i’m becoming a bad person…
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- Опубліковано 25 лис 2023
- Alex gives up, quits his job, loses his friends and turns miserable.
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"why do you have to pay to live?" That question is the basis of socialism dude. You're on the right track.
Keep your head up man, let’s all hope for the best
19 is too young
Public place + mass chaos
You just have to accept your current situation, and move forward with what is going to be best for you in this moment, UA-cam can defiantly happen but having money flowing in currently should be your number one priority, make yourself a list of everything you are struggling with and what you can do right now that can fix that because your situation can be fixed it’s just a matter of taking small steps towards your future goal, don’t give up and understand the lessons you are being taught right now and what you can do to improve your situation.
Sorry what been been happening to you it's probably rough what you're going through but don't give up you still have a chance to change
this is my first time watching any of your content, but as an unbiased viewer, since your channel has a small following now let UA-cam be a fun hobby and something you enjoy but make sure BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE y o u are the one thriving behind the camera. Not sure where you're located but if you're tired of the ordinary mind-numbing mega-corp jobs look around your area at all the small businesses closest to you and see if they are hiring any positions or anything for you. 19 is young to have to worry about a lot of this stuff but your viewers believe in you and you should also believe in yourself. Don't get yourself too down...you got this!
Thanks homie!
You have one month to get shit together pick up late shifts in the warehouses, preferably weekly checks to get your money up. Take no days off unless it’s your bday and that’s a rest day. Someone will hire you, it doesn’t matter. You’re hitting too many points cause you’re allowing yourself to drown in your own shame.
Join the military and just do the 4 years bro, save your money, and then use your gi bill to go to school for whatever you want and also get paid. I was in a bad place for a while, I lived in my car for a while so I get ur pain bro, but sometimes you gotta bite the bullet to move up in life. Best wishes man, I know how stressful that situation is.
Why did youtube delete my comment? Guess I’ll try again.
Don’t listen to this guy. It’s not “4 years”, the physical injuries you get, as well as the mental damage that you get from being abused by your “comrades” is a life sentence. That financial incentive you get dries up fast, and you’re just left a traumatized wreck. I live in a military town, I know enough veterans to say all this. And btw, every single woman I know that served got SA’d by their fellow troops at the barracks.
Shoo shoo recrooter
yeah agreed. some things work better for others ya know. i’d rather go to a trade school and start up a business personally. update video soon.
@@sperglord3825 I’m not a recruiter bro, I’m being paid for the rest of my life because of those “injuries” and I went through the military experience just like everyone else in a non combat position. I hated it when I was in the military just like everyone else, but I can’t deny that it was the greatest stepping stone in life was the military for me and financially it would be wayyyy harder without doing it.
go get em kiddo
Oh man it seems like you have a lot going. You have already taken the first step in improving yourself which is identifying your issues. Next, I would recommend trying to be honest with yourself about how you developed these problems and what you what steps you could reasonably take to solve them. You identified that you quit your job with the excuse that you were "pursuing your dream", but in reality you were just a "lazy fuck". I think you are being harsh on yourself here, but it is impressive that you have admitted something to yourself that most people would never dare confront out of fear of shattering their own ego. Why do you think you are a "lazy fuck"? One possibility that may not be accurate, but is worth honestly considering is that you give yourself this label as a way to justify your future failures and continue whatever bad habits you were trying to avoid. It may be easier to just say "Aha! I knew that I would fail! This is why I will go back to my vices instead of evaluating how to pick myself up and do better". Failing is scary, but you only truly fail once you give up entirely.
You mention that you have been feeling depressed. Perhaps one reason for this is that you see the current trajectory of your life is pointed to a place that you never wanted it to go. If this is the case for you, just know that almost everyone faces this at some point. It may feel like too much to fix everything at once, because it is. It is a common occurrence for people to have a sudden burst of motivation to try and fix all of their problems over the course of a week, or a day, or even a few hours, only to burn out and fall right back in line with their previous behaviour and habits. The actual way to fix your situation is to first realize that it is going to be a slow process, but by CONSISTENTLY taking small corrective actions you can start to realign the trajectory of your life with what you always hoped it could be. For anything you want to achieve, consistency is the key. Some days will be easier than others, but if you make even the slightest amount of progress day after day you are going to succeed. It may even happen faster than you think. A good saying to remember is "People overestimate what they can accomplish in a short period of time and underestimate what they can accomplish over a long period of time".
I will try to offer some advice for a couple of the issues you mentioned, but I do not know your exact circumstances so it may not all be applicable. You said you have type 2 diabetes, which I found out recently is in many cases reversible to either partial remission and sometimes even complete remission. The simplest way to achieve this is with diet and exercise. If this is an avenue you would like to pursue, I recommend paying attention to the number of calories and types of foods you are eating. In many cases weight loss simply comes down to calories in compared to calories out. You can use an online calorie calculator to get a rough idea of what your maintenance calories are and from there you can figure out how to adjust your diet to enter a manageable calorie deficit. Another glaring problem you mentioned is that you have no job and your parents are about to stop supporting you financially. This is a tough one, because working a job you do not like for pay that is barely enough to get by is soul crushing. Consider all your options here, but please realize that it is unlikely that UA-cam will start paying the bills in the short term. If you were to get a new job, I would suggest trying to view it as an opportunity to pull yourself out of the hole you find yourself in. That being said, I would not suggest getting complacent with a job you do not want to be working, as that will inevitably get in the way of what you truly want to be doing with your time. Perhaps try working a job for some income while simultaneously pursuing your goals on UA-cam.
You are 19 years old and wise for your age. You have time on your side right now which means that if you can get it together, then you will be ahead of the game. However, don't let this fool you into thinking that you have time to waste. I suggest reflecting on where you would like to be in your life a year from now and also five years from now. If making UA-cam videos is truly what you want to be doing then keep working at it and don't stop even during periods where you may feel like giving up. You are the only one who can make this work. I wish you all the best.
i appreciate this a lot buddy. seriously thank you. taking the time to write to me. i haven’t had this thought process you gave me, and i am going to try to use it. 😊
@@alexanderjohnofficial Much love man! I'm glad that you found this helpful!
go work
firstly you can live freely we jsut all lack the skills :/
not da homie
Alex you gotta get a job, you gotta grow up, you gotta be a man
i just got home from work oh well this is an old video