Single Mother Lashes Out After Being Told She's 39 & Washed
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- A single mother who had some success in business claims she was told by a guy that she was 39 and washed. This same woman lashed out at podcasters that breaks down the modern woman with surgical precision.
What successful man wants a ready made family with a 40 year old who can't give him kids? This is common sense.
This
A man that doesnt want/cannot have kids may.
@@pickmeisha Here you go with the "need to be right." A man that doesn't want kids, doesn't want the drama and expenses of another man's kids. Of the 2 men I knew that couldn't have kids, they adopted and still started their own family. They didn't go out there looking for a baby mama.
You delusional women don't listen and don't know men at all, which is why most of you will be old and alone like the woman in the video, smh.
@@pickmeisha In that case he'd be better off adopting if he can't have kids. This way being a stepdad is out of the picture
@Roxy Isaac if he doesn't want his own kids, then why would he want hers
She has the audacity to say "Broke men needs to date in their own tax bracket" BUT cant get a man in her OWN tax bracket
Preach
Bingo💯
Ohhhh the irony
The main problem with these types of individuals, is mind-set......On the (outside) look like women, but on the (inside) they move just like arrogant men.
Delusional just
She's probably the same one calling 9-5 BM mediocre and average. Guaranteed
FACTSSS
😂😂 the Audacity
I do believe she was the one talking down on bus drivers. So, literally yes.
all color women are like this
Exactly!!!
A woman who has to announce her accomplishment has none
So a man announces his accomplishments has what exactly? Isn’t that what you clowns do all day ?
PEOPLE, SHE IS BROKE. TALK ALL U WANT..BROKE. HIGH MAINTANCE, DELUSONUAL, COMBATIVE. NO THANKS. I WILL PASS.
100% agree. Confident men do not care how accomplished a woman is. He cares mostly about a good personality.
Perfect comment
Exactly
Exactly 💯
I'd say I care about her morals....
But what does 39 with children have to do with a good personality tho?
Prince said it best, This is what it sounds like when hyenas cry.
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Lol that must be the remix extended version. I need to stream that one
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Prince didn't say that😅 but we get it. Doves cry is for those in their prime.hyenas cry in their decline.
She's blaming broke men....WELL LADY....the rich men are running away from you 🤣🤣
You’re absolutely correct!!!
She was a liability without any corresponding benefits for rich men.
I find it hard to believe that she’s a millionaire. It sounds like she’s angry because she wants a millionaire but they don’t want her. It also appears that she’s had that weave in too long, based on all the scratching she was doing. I agree with Phil’s assessment, that a woman wearing that much makeup is hiding something. A refined, woman who’s cultured and classy wouldn’t be dropping F-bombs like that. Yeah, I think it’s safe to say she’s broke.
I just wish these types would say what they do.
Everybody is rich now but nobody says how. That's a red flag 🚩. Or cap as the kids say lol.
I mean y'all tell everything else but they always just say "business" or "entrepreneur". That's what you do but what is the actual good or service you provide?
@@LembeckIsStaying What you said is the truth.They use all these vague terms.They never mention the name of their business,products or services they provide.
@@dsteph1067that’s because everyone in this sector both you and me included know they don’t got none of that ish
😂😂😂😂😂
I’m 45 and loving this stage of life with my 55 year old husband! It’s fun, peaceful and drama FREE! ❤
Good for you!!!! Blessed...
Awesome keep it happy life is good ❤
Sorry ma’am your victim card has been declined 😂😂
19yrs ago declined 😢😢😢😢😅😅😅😅
Quote of the year
Drop the mic
Lmao!!!
Lmao !!!
Her crappy attitude is what keeps her alone. Let them millions keep her warm
Amen to that...
What millions?!?!?
@@TheOlmonroe1Probably a few thousand from OF 😂
If her millions could keep her warm, she wouldn't have a crappy attitude. Lol
She doesn't see how pathetic it is to have pancake makeup on, talkin to a cell ph in a car ranting bout her dissatisfaction at being undesirable to the men she wants.
It's either hella makeup or hella filters, or both 🙄
But guy, look at your pie face? on your next birthday? 1 of your relatives should smash a lemon pie in your face. Then they should stand there and watch you get it up. Guy, don’t get me started in your xxl forehead
@@BrothapocalypseDon't forget that hair hat.
Why do all these BW look trans now?
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A bragging, boastful woman is a woman that's hiding the painful hurt inside, it's killing her SOFTLY that she can't get the man she desires..That Part👈
She didn’t lose me at at 35+, she lost me with those the two magical words. Single Mother.
😂 have you heard the new hit singe!?
Now you a single mom 😂
😂😂😂😂
The false beauty, the filter, the dirty mouth, the arrogance and she wonders why she don’t attract good men…she will treat every man she gets like he’s beneath her. No good dude is dealing with that
I was just thinking about that too. I worked in corporate. And believe me. I see this everywhere. Especially in upper management. She’s a typical black female. With a nasty attitude. Towards all men.
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When she takes off that crazy weave , heavy make up and filters you may run😂😂😂😂
When she keep sweats herself, She might find herself by herself .
Naw, but you can still tell she’s a nice looking woman under all that makeup and nothing is really wrong with weave. I would date her, she seems Ok. Phil got all that just for men caked in his hair, he should embrace his gray
If you wanna see the true value of a woman, let her talk for 5 minutes
Well said
Speak on it!
Amen👍👍
What about seeing the true value of a black man when he opens his mouth!
@@gabriellew.4847the subject is women 👍🏿 don't deflect
Strong enough to make all the decisions, too weak to be held accountable for them!
Ooooh that part.
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Accountability is like rat poison when it comes to females like this one
As usual Lol.
Saying you are a millionaire does not necessarily make it true.
I don’t think she’s rich. My lie detector is going off
Even a single father who has his stuff together won't put up with her silly BS either 💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Her bitterness will run every man away that she even gives a chance
It surrounds her like a force field.
@@rm5282 😂
Phil nailed it. High value men are avoiding these chicks so they're forced to interact with regular men who they hate lol
Yep!
Cap. A man of value or just man period are not messing with these women.
Many regular men will nail, with relationship fail.
Regular men run from old expired women
So true, but sad for the men & her.
SAY NO TO "SINGLE MOTHER'S" DON'T BE A STEP DUMMY😎
step dummy...😆
So when you make a baby and leave the woman. You dont want another man stepping in to raise the kids you refuse to raise. Selfish or hateful?
@@tracyhill4405 So, when there should be a comma, followed by a lowercase "y", you typed a period followed by a capital "Y". Uneducated or illiterate?
@@ayeflippum And, remember convict, Creator God throws nobody in hell cause they flunked or passed english. He throws people in hell because you rejected His Son. Read your Bible sinner. Jesus Christ is Lord.
@@tracyhill4405 lmaoooooo, what does Jesus have to do with dating??? Maybe date him then???
You 100% right Bro may we all progress with these suggestions and progress forward ; even Ms. Washed Out. Send her to Dallas I’ll lock 🔐 it down and fix the mouthwash issue!
Hit the nail on the head. She's not competitive for the men she wants; and at least in this video, she comes across as combative, mean, and hateful. Men with options don't what that. Needs to stay away from the guys with kids though. She'd be the wicked step mother.
That’s exactly what she needs tho another man with a family already the balance works.
Straight facts. Loud mouthed hyenas like this make me so glad to be happily single
Cinderella was based on a true story.
Lord I feel for my sons and other young boys growing up. We definitely need to teach and give all the mental and spiritual ammunition needed to survive these crazy women.
Teach them. Train them. Warn them. And get them passports…🤷🏾
If these "trends" continue your sons will find their lives abroad and elsewhere. So many WW continue to make things worse and keep on digging a bigger hole for themselves that they might never be able to climb out of
FACTS 💯
SIr, ourselves along with our sons/nephews/other boyos of our respective communities are going to suffere IMMENSELY. Do your best to prepare, teach, train, harden. hone. et al.....them the best you can along with other decent(and above/beyond) men. The coming troubles, trials, tribulations, crises, impoverishment, etc......will be interesting.
Uncle Phil, I'm age 72 and you are now my Social Media Uncle! Thanks for posting your highly informative episodes! Amen-RA!
🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️... Phil is in his 40s my dude, how are you 72 and a 40 something is your Uncle in any way??
@@JimmyCrackCorn_ 😂
@@JimmyCrackCorn_ lol good question
@@JimmyCrackCorn_ 😂🤣
Spiritual uncle social media uncle not physcial uncle
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And if you guys live long enough you're gonna get older.
In this community we put to much focus on age thus placing limitations on ourselves. And that's due to the Blk victim mentality.
With little negatives like You're old, I'm to old, I'm a senior citizen at 55 yrs old. The only people who think like this in the world are American Blks.
In other countries it's not uncommon for men to do what Marcus Huston Kanye West, Leonardo DiCaprio or Donald Trump has done by having young women as partners.
I go out and see men of other ethnic groups well into their 80s still working out , playing golf going fishing and eating healthy and still dating. While Blk people are running around here declining by their 50s...,
You're supposed to be focused on a life of Abundance not Limitations Bm stay active physically & mentally.
And Bw consider this👇
......It is dangerous to be concerned with what others think of you
Proverbs 29:25 GNT
Tell the simps this.
I am a female and she is even getting in my nerves !!😡
YES!!! Me too. Lord! Yakety yakety yak! No humility whatsoever! Also, WHAT is up with the potty mouth 👄!?
😂😂😂😂😂
@@RTA6226 This is what they call the Jezebel spirit.
... while scratching her scalp!!
Thank you for standing with us men on this subject
Even if she was 29 and childless I'd pass
@@NA-sr9pv. What do mean by washed up ? Im 41 years old , no child and single . I dont have drama in my life and i dont have any pets, I dont drink alchohol , I dont smoke and dont go out on often . I have a regular life of work , go erands ,do a few places and work . I think I may be boring for some Men . What would a Man think of my social life and me ? Would they think im too boring or no bother . Lol
For sure
Bro that is true! The attitude of these women is horrendous! WE DO NOT CARE!!!
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Facts !
Ever notice when these women who think they're the ish but aren't getting the outcomes they want, start cussing up a storm, use the 🌈 slander, and mention all their accomplishments like its supposed to mean something? That woman was way too in her feelings and it sounded pathetic. Lord knows the clap back a man would get for going on a tyrade like this about not getting the type of woman he thinks he deserves.
The sad thing with single mothers who are over 30 is they could still win if they came in humble and pleasant. Also, this "you can't afford me" sounds to me that she is up for sale.
I'm a 35 year old single mother. I try to keep my head up, but I ain't even got the strength to deal with dating in the future, I don't lol.
@EauSoGlamorous I can't believe this comment and I don't know how this could help any man or woman. However, you are right about the fact that you can be cocky and I guess not pleasant, with children and over 30. I'm also glad that you are so open about your thinking as it makes life easier to make decisions.
@EauSoGlamorous She is loud, combative, materialistic and masculine in energy. Any man who settles (yes, I said SETTLED) for this headache is quite frankly a simp.
Blue Light Special!!!😂😮😂..
Multi millionaires have time to rant on tiktok???😂
Face value millionaires the ones who think all that designer bs means they are rich
This
While In a car and not in the high rise lol 😢
These days are different.
And play with their itchy wig
It’s sad but it seems like the worst thing you can do to women theses days is to tell them the truth ☺️✌️
Like Republicans Lol.
She sounds like she’s 13 a teenager being mad at her parents for taking her phone away
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These types of woman are soulless!!!
There made in the American matrix
I was at NYU for a while and I swear I knew a female just like her, JUST LIKE HER. 40 something, 3 kids, 4 baby daddies, condescending bad mother attitude, must worship me.
She would talk down to classmates and UBERed everywhere as a sign that she "had it like that." She always had on lots of make up and would brag about the things she had.
When you really listened to her though you realized she had a string of failed relationship with low level dudes. Criminals, corner drug dealers, +6 different baby mommas etc
I know all of this because I was in two of her classes. I'd stay away but you hear her talking to the other black females, it was a exercise in patience to hear such a fool crap on black men because she chose poorly.
Her baby daddies were: criminals, scammers, down low, with they momma, not family men, lil boys, weak, trash... *BUT SHE CHOSE THAT 3 TIMES!!!*
@@kayahardin1640 this was 6 years ago but there are tons of them there.
Thanks for sharing!!!
3 kids, 4 baby daddies 😂😭
@@EpsiIonEagle haha exactly wait a minute……😅😂
@@LKH98 Let's just hope dey meant da other way around. 😂🤣
Man these women are funnier than a bernie mac and richard pryor stand up i swear😂😂😂😂
I don't tell women they used or anything like that, but I do believe in keeping my wealth to myself. I don't blame buddy for curving her, I'd do the same. Once I hit 40 and I'm single, its a wrap. I'm going to invest, plan my retirement and chill. No dates, no game, no asking for numbers. I believe in going into older age with dignity.
Mans said 'war paint and witch craft...'
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Internet, come get your mans!
Why are you 39 and have kids but you single? 🚩
What does that even mean?
@@erikabiankha3466 then 19 retarded ass people thumbs up the comment 🤣
@@erikabiankha3466 if you have to ask...
@@erikabiankha3466No commitment! No man wants her! Pump and dump! Red flag 🚩 should I continue?
She's living her best life by herself!!
She should buy a cat 😂😂
@@6feet6figuresThe batteries on aisle 9 sold out. She better head to the Dollar Tree. 🌲😂
That part right there. 👍
What you said! 😂 She told on herself, that guy probably saw what she looks like with no makeup on or weave on😂😂😂
@@imtherealdeal3064 🎯
The tongue of a scorned woman can be as deadly as an asp 😂 She went straight into SIGN language, lashing out at successful gentlemen who dare say she's past the wall 👀 I don't know why she went on on podcasters in this space because, before social media, men were talking about women in barber shops, cigar lounges, old school locker rooms, etc. It's just that we weren't mic'd up back then. She would have had a heart attack if she heard us back then lol.
You on fire Phillip! Accountability is kryptonite to a lot of women.
When age did she have children, 14?? How can they have jobs at such a young age?? She can’t be 39 if her kids are grown
If her kids are 20 or 21 she had them @ 18 and 19.
She will stay alone and old. No man will ever commit to this personality.
Her: You should have waited for me for 20 years while I was getting railed by Chadrone!
Me: Uh, no. Peace and Quiet are my playmates now. Go away Pookiesha!!!
With all her accomplishments, why she’s not traveling to Paris with her high-value husband? Instead, she’s on the Internet complaining about broke dudes, so how did all the accomplishments work out for her 🤔
Preach my brother absolutely 💯
Thank you Phil your doing good work here. Keep speaking truth never relent. God bless brother
*They can give but can't take it regardless if it is the obvious truth.*
*The truth hurts*
Indeed, they don't expect boomerangs to come back 🙄
Say it again, say it again!....in Pinky's voice!!
Oooh she just want to be called a Goddess and Kween who made great decisions
6:20 told you everything you need to know.
I embrace my age of 46 yrs young . Us men get seasoned as we age plus our money is longer in our 40s and 50s.
So do women I'm confused at your statement, but there are some older men and women who do act like children unfortunately
@@nenep1872exactly!!
Say it again Sam. I'm keeping minez💰💸
Enjoy it. The avg bm does not live past 55
I’m sorry for the negative comments under your post. That’s the problem with modern black women, they lack accountability! Also, they RUN from the truth. Men like you, don’t have any problems, y’all can have a child at 80. Whatever a woman’s age is, you can get a woman 10+yrs younger. For women as you age, it gets worse.
"A man don't get with a woman because of her accomplishments." I would think a woman should know that by the time she reaches 39, especially if she is still single.
It just means shes selfish and never cared whata man wants. Thats why all her relationships fail, she only cares about herself
Well, women like that should stay single.
I'm 44 (45 this year). I love being in the 'Unc' stage of life. I keep myself up, hit the gym, eat healthy, drink plenty of water and get plenty of early nights, if work permits. My humour, character and nature are so finely tuned at this age. I have no tolerance for nonsense (like the heifer in this video), keep pettiness out my circle. At my age, reserving energy is key.
Sista here’s some advice. What you need to do is go to your local pet store and get you a dog or a cat maybe a bird or a fish. Matter of fact get ‘em all because that’s the closest to a companion you’re gonna get.
Naw, she needs to stick to plants. Plants can’t run away.
@@mostunclean6619😂😂😂😂😂
Some of these women are putting themselves at a point of no return. Some spend a lifetime acting like no man is good enough, some sit around waiting for PC or some rich brother whos a business man thats hood/pornstar. Then when those 40s kick in its everyone else's fault.
They all want Tupac with a law degree. Or an Usher who will be faithful only to her lol.
That's like me saying "I'm waiting on my Brittany Renner with a little Maya Angelou."
I bet she gonna be pulling a victim card, saying y’all black men black women 😂😂😒, same old same old 😂.
The Boy tell you Nobody Cries victimhood better than the white boy and the white girl when they don't get their white way😄😄😄😄
It’s always our fault😂
Yo .. she’s a typical bitter female. I worked in corporate. I see people like her everywhere especially at work. She’s really really lonely.
Her attitude is such a turnoff.
What is so ridiculous is she is bragging about being in designer clothes all of the time. What she DIDN'T say is in a number of today's department stores you can get designer clothes for between 65 and 80% off! You can get plenty of designer clothes for little of nothing!!! She didn't say that. A number of these department stores offer discounted designer products, including some from well-known brands, because they acquire excess inventory, closeouts, and irregular items. Sister girl didn't say that!
If these women weren't so busy trying to LOOK rich some of them would actually BE rich!!!
@claytonjohnson9218 So very true!
Educated women= Significant student loan debt.
Very true. This debt is a plague upon the land of modern women 🙄
Facts
how about educated men?
They curse like sailors and wonder why they are alone.
What’s wrong with cursing?
@@erikabiankha3466 cursing is bad to do
@@kayahardin1640
This right here. 🍺
@@kayahardin1640
Or unladylike/becoming of a mother. How am I gonna tell my kids how to act when momma acts like this?
@@erikabiankha3466 Cursing is so off-putting. I can understand if a person is by themselves and does it, but if they're talking to other people and can't keep a clean mouth, it's just disgusting and unattractive.
Avoid fraudulent women at all cost
😂😂😂 Poor thing ain't getting no attention and she's hurt about it 😂😂😂
I love how you keep it REAL !!!!! So glad. People need to age grow wiser with the years. I am in my sixties and fine of mind and body. Never had to pursue any man, they love my personality and my true self.
Age is not important it's how you carry your self, staying fit and being nice matters.
So why do women expect old men to not date young women then?
Age is important. What if I need children. 39 is off the bracket.
Age is important how you carry yourself too but never think or say that age is not important it really is.
Nahh it does matter… otherwise she wouldn’t be having issues.
Yes, you are correct, age is not important. A man her age can very easily meet her where she is, for example, not wanting any new kids because he too is already a parent and doesn't want anymore kids at his age.
I'm 42 with 7 kids and I don't feel washed up😂😂😂😂.
I don't wear any makeup. I've been abstinent a year and single 2. I don't care to even entertain a anything because Im too busy taking care of my kids. Previous to me being single I was in a relationship for 11 yrs. I am in love with my "peace of mind" and working on my kids future.
My dating season is over. I'm blessed to have my babies. Maybe one day when my kids are grown. Oh yeah I have a "mom body"😂😂 and that's okay too😂😂😂.
Some of us women out here are just happy to be alive and happy we made it to our age😊.
She ran the Playbook: Broke✅
Gay✅
Phil Be Speaking True Facts 💯
If she’s a millionaire she gotta secure someone in her tax bracket. Why even discuss broke dudes?
Because the men in her tax bracket are not looking at her. Don't you her the bitterness in her voice. Lol
It's obvious what the reason is why these men did not want to stay with her. She was touching that way so many times about she had dandruff
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Is she part cat? I heard a few 'meows' during that diatribe.
@Chris King she sell cat on the LOW Lol 😂
I too embrace my age will be 54 in July and I’m living my best life naturally! I love the accomplishment I’ve earned ‘aging gracefully’ 👌😊☝️
Prior to being in her prime, the woman in the video wasn't able to secure a man who showed interest. It is time for her to humble herself. The income and education of a woman are irrelevant to a man. He is most interested in a woman's high-value character. A woman should focus on improving her character to be attractive to a man, rather than trying to change her material circumstances. A woman with strong values and morals is far more attractive than one who is only concerned with wealth and status. Being humble and true to oneself is the best way to attract a man who is worthy of a woman's affections.
that's it. it's all about a woman's character, not her job or status. women are narsistic and think only of themselves so they think that what they desire in men is what men should desire in them.
they could not be more wrong. we are complete opposites.
women want tall men, strong provider and leader.
men want women that are shorter than them, dependent on them so we can provide for them and willing to FOLLOW our lead as the leader she wants and needs.
Women want men with wide shoulders.
Men want women with wide hips.
Women want QUALITY.
Men want QUANTITY. (but women cry why men want this. men don't cry why you want quality. we accept it and try to be that to get segs)
Women care about a man's future. Guess what? since WE are the future and we have a PLAN, we need to know her PAST so we make sure we are not wasting time with trash who has given it up to the whole football team. there are other women MORE WORTHY. So a man cares about a woman's past!
Body count tells the MOST about a woman's past. It affects how she acts and say.
opposite! And women fail to understand this basic BIOLOGICAL fact!!!
That stop sign behind her says it all 😂
I call cap on her, if she was accomplished she wouldn't be wasting her time on tik tok.
🤔why does she keep playing in her hair? Is her wig slipping, or is something crawling in it?😂😂
You can really tell these kind of women literally going insane. I am not even trying to joke around.
She is no longer the bell at the party no more 😂😂
The wall is undefeated.
*She's 39 & washed up, It's some young thunder-cats that will take her up through there* 😁
Lol hell I'll take her up through there but that's it. Nothing more, nothing less🤣😂
Young thunder cats lmaoo😂😂😂😂😂
Old Women are for practice. It's like that old hoop you hang up in the drive way to get that jumper right.
@@sionrouge1697 lol dam
If she is so high profile in her business why would she even post something so ignorant if she was making all this $$$ ,knowing that anyone of value or a person with a potential business opportunity would see this post.........in reality she isn't making that type of $$$ be cause she would be more thoughtful and aware of how her actions and words would affect her "business"....smh.... petty thoughts and emotions are not millionaire traits.
These modern women think they gonna stay young forever
Like they’re not human
The perfer delusions and fantasy over reality
I’m loving my age too.. loving my 50s🔹a lot of young people these days aren’t having children, it’s too expensive
Shes a multimillionaire living off credit and probably 1 mil in credit card debt and taxes!
Maturity and age at 35 are different situations... bitter is bitter..
Unlike females, most men are forced to reconcile with their dating options and what we can't leverage from an early age. This woman isn't ugly or spoiled milk, she just doesn't have the same options as the females 20 years younger than her, regardless of her financial status (the only thing she seems to brag about).
Age is just a number embrace your age and be proud nothing wrong with that I love myself and proud of my age as well
1:43 To answer her question “Who thinks she’s washed (up)”, the answer is, whichever fraction of the male population she’s trying to attract. The sexual marketplace is what it is
39 single and A baby momma 3 times.yuck
You do yo thang kween. You got this!
She’s done just face reality ladies
She can't deal with hitting that wall
There’s nothing wrong with accentuating your beauty in moderation but when the filters, makeup, attachments and hair dyes, spanks and shapers, bras and butt lifters cause you to over inflate your value and lose your sense of reality it becomes unhealthy delusion. If you cannot be comfortable in your natural whether straight or curly outside in front of the opposite sex, then your sexual value may not be as high as you think.
She BROKE! She’s broken inside.
That sista is a multi millionaire she's out of my league, I'm a thousandaire 😆 Salute to her success and accomplishments hopefully I will be there soon 💪💯
Not mine, but I wouldn’t look her way if she walked past me.
Exactly, i pray that i can get my business to her level.
You believe she's a millionaire smh 😒
She's capping!
Who believes that she’s a multimillionaire?
Lol just divide eve women say they make by 10,000 and that's a better estimate
It’s nice to hear a man’s opinion about all the make up and weaves. As a women I was wondering if men find that attractive. All the surgery and fakery especially those spider eyelashes are out of control. The more natural a women is the more beautiful she is sometimes less is more.
I am so sick of women using TikTok to brag in order to compensate for their shortcomings.
I'm 48 will be 49 in December. I'm not the best looking woman but I ain't like her. It's her attitude that turns men off.