35 Things You Should NOT Say in a Job Interview - Big Job Interview Mistakes to Avoid

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  • @Iamhungryforribeye
    @Iamhungryforribeye 9 місяців тому +7

    It is super easy to work those filler words out of your vocabulary that I learned in a communications class I took years ago. The solution is simple if you feel like you are about to say a filler word decide to pause your speech in that moment instead and speak once you have your thoughts in order again start talking at that point without that filler word. We use filler words because we are afraid of a moment of silence and just be ok with that silence and all is well.

  • @JJ_TheGreat
    @JJ_TheGreat 8 місяців тому +4

    7:28 Question: So if they ask if you have any questions at the beginning of the interview, should I say, “I have some questions, but I would like to defer them to later on”? That way, you can ensure you have time to answer their questions for you sufficiently.
    I had a recent interview where I made the strategic error of asking all of my questions up front. Then, when I was going through answering their questions - one of the panel members called me out, saying that we are halfway through the interview and I had only answered 3 questions and there are 5 more to go - plus some extra non-scored questions…
    At that moment, I knew the interview was over 😕

  • @sharonler-2782
    @sharonler-2782 2 роки тому +12

    hahah the 'ums and like' , I do that when I get nervous 😩

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 роки тому +7

      You aren’t alone. Those are really hard to get rid of and it takes practice for sure.

    • @Proposal12
      @Proposal12 Рік тому +3

      @@BenTalksTalent Nope, heard plenty of recruiters/ hiring managers do it.

  • @carloscaycho8641
    @carloscaycho8641 2 роки тому +17

    I'll have to disagree with the not lying part. Like when they ask why you want that job, everyone there knows it's because of the money but if you say because of the money, you're automatically disqualified.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 роки тому +10

      Oh I agree there. You need to give them a compelling, non-monetary reason.

  • @Ugk871
    @Ugk871 8 місяців тому +2

    The no.1 is spot on😂 i had candidate ask me that upfront. I was so shocked that although he has all the qualification, it’s really a putting off

  • @davidcyr7094
    @davidcyr7094 Рік тому +8

    Ben, I saw you at a virtual event with the Wounded Warrior Project, and I immediately subscribed to your channel. I have a phone interview tomorrow with a job I am really excited about, and I have watched your videos repeatedly in addition to other research and preparation.

  • @FreedomandBaconHomestead
    @FreedomandBaconHomestead 2 роки тому +11

    What a painful list but ignore it at your own peril!!!

  • @raheelsiddiquei1230
    @raheelsiddiquei1230 Рік тому +6

    Solid content, actually matching the title. Thank you!

  • @Proposal12
    @Proposal12 Рік тому +7

    I was actually asked that question if the position was a stepping stone into the company and I said yes, few days later I had an offer, despite being "overqualified"...

  • @DeirdreSM
    @DeirdreSM 2 роки тому +23

    Last year, I had an interview I was *really* looking forward to, and my dad (who was elderly and sick) called THREE TIMES (I had given my phone to my husband to look after). But dad needed to be transferred to the hospital, so it really was *that* urgent and he was blind and having trouble finding his doctor's number. Still so mortifying.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 роки тому +10

      That is really scary. That might be the type of exception that changes that situation. I would personally understand that.

    • @DeirdreSM
      @DeirdreSM 2 роки тому +10

      @@BenTalksTalent He died about 2 months later of that same bacterial infection. Never was able to shake it. They understood the very short (2 minute) interruption it took, thankfully, but I was missing something they were really looking for, so they went with a different candidate.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 роки тому +3

      @@DeirdreSM I am sorry to hear that.

    • @Sayyidksa
      @Sayyidksa 2 роки тому +1

      @@DeirdreSM 😢

    • @neetrab
      @neetrab Рік тому +1

      @@Sayyidksa oh I'm so sorry!!

  • @neetrab
    @neetrab Рік тому +7

    Bro, I love the way you deliver these videos. Your personality is great! Hahaha
    BTW, I finally got a job but don't be shocked if I keep looking at ur vids.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Рік тому +3

      Well congrats! I am very happy for you and I appreciate the kind words. I am going to try to incorporate more career content for people who aren’t in a job search in 2023!

  • @Lisa_688
    @Lisa_688 5 місяців тому

    Great video! The more of your videos I watch, the more impressed I am by your seemingly unbounded energy and passion for what you do and the quality of your content. Always very thoughtful and beyond the cliches you hear from other UA-camrs giving this kind of advice. You’re doing a great service here! Thanks for the information!

  • @cflemish970
    @cflemish970 Рік тому +5

    Love love love your videos. Been watching many and subscribed.
    In general I do interview well. Been told so by various employers and have often landed the jobs I went for.
    All your tips 100% spot on.
    Watching to refresh my skills and potentially new tips.
    Its important to stay up to date and fresh.
    What is your opinion of bringing a hand out.
    I have brought a little folder with a copy of my resume (most of the time they have a cooy), a list of reference and some examples of my work.
    What do you think about that?
    I don't always do it, but it has always started good conversations.
    Thanks for what you do. This is so helpful for so many people.
    All the best.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Рік тому +1

      I wouldn’t include references until asked but a big yes to the rest! And thank you for the kind words and subscribing!

    • @cflemish970
      @cflemish970 Рік тому +1

      @Ben Talks Talent - Interview Advice Thank you. Yes great delivery and tips. I will share this with my staff and friends. Doing great work. Thank you.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Рік тому +1

      @@cflemish970 thank you!

  • @GiaAndJai08
    @GiaAndJai08 5 місяців тому +1

    I have watched several of your videos and it helped me a lot to prepare while waiting for an update regarding my job application in IBM. As part of my research, I watch some reviews and pieces of advice coming from the people who already experienced the same thing as mine. It is a good thing that I found your videos (subscribed and liked it), coming from a recruiter, and it is a great help for me on what answers I need to prepare for the sample questions you had. Still looking forward to have an interview invitation coming from them. Thank you!

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  5 місяців тому +1

      You are very welcome! I wish you the best luck!!!

    • @GiaAndJai08
      @GiaAndJai08 5 місяців тому

      @@BenTalksTalent Thank you very much! I will watch your other videos!

  • @Elizabethania
    @Elizabethania 2 роки тому +3

    Excellent video as always 🤩
    Thank you, Ben!

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you, Elizabeth! I really appreciate it!

  • @Chau1990
    @Chau1990 2 місяці тому

    English is my second language, so I often use "umm, umm" as I try to recall vocabulary. Thank you for your video; I will practice speaking more fluently.

  • @kennethbrown1919
    @kennethbrown1919 10 місяців тому +1

    You mentioned not asking things like, "how much longer" during the interview. Is it ok to a) ask how long to plan when scheduling the interview; and/or b) inform the interviewer that you have another commitment at a certain time (i.e. a "hard stop" time for the interview)?

  • @amaia424
    @amaia424 Рік тому +5

    If an interviewer asks if I’m considering any other offers at the moment so they know when they should get back to me, can I say “I am interviewing for other positions right now so I may have other offers to consider soon, but you can take your time getting back to me and I will evaluate each offer equally when making my decision”?

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Рік тому +3

      I wouldn’t encourage them to take their time but I would affirm my interest in their role, Afsara!

    • @dhenderson1810
      @dhenderson1810 4 місяці тому

      ​@@BenTalksTalent Tell them that another company was getting back to them in a couple of days, but you want to give this company first priority so you hope to hear back quickly or you may have to take the other job.
      If they really want you, they will prioritise and fast track you.

  • @ysshaikali1643
    @ysshaikali1643 Рік тому +1

    Excellent ❤

  • @unappealingundesirable2826
    @unappealingundesirable2826 Рік тому +3

    "Do you have any concerns about my ability to perform in this role?" So, that should be a question towards the END of the "question session," right? In fact, how damaging would it be, if one had about 10 decent questions, but this "concerns about my abilities" was their FIRST question?

  • @Farhiya-b8f
    @Farhiya-b8f Рік тому +1

    I watched youtube for questions and answers on interviews and the same questions were asked, i imagine they may have seen it too and i answered the same as in the youtube. Makes me anxious maybe they'll think i have no originality 💀

  • @5.7hemi79
    @5.7hemi79 Місяць тому +1

    Would the "Stepping Stone" rule still apply if the position being applied for is an internship? When the position is quite literally a stepping stone...

  • @meenaravee3379
    @meenaravee3379 6 місяців тому +1

    Why does interviewing for a job have to be mind games? It wasnt like this years ago.

  • @priyaalikanti8415
    @priyaalikanti8415 5 місяців тому +2

    I don't understand if they don't wanna hear these things why do they ask questions like "Tell me about a time you did not get along with a coworker" Or "Tell me about a time you disagreed with your manager"....

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  5 місяців тому +2

      I’m gonna make a video addressing this topic

  • @raysun9188
    @raysun9188 2 роки тому +1

    Hey Ben,
    What do you think of Rockwell? I am getting a 2nd interview and just want to know a little better from your perspective.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 роки тому +2

      Nothing bad to say! I really enjoyed working there!

  • @nekto34
    @nekto34 5 місяців тому +1

    I once had an interviewer texting while interviewing me. Claimed that was her boss and she wanted to find out whether her boss will wanted to interview me. Awkward experience overall and I didn't get that job.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  5 місяців тому +1

      Pretty rude and inexcusable in my opinion

  • @rocky_wang
    @rocky_wang Рік тому +3

    Interestingly, I am not a vegetarian or vegan, but I will make sure to order something matching senior colleagues’ diet. If the other side is vegan, I will order vegan, but if the other side orders meat, I order meat too.😂😂😂

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Рік тому

      I’m a vegetarian and I’m not ordering meat, but I’m not making a big deal of it.

    • @rocky_wang
      @rocky_wang Рік тому +3

      @@BenTalksTalent I bet you eat lots of eggs then; hard to gain muscle with only soy protein…

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Рік тому

      @@rocky_wang nope. I barely eat eggs.

  • @morbau11
    @morbau11 7 місяців тому

    Rockwell Automation? Don't you guys make turbo encabulators?

  • @JJ_TheGreat
    @JJ_TheGreat 8 місяців тому +1

    15:55 But when you are selling yourself, doesn’t it involve lying to begin with? Let’s face it - the entire interview process is B.S. - it is a game… I’m just saying.

  • @victerrios6509
    @victerrios6509 5 місяців тому +1

    18:01
    Refrences on the resume is weird???

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  5 місяців тому

      Yup, old video but I still feel this way. Leave them off 👍

  • @melissacoburn4440
    @melissacoburn4440 Рік тому +1

    im going to school for human resorce managment

  • @melissacoburn4440
    @melissacoburn4440 Рік тому +2

    wow i cant beleive some peope; say these things

  • @go_better
    @go_better 2 роки тому +3

    ❤️‍🔥

  • @Rouxibeau
    @Rouxibeau 7 місяців тому

    You do things on purpose and by accident. Saying 'on accident' is a mistake.