Black Woman Wants To Know Why She Can't Get Married After Turning 30

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  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
  • It's not Black women it's just the woman in the video.

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  • @Irvington81
    @Irvington81 8 днів тому +192

    At 30, I’m sure she met a ton of guys when she was in her 20s that could have been potential husbands but of course she probably blew them off

    • @bmusa144
      @bmusa144 8 днів тому +34

      Part of the problem is she also blew most of them as well.

    • @curtisalleyne3710
      @curtisalleyne3710 8 днів тому

      ​@@bmusa144blew aload

    • @colonybud
      @colonybud 8 днів тому +25

      She didn't blow the good guys.

    • @sayitaintso7544
      @sayitaintso7544 8 днів тому +28

      Chasing the bad boy but ignoring the "boring, lame, corny, nerdy guys" while in her 20s. Then they shift in their 30s or 40s and want the corny guy if he can give them financial security. Plus women dont realize 60% of guys have dropped off the dating market but Pookie is still out in their DMs

    • @theoriginal668
      @theoriginal668 8 днів тому +1

      Facts💯

  • @touchgemini1372
    @touchgemini1372 8 днів тому +126

    She knew exactly what she was doing when she posted that video. 99% of them do it 4 attention. She even stood in the all I have 2 offer pose. Remember Gentlemen >>> Attention and validation will mean more to them than you ever will in MOST CASES....

    • @UncleRoams
      @UncleRoams 8 днів тому +8

      Aaamen!!

    • @JohnnyStroud
      @JohnnyStroud 8 днів тому +9

      Yes indeed. I'll even wager she already HAS a steady man, but he hasn't caught onto her postings,,,,,yet.

    • @kaylanp4476
      @kaylanp4476 Годину тому +1

      The All I have to offer pose 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @davidford3073
    @davidford3073 8 днів тому +102

    I like natural beauty…say no to witchcraft 😮

  • @Rudolph_Manor
    @Rudolph_Manor 8 днів тому +27

    Alot of women put their panties on a pedestal because they still think that they'll be young, free, fly and 21 forever, even when they're older. 💯

  • @MichaelLee-w9z
    @MichaelLee-w9z 8 днів тому +37

    You have to remember, today's young adult women were raised by single mothers who were raised by single mothers. 3 generations with no father influence in the home (in general).

    • @jillyjill5755
      @jillyjill5755 7 днів тому +2

      Exactly! The fathers were either in jail/gay are on drugs so they didn’t have a positive male influence in the house. And let’s not forget the uncles/grandfathers/cousins were molesting the kids so she couldn’t look to family members outside of the home smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @amariantiquity8543
      @amariantiquity8543 7 днів тому

      ​@jillyjill5755 That didn't stop the mothers from becoming mass murderers. Since 1973 Roe vs Wade. Blk genocide by birth (Abortion) number totalled 20,000,000 million unalived in the womb. May God have mercy on their souls.

  • @thankthelord4536
    @thankthelord4536 8 днів тому +49

    If you dress for the streets, ppl can tell.

  • @WOHM8274
    @WOHM8274 8 днів тому +89

    Seems like she enjoys riding the carousel. But we don’t want a used car with 300k miles on it.

    • @Butterfly22593
      @Butterfly22593 8 днів тому +4

      You really think your rusted over worked gear stick is a prize?

    • @Chillmindedpanther13
      @Chillmindedpanther13 8 днів тому

      ​@Butterfly22593 you think having kids before being financially stable is wise??? you're an afterthought chick for a reason.

    • @shaynanichelle8621
      @shaynanichelle8621 8 днів тому

      @@Butterfly22593Don’t think that’s what he was saying, men don’t want a woman that’s slept with a lot of guys we don’t know if this woman has or not but he’s not wrong 💯

    • @314jrock
      @314jrock 8 днів тому

      @@Butterfly22593 Men and women are judged differently in society. Men want women with no miles or low miles while women want men with experience in the bedroom.

    • @asdfxcvbn746
      @asdfxcvbn746 8 днів тому +12

      @@Butterfly22593 your rusted exhaust pipe definitely ain't the prize.

  • @markdickson6877
    @markdickson6877 8 днів тому +57

    The leg tattoo is a dead giveaway.

    • @michaelmaysjr.3228
      @michaelmaysjr.3228 8 днів тому +7

      I didn't even notice it until you said it. Had to zoom in to see it. But, you're right. A leg tattoo on a woman is basically a red flag.

    • @flipphone9748
      @flipphone9748 7 днів тому +1

      Tittay tats are a giveaway, too.

    • @zaq1337
      @zaq1337 7 днів тому +6

      It tells you all you need to know…

  • @d4air105
    @d4air105 8 днів тому +115

    I find it hard to believe that woman did not have a many good men come up to her. I suspect a trail of broken hearts. I put my stamp on it

    • @JohnnyStroud
      @JohnnyStroud 8 днів тому

      EXACTLY! She is DEFINATELY getting clapped. For me, this video is just a way for her to GATHER more men for her web.

    • @johnlawful2272
      @johnlawful2272 8 днів тому +10

      Well its preference but they get off on rejecting

    • @Usulutan1978
      @Usulutan1978 8 днів тому +1

      Define good

    • @The_Great_Gazoo_80
      @The_Great_Gazoo_80 8 днів тому +2

      How would you know? Maybe she's been around nothing but dusty dudes. I'd rather her be alone than settle for less. If that was my daughter, at least. Ladies, know your worth and gentlemen step your game up and become men!

    • @johnlawful2272
      @johnlawful2272 8 днів тому

      @@The_Great_Gazoo_80 no they choose bad boys black women are the pickiest women.

  • @Makaveli_74
    @Makaveli_74 8 днів тому +26

    1:15 her body her choice, his time his resources and his peace of mind 🤷‍♂️

  • @arthurj7602
    @arthurj7602 8 днів тому +69

    All about modesty 🤷

    • @sayitaintso7544
      @sayitaintso7544 8 днів тому

      Modesty is most important but they refuse to cover up. If I go to their social media and she is posing looking like an OF model or thirst trapping its a no

    • @Rudolph_Manor
      @Rudolph_Manor 8 днів тому +8

      Let them tell it, "it's slavery". 😂

    • @sayitaintso7544
      @sayitaintso7544 8 днів тому +8

      Modesty is always preferable. If only the other 80-90% of women understood this.

    • @RTA6226
      @RTA6226 4 дні тому

      WHO is raising these girls? I bet there was no father in their homes. I swear, neither of my parents would let me go out of the house dressed like those chicks!

  • @PassportEagle
    @PassportEagle 8 днів тому +25

    With how egotistical this modern women are , I honestly wish them the best of luck

    • @poeticprincee9750
      @poeticprincee9750 7 днів тому +2

      They don’t even realize that’s a driving factor as well that is turning men away.

  • @FFTsteel
    @FFTsteel 8 днів тому +11

    They have a hard time listening. Its actually crazy.

  • @Kingstevedaboss
    @Kingstevedaboss 8 днів тому +9

    They don't ask, they demand, but ain't no one trying to buy used goods for new goods prices. 'Humility' would be a start

  • @UncleMo65
    @UncleMo65 8 днів тому +40

    Attitude, lack of respect, and not being a Team Player to say the least. Good BM rather take their chances overseas.✈✈✈

    • @kerry-j4m
      @kerry-j4m 8 днів тому +9

      I found me a good,quality black woman here in the US after coming back from over-seas ( civilian contracter work ) after 11 yrs & 6 months. 2 weeks after being back in america I met my boo at a Dominoes Pizza restaurant just 2 blocks from where I stay.

    • @obtryce7070
      @obtryce7070 8 днів тому

      Facts

    • @jacquelinemariesart
      @jacquelinemariesart 8 днів тому

      @@kerry-j4m So happy for you

    • @kerry-j4m
      @kerry-j4m 8 днів тому

      @ Thank you,amigo.

    • @UncleMo65
      @UncleMo65 8 днів тому

      @@kerry-j4m They are not impossible to find but like the dinosaur close to extinction. So you found one. Don’t let her go because your odds may not be as good as last time.

  • @LinuxLogic1997
    @LinuxLogic1997 8 днів тому +14

    Running the streets for at least 12 years leaves a woman healing from the trauma and DNA of hundreds of men. The good women were taken early on in their 20s.

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 8 днів тому +2

      Facts

    • @zaq1337
      @zaq1337 7 днів тому +2

      EXACTLY

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 7 днів тому +3

      @ they not ready for this one as it’s so DEEP and very on POINT
      Now, to add sadly if a man happens to get in a relationship with one and or does not heed to his, S E X U A L desires, in some way or another he’ll pay as well 👍
      etc broken etc alimony etc jail etc other ppl raising his kids etc
      B blessed
      🇺🇬❤️🦾🐈‍⬛🤐🤫✍️👍

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 7 днів тому

      @@LinuxLogic1997 BITTER

  • @Termokat
    @Termokat 8 днів тому +16

    It's more like men know their nature and assume women who dress a certain way are purposely trying to play upon that nature.

  • @wtfsamusidk7574
    @wtfsamusidk7574 8 днів тому +17

    ATTITUDE 🙌

  • @williestandley8286
    @williestandley8286 8 днів тому +10

    If it looks like a duck
    And it quacks like a duck
    And it dresses like a duck
    And it acts like a duck
    THEN ITS A DUCK. LOL
    A picture says a thousand words
    Rental chicks not to buy and accept.

  • @leonbrooker8150
    @leonbrooker8150 8 днів тому +13

    If you present yourself as cheap that's how we will treat you...

  • @robertlunderwood
    @robertlunderwood 7 днів тому +2

    If a woman asks why she is single over 30, I ask what she was doing in her 20s.

  • @samuelmahmud1909
    @samuelmahmud1909 8 днів тому +7

    Great video coverage Phillip 💯 I love modesty

  • @thelegacyofgaming2928
    @thelegacyofgaming2928 8 днів тому +9

    The title has me dying 😂

  • @joelexz4982
    @joelexz4982 8 днів тому +3

    💯 Thank Mr. Phillip for keeping it real.🙏🏾

  • @thelegacyofgaming2928
    @thelegacyofgaming2928 8 днів тому +36

    Ngl, if you're asking that at 30, you already messed up. That's a question you ask at 20 years old

    • @ChineduOpara
      @ChineduOpara 8 днів тому

      I disagree. At 20, ppl in the West are still mentally CHILDREN.

  • @bossplayermfs5972
    @bossplayermfs5972 8 днів тому +11

    You had your chances and you blew them away chasing thrills instead of stability 🤷🏽‍♂️.

  • @NealYee-lj2qc
    @NealYee-lj2qc 8 днів тому +10

    She was at all the nba allstar weekend celebrations.

  • @123pb
    @123pb 8 днів тому +28

    She posted the video on purpose just so she could get attention and everyone fell for it it's called bait

    • @ChineduOpara
      @ChineduOpara 8 днів тому +1

      Yep 100%. I caught on to this trend about a year ago

    • @zaq1337
      @zaq1337 7 днів тому +1

      The oldest…

  • @Bet-MWC
    @Bet-MWC 8 днів тому +4

    She hit the wall at 30 and was prolly a 304 in her 20s

  • @Hero-and-Hooligan
    @Hero-and-Hooligan 7 днів тому +2

    The older women cant school the younger women and how to do better because the older women are still single and competing for the same men 😂

  • @obtryce7070
    @obtryce7070 8 днів тому +7

    Hot girl summer in Miami is over and winter 🥶 is here. Sorry, no tats, nose rings, bbls, bonnets, blonde weaves or Botox lips. 👄

  • @andynash1393
    @andynash1393 8 днів тому +7

    Absolutely, I recall there was a time when women was perceived a certain way when wearing red lipstick, IJS

  • @CorGP
    @CorGP 8 днів тому +2

    There’s a lot of women who aren’t even putting effort into finding/letting a good man into their life. They’re waiting for the perfect situation where the man of their dreams comes to save them.

  • @Haywood2
    @Haywood2 7 днів тому +1

    Some people mary early and have divorced early. So why don't she take her time and be patient.

  • @pinkskincanthandlethesunlight
    @pinkskincanthandlethesunlight 8 днів тому +33

    Once Bombquesha and Kenosha hit the wall... it's over wit!😂😂😂

  • @joybrooks564
    @joybrooks564 8 днів тому +4

    Thank you Phil for finally being honest

  • @callidus5586
    @callidus5586 8 днів тому +5

    Them not being able to identify good character, and yet we as men expect them to have it among them all

  • @Thomaticus
    @Thomaticus 8 днів тому +2

    They don't want the ring of the average man..

  • @dc9345
    @dc9345 8 днів тому +8

    Dirty Behavior

  • @bluepilledworld
    @bluepilledworld 8 днів тому +3

    She ain't looking.. She waiting!

  • @arnibah
    @arnibah 7 днів тому +2

    30=Danger Zone

  • @sbolden123
    @sbolden123 8 днів тому +42

    😂 because the wall 🧱 is undefeated 🤷‍♂️🚫👎 💯

    • @yessir8805
      @yessir8805 8 днів тому +8

      They fail to learn

    • @WhyUmadWhy
      @WhyUmadWhy 8 днів тому +6

      😂😂 bars

    • @donnettewalls8842
      @donnettewalls8842 8 днів тому +2

      For men too that wall is undefeated

    • @yessir8805
      @yessir8805 8 днів тому +1

      @@donnettewalls8842 lady, men at 25-35-45 dating women 18-21, so much, older women Shane men for that. Men that's 18-22, giving older women sex at best, no young dude going want a older women, that's the difference.

    • @harveyhankerson8359
      @harveyhankerson8359 8 днів тому +2

      Oh yeah. After 30 .. she’s done !! ✅

  • @MoneyBagjoe-bk5ve
    @MoneyBagjoe-bk5ve 7 днів тому +2

    All these women from America moving back to Africa for a husband and men doing the same thing ❤

  • @hbsupreme1499
    @hbsupreme1499 8 днів тому +12

    Interesting

  • @sulaimaanahmad
    @sulaimaanahmad 8 днів тому +3

    it's not hard, most likely she met her husband, he was rejected because he wasn't 6"5' making $200.000 annually. 🤔

  • @Mobay7447
    @Mobay7447 7 днів тому +1

    Most people will believe the uniform that you are wearing, cop, mail man, military, doctor, etc....

  • @antoineragins5035
    @antoineragins5035 7 днів тому +2

    That’s what her closet and her style is… only problem is men see this as she advertising herself by wearing this form fitting,tight or revealing clothes. And if she fine too gorgeous/beautiful, really pretty women are a fawking headache 🤕 it’s always me me me me take take take take.

  • @steveyj3002
    @steveyj3002 7 днів тому +2

    Women judge men on the appearance just as much as they say men do

  • @MrCj_Common
    @MrCj_Common 7 днів тому +1

    She did the P pose. She was basically advertising. You can't take everyone seriously when they start complaining about not being able to find someone "good".

  • @Chillmindedpanther13
    @Chillmindedpanther13 8 днів тому +11

    She's disingenuous that's why...

  • @carmelcapricorn7701
    @carmelcapricorn7701 8 днів тому +4

    The fit. Too tight. 🌺🪮

  • @kms4124
    @kms4124 8 днів тому +6

    Nothing about who these chick wear scream "exclusive".

  • @jacquelinefransaw6911
    @jacquelinefransaw6911 8 днів тому +8

    It's God 's time .

    • @Vincity1183
      @Vincity1183 5 годин тому

      😂😂😂😂 not how it works

  • @stephendanielmoser2259
    @stephendanielmoser2259 7 днів тому +1

    They want traditional men yet they dress provocatively?? Cognitive dissonance much? Like someone said in another video “the simp industry is dying”

  • @Rebmetpes4
    @Rebmetpes4 8 днів тому +1

    She did that for attention and validation; she knew why all the time!

  • @FaithMuzic
    @FaithMuzic 8 днів тому +2

    Some men nowadays, not all are starting to choose the women who carry themselves like Tens on the Inside rather than the Outside.

  • @FireBrandWilliams
    @FireBrandWilliams Годину тому

    What you wear outside the house reveals your state of mind.

  • @WesleyHillard
    @WesleyHillard 8 днів тому +1

    Because they have no clue of what men want.

  • @krendellbreaux7825
    @krendellbreaux7825 7 днів тому +1

    All those women are different. WTF

  • @YadaBenYahshar-El
    @YadaBenYahshar-El 7 днів тому +2

    Cap... She knows why. There's enough info out there now for her to not have to ask this question.

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 8 днів тому +1

    Up til the 1:10 mark
    Ru-486🤐🤫
    IT’S LIKE THIS-hit it 1X maybe 2 next facts

  • @djwayneeack2810
    @djwayneeack2810 8 днів тому +2

    The men that come up to you just want a good time not a long time

  • @4evertrue830
    @4evertrue830 7 днів тому +2

    "🎵Blame it on the rain that keeps falling falling, 🎶blame it on the sun that keeps shining at night 🎵, whatever you do, don't put that blame on you,🎵blame it on the rain yeah yeah..lol 🎶🎶😂😂😂.

  • @1KINGLOVE1
    @1KINGLOVE1 6 днів тому

    It's simple! A good man requires too much change and accountability.

  • @laron_t_green
    @laron_t_green 8 днів тому +3

    Ho don't make a housewife

  • @HumptyMcFly
    @HumptyMcFly 7 днів тому +1

    The self proclaimed most educated but act clueless

  • @nonog294
    @nonog294 7 днів тому +3

    That post you can tell it's "I was in my 304 faze in my 20s now I realize I'm getting old and need to settle down now, left overs anyone?" energy.

  • @naamanmagnusanthony9035
    @naamanmagnusanthony9035 6 днів тому

    If as a woman you've to ask this question then that is your problem.

  • @dexburwell
    @dexburwell 7 днів тому +1

    - she is what she attract. 🤓

  • @broinsocali
    @broinsocali 8 днів тому +4

    Her own attitude comes to mind.

  • @cnote2times
    @cnote2times 8 днів тому +2

    She can get a white man tho like why can’t she do that???

    • @Sophia-angel
      @Sophia-angel 8 днів тому

      It’s hard to get a white man. White man are not that easy to get like blacks and Spanish

  • @ProWhat-xr5lb
    @ProWhat-xr5lb 2 дні тому +1

    Be assertive, u approach if men arent aporoahing u, ir end up alone and a cat lady

  • @abetteryounow6484
    @abetteryounow6484 7 днів тому +1

    Listening to feminists!

  • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
    @michiganpyroaddicts4482 8 днів тому +2

    Good job women you caused all this drama for pookie and ray ray now you are complaining 😂😂

  • @isai7265
    @isai7265 8 днів тому +1

    She's got the goods that's for sure 😂

  • @MichaelSmith-lq8to
    @MichaelSmith-lq8to 2 дні тому

    Bro you need to fire your editor, your video literally cuts out

  • @lordbison
    @lordbison 8 днів тому +5

    2/2025: Black History Minute!
    🤷🏾‍♂️💬💭🗯️🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @marvl6472
    @marvl6472 8 днів тому +7

    Many like her Hit the wall while claiming to be a goddess and every other woman is jealous of yall. Dressing like that now, and then will blame who for stereotypes and media images 🤔🤔

  • @NoMoneyOut
    @NoMoneyOut День тому

    That dude you left at 24 was your husband 😅

  • @Where_Is_Her_Collarbone
    @Where_Is_Her_Collarbone 8 днів тому

    One word: insufferable.

  • @musingsofawokehebrew3356
    @musingsofawokehebrew3356 8 днів тому +2

    disingenuous , insincere attention seeking....

  • @acethefloridianforever
    @acethefloridianforever 8 днів тому +2

    You pass up too many opportunities, and you will end up being alone!🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @rodmoore_
    @rodmoore_ 7 днів тому

    🤦🏿‍♂️🙄

  • @luckycup
    @luckycup 7 днів тому

    Tattoo, camera positioning to attract simps , gotta look past all that could have just showed your face and opened the dialogue

  • @jahkarimirza7286
    @jahkarimirza7286 8 днів тому +3

    What does she expect? She is 30 and there must be other questionable things about her. Number one she waited too long.

  • @chihollywood9379
    @chihollywood9379 8 днів тому +1

    How many kids she got?🤔

  • @adamschrader328
    @adamschrader328 8 днів тому

    And the answer is.......30

  • @masjidtafsirkathir6094
    @masjidtafsirkathir6094 8 днів тому

    I’m Single I’m Good I’m A Night Guy

  • @Attah57
    @Attah57 8 днів тому +2

    The level of clout chasing and attention seeking by these women in these day is ontop of the roof 🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾.......why will she make that post, all just to attract attention on the net 🤔🤔🤔🤔???????

  • @ZetaZintendo
    @ZetaZintendo 8 днів тому +3

    Men have said plenty of times why women like her still single if they still don't understand then they need to stay single no excuses for these adult women she made her choices.

  • @user-kz2yt5ow7r
    @user-kz2yt5ow7r 3 дні тому

    Didn’t see the woman. Are you making up scenarios?

  • @teejay3321
    @teejay3321 8 днів тому +5

    Hard to believe you lived your entire 20s and didn’t have ONE decent dude approach you. No sympathy for them

  • @nashambenyisrael7689
    @nashambenyisrael7689 8 днів тому +2

    she's just trying to gain sympathy, women always have to publicize their lives.... to get attention.

  • @1234itbeme
    @1234itbeme 7 днів тому +1

    Best time is between 18 and 27. That is when women can attract Doctor's, Lawyers, Scientists, even Astronauts. However Black Women love pookies and ray rays until they wake up one day and they are 30 years old and then they wonder where did all the good men go.

  • @donduchiee6923
    @donduchiee6923 7 днів тому

    😏

  • @damajewels3606
    @damajewels3606 8 днів тому +1

    BS!

  • @mystykalmn4434
    @mystykalmn4434 8 днів тому +3

    Attention and validation are like oxygen to some women.
    The way you dress, you're gonna be address

  • @jeffmiller9798
    @jeffmiller9798 7 днів тому

    30 is 40 in dog years

  • @yessir8805
    @yessir8805 8 днів тому +2

    Above our level? Bro 🤣 knock it off

    • @jeromenelson6342
      @jeromenelson6342 8 днів тому +1

      Tru Dat Allday 💯 She's 4da streets. It's over 4 her nd her kind.

  • @davidoats1986
    @davidoats1986 7 днів тому +1

    These women are like Charles Barkley because they got no rings.