the reality of long distance friendships

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  • Опубліковано 26 сер 2022
  • This is the reality of saying bye to my two best friends..
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  • @chandler_m_
    @chandler_m_ Рік тому +195

    i literally cried with y’all watching this you ellie, and elizabeth all have the most genuine and sweetest friendship , but y’all will all be good even though it’s hard to not be close to each other you got this emma ❤️

  • @josephine.33
    @josephine.33 Рік тому +97

    i totally get how you feel. i cry my eyes out bc i miss her so much. my best friend lives far away and it’s the hardest thing in the whole world. i haven’t seen her in such a long time. i miss her so so much

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Рік тому +2

      Oh my god same. One of my best friends lived in a completely different country now and it breaks my heart 🥺

    • @josephine.33
      @josephine.33 Рік тому +2

      @@khalilahd. Wow. i’m so sorry. Mine lives in the same state just multiple hours away and we’re so busy we haven’t been able to see eachother in months.

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/wlCmNv6bYhI/v-deo.html vlog ;)

  • @jaxxixa3880
    @jaxxixa3880 Рік тому +196

    I live in germany and my best friend lives in the US and she came to visit me this year☺️ after not seeing eachother for 3 years. It was great but saying goodbye was so hard. Even tho I’ll see her next year cause i am doing a semester abroad in the us. Still no one talks about how hard long distance friendships are and I am so glad you did❤️

    • @lisamarie-ny3dh
      @lisamarie-ny3dh Рік тому

      moinsen, wir deutschen halten zusammen 💋

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/wlCmNv6bYhI/v-deo.html vlog :)

    • @meghansullivan6812
      @meghansullivan6812 Рік тому

      Yes fr!!! Platonic long distance relationships are just as devastating

  • @abigailwalsh9079
    @abigailwalsh9079 Рік тому +11

    Seeing Ellie cry shows her love for Elizabeth.

  • @maggie1312
    @maggie1312 Рік тому +20

    word of advice
    never take the time you have with your friends for granted. just have faith in your friendship and remember that it is never a goodbye when you part with them. as cringy as it sounds, even when you're far apart in distance you'll be close together at heart.

  • @Amy-fv5pm
    @Amy-fv5pm Рік тому +22

    Awe it’s always sad to see Elizabeth leave, we all know how that feels.

  • @maddiebay1177
    @maddiebay1177 Рік тому +42

    I love how you’re showing the hard parts on your channel too lately. It really shows us how everybody goes through things even if they don’t always show it. Love the raw content💗

  • @nelson819
    @nelson819 Рік тому +16

    “I’m laughing cause that’s my way of coping” never related too something more this video was so wholesome I love you guys 🥺🤧✨

  • @gabisteidel7360
    @gabisteidel7360 Рік тому +52

    I smiled through this video. And in the best way. Y’all’s friendships literally brings me joy. I love how much y’all love/care for eachother. One of my best friends lives in Ohio and I live in Texas, we see eachother every couple years and it’s always hard leaving. But that’s how you know it’s a true friendship.

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/wlCmNv6bYhI/v-deo.html vlog !!

  • @moneekaaguilar706
    @moneekaaguilar706 Рік тому +14

    I cried with you guys while watching this! I honestly wish I had your guys friendship! After graduating in 2018 I lost the only 2 friends I had (they stopped talking to me). Anyone reading this don’t take your friendships for granted you never know when they might just leave you! Life is to short to just be lonely.💔

  • @jessicat8928
    @jessicat8928 Рік тому +13

    I totally relate to this video. My two best friends live about 40-50 minutes away from me but it’s just hard to all get together. We are all growing up and we have school and/or work everyday. I haven’t seen one of them in over a year and I truly never take for granted the time I had with them everyday of HS.

  • @Boi21
    @Boi21 Рік тому +40

    This my favorite Emma Marie vlog cause most of my friends live in different states and I understand how are it is to tell them bye when they leave to go back to homes god bless you Emma for making this video it brought tears to my eyes even guys get emotional when we say bye to our friends I know I do so thank you Emma again for making this video

  • @michelle2367
    @michelle2367 Рік тому +25

    my best friend is named elizabeth too and she moved away to college last year and it was so heartbreaking for us. especially because we would spend every moment with each other, we cry so hard every time she has to leave. but we send each other letters like every week / every other week and its so fun to write and decorate them and its a good way to get all our feelings out. at least it gives us Something to look forward to 😭💔

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/wlCmNv6bYhI/v-deo.html vlog !

  • @Vampirelover92098
    @Vampirelover92098 Рік тому +8

    my best friend moved to florida a few months ago with her boyfriend because he was getting restationed there cause he’s in the military and it was the hardest thing of our lives. we’ve been best friends since 2009 so literally half of our lives. so i do feel for emma. it’s definitely hard to have best friends states away from you instead of just right next door.

  • @eleanorelaborates7084
    @eleanorelaborates7084 Рік тому +49

    Yeah, it’s hard having a lot of my close friends else where. After going away to college, I lost a lot of my close friends near me cause we grew apart. I have one friend who lives in same neighborhood as me but we still don’t see each other often cause I am in school and she is working.

  • @Evelyn-hu7gz
    @Evelyn-hu7gz Рік тому +2

    My best friend lives 15 hours away and it's so hard to walk away from her to go to the airport after getting to visit each other... it's one of the worst feelings to leave your best friend but she is the most precious gifts in the world to me. I am so blessed to have a friend like her in my life. Don't take your friendships for granted because your best friends will be the ones to walk beside you through life.

  • @camedbeans
    @camedbeans Рік тому +12

    I have no friends but this still made me feel for you :').. love that you are so close to Elizabeth still and hopefully forever, same with Ellie!

  • @cerysmeatloaf
    @cerysmeatloaf Рік тому +6

    Aaawww Emma big hugs. It will always be difficult but it makes the time you spend together that more meaningful

  • @hhsixidiotsxx
    @hhsixidiotsxx Рік тому +1

    randomly came across this missing my own long distance friends
    and it’s so true don’t take friendships for granted
    This is truly the reality of it and the uncertainty of when you are gonna see those people again is even more painful

  • @aracelis_gonzalez
    @aracelis_gonzalez Рік тому +2

    I cried my eyes out when Emma said by to Elizabeth. I have no friends that I can have a relationship like yours. Im so emotional today.

  • @sarahdestito1914
    @sarahdestito1914 Рік тому +12

    You're so grateful to have friends like that in your life for Emma I know it's hard to have a long distance relationship but you'll see them again really soon❤❤❤

  • @Shegyattathicdog
    @Shegyattathicdog Рік тому +8

    My best friend just moved 2 states down from me. I have known her my whole life and went to school with her and she was my neighbor so I saw her every single day. I miss her so much but at least I can still go see her a lot

  • @LyLysLife
    @LyLysLife Рік тому +12

    Emma I just want to say you’re not alone it’s hard not seeing you’re best friend for a long amount of time sending you much love 💟

  • @emilybernritter3462
    @emilybernritter3462 Рік тому +18

    Honestly emma shouldn't have to apologize for crying. I totally understand! I know it's hard now. But the time in between when she leaves and you see her again will fly by! You'll see her again before you know it!

    • @Lifewithlayyy_
      @Lifewithlayyy_ Рік тому +4

      @@robertcourson8002 awww I’m sorry people have emotions like what

    • @amandalee2457
      @amandalee2457 Рік тому +1

      @@robertcourson8002. So what’s the age for people to stop crying?

    • @amandalee2457
      @amandalee2457 Рік тому +2

      @@robertcourson8002. Did you know that crying is apart of your emotions, and it’s perfectly fine to cry no matter what age you are, I guess you did not know that huh?

    • @Lifewithlayyy_
      @Lifewithlayyy_ Рік тому +3

      @@robertcourson8002 so why are you telling others to stop having emotions ?? Like get tf 💀💀 everyone is different just like you said also you are on all of her videos is everything ok at home Orr

    • @tessicacooper9257
      @tessicacooper9257 Рік тому

      @@robertcourson8002 cause u said 18 is the age where you’re too old to cry

  • @zuleinadmarie3031
    @zuleinadmarie3031 Рік тому +2

    Since 2020 I been living in NY. I miss my home 🇵🇷 like crazy. I try go visit but it’s hard with work. I miss my friends and I have only managed to make 1 friend here and because of work & school we can’t hang out a lot. Most of the time I’m lonely. It sucks. Appreciate and treasure all those moments with your friends.

  • @clairemckenna8053
    @clairemckenna8053 Рік тому +12

    So sad I love that you and Elizabeth have such an amazing friendship hopefully you can see each other in October or at Christmas 🥰

  • @emilygraceu
    @emilygraceu Рік тому +4

    Crying with you. I know all too well how this feels!

  • @williemacon30
    @williemacon30 Рік тому +1

    you are a human you have emotions thank you for letting us come inside of your heart we know it’s hard when your friend is in college and your other one is out of state

  • @lizfreitas3270
    @lizfreitas3270 Рік тому +1

    Girl has me sobbing at my adult job on my lunch break.

  • @samantha3411
    @samantha3411 Рік тому +10

    i love you guys, i wish i had friends like this🥺🥺

  • @joynewsome2901
    @joynewsome2901 Рік тому

    I'm so glad you're so real about a long distance friendship. I just moved away from my best friend who makes me laugh so hard and I didn't think it'd be so rough and hard so I'm really happy you shared how it can be really difficult sometimes.

  • @maddisonlandreth5387
    @maddisonlandreth5387 Рік тому +1

    Aww I love how you, Elizabeth, and Ellie have the most beautiful friendship. It’s so important to have those good friends beside you and you have 2 by your side. And I love how Elizabeth and Ellie were your friends and now you guys are all friends together. I also love how you have been showing behind the scenes of things and like putting your feelings out here. It shows that everyone goes though things even UA-camrs and famous people because not everyone is perfect. Keep your head up Emma! Love you!💗

  • @TheePhoenixEvee
    @TheePhoenixEvee Рік тому +9

    Such a great friendship you guys have 💜✨

  • @lindaball403
    @lindaball403 Рік тому +1

    Oh honey, I know that feeling. It's an empty feeling. 😕 Hugs to you both, and Ellie.

  • @miguelkennedy9520
    @miguelkennedy9520 Рік тому +12

    I always like it when Emma Marie makes awesome and fun videos like this :)

  • @TGLAZEY99
    @TGLAZEY99 Рік тому

    I honestly cried so much watching this. I can totally relate to this my incredibly beautiful best friend moved away last month for uni placement, and it has been such a challenge. We've caught up once since she's been away and we do talk every day. She has been such an amazing best friend to me and honestly given me the sweetest and loveliest friendship ever. Wish it was easier but this video shows the reality and it is deffs tough!

  • @abbygrace6202
    @abbygrace6202 Рік тому

    I am in the same situation as you, my two best friends left for collage last week, and I am not going to college... It is encouraging to see I'm not the only one going through this. Change is good, but it's definitely hard.

  • @nadiaangelucci
    @nadiaangelucci Рік тому

    Thank you for this, I just went through this. I knew it would hurt, but didn’t expect this ❤️

  • @Macoroni464
    @Macoroni464 Рік тому +1

    aww your guys friendships are so sweet and
    i love you all so much!

  • @mely260
    @mely260 Рік тому +1

    Awe it's so cute how they said I love you at the same time 🥺🥲

  • @emmaelizabeth4004
    @emmaelizabeth4004 Рік тому

    I get it. I only got to see my friends once a year, and only for a night. And it makes me really sad looking back at how much time we could have had together.

  • @miguelkennedy9520
    @miguelkennedy9520 Рік тому +2

    Leaving your long distance friend is an upsetting thing 😢

  • @chariserouse9443
    @chariserouse9443 Рік тому +2

    aww I love your friendships

  • @foreignnbrat
    @foreignnbrat Рік тому +1

    why did i start crying w u and laughed right after w u stay strong bby it gets better i promise

  • @briholmes25
    @briholmes25 Рік тому

    Oh Emma. You are such an amazing friend! Those girls love you so much! I was crying right along with you guys! ❤️ sending you so much love!

  • @makaylahewitt5688
    @makaylahewitt5688 Рік тому

    I’m catching up on your channel I’m currently on my lunch break at work and just finished watching this video I’m bawling my eyes out cause it made me think of my best friend I live in Florida and she lives in Massachusetts I haven’t seen her in almost 2 years it made me realize how much I actually miss her 😢

  • @hayleighburnham6992
    @hayleighburnham6992 Рік тому +1

    My high school best friend lives in Los Angeles and I live in Georgia. We’re 31 now and she’s lived there 8 years. We’ve only seen each other twice since then. We both have families with kids and it’s hard. We’ve grown apart. We still talk weekly usually. But this has made me want to fix everything. I miss her so much.

  • @M_Ravinerakhalgot
    @M_Ravinerakhalgot Рік тому

    I totally understand long distance friendship i havent seen my best friend in over 10 yrs plus i still talk to her like it was yesterday that i saw her but i havent seen her in forever. We havent be able to get our schedule aligned . On whatever day shes free im doing something and the day im free shes at work or doing something.

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Рік тому +4

    Wait this made me so sad I completely relate though. One of my best friends loves in a different country so I know How you feel 🥺💜

  • @kellymorrison3414
    @kellymorrison3414 Рік тому +4

    to me it sucks when they leave because you get lonely 😞

  • @jamiemann-blagg2424
    @jamiemann-blagg2424 Рік тому +1

    I love this.

  • @saraimedina5210
    @saraimedina5210 Рік тому

    This make me so emotional

  • @myya-04
    @myya-04 Рік тому

    i’ve never cried so hard watching a youtube video before

  • @potterstrangerfan880
    @potterstrangerfan880 Рік тому

    All love too you guys. What a beautiful friendship❤️❤️❤️

  • @juliazhu4646
    @juliazhu4646 Рік тому +1

    hi em

  • @veronicaholmes1772
    @veronicaholmes1772 Рік тому

    Understandable 🥺💗

  • @Corvette1658
    @Corvette1658 Рік тому +1

    I know how it feels I live in SC and my best friend Alexis lives in IL. Me and her went to high school together. I was class of 2009 she was class of 2010. Me and her become best friends after my best friend Brandon passed away on December 30th of 2017. Due to a stroke he had two days after Christmas. And his stroke was due to complications from all his injuries when he was in a big car accident in February of 2015. When a drunk driver hit him when he was riding in the back seat in his friends car. That ended up living a rehab center from like 4 months. And because of that he ended up in a wheelchair. But he died two years later and after his memorial service. That is when me and my best friend Alexis started talking more and started hanging out with each other. Then me and my family moved to SC 3 years ago. So that when our long distance friendship started.

  • @thecheerqueen134
    @thecheerqueen134 Рік тому +3

    I know how you feel I haven’t seen my first ever friend/best friend in 10+ years

  • @Emma-wd7dj
    @Emma-wd7dj Рік тому +3

    i almost cried i can’t imagine having a long distance friend ship🫶

  • @e_jackson2660
    @e_jackson2660 Рік тому

    I miss my best friend out in Utah. Still completely get what you’re going through.

  • @evy_0
    @evy_0 Рік тому +2

    I don’t get to see my best friend or when I do I see her I get to see her maybe once every 4 years sadly. We’ve been best friends since first grade. I miss her and she recently actually ended up blocking me. With no explanation, I wish nothing but the best for my beautiful best friend.

  • @simplyvittoria6960
    @simplyvittoria6960 Рік тому +2

    I feel this my best friends don’t live close to me anymore either!!

  • @leapinglily388
    @leapinglily388 Рік тому +2

    My Best friend for 51 years now, lives in NY I live in Miami. It's so hard, I'm sorry Emma😪💔thinking of you all ((hugs)) long distance is so hard😭

  • @nadia9938
    @nadia9938 Рік тому

    I cry WATCHING this video. Sending lots of love from nz. You girls are so beautiful. 🤗❤

  • @Momwithtwoboys
    @Momwithtwoboys Рік тому +1

    Ellie is such a baby 😂❤️

  • @laurenmathaus3491
    @laurenmathaus3491 Рік тому

    my best friend is also named Elizabeth but she goes by lizzy and it’s so heartbreaking not being able to be around her every day. Things aren’t the same without her around. She’s coming to visit me next weekend though and I’m so excited!

  • @saharalhammadi
    @saharalhammadi Рік тому +3

    Awwhhh 🥺🥺 you guys actually made me cry too from the very beginning until the end bc it got me thinking how am I gonna be apart from my 2 bestfriends when getting into collage even if we are literally in the same country 🥲 but also knowing that maybe one of us will be studying abroad that's why the 2 of us that will study here in the same country will really miss her so much and yes we are 3 bestfriends too and we can't live without eachothers and we basically complete eachothers and what's making me nervous and sad about our future 😮‍💨😭😭🥺🥺🥺

  • @Itzalexandrav
    @Itzalexandrav Рік тому +5

    Leaving your long distance friends is the worst 😭

    • @Kendramiller
      @Kendramiller Рік тому +1

      I haven't seen mine since I left and I miss her so muchb

  • @rebeccaanneryan
    @rebeccaanneryan Рік тому

    This is so sweet Emma :)

  • @itsgeorgia3064
    @itsgeorgia3064 Рік тому +2

    my best friend and i are long ditsance and this made me miss her even more

  • @fabioferreiragomes
    @fabioferreiragomes Рік тому +2

    Simplesmente Espetacular Maravilhosas..

  • @madinunes5446
    @madinunes5446 Рік тому +2

    It’s so hard me and my family moved to Florida from Boston! All my family and friends are in Boston I lived there for 18 years it’s so hard being away from family and friends❤️❤️

  • @LoreaKathrynFoster
    @LoreaKathrynFoster Рік тому

    I cried with you!

    • @LoreaKathrynFoster
      @LoreaKathrynFoster Рік тому

      Used to cry for my daughter who was a Navy wife,, when she lived in Va. Beach, then when they moved to Jacksonville Fla., when we would visit and have to leave or they would visit home then have to go back, but now she lives next door so we don't leave each other anymore.

  • @Elizabeth_159
    @Elizabeth_159 Рік тому +2

    I been in my feelings all day today so
    I started snobbing with this video 😭🤧

  • @SeNyahH
    @SeNyahH Рік тому

    Aww stop ya'll are about to make me cry 🥺

  • @jessieross7137
    @jessieross7137 Рік тому +1

    Aww stitch seems like hes hyper most of the time

  • @meganashleyvlogs
    @meganashleyvlogs Рік тому

    My best friend & only friend it seems like, lives in Texas & last summer was the first time we met & hung out two more times, this summer it was only once & it was hard to say goodbye. It sucks because we are able to hang out in the summer because it’s the only time that works. So we have to wait months until we can see each other again. It’s hard, but I’m happy we are friends!

  • @kaitlynharley9863
    @kaitlynharley9863 Рік тому +1

    Saying goodbye never gets easier. It hurts so much. Not having mine home with me hurts.

  • @theleemastertwins21
    @theleemastertwins21 Рік тому

    Me watching that made me cry 😭

  • @faith.bella4
    @faith.bella4 Рік тому

    we love u emma

  • @lenaconnelly5486
    @lenaconnelly5486 Рік тому

    my best friend lives in germany now. she just spent a month here at home and that feeling when they’re gone is indescribably awful. i feel so empty. i would do anything to not have to say goodbye.

  • @katelyn_elizabeth
    @katelyn_elizabeth Рік тому +1

    i love your friendship with elizabeth🥺

  • @makennaharris8684
    @makennaharris8684 Рік тому

    y’all really made me cry out here 😂

  • @sophiastcyr8635
    @sophiastcyr8635 Рік тому

    Long distance friendships are so hard my friend moved about 2 months ago and it is very hard without her

  • @staceysustaita9366
    @staceysustaita9366 Рік тому +1

    No one talks about how lonely it feels when your a introvert. Your “normal” is just being alone. It’s such a lonely and empty feeling not having your “person” when you need them the most🙁❤️ like Elizabeth said “get yourself done,and do good”🫶🏻

  • @laurengrant1092
    @laurengrant1092 Рік тому +10

    i get how you feel emma my bestfriend moved when she was starting highschool in a different state and i never saw her until the summer time and it sucks but hey emma there is always facetime and calling her. i am sorry long distance friendships are hard on you. keep your head up emma you rock!!

  • @Patrickair4444
    @Patrickair4444 Рік тому

    I understand Because also live far way across the country for me since my friends it impossible anymore but I still have there social media

  • @j.w.kelley-hnatio6995
    @j.w.kelley-hnatio6995 Рік тому +2

    🤨😥😥😥😥 I feel ya Emma, it’s really hard to say goodbye to those you care about. I hope some day when your ready to move out on your own that you’ll be able to move near or even live with one or both of them, you 3️⃣ make an awesome trio! ??? For ya are still thinking about changing your last as the rest of your family? I think you had mentioned it in a prior video and didn’t know if you were still thinking of it

  • @romqnsluna
    @romqnsluna Рік тому +1

    i’m only 33 seconds in and i’m already crying-

  • @MZICEEZ
    @MZICEEZ Рік тому

    I don’t like when Elizabeth and Ellie has to leave you. They are some good best friends to you Emma. I’m crying right now.

  • @ninanajjar6782
    @ninanajjar6782 Рік тому

    EVERYTIME YOU DO THIS VIDEO I BALL MY EYES OUT

  • @shanzz7488
    @shanzz7488 Рік тому

    💗💗💗 missed you

  • @destineyeatts8342
    @destineyeatts8342 Рік тому +1

    God Bless everyone and God loves everyone Amen ❤️🙏🏽

  • @jodi1979
    @jodi1979 Рік тому +2

    I know how hard it is one friend is in Colorado another is in Montana, I'm in Oregon. The one in Colorado comes maybe once a year and I saw the one in Montana for a little bit after like 15+ years

  • @makydenparreira5170
    @makydenparreira5170 Рік тому

    My best friend lives in AZ. We’ve been friends since I was like 14 & I love her so much! I’m 23 now & she’s 21:)

  • @madisonwebster4570
    @madisonwebster4570 Рік тому

    why am i crying

  • @LifewithWendy
    @LifewithWendy Рік тому

    Aww hang in there girly! Yes its hard saying good bye! ❤

  • @frankg613jr
    @frankg613jr Рік тому

    Love your all friendships 💗 I am sorry girl, we are here for you 🥰

  • @rachelmartin7078
    @rachelmartin7078 Рік тому

    I completely get this because my best friend is leaving this week for a year and I don’t know when I will see her again. It’s hitting me now

  • @emmy12251
    @emmy12251 Рік тому +1

    It must be nice having good friends who aren’t home-wreckers or trying to see you fall apart . Cus I don’t trust nobody and don’t have nobody to call a friend at all . Its pretty sad but I’m okay .