You don't have to justify how you spend your money to people online. I didn't realize you had been getting this kind of "criticism"... it's not even legit criticism, probably most of it just comes from a place of envy. You have all the right to enjoy and celebrate the good things in your life and nobody should feel entitled to cast shade on that. And it's not your fault if there are people who have it worse. But tons of people online with nothing to do like to spend their time trying to take down the joy of others. Please just don't forget that you have a lot of followers who can genuine appreciate the good side of life with you and be happy for you when you're happy!
You both have every right to celebrate...I wish you guys freedom of expression and joy in love and life. Others trying to interfere is more about them then you. It's a reflection on them...who ever is causing these problems...let it reflect the people it belongs to..don't hold space for that. Hold space for your love and joy and excitement....believe that you deserve the right to happyness and success and that is what will start showing up in your life...just look at your achievements you've made so far in life despite obstacles and hold onto that...look up look forward and keep believing.....it'll fall into place....much love and care...best wishes to your system and your partner system...both separate and together...you got this!!! One day at a time...
I'm so sorry you feel the need to have to explain yourself. Please I know its hard but please try to ignore those stupid people who don't get it. I have never made a video but I think it would be hard to make a video and put yourself out there for everyone to scrutinize. I'm looking forward to see your next video.
Im 46 lived with mental illness as far back as child. It come a point when you see people for who they are. Dont b sad or worry about people say. I've even had career in corrections for 17yrs and seen the ugly side of people im detail. You are doing great. You have no idea how great. You are opening a door to show people the side of mental illness ppl cant understand or see. If I had money I'd send you. Because you are actually making a better world. Piss on those haters.
I'm so sorry you've gone through all of this. Take as much time for yourselves as you need. Taking care of your needs should be top priority. We're all here for you
WTAF? I'm happy you have joys amidst the difficulties. People need to understand that the good means they can have good things amidst their own struggles w/ DID and physical issues . I am happy for you.
Hey, Acrylic. I currently work on a job similar to your former job. it is not an easy job. People who have never done this would be like what's so hard about talking on the phone? We usually have zero time between calls. And you have all these notes to leave and things to code. And you have to do them while you are talking to that person. If the person hangs up unexpectedly while you are still entering information, you may never catch up because-- Bam! You are already speaking to someone else. It is stressful. All your calls are recorded. You are constantly evaluated on a check list. Sometimes it is hard not to dissociate. Uncontrolled switches have happened. Once I was talking to a woman who needed help with two things. I helped her with the first, and said now what about XYZ. SHE said what are you talking about? I never said I needed that. I was horrified to realize it was a different person I was speaking to on the phone. The system protector stepped in an said, I'm sorry ma'am. I must have confused you with my last call. And you never know what the next call will be on. You just have to be ready. Another problem I'd dealing with angry people who act very abusively to us on the phone. Because some in out system do not tolerate being treated like that and do not hesitate to go at the caller with both barrels.l They do not accept it is part of the job. So trying to keep them calm is another stressor. I am always worried they could say something that might be overheard by management. The job causes a lot of anxiety for us. But there are not a lot of options where we live, and also we are immunocompromised so working from home is good. Anyone who criticizes you for having difficulties with that job has never done that kind of work.
I know it’s easier said than done, but please try not to let others determine whether you are allowed or not allowed to be excited about something. For heavens sake, you got a car! A car that you NEEDED, and that those who are judging you need as well. Even for those who have a consistent salary and mediocre credit, it’s not something that is easy to acquire. How dare ya’ll buy a wedding dress when you are getting married..that’s like buying a set of forks without spoons! It breaks my heart that you said you shouldn’t have to justify buying a wedding dress - and it breaks my heart that people make you feel that way. It doesn’t matter if it was on sale or not - it is no ones business or right to know that, let alone pass judgement. It’s for YOUR OWN WEDDING. These are not unnecessary, impulsive purchases, these are BIG MOMENTS in all of your lives and in almost everyone’s lives as well. So Unless they can see into the future and know that getting these things will cause bad luck, the keyboard-financial patrol gang needs to bite their tongue. I truly wish the best for all of you and I hope that the good intentions of people you have to deal with outweigh the bad. Much love.
It sucks to go through this. You are in no way shape or form obligated to the community or others to explain yourself. You are only obligated to yourself to make yourself happy, and if that means it's with Aether than that's that. No one can tell you who to love and who not. You both get married and be happy together and live your life as you please. I hope you both feel better soon, you both deserve that. -Viola-
I am so sorry all of that has been happening. You do not need to justify anything to anyone. My FB messages are always open for ranting/if you need encouragement/support. I am so very sorry that I am unable to fly down for the wedding and take pictures, but I do hope we can all get together sometime. I have issues with justifying things, so much so that even if I'm on my own and do something that doesn't affect anyone else and nobody else knows about it, I will be justifying it in my head, sometimes for hours. I've gotten a bit better, but it's hard. I wish you all the best with taking care of yourself and not bending over backward to explain yourself to people who just want to make you feel bad for living.
Yes, but to argue this would often need to go to court/file a lawsuit which is expensive and time consuming af. So many companies get away with shit like this as a result. It fucking sucks.
I recomend the book "stumbling upon happiness," it is a great way to make happiness and very emotional things..have a bit more rational explanation..and it can help a lot! Apparently a lottery winner...and a double amputee...have the same level of happiness after a year. Our minds force us to reach that equilibrium. So if we are ever overwhelmed..the "this too will pass," mindset has scientific backing.. but it sure as hell doesn't make it easier. Oh be sure you guys are taking your multivitamins. It turns out a lot of people are having vitamin D deficiencies due to a lot more inside time. Take care you guy!
After all these years and all you've gone through together you deserve to have the celebration you want. I hope you have a beautiful day surrounded by people who love you both.
We dont think you're flaunting. Im glad ur celebrating ur life with us. Unfortunately people will get mad at anything. Sadly u cant please everyone especially if u all are UA-camrs. Omg! Im so sorry Aethers parents are trying to make u guys break up.
Both of them can take a long walk off a short lava fountain! Keep going forward with your plans. They do NOT have the right to tell you what path your lives are supposed to take.
You shouldn't have to explain yourself to anyone. You have every right to be excited about happy things in your life, and anyone who thinks you shouldn't be is a sad excuse for a human being. Celebrate that dress and veil, who cares if they were thousands of dollars or on clearance! Celebrate that car, that vehicle will work for you for years more than your old one would have! People of all walks of life can be and are allowed to be happy about things. And beyond that, it shouldn't even have to be said that someone else's financial situation is absolutely none of your business, people. I hope you get feeling better soon, and you deserve the happiness you feel!
There is no happiness pie. If you have a piece of happiness in your life, it doesn't mean there is less happiness in the world for others to experience. It's important to show that people can still find joy in life despite what they are going through. It helps someone like me who struggles with mental health know that there will be good days, not just bad days.
The babies are doing great, boys and girls will be separated in a few days and on the 1st most of them will be going to their new homes 🙂 update on insta story in the next couple days
You work hard for everything you all have so you show off you have every right to get married and be excited and have people excited for you. You don't need to explain to anyone celebrate your blessings
Some people are just bitter no matter what. I am ecstatically happy for you. I hope you enjoy every moment. You don’t owe anyone else anything. Don’t let them guilt trip you. WHO YOU ARE IS WORTHY OF CELEBRATING. Be true to yourselves.
I'm so happy you show what's good in your life as well as what's difficult. People who can't share in your joy can watch some other channel. We appreciate the 360 view of a life as a system.
My heart goes to you all!💗 You are all good people and don't deserve that. I feel those people that hate are just jealous tbh. I am so happy for you and Aether that you got married😊💋
I get litte confused with this channel whit the word we. Because first when I got to know this chanel there was a different face in videos. And now most of videos are just you and when you both have many persons you call yourself we and when you talk you two humanbeings it is allso we.. so sometimes I don't know if you are talking just You (one humanbeing) or you two.. ofcourse when you talk one being things I know that you are talking just things that you do but when you talk making music or crocheting etc.what people can do allso together and alone then I start to think are you doing it alone or whit other person.. nothing bad or serious, just a little confusing sometimes :)
Acrylic and Aether , both have DID and have a system with multiple alters. It's normal for us systems to use the word we even there's one body sitting there chatting.
And I can't really understand why people have problem even if you would spend lot, why would it be problem for anybody, it is Your life and You should be able to celebrate important moments! :)
@@Ayreon-TECsystem I know that, it just makes me think some moments little bit more are they talking both of them or just one of them. Nothing more it is not a bad thing it just is. And if the chanel was just one humanbeing it would probably not be even a thing but because there is two beings (I have no idea what would be the right word indicate just one human whit DID or is human or being good or would there be something more right way separate am I talking them (one human) or them both because at this situation I can't talk them (one person) ao probably I just don't really have right words) I am trying to say it as nice as I can, because I don't think it is a bad thing, I just have been noticing. And my first language is not English so sometimes I have to think sentences littlebit more than native English speaker
@@josspa6558 It's ok you are not a native English speaker. It's not my native language either. They sometimes speak for each other but most of the time about themselves. I think your understanding of the English language makes it harder for you to understand when they are talking about themselves and when not.
@@Ayreon-TECsystem Yes! Totally :D and most of the times I understand they are speaking of themselves but just some things sometimes makes me just think are they example crocheting together etc. And it is pretty nice mental image to see them sitting together and crochet :)
I'm sorry. I just started watching your channel. You guys deserve to enjoy and share your happiness. You shouldn't have to justify or explain anything to anyone. People are happy for you and wish you and aether the best!
Those people who aren't happy for you, are not worth you're thoughts. You do what makes you happy and you BE HAPPY!!!
You don't have to justify how you spend your money to people online. I didn't realize you had been getting this kind of "criticism"... it's not even legit criticism, probably most of it just comes from a place of envy. You have all the right to enjoy and celebrate the good things in your life and nobody should feel entitled to cast shade on that. And it's not your fault if there are people who have it worse. But tons of people online with nothing to do like to spend their time trying to take down the joy of others. Please just don't forget that you have a lot of followers who can genuine appreciate the good side of life with you and be happy for you when you're happy!
You both have every right to celebrate...I wish you guys freedom of expression and joy in love and life. Others trying to interfere is more about them then you. It's a reflection on them...who ever is causing these problems...let it reflect the people it belongs to..don't hold space for that. Hold space for your love and joy and excitement....believe that you deserve the right to happyness and success and that is what will start showing up in your life...just look at your achievements you've made so far in life despite obstacles and hold onto that...look up look forward and keep believing.....it'll fall into place....much love and care...best wishes to your system and your partner system...both separate and together...you got this!!! One day at a time...
I'm so sorry you feel the need to have to explain yourself. Please I know its hard but please try to ignore those stupid people who don't get it. I have never made a video but I think it would be hard to make a video and put yourself out there for everyone to scrutinize. I'm looking forward to see your next video.
Im 46 lived with mental illness as far back as child. It come a point when you see people for who they are. Dont b sad or worry about people say. I've even had career in corrections for 17yrs and seen the ugly side of people im detail. You are doing great. You have no idea how great. You are opening a door to show people the side of mental illness ppl cant understand or see. If I had money I'd send you. Because you are actually making a better world. Piss on those haters.
I'm so sorry you've gone through all of this. Take as much time for yourselves as you need. Taking care of your needs should be top priority. We're all here for you
WTAF? I'm happy you have joys amidst the difficulties. People need to understand that the good means they can have good things amidst their own struggles w/ DID and physical issues . I am happy for you.
Hey, Acrylic. I currently work on a job similar to your former job. it is not an easy job. People who have never done this would be like what's so hard about talking on the phone?
We usually have zero time between calls. And you have all these notes to leave and things to code. And you have to do them while you are talking to that person. If the person hangs up unexpectedly while you are still entering information, you may never catch up because-- Bam! You are already speaking to someone else.
It is stressful. All your calls are recorded. You are constantly evaluated on a check list. Sometimes it is hard not to dissociate. Uncontrolled switches have happened. Once I was talking to a woman who needed help with two things. I helped her with the first, and said now what about XYZ. SHE said what are you talking about? I never said I needed that.
I was horrified to realize it was a different person I was speaking to on the phone. The system protector stepped in an said, I'm sorry ma'am. I must have confused you with my last call.
And you never know what the next call will be on. You just have to be ready.
Another problem I'd dealing with angry people who act very abusively to us on the phone. Because some in out system do not tolerate being treated like that and do not hesitate to go at the caller with both barrels.l They do not accept it is part of the job. So trying to keep them calm is another stressor. I am always worried they could say something that might be overheard by management.
The job causes a lot of anxiety for us. But there are not a lot of options where we live, and also we are immunocompromised so working from home is good.
Anyone who criticizes you for having difficulties with that job has never done that kind of work.
I know it’s easier said than done, but please try not to let others determine whether you are allowed or not allowed to be excited about something. For heavens sake, you got a car! A car that you NEEDED, and that those who are judging you need as well. Even for those who have a consistent salary and mediocre credit, it’s not something that is easy to acquire. How dare ya’ll buy a wedding dress when you are getting married..that’s like buying a set of forks without spoons!
It breaks my heart that you said you shouldn’t have to justify buying a wedding dress - and it breaks my heart that people make you feel that way. It doesn’t matter if it was on sale or not - it is no ones business or right to know that, let alone pass judgement. It’s for YOUR OWN WEDDING. These are not unnecessary, impulsive purchases, these are BIG MOMENTS in all of your lives and in almost everyone’s lives as well. So Unless they can see into the future and know that getting these things will cause bad luck, the keyboard-financial patrol gang needs to bite their tongue.
I truly wish the best for all of you and I hope that the good intentions of people you have to deal with outweigh the bad. Much love.
It sucks to go through this. You are in no way shape or form obligated to the community or others to explain yourself. You are only obligated to yourself to make yourself happy, and if that means it's with Aether than that's that. No one can tell you who to love and who not. You both get married and be happy together and live your life as you please. I hope you both feel better soon, you both deserve that. -Viola-
I am so sorry all of that has been happening. You do not need to justify anything to anyone. My FB messages are always open for ranting/if you need encouragement/support. I am so very sorry that I am unable to fly down for the wedding and take pictures, but I do hope we can all get together sometime.
I have issues with justifying things, so much so that even if I'm on my own and do something that doesn't affect anyone else and nobody else knows about it, I will be justifying it in my head, sometimes for hours. I've gotten a bit better, but it's hard. I wish you all the best with taking care of yourself and not bending over backward to explain yourself to people who just want to make you feel bad for living.
I'm sorry your job treated you that way
When you're excited and happy about things in your life, it gives us hope that we can be too one day.
Isn't that against the law for employers to nat make accomidations
Yes, but to argue this would often need to go to court/file a lawsuit which is expensive and time consuming af. So many companies get away with shit like this as a result. It fucking sucks.
I recomend the book "stumbling upon happiness," it is a great way to make happiness and very emotional things..have a bit more rational explanation..and it can help a lot!
Apparently a lottery winner...and a double amputee...have the same level of happiness after a year. Our minds force us to reach that equilibrium.
So if we are ever overwhelmed..the "this too will pass," mindset has scientific backing.. but it sure as hell doesn't make it easier.
Oh be sure you guys are taking your multivitamins. It turns out a lot of people are having vitamin D deficiencies due to a lot more inside time.
Take care you guy!
You don't have to explain yourselves! We're really happy for you
After all these years and all you've gone through together you deserve to have the celebration you want. I hope you have a beautiful day surrounded by people who love you both.
We dont think you're flaunting. Im glad ur celebrating ur life with us. Unfortunately people will get mad at anything. Sadly u cant please everyone especially if u all are UA-camrs. Omg! Im so sorry Aethers parents are trying to make u guys break up.
Both of them can take a long walk off a short lava fountain! Keep going forward with your plans. They do NOT have the right to tell you what path your lives are supposed to take.
You shouldn't have to explain yourself to anyone. You have every right to be excited about happy things in your life, and anyone who thinks you shouldn't be is a sad excuse for a human being. Celebrate that dress and veil, who cares if they were thousands of dollars or on clearance! Celebrate that car, that vehicle will work for you for years more than your old one would have! People of all walks of life can be and are allowed to be happy about things. And beyond that, it shouldn't even have to be said that someone else's financial situation is absolutely none of your business, people. I hope you get feeling better soon, and you deserve the happiness you feel!
There is no happiness pie. If you have a piece of happiness in your life, it doesn't mean there is less happiness in the world for others to experience.
It's important to show that people can still find joy in life despite what they are going through. It helps someone like me who struggles with mental health know that there will be good days, not just bad days.
You both deserve happiness and security with each other.don't let haters drag you down.ps would appreciate up date on baby ratties
The babies are doing great, boys and girls will be separated in a few days and on the 1st most of them will be going to their new homes 🙂 update on insta story in the next couple days
@@AcrylicAndAether 💒
Acrylic And Aether please accept me to follow you there..thank you..much love to you all💙💙
all of us are with u both -----> harriet jake and all of use in our system
You work hard for everything you all have so you show off you have every right to get married and be excited and have people excited for you. You don't need to explain to anyone celebrate your blessings
Why is HPD nonexistent amongst malingerers?
All your achievements are amazing and I'm so happy for you!
❤️
It's so nice to hear u talk about the dog training.
Some people are just bitter no matter what. I am ecstatically happy for you. I hope you enjoy every moment. You don’t owe anyone else anything. Don’t let them guilt trip you.
WHO YOU ARE IS WORTHY OF CELEBRATING. Be true to yourselves.
Sending love💚
I'm so happy you show what's good in your life as well as what's difficult. People who can't share in your joy can watch some other channel. We appreciate the 360 view of a life as a system.
My heart goes to you all!💗 You are all good people and don't deserve that. I feel those people that hate are just jealous tbh. I am so happy for you and Aether that you got married😊💋
I just wish you guys all the best.. take care everybody
I get litte confused with this channel whit the word we. Because first when I got to know this chanel there was a different face in videos. And now most of videos are just you and when you both have many persons you call yourself we and when you talk you two humanbeings it is allso we.. so sometimes I don't know if you are talking just You (one humanbeing) or you two.. ofcourse when you talk one being things I know that you are talking just things that you do but when you talk making music or crocheting etc.what people can do allso together and alone then I start to think are you doing it alone or whit other person.. nothing bad or serious, just a little confusing sometimes :)
Acrylic and Aether , both have DID and have a system with multiple alters. It's normal for us systems to use the word we even there's one body sitting there chatting.
And I can't really understand why people have problem even if you would spend lot, why would it be problem for anybody, it is Your life and You should be able to celebrate important moments! :)
@@Ayreon-TECsystem I know that, it just makes me think some moments little bit more are they talking both of them or just one of them. Nothing more it is not a bad thing it just is. And if the chanel was just one humanbeing it would probably not be even a thing but because there is two beings (I have no idea what would be the right word indicate just one human whit DID or is human or being good or would there be something more right way separate am I talking them (one human) or them both because at this situation I can't talk them (one person) ao probably I just don't really have right words) I am trying to say it as nice as I can, because I don't think it is a bad thing, I just have been noticing. And my first language is not English so sometimes I have to think sentences littlebit more than native English speaker
@@josspa6558 It's ok you are not a native English speaker. It's not my native language either. They sometimes speak for each other but most of the time about themselves. I think your understanding of the English language makes it harder for you to understand when they are talking about themselves and when not.
@@Ayreon-TECsystem Yes! Totally :D and most of the times I understand they are speaking of themselves but just some things sometimes makes me just think are they example crocheting together etc. And it is pretty nice mental image to see them sitting together and crochet :)
I'm sorry. I just started watching your channel. You guys deserve to enjoy and share your happiness. You shouldn't have to justify or explain anything to anyone. People are happy for you and wish you and aether the best!