Ep. 356: Having Kids With Your Best Friend ft.

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  • @lifewithkalina7305
    @lifewithkalina7305 11 місяців тому +117

    "this is the first time we talked all morning" I HOLLERED! ok Queen keep it real LMAO, Love her energy!

  • @ashleythomas6186
    @ashleythomas6186 11 місяців тому +163

    I loved how Heather said 4 and included his first daughter 🥹💙

    • @CeeShelli
      @CeeShelli 11 місяців тому +12

      It took her 2 tries.

    • @jaydutch_
      @jaydutch_ 11 місяців тому +11

      She was saying she has 3, and pointed at him and said he has 4

  • @Sweetheart888_
    @Sweetheart888_ 11 місяців тому +58

    TRELL is always supportive of Heather, that’s why she be getting to that MONEY we need more men like this, support and give confidence to your woman, woman can achieve so many great things with support

    • @mitchy2311
      @mitchy2311 11 місяців тому +5

      Women gotta be willing to lock in and support the right men, not the bums that's dickmatizing them

    • @Sweetheart888_
      @Sweetheart888_ 11 місяців тому

      @@mitchy2311 facts

  • @nesraloo95
    @nesraloo95 11 місяців тому +138

    Noooo way yall have Heather and TRell!! The dream link up I never thought would happen 😭🤯😍🍊🍊🍊

    • @ifrr8337
      @ifrr8337 11 місяців тому +1

      🍓🍊❤️

    • @ceeceero
      @ceeceero 11 місяців тому +4

      When I see them on the thumbnail all I can hear is “oranges in the chat” 🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊

    • @ifrr8337
      @ifrr8337 11 місяців тому

      @@ceeceero Same! 👏🤣🍊

    • @TheBoy-ze2fw
      @TheBoy-ze2fw 11 місяців тому +1

      Strawberries in the chat!

  • @shaiallen8892
    @shaiallen8892 11 місяців тому +27

    “Give me my baby bitch “😂😂😂😂 nah that’s a serious conversation but they make it funny with they commentary.

  • @samjp12345
    @samjp12345 11 місяців тому +60

    I love the honesty of their long term relationship. I feel like most couples on podcasts lie about things to make them look better. Coming from a 10+ year relationship myself, thank you FINALLY!!!

  • @MamaB_orjustB
    @MamaB_orjustB 11 місяців тому +49

    OMG TRELL HAS BEEN TALKING ABOUT THESE TWO FOR YEARS!! SO EXCITEDDDD THEY LINKED!

  • @Ibfstar
    @Ibfstar 11 місяців тому +15

    Real interview w a real couple. “ first time we talked all morning” is REAL LOVE and REAL LIFE

  • @anailcaudillo1055
    @anailcaudillo1055 11 місяців тому +79

    I have covid. The Bell’s palsy moment almost sent me to the ER. I have to come back and watch this when I’m healthy because I almost died laughing.

    • @antJaxStar
      @antJaxStar 11 місяців тому +12

      Prayers up for a Speedy Recovery! 🙏🏽🤩🙏🏽

    • @karickasoul5059
      @karickasoul5059 11 місяців тому +5

      Commenting so you can come back to laugh..... because it's good for the soul. Get better soon 🙏🏾

    • @antJaxStar
      @antJaxStar 11 місяців тому +3

      How You Feelin' Today Sweety?

    • @anailcaudillo1055
      @anailcaudillo1055 11 місяців тому +6

      @@antJaxStar you are such a sweet person to check on me like that. I feel much much better. I can finally breathe. Thank you for checking in on me. ❤️

    • @anailcaudillo1055
      @anailcaudillo1055 11 місяців тому +2

      @@karickasoul5059 thank you so much! I really appreciate your words. Happy Valentine’s Day.

  • @kb51422
    @kb51422 11 місяців тому +26

    This was such a real life relationship 🙌🏾 I really felt Heather, the message can absolutely get lost in the delivery and cause you to shut down and be over it

  • @r.a.8407
    @r.a.8407 7 місяців тому +4

    Damn thier signs are a perfect match it makes so much sense seeing thier relationship

  • @Kblackmoss
    @Kblackmoss 11 місяців тому +17

    This is the only podcast where even guest episodes are just as interesting as solo episodes. The way y’all line the questions just flows so well!! Great job per usual ❤

  • @willowbrown6797
    @willowbrown6797 11 місяців тому +68

    I really appreciate them sharing the nuances of their relationship. Her honesty around her emotions throughout her pregnancies is important for ao many folks.

    • @CedricWalton-f5w
      @CedricWalton-f5w 11 місяців тому +2

      Nuance was great word selection I love when human beings use venactulars

  • @drewstar8611
    @drewstar8611 11 місяців тому +115

    ‘Fucking me when I had Bell’s palsy’ is CRAZY!!! 😂😂😂😂

    • @BACKONFIGGG
      @BACKONFIGGG 11 місяців тому +15

      Yes sir!!!

    • @floweroftheuni
      @floweroftheuni 11 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Inspirewithkay
    @Inspirewithkay 11 місяців тому +7

    The way he talks about Heather you can tell he truly loves her. They have real chemistry ❤

  • @slo401
    @slo401 11 місяців тому +33

    “I will never date a short Jamaican in my life” 😂😩😭

  • @ashleyydeniece
    @ashleyydeniece 11 місяців тому +32

    I don’t have kids but I really loved hearing their story especially the male perspective

  • @Lawa_kun
    @Lawa_kun 11 місяців тому +56

    Heather's mother being disgusted by Adam16 and Lena's line of work is hilarious

    • @smome777
      @smome777 11 місяців тому +9

      Adam16 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @antJaxStar
      @antJaxStar 11 місяців тому

      I chuckled at that too ​@@smome777

    • @Montrealsfinest87
      @Montrealsfinest87 11 місяців тому

      STOP MESSAGING MY MOTHER ON FACEBOOK

    • @cat0707
      @cat0707 11 місяців тому

      Not adam16 😂😂😂😂😂😂 BYE

  • @kendralewis7414
    @kendralewis7414 11 місяців тому +8

    When she said “this the first time we talked all morning” I fell the fuck OUT!! I mean on the floor!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @amandaworley8358
    @amandaworley8358 11 місяців тому +13

    This couple was so relatable for me! Loved the dynamic of them with M&W. ❤

  • @shimmydeens
    @shimmydeens 11 місяців тому +16

    I love how open the couple is…

  • @MsBlackIntrovert
    @MsBlackIntrovert 11 місяців тому +24

    Mandii outfits never miss ✨

  • @shrewdshrew35
    @shrewdshrew35 11 місяців тому +22

    i love this couple!!!! lmao The Bells palsy joke story was funny and beautiful. I loved this convo!

  • @alisharobinson3111
    @alisharobinson3111 11 місяців тому +6

    This episode was so refreshing. It was so nice to see a married couple on the pod. Loved it! Keep doing yo thang.

  • @vickyathena3353
    @vickyathena3353 11 місяців тому +3

    Love the transparency and how they make it funny😂

  • @Tyra_Night
    @Tyra_Night 11 місяців тому +25

    Apparently I’m the only one who doesn’t know this couple … but I tell ya im not aspiring for a union like this BUT I truly appreciate their HONESTY & AUTHENTICITY 😂

    • @berenicei.7283
      @berenicei.7283 11 місяців тому +1

      I feel the exact same way! 😩

  • @Inspirewithkay
    @Inspirewithkay 11 місяців тому +2

    They’re one of my favorite couples. So relatable and I love even more that they came on here after a night of having an argument. It was like a therapy session. And they’re both transparent my bf always tells me my attitude is my downfall too so that’s so relatable !

  • @ceeceero
    @ceeceero 11 місяців тому +3

    I love heather and Trell. They’re such an inspiring duo and their content is soooo much fun!

  • @capricorn0103
    @capricorn0103 11 місяців тому +1

    20 minutes into this and I'm absolutely loving the vibes ❤ you're all hilarious and the conversation flowed very naturally. Can't wait to watch more!

  • @katarinaskinner1704
    @katarinaskinner1704 11 місяців тому +4

    I’ve been with my husband for 14 years and he is WAY better at communicating than me 😅 we have three kids and we are still working on how to better communicate with each other. It’s just a work in progress. He’s amazing.

  • @ellaellela656
    @ellaellela656 11 місяців тому +2

    Im so happy to see another couple stayin together through everything. I’ve been married 14 years and we don’t see many like us.

  • @ceelove7092
    @ceelove7092 11 місяців тому +4

    I haven’t laughed this hard in awhile 🤣 that Bell’s palsy took me out 🤣

  • @loveleneee
    @loveleneee 11 місяців тому +11

    I'm one of the female fans of BOF stream/pod and I appreciate that he acknowledges that we do need that female voice in the room even if it's just once a week. Cause I be in the chat fighting for my life

    • @AlexiCalzadilla
      @AlexiCalzadilla 11 місяців тому +4

      HAHAHA BC SAME ❤🤣

    • @honeybee591
      @honeybee591 11 місяців тому

      😭😭😭😭 sameeee! 🤝

  • @amandar8699
    @amandar8699 11 місяців тому +5

    I can relate to Heather with being afraid of getting married because of all the divorces I’ve seen but we are now coming up on 2 years of marriage. I think the key is to do what works for yall and not suddenly shift your expectations when you get married.

  • @JaPaulHobson-j3p
    @JaPaulHobson-j3p 11 місяців тому +10

    Love Mandi and Cream Medin tryna figure out how to get over those tough sister road bumps. Keep working girlies yall got it.

  • @domelese
    @domelese 11 місяців тому +8

    I loved this episode!! ❤❤❤ wish it was longer

  • @nicolebabi1314
    @nicolebabi1314 11 місяців тому +3

    I love that u have them on the show!!!!!! They need to be at the Black Effect pod event !!! This was great and I have been enjoying the free flowing feel of Back on Figg!

  • @Mamalinds22
    @Mamalinds22 11 місяців тому +2

    Very appreciative of Heather’s vulnerability around her PPD. Sending love to all who have experienced it or are in it now ❤

  • @Valeriapeaches4
    @Valeriapeaches4 11 місяців тому +8

    I freaking love them !! Trell funny af

  • @brittanidavis4877
    @brittanidavis4877 11 місяців тому +8

    This might be my favorite episode so far! I couldn't stop laughing. They kept it so real!

  • @alexisbri
    @alexisbri 11 місяців тому +12

    “im married ngga bye” 🙄😂😂😂😂

  • @taycharlese
    @taycharlese 3 місяці тому

    Been following Heather for like 10 years, since high school! She has stood the test of time 😊 STILL THAT GIRL

  • @daniellejackson1764
    @daniellejackson1764 11 місяців тому +7

    Fav episode I loved this!!

  • @TKris95
    @TKris95 11 місяців тому +3

    Heather was so real and raw, loved this episode!

  • @lorelailuna
    @lorelailuna 11 місяців тому +9

    Aw! My favorite couple, can’t wait to see how this goes 🥰

  • @cicelyinamerica
    @cicelyinamerica 11 місяців тому +3

    Trell is a man sent from GOD! he's so understanding and i love him and heather's relationship!!

  • @Youadorejessy
    @Youadorejessy 11 місяців тому +4

    Loooooveeee this! Fair to say this is a great one! 🧡🍊

    • @ifrr8337
      @ifrr8337 11 місяців тому +2

      🍓❤️🍊

  • @itsjust_destj7189
    @itsjust_destj7189 11 місяців тому +3

    I love this podcast so much! Heather and Trell!!!

  • @savvyd2343
    @savvyd2343 11 місяців тому +11

    My two worlds collide!!!! Super excited to watch🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 🍊 🍊 🍊 🍊 🍊 🍊 🍊

  • @natalie-rosejoseph4278
    @natalie-rosejoseph4278 11 місяців тому +9

    This interview was amazing. I love them together, but this just showed them in another light that we haven't seen.
    I love Heather's honesty: "We haven't spoken all day till now".
    Great podcast. I just subscribed to WHOREible Decisions because of this interview.
    ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

  • @clarissagonzalez5969
    @clarissagonzalez5969 11 місяців тому +2

    loved watching this podcasts!! they’re always keepin it real🧡🧡also heather is so damn BEAUTIFUL!!

  • @JavyJxnes
    @JavyJxnes 11 місяців тому +6

    As a brit the description has me DEAD🤣🤣 🇬🇧 “get off your 🐱 p “
    sounds chill but… fanny??😂😂 yall got me crying🤣😭🤣

  • @lovejoy6710
    @lovejoy6710 9 місяців тому +1

    I love this so much! Been following trell and heather since DAY ONE! & i must say, we all have experienced the things they go through and many may be wondering well why didn’t me and my guy/girl didn’t make it.. as a believer i feel like God is why they made it. They were meant for each other & when you’re meant for one another NOTHING can break that couple. I pray y’all get married and make it 🙌🏾🫶🏾❤️

  • @Kiara__Says
    @Kiara__Says 11 місяців тому +15

    Yeahhh you can definitely tell they were beefing before this 😂

  • @baionimikhayl1157
    @baionimikhayl1157 11 місяців тому +3

    This episode is EVERYTHING ✨

  • @kvlcowan2537
    @kvlcowan2537 11 місяців тому +2

    This is one of my fave coupes lol been following Heather since the tumblr days!!

  • @gesselberry6499
    @gesselberry6499 11 місяців тому +2

    You two always crack me up! Don't eat off Weezy's countertop and don't sit on the studio couch. LMAO

  • @s80zbaybee
    @s80zbaybee 11 місяців тому +1

    I freaken love them!!!! Cheers to relationships like this and "boring s3x" we out here living our best life lol

  • @key_possible
    @key_possible 11 місяців тому +3

    Rell always gives uncle vibes lol. Good guy. Love Heather❤❤

  • @syckindahead
    @syckindahead 11 місяців тому +2

    Great episode that could've lasted longer. I'm not familiar with them and appreciated them sharing part of their experiences. I'll check out their socials. Thanks WD!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @almxo_
    @almxo_ 11 місяців тому +5

    Oh wow!!! Ayeee🥳🥳🥳 🍊 🍊 I’m here for it!

  • @tatyanacierra1
    @tatyanacierra1 11 місяців тому +3

    Omg I’m so excited for this!!!

  • @antJaxStar
    @antJaxStar 11 місяців тому +4

    Great Episode Gurls!!!!
    I Needed a Distraction, My Mental Health is WAY OFF!!!

  • @machiinegunfunkk
    @machiinegunfunkk 11 місяців тому +6

    🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊never thought id see this crossover. c’monnn!!!!

  • @nareenscott2589
    @nareenscott2589 11 місяців тому +3

    This episode was GOOD! They were both cute and funny!

  • @Kyshalise
    @Kyshalise 11 місяців тому

    I love how honest she was

  • @MVPBRE
    @MVPBRE 11 місяців тому +3

    Dis was dope Shoutout Trell and Heather!! BOF

  • @elizabethharrison-lowe9596
    @elizabethharrison-lowe9596 11 місяців тому +2

    Loved this episode!

  • @CedricWalton-f5w
    @CedricWalton-f5w 11 місяців тому +4

    The funniest episode 😂😂😂 T rell hilarious

  • @daniellejackson1764
    @daniellejackson1764 11 місяців тому +3

    Omg yesss I can’t wait to watch this. I love them

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae1396 11 місяців тому +2

    I’m loving this episode!❤

  • @lenoxtravels
    @lenoxtravels 11 місяців тому

    Love that these two worlds collided! Love all y’all!

  • @LighthouseJaye
    @LighthouseJaye 11 місяців тому +1

    Wow this is a beautiful episode.🤍

  • @Luolabutterfly
    @Luolabutterfly 11 місяців тому +3

    This was so good girls 😁🥰🫶🏾

  • @amberrenelle
    @amberrenelle 11 місяців тому +26

    Ummmm is his side tooth missing 😂😂😂😂Ain’t no way boi 😂😂😂😂

    • @Husalah100
      @Husalah100 11 місяців тому

      😂😂😂

    • @TuuMammi
      @TuuMammi 11 місяців тому

      My exact thoughts. 💭

    • @GrowingwithRome
      @GrowingwithRome 9 місяців тому

      Idk why I thought he had it capped the way the rappers do it now

  • @mmonitx
    @mmonitx 7 місяців тому

    What a great episode. I love you ladies ❤

  • @Ceetastic90
    @Ceetastic90 11 місяців тому +12

    Heather & Tarell!?!? Never thought this would happen. I’m so happy! 🔥🔥

  • @fonneishawright4380
    @fonneishawright4380 11 місяців тому +1

    Love them!!! Excited for this 🫶🏽

  • @h789456123123
    @h789456123123 11 місяців тому +9

    Stet is around!

  • @MIKEFRANKK
    @MIKEFRANKK 11 місяців тому +13

    OH SHIT. BOF x WD 🔥

  • @shaksmartmurals8212
    @shaksmartmurals8212 11 місяців тому +9

    Trell gotta a great one , good morals salute

  • @yazminlopez6534
    @yazminlopez6534 11 місяців тому +3

    Great pod great questions 🔥🔥🔥🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊

  • @chanilovebreezy25
    @chanilovebreezy25 11 місяців тому +8

    wow been following Treather for so long since Heather was Gorcheeeesss lol I learned new shit about them today this was a good one

    • @Jd-nc4uh
      @Jd-nc4uh 11 місяців тому +2

      Damn you must be old lol

    • @chanilovebreezy25
      @chanilovebreezy25 11 місяців тому

      lmaooo 32 ,not that old damn @@Jd-nc4uh

    • @robbinhatchett4179
      @robbinhatchett4179 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@Jd-nc4uh On God, they a day one before day ones were a thing

  • @danadane84
    @danadane84 11 місяців тому +4

    I enjoyed this episode

  • @godspeedrell
    @godspeedrell 11 місяців тому +2

    Great interview with Tiny Cuh & Hurricane Heather. 🍊🍊🍊🍓🍓🍓

  • @Coveredandfly
    @Coveredandfly 10 місяців тому

    Y’all have my laughing and crying!

  • @rainahines3515
    @rainahines3515 11 місяців тому +6

    I’m soooooo hype yall got my faves!!!!

  • @BarryTaylor-b7e
    @BarryTaylor-b7e 11 місяців тому +7

    He love him some Heather!

  • @AJayB89
    @AJayB89 5 місяців тому

    Mandi turnt it up this episode. Looking tf goodt!

  • @itsreallysho
    @itsreallysho 11 місяців тому +5

    FINALLY yall mfers all linked up. WE LIT!

  • @bigchop1388
    @bigchop1388 10 місяців тому +1

    Heather fried! 😂😂😂 they might be cool to hang around just for the vibes but podding, wasn’t no real intro or lead up to any questions they went right in like they wanna give Cuhh and Heather the MEOW 😂😂😂

  • @TheRavenloren
    @TheRavenloren 11 місяців тому +11

    Geminis mouth is crazy lmao like they literally not for the weak. But Aquarius can take it there too. Trust coming from a Libra 😂

    • @Wherethebag
      @Wherethebag 11 місяців тому +2

      Air signs 🤞🏽

    • @robbinhatchett4179
      @robbinhatchett4179 11 місяців тому

      ​@pjboykin Capricorn Season over here baby!! We the G.O.A.T.

  • @candacelovinlife2
    @candacelovinlife2 11 місяців тому +2

    I love this episode ⚡️

  • @LighthouseJaye
    @LighthouseJaye 11 місяців тому +1

    20:30 Communication is important but it's a process. Mandi, that's not something you can get out the gate with anyone, it's something you build. With dating first you connect, then you see if you want to pursue it seriously and if you do, that's when you need to open that door, be patient and say
    "Hey communication is real important for me, I'd like to know how you are when you're emotional and how we can communicate through it. Do we wait and communicate later or can we speak about it in real time? I'd like to know how you process and how we can process together."
    That's something that you (anyone) need to be open to working on with that person maybe 2/3months in or whenever you hit your first emotional barrier.
    (Off of Mandi) I think often women don't allow men the opportunity to learn in real time. We are raised to be "masculine" and in the black community that often means being emotionless and cold. Women also aren't all emotionally adept, and also need to learn how to communicate - like with this relationship - but with time and understanding (like them) you could have a really special relationship if you both choose each other while you work on yourselves and work together by being patient and open with each other. Nothing comes as a complete package, that's a lie taught through dating apps.

  • @tiffanysantiago8248
    @tiffanysantiago8248 11 місяців тому +4

    You two look beautiful. Bless!

  • @savvyd2343
    @savvyd2343 11 місяців тому +4

    🍓 🍓🍓 🍓 🍸🍸🍸🍸 strawberry daiquierrrrr!!!!!!!!!

  • @Wherethebag
    @Wherethebag 11 місяців тому +4

    Aquarius are normally pretty open to being freaky. They are a very honest about their relationship. Not giving all the right answers. i love the authenticity

  • @Shaantibihh
    @Shaantibihh 11 місяців тому +3

    Uncle waffles and then waffles in the mornin! You got good taste Weezy 🤣🤣 1:08:22

  • @chels1668
    @chels1668 11 місяців тому +1

    Love Mandii’s shoes. So cute!

  • @luisaenriquez1424
    @luisaenriquez1424 11 місяців тому +2

    I’ve been with my s.o to for 14 years and we’re not married either and there’s really no specific reason why. I just know we’re on our own timeline. I loved this episode.