How to Discover What You Want | Getting Clarity with Decision Making
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- How to Discover What You Want | Getting Clarity with Decision Making
In this video, I'll be giving you a practice for discovering what it is that you actually want. This will help you get clarity when making decisions about your life; from big to small.
When it comes to the ability to know what you want, it all comes down to knowing how it is that you want to feel.
So, if you're at a fork in the road and you don't have the clarity to know which direction you want to take, then this video can give you the exact paradigm shift and skills that you need to begin making wise decisions that are connected to your deeper intuition.
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Good luck with your carrots everyone!
Yes! I second that. :)
My 10 emotions:
- Feeling free, aka not surviving
- Creative
- In love, in a romantic state
- Concentrated about something I'm passionate (some call it "flow state")
- Connection with others, feeling understood, that hug under the blanket with someone you love
- Excitement about tomorrow
- Physically strong and rested
- Safe
- Inspired
- Calm and peaceful, in tune with the present
This was really helpful.
- Excitement about tomorrow
Thats a good one.
I really like this channel. You have such a gift at explaining and using concrete examples for what can be difficult topics to conceptualize
Thank you! 🙂
You’ve unpacked this concept of following your “carrot” emotions in a way that I can actually apply it to my life with direction. Great analogies! I’m a visual learner so it helps a lot! -Kat 😉
you are such an amazing educator ❤
Thank you for the river of intuition.
Positive and negative reinforcement was one of the first concepts I learned while being introduced to psychology and applying scenarios in my life and the results made it clear that specific methods to obtaining a desired state of being can be achieved and more pleasurable, exciting, happy etc by applying negative reinforcement it makes it more likely to obtain, and by looking at the achievement with positive outlook on the opposite of what we wanted to obtain. Rather than the reaction after achievement of goal or methods to obtain those carrots being yay I'm happy, excited, euphoric, instead looking at it with yay I'm not sad, not bored , not angry making the happy, excited, euphoric state even more positive/ pleasurable with awareness of the desired state of being and it's opposite which is where we were before making the plan to obtain those carrots, basically makes the carrots last longer and even more pleasurable than what we initially desired to have.
I'm a 4 on the ennegram so this exercise gets me out of my cycles of envy and longing. Thanks so much!
Thank you 🙏
Great advice brought across with much empathy
Thank you! :)
Hey Thanks Emerald…🌞❤️🔥✝️☯️🕉✡️♊️♌️♋️🙌Much Love and Life… I like the feeling of having Clarity…🙋🏻♂️
Subscribed! Great work. Thank you!
Thank you! One thing I want to tell you is that I like the sound of your voice, makes me feel I understand what you said calmly, on the other hand, I'm discovering shadow working and it blows my mind. I'm interested in going forward with this approach to integrate it into my life. Thanks again for the contribution that your content brings us
yay you're actually sticking to your upload schedule (so far) 😉
Shhh! Don’t jinx it! 😄
@@TheDiamondNet I jinxed it 😔
Thank you, this is great advice!
You're welcome! I'm glad that it resonates. :)
This is very smart! Find Your Carrots. I really like that framework. Thank you
Thank you! I think this understanding of motivation can really change the way people make decisions for the better.
Sensational
The “keep becoming you” slogan at the end was great, because I was like “there is no I,” to which “you” becomes “we”
.. still it sounds better the way you said it. “Keep becoming we” would be tad too real for some.
Thanks Emerald, for the enlightening perspective. As a Boomer l was always told "It's the journey not the destination." But now I can see the vehicle I'm aboard. Safe travels 🙏❣️
Strong
Confident
Brave
Wonder
Inspired
Loved
Fulfillment
Excitement
Contentment
Happy
Thank you for your amazing videos.
This really helps me have clarity in my goals.
Awesome! This bit of advice can be a real paradigm shift.
You’re so smart and insightful! Thank you
Thank you! :)
And when i find my favourite emotional states, should i look for a role-model which represents the emotional state i want to get there?
Thank you Emerald 💞. That really makes a whole lot of sense. Love and light 🙏💞
You're welcome! Love and light to you too! :)
Thank you awesome content as usual
I love you so much, thank you as always xo
You explain well for me thankyou
your videos always come at the perfect time ❤️
Im diggin your stuff. Just discovered you last night so naturally I've been at it for a little over 18hrs now lol.
Amazing delivery ❤️❤️
one of my favorite carrots is discovering people like you 🤍
Thank you so much for your wonderful work. Your way of explaning things is so clear and friendly.
Superb content! Love it!
Thank you! 🙂
I love this! It makes so much sense!! Thank you
Thank you so much for this video. This is exactly what I needed to hear today.
Just wanted to say I’m so very grateful for your videos. You are such a calming individual and your videos are very interesting and liberating. So glad I get to watch them 💕
Thank you!
Hi Francisco. You're welcome! :)
Thank you, Emerald. You’ve taught me much
So one of my favorite emotions is the paralyzing abject fear sometimes brought on by psychedelics. That sense of being tiny in the face of the mystery. I like it because it's just such an odd emotion so rarely felt in mundane life. Every time I feel it, it's like I'm getting to stretch muscles I forgot I had. I love bad trips for that reason, but I wish there were an alternative way to achieve that state when tripping isn't an option.
Alternatively I also love the feeling of the wind of destiny being at my back. I got to experience that when I got the idea in my head that I would meet my birth father on the Great Conjunction.
First I felt panic, since I previously didn't believe in destiny.
Then I felt a sense of duty to myself, like I would let myself down if I rejected this quest.
Finally, I felt like I could move any mountain. I had accepted the insane notion that destiny is a cosmic force that cares enough about me to put together a cosmic event as a background for me to overcome my daddy issues.
I'm still very grateful.
Thank you Emerald I find you videos valuable thank you again for doing this
Thank you for helping me.
You’re welcome! 🙂
I love how clear & actionable this video is. Thank you for sharing:)
I hope some 10 year old is watching this. I'm 40 and still learning 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
GOD BLESS YOU .YOU helped me for free when other people charged high prices💟💟
Awesome content. Watched collab with Einzelganger and lead me to this channel. Thank you for posting. Liked and subscribed.
It’s concerning that some of my preferred feeling states are actually not very healthy, or have lead to risk behavior.
Thanks for putting out the list to help me along : )
Thank you for sharing this content🌟 It's really helpful and this particular video came right on time; I'm really trying to navigate through what I want to do with my life.
You’re welcome! I’m glad this video resonated with you. 🙂
Wow your so cool vibe🤙
What a wonderful practice for finding clarity. It's so simple. Thank you Emerald. You've been an integral part of my life for a while now. Thanks for continuing to put content on this channel.
By the way, did you get a new camera? 😄
Hi Kshesho. I'm glad to hear that my work has been helpful to you. I did get a new camera. But for some reason the video didn't record in HD this time.
@@TheDiamondNet Well either way, it looks great!
Thank you! :)
Lead us out of this horror Emerald. You're the new voice of sanity.
Thanks for the video🎥 🙏
You're welcome! :)
What are my favorite carrots (emotions)?
-euphoria/joy
-awe/inquisitive
-amusement/laughter
-relaxed/well rested
-satisfaction
-serenity
-creative flow/inspiration
-love
-confidence/focused
-hope
💐💐💐
🙂
Emerald, I love it!! Question: what of some of your carrots come in conflict with your other 10 carrots- like safety/Security and creativity/adventure? LOVE your channel!
Are you going to make any more videos on Tarot?
If I can just get in a space to let it happen. The vehicle but I worry what the impetus will be, even from myself
I just so happen to stumble on this channel this year and I love the work you do because I have all these thoughts on a daily basis and I feel like my head isn’t big enough for all of these thoughts of awareness and emotions. So I thank you for being you and for talking about subjects that we as humans are uncomfortable to talk about with each other or even with ourselves❤️❤️Also, Are you still doing one on one sessions?
Thank you! Yes, I’m still doing 1 on 1 sessions. You can email me at thediamondnetchannel@gmail.com for more information
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As always straight to the essence of subject Emerald. You're like Nietzsche of explaining concepts 😁 Thank You 💚☺️🙏 So basically we are all addicted to some emotional states (most of them unconsciously) and we develop ourselves getting through those states, is that correct? So we are always in self-reapeted cycle of building-up our primary experiences and trying to fit reality in this known world of ours? And if something exceeds our known world of emotions is moved to our subconscious mind?
Thank you for the kind words! 🙂
But I wouldn’t necessarily say so on the addiction part. The emotions are just our motivational compass. So they’re really just part of the hardware of the body. And they’re there to let us know what we want and what we don’t.
So, there’s nothing inherently about addiction to emotional states, as emotions are mostly just practical.
And beyond the idea of following the emotions leading to self-development…. the emotions lead more to a very practical kind of knowledge that can be used to help us navigate and make wise decisions in daily life.
Thank you very much! Useful advice, but I am left with a doubt, somewhat inspired by the way you phrased it at the beginning. Once you have focused on the emotion you seek, how do you know whether the way by which you want to achieve it will actually lead to the desired state? To what degree is it ignorance and when does it become self-deception? And furthermore, could self-deception operate right down to the level of motivation?
For example, I tell myself that I want to feel the excitement of adventure because I like the idea of being an adventurous person, but in reality what I want is to feel secure and stable. Or, it is true that I want to feel the excitement of adventure but I deceive myself about the medium (not knowing or including, on some level, 'knowing' it).
1:30 mark has to be true. It has to be
Hello there emerald not sure if I spelled that right probably didn’t sorry. I’m just checking through some of your videos find U very interesting I was wondering F U had anything on social anxiety or anxiety that may help me hopefully you’re still on here. Any reply would B appreciated
I don’t think I know ten emotions TOTAL.
Here are some example emotions/feeling states...
- Fullfillment
-Intimacy
-Energetic
-Warmth
-Refreshed
-Wonder
-Anticipation
-Excitement
-Empowerment
-Vulnerability
-Safety
-Stability
-Satisfaction
-Peace
-Contentment
-Infatuation
-Joy
-Giddiness
-Catharsis
-Ecstasy
-Motivation
-Passion
-Aha!
-Fun
-Moved
-Surrender
-Freedom
@@TheDiamondNet how do u decide on these emotions.is there any mutual exclusivity.
Do u have any video on the type of emotions
Thanks
I don't have any videos yet on types of emotions. My recommendation would be to think about your best memories and to think about the way you were feeling at the time.
hi Emerald. great videos. watched your old videos and i am bit confused. Please make anther video on this topic.
I am a man. but does integrating feminine or does having feminine qualities makes me less masculine, or a homosexual, a gay? or
are we all homosexuals ??
another question- How can I integrate my feminine without being less of masculine and without losing my aggressive side?
My belief is that we all have feminine and masculine qualities within us. It makes us balanced, not gay lol. 😆 But being human is certainly confusing so it is a good question you ask.
I would search UA-cam with her channel name and what you are looking for. Such as "Diamond Net feminine and masculine" or "Diamond Net integrating feminine"... She has so many great videos and she speaks a lot on integration and shame, also excellent advice on how to integrate the feminine and masculine. Yin and yang. ☯️ We are not whole without both. :)
You can’t add or remove masculinity or femininity from yourself. You have what you have. So, you can’t add femininity to yourself that isn’t already there.
But these practices will never make a straight person turn gay as it’s not possible to change that. You can’t turn a straight person gay or a gay person straight. You can only either acknowledge or repress what’s already there.
So, it’s all about wholeness and integrating both the masculine and feminine side.
But integrating the feminine doesn’t diminish the masculine. In fact, the more integrated the feminine is, the more doors will open to the development of the masculine side.
Let the lovers dance within you.
@@TheDiamondNet Thank you😀😀
Or just get loaded...just kidding.
Thank you.
Thank you 😊