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Look pretty, the support you need is people telling you you are perfectly valid, inhave a very small mouth, and is okay, you have to love yourself, trust me
I have some Insecurities about my nose being to small or I’m too fat or I’m too skinny or my legs are fat and my arms skinny and my hair is messy always and the way I dress
@@lemonlime_zuzu9101 i don't know you but let me tell you something. You're a great person, and being bi, gay, or any orientation or sexual identity does not change your positive qualities. I don't know if your parents are biphobic or just processing it in a negative way, but there's nothing to be ashamed of. It's really sad even today people don't see people of a different sexual orientation as equals, but you are, and will always be, a great person as long as you keep your qualities. Anyone who makes fun of, discriminates, or scoffs at this is flawed themselves: you're not at fault and you have nothing to be ashamed of.
Story: So 7 years ago i used to be very homophobic and I couldn't even look Gay/Trans etc. in the eyes till one day my friend who gathered his courage to tell his very openly homophobic friend they wanted to be a guy and was gay. I was horrified because they were my best friend so they told me to choose whether i would hate them for who they are and accept it and stay best friends. I didnt even need to think about it because at the time i was going through DCF and had to leave my Mom and live with grandparents so it was tough leaving my mom and house for practically strangers. I said to him that i would accept him but because it was sudden it would take time. POINT IS DONT HATE YOUR FRIENDS CAUSE OF WHO THEY ARE. (Thank you)
I came out to 2 of my friends and then I had a argument with 1 of them and then I have a crush on my other friend and now bc of the argument they don’t talk to me and I’m worried they will tell my crush I like her :/
don’t rush things, take your time, if you feel they’re gonna be mad with you, don’t come out. if you think that coming out can make your relationship with them bad, don’t do it
Thanks for showing that there are parents, siblings and friends who are truly loving and accepting. My daughter was 12 when she came out. Never for a moment did my love waver. ❤💜💙💚🧡❣❣
@Ella Boisvert it's hard to know when is the right time to share. However, knowing your parents aren't homophobic is a huge plus. Maybe drop small hints in questions??? As a parent I wasn't upset or disappointed in my daughter. But!! ... I did need time to process and even morn the idea that she may not have a traditional life. It may seem bad but I worried about how others would treat her (grandparents, her friends, homophobics, etc). But I did make sure she knew I loved her and accepted her as she is. I hope for you a future of acceptance and love❣❤🧡💚💙💜
@KAYLAH KORNEGAY take your time. I know you want to be able to shine. But let the light grow by finding who you can tell and feel safe doing it with. Talk with your Mom. She may be able to help you choose who to tell. Either way its up to you. I wish you love and acceptance now and always 💕
@Febe Baaren, van 1st of all you are 😎. And I understand the parent thinking it will go away " because your young and don't know yourself ". But you know yourself better then anyone on the planet. Some change to be Pan, Trans, Bi etc. But no matter be you. Know you are not alone and there is love for you to find. I hope you find supportive family and friends. Love ❣❤🧡💛💚💙💜
When I become a mom I'm gonna automatically assume my kids are bisexual. I want them to know they can date anyone or be anyone. They can come out to me as lesbian, gay, trans, queer, asexual, non- binary, straight, etc. My parents were never ok with me being bi and even though I'm married to a straight buy and pregnant that doesn't mean I'm straight.
The thing is that people dont suddenly become bi or lesbian or gay or whatever, they have been it their whole life, they just found out the moment they liked someone.
I personally agree. Other people might find it different but I think that's how it goes. If you come out as bi for example, you might have just noticed it or you had found out but had just started telling people. But truly wouldn't you have already been bi but just not known? It's the same for every gender, you might have grown up thinking you were whatever you were but the only reason you found out what you actually are must've been because you realized you had always been that way except know you know and recognize that.
So, I'm thirteen, almost fourteen, and I just came out as bi to my mom. Like, literally less than a hour ago. She said she was fine with it, but thinks I'm too young to know, so I shouldn't tell too many people, because if it's a phase (I told her that that "phase" started three years ago, but she didn't care) that wouldn't look good. I'm so sick of always being judged by my age! But I know, it could have gone worse, so I don't wanna complain. Good luck to everyone who's still closted! You're gonna do it.
yes. I told her a few days ago. I mean, I found out a few months ago, so it COULD be a phase. I'm 98% sure it isn't, and I'm 12. My mom said not to tell anyone as well. She's making me doubt myself, something she is very talented at. She kept asking me if "I'm sure" and towards the end of the conversation, I was confused and scared -_-
That's actually a good advise. You may turn out straight or straight up gay as you grow up. Sexualities can change. I came out to my brother (the only ally ik my house) and he told me that I should wait till I am a little more experienced to be sure bit nonetheless he will be there for me
I’m sorry, I don’t even know if my parents r homophobic or not bc they’ve never ever talked about it when i was there. I’m still debating whether I should come out or not, I am a bit young and not 100% sure of my sexuality but I’m thinking of coming out in a couple years.
Came out as bi last year to my family and close freinds and even though I knew they would be fine with it, it was still one of the hardest things I've ever done. So glad I did though, sending my love to anyone who's about to come out.
Yes I came out yesterday and today to my fam it was do hard I tried my best not to cry and I did it at a young age (13) but I'm happy I did it early so I won't stress.
@@Shanicedontknow12 I'm happy for you, hope everyone around you was accepting. Fair play to you coming out at a young age it took me years to have the courage to tell anyone.
I remember telling my mom "im straight but now i have mixed emotions, when i grow up i will know!" She said "nah you are straight and you will be!" And now.. im scared to tell her a sh*t that im bi
I started crying like this is so beautiful the fact that people have the strength to tell ppl who they love that there bisexual is so gorgeous and it’s something that I would never do because I’m afraid I love everyone lgbtq+ or not I fucking love u ppl❤️
i can tell my friends just fine because i know they’ll accept me. but my parents are pretty homophobic. i don’t think i’ll ever tell them unless i get a girlfriend and they find.
Same. I've said to myself that the only reason I'm gonna come out as bi to my family is because of the fact I might end up with a girl but I'm not telling them that I'm ace or demi (haven't figured that out yet) cause it isn't their business and I would only do it if they like find the flag or something on the wall when I move out and ask and that's if they visit me at all Sorry it was long
@@cue_full_body_sigh8694 same here, I’ve known I’m bi for like 5 years now and I’ve always just dropped hints in conversations with friends and they’ve just worked it out. I’ve never felt the need or wanted to come out officially, until I started uni last year and realised that it probably wasn’t the best idea to wait until I had a girlfriend (we can only hope 🤞) to tell my parents. It doesn’t feel fair to my potential future partner or them, I don’t think my parents are homophobic but I’m pretty sure they’ll need time to process fully
Same I've decided I will only come out when I will move out and have my own house and have a stable job Cuz they are maybe homophobic and u never know u could get kicked out.. But I just can't keep it to myself I wanna come out asap.
My parents found out I was bi before I could come out but they don’t support me and every day I cry cause I just wish they would love me for who I am and support me like they should. Idk what to do 😔
How I did it? Out of no where, when they’d least expect it, just blurt out “are you homophobic?” Hoping they respond no, I’ll say “good because I’m bi.”
My tears won't stop falling, it's such a heartwarming omg🥺 For all of my closeted fellas out there, i hope your family, friends, relatives, etc would accept of who you are. If they're not, please remember that you're worthy and deserve so much love. Thank you for being true to yourself, sweetheart. There's nothing wrong about you. Sending ton of love for all of my rainbow fellas💛✨
I'm thirteen and I told my mom I'm bi and she said I might be influenced by my friends, and she said that I'm too young, and this could be a phase. But I know it isn't, and I now have no idea if I should openly tell my parents, or not. Both of them think it's a phase. I'm probably going to come out soon, but I'm not sure they'll believe me. I'm one hundred per cent sure, and I'm so sick of people thinking that if you're not fifteen or sixteen and you say you're bi, it's a phase. It really isn't. I figured it out a few months ago, but I kept getting the feelings for a year now. I'm just a little sad that my parents think it's a phase just because I'm thirteen.
U can do this.. Come out to ur friends..!!!! I'm pretty sure their support will boost your confidence.. And if some of them don't support , atleast you'll know how many of them are REAL. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My parents are hypocrites. They say that they support the lgbtq+, but they hate it when someone in our family is part of it. That's why I'm scared to come out.
I just came out as bi yesterday and I’m going to tell my dad tomorrow at my psychologist appointment. I’m so nervous and anxious! 🥺 I feel like it’ll be a negative reaction because him and his family are toxic and I have relatives who don’t accept people like me so I’m so nervous! I just want to be valid! 💗💜💙
@@emilyzinter3487 It went really well!! He accepted me! 💗 he was in the military and he said he has friends who are part of the lgbtq+ community! :) I was happy he accepted me!!
In the month of October (pride month) I'm going to come out to my family one by one in the same day. This really helped and boosted my confidence. Thank you for uploading this! Love you! 😙🤗
This made me cry, I wish I could also tell my mom... but I'm too scared, it's been 5yrs since I've known that I'm bi, but only now did I tell my bestfriend about this and she supported me
I came out to my friends and 2 of them were bi too I'm really nervous to come out to my siblings. My step-dad and mom passed away and I was never able to come out to them.
I'm sorry to hear this... But I know that's not gonna stop you You gonna found people who gonna accept you and love you like you are If your parents are homophobic than you don't care! You can love everyone you want! I knos you post this comment 3 months ago but I hope you feel better Have a nice day/night
I'm so scared to come out to my family that I'm bi. My dad is homophobic and my mom will probably be disappointed but she will still accept me. I'm 13 and I will probably come out at 15 or 16.
This video literally made me cry. I just hope that my family will react like this when I'm finally out of the closet Update: My mother kinda knew before I even knew I was bi😂 my father didn't know a thing, but he doesn't really care. The only problem is that my family thinks it's just a phase😅 but hey, it's a better reaction than I thought I would get
@@callmemayo9596 yea so what I found when I was a child I was going through shit when I was a child and imagine you family looking at you as if you were born different?. I’m a girl and I’m proud to be bi
My first question wasn't that. "So you've thought about this for awhile haven't you?" Then ..."Where are we stopping for dinner?" She told me while I was driving out of town.
5:47 okay I’m sorry this is completely off topic but that moment when the mom readjusted her arms by putting them under her daughters (?) was such a mood. Like I can’t have someone’s arms under me when I hug them for some reason. I think it’s just PTSD from all those times my siblings hugged me only so they could surprise tickle me. 🤣🤣🤣
I came out some weeks ago to some my friends in school... and to my mom and dads wife and I am so scared to say it to the other friends... like one of my best friend haven’t I told yet.... but I know I will get there at some point! Funny story tho one of my friend is bi and she asked me at summer break if I could marry a girl and I was like “ Ya if I love her absolutely” without even knowing I was bi and months after I figured it out and was like I am gonna come out to her now cuz I was feeling comfortable with her cuz she is a part of lgbtq too and when I came out she was like “you already said that and I was like 🤦🏼♀️“ but ya that was one of my coming out story💕💜💙🌈🌈
@@ellathemango5260 I know it’s hard to tell people who isn’t your closest for me it’s was hard to tell the closets too... but you will get there just give it some time💕💜💙love to you
I wish i could come out... But the thing is i know my mom already doesn't support me she said that god made you how u are and not gay or lesbian... but isn't got the one that gave you your personality?- or do we make that. I hope everyone that confesses that there supported and if no one supports you then know i do!
@@f4rhan_179 who asked you th write that? For my information I understand that you don't care but to take the time to write that must mean you care a lot, thanks for your notice
@@f4rhan_179 thank you for noticing it took a bit. Maybe we can talk about yours to? Or maybe you really like mine to much that you have to point it out
I haven't come out to my family yet, I'm planning on coming out to my mom and sister this Monday! I'll keep you updated on how it goes Edit: I came out and they already knew for years... Well then
yes! i did it,but not the way i planned to but it was the best timing i think. yesterday at 8 p.m after an argument with my parents. it was time to tell them EVERYTHING i had in my thoughts and let them know how i feel and why i am so unmotivated and why i behave like i do. i talked more than 2 hours about everythng that i was afraid to tell until yesterday. and i came out as bisexual and why i wouldn´t told them and how i feel about girls and boys. i was never so sure with my sexuality until wednesday.i first have told this to my friends on instagram,because they thought that i just look at the personality not at the gender, because i want to love the person.i was so afraid that my parents would see this so i blocked them on instagram. my big sister told me that she alwasy gonna be by my side and that she is really proud of me. she is also proud to be my big sister. she just want me to be happy,it doesn´t matter if a boy makes me happy or a girl. my mom told me,that she just said this at the time,when i had a thing with a girl, that i couldn´t know how real love is. now i know what i want, i want somebody to love me like i do.and she mean by that,that i was too young to decide what my sexuality and that i can love who i want to love. just be happy and proud of yourself. my stepdad said,that he doesn´t knew that and he also will that i am happy, but when i said that it doesn´t matter who i love and who i will marry and that i could get pregnant if want to,because the world has ways for this. it was also not so easy, i had to suppressed so many things like my feelings for a special girl,every thought that i had, good and bad thoughts, how it feels inside me, i said that i wake up every morning and asking myself,why do i live? since my best relationship i felt so unloved,i never thought that this was my last kiss, i thought that this was the best time of my life, but i can´t understand why it ended.the day before that,everything was perfekt,we had a beautiful day together, and it doesn´t saw like things would end the next day. but i am so thankful to had this time with this person,because i really got to know how real love feels like. i think that the pandemic could be a part of the break up reason,because we couldn´t meet with all of our friends in a big group,we spent the most of it at home,sometimes we went outside to meet the grandmother. the person was the first partner who saw my parents and met my grandparents. thank you for reading my long text :)
my moms not homophobic but every time I say the word: "Lgbtq+" she's like "thats a american thing" like what- I swear if she says its just a phase or your confused or smth- imma move to my sister
@@f4rhan_179 :O Im shivering in my bisexual boots omg what am I going to do?! you are so scary and your right I should find someone! but you should also know 1. the youtube comment section are free to share story :) and 2. if nobody asked why do you have to read it? if you don't care simply ignore it, oh wait! you want to get mad at someone because your personal life sucks. I guess you weren't held as much as a baby oh well what a pitty :/
Right now, I am 14 and have known that I’m bi for a while. I’m kinda breaking down trying to find the right way to tell my family. I watched an episode of a show and the dad said “my son is pansexual and I support him. we can’t tell our kids who to love” and my mom said “that’s true” and I knew I had to tell her. I’m so so nervous, I dont know how to do it but I know I need to
The videos with supportive parents always make me so emotional because I sort of accidentally came out to my mom a few months ago and she basically didn't even acknowledge it. She just completely ignores that I told her.
if bi is what they identify with now, there is no problem with that no matter their age. if they decide that be wasn’t the right label for them in the future the people who really love them will understand and continue to accept them.
@Lenka Rusnáková So, what do you think is a age to find out? :) I'm thirteen, almost fourteen, and I'm bi too. Is that better or do I have to be older? Btw this shouldn't sound mean, I'm really interested in your opinion.
Nerve wracking evening I had, I left my phone in the kitchen playing Boy Bi in full volume then search some coming out tiktoks, since the search was very slow I got up and went to the bathroom (my phone still playing)... Not a minute later I heard my parents walk in the kitchen, normally it would take me forever for me to do my business but the idea of my parents finding out I'm bi got me faster than Flash. (Still in the closet lmao)
When i came out to my mom, she said "Every parents dont want their child like this"... And she says that she is not homophobic but she is. I hate it here
It's amazing that we've grown as a society cuz 12 years ago we couldn't Express our selfs as much as we can right now and as a member of lgbtq+ I'm really glad that we've grown this much to be able to express ourselves and be happy for who we are so if you are gay lesbian bisexual pansexual and all the others trust me tell people be proud of who you are cuz trust me people will support you and yeah other people may not get it but that doesn't matter what matters is the people who support you for who you are and just know I support every one of you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I wish my parents were this supportive, I’ve tried it come out to them three times and they told me and I quote: “YOU’RE NOT F**KING BI! STOP SAYING THAT! IF I CATCH YOU TALKING ABOUT THE LGBTQ+ AGAIN I WILL TAKE AWAY YOU PHONE AND YOUR PRIVILEGES!” so that’s my life 😢
I’m scared because I’m worried that my family is going to think I’m too young but I’ve been thinking about it for a while and I really feel myself calling me BI
Recently I came out as a bisexual too but only to my mom. And it actually happened kinda randomly and suddenly. My mom bought me rainbow socks btw hahaha
My sister is 8 and she has recently come out! This shows that when people say “you are too young to know who you love” they are 100% wrong. Just for the children reading this, come out when you are comfortable Anyways ly 💜✨
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Aww dont feel insecure im sure its gorgeous
YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL THE WAY YOU ARE
Look pretty, the support you need is people telling you you are perfectly valid, inhave a very small mouth, and is okay, you have to love yourself, trust me
@@loneneotank.5687 same my teeth are horrible
I have some Insecurities about my nose being to small or I’m too fat or I’m too skinny or my legs are fat and my arms skinny and my hair is messy always and the way I dress
I came out accidentally because I was watching this and my mom walked in and she was like, “your bi aren’t you,” and I just said “yes.”
G-g-good for you my parents are not supporting me😔😞
@@lemonlime_zuzu9101 i don't know you but let me tell you something. You're a great person, and being bi, gay, or any orientation or sexual identity does not change your positive qualities. I don't know if your parents are biphobic or just processing it in a negative way, but there's nothing to be ashamed of. It's really sad even today people don't see people of a different sexual orientation as equals, but you are, and will always be, a great person as long as you keep your qualities. Anyone who makes fun of, discriminates, or scoffs at this is flawed themselves: you're not at fault and you have nothing to be ashamed of.
@@fornax5798 ty you made my day😄
@@lemonlime_zuzu9101 👍
@@fornax5798 Couldn't have said it any better 💖💜💙
Came out as bi to my mom, she said she already knew it... 😐
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lucky. my mom kept saying “ItS juSt A pHaSe”
@@katiebouchard3651 Mine too...
Story: So 7 years ago i used to be very homophobic and I couldn't even look Gay/Trans etc. in the eyes till one day my friend who gathered his courage to tell his very openly homophobic friend they wanted to be a guy and
was gay. I was horrified because they were my best friend so they told me to choose whether i would hate them for who they are and accept it and stay best friends. I didnt even need to think about it because at the time i was going through DCF and had to leave my Mom and live with grandparents so it was tough leaving my mom and house for practically strangers. I said to him that i would accept him but because it was sudden it would take time. POINT IS DONT HATE YOUR FRIENDS CAUSE OF WHO THEY ARE. (Thank you)
What's DCF? If you don't mind me asking.
@@PrimeSky98 Its a child protective service that help take care of kids in bad homes (bad family, abusive homes) stuff like that
@@tosmooth2367 oh, gotcha. Thanks for the info.
Ok so I was also was homophobic but turned out both me and my only friend are bi and I am so proud of it
I came out to 2 of my friends and then I had a argument with 1 of them and then I have a crush on my other friend and now bc of the argument they don’t talk to me and I’m worried they will tell my crush I like her :/
I'm really scared to come out since my parents are religious.
hey its ok do :)
Only do it if you feel safe. If you think they may disown you or anything wait till your old enough to take care of yourself
don’t rush things, take your time, if you feel they’re gonna be mad with you, don’t come out. if you think that coming out can make your relationship with them bad, don’t do it
Same 💜
Same I told my dad he said it was a fase so now I say I’m “Straight” around him but I’m really not
Thanks for showing that there are parents, siblings and friends who are truly loving and accepting. My daughter was 12 when she came out. Never for a moment did my love waver. ❤💜💙💚🧡❣❣
The world needs more parents like you! ❤💜💙💚
You're Hella cool and nice mom, I'm glad people like you exist
@Ella Boisvert it's hard to know when is the right time to share. However, knowing your parents aren't homophobic is a huge plus. Maybe drop small hints in questions??? As a parent I wasn't upset or disappointed in my daughter. But!! ... I did need time to process and even morn the idea that she may not have a traditional life. It may seem bad but I worried about how others would treat her (grandparents, her friends, homophobics, etc). But I did make sure she knew I loved her and accepted her as she is. I hope for you a future of acceptance and love❣❤🧡💚💙💜
@KAYLAH KORNEGAY take your time. I know you want to be able to shine. But let the light grow by finding who you can tell and feel safe doing it with. Talk with your Mom. She may be able to help you choose who to tell. Either way its up to you. I wish you love and acceptance now and always 💕
@Febe Baaren, van 1st of all you are 😎. And I understand the parent thinking it will go away " because your young and don't know yourself ". But you know yourself better then anyone on the planet. Some change to be Pan, Trans, Bi etc. But no matter be you. Know you are not alone and there is love for you to find. I hope you find supportive family and friends. Love ❣❤🧡💛💚💙💜
I came out to my sis as bi but she doesn't not accept me when I saw this much support from their family I started crying
I’m so so sorry you are valid and amazing ❤️
Hay it is ok I will support you!
Same she said that she doesn't support me and i should rethink
We all support you and love you I’m bisexual too so your not alone
Think of me as your sis i support you be strong
When I become a mom I'm gonna automatically assume my kids are bisexual. I want them to know they can date anyone or be anyone. They can come out to me as lesbian, gay, trans, queer, asexual, non- binary, straight, etc. My parents were never ok with me being bi and even though I'm married to a straight buy and pregnant that doesn't mean I'm straight.
Sp shouldn't it be pansexual?
Yesss so damn true even tho u married a guy it doesn’t make u any less bi
💖💜💙
Find somebody that asked
@@f4rhan_179 I did actually
You are gonna be a good parent
The thing is that people dont suddenly become bi or lesbian or gay or whatever, they have been it their whole life, they just found out the moment they liked someone.
Find somebody that asked
@@f4rhan_179 find somebody that cares about your opinion
Wow, the best come back i've seen
I personally agree. Other people might find it different but I think that's how it goes. If you come out as bi for example, you might have just noticed it or you had found out but had just started telling people. But truly wouldn't you have already been bi but just not known? It's the same for every gender, you might have grown up thinking you were whatever you were but the only reason you found out what you actually are must've been because you realized you had always been that way except know you know and recognize that.
@@emmadevoogd5008 ohhhh 😮
So, I'm thirteen, almost fourteen, and I just came out as bi to my mom. Like, literally less than a hour ago. She said she was fine with it, but thinks I'm too young to know, so I shouldn't tell too many people, because if it's a phase (I told her that that "phase" started three years ago, but she didn't care) that wouldn't look good. I'm so sick of always being judged by my age! But I know, it could have gone worse, so I don't wanna complain. Good luck to everyone who's still closted! You're gonna do it.
yes. I told her a few days ago. I mean, I found out a few months ago, so it COULD be a phase. I'm 98% sure it isn't, and I'm 12. My mom said not to tell anyone as well. She's making me doubt myself, something she is very talented at. She kept asking me if "I'm sure" and towards the end of the conversation, I was confused and scared -_-
Okay same so apparently I’ve been in a phase for 2 years and a half...
I knew when I was 8. Wasn’t completely sure then, but I was questioning when I was 8 and now I’m sure so anyone can know, no matter what age.
@@emmamartinez8658 LMAOO SAME
That's actually a good advise. You may turn out straight or straight up gay as you grow up. Sexualities can change. I came out to my brother (the only ally ik my house) and he told me that I should wait till I am a little more experienced to be sure bit nonetheless he will be there for me
This made me happy because I am bi to 😩
Same
Same
We all are
@@rbloobloo16 ikr
Nobody asked
Sadly i can't come out due to having strict christan and possibly homophobic parents😔🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I am sorry to hear, I had a jw family but luckily I had my mom. Sending love ❤️💜💙
@@greensheep5918 thanks💜
Oh same 😔
I’m sorry, I don’t even know if my parents r homophobic or not bc they’ve never ever talked about it when i was there. I’m still debating whether I should come out or not, I am a bit young and not 100% sure of my sexuality but I’m thinking of coming out in a couple years.
@@softsoba4427 same
Came out as bi last year to my family and close freinds and even though I knew they would be fine with it, it was still one of the hardest things I've ever done. So glad I did though, sending my love to anyone who's about to come out.
Yes I came out yesterday and today to my fam it was do hard I tried my best not to cry and I did it at a young age (13) but I'm happy I did it early so I won't stress.
@@Shanicedontknow12 I'm happy for you, hope everyone around you was accepting. Fair play to you coming out at a young age it took me years to have the courage to tell anyone.
Find somebody that asked
I remember telling my mom "im straight but now i have mixed emotions, when i grow up i will know!" She said "nah you are straight and you will be!" And now.. im scared to tell her a sh*t that im bi
Don’t tell her, not yet, unless ur comfortable
Cool nobody asked
@@f4rhan_179 if you're not interested, scroll, but don't disrespect this person's right to express themself.
@@-suguru- 😭😭
The same has happened to me and I think my parents are homophobic
I started crying like this is so beautiful the fact that people have the strength to tell ppl who they love that there bisexual is so gorgeous and it’s something that I would never do because I’m afraid I love everyone lgbtq+ or not I fucking love u ppl❤️
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@@f4rhan_179 find someone that actually cares about the fact you exist
My bsf is bi and so am I and she came out first and then I told her and she wasn’t surprised BAHAHHAJSJAJSZ
Im bi and this is actually so wholesome
Bi yourself
Me crying when watching this cuz Ik I have to hide it 😔
Same here too mate 😕
same it sucks 😢
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Same 🙁
Stay crying🤣
i can tell my friends just fine because i know they’ll accept me. but my parents are pretty homophobic. i don’t think i’ll ever tell them unless i get a girlfriend and they find.
Same. I've said to myself that the only reason I'm gonna come out as bi to my family is because of the fact I might end up with a girl but I'm not telling them that I'm ace or demi (haven't figured that out yet) cause it isn't their business and I would only do it if they like find the flag or something on the wall when I move out and ask and that's if they visit me at all
Sorry it was long
Same. I couldn't tell them unless I have something serious with the same gender
@@cue_full_body_sigh8694 same here, I’ve known I’m bi for like 5 years now and I’ve always just dropped hints in conversations with friends and they’ve just worked it out. I’ve never felt the need or wanted to come out officially, until I started uni last year and realised that it probably wasn’t the best idea to wait until I had a girlfriend (we can only hope 🤞) to tell my parents. It doesn’t feel fair to my potential future partner or them, I don’t think my parents are homophobic but I’m pretty sure they’ll need time to process fully
Same I've decided I will only come out when I will move out and have my own house and have a stable job Cuz they are maybe homophobic and u never know u could get kicked out..
But I just can't keep it to myself I wanna come out asap.
Find somebody that asked
Dem young people coming out, I'm so proud of you...almost 26 here and still don't got the courage to do what you people do 😔
i just came out as bi to my bsf of 7 years and i could not have a more supportive bsf tysm
I'm scared to do this. These people are amazing for doing this.
I'm bi and proud!💙💜💓
Me too. Wish my family thought that way
Cool nobody asked
@@f4rhan_179 and you are such a dissapointed thing bish
Well congrats, me too! :)
My parents found out I was bi before I could come out but they don’t support me and every day I cry cause I just wish they would love me for who I am and support me like they should. Idk what to do 😔
I'm hoping that one day, you'll wake up every morning seeing their love and support for who you really are. Sending hugs!
@@byasteria5278Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
i'm sorry, you okay ? remember that your amazing and I support you ! i'm sending you a huge tsunami of hugs and support !
Cool nobody asked
I was just saying how I felt. Nobody asked for ur negativity either too :3
My mum said everyone is bi until they decide different when I came out
Same here. But I KNOW I like both girls and boys. It just gets annoying when ppl say that and that it's a phase.
Nobody asked
@@f4rhan_179 shut up
I'm bi to❤️💙💜🌈 and being bi isn't a sin
Facts no printer
I am straight but is still love the LGBTQ+ family LOVE EVERYONE
Hunny u forgot the Q in LGBTQ+
@@luciahylen4862 oh my gosh i am so sorry!
@@vi6897 No its ok just telling you because people could get really mad
@@elizabethe.4860 same
@@elizabethe.4860 same the more the merrier and more support from others
How I did it? Out of no where, when they’d least expect it, just blurt out “are you homophobic?” Hoping they respond no, I’ll say “good because I’m bi.”
I came out lesbian to my mother and father 6 weeks ago, then 3 weeks after i came out bi instead. They support!!😇😇
I came out using a note
Aww. I'm so proud of you!
me too lol. well done!
same
@aquaralliqx why?
@aquaralliqx oh okay
My tears won't stop falling, it's such a heartwarming omg🥺
For all of my closeted fellas out there, i hope your family, friends, relatives, etc would accept of who you are. If they're not, please remember that you're worthy and deserve so much love. Thank you for being true to yourself, sweetheart. There's nothing wrong about you. Sending ton of love for all of my rainbow fellas💛✨
I just texted my bestie "I have 83 protons, think about it"
Wish me luck-
also best of luck and let us know what happens!! :)
Im 13 and im bi❤️💜💙 havent told my parents though im pretty sure you know why. (Also i.couldnt find a pink heart so i used the.closes thing)
You can just use this one 💖 Or even this one 💗
I’m crying watching that because I’m bi but I haven’t Told anyone yet but half told my bff
Same
I'm thirteen and I told my mom I'm bi and she said I might be influenced by my friends, and she said that I'm too young, and this could be a phase. But I know it isn't, and I now have no idea if I should openly tell my parents, or not.
Both of them think it's a phase. I'm probably going to come out soon, but I'm not sure they'll believe me.
I'm one hundred per cent sure, and I'm so sick of people thinking that if you're not fifteen or sixteen and you say you're bi, it's a phase. It really isn't.
I figured it out a few months ago, but I kept getting the feelings for a year now.
I'm just a little sad that my parents think it's a phase just because I'm thirteen.
The thing is, I’ve already came out to my little sister and online friends, but my parents, big brother and irl friends are too hard...
Umm I'm in the nearly exactly same situation :/ except I don't have a brother and I haven't told my sister cause she's too young to get it...
U can do this.. Come out to ur friends..!!!! I'm pretty sure their support will boost your confidence.. And if some of them don't support , atleast you'll know how many of them are REAL. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My parents are hypocrites. They say that they support the lgbtq+, but they hate it when someone in our family is part of it. That's why I'm scared to come out.
im definitely not straight but i would get disowned if i came out. my parents wanted to disown my sister for the same reason.
Wait till you are 18
I started crying cause I could never get this much support for my family
I just came out as bi yesterday and I’m going to tell my dad tomorrow at my psychologist appointment. I’m so nervous and anxious! 🥺 I feel like it’ll be a negative reaction because him and his family are toxic and I have relatives who don’t accept people like me so I’m so nervous! I just want to be valid! 💗💜💙
How did it go? I hope it went well for you. Just know that validity is never based on someone else’s judgements. Sending you good vibes💗 💜💙
@@emilyzinter3487 It went really well!! He accepted me! 💗 he was in the military and he said he has friends who are part of the lgbtq+ community! :) I was happy he accepted me!!
❤️❤️❤️
In the month of October (pride month) I'm going to come out to my family one by one in the same day. This really helped and boosted my confidence. Thank you for uploading this! Love you! 😙🤗
I’m crying because I see my friends parents accept them and my parents don’t.
I hope they never accept you
@@f4rhan_179 Your parents didn't accepted you isn't it
I’m straight and I support everyone no matter what they are still people have I friends that are bi and gay and they seem to be more fun!
I came out to my parents as non binary a few weeks ago and they accepted me and I was so happy and I was crying happy tears
@Finn sherriff Noice
@Maeve Isabel Cameron thanks
I was crying the whole time. Wish I could be strong enough to tell my family.
Tearing up by watching it but I'm still confused about my sexuality 😢
I literally cried all thru this video :')
1:21 ahahaha love it
Love this video!!!
@@blackbrighthalo his name is written in the corner ig
This made me cry, I wish I could also tell my mom... but I'm too scared, it's been 5yrs since I've known that I'm bi, but only now did I tell my bestfriend about this and she supported me
i came out to my parents as bisexual and they accepted me 😫💕
Congrats bubb
YAYYY!!
I came out to my friends and 2 of them were bi too
I'm really nervous to come out to my siblings. My step-dad and mom passed away and I was never able to come out to them.
I am so sorry for your loss!!
I am crying damn it
My whole family is homophobic accept my little sister😢
It’s sad seeings this and not thinking but knowing you wouldn’t get the same response from your family if you did the same
im crying im sorry i cant bear to come out to my homophobic asian parents
I'm sorry to hear this...
But I know that's not gonna stop you
You gonna found people who gonna accept you and love you like you are
If your parents are homophobic than you don't care!
You can love everyone you want!
I knos you post this comment 3 months ago but I hope you feel better
Have a nice day/night
i started crying after the first video it was so heartwarming and i’m not a very emotional perosn
Im not bi, but I love seeing this types of videos is so emocional, and guys if you love girls or boys its ok you dont have to hide that
Actually I do
I love these and to all the people who parents/friends who don't accept remember i and others do hope that everyone has a good day or night
I’m bicurious and if I come out to my parents I’m just gonna tell them and say I don’t wanna talk about it further.
Omg tears of joy soooooo sweet very inspirational
You are inspirational
I'm so scared to come out to my family that I'm bi. My dad is homophobic and my mom will probably be disappointed but she will still accept me. I'm 13 and I will probably come out at 15 or 16.
I figured out I was bi when I was 19 but I haven’t said anything to my mom
I’ve know I’ve been bi for years but I’m beyond terrified to tell anyone. I’m terrified my parents will disown or I’ll be bullied. Help.
This video literally made me cry. I just hope that my family will react like this when I'm finally out of the closet
Update: My mother kinda knew before I even knew I was bi😂 my father didn't know a thing, but he doesn't really care. The only problem is that my family thinks it's just a phase😅 but hey, it's a better reaction than I thought I would get
Nobody asked
@@f4rhan_179 and nobody asked you to be here spreading hate :/
@@f4rhan_179 bitch if ur gonna be like that fucking leave dum ass
@@f4rhan_179nobody asked for u to respond if u don’t care why the hell did u respond
The sister one was so CUTEEE AND FIRE BROOOOO
I’m bi and I never told my parents but I’m 15 and I found out when I was 7 I used to love a few girls in my class that’s when I knew...
bruh u were 7
@@callmemayo9596 yea so what I found when I was a child I was going through shit when I was a child and imagine you family looking at you as if you were born different?. I’m a girl and I’m proud to be bi
@@callmemayo9596 I found out young because of how I was treated and more things so don’t always assume
@@callmemayo9596 this is why I hate toxic children-
im not ready to say with my family. but my friends already know :)♡
Mom: since when
My mind: that’s the first question parents always have to ask
My first question wasn't that. "So you've thought about this for awhile haven't you?" Then ..."Where are we stopping for dinner?" She told me while I was driving out of town.
I came out to my sister one week ago. And her reaction was normal. She support me.
I remember when I came out to my best friend and she already new because she saw the signs but didn't want to say it XD
5:47 okay I’m sorry this is completely off topic but that moment when the mom readjusted her arms by putting them under her daughters (?) was such a mood. Like I can’t have someone’s arms under me when I hug them for some reason. I think it’s just PTSD from all those times my siblings hugged me only so they could surprise tickle me. 🤣🤣🤣
I came out some weeks ago to some my friends in school... and to my mom and dads wife and I am so scared to say it to the other friends... like one of my best friend haven’t I told yet.... but I know I will get there at some point! Funny story tho one of my friend is bi and she asked me at summer break if I could marry a girl and I was like “ Ya if I love her absolutely” without even knowing I was bi and months after I figured it out and was like I am gonna come out to her now cuz I was feeling comfortable with her cuz she is a part of lgbtq too and when I came out she was like “you already said that and I was like 🤦🏼♀️“ but ya that was one of my coming out story💕💜💙🌈🌈
Aw I’m bi and I told my bffs and my mum idk how to tell my dad and his wife and my bro and my dads wife’s kid..
@@ellathemango5260 I know it’s hard to tell people who isn’t your closest for me it’s was hard to tell the closets too... but you will get there just give it some time💕💜💙love to you
I'm straight. I accidentally tapped on this video. The song itself is pretty.😂😅
I wish i could come out...
But the thing is i know my mom already doesn't support me she said that god made you how u are and not gay or lesbian... but isn't got the one that gave you your personality?- or do we make that.
I hope everyone that confesses that there supported and if no one supports you then know i do!
Who asked
@@f4rhan_179 who asked you th write that? For my information I understand that you don't care but to take the time to write that must mean you care a lot, thanks for your notice
@@xxvanillaxx1459 ik ur not talking with that pfp
@@f4rhan_179 thank you for noticing it took a bit. Maybe we can talk about yours to? Or maybe you really like mine to much that you have to point it out
@@xxvanillaxx1459 ik for a fact mines way better than yours
These are so heartwarming
I haven't come out to my family yet, I'm planning on coming out to my mom and sister this Monday! I'll keep you updated on how it goes
Edit: I came out and they already knew for years... Well then
yes! i did it,but not the way i planned to but it was the best timing i think. yesterday at 8 p.m after an argument with my parents. it was time to tell them EVERYTHING i had in my thoughts and let them know how i feel and why i am so unmotivated and why i behave like i do. i talked more than 2 hours about everythng that i was afraid to tell until yesterday. and i came out as bisexual and why i wouldn´t told them and how i feel about girls and boys. i was never so sure with my sexuality until wednesday.i first have told this to my friends on instagram,because they thought that i just look at the personality not at the gender, because i want to love the person.i was so afraid that my parents would see this so i blocked them on instagram. my big sister told me that she alwasy gonna be by my side and that she is really proud of me. she is also proud to be my big sister. she just want me to be happy,it doesn´t matter if a boy makes me happy or a girl. my mom told me,that she just said this at the time,when i had a thing with a girl, that i couldn´t know how real love is. now i know what i want, i want somebody to love me like i do.and she mean by that,that i was too young to decide what my sexuality and that i can love who i want to love. just be happy and proud of yourself. my stepdad said,that he doesn´t knew that and he also will that i am happy, but when i said that it doesn´t matter who i love and who i will marry and that i could get pregnant if want to,because the world has ways for this.
it was also not so easy, i had to suppressed so many things like my feelings for a special girl,every thought that i had, good and bad thoughts, how it feels inside me, i said that i wake up every morning and asking myself,why do i live? since my best relationship i felt so unloved,i never thought that this was my last kiss, i thought that this was the best time of my life, but i can´t understand why it ended.the day before that,everything was perfekt,we had a beautiful day together, and it doesn´t saw like things would end the next day. but i am so thankful to had this time with this person,because i really got to know how real love feels like. i think that the pandemic could be a part of the break up reason,because we couldn´t meet with all of our friends in a big group,we spent the most of it at home,sometimes we went outside to meet the grandmother. the person was the first partner who saw my parents and met my grandparents. thank you for reading my long text :)
I'm bi myself
Why do we cry
My family knew that im bi, because whenever my friend come to my house they'll call me and say "YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS HERE" like cksndkls
my moms not homophobic but every time I say the word: "Lgbtq+" she's like "thats a american thing" like what- I swear if she says its just a phase or your confused or smth- imma move to my sister
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@@f4rhan_179 :O Im shivering in my bisexual boots omg what am I going to do?! you are so scary and your right I should find someone! but you should also know 1. the youtube comment section are free to share story :) and 2. if nobody asked why do you have to read it? if you don't care simply ignore it, oh wait! you want to get mad at someone because your personal life sucks. I guess you weren't held as much as a baby oh well what a pitty :/
@@f4rhan_179I did :-P
@@cj1590 don't give her attention beautiful
@@cj1590 its summer lmao I'm not about to read that paragraph💀
I’m scared to tell my parents because as their only daughter I wouldn’t want them to be disappointed in me.
Same😢
i cried at 1:31
Right now, I am 14 and have known that I’m bi for a while. I’m kinda breaking down trying to find the right way to tell my family. I watched an episode of a show and the dad said “my son is pansexual and I support him. we can’t tell our kids who to love” and my mom said “that’s true” and I knew I had to tell her. I’m so so nervous, I dont know how to do it but I know I need to
The videos with supportive parents always make me so emotional because I sort of accidentally came out to my mom a few months ago and she basically didn't even acknowledge it. She just completely ignores that I told her.
I think im bi bit im not sure ahhhh its either bi or lesbian
My dad literally said "Please don't" 😃👍🏻
a few days i came out to my friends I still have bruises
See what happens
are you alright? is everything alright?
Everything is ok I am no long friends with them and I am at a different school
@@lordtachanka5501 glad to hear it, hope you find good friends♡
This video made me cry because it’s so nice to see parents actually support their children for being who they are
I am 9 and the music everyone uses is so cool ( I am bi )
if bi is what they identify with now, there is no problem with that no matter their age. if they decide that be wasn’t the right label for them in the future the people who really love them will understand and continue to accept them.
@Lenka Rusnáková So, what do you think is a age to find out? :) I'm thirteen, almost fourteen, and I'm bi too. Is that better or do I have to be older? Btw this shouldn't sound mean, I'm really interested in your opinion.
No your not.
Nobody knows their sexuality at nine years old
ugh this makes me so happy im crying💗
Nerve wracking evening I had, I left my phone in the kitchen playing Boy Bi in full volume then search some coming out tiktoks, since the search was very slow I got up and went to the bathroom (my phone still playing)... Not a minute later I heard my parents walk in the kitchen, normally it would take me forever for me to do my business but the idea of my parents finding out I'm bi got me faster than Flash. (Still in the closet lmao)
When i came out to my mom, she said "Every parents dont want their child like this"... And she says that she is not homophobic but she is. I hate it here
my brother walked over while i was watching this and i nearly had a panic attack trying to turn it off. it’s exhausting to pretend
It's amazing that we've grown as a society cuz 12 years ago we couldn't Express our selfs as much as we can right now and as a member of lgbtq+ I'm really glad that we've grown this much to be able to express ourselves and be happy for who we are so if you are gay lesbian bisexual pansexual and all the others trust me tell people be proud of who you are cuz trust me people will support you and yeah other people may not get it but that doesn't matter what matters is the people who support you for who you are and just know I support every one of you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
IM NOT CRYING YOU ARE!!!!!
I wish my parents were this supportive, I’ve tried it come out to them three times and they told me and I quote: “YOU’RE NOT F**KING BI! STOP SAYING THAT! IF I CATCH YOU TALKING ABOUT THE LGBTQ+ AGAIN I WILL TAKE AWAY YOU PHONE AND YOUR PRIVILEGES!” so that’s my life 😢
Look be who you wanna be don't let anyone control your life I mean it is your life and tell them I said this
I’m scared because I’m worried that my family is going to think I’m too young but I’ve been thinking about it for a while and I really feel myself calling me BI
Im 40 years old and still have never had the courage to come out to my parents. My wife is fully accepting so for me thats all I need.
Recently I came out as a bisexual too but only to my mom. And it actually happened kinda randomly and suddenly. My mom bought me rainbow socks btw hahaha
I’m bi 💜💗💙this make me cry
My sister is 8 and she has recently come out! This shows that when people say “you are too young to know who you love” they are 100% wrong. Just for the children reading this, come out when you are comfortable
Anyways ly 💜✨
“That’s ok men are hot”
I DIED LAUGHING 🤣🤣🤣🤣