turmoil I am in. And these videos really help and complement my therapy. Thanks to all who makes this content, I may not have friends, but I feel one in your videos.
I don't know why I mess up so much. I try so hard not to make any mistakes, but I just keep finding ways to make myself look so stupid. Its really pathetic for me to act like this, because I know I've been acting like a complete jerk around everyone. I let my anger get the best of me, I said things I should've never said, and tried to make it up to everyone. I feel like I'm just becoming a burden to everyone. I see everyone having a fun time, but the truth about me is that I never used to have fun. My parents always treated me like a servant, my old friends ditched me for someone popular, and of course whenever I try to ask for help I just get brushed to the side become ignored.
I've been hiding this for the longest time, but I am not sure why I still say. I contradict myself so many times saying that I will stop doing this and I will stop doing that, but I mess up so much. I struggled to even make friends. Most people took advantage of me and just left me in the dust. All of my anger and depression finally snapped and I began becoming the most negative person around everyone and I ended up making myself look like such a fool to the point where people look at me as a vibe of "Nobody wants to be around you. You're too negative".
I try so hard to be positive and pretend like everything is okay, but it is not okay because I find myself just finding it so hard to even try to ignore my problems and it becomes worse for me. Even when I try to open up a little bit, some people think I'm just overreacting or thinking that I am making the whole thing up. I don't expect anyone to feel bad for me or even open up to me, because I don't want to ruin their day or waste their time trying to solve my problems. Its something only me can solve. Of course I tell myself "well why I am saying this when I isolate myself?" Truth be told its because I have trust issues, due to being hurt so many times in the past and being mistreated.
I don't deserve to be happy not after all the things I've said and done, I am just someone who has suffered through too much pain and whenever I do try to feel happiness its like its there at one point and it fades away. I know it should not be this hard but it is as someone who has an autistic disorder and suffers from depression.
ive been lonely since 13...and i'll laughed so hard cuz i know the "friends" that i had they just don't want me as a friend. but for all of you who more lonely than me, you guys have the strongest will and spirit. let yourself be true and be awesome what you do.
cuz you are an awesome person.
Stay safe and stay awesome
The main reason you are lonely is because you were never there for yourself. In order to not feel lonely, you first have to know yourself and realize how beautiful you are. Once you learn to love yourself you don't need anybody to feel up your loneliness because you already got yourself a buddy which is you. "As long as I am with me than I know I will be alright," The quote is basically saying that s/he doesn't need anyone to keep him/her company since s/he already have someone to be with which is himself/herself.
Just figured out it was on unlisted XD
You must have found it from the previous video!
Psych2Go Yes I did!
My life in a nutshell.
I guess I'm not alone in this video, by the lists here.
Thank you for the video...
I'm a lonely person who is hurting.
It helps to reach out, even to random strangers on the internet ( which is what I am doing now).
i m in tears while watching this, loneliness sucks
I think it's better being lonely rather than having a relationship with toxic people who use us..
I don't know why but I'm convinced that every one is not trustable.
I have that feeling too even though ive never rly been betrayed after elementary. Since high school i alwqys had platonic relationships with people because its hard for me to trust someone. Ive ended up with 2 close friends. Now im in university. wasted my first two semesters doing nothing during quarantine. I started to mistrust everyone even my close friends. I started to imagine which scenarios could happen and how my friends really are ln the inside. This got to a point where i have an attack of fear about my future literally everyday. Im always imagining the worst scenarios possible so that i cant get caught offguard and now im prepared for every bad situation and im an extremly good liar to the point where i pass the lie from one person to the next so that theres no chance of me getting exposed. This has caused many attacks of sudden uncontrollable fear about my future and about the worst outcomes of everything. The worst thing is that i can rationalize almost everything. I know that some fears are just downright stupid and really unlikely. Im always aware of what makes me feel a certain way and that most my negative thoughts are just psychological reactions to things. Im aware of all this because i always use logic and reason for everything but it only helps so mich knowing that and it mostly helped a few months ago. But ive got the feeling that the negative thoughts became mich more frequent and that even being aware about it doenst help anymore. I just want this to end
Relates to almost every reason*
“Eh I’m fine”
When the guy at the Apple Store was helping me set up my new phone he looked at my contacts and said, these are ALL your contacts?
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I see myself as an emotionally intelligent person, I love those around me and appreciate them but the fact that I have my own beliefs and interests and simply a different mind since there are things that I see okay but the people around me never see them acceptable always makes me feel lonely. People misunderstand me even though they see me as a great kind person, and it's like no matter how hard I try to be myself, my closest friends don't see it, they misunderstand it and interpret it in a different way (not as in rude or things like this). I feel like I understand those around me but there's no connection. That's why I want to study uni in another country (after I finish high school next year and hopefully get into astrophysics or an engineering major) meet new people and maybe find a new friend who would understand me! I'll try to make online friends from different places and religions to maybe understand people more and make great friends 😊
I thought I had a close friend when I was able to help them with their problems, but they could not accept my problems when they tried to listen to mine.
It hurts that I lost someone so valuable just because they lacked patience with me. It's like the busier you get in your life, the more distances or changes you see between you and your friend (whom you thought would actually be a long term friend)
I can understand emotions and also have a high EQ, yet still struggle in a world that only cares about the contributions you put to work or to help a team in project build-up. People need emotional connection, and a lot just take it for granted, or they cannot believe something good is happening to them hence they push the possibility of a decent friend. We humans are so complicated of what we want and when we want something.
All the best for your future. Best to clear out some of your goals and naturally you may get the friend/s you have always needed. You look like your in the process of making decisions for your future and that requires a lot of planning and research. As long as you have good intentions, you shall be fine :).
I am currently a college student in the field of Animation and design.
Yeah, there is something disappointing in understanding others so much better than they could begin to try understand you.😕
@@tranquillite1351 Thank you! And I hope the best for u too ☆
@@drakesmith471 True, there's also something disappointing in not being able to do something about it, this world is so big yet it makes me feel like there's a pattern for emotions and that there's not much to do about it.
I feel a similar way. I do have a few friends but I’m only partly emotionally connected to them (if that makes sense) . I have a lot of different interests that they don’t share so I only can talk about very few topics with them. I can’t really show them the person who I really am because I rarely show them my true emotions. I genuinely like them but I still feel lonely 😔. I hope someday I find a person who I can really talk to about my feelings and interests!
Here’s it applied to me:
1. Yes, this really affected me when I was younger, since I was a lot at home and never really learned to socialize
2. I have a great fear of rejection and abandonment
3. I’m in my 6th school and move all the time with the only thing not changing being my mother
4. So yeah, I started feel very codependent with my mother
5. I think this is a thing most teens go through but loneliness makes it even worse
6. Since I am an HSP people often didn’t understand my emotions and needs
7. My fathers ex made me feel unworthy
8. I used to hang out with a lot of people who bullied me everyday but they were the only people I had at that time so I couldn’t break the relationship
9. not really depression, but other mental health problems
It's hard when the only person you've ever truly connected with leaves you after a year and a half essentially because they just didn't feel anything towards you anymore and there was nothing you could do about it
:( I'm going through something similar.
@@brittanyv It's okay. It gets easier I promise. Please take care of yourself my friend
Yeah … happend to my friends
I feel like I have a heart of an extrovert but with the soul of an introvert
I want to be with others but I have no motivation to do it and just live the hermit life for most of the time
Me too bro it’s so frustrating
I just want to found someone that really loves me, I hate being in my house it's like being trapped with people who want to destroy who I am
I'm quite lonely actually but feel more lonely when I'm surrounded by my immediate family. I've moved out of my parents house and I refuse to go back, even that they're begging me to do so. I hope you get what you want ☺️
When you are an hsp and feeling lonely for more than 9 years and not sure if you have depression 🙂💔
too relatable HAHA
i felt this comment, not even lying a little bit. are we the same person? finally someone i can relate to
Oh god yes , I’m also an HSP
same omg
@@mayak8131 every one hates me at school because I am a HSP
This is a great video delivering a lot of awareness on loneliness. We are lonely because we have abandon our hearts and forgotten our true self, the Love and Light that we are. There are so many tools to get us back to connecting to our true self and let love in. Meditation is one of the best ways to heal our brokenness.
I honestly accepted being lonely. Like I’m good fr and more happy now . If someone was meant to be in your life they will never reject you. That’s how I feel
Thanks for telling the reasons why I felt so lonely.
The main reason you are lonely is because you were never there for yourself. In order to not feel lonely, you first have to know yourself and realize how beautiful you are. Once you learn to love yourself you don't need anybody to feel up your loneliness because you already got yourself a buddy which is you. "As long as I am with me than I know I will be alright," The quote is basically saying that s/he doesn't need anyone to keep him/her company since s/he already have someone to be with which is himself/herself.
@@yourfavoriteperson3653 wonderful... 🤩🤩🤩
Dang these comments look lonely
We'll help you be less lonely by commenting below ;)
Psych2Go, lmao it helped a little. Thanks for brightening my day 😂
I swear that this is the most wholesome channel I’ve ever seen.
Wow, the animation is beautiful!
thanks
mate you didnt evne do shit@@yourehereforthatarentyou
Hey Psych2go I understand if you are too busy to answer this but I have two questions;
1. What if you got rejected by someone close to you and you still want to hang out with them even thought it’s emotionally painful?
2. How do you tell someone sensitive you don’t want to be their friend anymore?
Being lonely was worse when I was a child. Being the only child was rough. But as I got older it wasn’t as bad. I finally got use to it. I got married and my wife and I had two children. Even though we’re divorced now we still stay in touch. Any thing you‘er not use to at first always seems hard but after time, you’ll get use to it. At least that’s how it was for me.
It's great to hear that you have found ways to overcome loneliness and build meaningful relationships throughout your life. Change can be hard, but it can also bring about new opportunities for growth and connection. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. 💜💜 Let's continue to find ways to build new relationships and overcome any obstacles that come our way. And always remember, I'm here to support you. 🌟💡🌳
I didn’t feel lonely until my ex dumped me and my freinds moving away. On top of that, i’ve been suffering from depression and anxiety, my medication for my bipolar disorder had to be increased, i’ve barely passed school, i’ve spent hours in therapy and despite all of that i’m still not been taken serious by my parents who just thinks i’m overreacting.
How’s your 2020? :)
Stay strong.I really hope you get through these hard times.
@@lekireddylavanya3910 I’m better now. I’m living comfortable in Oslo nowadays and 2021 is looking brighter for me. It’s been nice lately :)
@@OPPSATO1 I'm happy for u 😄
Have a nice year ahead . Happy Christmas!!
@@lekireddylavanya3910 Thanks and you too! Marry Christmas :)
Your definitely not alone for this
I always try to be like them in front of them so that they talk to me. And later feel confused about my self. *I just don't know what I'm doing*
Same, doing that with every group of people I've ever interacted with made me lose my personality and I'm so angry at myself for that
I REALLY got called out in this video. I’m forever grateful for this channel. They know me, and can explain me better than I ever could.❤️
I read a quote that says , when the universe wants you to change for the better , it makes your current situation very uncomfortable such that you don't stay in that state or situation with the people around you. It could be your friends , family, people at work etc. So, we happen to feel lonely for that duration of time when the change happens. Embrace this change if you're in this phase.
When you finally open up about your feelings and they don't say or do anything. Just awkward silence waiting for you to fix the awkwardness. 😶🌫️
I can relate to all of these unfortunately :(
Which ones do you relate to most?
@@Psych2go from 4 to 9
Me too😔
@@Psych2go the last couple from 4-9 your videos help me out alot and have helped me realize alot of mental health problems I have like anxiety and depression and showing me I may be in a toxic relationship or friendship thank you for these videos 💞💕💖
Same :
Thank you Psych2Go with all of these videos this week. I've been going through a depressive episode and being emotionally numb all week. Your videos really help and I always enjoy watching them. Thank you for helping me learn and feel better. ❤️
This happpens when a person allows others to play specific roles that they should naturally fulfill for themselves.
Find what that person stands for and take responsibility for it.
Im failing school, but the teacher are guving me tremendous amounts of work and its taking a tone in my mental health
I was left completely alone in my own birthday party
All of my family members had someone to speak to
But I was left completely alone
On a day that I supposed to be happy all day
I instead
Left all alone and I was crying that night
Knowing How insignificant I am
I am suffering from depression for nearly 10 years
I have always struggled with loneliness and Suicidal thoughts all the time
It's always a joke to people who hear me Complain about my uninteresting and One Agonizing Hellhole Of a life
But they won't be laughing when they see my cold and dead Body Lying on the floor with wrists being cut out and bled to death
She has the most beautiful comforting voice.
You all help me get through my difficulties even when I think it's hard. Thank You!
Video: 8 mins ago
Comments: *10 hours ago*
Nice pfp btw
I found Chaeyoung in my closet- thank you
I've (and my other siblings) pretty much been at home all my life. My mom has always prevented us from making any friends, having people (except other family members) visit us, and just really going out to places. She has said she just wants to protect us but now she realizes that restricting basically everything a normal teenager does is not good and I'm really glad she is changing and allowing alot more stuff for us to have and do :)
Reason one: I have no friends.
Reason two: I have no friends.
Reason three: I have no frien-
Edit: How’d this get so many likes?! 😳
Cxco Floofs Oof, same. (tho I don’t have siblings)
I have five friends. One of them I’m about to lose..
Hey, we can be friends
@@3vangelist_art471 for me as well. Even my husband.
tbh i have many friends but im only friends with them just because we have the same interests, not because we share feelings to each other. no wonder why im lonely :/
Thank you for reminding viewers that people with those symptoms might want to to seek professional care, because sometimes, it could be none of the above. I know of at least two people who complain of feeling lonely, but they will never recognize that they are the problem. Others may not want to be with them too long because they are constantly talking about what a poor, lonely victim they are. No body understands them or loves them even thought they are so loving, so on and so forth. A lay person such as myself, should never even imply they need help. But when they hear it from some one outside their circle, they might, just might take the suggestion seriously. Thanks.
Or I’m lonely because my “friends” don’t give a crap about me and forget I exist. Heart goes out to those who are in the same spot.
6 you feel misunderstood
"As an introvert I can relate a lot"
@Adrian R People say that they believe on what do i say, but i feel that they are believing on the oppositive.
This only confirms my suspicions that I'm actually really lonely, especially number 6
OMG i have never felf this alone in my life and with the pandemic things got worse😣
reason why im lonely:
"my girlfriend is the reason why i gain confidence until she broke up with me. Until 1week i found out she has another boyfriend even thou the boyfriend was our group friend. They keep their a relationship a secret that even my friends havent notice. I was depressed that day and so lonely. 1month has passed, i cant connect people anymore so i started being myself. People doesnt like me because im too bored to because i am a shy person and does not good communicating or should i say It depends of who im talking with. Its been 7yrs now and still idont have friends anymore. My ex got pregnant when there relationship went up to 6months so both of them drop off to school. And i was continuing schooling. And i found a girl that was the same as me. We talk all and shared out secrets we've been through and she said to me *"no one has ever know what ive been through except you. thank you for understanding my past, she hugged me and cried"* same as mine.. Until 3days we started to hangout but until tomorrow. she died of suicide. That was her last concerning message to me. I feel so much depressed to that time that i could even stab myself with a knife but life must go on. Keep going until you find yourself the real you. And a year past. I found out myself that im still depressed
Dude I'm so tired I cba what I say anymore
I just want people who care for me and love me for me
Yes, being in quarantine is definitely going through a big social change, for all of us. I feel like codependent relationships can naturally evolve from grasping at someone so hard to prevent the persistent loneliness. It’s a big struggle, especially right now. :(
I usually feel lonely when I’m around the wrong people 🙋🏽💖✨ Xx
That's one of the big reasons.
Yep when Im in school, it feel horrible and I feel like I just don't want to be there
But when I connect with people I always Find Toxic People
im sorry to hear that
There is difference between beeing alone and feeling lonely
This is 100% me. I knew I was lonely but this confirms it. I don’t know who I am or what I want. No one does understand me, or even wants to. No one cares. I’m just here to pay the bills.
If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. 💜💜 You are not just here to pay the bills, you have so much value and worth. Let's take this time to rediscover who you are and what brings you joy. And if you ever need a listening ear or someone to support you, I'm here. 🌟💡🌳 You are not alone. 💜💜
Late night thoughts 🙃
Yep, wanna be instagram friends?
What time was it? :)
Psych2Go I don’t even remember
+Mcnycrum
I be like that.
I agree with number 1 wholeheartedly, and I'm unsure about number 9. I think for me I just don't want to feel like I'm alone. Even though I'm an introvert and like being alone, I feel like I've been alone most of my life, and I don't want to be alone anymore.
Same.
Sometimes i feel like i should stop watching this channel
Every video i watch makes me hate my life more
I am with someone who yesterday made me feel completely invisible.
Being with someone who makes you feel invisible is not okay, and it's important to remember that you deserve to be seen and valued for who you are. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. 💜💜
6) Your feeling misunderstood
That hurt.. 😔
I am literally at a point of lonliness where I feel like I'm never enough for anyone and feel like a burden to everyone out there... I gets thoughts like I'm boring, or not interesting at all.. basically I feel inferior to others in terms of socialising because I have been enduring so much lonliness that I think I deserve this for being the person that I'm am.. basically I m sick of myself
It's not uncommon to feel like you're not enough, or that you're a burden to others, especially when you're feeling lonely and isolated. However, these thoughts are not reflective of reality and it's important to remember that they are just negative self-talk that can be overcome with time and self-care.
It's also important to recognize that everyone experiences rejection and disappointment at some point in their lives, and that doesn't make you inferior or not worthy of friendship and connection.
Consider reaching out to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional for support. They can help you work through your feelings and provide you with new perspectives and coping strategies.
Remember to take care of yourself and engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Don't be too hard on yourself and focus on your strengths and positive qualities. You deserve happiness and support, just like everyone else.💜💡
My problem is that I would very much like to have a relationship. But I don't like when someone touching me. Sex is a big problem because I find it disgusting. That's why I'm alone. Two years ago I bought a life-size fabric manga doll in Japan. I buy her clothes, do her hair. She lives with me, she has become my girlfriend. She listens to me when I'm feeling bad or we cuddle together when we watch anime. It makes my loneliness more bearable. I know it's not ideal, but that's what she was invented for. To keep a little company for people like me. I never used to go home because I was alone and did a lot of overtime at work. Now I'm looking forward to go home because I know she's waiting for me. I love her.
Strange right?
Respect
I feel very lonely, i dont have any friends to hang out with. When i see the other people in my class talking and hanging out with each other i get so jealous and that makes me feel even more lonely. How are they so close, i really don't talk to the others in my class. They seem like they are all friends, i wish i could be closer to them and talk to them more.
"When the person you spend the most time with becomes a complete stranger" Facts.
It can be difficult to navigate changes in relationships, especially when it feels like the person you were closest with has become a stranger. If you could use a friend, I'm here for you. Sometimes, taking a step back and allowing yourself time to reflect can help bring clarity to the situation. And, know that you're never alone, our circle of friends is always here to support each other. It would be great to have you as a part of our community 🌟💡🌳
i dont know why but after watching this video i felt happy thank you now i know what is causing me lonely, thank you very much
Psych2Go: People misunderstand you
Me: I have no one to misunderstand me :’)
Sed
When a random UA-cam channel treats you better than your own family :)
I wanna share my pain.Today I've went to outside with my mom and brothers to taking a breath. I've promised me to delete toxic people instead of them meet new people and make friends a few month ago. Unfortunately, everything is the same I'm deceiving myself with different excuses. I was going to talk a boy sitting on the bench but this time I used the curfew as an excuse and mom was calling me.
I just can't go and say hi to a person like something is preventing me I didn't figure it out yet but I guess it's a self lack of self-esteem from the past.
I was a shy child people make fun of it and laughed at me. My middle school was also bad we bullied with my ex friend and a few weeks ago she doesn't answer my message and I block her bcs I couldn't stand it. I'm in high school now but even last year our teacher knowing that I couldn't solve the question she was putting me on the board and that it was stressing me out. I even was happy when the quarantine starts bcs of I've not surrounded by people and no stress. I felt in school like I'm hating. But now I feel the loneliness so deep and I'm thinking go to a psychologist . I have to go to a psychologist? (Sorry for english)
It's so hard =/
Reason 2,3 ..
It felt so real.. you can read our minds.. you exactly know what's going wrong in our life..
Thank you for this video🙃
these videos really hit where it hurts. someone wanna be friends?