How To Help Someone You Know When They Have Been Hospitalised | Practical Ways Of Support

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  • @SangoLifeSutras
    @SangoLifeSutras  13 днів тому +3

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    • @swatijain1104
      @swatijain1104 13 днів тому

      Sir, ek aur perspective hai...log primary attendant ko phone calls karke bhi bahut dukhi karte hai...primary attendant already bahut busy hota h...log formality wale calls bahut karte hai or gyan bahut dete h wo band hona chahiye

    • @shashibhushan3289
      @shashibhushan3289 13 днів тому

      buddhe tere ko hi jyada clarity hai life ki

    • @jaijagannath
      @jaijagannath 13 днів тому

      I have done same thing when my friends father suffered from cancer I have researched lots of you tube Manny video and and listen all the time when he was emotional 😭
      But I feel always guilty comparing with other who gave some fruits and some money but I can't afford that
      Believe me that time listening when someone feel pain they feel very much sukoon and Santosh more than some so called chindi si money Dena piche aakar chugli karna so called society standard maintain karne keliye

    • @amritanshumishra1699
      @amritanshumishra1699 13 днів тому

      ​@@shashibhushan3289Use respectful words here.

    • @sanatani-543
      @sanatani-543 12 днів тому

      Bhai chalta nahi ye… count hajri hi hoti hai… personal experience

  • @Akshay499
    @Akshay499 13 днів тому +72

    Worst are parents who bring their kids to the hospital. The kids don't even know or care about the patient most of the time and create nuisance.

  • @prernasharma1307
    @prernasharma1307 13 днів тому +82

    Good one.... I always get irritated when people come and have chai, talk and go back.... Sometimes expect food as well

    • @swatijain1104
      @swatijain1104 13 днів тому +19

      Yes, this is true. Log bimar ko dekhne jate h or wahan pe bhi guest wala treatment expect karte h...this really needs to stop

    • @INSANE-uz5ks
      @INSANE-uz5ks 12 днів тому +2

      But family is different my mother made tea and snacks from home give all the people in hospital whoever are related to patient

  • @swethaanthony4958
    @swethaanthony4958 13 днів тому +18

    Recently a friend helped with precooked meals and weekly fresh vegetables and fruits truly appreciated their help. I was totally free from daily shopping.

  • @ayushisharma5783
    @ayushisharma5783 13 днів тому +20

    200 percent sahi baat. Main to parwah bhi nahi karti ki log kya kahenge. I just sincerely pray to God for the patient and family and try to do financial support. Because I know it is too much burden for the caretakers whether it is hospital or it is home.

  • @SunburnX
    @SunburnX 13 днів тому +27

    Here is the summary:
    Practical ways to support a friend or relative who has been hospitalized, including helping with childcare, providing meals, assisting with household tasks, and offering emotional support.

  • @anupamtripathifinance
    @anupamtripathifinance 12 днів тому +2

    Guru ji is absolutely right! ❤❤
    Bacho ko school se le aao, unke ghar mein maid se safai kara lo, apna driver gaadi bhej do, fal fruits dahi bhej do, bahar ho toh 25000₹ transfer kar do! ❤❤ lagan picture kisi tarah saari feilding ek ho jagah nahi lagani chahiye.
    Hospitals 🏥 are blood sucking and money sucking places, don't go there as tourists on vacation. It's not healthy, don't overcrowd them. ❤❤

  • @rishabh55
    @rishabh55 13 днів тому +3

    - Help the primary attendant (pick kids from school, pick food, help with money)
    - Help with reports, second opinion of doctors, therapy and what medical equipments to buy
    -Break for primary attendant, Send driver for help

  • @pinkyarora2689
    @pinkyarora2689 13 днів тому +26

    Hospitals should charge visitors charges and that amount should be deducted from the patient's bill.

    • @abhishekpawar921
      @abhishekpawar921 12 днів тому

      Not affordable to all!

    • @ayanbhattacharjee1076
      @ayanbhattacharjee1076 12 днів тому

      Also charge a heavy fine if the same visitor visits a certain no. of times + put a temporary ban

    • @90skalaunda
      @90skalaunda 3 дні тому

      nope. it should be charged from the visitors only.

  • @manjular3678
    @manjular3678 4 дні тому +1

    True guruji. Covid scare is gone. There are always some permanent crowds at the hospital. Each patient gets atleast five visitors both mornings & evenings. They pick up noisy fights with the security when denied entry. It's a familiar scene at most Indian ICUs. Rules flouted and the patients isolation hygiene disregarded. Some argue that they have come directly from the railway station or the airport only to see the patient. Some will keep calling up, demanding updates about the patients
    Thank you guruji🙏

  • @jonam2608
    @jonam2608 13 днів тому +10

    Gyan, man aur dimaag ke chakhsu kholne wale, aap ko shat shat Pranam! Life changing advice!

  • @ankursharma4085
    @ankursharma4085 13 днів тому +4

    Bilkul sahi bat kahi sir apne.
    Log sirf hazri lagane jaate. Help koi nahi karta.

  • @90skalaunda
    @90skalaunda 3 дні тому +1

    I truly think that this is one of the most important message for everyone. I also don't like visiting hospitals or even the place of any sufferer just for the sake to it. I always feel that if that person really means something to me, then I should either help that person practically or just don't do anything instead of just visiting their place and saying "kya ho gaya? ohho.. dhyaan rakho. kya kaha doctor ne? achcha chalo chalte hain, iske papa etc etc ko kal office/school bhi jana hai. achcha dhyaan rakhna" What is this bullshit?

    • @KPKomal
      @KPKomal 2 дні тому

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Anvesh_Parmar
    @Anvesh_Parmar 12 днів тому +1

    Great thaught sir
    this message should be understood by maximum...
    Recently my father underwent major surgery, I didn't informed any relative , because I am unable to attend them as guest in hospital...
    Superb content

  • @arjunsworld205
    @arjunsworld205 13 днів тому +4

    Sir hamare yahan koi nahi samjhane wala… aap jo bol rahe hain.. I used to advocate this but I was called selfish ..
    my family loves khichdi in any form .. relationships as well

  • @nipasheth151
    @nipasheth151 11 днів тому +2

    We do exactly the same as u say because in my younger days we did all dikhava after my marriage specially so now we just ask for help only and my daughters who r also married ,they also advise us same .

  • @ayashkantdeo8545
    @ayashkantdeo8545 13 днів тому +2

    Thankfully, we have ingrown in this culture and we always do this kind of madad only 😄. As taught by my parents.

  • @padmanabhadutta8113
    @padmanabhadutta8113 12 днів тому +2

    Mukjhe aisa hinlagta tha , thanks for posting this video, gave the clarity.

  • @mayahansraj1714
    @mayahansraj1714 12 днів тому +2

    We are already doing this from last 10years but sometimes relatives don't understand this.

  • @jyotiprakash1187
    @jyotiprakash1187 13 днів тому +1

    Great insights u shared how to help patient when hospitalised. It happened with me 3 times when I went to help my grandfather he was cancer patient. My maternal uncle nd my grandmother. Most of relatives created crowd in hospital. For what they all go none of them help in anything no financial, no nutritional thing they give. Nd most importantly no one see reports of patients nd consult with doctor in critical diseases like cancer or any other to consult doctor first of current status of patient nd needs of medicines specific meal requirements so that it can help directly patient. But very less people do. Just do show off by meeting patient in hospital like a party place.

  • @himanginisharma7882
    @himanginisharma7882 13 днів тому +1

    There are many who don't think this way , it is must share content eye opener for many. 👍

  • @ayusharchives644
    @ayusharchives644 13 днів тому +4

    Bilkul sahi baat..
    Sirf haazri mat lagao

  • @shilpis6304
    @shilpis6304 13 днів тому +5

    This is very right....hospital ja kar there is no value addition ...bimar hone ka chances alag ....wahan attendance lagane kabkoi Matlab nahi hai

  • @Hetal28
    @Hetal28 13 днів тому +8

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
    Much needed topic
    Again you have brought sensitive topic and very lightly humorously given a very clear message
    Your this channel is ⭐️GOLD⭐️

  • @zahrabjinu
    @zahrabjinu 13 днів тому +4

    I don’t think people are willing to offer practical help. People do obligatory visit once and then directly come for funeral. That’s what i have experienced. Those who visit are usually cordial faroff friends and relatives just hajri laganey ke liye

  • @amritanshumishra1699
    @amritanshumishra1699 13 днів тому +3

    Who wants Guruji to make video on pre marital sex and dowry, Please make video on such tough social topics.

  • @PratapShinde
    @PratapShinde 12 днів тому

    Sir , yours is one of the ONLY UA-cam channels which adds value to life.
    Thank you for being there .

  • @dkTruthBuster
    @dkTruthBuster 12 днів тому

    This man is a genius. Even though I have difficulty understanding Hindi, I try to figure it out with the help of comments below. He can speak good English and I hope he mixes it in the conversation. He can double the subscribers especially people like me from the south.
    Fresh and unique perspective in various day to day activities one goes through in life

  • @jrfanjali3636
    @jrfanjali3636 13 днів тому +1

    True sir
    We are till going to this situation.
    We know I how many different one family gone through.

  • @radhikasingh8535
    @radhikasingh8535 13 днів тому

    Dil ko sukoon Dene wala topic hai !

  • @padmvathiuppalpati2658
    @padmvathiuppalpati2658 13 днів тому +1

    100 % true ,we must realy change from just showoff

  • @Apex1008
    @Apex1008 13 днів тому +1

    Wonderful topic

  • @Self-love-mastery
    @Self-love-mastery 13 днів тому

    So well said! ❤️✨

  • @badiyabaatein
    @badiyabaatein 7 днів тому

    bikul sahi content aata hai aapke khyaal me Sir.

  • @renubhalla9005
    @renubhalla9005 13 днів тому

    Very rightly advised🙏🙏

  • @leenandsouza
    @leenandsouza 13 днів тому +4

    Most practical advice Amit Sir.. Thank you! 🙏

  • @t00862
    @t00862 13 днів тому +2

    Sir, single girl child ki life ki problems ke upar bhi video banayiye.

  • @sageofsixpaths98
    @sageofsixpaths98 13 днів тому +1

    Well said 💯

  • @Amitsingh-dn4dx
    @Amitsingh-dn4dx 13 днів тому +1

    Thank you so much Guruji.

  • @ShaunakDhanwanee3033
    @ShaunakDhanwanee3033 13 днів тому +3

    What a wonderful topic Guruji 🌈👏✨

  • @hfmleasing444
    @hfmleasing444 13 днів тому

    Wonderful advice.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @shardasingh1573
    @shardasingh1573 13 днів тому

    So true you are exposing this topic.As I am concern, though now I am 65+ but always make it a point not to tell anybody about illness or any hospital or treatment kind of things because it is useless, visiting hours in hospitals are always chaotic.Visiters make so much rush , infact it becomes headache,you have to explain to everyone about patients.So I think this video must reach as many as possible so that people can learn how to help caretaker.😊 Thanks a lot.😊

  • @anilmalhotra7947
    @anilmalhotra7947 13 днів тому +2

    You have stolen my ❤.....attendance is not necessary to register your concern

  • @ushakapoor5565
    @ushakapoor5565 11 днів тому +1

    Thanks for awareness sir 🙏

  • @seemamanchanda7405
    @seemamanchanda7405 12 днів тому

    Very true, very practical, I fully agree with you

  • @chandrima1962
    @chandrima1962 13 днів тому

    Very good point you have come up with. There should be someone to emotionaly support and help out the caregiver in the hospital with the running about and talking to the doctors. Doing these things and keeping a watch on the patient together is difficult for a single person. Sometimes when a dear one is in hospital we are nervous and need someone beside us. Going there just to give attendance and nothing else is definitely not desired.

  • @rajindergupta6179
    @rajindergupta6179 13 днів тому +4

    Guruji how you are awesome every time . Pl tell me the secret. Excellent thoughts as always.

  • @scorpio9414
    @scorpio9414 13 днів тому +1

    wow srsly sir hats off kya idea he. Yaad rakhunga ye aage kaaam paka ayega

  • @nishantnikam2996
    @nishantnikam2996 13 днів тому +1

    Good advise, this situation comes in everyone's life so very helpful tips.

  • @kritikaissar
    @kritikaissar 13 днів тому +3

    Best video..Eye opener

  • @Lifeofsunny10
    @Lifeofsunny10 13 днів тому

    Kyaa baat hai guruji🙏

  • @rupeshghanekar2058
    @rupeshghanekar2058 13 днів тому +1

    Ekkdam.....nabz...pakdi...aapne Guruji...

  • @mariaj4
    @mariaj4 13 днів тому +6

    Bhaisahab how to be practical with impractical rishtedaars? Ones that dnt understand others priorities of their own lives?

  • @madhuk1111
    @madhuk1111 12 днів тому

    very practical advice sir !

  • @Gayatri-lk8eb
    @Gayatri-lk8eb 11 днів тому +1

    Very nice topic.sir ji.

  • @sreenivaspai5066
    @sreenivaspai5066 7 днів тому

    Very valid points!!!!!

  • @sachindarandale1379
    @sachindarandale1379 13 днів тому

    Too good guruji!!!

  • @shrutimalhotra6548
    @shrutimalhotra6548 12 днів тому +1

    ALL UR IDEAS ARE SUPER WONDERFUL🎉🎉

  • @protonsteelbuildings2539
    @protonsteelbuildings2539 12 днів тому +1

    Very practical. Thnx❤

  • @himanshubhola9167
    @himanshubhola9167 13 днів тому +1

    Very nice topic covered and I like your suggestion sir👍

  • @user-mt2ux7hn7k
    @user-mt2ux7hn7k 13 днів тому

    Good idea

  • @maheshkhanai1278
    @maheshkhanai1278 13 днів тому

    Nice video Guruji

  • @sagittariustiger1366
    @sagittariustiger1366 13 днів тому

    Very nice

  • @p85976
    @p85976 13 днів тому +2

    Sir please make video for ...if someone has paased away and some people are not forgetting....

  • @user-bc2kk8qc6i
    @user-bc2kk8qc6i 13 днів тому +2

    Very sensitive.

  • @amanChauhan-dy1ko
    @amanChauhan-dy1ko 13 днів тому +1

    Great sir❤

  • @KavitaSingh.
    @KavitaSingh. 13 днів тому

    Right sir

  • @user-mt2ux7hn7k
    @user-mt2ux7hn7k 13 днів тому +2

    But kuch emotional fool hote hai jo bolte hai ye milne nahi aaya lol

  • @Techbook094
    @Techbook094 13 днів тому +2

    Sir Khandaani families wealth 🤑 k liye properties buy krte hai. .......uski thodi clarity chahiye

  • @aamirmalik9996
    @aamirmalik9996 12 днів тому

    Guru g 🙏
    Mein Pakistan se ❤

  • @chetanaborkar4910
    @chetanaborkar4910 10 днів тому

    Such beautiful content

  • @deepikashishodia3063
    @deepikashishodia3063 12 днів тому

    hospital ke pas jo relative rahta hai, wo khana pahucha hi deta hi, but jo visiter (relatives)aate hai wo bhi pura welcome, khana, chai , ye soch kar aate hai, wo hospital ke pas hi rahte hai, waha.lunch mil hi jayga😂

  • @mayankc3779
    @mayankc3779 12 днів тому

    Appreciate 👍

  • @shivarajbhusad3162
    @shivarajbhusad3162 13 днів тому

    Agree

  • @Rokss4141
    @Rokss4141 13 днів тому

    Jo Chize hamare back of mind me hoti hai ya antar aatma me hoti hai Jinhe hum express me nahi Kar paate wo aap Bata dete hai

  • @sushantpradhan8216
    @sushantpradhan8216 13 днів тому +2

    8:35 dark side😅

  • @meenupawar6311
    @meenupawar6311 12 днів тому

    Very good content

  • @geetikasingh2770
    @geetikasingh2770 12 днів тому

    Agree 💯👍

  • @gopalgarg5298
    @gopalgarg5298 12 днів тому

    Nice sir

  • @historicaleducationsocial
    @historicaleducationsocial 13 днів тому +1

  • @user-tj9rz6zk4p
    @user-tj9rz6zk4p 13 днів тому

    🙏🏻👏🏻

  • @rajc1382
    @rajc1382 13 днів тому

    ❤❤

  • @mshoaib9531
    @mshoaib9531 13 днів тому

    it is re-uploaded...

  • @redguitarwarrior2179
    @redguitarwarrior2179 13 днів тому

    💯

  • @567gvs
    @567gvs 12 днів тому

    Many patients like me want people to come and meet and talk joking laughing is very soothing for patient also patient feels there are friends so visit and chit chat is very good

  • @bhaktisadhna011
    @bhaktisadhna011 13 днів тому +1

    Sir ap hospital jake thakwt ki bat kr re ho.mere toh car se aise hi market se ana jana krlu thakwat hojati h bina kaam k.jbki life me sb kuj h shanti h.khana b thik h frr b..husband se every time me drive kr k gya tu phle thk jati h

  • @sushmajuyal2053
    @sushmajuyal2053 13 днів тому

    👌👍✌️

  • @rahulgolikeri1187
    @rahulgolikeri1187 13 днів тому

    👌👍🙏

  • @pankajsolanki7428
    @pankajsolanki7428 13 днів тому +3

    Guruji namaskar pr is baat se is baar agree nhi kr paunga phli baat to jao na to hmare yha jaaton m bolde h time bhi na h ek baar bhi dhekne na aaye to jane m bhi dikkt or na jaane m bhi or dusri ye physiotherapy ya kuch bhi btaye to bolenge bhi dur se gyaan diye jara h yha aake kre kuch to btaye hum din raat lg rhe h or bo dur se gyaan de rhe h

  • @deepikashishodia3063
    @deepikashishodia3063 12 днів тому

    Aate hue chai hi le aaye, caretaker par burden to nhi padega, gadi bhar ke aate haai, waha unka welcome, khana, chai aur karo, chai, khana le family ko.purchase to nhi karna padega.

  • @mayankbansal250
    @mayankbansal250 7 днів тому

    Sir, roti ke ulhane deti h duniya baad me.

  • @kuldeep7040
    @kuldeep7040 13 днів тому

    Ab toh bua mousi chacha hai hi nahi

  • @ajaydua2685
    @ajaydua2685 13 днів тому +3

    Aap bade Shaitaan ho......Last 8:34 to 8:42 ...

  • @user-yo4cw4zo1e
    @user-yo4cw4zo1e 13 днів тому

    Ex muslim बन रहे है करोडो मुस्लिम दुनिया में

  • @basedbased8430
    @basedbased8430 13 днів тому +1

    Ek Blood relative walo ke liye bhi bana do video.

  • @rajindergupta6179
    @rajindergupta6179 13 днів тому +2

    Guruji , how you are awesome every time. Pl tell me the secret. Excellent thoughts as always

  • @VaibhavGoswami-kr6hv
    @VaibhavGoswami-kr6hv 13 днів тому

  • @SandeepSinghFoodTravel
    @SandeepSinghFoodTravel 12 днів тому