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  • @TheLamrose
    @TheLamrose Рік тому +151

    It is so refreshing to hear a designer with "real life" suggestions. I love that you are practical, and help us create great looking spaces without breaking the bank! Brava, Valentina!

    • @HouseofValentina
      @HouseofValentina  Рік тому +8

      You are so welcome!

    • @susanwilson-stanton8706
      @susanwilson-stanton8706 Рік тому +7

      Agree!!

    • @sunitamay123
      @sunitamay123 Рік тому

      ​@@HouseofValentina Your house is very charming! Love your videos! I followed your link for "Amazon live painting" videos and, unfortunately, couldn't find the one where you were creating your own art. Would you please help to locate it, please?

    • @marilyntemple1974
      @marilyntemple1974 Рік тому +1

      I would also add that her personality is much appreciated! Seriously, some decorators are ridiculously unauthentic!

  • @MilaN-lt2mq
    @MilaN-lt2mq Рік тому +53

    You make some good points. Just wanted to add that thrift shops, consignment shops, second-hand shops are a good source of vintage furniture and décor at reasonable prices. Also want to say that Home Goods and Target do not sell art. They sell mass produced copies. You can get original artwork at art fairs and estate sales for very little money or just frame prints of your favorite artists.

    • @Tina-si1gz
      @Tina-si1gz Рік тому +1

      One of my sisters was an artist and she painted several pictures for me including one of my precious pet. She used to take paintings to Starving Artists shows. Excellent places to get quality one of a kind true art to place in your home. One of my granddaughters is talented and severs of her paintings were exhibited in a HS art show. One was Vincent Van Gough’s Starry Night which I framed and hung above a door. I love it.

    • @wallihaley5194
      @wallihaley5194 Рік тому +1

      Great point! And the best part is much of that vintage furniture was very well-made compared to the furniture of today. And there are so many artists that you can purchase original art from as opposed to mass produced copies from Home Goods, etc.

    • @krish2338
      @krish2338 Рік тому

      I’ve found some great mid century or vintage pieces at thrift stores for a few dollars that are being sold for hundred or thousands on 1st dibs or Chairish. Thrifting is an art and luck but a great way to curate pieces over time instead of purchasing a showroom at a designer store. Spray paint works wonders too to upgrade items like lighting.

  • @meredithmorgan8480
    @meredithmorgan8480 Рік тому +37

    “Don’t over spend on Lighting” - thank you! I love my faux Mouille ceiling fixture, this makes me feel better that it’s not the real thing. I adore it!

    • @carolebuckle7977
      @carolebuckle7977 Рік тому +1

      I agree, if you are happy with your pieces keep them, I do 🤛🏻🇬🇧

  • @sharonvik2068
    @sharonvik2068 Рік тому +21

    Our rule of thumb is to gather inspiration and then wait for a minimum of 60 days before a purchase - even for small purchases. The breathing space allows for thoughtful reflection.

    • @alycat9186
      @alycat9186 Рік тому

      Couldn’t agree more with this!!! I’ve had this happen SOOOOO many times where I’m glad I didn’t pull the trigger on something right away and ended up changing my mind. If it’s something hard to find I’ll buy it and then live with it while I’m still in the return window to see if it still speaks to me. A lot of times the idea of something seems so appealing and then just doesn’t translate in real life. You’re like EH not what I was expecting.

  • @AlyssaNicoleox
    @AlyssaNicoleox Рік тому +56

    I think this is such an amazing video and something my husband and I constantly talk about. I would love to see separate videos on this topic specifically for bathroom and kitchen renos. We need to do both and I want to spend my money where it matters and not on “trendy” ideas that will not appeal to a buyer down the line anyway. I like classic and clean 👌🏼!!

  • @elizabethbatson7540
    @elizabethbatson7540 Рік тому +22

    The great thing about not overspending in lighting is that you don’t feel bad if you want to update it later on.

  • @sylviaskinner6849
    @sylviaskinner6849 Рік тому +3

    I get a lot of beautiful things from Costco. Lamps, mirrors, bedding, throw pillows etc.

  • @GEOMETRICINK
    @GEOMETRICINK Рік тому +18

    Such a great video! My husband and I are doing a kitchen and bathroom revamp…not full remodel because of the cost. Contractors are so expensive! We are instead leaving the footprint intact, keeping the granite, refacing cabinets instead of replacing, replacing the backsplash, cabinet pulls, etc. We are basically renovating the things we can do ourselves. I’d love a video on how to revamp a space without tearing it all out. It’s shocking how our dated tan granite looks so fresh and pretty once we changed the orange oak cabinets to white, got new brass pulls and installed a white backsplash and got a unique, modern, light fixture. Now that “dated” granite blends right in, it looks like an intentional pop of color in a fresh kitchen.

    • @robinbirdj743
      @robinbirdj743 Рік тому +2

      Garrett LeChic released the video you want today!

    • @GEOMETRICINK
      @GEOMETRICINK Рік тому +1

      @@robinbirdj743 LOL! I watched that video the moment it went up! Love him ❤️

  • @LaLaLDance
    @LaLaLDance Рік тому +20

    Love this, and as a Realtor myself, I have these conversations with clients all of the time when they're wanting to do a few updates before they sell!! Great advice!! Love your videos!!❤

  • @mmmichellegirl
    @mmmichellegirl Рік тому +35

    Wow! THANK YOU, Valentina! I REALLY needed to hear this. We bought a 1960's family home and I feel like I need to update EVERYTHING. We are in the middle of a reality check considering the comps in our area and the top of what we would get for resale. It's a very tough exercise to prioritize updates with renovation costs being so high. I'm working hard to consider what to embrace about the existing design features and what updates would have the greatest/most positive impact. Your thoughts as a designer are so welcomed. Thank you so much for sharing your honest thoughts about the reality many of us are living in.

    • @bellaheblan8479
      @bellaheblan8479 Рік тому +5

      This is so true! We built our home in 2000, and I want to redo EVERYTHING! It is encouraging to hear that there are certainly choices to be made, but NOT everything has to be high dollar!

    • @mmmichellegirl
      @mmmichellegirl Рік тому +2

      @@bellaheblan8479 I'm right there with ya, Bella! :) The struggle is real! I so appreciate Valentina covering this topic. It's super thoughtful of her as a successful designer.

    • @gladlock
      @gladlock Рік тому +1

      I ruined my mid century home because I was ignorant of history and didn’t know better. I tore out my pink bath to put white subway title and marble, and now I want to punch myself. It wasn’t until I learned about architectural styles that I appreciated the beauty in those old homes. Now all you see everywhere is neutrals and it’s getting repetitive. I suggest reding up on homes from the 60 s and see if previous owners left vintage details you can showcase, like fun title, metal cabinets, solid wood built ins. And please, please do not do a white kitchen cabinets! I regret them too.

    • @s.wilson2702
      @s.wilson2702 Рік тому

      I have shared this before on V's channel but I feel your pain. I'm a designer myself and did a lot of work for a lady in our city who lives in a large home on the corner of two of the most highly sought after streets in town. The lot is probably 2 acres. It all was inherited by the husbands grandparents. The love their house and area but at some point when they "move on" or have to sell the current house could actually be torn down to build a huge McMansion. SO when it came time to re-do the bathroom between two guest bedrooms I decided to embrace the 50's pink and black bathroom while breathing new life into it. The pink tile w/black bullnose, surrounding the tub and as wainscoting on bulldoze, was actually that lovely slightly variegated glaze you see a lot now, very artisan look so I left it all while painting the plaster upper walls a soft white. But the checkered floor was too much so I had my contractor put down a Coretec floating LVT waterproof floor that looked like crushed ebony oak. The graining even had a pale pinkish cast! Stunning! Then i did a vinyl water/steam friendly vinyl wood plank ceiling i painted a pale Robin's egg blue. Next I made a gorgeous tailored valance out of an expensive Lee Jofa very modern IKAT paisley linen fabric, an off white background with the same rosy pink and black paisley colors in the IKAT design with teeny shell beaded trim mounted over 2"ivory vinyl blind for privacy. I made a two panel shower curtain out of all cotton Robin's egg/aqua modern moorish trellis patterned curtains from Home Goods which I hung with a waterproof extra long liner behind. I kept the 50's sink the small clipped corner deco look on chrome legs but changed the fixtures and mirror and lighting, creating more magic. Then some fabulous modern art over the john, a rustic wood and steel hook wall rack for towels and then a small antique Persian rug she found in the attic (!) in the faded black and rose and cream colors hung on an antique rod on the wall next to the black toilet. Add other bath accoutrements and to say the least it was "eye candy" and tho the smallest, one of the most commented on rooms in the house! I give all that detail as inspiration in case any one else is looking to retain yet refresh and modernize a 50's coloured bathroom.

    • @s.wilson2702
      @s.wilson2702 Рік тому

      I didn't have time to proofread and correct my typos and even more frustrating, the stupid "spellcheck" so called "corrections" that switch words out and make no sense whatsoever. Here are the corrections: 1)the house was inherited FROM the husband's grandparents. 2)THEY love their house and area ..3)or have to sell, the current house could actually be torn down...(this is happening in our city and thousands of others where people pay top dollar for the prime location/lot and then do a "scrape off" of a perfectly good house in this case, to build something more grand!) 4)...the pink tile...as wainscoting ON THE WALLS..." 5) LVT waterproof floor that looked like CERUSED or limed
      ebony/(almost black) oak. Sorry I'm so OCD, those things make me nuts, especially the words that get switched to stupid meanings!

  • @lovemychacha
    @lovemychacha 8 місяців тому +1

    I agree with most everything! ❤ If you use ready made drape at least hang them in a professional manner!
    When it comes to drapes I can always tell custom from ready-made.
    The biggest giveaway is how they are hung. Custom drapes are hung at the perfect hight and width, they have a proper return on the sides. Also they are hung professional application using quality hardware. If you can see behind your drapes from the side, and the side of the drapes don't return all the way back touching the wall it looks CHEEP!!!
    Only use lined and weighted drapes that are hung correctly if you want a high end look.

  • @yellowdotje6278
    @yellowdotje6278 Рік тому +4

    I really love how realistic you are! This is very usefull and honest information. And it`s all about the atmospere you create to love to live in, not about pleasing the designers.

  • @rra6033
    @rra6033 7 місяців тому

    Thank you Valentina for reminding me to pull things back in my house Reno. I needed a sense of reality and sensibility rather than getting drawn in by the contractors and shiny magazines !

  • @LauraT925
    @LauraT925 Рік тому +10

    Great tips!
    I would add one more for us budget conscious; cleaning, organizing, and repurposing. Hard to beat sweat equity. If I find a way to fit something out of sight in a closet or make my books looked more pleasing to the eye it feels like an upgrade to me. If I’m really restless I move my art around my home. Feels new and I fall in love with it all over again. If something still stands out that bugs me then I know it’s time to invest in an alternative.

    • @alycat9186
      @alycat9186 Рік тому

      Love this!!! When I’ve been on a budget, I have had to repurpose what I already have and I ended up getting the functionality I needed without spending additional money. Sometimes I feel grateful to not have an unlimited budget bc it makes me less wasteful and more creative.

  • @TJ-yv3kp
    @TJ-yv3kp Рік тому +5

    I've been following you for a few months now and just love your content. Your content kept showing up in my feed so I guess the algorithm gods said these are your people🥰 I truly love that you embrace the high-low model of life. I don't like or feel that everything that is beautiful has to be designer or expensive. I always laugh that when people come to my house because I get complemented on my IKEA outdoor sectional and inside curio cabinet and JC Penney leather sleeper couch more than my expensive items. They all are RH, West Elm, Crate & Barrel dupes...no one knows the difference😉.

  • @JS-io3pc
    @JS-io3pc Рік тому +2

    This is so refreshing. As well as advice on things to buy, equally important if not more is what not to buy. Thank you so much.

  • @lisagorman2480
    @lisagorman2480 Рік тому +2

    TOTALLY agree about the lighting and curtains!!! Not overspending also allows you the freedom to change things as your taste and styles change!

  • @HappyHarryX5
    @HappyHarryX5 Рік тому +18

    Absolutely love doing my own artwork in Photoshop. Never knew I could create awesome pieces from average 80s photos or small parts of digital photos. I do some as watercolours too. I got custom frames for the larger pieces and cheap frames with custom mats for the medium and small frames. Totally fallen in love with black and white pictures because of V and even create more modern pieces just to push myself out of my comfort zone. I’ve analysed how the art works together, the framing and even the tones in the B&Ws. My husband didn’t want art on the walls but my new home is going to have my art everywhere. I grin at the few pieces I have in my current home every time I walk in the room.

    • @firestick4991
      @firestick4991 Рік тому +1

      I got into painting pictures of trees. Very forgiving! 🤣

    • @HappyHarryX5
      @HappyHarryX5 Рік тому

      @@firestick4991 Ah, trees--and waterfalls too...happy painting!!!

    • @joycependleton4117
      @joycependleton4117 Рік тому

      Sorry, but your husband sounds kinda boring. Best of luck, (truly, not joking) introducing him to a fresh perspective!

  • @rachelreed3899
    @rachelreed3899 Рік тому +1

    This is why I follow you. Reasonable and reminders always to be reasonable and within the level you can. You two go out of your way to help. The fireplace is amazing.

  • @jennifergraham3752
    @jennifergraham3752 Рік тому +5

    You know it’s a great video when it takes me forever to finish watching it because I keep going to the links in the description to check out each individual thing 😂😃. Excellent , practical tips.

  • @apark0624
    @apark0624 Рік тому +14

    Valentina, Thank you for making this video! I think it will make a lot of people feel so much better about their homes and what they can/can't afford. I think for most people (unless they have an unlimited budget), it's the "look" they are after, not the price tag of an item or a room. Why spend thousands of $$$ for a designer's coffee table when you can get a very good dupe for a fraction of the price? I think if people learn where to shop, shop smart, train their eye to know quality, and get the design/decorating basics right, then they can create a beautiful home on whatever their budget is and they will be very happy with their space. This might be your best video yet, Valentina!

  • @NoseyFloridaGirl
    @NoseyFloridaGirl Рік тому +3

    Great advice ! Choose your projects carefully, Art is very personal and to me it’s best when it has meaning .

  • @lindaga820
    @lindaga820 Рік тому +2

    Valentina I love you're sense of humor !! Thank you for your common sense tips, so greatly appreciated.

  • @murieltilton378
    @murieltilton378 7 місяців тому

    Great video, just got two matching nightstand lamps @ the store At Home and upgraded with smart bulbs. Less than $75. Vive la différence !

  • @baseballmomof8
    @baseballmomof8 Рік тому +4

    I’m upgrading from the manplow shovel to a snow blower😂😂. So done with snow ❄️

  • @tpemby74
    @tpemby74 Рік тому +3

    I love this video so much. Moving in 2 weeks. It's a rental but I still need to decorate and this gave me great links to use.

  • @victorialove9104
    @victorialove9104 Рік тому +3

    Very very wise advice. You've now got me rethinking my main bathroom renovation. I did splurge and had custom drapes made throughout my house and I love them. Really elevated all the spaces. I inherited fine furniture and antiques so I didn't need to spend much on furniture.
    I often find really good original art at thrift stores and garage and estate sales. Some of the pieces have turned out to be worth far more than I paid. I too love mixing high end and budget pieces together.
    Very thoughtful and well presented video. ❤

  • @marisaburt9609
    @marisaburt9609 Рік тому +1

    I customize my store bought draperies. Also some high end designer ones found at a consignment shop! Thanks for the tips!

  • @willsx2
    @willsx2 Рік тому +6

    Great advice! Regarding original art, some ideas for sourcing are consignment stores and auctions. Also check to see if you have any artist's co-ops or collectives in your area. Often they have great artists that are starting out. One other idea is art festivals. Again, often there are some great new artists for reasonable prices.

  • @lolasalesmoore236
    @lolasalesmoore236 Рік тому +1

    A Realist Decorator. Thx V for putting this out there for the ones that’s on a friendly budget.. this video is much needed.. your home is your sanctuary! Blessings!

  • @lblak59
    @lblak59 Рік тому

    I like Perspective art . Art that moves me, takes me in and makes me feel I’ve been transported to a different place. I do also like some Abstract art but with color. I need color in my life.

  • @lauramccollum5686
    @lauramccollum5686 3 місяці тому

    Your fireplace is fabulous! 🙌

  • @Rob-ut9vo
    @Rob-ut9vo Рік тому +3

    This was a great video. Informative and spot-on, and I agree with just about everything. The thing I most like to splurge on: art. I like to support local artists and it makes a huge difference. Everyone who comes into my home comments on my artwork more than any other thing.

  • @muevale
    @muevale Рік тому +2

    Thank you for your understanding of those of us with tight budget

  • @kathleenjost1624
    @kathleenjost1624 Рік тому +3

    Do yourself a favor & subscribe. Valentina has a wealth of information she shares for people who live with budgets. Valentina is a joy to watch every time. She is passionate, vivacious, funny, and organized with how you can access products, fashion, etc. She and her husband are hilarious! It is also fun to hear and see her family life, whether it be trips, shopping, etc. Thank you, Valentina!

  • @rachelp8183
    @rachelp8183 Рік тому

    I got those curtains off of Amazon that you showed and they have been great! They look beautiful and extremely high end; I get compliments all the time!

  • @Gud2B_Blessed
    @Gud2B_Blessed Рік тому +5

    Valentina love your videos. CAN YOU PLEASE DO A VIDEO ON COUCH/SLIP COVERS? 😊 As a fresh update when you are waiting to purchase new. THANKS ❤

  • @lhs1221
    @lhs1221 Рік тому +1

    This is such an important video because some of us get carried away. Very practical and reasonable advice! Love your channel!🥰

  • @yourconnection9303
    @yourconnection9303 Рік тому +11

    Hi Valentina! Your videos are very enjoyable and entertaining as usual!👏With regards to throws, last fall I bought a 50 x 60 white faux fur throw from Costco for $59.00 and a navy blue one approximately the same size from CB2 at over $200.00 (can't recall the exact price). The CB2 throw looked smaller than it said it was when it arrived, and when I measured it, it was an inch short on each side. And size really does matter! Also, between taking it out of the bag and trying it out on each end of my of my white sofa, I noticed the dye from the throw transferred to my finger nails. As for quality, the Costco one - which sold out in no time - really looks and feels just as nice as the CB2 throw. For the amount of money CB2 charges, the dye should not have transferred, and the measurements should be accurate. I returned the CB2 throw, and hoping Costco will bring back that same quality faux fur throw back in the fall and in more colors. As for mirrors, if you check on line, Walmart actually has a variety of really nice mirrors for a reasonable price. Looking forward to your next videos!👌

  • @enlightenmentbarbie
    @enlightenmentbarbie Рік тому +2

    I’m an artist and I love when people buy my art, haha of course- but it’s true, guys! You can make your own! And it’s fun and delightful and exciting to do. You might find that it becomes a new hobby or a fun way to shake you out of your typical mindset. And then you get to hang some really cool personal artwork in your home, how cool is that! 🎉 art is for everyone!!

  • @karenharris5132
    @karenharris5132 Рік тому +1

    I have those exact curtains and they are very beautiful and look very luxurious.

  • @the_christinacarneybanville

    As a 26 y/o first time homebuyer (brand new expensive city) i really appreciated this. The stigma of “how expensive is your home” here this has helped me decide where to splurge & where not to. Thank you so much!

  • @olgaanisimova6916
    @olgaanisimova6916 Рік тому +1

    One of the features I appreciate about Internet is a huge variety of options, designer inspired items we can use to achieve a dream home with a high end feel

  • @terrywickham781
    @terrywickham781 Рік тому

    I love your bubbly & enthusiastic way of delivery of advice. You are lots of fun to watch. ;0)

  • @stacya3751
    @stacya3751 Рік тому

    wow I really enjoyed this episode. Thank you for the practical tips on where to spend money and where to not when it comes interior decor.

  • @karlawebber6397
    @karlawebber6397 Рік тому

    I love you! You are too funny. I appreciate your honest feedback. I have shared your channel with so many people.

  • @judithortiz-velazquez4992
    @judithortiz-velazquez4992 Рік тому

    THANK YOU! I saved much money on lighting and curtains via Amazon. I could reuse the old fixtures in some instances making it look eclectic. Buying from amazon you return items with little fuss is also a plus.

  • @mariacooke1864
    @mariacooke1864 Рік тому +1

    Valentina, I love love love your videos and look forward to them.
    I have learnt so much from you. My favourite you tube channel by far !

  • @myeyes9574
    @myeyes9574 Рік тому +1

    So Happy to be here with H.O.V. Community/Family ❤💪🏾☕️

  • @jamiedevault8762
    @jamiedevault8762 Рік тому +1

    Not tiling every surface in your bathroom is the best I've been able to change my paint color several times and I too am not doing laps in my tub so just a little tile did the trick.

  • @luminousblue
    @luminousblue Рік тому +1

    Great job! Seriously. It was like watching the early videos, but better even!

  • @jenniferaugusta4159
    @jenniferaugusta4159 Рік тому

    I agree budget will determine all of the money allocated to each area. Personally I have an issue the newer LED fixtures that do not have replaceable lamps.

  • @amiehudson3892
    @amiehudson3892 Рік тому +1

    Valentina you are amazing woman! I love watching your videos you give me some much inspiration and love your style.

  • @jhoiesgarden
    @jhoiesgarden Рік тому +1

    I love this kind of video. We bought a house a year ago and we really have to be realistic on what we can afford. I did splurge on limited edition prints because i really like the artist and i know my son will love to have it someday. So yeah we had to make sure we got good quality on the couch and mattress. I went crazy on indoor plants and invested on humidfier and grow lights but i live in northdakota where everything looks dead outside for 6 months in a year lol.

  • @meredithmorgan8480
    @meredithmorgan8480 Рік тому +6

    My fur blanket from Costco is insanely luxurious feeling. So plush and heavy.

    • @Ms.MD7
      @Ms.MD7 Рік тому

      How does it wash?

  • @christhomas2669
    @christhomas2669 Рік тому

    “ I saved up “ !!!! I had to giggle. I’m not making fun , l believe you. Love your style and how sensible you are ♥️

  • @Coco-rw2qx
    @Coco-rw2qx Рік тому +4

    ALWAYS take your advice when it comes to decor. Thank you, this was very helpful. 🌸

  • @laltman5005
    @laltman5005 Рік тому

    Great information and I found it at the perfect time as I have a bathroom renovation that is causing anxiety. You have given me some ideas that will make the process more enjoyable and more affordable. Thank you!

  • @alycat9186
    @alycat9186 Рік тому

    WONDERFUL WONDERFUL WONDERFUL ADVICE!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!

  • @rachelturner8286
    @rachelturner8286 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for taking the pressure off!

  • @robertglover8819
    @robertglover8819 Рік тому +1

    Valentina. You are describing the law of diminishing returns in real estate. “Chic is not a price tag” as an old friend once said. 👏

  • @elliedaniel5900
    @elliedaniel5900 Рік тому

    This is a GREAT video with fantastic advice! Thank you for this!

  • @overcomer4226
    @overcomer4226 Рік тому

    Put my townhome up for sale. Had my neighbor in for a preview before his wife . When she came over to look he said "notice the door handles and the switches and outlets (we put decorra in all outlets and switches) . Very interesting what people notice. We also put white hinges on all the doors. I liked that .

  • @spiritualcosmeticss
    @spiritualcosmeticss Рік тому +1

    Your Amazon store is a boutique of beautifully curated gems!!!😉

  • @Janesnow3633
    @Janesnow3633 Рік тому

    Great advices! Love your charming laughter! ❤❤❤

  • @deadesignanna
    @deadesignanna Рік тому +1

    like your videos.
    often I can buy a thing in a Jysk store, repaint it beyond recognition ... and then friends will come and ask where you bought this beautiful thing. 😍

  • @judithtackitt5100
    @judithtackitt5100 Рік тому

    My husband..who is from Venezuela...and I laugh and have a great time watching y'alls videos. We now live in a luxury one bedroom apartment. I want to add some "velvet" peel and stick wallpaper in our bedroom. We have moss green velvet curtains. What timeless style could we add to our walls with our living in an apartment that is removable? Could I send a video of how I decorated our apartment?

  • @dashelyc
    @dashelyc Рік тому

    You make me feel better about my clearance $20 light for my bedroom.

  • @saraahmed-dj9uf
    @saraahmed-dj9uf Рік тому

    "Its just me, I'm not going to have a party in my tub!" Love it! You are a darling, Valentina. Adore you to pieces

  • @jasonfrazier83
    @jasonfrazier83 Рік тому

    Every time I think I find of video of yours I have not seen. I notice I already liked the video

  • @macjrc
    @macjrc Рік тому

    Thank you Valentina for this video. We recently got a Heloc for home improvement and it’s extremely hard to decide what the priorities are!! What I’ve realized is that we don’t have that many visitors any more. Since Covid there aren’t that many get together, people are further away and I have guests maybe a few times a year. I keep thinking I need these for guests but what I’m trying to reset is to what is going to make me and my husband happy. What is going to make us feel better. It is helping us to prioritize. Thanks again. Love your channel and your energy- even tho I don’t know how you keep that up 😁

  • @dammikaranatunga9395
    @dammikaranatunga9395 Рік тому

    Agree with every single point you made here Valentina. We have done huge renovation to our 1964 home, i've upgraded every single bathroom and spent on hardware and tiles but only where i absolutely need tiles. Same thing with light fixtures, found gorgeous lights on wayfair and amazon where same style would costs 1000s if i got them from restoration hardware which btw i absolutely love. Vases, blankets, pillows, always shopping deals at Pottery barn, West Elm and target. 100% agree with art also. They're investments if you can afford them! Love this video!

  • @sallywhitesell2519
    @sallywhitesell2519 Рік тому

    It's so nice to see you wearing jeans! You look fab!

  • @jeanyv9601
    @jeanyv9601 Рік тому +1

    This was really useful in focusing on which items are worth spending good money on. I would add that if ever I see something I really like but am not prepared to pay the price, I decide to keep about two-thirds of the price in cash available and I wait until the item goes on sale. Then if it's available, I still like it, and I have the cash, I buy it! It gives me a buzz that I got what I wanted at a bargain price. Having said that, it's strange how many times, with having to wait, I find I no longer like it so much, and don't make the purchase.

  • @jacquelines7071
    @jacquelines7071 8 місяців тому

    I like the dark places in your house

  • @shannoncook9915
    @shannoncook9915 Рік тому

    Home Depot lights are great!

  • @IlaEvans
    @IlaEvans 5 місяців тому

    What a beautiful room

  • @gofaonembojane3050
    @gofaonembojane3050 6 місяців тому

    Your laughter 😆 gives me vibes every time 😂

  • @nickisavage4348
    @nickisavage4348 Рік тому

    As a designer myself, I completely agree.

  • @carolconickmcclellan6992
    @carolconickmcclellan6992 Рік тому

    We had a new build with no character. We went in knowing this because we had plans for certain things. On the builder plan there was space called Flex Room. We took that heart. It is our office, has a murphy bed, and sewing / craft space. Turned our 10x13 patio into a sunroom. And had a landscape company come in build a retaining wall and patio the length of the house. 16 feet wide, 40 feet long. Lots of entertaining space

  • @brenmanock
    @brenmanock Рік тому

    I totally agree I was an art major and do art recycling by gessoing over large mass produced prints on canvas and making it my own.

    • @lblak59
      @lblak59 Рік тому

      I would love to know how to do that with gesso.

  • @karimgomez6933
    @karimgomez6933 Рік тому

    I’ve been laughing with you. Your laugh is so contagious. 🤣🤣. Thank you for sharing honestly about where spending the money. I’m trying to fix my house before selling and my budget is really tight. Was thinking about adding molding and change baseboards but as you said won’t be a good ROI in my neighborhood. Thanks again.

  • @judithpresgrove739
    @judithpresgrove739 Рік тому

    Good Morning Valentina!! I saw this yesterday and just had to come back and finish and comment. This was great content and I agree with everything you said. We have moved all the country with my husband's career and found ourselves many times trying to do too much for the market. It was a costly lesson. Love your channel! ❤from GA

  • @pcfrivera6023
    @pcfrivera6023 Рік тому

    I love to see Valentina laugh. So funny. 😂

  • @jlaurelle
    @jlaurelle Рік тому

    Thank you for this! Gonna check out those linen curtains.

  • @jojoelephant
    @jojoelephant Рік тому

    Love your presentation. You are so bubbly and helpful!

  • @joeo7257
    @joeo7257 Рік тому

    Great video! I like to splurge on one item per room. It “sells” the perceived quality of other items.

  • @maggiekane1809
    @maggiekane1809 Рік тому

    Thanks so much for your advice! I also love that jacket!! Classic❤

  • @rosieroberts6738
    @rosieroberts6738 Рік тому

    Great…advice!!!
    We just built a NEW HOME 1 year ago.
    I opted OUT of the KITCHEN BACKSPLASH.
    We already put $71,000.00 of upgrades in the NEW BUILD, that I didn’t feel the NEED… for it.
    I am a VERY CLEAN person & clean as I go, when cooking.
    Therefore…I saved thousands of dollars & don’t miss it at all.
    Thank you for your logical opinions!!!❤❤❤

  • @sylviahorvath9187
    @sylviahorvath9187 Рік тому +3

    This episode should be called something like “Wisdom by Valentina”. Of course people have different budgets, but I see people spending money on things that in general makes no sense. I see so many people who don’t take into consideration what the market is in their neighborhood or community, or they don’t think about wether it’s a home they will stay in forever should their lifestyle or family dynamic change.
    Great video as always Valentina! 👍💕

  • @aniazurek7258
    @aniazurek7258 Рік тому

    I just wanna say that your outfit is verrrry French today! The navy and black is just 👌🏻

  • @fashionandluxury101
    @fashionandluxury101 9 місяців тому

    You have great realistic suggestions. 😊

  • @janet9913
    @janet9913 Рік тому

    There are lots of student artists in community lessons that have lovely reasonably priced original art.

  • @katherinemariotti244
    @katherinemariotti244 Рік тому +2

    Best chandelier I’ve ever bought was on Amazon. It is my most favorite piece in my dining room and was under $200.

    • @HouseofValentina
      @HouseofValentina  Рік тому

      That’s awesome and what a deal!

    • @r-e_mii
      @r-e_mii Рік тому

      I'm looking for a new fixture for my living/dining room and have taken a look at lights that look just like the 2k ones but for a fraction of the cost. The economy & how far a dollar really goes today isn't great so spend on what counts.

    • @aniaprzechodzka9262
      @aniaprzechodzka9262 Рік тому

      Me too!!

  • @annuitcptis3032
    @annuitcptis3032 11 місяців тому

    I like her...she disses designers🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 She makes sense!!! Decorate the way you like on your budget!!!

  • @deborahh3912
    @deborahh3912 Рік тому +2

    As a garden designer I really believe the benefits of having a pleasing outdoor space with beautiful plants is super beneficial for all. Great video, love the advice, thank you..

  • @rebeccas.7584
    @rebeccas.7584 Рік тому

    There are equations on how to guesstimate how much to spend from your budget on each item. Then use that to see if you got a good deal. Like me who found a $300 RH light for $0 on FB market

  • @craig6363
    @craig6363 Рік тому

    Wow! You seem refreshing and real compared to a lot of designers.

  • @lisanewman7641
    @lisanewman7641 Рік тому +1

    Always love your tips and advice! Questions on curtains: How much "puddle" should I allow? Are curtain sheers a thing of the past? I've eliminated them from most of my rooms but still have a few holdouts. I live in a walking community and have found I have curious neighbors and don't feel comfortable with my floor-to-ceiling windows being fully viewable from the street. What to do? What to do?

    • @s.wilson2702
      @s.wilson2702 Рік тому

      This is just a tip since no one has responded to your query. I am a designer who recently decorated a studio apt in public housing for an old friend who had recently lost her husband. It was a labor of love, pro bono, and I furnished from an overflow of treasures from my own decades accumulated stash. When finished, you would have sworn you were in a authentic Parisian apt! I'm not exaggerating! Here's the tie in to your question. The building overlooks Centennial Park and an authentic replica of The Parthenon, quite the enviable view, however, people mostly men, were walking past her windows between their units and the elevator, at all hours. I purchased and we installed a window film you can see out of but from outside it looks like mirrored glass. Problem solved. I got it at Lowes (or Home Depot). It was DIY friendly. We still did a luscious window treatment with both sound softening chenille side panels and authentic Belgian lace under panels after all we were going for Paris, a city she had been to in her younger years, not a modern version but a romantic, dreamy interpretation that took her to another place and time. Anyway she felt protected from prying eyes while gazing out at a view to take your breath away!

  • @primadonna1208
    @primadonna1208 Рік тому

    I truly appreciate this video