Living to Be Liked vs. Living to Please God

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024

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  • @emwilss
    @emwilss 6 років тому +112

    SUCH a great topic. I've been thinking about this a lot lately! Thanks for making a video on it!

    • @wh2202
      @wh2202 6 років тому +12

      Emily Wilson why don't you do a collab together ? Would be soo nice ❤

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan 6 років тому +5

      Emily Wilson yeah, you guys should collab, your audiences would love that!

    • @priscillamcdougald6133
      @priscillamcdougald6133 6 років тому +3

      Yes I would love a collab!

    • @lesvyrios8753
      @lesvyrios8753 6 років тому +2

      yes!! totallly, you should do a video together!!💕

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss 6 років тому +8

      Would love it! If these gals were open to it, I totally would be too! Let me know, my sisters!

  • @miriamrose5807
    @miriamrose5807 6 років тому +27

    Kristen, I love your braid! Great video!

  • @emmahamilton3844
    @emmahamilton3844 6 років тому +26

    Thank you so much girls! Ya'll have changed my perspective on a ton of things!!! 😘💟

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan 6 років тому +3

      Emma Hamilton yes, these girls bring so much light and truth 😊

  • @paigeyoung4041
    @paigeyoung4041 6 років тому +34

    We had a 15 passenger van... and at one point we had a trash bag duct-taped to the van acting as a temporary window.... 🙃

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan 6 років тому +2

      Paige Young 😂😂😂 that’s awesome

  • @mima_piedade
    @mima_piedade 6 років тому +15

    Even if we take the religious side of what they said there's still a pretty nice lesson to the video (like in most of their videos in my opinion) obsessing over being liked by people is a very bad way to live, expecially in cenarios like highschool, most of the people there don't care about you, and obsessing about their opinion will lead you to bad decisions.

  • @monanana-04
    @monanana-04 6 років тому +52

    This literally has been one of my biggest struggles my whole life and im REALLY struggling with this even more rn. Thank you so much for making this video!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan 6 років тому +1

      Sunshine Gal Be strong Girl! Praying for you😊👊

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan 6 років тому +1

      Sunshine Gal Reading the Bible helps me in this area!

    • @monanana-04
      @monanana-04 6 років тому

      Paul and Morgan thank you! I'll try to read it more😊

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan 6 років тому

      Sunshine Gal 😊😊

  • @emilyramsay8796
    @emilyramsay8796 6 років тому +17

    First! Thanks so much guys x praying for you and the ministry

  • @savannahmckee4234
    @savannahmckee4234 6 років тому +17

    I have definantly lived to be liked before. But one day I decided to just be myself, and my relationships improved! This video has shown me how I have slipped back into it a little. Thanks girls

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan 6 років тому

      No Name be strong girl! Let God’s approval give you identity😊👊

  • @LovedHappy
    @LovedHappy 6 років тому +15

    Such a critical topic especially in this day and age of social media❤️

  • @junkoenoshima7038
    @junkoenoshima7038 6 років тому +3

    6:45 what kind of freedom do you have living to please someone else? Doesn’t sound like freedom to me...

  • @meldreemurr5300
    @meldreemurr5300 6 років тому +26

    This video literally brought me to tears. I’m 16 years old, and since I became a teenager, ALL I EVER THOUGHT ABOUT was what other people thought of me. It gave me social anxiety and pushed people further away from me. I always thought I had to change and that there was just SOMETHING about me that people chose not to like. The root of my issue was bullying. It’s happened a lot in school and it destroyed my self worth. This was really an eye opening message. I’m going to do my very best to change, with the help of the Lord. Thank you guys so so much and please don’t ever stop making this wonderful content. Don’t ever feel like you aren’t making a difference because you are. This changed my entire mindset. :,)

  • @jemimabiddinger3911
    @jemimabiddinger3911 6 років тому +6

    Man!! 😍 What a great video! Thank you so much!! 👍🏻♥️

  • @lilianpereira9327
    @lilianpereira9327 6 років тому +6

    I loved you already, but now I know you like John Piper: I love you girls more!!!!

  • @erictackettproductions28
    @erictackettproductions28 6 років тому +2

    Amen!
    2 Corinthians 5:9 (KJV)
    9 Wherefore we labour, that, whether present or absent, we may be accepted of him.

  • @TheChiiaraah
    @TheChiiaraah 6 років тому +3

    Great! I love you two!

  • @hannahparks6396
    @hannahparks6396 6 років тому +2

    Hey Ladies, I know y'all focus on teenage girls, but is there any way you could make a video on marriage? Or if not, could you point me in the direction to a book or video? I just became a strong believer, and my husband isn't.

  • @livyhendrix1761
    @livyhendrix1761 6 років тому +13

    Love all of yalls teaching and helpful videos! Just binged watch like 20 the other day lol. I could really feel yalls energy in this video, so glad there’s still women out there who follow the Lord

  • @spreadthemessage15
    @spreadthemessage15 6 років тому +3

    hahaha with me it was the opposite. My dad would always drive me around in cars that were TINY, it was embarrassing! One car, in particular, looked like the shape of a cube. I'd ask to be dropped off far away from school lol.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan 6 років тому

      Flower Rose Haha tiny cars vs huge vans 😂

  • @morgangreenlee2091
    @morgangreenlee2091 6 років тому +4

    Thank you, I really needed this!

  • @robinj1482
    @robinj1482 6 років тому +7

    Very powerful video.

  • @miyal913
    @miyal913 6 років тому +5

    Thanks again for a great video! :)

  • @ryleighwilliams4020
    @ryleighwilliams4020 6 років тому +1

    Can y'all please do a video on anxiety? Thank y'all for doing what you're doing!

  • @AmandaJ__
    @AmandaJ__ 6 років тому +1

    Love your videos ladies! So much! Just an idea, perhaps have the quotes you use, such as John Piper's, display on the screen somehow? And maybe leave the link for online articles such as that one if possible. Can't wait to see what the next video is on!

  • @pamapape7327
    @pamapape7327 6 років тому +4

    Amazing and helpful video! Thank you!!

  • @marinestrelew
    @marinestrelew 6 років тому +3

    So true what you said girls. I used to do the same with my parents´ car when I was at school! I will think a lot about what you said and put into practise the versicle you shared. Thanks a lot. 😊

  • @mirjamridout1527
    @mirjamridout1527 6 років тому +2

    Thanks You guys so much for this video. Im really struggling with this exact question in my life right now. x

  • @caribbeankpoplover
    @caribbeankpoplover 6 років тому +2

    This whole time I was watching your videos I didn’t know you guys were sisters 🤦🏾‍♀️😂 Beautiful video once again girls! ❤️🤗

  • @samanthamacias2836
    @samanthamacias2836 6 років тому +1

    This helped me put things in to perspective and to be motivated to follow God’s will:)

  • @K_1019.
    @K_1019. 6 років тому

    Hi girls, do yo think you could do a video on christianity for beginners? My parents took me to church when I was very little but there was a tragic event that stopped them from taking me when I was around 12 or 13. I've recently been trying to learn and do more with my faith (which I never lost but has wavered a lot) but I don't even know where to begin. Please and thank you!
    Edit: I also really feel like I'm missing out on a lot because I don't understand a lot of the references or the lingo used!

  • @johannamcgarret5180
    @johannamcgarret5180 6 років тому

    I feel so loved watching your videos. Nowadays, I barely see as godly women as you are. I love you so much. Thanks for adressing such an important topic.

  • @channelchanel123
    @channelchanel123 3 роки тому

    powerful word
    this is basically like: what's your priority, looking awesome or feeling awesome?

  • @giannasoliz1070
    @giannasoliz1070 6 років тому

    I can relate so so much to this I am 1 of 8 siblings and the second oldest (and we also have a massive van 😂) thank you so much for making this video!!! 💓💓💓

  • @laurenmarcee7222
    @laurenmarcee7222 6 років тому

    I don't know what but the audio in your voices sounds like it's speed up and I can't understand it. Am I the only one having trouble with it?

  • @teaganr
    @teaganr 6 років тому

    Is this only happening to me? The audio is all sped up and I can’t understand what they are saying but the video is going at normal pace????

  • @emmareynolds9541
    @emmareynolds9541 6 років тому

    This is so difficult to fight against! Especially when I was younger.... Yikes!

  • @matronarona
    @matronarona 6 років тому

    So glad I came across this channel! I love you ladies... wish we could be friends IRL :)

  • @Pogingpogzlawrencecr
    @Pogingpogzlawrencecr 6 років тому

    I'm requesting a sub title for their are some words that I can't comprehend. thanks

  • @hannahmarcano8964
    @hannahmarcano8964 6 років тому

    You guys are always blessing me. I love this channel! Please never stop!!

  • @raffafan
    @raffafan 5 років тому

    Kristen channels so much when she talks. I could just swim in the way she makes me feel.

  • @masonmason4085
    @masonmason4085 4 роки тому

    had to quit my job it put fear in my system and everyone was self centered

  • @whatslife1589
    @whatslife1589 6 років тому

    this was really realtable thank you. girls for this video💚

  • @aurenciapantaleon2599
    @aurenciapantaleon2599 6 років тому +1

    This is my first time watching your video and I really love this! Thanks!

  • @maximinocarrero9832
    @maximinocarrero9832 6 років тому +1

    Living to be liked is very stupid. I love you ladies so much.

  • @chelssiiic
    @chelssiiic 6 років тому +2

    Great video. Helped me a lot 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @marizbolanoslove
    @marizbolanoslove 6 років тому

    Thank you Girl Defined.

  • @sarahwilliams1865
    @sarahwilliams1865 6 років тому +1

    Needed to hear this today Thank you Jesus

  • @helenas4880
    @helenas4880 6 років тому

    Idk if you guys read comments, but what is your advice to a christian that is struggling with doubt? Tbh I've been kinda afraid to ask this to my family and other fellow christians.
    I really appreciate it if you guys replied.
    Sincerely, Anya.

    • @ccap3211
      @ccap3211 6 років тому

      Anastasia Silviek they don’t ever seem to reply to comments

  • @kaitlinkeeling375
    @kaitlinkeeling375 6 років тому +1

    This video helped me so much. Thank You

  • @happygoluckyrayofsunshine8820
    @happygoluckyrayofsunshine8820 5 років тому

    This video has helped me tremendously

  • @JavierRomero-bf7tz
    @JavierRomero-bf7tz 6 років тому

    That car thing is so funny and I have been there. But now I know that Jesus loves me whether I have or don't have something and that is how I want to love others.

  • @annmathews
    @annmathews 6 років тому

    Wow you both made me think.... 🤔

  • @stefaniemedina14
    @stefaniemedina14 6 років тому +1

    Great video. The example you are giving is typical for teenagers. We don't start to not care what others think until we get older and mature.

    • @aleconaco1991
      @aleconaco1991 6 років тому

      Stefanie Medina You'd hope so, but I know many women who carry this idea of having to uphold an "image" their whole life. I've seen it in women who are in their 30s, 40s, even 70s. It's definitely a message for everyone.

  • @arbretree5463
    @arbretree5463 6 років тому

    John Piper is a great pastor! It's great that you mentionned him!

  • @mariahgunn7101
    @mariahgunn7101 6 років тому +1

    Thanks for this video, very helpful. Love you guys.

  • @gracetran
    @gracetran 6 років тому

    glad you guys made the light less bright so it's not blinding haha

  • @happygoluckyrayofsunshine8820
    @happygoluckyrayofsunshine8820 5 років тому

    I love you guys!!!!

  • @rebeccaann245
    @rebeccaann245 6 років тому

    Love you girls and all you do! Thankful for your weekly mentorship!

  • @theclosetmusician1945
    @theclosetmusician1945 6 років тому

    Thank you so much!! This really encouraged me! 💖💖💖

  • @lilyofthevalley4740
    @lilyofthevalley4740 6 років тому

    Thank you so much! This is wonderful.

  • @nellisavchenko3350
    @nellisavchenko3350 6 років тому

    You don't know how much this helped me!!! Thank you sooooo much!!!! Love your videos!!! Love you girls!!

  • @archiehopping2398
    @archiehopping2398 6 років тому +1

    I’m confused are they sisters or friends

  • @ikziedit
    @ikziedit 6 років тому

    thanks

  • @erinweidman2154
    @erinweidman2154 6 років тому

    This video helped me so much! Thank you!

  • @JohanaFlores13
    @JohanaFlores13 6 років тому

    Gosh this is so relatable! This has been a major struggle in my life haha, but I am Definately working on it. Great video!:)))

  • @melanielaurentino8472
    @melanielaurentino8472 6 років тому

    This spoke to me, thank you so much

  • @gwendolyncordero2173
    @gwendolyncordero2173 6 років тому

    Amen!!!

  • @candacepaul1573
    @candacepaul1573 6 років тому

    You guys are wonderful!! Love this video!

  • @bananaana9644
    @bananaana9644 6 років тому

    Are you sisters ? 😀 ps : You are awesome 😍😇

  • @loeskuikhoven8021
    @loeskuikhoven8021 6 років тому +1

    Whats wrong with the sound?

    • @maricrisjoy6775
      @maricrisjoy6775 6 років тому

      Lo Lo I'm having trouble with it too... it goes into chipmunk audio... but the other vids dont

  • @lucy-anne9594
    @lucy-anne9594 6 років тому

    Such a relevant and timeless topic that we can ALL relate to!! Thanks for tackling it girls! 💕

  • @rootedinjesus_
    @rootedinjesus_ 6 років тому +1

    💖💜💙💕💗

  • @lilyofthevalley4740
    @lilyofthevalley4740 6 років тому

    This is great! May I add that with the van scenario that if you didn't mind what others thought, not only would you have had joy and no fear yourself, but you could have been a witness to someone else (openness to life -no fertility barriers - for example).

  • @fifia1005
    @fifia1005 6 років тому

    I SO needed this video today! Thanks ladies!!!💕

  • @luceroenglish1244
    @luceroenglish1244 6 років тому

    Needed this! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @laylaa6108
    @laylaa6108 6 років тому

    A nice topic keep on💞 , it is a real struggle in my life

  • @roxhensameci5274
    @roxhensameci5274 6 років тому +1

    🙇🙇

  • @osirisserrano2559
    @osirisserrano2559 6 років тому

    Great video❤️

  • @maureenw.m2677
    @maureenw.m2677 6 років тому

    helpful

  • @trinabarcarola6796
    @trinabarcarola6796 6 років тому

    So great!! Thank you!!

  • @heyheyheybeliebers
    @heyheyheybeliebers 6 років тому

    I’m in love with channel. Thank you so much.

  • @bigshotmovieverse2621
    @bigshotmovieverse2621 6 років тому

    Great message. Great video.

  • @angelinatsiba1232
    @angelinatsiba1232 6 років тому

    What a great video,thank you girls !

  • @wanjirukinuthia
    @wanjirukinuthia 6 років тому +3

    Are they blood related sisters? 👀

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan 6 років тому +1

      Wanjiru Kinuthia Yes😊

    • @cath1881
      @cath1881 6 років тому +1

      Wanjiru Kinuthia Yea they are. Check previous videos they have other sisters too. )

    • @wanjirukinuthia
      @wanjirukinuthia 6 років тому

      Yes girl! They truly are

  • @mommafree2301
    @mommafree2301 6 років тому

    Amen...

  • @lindacharleston1520
    @lindacharleston1520 6 років тому

    PIPER 😍😍😍