Shadow Work and Looping
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- In this video, I'll be talking about the topic of Shadow Work and phenomenon that I call Looping.
Looping is the phenomenon where Shadow Aspects bring you through the same patterns again and again. This topic is very important to know about for the sake of integration.
Carl Jung said, "Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate."
This episode of The Diamond Net explains why that statement is true.
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As you were explaining this, I recalled hearing someone say that, if you have an earworm (a song that keeps running through your mind that you can't seem to stop hearing) sometimes you can make it stop by listening to the song from start to finish. It's like your brain can't get rid of the piece of the song until it can have its resolution and completion - sort of like allowing it its peace so it can stop.
My God you make Jung so easy to grasp. Your videos are so PRACTICAL. Thank you!
After looping for years, your video cured almost all of my shadow mini-personalities. Grateful for your selfless sharing which is absolutely superior!
thank you for making these videos. like a lot of people, I was carrying around emotional baggage, tried therapy, that did not work, yet I read Jung and that worked better than years of therapy.
Here is one example of how reading Jung helped me. (something a long the lines of integrating the shadow). I started to take a "serious look" at parts of my personality, even the parts I did not like. I accepted, that these parts, may just be part of who I am, and must accept it. Before, I would be been scared to admit, even to myself that I might be lazy or lacked ambition. However, by accepting even the "negative sides" of my personality, things got better. I day dreamed less and was able to let go of unrealistic goals.
Reading Jung is more than just good food for thought, it can save people from therapy that goes nowhere.
This video really takes the mystery out of what so many people chalk up to fate, karma, or the universe placing them repeatedly in the same situations with the same types of people.
Hi Emerald, thanks to you I've embarked on my healing journey with a proper direction. You're doing great work!
Thank you! :)
Wow, I’ve been watching your videos for about 2 years off and on through my own self exploration and “journey”
I have to say, you are incredibly articulate with your words and intention. I am currently going through my own self exploration and also studying to hopefully one day become a psychedelic integration coach. It is clear you have done a lot of internal work on yourself, otherwise you wouldn’t be able to articulate as well. I found that once I started REALLY loving myself, my words came out so much easier and I was able to communicate on a different level. Thank you for your openness and compassion to help others find their true selves. Looking forward to the 2 hour shadow work class!
wow! another great video that shines light on the darker sides of our personalities and how they work. Wife and I have made good progress on our selves in the quest for healing, understanding and loving each other.Thanks to your amazing knowledge which you share generously!
You never miss a beat...what a wonder woman!
Tank you Emerald
Such an amazigng and thorough way to explain a complex issue we all struggle with. Thank you.
Watched this twice already. Signed up to join you Sept. 17. Thank you, Emerald! 💎
This is a life changing video. Thanks
I have been "soul searching" for a few months now. Im basically trying to work out why i am the way am and improve on myself in the future. I want more out of life and a fuIled life. (happy would be good) I still haven't figured it out yet but this video has shed some light. I will watch it again and try make sense of it all. Thank you.
Wording is the release of the spell by which the mystical is relevant to my frequency and emotions. Harmonizing being with the universe❣️
You people raised a real woman!
Such good God's Work you have done and are doing Ms. Emerald. Thankyou soo much, for Your Service. 🙏🏽
How is it that you always have videos when I need them the most? You are my Angel 😇
Love your work, Emerald. Very down to earth, clear, concise explanations of these concepts. Thank you
Omg… you just explained my entire dating history in one video
From the bottom of my heart thank you so much for this amazing video.
Why didn't you Love me, is that a good start , Glad you kept to your dreams you are going too help so many people.
You are really good. So much info. I cannot thank you enough.
this was such an informative and transformational video. The examples you provided were extremely applicable. Thank you so much for sharing this! Your work helped me tremendously.
Emerald, I’m 4 minutes in and this re-explanation of shadow work and the shadow self is fantastic. I already knew this stuff from your previous videos but it’s always so good to have a neat little recap. You have honestly taught me so much since I discovered your videos just under 2 years ago. I would love to make a donation to you for all the work you put into these videos and as a thank you for making them and helping me!
This is so moving, Emerald.
Thank you! Great to see you in the comments. 🙂
Thank you, greetings from Argentina
loving your work ty ❤
Thanks Emerald, I found one of my own as I was watching your clip 🎣
This is as brilliant a presentation on the shadow as I have witnessed (I am old). This is what humanity needs and less abstract presentations on Jungian psychology.
Thank you. This aligns with Transactional analysis (TA) which I learned from a therapist.
Great video. Lots of very helpful information.
Best explanation I've heard to date (I'm 67)! Thank you Emerald! Wish I heard this in my youth!!!
Awesome explanation, thank you
So clearly explained. Thank you. 🙏
Thank you! :)
I get this. The key is to do the work on the shadow while also realising the self is a dream and getting on with the job of becoming enlightened. I can see if you are doing shadow work its a concession to saying yes i am a seperate self
Thank you for making this video! Such a help! ❤
Thank you so much 🙏🏽 your content and delivery is excellent and has been life altering for me. Again thank you 🙏🏽
Your knowledge and voice could replay in my heart 24/7 and it just sounds so true....
New subscriber. I'm speechless. Boy do I have a lot of work to do! Thank you.
This describes me and my whole life. I don't even know how to uncover who I am because it's like I am entirely in shadow or something. It's very odd. With kids now, it's become super important that I understand these things. It's really difficult like all my behaviour is simply the shadow. so much so that I think I need to live alone in the woods. Being validated is a huge thing for me. I keep failing to progress in becoming better myself, because I don't get any validation from others. I don't know how else to measure whether I am a good person and doing the right thing.
Eyy new topic of discussion unearthed
Wow thank you this is epic
AMAZING video!!
Thank you so much, I've been stuck trying to do Shadow work,or not doing Shadow work for a long time. You're helping me to finally make sense out of it, thank you sooooo much! GRATEFUL
Attention with its endless possibilities absolutely amazing...
Awesomeness Diamond net...
Wonderful Day Dreams
thank you so much.. the pokemon analogy was very helpful
Thank you very much
Very good
Exactly 🌹
welcome back
Wonderful. Never heard an explanation so clear and understandable. Thank you thank you 🙏🏼 just today I was given clarity on a shadow I presumed was healed... I'll sure try your way 😊🙏🏼💚
love this video. thank you for sharing your expertise. plus you're so pretty
These videos have helped me so much, your work is a light in the darkness.Thank you so much, Emerald!🕯️💖🌱
OMG I AM SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU Again, I love all your videos and you xo
thinking of how your repressed traits stay the age that were repressed is a detail i never considered. great video in general, glad to see a new upload!
thank you
I love the knowledge you spread ❤
I've had to watch this video 3 times, but I think Im finally getting it. I've been looking for answers for so long. Happy I found you! Im looking forward to signing up for one of your courses.
One tends to join his family, even if the family is evil . One tends to go on the known ways, it becomes a reflex .
I am in a loop and it makes so much sense why I always end up in a relationship that ends up not giving me the emotional validation that I need. Your videos are powerful just one suggestion, include some visuals as well to make it more engaging.
Absolutely loved this. I hear so many loops in my sole. Its a little difficult to deal with them all at once🥵
Another beautiful video Emerald! Stuck in the story! Been there!! Lol
Tankyou
I always learn great information from you.
The validation is exactly my loop. I've known this for a while and I have told myself that my ideas, input and efforts are extremely valid, but I still feel unheard at times or like I'm seeking validation... like in my head waiting to hear acknowlegement for, say, creating a delicious tasting meal and dying to hear the person TELL ME that it's delicious and feeling disappointed if they don't. How can I stop that?
Glad to see you sharing more on these topics. Thank you and big thumbs up 👍🌞👍Edit: wow great job explaining this!!
Awesome your back and on point as always. The looping makes a lot of sense to me as I've experienced such phrases. Nice to have you put it all together so succinctly as always. Also i like the referencing to emotions rather than logic cause its super important and is one of the leaps to make in terms of healing
just watched again! So good - thankyou 💛
funnily enough one of my phrases was "im a toad" (came to me meditating) which was actually from a childhood story "Wombels of Wimbeldon" in a particularly traumatic period of my life. Toad was always the problem hedonist in the story...and yeah...well that was me
Thank you for sharing your knowledge
You're welcome! :)
I really enjoy your videos and the ways in which you approach all these topics, ideas, and concepts. You make it a bit easier to understand how to recognize and distinguish between the many aspects of the mind and the emotions. But I had a few questions about some of the exercises and practices you've suggested in some of your videos and I really appreciate some guidance or advice on them. Anyways, thanks again for all that you do for others and I hope to hear back from you soon.
I like your pokemon reference. Cute. :3
You are donig an amazing work here 🍀❤️
👍💐 Helpful content and very well explained! Thank You! 🙏🏻😊
🧠🌀 Dee Reynolds in Always Sunny… “tell me I’m good, tell me I’m good, tell me I’m good.” 🙃
When a person is "on point"...dang!!!
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We are always going to try to find outside of us what we are unable to bring forth from the inside out.. But everything is within 🙏☕️😎 Honesty does not always make needs dissapear, Sometimes its just Natural Instincs that posses a more potent power when it comes to sexual aspect.. Finding your souls work helps alot 🙏
I love you
1990's....dang girl!
As a man it’s easy to connect with my internal father. But, how to connect with my internal mother? Look forward to seeing you at the workshop!
Excellent presentation as always.. Personal awareness of the people pleasing aspect of my shadow has not helped me to move forward as the broken record kicks in so quickly. I can absolutely identify with you loop phrases and see the trigger buttons clearly now. Have you any advice on how to catch the unconscious lightening bolt of the shadow aspect with the third person. Thank you, very informative.
Thank you.this was very helpful but what should i do if i have horrible memory and I can’t remember these moments?
Behavioral oscillations 〰️〰️deja vu
Wonderful video, As I wondered that myself when I met a beatiful girl suddenly I fucked up. I feel very emotional, very depressed and I need affection. It didint happen a normal beauty girls just beatiful girls. The question I asked myself but couldn't find the answer to is this: Is it because of a relationship I had in the past or is it just a desire to be accepted by a beautiful woman? Cuz its too weird while I don't need affection in a normal woman, but when I met beatiful woman suddenly that appears
Stay with me...
the bullys are coming to get me!
3:45, 6:00, 12:00, 20:00~
Do you do IFS (Internal Family Systems work)?
Hi Emerald,
I have a severe retroactive jealousy problem. How can I apply Shadow works?
Thanks
Hey Emerald, been watching some of your content for awhile and I must say I’m very intrigued by the shadow work, is there a way to contact you personally?
Yes, my email address is thediamondnetchannel@gmail.com
I look forward to hearing from you. 🙂
dear Emerald re: the term or concept of 'looping' is that something you created/invented or is it a known aspect of Jungian psychology? ... and further is 'looping' in any way associated with 'reincarnation' or genetic ancestral memory?
also would it be possible for you to be not so animated using your hands to assist in what you are saying?
(I do ponder if you have Italian genes in your ancestral jeans?)
the mind is the hand and the hand is the mind ... thus this brings us back to how 'looping' is something human fruit loops do who are stuck in perpetual recursive fractal patterns that in fact DO help define humanity and the evolution of what consciousness is ...
science supports that our "chiral hands are the asymmetrical mind and the chiral mind is the asymmetrical hands"
But if shadows are unconscious how they can see better than us childhood patterns and put us in same scenarios?
Great question! Shadow Aspects are unconscious from the standpoint of the conscious personality. But they have their own perspective, agendas, wisdom, memories, and strengths. And they're very much part of us. So, if an aspect was repressed at age 5, that aspect will try to lead you to what they need... but using the strategies you would have used at age 5.
So, they will often intuitively pick up on external patterns that match the internal patterns and try to steer the conscious personality into them. But it's usually more emotional than it is logical and intellectual. It's not to say that they are calculated. They do these things the way a 4 year old might intuitively throw a tantrum to try to get a sense of power.
@@TheDiamondNet Make sense. Thanks 🙏
Hi Emerald, the link for the free shadow work class isn’t working. Can you repost it?
Also, this video was very helpful to me to know what to do with the loops that I have going on in my head. Thank you! You are an articulate and thorough teacher.
Sure! It's pages.thediamondnet.org/registernow
Thank you for letting me know.
You're 24. How do you have this all figured out?
This is pretty crazy, because I was actually discussing this phenomena yesterday with the Internal Family Systems subreddit, and now here you are with this video!
But speaking of Internal Family Systems, or IFS, do you know of it? There's a lot of similarities between this particular school of thought and Jungian psychology. I actually wanted to get your opinion on it.
Yes, IFS and Jung’s idea of the Shadow are quite similar. I haven’t read extensively into IFS but from what I know of it, it seems to address more user-friendly notions of how to work with the Shadow. Basically viewing yourself as the needs manager for many different parts.
@@TheDiamondNet Yes, that's exactly right! And according to Richard Schwartz school of thought, that 3 year old girl you spoke of was most likely an Exile. But if that's the case, there most likely was a Protector part for that Exile, either a Manager protector or a Firefighter protector, or both. Idk if you know what those are or not, but since you looked into IFS before, I'm just gonna assume you know what those are, lol. So, I guess what I'm leading up to is, if that was indeed an Exile part, did you come into contact of its Protectors? And if so, what were they, and if not, do you think Schwartz was wrong about this idea?
In one of your videos you mentioned the notion of protector aspects, is Richard Schwartz idea of Protectors what you were talking about? Or were you thinking of something different?
I guess what I'm trying to do is merge the two schools of thought together. Schwartz methodology is more simplistic when it comes to the unconscious compared to Jung (as you said, it's a more user-friendly approach), but both Schwartz and Jung may be completely right about it all, or one may be off and the other not. It's just hard to know who I should believe, so I go for both, lol.
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Wow, I’ve been watching your videos for about 2 years off and on through my own self exploration and “journey”
I have to say, you are incredibly articulate with your words and intention. I am currently going through my own self exploration and also studying to hopefully one day become a psychedelic integration coach. It is clear you have done a lot of internal work on yourself, otherwise you wouldn’t be able to articulate as well. I found that once I started REALLY loving myself, my words came out so much easier and I was able to communicate on a different level. Thank you for your openness and compassion to help others find their true selves. Looking forward to the 2 hour shadow work class!
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