BKCHAT LDN: EPISODE 9 - "If I'm Paying £400 Towards Your Livelihood, I Own You"
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- Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
- The cast talk about contributing to your partners living costs and how much control it earns them.
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The idea of controlling your partner is just wild to me.
It’s wild but people do that normally, the partner might say they don’t like you talking to someone or hanging out somewhere, or doing something, people control other people even when you don’t notice
Adisa Lekuwa that’s the point the guys were trying to make, it’s the same dynamic. The same way it sounds mad for man to say I own you physically to a woman. It’s mad to a man for a woman to demand £400 every month. If you want to own me financially I’ll own you physically and we can both be mad people together
@@gdup8505 are they in relationships and living with these women? Or are they living separately
G’d Up the woman isn’t demanding
Innit why not just let people do what they want and then react to it. If my girl wants to be friends with bare man I dont care and im barely interested cause I know 100% there is no chance of her cheating. The reason most men wouldn't have it is cause they're insecure cause they don't treat her right in the first place.
I’m convinced that dc is somewhat in love with lani 😂😂😂 he keeps drawing her out like she rejected him
after she violated him he went silent and never spoke again! :):):):):):):):)
I would 2, she so easy to wind up 😂😂😂
I’ve watched this 3 times and I swr all this woman does is shout . Any guy paying 6k a month is a fool so he’s technically right just said it wrong
@@yurinavti9152 nah she’s just high maintenance and knows her worth. She refuses to waste her time on ppl who can’t afford it. Simple.
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You guys should use 400 pounds to buy an air conditioner for this videos first instead of using paper to fan yourselves.
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Lol can't turn on air conditioning when recording I think . It distorts/affects the sound
Tope Alabi Bahaha exactly, the yelling and talking over each over already distorts it enough they don’t need another contributing factor
If giving your partner money on a monthly basis makes you mistreat (cheat, abuse, etc.) them, you've simply found the excuse you'd been looking for. This is a matter of character.
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This is sokoto true
Yeah you worded it best
Absolutely Agree
Fucking preach
This show should be called "Let Me Land!"
Mary R. 😂😂
She's like De Bruyne saying Let me talk!!!
Yh trust, Malaysian Air lines vibes
Zkrilla FPV nah ur mocking it 😂😂😂😂
There’s a podcast called this uno
Watching BK chat makes me value my eduction so much more 😂😂😂 all their arguments are so invalid and the way that they converse with each other is so dysfunctional. I miss Nissy
Honestly 😂😂😂😂 she was the only one with sense !!!!!!
Literally!! She the one that had THE MOST SENSE along with chioma (sumtimes) & azrayah
River too
Need to value it more *education
Agreed
If Lani thinks someone earning 2k should give her 400 a month, and thinks 1600 is enough for him to pay for everything, she needs a reality check..
Im saying. Im a uni student and that £1600 only pays my rent, food and weed. People need more money out there!!!
@@shroff3417 😂😂😂
@@shroff3417 loool trust mee afterwards I be thinking I swear I had more than this 🤣🤣
@@shroff3417 that figure could be a different story depending on how much you buy in weed 😂
@@shroff3417 weed is a must on your list huh? 😂😂😂😂😂
Please start discussing important issues, it's not everyday about money and sex ffs 😭
lmaoo noooo they dont have the mental capacity for that kinda stuff... they can barely take turns when speaking 😭😭
!!!! Honestly, they are all grownnn
People say this but never give suggestions
Leave it , we like it like that
They are just dumb, nothing new and in the end no solution.
Yasmin’s dress is nice but the sweat or whatever’s going on there is highly visible
Lol I thought I was tripping but what’s going wit that
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her breast implant probably popped and its leaking
I didn't even know women can sweat in dem areas..!
Yasmin looks like Horrid Henry's brother perfect Peter
Hahahaha
Looool
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I-
Naaji 😭😭
I wish Castillo was in here 😂
Big man ting yeah, I dont
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Castillo is drama 😂😂
Lucas seems like someone that’s going to be physically violent 😢 I pity his girl
Deeper😂
Can't stand him
I Can't imagine making up serious accusations about ppl I don't know,but that's just me
You seem like someone who would abuse their partner.
He's joking clearly
Whoever broke Lani's heart, I don't even have words for you lol. You've created a monster
Hurt people hurt people
No they didn’t dc was just being an idiot
@@safiraoliveira7975 sure dc doesn't help with his comments but Lani has been talking reckless from her very first appearance
Lool
Here after ‘bad boy piece of information’ 😂
DC is jealous, he needs to llow Lani...
He probably fancies her, it's not his money. Cheeky guy..
Lani is 1 of the reasons why I've gone off sisters...and some black girls are rating her...
Lord help me please
She's a disgrace..
@@thunderjoy7250 But why? She did say she was offered 6k a month for her body but she refused the offer, so how is she a disgrace?
@@TheLittleras so I've gone of black woman because of my mum loooool
You probably act the same way as lani....slack loose with not 1 feminine bone in her body..she acts more road than them drill artist...no man will never take her or any black woman who act like her
It's just a beat delete and Retreat
THUNDER & joy oya who hurt you?
@@thunderjoy7250 *YOU HATE YOURSELF*
*YOU HATE YOUR MOTHER*
*WHO HURT YOU?*
*Common shaming tactics used by black women who are DESPERATE to find a black man but can't compete with other women.*
Ladies if you dont design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? NOT MUCH
Beautifully said
wise words from jim rohn.
And I oop 😯
Dats facts 💯
LANI literally just cursed DC out throughout this entire episode 😂😂ᴸᴼᴸ ٠ Funny as hell.
Lmaoo cause manz was in her dick baddd lmaok
Lucas: “i feel like in this day and age” “I feel like in our society”
Where did he say that in this episode .....?
“I feel like In this current climate”
B Bob 😂😂
Fatu Daniel he didn’t today tbf😂 all the previous vids tho
Noo cap
What a materialistic and entitled mindset. All girls who think like this are done out. And don’t try and argue that it’s having “higher standards” - you’re just entitled and bummy.
This comment doesn't have enough likes tbfh
Kenda Splenda nah I’m sorry I’ve returned because I’m infuriated 🤣🤣 is this normal!?
@@blase057 If it is, it really shouldn't be. 💀
And the confidence they say this shit with literally has me so dead.
Spot on. I'm absolutely baffed at how normalised they've made it
There’ll be broke women who’ll cry over this comment
The men on here are mad disrespectful to the women secondly the show seems so so so ghetto a moderator is needed.
These women except Nina have shown absolutely nothing to warrant any respect. Pipe down.
The men are very rude and insulting, this show particularly allows them to talk shit to the girls and it's funny the girls don't defend each other.
They need to add men of means on here so they can give another view. Men of means have no issue spoiling women. It's their love language. Not saying the women don't have to put up with crap. But it's no less they crop they put up with from men with no money.
I'm done with these people lockdown has let me kno they are not needed. Take care o
Nah, Yasmin’s wig is disappointing me
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she’s sexy tho ahlie
Moving like boris
Moving like shirley temple
Moving like Perfect Peter
these lot need to stop disrespecting Lani. It's upsetting me and my homegirls
Exactly
Ur beat 🤣🤣🤣
She need to command respect then .....she is saying so much garbage
Especially DC
@@richardabayomi3247 For real. She chats pure contradictory shit.
mark was quite at the beginning with his backpack and sunshade 😂
I honestly thought he was sleeping
Cause women probably give HIM an allowance lol with the way he took that girls £1000 and he prefers getting his ass ate over getting head
Looking like Dora the explorer
@@NatashaS7 he took £1000 from who
@@ashleycrystal9719 and his ass eaten
Naah this was a mean and unnecessary comment
I'm not about putting fellow black women down, I apologize.
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skylar blacc what did she write
Lani is very misunderstood and is Dc 18 or something because this is beyond childish
The accuracy in that statement 😭
Sensible women shouldn’t sell their bodies and their say in a relationship for 400Ps. That’s just shallow.
I'm telling you that's not classy even me I agree with you
I agree
F iwl I'd rather be broke and uphold my values than to enter a relationship for money. How has being in a relationship now become an exchange between two people, when it's meant to be about love? Relationships have now become employment contract.
They aren’t selling their body tho
Omds what is it with this cast always personally attacking laniiiiii? They wanna call her a hoe sooo bad and they know she’s not! But lani YOU need to stop airing your business to this cast like this!! This is how they will come and disrespect you!
This show has acc fell off 🤦🏽♂️
Forreal😂
I don’t think it has though
Oti Miracle but it has though
Hilary Oboh not saying it’s bad. But no way near as good as other seasons
It fell off a LONG time ago.
“Why you shouting” -a man that’s shouting 🥴
And she was shouting too 🤓💀
So a man can’t shout gender inequalities
Only way to get through to her
How else they gonna get her to stop? Talk quiet? 😂😂😂
Damn man , Yas & her George washington , old Britain judge wig she got on my yute. Its stressin me tf out. You are too beautiful , Queen. You dont need all that😩😂 I love you still my girl !
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahha!
30 years olds on a platform talking about owning women for £400
Mària Lorai Right...smdh
We hate to see it
I think only dc is 30😂
It’s true though. If I’m financing that kind of money to a woman, then I own her. Otherwise she can simply pack her bags and I get to keep my money
“£400 is a lot of money, can we please stop talking shit” 😭
Next season air con locations Trend Central...the panel sweating like Sunday roast...
Sweat patches on that girl
Trust me it's not cute
i hope each got paid more than £400
I feel like dc is jealous of Lani he’s always coming fo her and also this is oldd
No one is jealous of her
its hatred which everyone can relate to when it comes to her
Who in their right mind would be jealous of that idiot
@@TripleK.BobJones who's everyone bruv
Women: I make my own money i don't need a man.
Also women: if you don't give me £400 how am I gonna take care of myself, how am i gonna look good for you?
I'm confused🥴
They are hypocrites, am a woman with fenimist mindset but i know my place when it comes to my MAN. Some girls are confused to the description of feminism and ""womanism""🤣 if that word existed🤣🤣
@@egmakeup2795 facts
I don't think the women who are super feminist (miss Independent) are also the ones begging for girlfriend allowance 😂😂
EG Makeup how does being feminist work for you when you don’t even have equal rights as a black woman? Just curious because I never understood that. It’s like black lgbt people fighting for rights/equality as a gay person fine they get that but they are black meaning you only get rights/equality when it comes to lgbt but not for your blackness
@ my mindset as feminist is economical, political and social equality. We are still fighting for it in some sectors, but i do not agree to be equally to a man, not even thinking to be cuz it will never happen. And about the lgbt, i do not comment on it, im still battling with my mind to understand. I support independent WOMAN but this girls dont know what they want. It's only about what its convenient for them...
DC is such a gaslighter...mad irritating tbh
I came from Tiktok, where’s the part of her taking the wig off?
Bruh me 2😂😂😂,,,,,I came for the part on Tiktok where she cusses the dude out
Me 2 but it’s not it
It’s s2 ep 6
@@moodyyxo no
I think it's in season 4
that body suit is leaking omg wtf
Lani and marriage should never go in the same sentence
Receipts never lie 🔥 yasssss lani
DC needs to stop acting like a child.
When he has one😂🤦🏾♀️
22:13 DC gets Lani TRIGGERED 😂 the moment we all came for.
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I like that part ....she spew too much nonsense
I can't believe I am actually watching another episode, but here I am. again. can't lie, I think their ignorance to life situations is entertaining to watch.
ABSOFUCKINLUTY
DC is always provoking Lani like leave her alone
It’s definitely because she said no to let him hit and now he’s triggered
I’m still trying to figure out why he’s still there hope he doesn’t come back next season
Fr he just seems to wind her up for the sake of it
Bully
Sexual tension
This show is so tapped now. At the beginning it was so insightful now it’s just flatlined. These lot are probably in their late 20s early 30s they need to start discussing topics of substance
why would I contribute 400 a month to a girl that could go tomorrow? I'd rather save it.
Wise choice
That’s true but if you’re going to do it , do it out of love you shouldn’t think that you own her , it’s weird how they suddenly jumped to buying and ownership of a woman ...
@@zahra3849 i don’t own her but she’s like my worker, she must do what i say. don’t come clowning
@@zahra3849 and what is she going to give?
@@juwongowild1699 if you don't have it then don't give it it's not a must it's just a lifestyle certain men can afford certain can't
Naaaa DC is too rude 🤣🤣 how can he say you’re not worth 10 kobo. Omdss 😭😭
Yasmin well shapely, just the blonde wig 🙈😭😂
" i don't want you" that hit her soul 😂😂😂😂
22:42 that part is funny
She even bought the reciepts out 😂😂😂
Real women work hard for their money they don’t wait and expecting money from men, just my opinion
Why would one pay for a relationship? If he's not giving u money out of the kindness of his heart then it's like he's paying a monthly tax and i won't blame him if he feels like he can do whatever he wants. He shouldn't but i won't blame him.
I commented this 10 months ago. Its crazy how my stance on this topic has greatly changed since i left this comment lmao.
@@izza5577 yeah
@@izza5577 how do you feel about it now?
@Atzo then he’s paying for £400 so as he should
i think it was meant more like if he’s earning more he should contribute more, which i’d say would be the same vice versa. but these people aren’t seeing it like that tbf
24:17 sis came with the reciteeee 😭😭
Why don’t they shut up up and let eachother speak it’s so jarring
Especially Lucas
“There’s love but the love is for the money” FACTS!
Fam Lani is misunderstood a lot, most of everything she says I agree
Like you wouldnt take 6k a month? She will never make 6k a month anyway.
i'm sorry to say but u got beauty but no brains
@@wickedunknown5788 lani got 6 A's
Regardless of whatever message she is trying to convey, her mannerisms are so unattractive she has no class (and outside of that, her views are so small minded it’s not even funny)
@@leona6361 😂 for you to think school grades makes you smart in the real world, it makes sense why you roll with Lani
Even if your man is the provider type, the minute you start coming with an entitled energy you will always lose out. Generosity is something that the other person extends towards you, it's not something you should have to force out of the other person.
Whoever is sleeping next door, is not sleeping that night.
Sometimes I think bkchat intentionally brings DC and Lani together 😂
“Your not worth that much” All the girls 😮😮😮. I’m dead 😂😂😂😂
Dc acting like a guy that hit it once,caught feelings but the reminder him he was just a one night stand 😂😂😂
I feel like Sylvia forgets she's a girl as well and also WHAT IS GOING ON WITH LANI'S OUTFIT?
Init jumper with leather skirt, my heads spinnin
Pick me vibes chileeee!
djeneba nientao because she likes telling the truth,she is a pick me?
£400 a month = £100 a week, in my opinion it ain’t too much but at the same time she should be earning her own money making her income decent
yeah bro, I agree with you on that
But if she aint working and her bf/husband works his ass out its more than enough
Why should men finance women who they aren’t married to....and what type of benefits do men get from doing this for women...
The woman
@@hxxxcyyy7926 might aswel have many
_.xhibaosman what does she bring to his life that he can’t get anywhere else
C N that’s 1. You didn’t answered my question. 2. That’s what a psychiatrist is for. Now again what does she provide that he can get somewhere else.
@@Sevladra thank you
What world are these women living on? You cry about independence yet you want an allowance? If I have an extra £400 it's called savings.
Both myself and my partner work, we are working in well paid sectors yet he still gives me £300 per month and I save it.
Dont know what the issue is. This doesn't mean he owns me!!
I somewhat agree if you aren't bringing anything but looks to the relationship and you're getting coin then you shouldn't be in the relationship as that probably wont last but you don't own the person but a relationship is an exchange so if its money for body then it is what it is but that is lowkey prostitution so 😬
zi zono gui you don’t know how much her partner is making so £300 might not be that much for him. People like you need to stop judging other people’s relationships and get ur own.
@@SuperShanann 😭 you save the money he gives you? My man is being robbed in broad daylight loool
@@SuperShanann he’s paying you to put money in YOUR savings nah he’s giving you free money your dating a chump
DC just loves crawling under Loni’s skin 😂
You cannot EXPECT nothing regardless of the relationship but you CAN Compromise. This word expect is sooo big ..It's a demand.
Is Lucas okey 😂😂 please come down no woman in her right mind will accept 400 and allow her man to do what ever he want at this point keep ur money and congratulations you are single.. please woman don't accept notting like this in ur life
27:13 just because a man doesn’t wanna give his girl 6k a month doesn’t mean he is broke, girl thought process really question me.
Yasmin “we’re not taking, you’re giving”
Lucas “😐😐😐🔫”
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Anyone else thinking wtf the neighbours think when they do these videos. Just a bunch of dead noise coming thru the wall 🥴🥴🥴🥴😂💀
Content is AMAZING!!! How Rieva, Lucas, Nina and Omar expanded the conversation was IT! X
I'm not Giving no Women Money just to give it to her for no Reason
They will say you are a broke guy now
dont do it , men be mean with your pocket.
Me neither. When I do something for people, I expect something in return
My opinion I dont want my man to give me money on a monthly basis as long as he pays half the Bills that's fine with me. I finance myself. Love you guys.
girl in red is the BIGGEST "pick me girl"
Okay Bye I know right.
Agreeddddddd
She’s so annoying
Factsss
You relying girls are the biggest bums, go make your own money she’s spitting facts
lani deffo did something to dc in the past 😂😂 this yute fam he can’t let her be
He was rejected 😂
Gender equality left the discussion before it even started
The one with the grey dress 👗 has the cutest facial features, she doesn’t need that blonde 👱🏾♀️ hair and clown makeup 💄 She’s a doll baby 👶🏽
Lmaooooooo Lani got receipts!! My girlll😭❤️❤️❤️
Would be good to see these young people connect with some adults and have these chats.
The receipts were the best part 😂 Certified wasteman 😂😂😂
22:55 🤣🤣 Lucas went from 😑 to 😳
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A lot of men give their girlfriends an allowance. It just depends on what a man can afford and how generous he is. I know a girl who’s boyfriend was giving her £600 a month. I don’t know why everyone’s acting like it’s crazy.
allowance is for a yout
RoaminRoninX even Cristiano Ronaldo gives his girlfriend $100,000 a month allowance though lol
That girls man is a neek
Exactly
Bro your just lazy 😭🤣 It should go both ways tf 🤣🤣🤣
Black relationships are very transactional. Just facts.. Especially in the African community, if you pay, you have leverage.
Why can an independent woman not have her own disposable income and I have mine and we split things we both use? Bills etc? are these ppl in the 21st century? You're my girl, not my dear daughter?
Dc : you're not worth that much😂😂😂😂
Everyone:🙊
Lani is so cute when she’s mad 😂
No
Ur lost
Just because your giving your girl money doesn’t mean you cans do whatever you want that’s financial abuse
"I don't think £400 is a lot of money, if you're making £2,000 a month, you're still left with £1,600" 😂
20% of your salary is a lot!!! Imagine being a baller and getting 50k a month only to give her 10k? I don't think so 🤣
Princess is lost
The level of tapped in this one is unparalleled.
indomie hair always gets me
At the end of the day you cannot negotiate genuine desire
How much are they paying these guys to make them sweat so much in a kitchen
That room is one sauna
I just clicked to see another BKCHAT ft The George Washington wig ☕️
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Is that your real hair???, its nice
Not the George Washington wig 💀💀💀💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂 wat a mess
A bit of a strange question in my opinion. If you’re going to have a woman or women, then should be able to afford them. But I don’t think a significant other should be a bill. Most monogamous men are proud to take care of a woman they have chosen. If money is that big of an issue, wait till your mature enough to love without counting the cost because that’s what relationships are.
This is it!!!!
@@gabrielletaylor3620 it sure is. This is why I would encourage all young people to spend their adolescence developing themselves to be good adults. Early twenties is not for trying out your body with other people, it’s for defining yourself to become part of a functioning unit - either society or a family. Save your bodies for someone who doesn’t make you think of financial implications of being with them.
DC is a mad hater! Drink a cold drink and sit down ( must off been upset about something)
Yasmine really thinks she’s the shit😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 man said 400£ is chicken change...like chill moving like she is worth it😂😂😂😂
she knows her worth and has high expectations. That’s why.
@@leabunyemu7550 her plastic surgery worth more than her
@@emmanuel2295 ur point? If ur broke just say that LMAO😂😂.
@@leabunyemu7550 huh😂😂😂 you think that banged
@@emmanuel2295 just telling it how it is 😂. She has every right to think highly of herself. U talkin all this shit like she’d ever look ur way…LMAO u good.
Lani with the receipts!! dc is actually mad.
It's good to live seperate when in a relationship imao because sometimes these men be emptying your fridge, running up your light bill, water bill and gas bill and they don't want to contribute to nothing; some of them want a mother and not a girlfriend. I'm willing to play a traditional role if he willing. Men these days want women to play a traditional role but they are working hard and finding excuses when they are supposed to play their's.
The back and forth with Dc and Lani will never not be funny🤣🤣🤣