I spent 13 years in a very radical offshoot of Pentecostalism. Grandma took me, and my non-churchgoing parents though it was OK ... until my younger brother clued Mom into what was going on. People screaming; fake speaking in tongues (I am a linguist raised in a multi-lingual environment) ;damning me to hell every time I was seen wearing pants, shorts, or makeup; being condemned to their idea of hell on the regular, etc. I finally broke free at age 15, having decided that if I was damned to their idea of hell, I'm going to enjoy the downhill slide! Now at age 68, I bought my little dream home a block from that church. I smile every time I pass by and am so over it.
I wanted to let you know that your good mental state, allowing you to read stories like this without losing it is something I appreciate. I came here after some other reading channels, but one guy, in particular, I remember crying during the recording for three minutes and keeping it in. Each story they read made it worse for them. For someone who probably does this for a living, being able to read about things far worse than I remember the aforementioned other person without losing it must be apreciated. Its so important to take breaks to keep your mental health in check, that sounds trivial, but youd be surprised.
@@averyfields8183 it was some episode from mainly facts, I honestly don't remember which one specifically, but it had something to do with people being jerks or something. I don't want to provide any more information because I don't want to accidentally cause harassment to happen on his video. I just wanted to specify that I cared about people who do channels like this because reading about such sensitive topics can really do something to you.
@@averyfields8183 also, I might have misremembered it because it's been a while since I saw the specific video, so for all I know, it probably went down differently, but I understand that it was the second to last story. this was one of the videos where mainly was doing a slightly different format where he would say his response, but also would be in frame behind a greenscreen. He was just upset in response to the second to last story, and right when he was at the final one, I just knew his response was probably going to be worse and then just left the video.
I was raised in a secular cult and didn't know it until I was in therapy as an adult. I thought all cults were religious, but as I described my childhood and family dynamics, my therapist listed the damaging features of a cult and my family had many of these features, since cults are actually about control and not about religion. My family was very isolated and isolating, few visitors were ever welcomed, we had a piece of land and family members were expected to live there. Religion was frowned upon, therapy was absolutely out of the question, my grandmother was in charge and no Dr., therapist, book, or religion was going to challenge her. We were poor as dirt. Men worked and women were mothers and housewives. I was taught that I would be shunned if I didn't do the will of my grandmother. She said when I got my own house, I could make my own rules. So I got my own house on the family property as was expected of me. When I tried to have friends over she said I was forbidden. I said, but I got my own house like you said. She answered that since my house was on her property, I would still have to follow her rules. But she had insisted that it be on her property. Life was like that in my family - just one controlling mind game after another. It was crazy making. I did end up shunned, written out of the will, disowned. I'm much better off.
Dang man. Family's are supposed to be a loving support system. You basically described the opposite:( I hope you can breathe and have peace. I'm glad you pointed out that it's about control. Doesn't matter what label is on it.
I'm a Communist, but there are a lot of secular, messianic Marxist cults out there. Many, but not all, Trotskyist or Maoist of some sort. A bunch got their start in the 60 and 70s in the US, usually splintering off of some larger socialist organization and going from political party to cult of personality to literal cult
@@redjoker365 Right, there are plenty of cults that are not based on religion - there are cults that center around political ideology, identity, academia, and even self help. Ours is classified as a familial cult but had a definite political leaning.
As someone who is from a more open and less conservative catholic background, and has only had wholesome experiences in church, I feel very uncomfortable whenever I hear cults say heinous things and do heinous acts and then turn around and say that they are a religion of love…
Grew up till I was 10 in a Charismatic church (pastored by my maternal grandpa) where they took "God told me..." to a whole new level. Wound up leaving after my dad called out illegal practices going on because "God told them so" and thus they didn't need to care about the bylaws... In many ways I got off easy without any physical abuse, bu seeing my dad get called a heretic from the pulpit (by the other grandpa, incidentally) was, well, something else. Thankfully, by the grace of God, I have found a non-abusive church and was even able to reconcile with my grandparents before they passed.
Story 9. I grew up in a seemingly regular sect of Christianity and we were taught that unbaptised children went to purgatory/hell or at least didn’t go to heaven. As an adult I read Dante and he said unbaptised people went to Limbo which isn’t technical hell but is the first ring by his book.
13:09 This is similar to something that happened to me. When I was 9, I asked if my dog, who had recently died, was going to heaven. My bible study teacher just said that animals never got the “breath of life” so they can’t have souls or go to heaven. It fucked up 9 year old me.
I know it's fup. For me too. I have a cat and I know after she die she would go in vain. Animals don't have a soul and they are innocence by their nature. For a living to go to Heaven or Hell, it has to have conciouness of their acctions. Wich animals don't. But is better that way. They did go to a better place.
I joined a cult willingly. I made the WhatsApp group for said cult. We worship teabags, and we acknowledge that we are a cult because it is just a joke thing amongst a small group of autistic teenage friends. We call ourselves Cult of The Teabag because our friendship formed from us joking about teabag memes like the "How British people shower" meme. Fortunately, all our "cult meetings" consist of the three of us coming together and having a good time, going to shopping centres and malls, being chaotic, stuffing our faces at restaurants, and making jokes that only our tiny cult would understand and then we would laugh ourselves breathless. I feel bad for people in actual cults like in this video.
I grew up in an evangelical christian church and when I was a baby my parents would regularly perform exorcisms on me and take me to tent revivals to have others perform them too. I have no clue why they were so convinced that a literal infant was possessed but at least I was too little to have any memories of it. Though I do have memories of them performing exorcisms on our house. They would frequently make sweeps of the house, starting in one room and "pushing" the demons out while praying the whole time until the demons were apparently pushed out the front door. Also mom has been telling me we're in "the last seven years" since I was little. I'm turning 40 this year so her math is pretty off. Yeah they're super confused why I'm an atheist now.
the world is a confusing place and having answers can be attractive. And when you are born into it you just assume it is correct because it is all you have known.
In essence cults prey on people who are already susceptible to being influenced by others. People who have mental illnesses, Lonely people, Young people who are at the impressionable age. It's why you see a lot of them prey at college campuses. Basically anyone who would be by some form of social hierarchy be a "social outcast" they will prey on. They also go after the young too. It's why they are on college campuses a lot.
The other two responses are correct, and I would add that cults work by very gradually introducing beliefs. It’s very manipulative and preys on vulnerable people (just left home, just broke up, just got fired, etc) who are looking for something to help them in the way they are hurting or growing. It is a bait and switch, just like romantic relationships that become abusive. The victim wants to trust, wants to believe in the certainty that cults tend to provide, and after giving so much to the cult, there is a “sunk-cost” factor (if this isn’t right, I wasted a lot of time, money, and energy on something foolish), so they are more willing to accept more extreme beliefs and treatment. People might think that only stupid, gullible people get fooled by cults, but this isn’t true. Very intelligent and educated people often fall for cults, partly because smart people are used to being right, and the sunk-cost factor would be a huge blow to their ego. Plus, cults (and other abusive dynamics) limit and control information and education, so once inside, many victims become trapped, they just don’t realize it. It is the nature of a cult to actively obfuscate the fact that it is a trap. This is why parents and schools should encourage basic critical thinking, logic, and exposure to a wide variety of different people and sources so that kids can learn to handle new ideas and situations when they are adults. Otherwise, they are simply being trained and indoctrinated, which is lazy, negligent, cruel, and short-sighted.
"fictional film thing...a lot of cults just grabbed it and ran with it". And there I think you've very neatly summed up cults in general.I have no connection to a cults but there was a particularly nutty one busted in my home city when I was young and the details were simultaneously hilarious, ridiculous and horrific. And no cults that's come to public attention since has proved any different.
@@melissacooper8724 It is. The op probably got confused because a lot of religions say everyone will be forced to implant something in your head or hand, which might have been inspired by the movie idk. But Revelations does talk about the mark of the beast on your hand or forehead, which is most liked a metaphor, not literally a mark or implant.
Just clicked on this. Haven't watched it yet. I was born into a cult. I have a bit of a love/hate relationship with ex cult content. I love it because it makes me feel a little less alone. I hate it because sometimes, it makes me remember shit I really don't want to remember. Well, I have my trusty beer and smokes, time to get into it. Maybe I'll even be sober enough to hit the comments after watching. Wish me luck.
So I don't have a story like these... but I'm a Christian. It's horrible to me to hear these stories of the Christian church in all sorts of different sects and capacities harming the people under them and abusing their power. These stories are proof of why people are leaving the Christian church en mass. It's sickening and I desperately wish that none of this would have ever happened to these people... but the past is the past. We can't change what happened. But at least this is showing me what a healthy church life shouldn't look like. Thank you @undersparked for providing these stories to us not on Reddit and giving me examples of red flags to obviously avoid when I have kids.
It sucks because my church is an amazing one that has never lead me or others astray. My pastor is an amazing and Godly man. He just eminates this presence of love and warmth. He never judges, he never carries on about hellfire, brimstone, none of that. He preaches love and kindness, how to pray for others and how to share the good news with them in a friendly way. It breaks my heart every time I hear of some scandal that happens at a church because its supposed to be the place christians gather together to praise and worship. They should be able to come there and be together without worrying if somethings happening in secret at their church too
I'm a christian, and all I have to say is that I feel sooo bad for people goint through that. Christianity is not supposed to be a cult or what ever. People only see what so called Christians or churches do, but don't realize that this isn’t what the Bible says at all. And I mean, how should they, since church and it's people should show this to the world. And btw it is important to talk abt hell, since our god isn’t just kind, loving, forgiving and full of mercy, but also holy and not able to accept sin under any circumstances.
My parents raised our family in a Mormonism extremist kinda group. I started to kinda fall away when they would teach one thing to others in the church building, but expect a stricter rule at home. I was told I could not get personal revelation for myself unless it aligned with what my mom thought was right. Then there was the constant talks about the end of the world. I was told I wasn’t going to graduate high school because the world was going to end before then. When I was 23 I had a serious existential crisis cause I thought I should have been dead by then. The final straw was when my mom told me I could not marry my now husband because she didn’t feel the same way. I was already kind of backing away by that point but I was just straight up done. I now cannot even be on a church grounds though without having a major anxiety attack.
I know that thongs is what you call flip flops in Australia and maybe other parts. But as a UK person.. I just been thinking about god wearing panty thongs 😂
I was made fun of and called gay throughout my childhood by a family member who actually got other relatives to think I was gay. The thing is, I was never gay!
My JW "family" was so convinced I was either going to be a lesbian or transman bc I was a tomboy as a teen and treated me like every kind of crap bc of their assumptions. I wear dresses and I've got a boyfriend now. 9_9;;
I pray that the people who leave these cults live better lives and that God blessed them… all these stories are so sad and I would never want what was done to these people done to me.
These are way too interesting. On another note, yall should do Discord horror stories, as im trying to learn what to avoid. I would like a few others perspectives
My late father told me that he walked out of his mother's church when he was 12. Apparently, when Dad married his third and last wife, my mother, Granny told him he was going to Hell for marrying a Catholic. I was 10 or 11 the last time I saw Granny (after her stroke). She didn't know Dad or her grandchildren, but she recognized Mom.
When I realized that their most sacred image was of a man being tortured to death, and they had a ritual in which we had to pretend to eat his flesh and drink his blood so that he could come back from the dead a second time.
Explain why symbolism is so lost on you, and why [the central figure] spoke quite literally in metaphor about the bread and the wine --- for you to miss that point. In other breaking news today is Tuesday and trolls are dim.
11:14 that’s what i was taught in church(the part that he doesn’t care as long as you believe. we weren’t taught about babies’ status). also, we were taught that sometimes angels would go on killing sprees and be unstoppable, which is why they had to say “be not afraid”. we left when the pastor said that liberals eat babies. looking back it was definitely cult-like beliefs, but probably not a cult because we could freely leave
Followers of Brother Branham right? I grew up in that shit too (if that's the one you were in I mean). All the money my mom gave to those fucks when we were on welfare and we were still looked down on because my parents split up after my dad abandoned us 3 provinces away, none of them offered to help with jack shit. After my dad died I met his brothers- my uncle's. It was during covid, they kept saying how it's the end of days and it gave me flashbacks to the flood of 97(MB), how that was the end of days, how Y2k was the end of days, or how 9/11 was the end of days, Katrina, you get the picture. A fucking doomsday cult. It was to the point we were basically just outcasts in this tiny little town we lived in. No kids wanted to be my friend, my brother constantly was getting into fights and the parents just talked shit about my mom. Fuck all of those people. They even spread gossip that my brother was selling drugs-- TO MY FACE. Which he was not. My brother was in foster care for a bit, the family he was in care of was also in this cult, they took him to Philly where they went to one of those stupid fuckin megachurch places where they banish fake ass demons and all that BS, he said it was the most bizarre thing he's ever seen
For all its worth, at least in christianity, in the original language in the scrolls and what not wayyy back before they were compiled and translated into what there is now…the phrasing used for what was translated as “breath of life” or whatever to indicate a soul for humans was used for animals too, and I think (not 100% on this one tho), even for plants. The most quoted anti gay line (a man should lay not with another man as they would a woman as it is an abomination or whatever) actually was “man should not lay with BOY as they would woman” or something along those lines, it was about p*d*s being an abomination, not being queer. Peter (book of peter peter not disciple peter) wasn’t even born until like centuries after jesus was crucified and never had any interaction, and also expressed that ALL s*x was bad, no matter who it was between, marital status, reason, anything. He viewed a husband and wife trying to conceive a child equally as evil and worthy of going to hell as being gay, being poly, being a p*d*, SA, bestiality, self pleasuring, anything. (Note that I do not think any consensual intimacy between 2 or more human adults is wrong in any capacity, the grouping is just to exemplify what peter seemed to believe.) Also also, if you go the king james version of evangelical biblical literalism, then the sole difference between going to heaven or hell is believing jesus died on the cross to save you from your sins. Nothing else you say, do, or believe at any point matters as long as at your last moment before death, you believe that one thing. Sincerely- someone who grew up in the lutheran church but had a lot of evangelical family and broke away from the hateful rhetoric of the christian conservative upbringing as an adult and became some form of a non-religious leftist as a result of deprogramming as I saw all the hypocrisy and how none of it made any sense. I will not respond to any comments as I do not have any form of notification turned on anywhere and make a habit of forgetting about comments I make and where I make them, for my own mental health. Regardless, if anyone does reply, please be respectful of each other. Being rude accomplishes literally nothing, regardless of beliefs. If I got things wrong, then I got them wrong. Simple as. Don’t take my word or anyone else’s word without any proper research, I am as fallible as anyone.
Thank you for mentioning the misinformation of some people. It does talk about p3d0s not the lgbtqia community. I always hate when people use religion as an excuse to be a horrible bigoted human being and wish they would actually pay attention to their precious little book and understand that their only seeing what they want to see and never truly spreading Gods message “to love thy neighbor” even if their gay, trans, lesbian, ace, black, white, Muslim, aethiest, or anything else!!! They don’t understand what they say they do!
I believe the books of Peter were, in fact, written by the disciple Peter. Regardless, I think the views op are referring to more closely align with those of St. Paul, a la 1 Corinthians. (I'm not a theology scholar or anything; if someone who knows what they're talking about could fact check me, that would be great)
Let's just all agree on this, the people who call themselves Christian and hate other people for what they do, are NOT REAL CHRISTIANS. Believe it or not, Jesus never EVER taught anyone to hate on others for what they do, and he just tells us to treat them with the same respect as anyone else. It's a shame that so many people are led into thinking that Christians are like this in general because of a few select people.
I was born and raised FLDS (Netflix keep sweet pray and obey). My cousin got married a year or 2 ago(we’re supposed to have our marriages arranged by Warren Jeffs who is a convicted felon and serving life in prison which means he’s not arranging marriages) and my parents said he was a very wicked person. Me and my brothers were told to stop associating with him but I decided I’m done being controlled at 25 years old. Even getting on the internet is a wicked sin but hell here I am
The pets have no souls and cant go to heaven hit me where it hurts omg i had that same experience 😭 i was 6, absolutely adored my two (now one) cats as they were truly the best pets one could ever ask for. I left the class crying that day apon learning id never see my pets in death. Definitely one of the reasons i stopped believing :l so shoutout to the catholic church ig
ocd + abusive religion is such a bad combo because if you’ve been constantly told that god or a higher up is constantly watching your thoughts, you must think you’re definitely going to hell for those horrible intrusive thoughts. and they don’t go away easily either. i used to cry myself to sleep as a child because of my ocd and religion.
I was raised Catholic and from around 10 and up was required to attend church from between 12-20 hours a week. I cannot stand to remain quiet and still for hours. It was torture. When I moved out for college, I never went back. I put in my time as a child.
I'm a practicing Roman Catholic, and I go to mass once a week on Sundays and it's only one hour. But if I go to Eucharistic Adoration then maybe I'll spend more time than an hour in church. But why were you "required" to attend church for 12-20 hours a week? Were you in Catholic school or a part of some church activities/ministries?
@@Gabriela.Sotelo as a Catholic, you picked up on that! I was in Catholic School and in the choir. School days included an hour in mass and more on holidays like Holy Week. There were four regular Masses on weekends plus multiple weddings and funerals. Also there was a Wednesday night CCD which included a mass. I am on the spectrum and find sitting still, excruciating.
Oh, geez, I don't even like sitting still and quiet for ONE hour! No wonder your last sentence here is "I put in my time" as if you were in jail - it must've felt like it! But yeah, that's why I much prefer the "small group" format of church. Sure, there's someone teaching and a Bible passage to get through, but you're allowed to talk and joke around and stuff. But when it's a preacher at the front of a room with upwards of 50 people sat in rows, just listening to the sermon like a school lecture... that just doesn't work for me.
I thought the OT had that? Been a while since I did any reading but I distinctly remember that burnt offerings were "pleasing to the lord" or something.
Animal sacrifices are upheld in the OT (as a picture of Jesus Christ's death), but never live sacrifices. They didn't pull out its entrails before slitting the animal's throat or anything. God is also pretty particular about humane treatment. He has laws about not boiling a kid in the mother goat's milk, helping up fallen oxen, safely returning lost animals, and letting animals eat fallen grain while working a grist mill. Also, once, an angel was blocking the path of this guy who was trying to do something he knew God didn't want him to do. The guy didn't see the angel, but his donkey did and kept going off the path to avoid the angel, and the guy started beating it. God then opens the donkey's mouth, and the donkey tells this guy off for mistreating her---and the angel (who the guy finally noticed) backs her up. So the OT's presentation of humane animal treatment is considerably more complex than just some people made animal sacrifices. @TheGreatBackUpVIDEOS
So hes a sugar daddy who married his sugar baby of a yr dropped probably close to half a mil on her so she can go to school and a lawyer to adopted her kids and wonder why his grown kids call her a gold digger and dont like her? God i never seen a more delusional man. She doesnt love him she loves the money. She will abandon him soon as he gets sick or loses his money. His son was right to cut him off completely but his daughter is a merc i can respect.
Cult stories like these remind me of that episode of Little House on the Prairie where Mary is assigned to teach in a small town that was basically run by a “witch” that uses religion to justify arson even though she has never read the Bible… things get better and resolve in the end.
My father was a preacher for a cult-ish Cristian church in the early 2000s. Children were not allowed to cry. If they did, the mothers would be ridiculed by their peers. So, most mothers left their kids unattended in the lobby of the church. My grandmother would take care of my brother and consequently all of the children there. Women covered their faces and skin and wore only black. At first, they could only sit. in the back. Then, the men decided they had to have their own room and be taught separately. They were taught that women were lesser. After I was born (bio F), my parents left because they didn't want me or my brother to be taught that.
Also, I’ve never understood that “fear of god” thing. Isn’t the whole point that god is our father that loves us? Then why should we fear him? Sounds like an abusive relationship
@@ntfoperative9432 its not about fear. Its about reverence. There is a lot of false teaching going on out here who tell you to fear instead of honor God. Always remember if the church or the pastor has a large following then he's either lying or conning people.
The next time you're able, on a dark night; preferably without city lights. Ponder your cosmic insignificance. How small you are, that you are but a grain of sand on the beach of space. Further, that your life is brief and short in comparison to long long history of the universe. Allow this to trickle through your thoughts. Now consider a Being, an Entity so powerful that He created all that you see, all you can comprehend, and even things you cannot comprehend. A being who is timeless, and ageless. Ponder looking at the night sky, and seeing His face in the vastness of space time. You understand that He could obliterate you at any moment and does not. This is not to imply that He could. (I get a milder version of this around horses.) It is not about the fear of an abusive parent (or at least I don't interpret it that way) and more of...what I described. Beyond reverence, or honor, but the perception of an entity who is completely beyond human limitations and understandings.
So as the user above me, squid, has said. Its not about like an abusive relationship. Its more of respecting and being in awe of the power and presence of the Lord. Knowing that he is beyond human comprehention. Despite being all powerful and all knowing though, he loves and cares about each individual human being. So when we things like "fear the Lord and rejoice woth trembling." It means more, respect the Lord and his infinite power, rejoice knowing he can and has conquered all
Story 8 really seemed familiar to me, experience wise that is. It wasn't until the end where the ICC, ICOC, COC was mentioned that I realised that it was indeed the same church that I had recently left about a year ago. I had a few instant flashbacks while the story was being narrated, there aee some things that will always be hard to forget.
@vengefuljedi I heard about how things were for a lot of the ex-members. I only learned these things from the other fall aways after I had left the church. I was a part of the ICC since 2020-2023. So it's fairly recent and short amount of time for me. There were a lot of stories that we heard about the ICOC & COC Church while I was in there.
Story 1: Ahh.. the "Christian" family values hypocrisy of some persons. I bet if serious abuse happened to her, she would be out of that marriage real fast. As well anyone should. Some people just don't get it until it happens to them.
Even catholics abide by this. What i found funny is i had a naracisstic catholic father.. caught on real quick with the manipulation of the "fear of god" and his version.. while he beat me and my mother for frivilous things. Lets just say he was never satisfied.
@@irmazamora4679 yeah. Some people will use any excuse to get their way. It's not about church, God or you. It's about him and his issues. But I think you know that already. It sucks. Hope you are better now.
I think you greatly underestimate the amount of people who will stay in abusive marriages. Especially when they are indoctrinated to believe they have to.
Okay, so when I started the video and heard the first story, my first thought was, "I hate how whenever I see people answer one of these 'cult stories' questions, most of the responses are about Christianity. I don't want to hear why Christianity is a cult for the millionth time. I wanna hear about the group in the woods doing sketchy things!" Then the second story happened, and I got what I wished for...absolutely regretting my wish...
Goddd yeah. I want glamorous, mystical *mystery* cults, not real world actually dangerous shit that makes me wonder whether I should even bother calling myself Christian.
Feel like that would be hard to have. Essentially all cults have some sort of worship or herd thinking that can’t be questioned. Even if it isn’t a religion turned cult, cults will have something become religion like.
@@stevenxoyatla1432most MLMs qualify as cults. There’s plenty of high control groups, usually pyramid schemes or self help groups, that fall into cult adjacent categories
i heard of political cults, groups that described as far-right and far-left, basically just some neo-nazi groups (can far-left count as neo-nazism? i heard that far-right is nazism, but i also heard some people say it's far-left, i dunno, nazis are bad anyway)
I used to believe in god my mum does I think but she doesn’t go to church or anything I think she just believes there is a god but she doesn’t force us into anything
I don't know when my "aha" moment was...Mum was/is a charismatic Evangelical Pentecostalist (So lots of rolling around, jumping up and down, speaking in tongues, exorcisms - even on pets, and going around to spread the "good word".) I had a hard time understanding a lot of things in the bible that just sounded wrong to me...even by the time I was 6. I had issues with the idea that one woman "sinned" at the very beginning of time and that for the rest of all eternity every woman who ever had kids was going to suffer the "pains of childbirth", that all of mankind was cursed. Not because THEY did anything wrong, but because two fictional people 6000 years ago committed a sin... whatever happened to the loving and forgiving god? It just ... lots of stories in the bible make NO sense if you ever stop to think about them.
The thing is that because of Adam and Eve's sin, humanity in its entirety became sinful. There was no pain before that day, it only came after. Anyone in Adam and Eve's place would've probably done the same thing.
as a muslim, I can confirm that the story 4 minutes in about the islam cult is NOT what we practice and is infact haram. Don't take this as what muslims usually practice.
This stuff is sickening. As a regular prodistent Christian, it hurts how many of these groups warp and twist what the point of this belief is into their own gain and power.
I spent my first 17 years of my life in a cult (thank heavens I didn’t reach 18 in it, their mission system is brutal). Ironically enough, it was reading their scripture that drove me all the way out (I was put into question by getting into a rabbit hole learning about cults), turns out among their administrative documentation is hidden some of their craziest beliefs. During high school they then make you study those verses, and most of the time it works. Luckily that year was when I went down that rabbit hole. I’ve been out for 2 years, learned more about myself than I ever did in it, and screwed up my mental health hiding inside the cult since I was not self sufficient.
As a Christian I see most of these cults are based around Christianity and lemme say.... those cults are NOT what the Bible says to do. The Bible calls us to Love Others and therefore Love God while doing so. Nothing more. Nothing less. The Bible mentions this 3 times. It mentions it during the 10 commandments, before Moses died, and Jesus himself said it. Never does it say "start a cult and fear teach children into following me." NEVER.
There's an entire story that speaks of love and giving your followers space so they can freely make mistakes and return when they're ready. It's creepy when I hear stories about sects and cults around Christianity and they omit these stories. They're so much more interesting than the actual contents of the Bible, really, and they can be made more secular.
I don't know about a breaking point but I remember when I was 9 years old and questioned the leaders over their teachings and got in trouble, I had pointed out a double standard and that was the day I started to lose my faith, it wasn't the SA I was experiencing before I could talk, or that they told me it was between me and God after I told them what eas happening...nope it was hypocrisy I noticed when I was 9.....my Mom and all us 3 kids ended up in police protection and carted out of state to get away from it all....
Was born into the IFB. My “oh shit this is a cult” moment was when the pastor openly defended a man who was SA’ing his 4 yo daughter, and refused to hold him accountable for his actions, DESPITE the clear as day evidence that proved he had done those horrible things to his daughter and got sentenced to 25 years in jail. The man’s name is Jordan Webb.
Baptist Fundamentalist Disciples of Christ. . Believed I was a half demon . And I was escaped from them at 16 . Hid out in college towns and national parks . My dad was dead after chasing my cousin . My dad was an idiot.
Can confirm the Methodist guy, grew up as Methodist myself, though haven't gone to service in like... decades myself after bad roll of a pastor who basically snubbed our family out of stuff like trustees and so on. Basically the spiciest the sect gets is communion by what I can tell, it's very much was just glorified bible studies for the sermons and charity work.
I technically started a “cult” Meatlog on Facebook. Basically buddy of mine had a dumbass profile pic and another buddy of mine and myself changed our pics to his as a joke. Next thing I know a ton of people some who didn’t even know the guy did the same. Started a group and had people “assimilate” 😂 aka change this pic and worship the meat (not really, just replying “nice” to random shit and telling others to “assimilate”.)
While I don’t agree with male circumcision being carried out on infants either, FGM is undeniably worse. While male circumcision typically removes a piece of skin for the purposes of religious belief, or under the pretences of being more hygienic/preventing infection, FGM is more invasive, dangerous, and is specifically aimed to alter the body’s natural function. The whole point of FGM is to stop women from wanting or enjoying sex, even later on in life, in marriage. In some cases, stitches are added to “preserve purity,” so that future sex becomes painful. The procedure is commonly not performed by a medical professional either, or under sterile conditions. The risk of additional injury or even death, is much higher. I don’t agree with either procedure, but surely you can see why there’s more outrage towards FGM
Story 11 And he causeth all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and bond, to receive a mark in their right hand, or in their foreheads: And that no man might buy or sell, save he that had the mark, or the name of the beast, or the number of his name. - Revelation chapter 13:16-17 Not some crazy film after all ❤
I remember for a while I went to a church that only allowed you to take part in communion if you were baptized in that church, it was a fun church, I enjoyed the passover, but like, forced baptism thats used to basically subscribe to a church is pretty sucky, like, let me get baptized when I want to man ;^; (this isnt a cult thing (I think), there was just a story in there that made me remember that)
for the third story i am muslim, i have never heard of something like this before, when listening to the sacrifices i wa at first oh thats fine, then the friday part came up i was like thats a bit overkill then the eat heart raw part came up which is absolute bs, in islam you can sacrifice a lamb, cow or camel or sheep but its only on eid al adha, basically muslim christmas
I feel like I'd still have payed for my mother's funeral, even in that situation... Though maybe the fact that I'm even thinking about it is likely because I'm distinctly not in that situation, so no judgment from me.
Hello fellow redditers😂 we’re really liking theses cult story’s Hu 😂😂😂😂😂 oooooook um story 8 what in the hell and story 9 is so weird that kinda had to laugh like what
Not Religious But I Knew A Family That Might've Been In A Cult. The Mother Used To Lecture The Children About No Touching ANYONE Of The Opposite Sex And About Not Divorcing Their Partners. I Went To Their Church Once And It Was Awful. I Like To "Study" Different Religions But This One Isn't Getting Featured In My Notebook.
Story 9: If you know of Dante's Inferno (which I believe is mainly Catholic influenced). Babies who passed and weren't baptized go to purgatory which is like the first layer of hell.
@@JESUSistheonlyway-t5e Yeah, I didn't look it up yet, but I was reading the comments, and apparently I was right before. I have no idea where that person even got that from. -_-
@@catbatrat1760 Yes it is weird. Everywhere has to be a trustful source if you tell someone something, but in case of christian things someone simply saying something seems to be enough. That is one of the reasons why many people think so bad about Christianity and Jesus. But it isn't even really their fault, and we should just pray for them and live like Jesus told us to (shine and be salt). Also, in german the books of the bible are called the german word for book, so that is kind of cool😁
Ahh yes, I remember the awful Bible thumping church my family started in. Wearing nail polish was prostitution, Care Bears was about the devil and witchcraft, Pokémon was gambling and a devil’s game, D&D “changed” and possessed people… the list goes on. Oh and mr favorite, in public school the councilor had a cute little pink dragon puppet named Pumsy. I loved Pumsy and made the mistake of drawing her on the chalk board at church. They had an emergency meeting with my parents to tell me that dragons were the serpent/beast/devil in the Bible and I should never draw such things!!!! I was crushed… thankfully by the time I was in grade school the family got out of there.
Not a cult, but a conservative Baptist church. I only joined because I saw my twin was getting snacks from the bus rides to and from the church, as well as the sermons in the children's part of the church. When I was moved to the grown up part, I was forced to wear skirts or dresses (which I don't like wearing either), and the adult sermons were so boring that I was actually losing my mind (undiagnosed ADD at the time). Didn't take long for me to leave. But my twin, however, stayed and got brainwashed for a while. She was baptized and became homophobic. I think she stopped after her crush at the time (also attended the church) revealed that he was gay, which broke her heart severely. I was told by her somewhat recently that not only was the church was sexist (which I guess I didn't see the full extent of it) and homophobic, they were racist, too. Can't remember the example she gave with that. Anyway, I'm just glad my twin got out of there and rewired her brain, and that my shit attention span saved me from indoctrination lol
There are so many things in the teachings of the churches I used to go to that someone just pulled out of their ass. Not even based off their own religious text.
As much as I love God and believe with all my heart, it's painful to see how many Christians use the Bible and God to just make others miserable and condemn others for not being the same. So sad.
Obligatory not a cult, just a couple bad religious people. So I’m a biromantic asexual trans guy, and I was raised Catholic. I went to private Catholic school from pre school to 6th grade, different private Catholic school for 7th and 8th. Growing up I was a straight A student and always got picked to read at the lectern during church (I don’t think they should’ve been forcing kids to read it btw). I didn’t know what the word gay meant outside of being used as an insult until 6th grade. At that point I was super uncomfortable with myself because of dysphoria and had no idea what was wrong. I remember frantically googling “what if I don’t want to be a girl” on the bathroom floor after looking in the mirror before my shower made me cry. I found out what being trans was, but then found some asshole UA-cam commenter saying it was a sin, and if you google “is being trans a sin” it shows you what it thinks you want to hear and brings up articles that say the words “trans” and “sin”. I suppressed everything because I thought it was just wrong to be open about it, until towards the end of 7th grade the religion teacher that I really loved (helped me through multiple panic attacks, gave me chocolate on my birthday, etc.) compared being gay to willful murder. She then went on to say, and I quote, “we don’t support transgenderism”. So yeah, I was floored. By then I had started believing that maybe it wasn’t actually bad and that those articles were just super extreme. I went from starting to be ok with myself to wholeheartedly believing my choices were either be myself and go to hell, or suppress it until the day I die and probably go to hell anyways. By the end of 8th grade I didn’t know what to believe and just had to tell someone, so I came out to my mom via a UA-cam video I found addressed to parents of trans kids. I said I didn’t want to talk about it and she said she loved me and we moved on. Eventually she found an organization I wish I could remember the name of that’s full of priests and a couple bishops in the Catholic Church fully in support of queer youth. Between that and my regular therapy I eventually got past the going to hell thing and am much happier. I know not all religious people are homophobic and/or transphobic, in fact I’d argue most of them aren’t and it’s just a loud minority of assholes using their faith as an excuse to be hateful and bigoted, but I’m still wary of anyone I know to be religious because of all that and it’s messed up. I think a lot of people are just ignorant and there are some stubborn ones who choose to be hateful instead of trying to learn. Almost all of my family is Christian in some way and they’ve all been accepting or at the very least respectful of me even if they don’t understand. The point of this is that forcing children into religion probably isn’t a smart idea. They’ll either rebel against it entirely or be traumatized. If they do embrace it, good for them, but maybe don’t tell them they’ll burn in hell when they’re to young to even understand why you make them go to church.
@@alexv3372 So bisexual people are sexually attracted to more than one gender, and biromantic people are romantically attracted to more than one gender. Since I’m asexual, I experience little to no sexual attraction to anyone.
Ooh ok Also as a Christian I’m sorry about that experience Your experience with that chocolate giving pastor reminds me of my 7th grade Spanish teacher She was really nice except to me (even though I didn’t do anything wrong) watching her facade crack was terror to the other students. When the pandemic hit I no longer had to see her and instead got my older 5th grade Spanish teacher (sweet old lady, had 2 cats) Last I heard my 7th grade teacher was fired because she would humiliate students in front of class and overall had an attitude problem with other students who didn’t hand in their homework on time😔 Again very sorry about your experience and hope you get better pal😢
I was raised in a christian cult and the thing that made me feel weird was the fact they would call the people outside of our religion "the world people" and when I pointed it out to my "uncle" he was super offended and said it's the only correct way to address "them".
I always saw people "speaking in tongues" (gibberish) when I went to church growing up and I never did it myself. It just seemed weird to me. Not to mention when it says speaking in tongues in the bible it means different languages not random mouth noises.
"Not to mention when it says speaking in tongues in the bible it means different languages not random mouth noises." Wait, is that not the default belief? Were those who were claiming to speak in tongues just spouting gibberish and _claiming_ they were "speaking in tongues"?
Even now that they're they're still making excuses Im not sure if it's really a cult per day Pretty normal missionaries Pretty even keel *Goes on to describe the most crazy shit I've ever heard*
Ok so, I'm a Christian and none of the stuff that happened in the churches in this story is normal, that's not a church thats a cult. You're in the wrong place. My church is more the love of God instead of the fear of God. You don't have to baptize if you don't want to and supports what ever choice you make( love thy neighbour as you love yourself) and you're not supposed to be forced to worship God. These people are insane and are are only bringing down the Christian name. Seriously non of the churches I go to are like this NON!! Those are cults and I'm just ranting now... Anyway all I'm saying is that churches are not supposed to be like this. They are supposed to preach the love of God (and how he sent his only son to die for our sins) not this bs. So ya not all Christians are like this. (Please don't hate all of us) I guess you just need to look in the right place to find them. (Extra info: in Jamaican so ya😅). God bless you all. Sorry for ranting and if it's too long or too confusing (don't know how to express my thoughts clearly)
As a Christian, I learned that God wants us all to be friends so I can't figure out how did they come up with the idea of seperating us from the world like we are in north korea, and that we genuinely and authentically love him, not fear him, sure we have to acknowledge that he is extremely almighty but our relationship with him is supposed to be love, not authoritative, only enemies of God deserve to fear him
I was born and raised in a Church of Christ. It wasn't cult-like at all, but hearing the stories of what occured in those churches made me realize, holy shit it could've been worse. Even then, I can't wear my favorite clothes to church cuz my parents are scared that they'd have a bad reaction to seeing a phoniex or something similar. I came out as bi once and it never worked out. I'm never going to tell em I'm not a girl or anything else...
What a want to know… people coming from door-to-door recruitment-type religions like Jehovah’s Witnesses and LDS missionaries, do you really get new, true-believers this way? In countries like US? Canada? How about in other countries? I cannot count how many times in my life I had these eager believers knock at my door. I only know of one person who ever converted and that was in the 1970’s.
I spent 13 years in a very radical offshoot of Pentecostalism. Grandma took me, and my non-churchgoing parents though it was OK ... until my younger brother clued Mom into what was going on. People screaming; fake speaking in tongues (I am a linguist raised in a multi-lingual environment) ;damning me to hell every time I was seen wearing pants, shorts, or makeup; being condemned to their idea of hell on the regular, etc. I finally broke free at age 15, having decided that if I was damned to their idea of hell, I'm going to enjoy the downhill slide! Now at age 68, I bought my little dream home a block from that church. I smile every time I pass by and am so over it.
A well lived life is the best revenge. ❤
@josi4251 What's crazy is that they're still doing the speaking in tongues thing. After I left the church I realized how racist this idea was.
Are you a babe at 68 still tho?
Absolute W take OP
@@michaelstevenson5044 How is 'God will make you speak gibberish if you are holy enough' racist?
Story 2. That recruiter is a hero. Even if OP has been KIA the recruiter still gave them a chance at a better life with getting them documents.
Lol that recruiter was doing his job😂
@@charliebrown4799i mean definitely partially but the person went above and beyond to help them
@@charliebrown4799 True, but it still doesn't take away the heroism of enabling OP's escape from a destructive cult like that.
I wanted to let you know that your good mental state, allowing you to read stories like this without losing it is something I appreciate.
I came here after some other reading channels, but one guy, in particular, I remember crying during the recording for three minutes and keeping it in. Each story they read made it worse for them.
For someone who probably does this for a living, being able to read about things far worse than I remember the aforementioned other person without losing it must be apreciated. Its so important to take breaks to keep your mental health in check, that sounds trivial, but youd be surprised.
AI is talented that way.
What channel was it?
@@averyfields8183 it was some episode from mainly facts, I honestly don't remember which one specifically, but it had something to do with people being jerks or something.
I don't want to provide any more information because I don't want to accidentally cause harassment to happen on his video. I just wanted to specify that I cared about people who do channels like this because reading about such sensitive topics can really do something to you.
@@nitrogenoxide135 thank you.
@@averyfields8183 also, I might have misremembered it because it's been a while since I saw the specific video, so for all I know, it probably went down differently, but I understand that it was the second to last story.
this was one of the videos where mainly was doing a slightly different format where he would say his response, but also would be in frame behind a greenscreen. He was just upset in response to the second to last story, and right when he was at the final one, I just knew his response was probably going to be worse and then just left the video.
I was raised in a secular cult and didn't know it until I was in therapy as an adult. I thought all cults were religious, but as I described my childhood and family dynamics, my therapist listed the damaging features of a cult and my family had many of these features, since cults are actually about control and not about religion. My family was very isolated and isolating, few visitors were ever welcomed, we had a piece of land and family members were expected to live there. Religion was frowned upon, therapy was absolutely out of the question, my grandmother was in charge and no Dr., therapist, book, or religion was going to challenge her. We were poor as dirt. Men worked and women were mothers and housewives. I was taught that I would be shunned if I didn't do the will of my grandmother. She said when I got my own house, I could make my own rules. So I got my own house on the family property as was expected of me. When I tried to have friends over she said I was forbidden. I said, but I got my own house like you said. She answered that since my house was on her property, I would still have to follow her rules. But she had insisted that it be on her property. Life was like that in my family - just one controlling mind game after another. It was crazy making. I did end up shunned, written out of the will, disowned. I'm much better off.
Good for you... wishing you a beautiful and happy life ❤️
Dang man. Family's are supposed to be a loving support system. You basically described the opposite:(
I hope you can breathe and have peace.
I'm glad you pointed out that it's about control. Doesn't matter what label is on it.
I'm a Communist, but there are a lot of secular, messianic Marxist cults out there. Many, but not all, Trotskyist or Maoist of some sort. A bunch got their start in the 60 and 70s in the US, usually splintering off of some larger socialist organization and going from political party to cult of personality to literal cult
@@redjoker365 Right, there are plenty of cults that are not based on religion - there are cults that center around political ideology, identity, academia, and even self help. Ours is classified as a familial cult but had a definite political leaning.
@@redjoker365 All of Communism is a Cult, Dude.
As someone who is from a more open and less conservative catholic background, and has only had wholesome experiences in church, I feel very uncomfortable whenever I hear cults say heinous things and do heinous acts and then turn around and say that they are a religion of love…
Read the History of your Religion dude. You will be more disgusted. Especially when you read about what Charlemagne did to the Saxons.
Grew up till I was 10 in a Charismatic church (pastored by my maternal grandpa) where they took "God told me..." to a whole new level. Wound up leaving after my dad called out illegal practices going on because "God told them so" and thus they didn't need to care about the bylaws... In many ways I got off easy without any physical abuse, bu seeing my dad get called a heretic from the pulpit (by the other grandpa, incidentally) was, well, something else. Thankfully, by the grace of God, I have found a non-abusive church and was even able to reconcile with my grandparents before they passed.
So glad ❤
Story 9. I grew up in a seemingly regular sect of Christianity and we were taught that unbaptised children went to purgatory/hell or at least didn’t go to heaven.
As an adult I read Dante and he said unbaptised people went to Limbo which isn’t technical hell but is the first ring by his book.
Unfortunately a common belief. Sorry you had to grow up with that, glad you can see more clearly now!
13:09 This is similar to something that happened to me. When I was 9, I asked if my dog, who had recently died, was going to heaven. My bible study teacher just said that animals never got the “breath of life” so they can’t have souls or go to heaven. It fucked up 9 year old me.
I believe you...I prefer to think that heaven would be so empty without them and they will be there ❤
I struggle with this too. So cruel.
It's weird how animals are as expressive as humans - sometimes more - yet we're supposed to be the ones with souls and they don't. Hmm...
@@lydiapetra1211 The current pope agrees with you btw
I know it's fup. For me too. I have a cat and I know after she die she would go in vain. Animals don't have a soul and they are innocence by their nature. For a living to go to Heaven or Hell, it has to have conciouness of their acctions. Wich animals don't. But is better that way. They did go to a better place.
I joined a cult willingly. I made the WhatsApp group for said cult. We worship teabags, and we acknowledge that we are a cult because it is just a joke thing amongst a small group of autistic teenage friends. We call ourselves Cult of The Teabag because our friendship formed from us joking about teabag memes like the "How British people shower" meme. Fortunately, all our "cult meetings" consist of the three of us coming together and having a good time, going to shopping centres and malls, being chaotic, stuffing our faces at restaurants, and making jokes that only our tiny cult would understand and then we would laugh ourselves breathless. I feel bad for people in actual cults like in this video.
I hope you all order tea when going to restaurants together 🤣
@mathologyofficial7747 lol, what's even funnier is that we don't even *like* tea!
Now THAT'S what I call a cool cult 🤣
Too bad it isn't realali-tea
I'd join your cult....
Is ice tea worthy?
I grew up in an evangelical christian church and when I was a baby my parents would regularly perform exorcisms on me and take me to tent revivals to have others perform them too. I have no clue why they were so convinced that a literal infant was possessed but at least I was too little to have any memories of it. Though I do have memories of them performing exorcisms on our house. They would frequently make sweeps of the house, starting in one room and "pushing" the demons out while praying the whole time until the demons were apparently pushed out the front door. Also mom has been telling me we're in "the last seven years" since I was little. I'm turning 40 this year so her math is pretty off. Yeah they're super confused why I'm an atheist now.
I don't understand how cults could lure people in like that! Its horrible! Than force them to believe that stuff???? If anything THEYRE going to hell.
the world is a confusing place and having answers can be attractive. And when you are born into it you just assume it is correct because it is all you have known.
They prey on ppl who gone through depression and other mental health issues and kinda just know what to say/do to make them feel wanted and needed
In essence cults prey on people who are already susceptible to being influenced by others. People who have mental illnesses, Lonely people, Young people who are at the impressionable age. It's why you see a lot of them prey at college campuses. Basically anyone who would be by some form of social hierarchy be a "social outcast" they will prey on. They also go after the young too. It's why they are on college campuses a lot.
The other two responses are correct, and I would add that cults work by very gradually introducing beliefs. It’s very manipulative and preys on vulnerable people (just left home, just broke up, just got fired, etc) who are looking for something to help them in the way they are hurting or growing. It is a bait and switch, just like romantic relationships that become abusive. The victim wants to trust, wants to believe in the certainty that cults tend to provide, and after giving so much to the cult, there is a “sunk-cost” factor (if this isn’t right, I wasted a lot of time, money, and energy on something foolish), so they are more willing to accept more extreme beliefs and treatment.
People might think that only stupid, gullible people get fooled by cults, but this isn’t true. Very intelligent and educated people often fall for cults, partly because smart people are used to being right, and the sunk-cost factor would be a huge blow to their ego. Plus, cults (and other abusive dynamics) limit and control information and education, so once inside, many victims become trapped, they just don’t realize it. It is the nature of a cult to actively obfuscate the fact that it is a trap.
This is why parents and schools should encourage basic critical thinking, logic, and exposure to a wide variety of different people and sources so that kids can learn to handle new ideas and situations when they are adults. Otherwise, they are simply being trained and indoctrinated, which is lazy, negligent, cruel, and short-sighted.
same thing with any religion
"fictional film thing...a lot of cults just grabbed it and ran with it". And there I think you've very neatly summed up cults in general.I have no connection to a cults but there was a particularly nutty one busted in my home city when I was young and the details were simultaneously hilarious, ridiculous and horrific. And no cults that's come to public attention since has proved any different.
I thought "The Mark Of The Beast" thing was in Revelation!
@@melissacooper8724 I wouldn't know. I just know it's some biblical thing.
@@melissacooper8724 It is. The op probably got confused because a lot of religions say everyone will be forced to implant something in your head or hand, which might have been inspired by the movie idk. But Revelations does talk about the mark of the beast on your hand or forehead, which is most liked a metaphor, not literally a mark or implant.
Just clicked on this. Haven't watched it yet. I was born into a cult. I have a bit of a love/hate relationship with ex cult content. I love it because it makes me feel a little less alone. I hate it because sometimes, it makes me remember shit I really don't want to remember. Well, I have my trusty beer and smokes, time to get into it. Maybe I'll even be sober enough to hit the comments after watching. Wish me luck.
So I don't have a story like these... but I'm a Christian. It's horrible to me to hear these stories of the Christian church in all sorts of different sects and capacities harming the people under them and abusing their power. These stories are proof of why people are leaving the Christian church en mass. It's sickening and I desperately wish that none of this would have ever happened to these people... but the past is the past. We can't change what happened. But at least this is showing me what a healthy church life shouldn't look like. Thank you @undersparked for providing these stories to us not on Reddit and giving me examples of red flags to obviously avoid when I have kids.
Amen!
It sucks because my church is an amazing one that has never lead me or others astray. My pastor is an amazing and Godly man. He just eminates this presence of love and warmth. He never judges, he never carries on about hellfire, brimstone, none of that. He preaches love and kindness, how to pray for others and how to share the good news with them in a friendly way. It breaks my heart every time I hear of some scandal that happens at a church because its supposed to be the place christians gather together to praise and worship. They should be able to come there and be together without worrying if somethings happening in secret at their church too
I'm a christian, and all I have to say is that I feel sooo bad for people goint through that. Christianity is not supposed to be a cult or what ever. People only see what so called Christians or churches do, but don't realize that this isn’t what the Bible says at all. And I mean, how should they, since church and it's people should show this to the world.
And btw it is important to talk abt hell, since our god isn’t just kind, loving, forgiving and full of mercy, but also holy and not able to accept sin under any circumstances.
My parents raised our family in a Mormonism extremist kinda group. I started to kinda fall away when they would teach one thing to others in the church building, but expect a stricter rule at home. I was told I could not get personal revelation for myself unless it aligned with what my mom thought was right. Then there was the constant talks about the end of the world. I was told I wasn’t going to graduate high school because the world was going to end before then. When I was 23 I had a serious existential crisis cause I thought I should have been dead by then. The final straw was when my mom told me I could not marry my now husband because she didn’t feel the same way. I was already kind of backing away by that point but I was just straight up done. I now cannot even be on a church grounds though without having a major anxiety attack.
I’m sorry, that is so messed up
I know that thongs is what you call flip flops in Australia and maybe other parts. But as a UK person.. I just been thinking about god wearing panty thongs 😂
Same
Former Mormon and was excommunicated for being gay, except I'm not. Best thing ever.
I was made fun of and called gay throughout my childhood by a family member who actually got other relatives to think I was gay. The thing is, I was never gay!
Bro how do they get to that conclusion I need to know??
@@alexv3372he saw him wiping his ass, and they thought it was gay to wipe your ass because your touching a man’s ass
My JW "family" was so convinced I was either going to be a lesbian or transman bc I was a tomboy as a teen and treated me like every kind of crap bc of their assumptions. I wear dresses and I've got a boyfriend now. 9_9;;
Christ talk about stereotypes
I pray that the people who leave these cults live better lives and that God blessed them… all these stories are so sad and I would never want what was done to these people done to me.
Religions are cults.
These are way too interesting.
On another note, yall should do Discord horror stories, as im trying to learn what to avoid. I would like a few others perspectives
My late father told me that he walked out of his mother's church when he was 12. Apparently, when Dad married his third and last wife, my mother, Granny told him he was going to Hell for marrying a Catholic. I was 10 or 11 the last time I saw Granny (after her stroke). She didn't know Dad or her grandchildren, but she recognized Mom.
When I realized that their most sacred image was of a man being tortured to death, and they had a ritual in which we had to pretend to eat his flesh and drink his blood so that he could come back from the dead a second time.
Explain why symbolism is so lost on you, and why [the central figure] spoke quite literally in metaphor about the bread and the wine --- for you to miss that point.
In other breaking news today is Tuesday and trolls are dim.
Tell me you are cluless without tell me you are cluless. 😉 P.s. that "ritual" is not for Him to come back. 🫠
@@eddavons0690 good, i hope he doesn't come back
my brothers and sisters in Christ do not feed the trolls
Oh, yeah. I'm a Christian too.
11:14 that’s what i was taught in church(the part that he doesn’t care as long as you believe. we weren’t taught about babies’ status). also, we were taught that sometimes angels would go on killing sprees and be unstoppable, which is why they had to say “be not afraid”. we left when the pastor said that liberals eat babies. looking back it was definitely cult-like beliefs, but probably not a cult because we could freely leave
Angels going on killing sprees sounds oddly familiar.
@@charadreemurr4839reference lol
@@charadreemurr4839 a certain hotel might be against it......
Followers of Brother Branham right? I grew up in that shit too (if that's the one you were in I mean). All the money my mom gave to those fucks when we were on welfare and we were still looked down on because my parents split up after my dad abandoned us 3 provinces away, none of them offered to help with jack shit.
After my dad died I met his brothers- my uncle's. It was during covid, they kept saying how it's the end of days and it gave me flashbacks to the flood of 97(MB), how that was the end of days, how Y2k was the end of days, or how 9/11 was the end of days, Katrina, you get the picture. A fucking doomsday cult. It was to the point we were basically just outcasts in this tiny little town we lived in. No kids wanted to be my friend, my brother constantly was getting into fights and the parents just talked shit about my mom. Fuck all of those people. They even spread gossip that my brother was selling drugs-- TO MY FACE. Which he was not.
My brother was in foster care for a bit, the family he was in care of was also in this cult, they took him to Philly where they went to one of those stupid fuckin megachurch places where they banish fake ass demons and all that BS, he said it was the most bizarre thing he's ever seen
For all its worth, at least in christianity, in the original language in the scrolls and what not wayyy back before they were compiled and translated into what there is now…the phrasing used for what was translated as “breath of life” or whatever to indicate a soul for humans was used for animals too, and I think (not 100% on this one tho), even for plants.
The most quoted anti gay line (a man should lay not with another man as they would a woman as it is an abomination or whatever) actually was “man should not lay with BOY as they would woman” or something along those lines, it was about p*d*s being an abomination, not being queer.
Peter (book of peter peter not disciple peter) wasn’t even born until like centuries after jesus was crucified and never had any interaction, and also expressed that ALL s*x was bad, no matter who it was between, marital status, reason, anything. He viewed a husband and wife trying to conceive a child equally as evil and worthy of going to hell as being gay, being poly, being a p*d*, SA, bestiality, self pleasuring, anything. (Note that I do not think any consensual intimacy between 2 or more human adults is wrong in any capacity, the grouping is just to exemplify what peter seemed to believe.)
Also also, if you go the king james version of evangelical biblical literalism, then the sole difference between going to heaven or hell is believing jesus died on the cross to save you from your sins. Nothing else you say, do, or believe at any point matters as long as at your last moment before death, you believe that one thing.
Sincerely- someone who grew up in the lutheran church but had a lot of evangelical family and broke away from the hateful rhetoric of the christian conservative upbringing as an adult and became some form of a non-religious leftist as a result of deprogramming as I saw all the hypocrisy and how none of it made any sense.
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Regardless, if anyone does reply, please be respectful of each other. Being rude accomplishes literally nothing, regardless of beliefs.
If I got things wrong, then I got them wrong. Simple as. Don’t take my word or anyone else’s word without any proper research, I am as fallible as anyone.
Thank you for mentioning the misinformation of some people. It does talk about p3d0s not the lgbtqia community. I always hate when people use religion as an excuse to be a horrible bigoted human being and wish they would actually pay attention to their precious little book and understand that their only seeing what they want to see and never truly spreading Gods message “to love thy neighbor” even if their gay, trans, lesbian, ace, black, white, Muslim, aethiest, or anything else!!! They don’t understand what they say they do!
I believe the books of Peter were, in fact, written by the disciple Peter. Regardless, I think the views op are referring to more closely align with those of St. Paul, a la 1 Corinthians.
(I'm not a theology scholar or anything; if someone who knows what they're talking about could fact check me, that would be great)
Look, I’m just gonna play it safe and not be gay, don’t wanna take chances.
Let's just all agree on this, the people who call themselves Christian and hate other people for what they do, are NOT REAL CHRISTIANS. Believe it or not, Jesus never EVER taught anyone to hate on others for what they do, and he just tells us to treat them with the same respect as anyone else. It's a shame that so many people are led into thinking that Christians are like this in general because of a few select people.
Any christians here please inform me of this. If Peter found all intercourse to be bad. How did they expect children to be born?
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I was born and raised FLDS (Netflix keep sweet pray and obey). My cousin got married a year or 2 ago(we’re supposed to have our marriages arranged by Warren Jeffs who is a convicted felon and serving life in prison which means he’s not arranging marriages) and my parents said he was a very wicked person. Me and my brothers were told to stop associating with him but I decided I’m done being controlled at 25 years old. Even getting on the internet is a wicked sin but hell here I am
Good for you
The pets have no souls and cant go to heaven hit me where it hurts omg i had that same experience 😭 i was 6, absolutely adored my two (now one) cats as they were truly the best pets one could ever ask for. I left the class crying that day apon learning id never see my pets in death. Definitely one of the reasons i stopped believing :l so shoutout to the catholic church ig
ocd + abusive religion is such a bad combo because if you’ve been constantly told that god or a higher up is constantly watching your thoughts, you must think you’re definitely going to hell for those horrible intrusive thoughts. and they don’t go away easily either. i used to cry myself to sleep as a child because of my ocd and religion.
18:29 yep they "exercises" the op 😂
I was raised Catholic and from around 10 and up was required to attend church from between 12-20 hours a week. I cannot stand to remain quiet and still for hours. It was torture. When I moved out for college, I never went back. I put in my time as a child.
I'm a practicing Roman Catholic, and I go to mass once a week on Sundays and it's only one hour. But if I go to Eucharistic Adoration then maybe I'll spend more time than an hour in church. But why were you "required" to attend church for 12-20 hours a week? Were you in Catholic school or a part of some church activities/ministries?
@@Gabriela.Sotelo as a Catholic, you picked up on that! I was in Catholic School and in the choir. School days included an hour in mass and more on holidays like Holy Week. There were four regular Masses on weekends plus multiple weddings and funerals. Also there was a Wednesday night CCD which included a mass. I am on the spectrum and find sitting still, excruciating.
Oh, geez, I don't even like sitting still and quiet for ONE hour! No wonder your last sentence here is "I put in my time" as if you were in jail - it must've felt like it!
But yeah, that's why I much prefer the "small group" format of church. Sure, there's someone teaching and a Bible passage to get through, but you're allowed to talk and joke around and stuff. But when it's a preacher at the front of a room with upwards of 50 people sat in rows, just listening to the sermon like a school lecture... that just doesn't work for me.
well, some of these ain't following the bible, that's for sure. the live animal sacrifices made that clear.
Not all cults are Christian and Bible based...
@@jasonellis4330that’s why they said “some”.
I thought the OT had that?
Been a while since I did any reading but I distinctly remember that burnt offerings were "pleasing to the lord" or something.
Animal sacrifices are upheld in the OT (as a picture of Jesus Christ's death), but never live sacrifices. They didn't pull out its entrails before slitting the animal's throat or anything. God is also pretty particular about humane treatment. He has laws about not boiling a kid in the mother goat's milk, helping up fallen oxen, safely returning lost animals, and letting animals eat fallen grain while working a grist mill. Also, once, an angel was blocking the path of this guy who was trying to do something he knew God didn't want him to do. The guy didn't see the angel, but his donkey did and kept going off the path to avoid the angel, and the guy started beating it. God then opens the donkey's mouth, and the donkey tells this guy off for mistreating her---and the angel (who the guy finally noticed) backs her up. So the OT's presentation of humane animal treatment is considerably more complex than just some people made animal sacrifices. @TheGreatBackUpVIDEOS
@@thehonestcritiquer7509 I never really understood the goat milk one.
What it is boiled in seems less relevant than the existence of the goat's pulse.
Love when you just know exactly what cult is being mentioned when the phrase, "the truth" is used 💀
So hes a sugar daddy who married his sugar baby of a yr dropped probably close to half a mil on her so she can go to school and a lawyer to adopted her kids and wonder why his grown kids call her a gold digger and dont like her? God i never seen a more delusional man. She doesnt love him she loves the money. She will abandon him soon as he gets sick or loses his money. His son was right to cut him off completely but his daughter is a merc i can respect.
Cult stories like these remind me of that episode of Little House on the Prairie where Mary is assigned to teach in a small town that was basically run by a “witch” that uses religion to justify arson even though she has never read the Bible… things get better and resolve in the end.
My father was a preacher for a cult-ish Cristian church in the early 2000s. Children were not allowed to cry. If they did, the mothers would be ridiculed by their peers. So, most mothers left their kids unattended in the lobby of the church. My grandmother would take care of my brother and consequently all of the children there. Women covered their faces and skin and wore only black. At first, they could only sit. in the back. Then, the men decided they had to have their own room and be taught separately. They were taught that women were lesser.
After I was born (bio F), my parents left because they didn't want me or my brother to be taught that.
Also, I’ve never understood that “fear of god” thing. Isn’t the whole point that god is our father that loves us? Then why should we fear him? Sounds like an abusive relationship
No.
@@luckilewno what?
@@ntfoperative9432 its not about fear. Its about reverence. There is a lot of false teaching going on out here who tell you to fear instead of honor God. Always remember if the church or the pastor has a large following then he's either lying or conning people.
The next time you're able, on a dark night; preferably without city lights.
Ponder your cosmic insignificance. How small you are, that you are but a grain of sand on the beach of space.
Further, that your life is brief and short in comparison to long long history of the universe.
Allow this to trickle through your thoughts.
Now consider a Being, an Entity so powerful that He created all that you see, all you can comprehend, and even things you cannot comprehend.
A being who is timeless, and ageless.
Ponder looking at the night sky, and seeing His face in the vastness of space time.
You understand that He could obliterate you at any moment and does not. This is not to imply that He could. (I get a milder version of this around horses.)
It is not about the fear of an abusive parent (or at least I don't interpret it that way) and more of...what I described.
Beyond reverence, or honor, but the perception of an entity who is completely beyond human limitations and understandings.
So as the user above me, squid, has said. Its not about like an abusive relationship. Its more of respecting and being in awe of the power and presence of the Lord. Knowing that he is beyond human comprehention. Despite being all powerful and all knowing though, he loves and cares about each individual human being. So when we things like "fear the Lord and rejoice woth trembling." It means more, respect the Lord and his infinite power, rejoice knowing he can and has conquered all
19:42 i heard this one months if not over a year ago, and think about it every once in a while
Story 8 really seemed familiar to me, experience wise that is. It wasn't until the end where the ICC, ICOC, COC was mentioned that I realised that it was indeed the same church that I had recently left about a year ago. I had a few instant flashbacks while the story was being narrated, there aee some things that will always be hard to forget.
I had that experience too - it sounded eerily familiar, then confirmed once they mentioned the ICOC. I was a part of them from 1995 - 2006.
@vengefuljedi I heard about how things were for a lot of the ex-members. I only learned these things from the other fall aways after I had left the church. I was a part of the ICC since 2020-2023. So it's fairly recent and short amount of time for me. There were a lot of stories that we heard about the ICOC & COC Church while I was in there.
@@ameliataufatofua8863 I'm grateful that you are now freed, and I truly hope you can find the experience you are looking for.
I feel like this is why most people don't want to engage in religion, most people completely ruin the image of what God is supposed to be like.
Story 1:
Ahh.. the "Christian" family values hypocrisy of some persons.
I bet if serious abuse happened to her, she would be out of that marriage real fast.
As well anyone should.
Some people just don't get it until it happens to them.
Even catholics abide by this. What i found funny is i had a naracisstic catholic father.. caught on real quick with the manipulation of the "fear of god" and his version.. while he beat me and my mother for frivilous things. Lets just say he was never satisfied.
@@irmazamora4679 yeah. Some people will use any excuse to get their way.
It's not about church, God or you. It's about him and his issues.
But I think you know that already.
It sucks.
Hope you are better now.
I think you greatly underestimate the amount of people who will stay in abusive marriages. Especially when they are indoctrinated to believe they have to.
@@shadamyandsonamylover yeah. You probably right. Especially if they grew up with this, they may not know any better..
Okay, so when I started the video and heard the first story, my first thought was, "I hate how whenever I see people answer one of these 'cult stories' questions, most of the responses are about Christianity. I don't want to hear why Christianity is a cult for the millionth time. I wanna hear about the group in the woods doing sketchy things!" Then the second story happened, and I got what I wished for...absolutely regretting my wish...
Goddd yeah. I want glamorous, mystical *mystery* cults, not real world actually dangerous shit that makes me wonder whether I should even bother calling myself Christian.
Would love to hear about some non religious cults :)
Feel like that would be hard to have. Essentially all cults have some sort of worship or herd thinking that can’t be questioned. Even if it isn’t a religion turned cult, cults will have something become religion like.
@@stevenxoyatla1432most MLMs qualify as cults. There’s plenty of high control groups, usually pyramid schemes or self help groups, that fall into cult adjacent categories
i heard of political cults, groups that described as far-right and far-left, basically just some neo-nazi groups (can far-left count as neo-nazism? i heard that far-right is nazism, but i also heard some people say it's far-left, i dunno, nazis are bad anyway)
Wasn't that one where the leader killed a bunch of people with poisoned Kool aid (forgot the name) not religious?
@@3days_left Jim jones? His cult was Christian
I used to believe in god my mum does I think but she doesn’t go to church or anything I think she just believes there is a god but she doesn’t force us into anything
I’m from a Mormon family, and when I heard “The Mormon church wasn’t conservative enough for them.” I just paused and said aloud “Oh no.”
Yikes.
The roses they gave all of the girls with the intention of ‘taking their flower’.
I don't know when my "aha" moment was...Mum was/is a charismatic Evangelical Pentecostalist (So lots of rolling around, jumping up and down, speaking in tongues, exorcisms - even on pets, and going around to spread the "good word".)
I had a hard time understanding a lot of things in the bible that just sounded wrong to me...even by the time I was 6. I had issues with the idea that one woman "sinned" at the very beginning of time and that for the rest of all eternity every woman who ever had kids was going to suffer the "pains of childbirth", that all of mankind was cursed. Not because THEY did anything wrong, but because two fictional people 6000 years ago committed a sin... whatever happened to the loving and forgiving god? It just ... lots of stories in the bible make NO sense if you ever stop to think about them.
The thing is that because of Adam and Eve's sin, humanity in its entirety became sinful. There was no pain before that day, it only came after. Anyone in Adam and Eve's place would've probably done the same thing.
as a muslim, I can confirm that the story 4 minutes in about the islam cult is NOT what we practice and is infact haram. Don't take this as what muslims usually practice.
Same for Christianity
This stuff is sickening. As a regular prodistent Christian, it hurts how many of these groups warp and twist what the point of this belief is into their own gain and power.
12:00 Yeah, it's pretty impressive to believe something like that and not go completely insane then start doing drugs or unalive. 😅
Makes you happy you were born in a regular boring home
I spent my first 17 years of my life in a cult (thank heavens I didn’t reach 18 in it, their mission system is brutal). Ironically enough, it was reading their scripture that drove me all the way out (I was put into question by getting into a rabbit hole learning about cults), turns out among their administrative documentation is hidden some of their craziest beliefs. During high school they then make you study those verses, and most of the time it works. Luckily that year was when I went down that rabbit hole. I’ve been out for 2 years, learned more about myself than I ever did in it, and screwed up my mental health hiding inside the cult since I was not self sufficient.
As a Christian I see most of these cults are based around Christianity and lemme say.... those cults are NOT what the Bible says to do. The Bible calls us to Love Others and therefore Love God while doing so. Nothing more. Nothing less. The Bible mentions this 3 times. It mentions it during the 10 commandments, before Moses died, and Jesus himself said it.
Never does it say "start a cult and fear teach children into following me." NEVER.
There's an entire story that speaks of love and giving your followers space so they can freely make mistakes and return when they're ready. It's creepy when I hear stories about sects and cults around Christianity and they omit these stories. They're so much more interesting than the actual contents of the Bible, really, and they can be made more secular.
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Yeah, it doesn’t say start a cult because Christianity basically already is one.
@@HungryWarden It's not though, not even basically
@@tramographyMCR Explain how it isn’t a cult.
I don't know about a breaking point but I remember when I was 9 years old and questioned the leaders over their teachings and got in trouble, I had pointed out a double standard and that was the day I started to lose my faith, it wasn't the SA I was experiencing before I could talk, or that they told me it was between me and God after I told them what eas happening...nope it was hypocrisy I noticed when I was 9.....my Mom and all us 3 kids ended up in police protection and carted out of state to get away from it all....
Was born into the IFB. My “oh shit this is a cult” moment was when the pastor openly defended a man who was SA’ing his 4 yo daughter, and refused to hold him accountable for his actions, DESPITE the clear as day evidence that proved he had done those horrible things to his daughter and got sentenced to 25 years in jail. The man’s name is Jordan Webb.
Baptist Fundamentalist Disciples of Christ. . Believed I was a half demon . And I was escaped from them at 16 . Hid out in college towns and national parks . My dad was dead after chasing my cousin . My dad was an idiot.
Can confirm the Methodist guy, grew up as Methodist myself, though haven't gone to service in like... decades myself after bad roll of a pastor who basically snubbed our family out of stuff like trustees and so on. Basically the spiciest the sect gets is communion by what I can tell, it's very much was just glorified bible studies for the sermons and charity work.
I technically started a “cult” Meatlog on Facebook. Basically buddy of mine had a dumbass profile pic and another buddy of mine and myself changed our pics to his as a joke. Next thing I know a ton of people some who didn’t even know the guy did the same. Started a group and had people “assimilate” 😂 aka change this pic and worship the meat (not really, just replying “nice” to random shit and telling others to “assimilate”.)
Story 8
I’m just confused? Like… what
just in time for my nap 😇
4:25 so only that gender specifically's genitle mutilation at birth based on belief isn't good?
While I don’t agree with male circumcision being carried out on infants either, FGM is undeniably worse.
While male circumcision typically removes a piece of skin for the purposes of religious belief, or under the pretences of being more hygienic/preventing infection, FGM is more invasive, dangerous, and is specifically aimed to alter the body’s natural function. The whole point of FGM is to stop women from wanting or enjoying sex, even later on in life, in marriage. In some cases, stitches are added to “preserve purity,” so that future sex becomes painful. The procedure is commonly not performed by a medical professional either, or under sterile conditions. The risk of additional injury or even death, is much higher.
I don’t agree with either procedure, but surely you can see why there’s more outrage towards FGM
Huh?
What game is the footage of, in this video?
Story 11
And he causeth all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and bond, to receive a mark in their right hand, or in their foreheads:
And that no man might buy or sell, save he that had the mark, or the name of the beast, or the number of his name.
- Revelation chapter 13:16-17
Not some crazy film after all ❤
I remember for a while I went to a church that only allowed you to take part in communion if you were baptized in that church, it was a fun church, I enjoyed the passover, but like, forced baptism thats used to basically subscribe to a church is pretty sucky, like, let me get baptized when I want to man ;^;
(this isnt a cult thing (I think), there was just a story in there that made me remember that)
for the third story i am muslim, i have never heard of something like this before, when listening to the sacrifices i wa at first oh thats fine, then the friday part came up i was like thats a bit overkill then the eat heart raw part came up which is absolute bs, in islam you can sacrifice a lamb, cow or camel or sheep but its only on eid al adha, basically muslim christmas
I feel like I'd still have payed for my mother's funeral, even in that situation... Though maybe the fact that I'm even thinking about it is likely because I'm distinctly not in that situation, so no judgment from me.
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oooooook um story 8 what in the hell and story 9 is so weird that kinda had to laugh like what
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Not Religious But I Knew A Family That Might've Been In A Cult. The Mother Used To Lecture The Children About No Touching ANYONE Of The Opposite Sex And About Not Divorcing Their Partners. I Went To Their Church Once And It Was Awful. I Like To "Study" Different Religions But This One Isn't Getting Featured In My Notebook.
Young Sheldon would have a whole fairy tale
Great content, though may I suggest some more positive video topics?
Yes, that would be awesome, but there is another channel called Hopeccore that posts positive videos
0:38 20:05 22:42
Story 9: If you know of Dante's Inferno (which I believe is mainly Catholic influenced). Babies who passed and weren't baptized go to purgatory which is like the first layer of hell.
Dante's Inferno was actually a satire, not a religious peace - hence why the author had so many of his personal enemies burning in Hell
Dante's Divine Comedy is a _Bible fanfic_
13:59 Wait, WHAT?! I have to go to bed soon, but I need to look this up later.
Don't know if you did, but it definitely is in the bible (last "book", forgot how it is called in english)
@@JESUSistheonlyway-t5e Yeah, I didn't look it up yet, but I was reading the comments, and apparently I was right before. I have no idea where that person even got that from. -_-
@@JESUSistheonlyway-t5e Also, yeah, you're good! They are called books.
@@catbatrat1760 Yes it is weird. Everywhere has to be a trustful source if you tell someone something, but in case of christian things someone simply saying something seems to be enough. That is one of the reasons why many people think so bad about Christianity and Jesus. But it isn't even really their fault, and we should just pray for them and live like Jesus told us to (shine and be salt).
Also, in german the books of the bible are called the german word for book, so that is kind of cool😁
What's the game in the background?
14:36 no no no no no cults and Texas immediately make me think of a cult in a city that starts with a W and ends With a O
Ahh yes, I remember the awful Bible thumping church my family started in. Wearing nail polish was prostitution, Care Bears was about the devil and witchcraft, Pokémon was gambling and a devil’s game, D&D “changed” and possessed people… the list goes on. Oh and mr favorite, in public school the councilor had a cute little pink dragon puppet named Pumsy. I loved Pumsy and made the mistake of drawing her on the chalk board at church. They had an emergency meeting with my parents to tell me that dragons were the serpent/beast/devil in the Bible and I should never draw such things!!!! I was crushed… thankfully by the time I was in grade school the family got out of there.
Okay the guy that says "the whole 'mark of the beast' thing was fiction" must've high as a kite.. Revelations 13: 15-18, and I'm not even religious
Not a cult, but a conservative Baptist church.
I only joined because I saw my twin was getting snacks from the bus rides to and from the church, as well as the sermons in the children's part of the church.
When I was moved to the grown up part, I was forced to wear skirts or dresses (which I don't like wearing either), and the adult sermons were so boring that I was actually losing my mind (undiagnosed ADD at the time).
Didn't take long for me to leave.
But my twin, however, stayed and got brainwashed for a while. She was baptized and became homophobic.
I think she stopped after her crush at the time (also attended the church) revealed that he was gay, which broke her heart severely.
I was told by her somewhat recently that not only was the church was sexist (which I guess I didn't see the full extent of it) and homophobic, they were racist, too. Can't remember the example she gave with that.
Anyway, I'm just glad my twin got out of there and rewired her brain, and that my shit attention span saved me from indoctrination lol
"Leaving the Truth" hello fellow ex jho
There are so many things in the teachings of the churches I used to go to that someone just pulled out of their ass. Not even based off their own religious text.
As much as I love God and believe with all my heart, it's painful to see how many Christians use the Bible and God to just make others miserable and condemn others for not being the same. So sad.
yeah i totally laughed at the measuring dong thing myself
Obligatory not a cult, just a couple bad religious people. So I’m a biromantic asexual trans guy, and I was raised Catholic. I went to private Catholic school from pre school to 6th grade, different private Catholic school for 7th and 8th. Growing up I was a straight A student and always got picked to read at the lectern during church (I don’t think they should’ve been forcing kids to read it btw). I didn’t know what the word gay meant outside of being used as an insult until 6th grade. At that point I was super uncomfortable with myself because of dysphoria and had no idea what was wrong. I remember frantically googling “what if I don’t want to be a girl” on the bathroom floor after looking in the mirror before my shower made me cry. I found out what being trans was, but then found some asshole UA-cam commenter saying it was a sin, and if you google “is being trans a sin” it shows you what it thinks you want to hear and brings up articles that say the words “trans” and “sin”. I suppressed everything because I thought it was just wrong to be open about it, until towards the end of 7th grade the religion teacher that I really loved (helped me through multiple panic attacks, gave me chocolate on my birthday, etc.) compared being gay to willful murder. She then went on to say, and I quote, “we don’t support transgenderism”. So yeah, I was floored. By then I had started believing that maybe it wasn’t actually bad and that those articles were just super extreme. I went from starting to be ok with myself to wholeheartedly believing my choices were either be myself and go to hell, or suppress it until the day I die and probably go to hell anyways. By the end of 8th grade I didn’t know what to believe and just had to tell someone, so I came out to my mom via a UA-cam video I found addressed to parents of trans kids. I said I didn’t want to talk about it and she said she loved me and we moved on. Eventually she found an organization I wish I could remember the name of that’s full of priests and a couple bishops in the Catholic Church fully in support of queer youth. Between that and my regular therapy I eventually got past the going to hell thing and am much happier. I know not all religious people are homophobic and/or transphobic, in fact I’d argue most of them aren’t and it’s just a loud minority of assholes using their faith as an excuse to be hateful and bigoted, but I’m still wary of anyone I know to be religious because of all that and it’s messed up. I think a lot of people are just ignorant and there are some stubborn ones who choose to be hateful instead of trying to learn. Almost all of my family is Christian in some way and they’ve all been accepting or at the very least respectful of me even if they don’t understand. The point of this is that forcing children into religion probably isn’t a smart idea. They’ll either rebel against it entirely or be traumatized. If they do embrace it, good for them, but maybe don’t tell them they’ll burn in hell when they’re to young to even understand why you make them go to church.
Are you sure the two nouns in the first sentence aren’t the same thing?
“Biromantic asexual trans guy” wtf does that mean woman?!
What’s a biromantic?
@@alexv3372 So bisexual people are sexually attracted to more than one gender, and biromantic people are romantically attracted to more than one gender. Since I’m asexual, I experience little to no sexual attraction to anyone.
Ooh ok
Also as a Christian I’m sorry about that experience
Your experience with that chocolate giving pastor reminds me of my 7th grade Spanish teacher
She was really nice except to me (even though I didn’t do anything wrong) watching her facade crack was terror to the other students. When the pandemic hit I no longer had to see her and instead got my older 5th grade Spanish teacher (sweet old lady, had 2 cats)
Last I heard my 7th grade teacher was fired because she would humiliate students in front of class and overall had an attitude problem with other students who didn’t hand in their homework on time😔
Again very sorry about your experience and hope you get better pal😢
I was raised in a christian cult and the thing that made me feel weird was the fact they would call the people outside of our religion "the world people" and when I pointed it out to my "uncle" he was super offended and said it's the only correct way to address "them".
I always saw people "speaking in tongues" (gibberish) when I went to church growing up and I never did it myself. It just seemed weird to me. Not to mention when it says speaking in tongues in the bible it means different languages not random mouth noises.
"Not to mention when it says speaking in tongues in the bible it means different languages not random mouth noises." Wait, is that not the default belief? Were those who were claiming to speak in tongues just spouting gibberish and _claiming_ they were "speaking in tongues"?
12:38 What does avon mean?
I don’t get story 8???
Even now that they're they're still making excuses
Im not sure if it's really a cult per day
Pretty normal missionaries
Pretty even keel
*Goes on to describe the most crazy shit I've ever heard*
The truth is a lie
Ok so, I'm a Christian and none of the stuff that happened in the churches in this story is normal, that's not a church thats a cult. You're in the wrong place. My church is more the love of God instead of the fear of God. You don't have to baptize if you don't want to and supports what ever choice you make( love thy neighbour as you love yourself) and you're not supposed to be forced to worship God. These people are insane and are are only bringing down the Christian name. Seriously non of the churches I go to are like this NON!! Those are cults and I'm just ranting now...
Anyway all I'm saying is that churches are not supposed to be like this. They are supposed to preach the love of God (and how he sent his only son to die for our sins) not this bs. So ya not all Christians are like this. (Please don't hate all of us) I guess you just need to look in the right place to find them. (Extra info: in Jamaican so ya😅). God bless you all.
Sorry for ranting and if it's too long or too confusing (don't know how to express my thoughts clearly)
As a Christian, I learned that God wants us all to be friends so I can't figure out how did they come up with the idea of seperating us from the world like we are in north korea, and that we genuinely and authentically love him, not fear him, sure we have to acknowledge that he is extremely almighty but our relationship with him is supposed to be love, not authoritative, only enemies of God deserve to fear him
10:02 What does it mean to miss periods?
As a woman, choosing to be a child-free Atheist probably the best possible route I could have ever taken. Lol
These people are giving God a bad name! This isn’t what God is like!
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Anything that created humanity in its own image assuredly has some issues.
@@rawilliams5881 Even though God is a literally perfect being?
@@buh2701 yes
@@buh2701is it possible to murder newborn babies and still be perfect?
I was born and raised in a Church of Christ. It wasn't cult-like at all, but hearing the stories of what occured in those churches made me realize, holy shit it could've been worse.
Even then, I can't wear my favorite clothes to church cuz my parents are scared that they'd have a bad reaction to seeing a phoniex or something similar. I came out as bi once and it never worked out. I'm never going to tell em I'm not a girl or anything else...
Off topic but how can the mark of the beast be 70's fiction when the bible was published wayy before the 70's in th 1400's to be exact?
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Yeah. There are Jews in the bible. And they never took crap from anybody if they could help it.
So you shouldn't too.
What a want to know… people coming from door-to-door recruitment-type religions like Jehovah’s Witnesses and LDS missionaries, do you really get new, true-believers this way? In countries like US? Canada? How about in other countries? I cannot count how many times in my life I had these eager believers knock at my door. I only know of one person who ever converted and that was in the 1970’s.
Strange, it’s almost like it’s annoying when someone comes to your door to tell you nonsense you don’t want to hear. I hope people stop doing that.
My leg, lol
People be crazy
13:10 the pope siad dogs and cats can go to heven
I'll contiune to say that all organized religion could be considered a cult in one way or another.
I fully agree with you on that.
Yeah, literally the definition of cult perfectly describes organized religions.