When I first finished high school, a college mentor once told me the three things you need in the real world are: 1) Comfortable shoes to get you where you need to go 2) a good suit/blazer so you look good when you get there 3) a good watch so you get there on time. I am glad, TGV, that these three are on your list.
Thank you Kenneth, you are lucky to have such a pragmatic and inspirational mentor, you chose well. Have a great weekend, onwards and upwards! Best regards, TGV
Heres it for me what I would like to own a good suit made out of fully natural fabric, a good dress watch, quality shoes and socks, a house, a proper kitchenware set up, toiletries organised well, a good razor, quality entertainment system and a good workout routine. My Grandad wore a sports jacket but was a roadmaker by trade. Deck shoes can go well with smarter attire
That's a great addition. Not just the tools but the skills to use them. I believe there is a decent correlation between the library and the tool shop :) Engaging in either one leads to knowledge and productivity.
For those of you who wants to be quick: 1. Good shoes 1:27 2. A book collection 3:37 3. A bag that will last 6:13 4. A real watch 9:01 5. Formal attire 12:13 6. Art 14:20
I was very lucky to inherit my grandfather's shotguns, I proudly display them in the living room of his (now our family's house) where he kept them for the last 60 years. I truly believe every man should know how to fire a gun. I would add a pistol, rifle or shotgun that one is very familiar with. Not necessarily with the aim of hunting or self defence but as an added skill. Bows are a good option as well. And besides, shooting clay is mighty fun. Loved this video!!
I'd add the right fountain pen - it's a personal thing, but when you find that pen where aesthetics, weight, balance, nib feel & feedback (or smoothness), wetness & line width are "just so" for you - it makes the simple act of writing into a pleasure that you're delighted to revisit.
A basic toolbox, especially if you have children, is absolutely essential. For quick assess, I recommend a pocket-sized multi tool. I have a Leatherman Micra that is used daily in our household.
The most important things in the 30s is not having any debts and not being tied down. Works absolutely great for me. No subscriptions and other annoyances that only hold you down. When it comes to bags I have two good quality casual back packs, I find a hand bag / briefcase very inconvenient ( even if it can be hanged on your shoulder ).
A good pen (refillable, not disposable) and notepad. Yes we have phones but you never know when you have to sign for something or want to write something down properly.
A nice fountain pen is a great conversation starter. It doesn't have to be expensive either. I custom ordered some Pilot Varsity fountain pens with my branding on it so I can advertise while on the job.
A durable note book and a pen. No updates, no software malfunctions. Just paper and ink. Nobody can hack it, you cannot accidentally delete it. I always have one in my suitcase or coat pocket. 💪
When I attended med school in Düsseldorf in 1997 the central gathering place for our faculty was the Roy Lichtenstein hall which was lined with artwork the artist himself had worked on on the walls of our building. It took me a couple of years to realize that Lichtenstein had died only 2 weeks before I saw these walls for the first time. Sometimes it takes a certain age and maturity to appreciate and fully understand the profoundness of culture.
I grew up in Düsseldorf, down the street from my house was a shopping center with a naked statue of Adam, and an Italian restaurant with a smell that I cannot find anywhere in the world. It’s funny the things you take for granted and the lifetime it took to realize it!
Sir, my heart swells and my chest expands on your comments on a ‘real watch!’ You are exactly right on the definition. Be gone with those ‘Johnny come lately’ UA-cam experts who define ‘real watch’ in five figures! Stand proud, I salute you!
Okay, what would I add; a good tool kit: tool box with both metric and standard wrenches and sockets, good assortment of screwdrivers, pliers, hammers and chisels - either metal working or wood working. Any tool which can help you build, repair, fix or assemble anything you want to tackle. I do agree with every item TGV put forth, but for those who like the hands on experience, a good set of tools are essential.
Would recommend the (not a joke!) harbor freight mechanics tool sets. Very affordable, high quality, and come with a lifetime warranty. If anything in the kit fails, one can bring it back for a no-questions-asked replacement at no cost. Can’t ask for more!
Totally agree. Though I would say this is something you should own in your twenties. And then when you are 35 you've lost random sockets and drill bits and need to update
I'd add a good quality belt that's suitable for all occasions to the list. Wearing a belt gives a certain sense of security and you can use one to save someone's life.
In addition to books I’d say a journal. I think keeping a journal is an excellent way to help manage stress. I also carry a small sketch pad and a pencil with me. I’m not a great artist by any means, but every so often when I’m out and about I’ll see something interesting or majestic and I’ll do a little sketch and write a little note and it makes those moments so much more memorable for me.
A fisherman told me something similar one night. I considered it; if a poor, hard worker that pass days far away into the sea in a small boat to sustain his family gives a life hint, you probably must follow it.
"A real watch is never obsolete." Well said TGV, you put into words the criteria point that has been on the tip of my tongue. I feel that the same point applies to a watch's style too. A "real" watch is (pun intended) timeless.
@@entertainme7523 a wristwatch is a mechanical item. you service it every few years. as you might a car. look after these things and they will last years. my father has a pocketwatch he got from his grandfather from the early 1900s. a smartwatch is a disposable item. you discard it when it malfunctions, or when it becomes obsolete.
I would like to add another point to this great list which is a signature scent. Having a signature scent will truly make you unique since the large majority of the population isn’t wearing any fragrance. Also, it greatly enhances your mood, confidence and the way other people will approach and look at you. It’s a no brainer to me to also add a beautiful signature scent to this list😄
+1 on luggage, +1 on a good mechanical watch, +1 on good footware. I would add a grooming kit (dob kit), handkerchiefs, and pocket knife. As to character development, the ability to mend/repair things as needed, being very good at something--whether playing an instrument, or cabinet making, etc, and the ability to communicate/carry on a conversation.
Knives have been the most important tools and a good knife can last as long as a good watch when taken care of. That emotional bond you can also form with a knive that makes a companion in your adventures. Every man needs a companion knive like an Opinel or a Victorinox or whatever suits you best.
I'm 54 and may not own any art but my wife bought me tickets for Xmas to the pre raphaelite exhibition in battersea. They wasn't expensive but was and is the best present I've ever received. Great video as usual.
One thing to add would be a good set of tools. Hammer, screwdriver, and wrench at the minimum. A true renaissance man can fix his car saturday afternoon and still make it to the opera in the evening
Great list! I'd like to add a couple of ideas (perhaps for a second video) 7. A pen, preferably fountain pen. It's been said in several comments already 8. Something to document life with: camera, journal, voice recorder, sketch notebook, etc. 9. Umbrella.
Wow this is near scary, I'm 38 and have everything on the list except art. Scary thing is I recently started looking for a nice painting, so you are SPOT ON.
Lots of things I could add. Decent tools (whether for the normal stuff or more specialized hobbies), a good chef's knife and pans, a decent vacuum cleaner, a good pocket knife and multitool . . . but I think the most important thing I'll add is this: A good mattress, bed frame, sheets, and pillows. You spend a lot of your time using these things so they should be quality.
Every man should be humble, be willing to work hard for his family and to love unconditionally - and to have a least one really, really truly great watch.
i’m into music (playing, production, listening) and even though i’m an audiophile i don’t think a decent stereo and entertainment system is something “essential” for a man in his 30s. For me and you it probably is, but I think the point here is “presentation” of the person and quality of said presentation, you don’t present yourself with a “decent stereo and entertainment system”.
The books I keep coming back to are all the works of C.S. Lewis. "The Horse and His Boy", the "Space Trilogy", and "Till We Have Faces" are among his best works, in my opinion.
My appreciation for this channel is growing higher and higher by the day! I just love the light-hearted and yet absolutely perfect review of the must-have items, I enjoyed the little funny "reaction"... what's not to love, really? Almost forgot: that Accutron book... what a teaser! I hope to see more of it (and the watches, of course) in the future!
@@steved2008 its not just the practically of it though, there is an environmental impact too, imagine you buy a bottle of water in a plastic bottle twice a day, on your way to work and at lunch. That bottle could end up general trash rather than being recycled. That's 10 a week, or around 260 a year potentially. And that's just you. If everyone in an office of 200 did that too think of the ongoing impact 🤔
A swiss pocket knife. From opening a bottle of your favourite beverage to cutting open a packet, it is one of the most versatile items you can carry on your body. It also doesn’t cost an arm and a leg.
An outstanding list, TVG. Excellent guidance for all ages. There are a few accessories I think are worth considering: 1) A solid pen along the lines of Cross, for example, which will last a lifetime. 2) A smartphone, essential for communication and information. Unfortunately, you'll have to upgrade occasionally. 3) A Swiss Army Knife, with scissors, a bottle/can opener, etc. This tool will also last a lifetime. My three suggestions are items I find myself using daily.
Wearing a living, ticking watch is a must for me. I like my clothes and shoes to be comfortable and utilitarian while maintaining an appropriate look for the occasion. I have a canvas and leather shoulder/camera bag that I have had for over 20 years, and it's been wherever I have traveled. When the style fits the personality it's a good look.
As a storybook my favourite is Watership Down. I love both the steadily darkening tone and how it always contrasts with the excellent description of the english countryside from a low-down perspective.
I’d add a very good kitchen knife and a copper pan. Everyone should be able to cook a basic meal and having a knife that you love and know how to keep sharp helps that process
one of my favorite forever lasting items is I bought a royal navy surplus coat for the winter, weighs an absolute ton, looks so great, 100% wool so its very warm, very stylish and very cheap (i paid 25 pounds for it)
I have all these save a jacket, a pair of goodyear welted cap toe oxfords, a multitude of books, an old Zero Halliburton suitcase, a few affordable Japanese quartz watches, and art in many mediums. I would add a rifle to the list.
A few things to add to the list: High quality work boots (Nick's, Whites bc men should be ready to do some hard work and good footwear is crucial to that), a good cast iron skillet (cook almost anything), a good fixed blade (bark river for camping).
Great show T! Spot on with what you said about watches! Your main one shouldn’t need a software update and it’s main purpose is that you read the time from it! With regards to attire! My dinner jacket has a lovely family of moths living in the pockets!!!!!!!!! Will it ever come out of the wardrobe again???????!!!!!!! Maybe!!! Have a great weekend T!
At 27 I'm definitely getting more concious of things I should own to get through life / EDC items that will last a lifetime 1. A real watch (obviously) 2. A pen, I've got an engraved gold Parker jotter 3. Tools and a tool box 4. A well fitted suit or even a tailored suit 5. Good pair of shoes / smart shoes in general
LOL, thank you Taylor, hearing that I think you will really like my reaction in my recent Seamaster video 😉 ua-cam.com/video/aR9TyT2-9X8/v-deo.html Best regards, TGV
My go-to book is Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas by Hunter S. Thompson! It was extremely inspiring to know that someone that mentally unhinged could stumble from one dangerous adventure to another and come away from the experience richer, smarter, and full of delightful stories to tell. It emboldened me to take risks in my life that greatly enriched my character.
If you look in the comments I said the same. . Music is a huge part of my life and being able to really immerse myself in my favourite music is massively important to me
I would have agreed 20 years ago with the good stereo, but I am thinking these days, maybe all you need are good headphones, and maybe a small headphone amp.
@@martintanz9098 yes agree, I’m loving Spatial Audio from Apple Music at no extra cost , & a good pair of headphones 🎧 like Apple AirPods Max wireless over-ear headphones. Linn Sondek LP12 make excellent decks for old school vinyl - Liquid sound no listening fatigue
A good audio system. Just because I love music and it helps me wind down after a tough day and nothing is better than hearing your favourite album on something that reveals the finer details of that album.
I can say about watch I was going somewhere with my relative we barely did any big conversation but when he saw my watch he just saw i ve seen you maintained watch still look new and where we talked about automatic watch about an half an hour😂 seriously that was our 1st big talk just on automatic or quartz
I completely agree with you, but I'll add good shoes and a good desk chair. If you're not sleeping you're on your feet or sitting for work. For toothbrush (with sensodyne), a good electric fixed my sensitive tooth the dentist couldn't find, for which I suffered for years where a cheap electric couldn't fix.
@@PWCDN yes I agree , I don’t wear shoes that often, but have found the most comfortable/light weight & breathable -Nike zoom winflo 4 trainers. My toothbrush is the Philips Diamondclean Sonic electric “if Apple made Toothbrushes it would be this one, in white of course lol 😁”
Knowledge. It's everything and it encompasses everything. Every day you can learn something new and improve yourself. Nowadays the internet seems so underrated for how much you can learn about anything for FREE. We have access to pretty much the whole human knowledge in our pockets and use it to fight ourselves on twitter, look at memes on social media, or watch TGV's videos on youtube. I do that too ngl. But Cicero and Marcus Aurelius would have given each and every one of their descendants and empire for this kind of power. We take for granted too many things. Also, I need a nice pair of shoes and a good jacket.
I will add two items. 1.) A pocket knife. You can find an endless variety of styles, sizes, shapes, colors, materials, etc. There is something out there that will speak to you. There's nothing wrong with a simple little Swiss Army Knife. I lost count of how many loose threads I cut off of clothing with those little scissors some of them have attached. They are simply very useful tools. Be warned, people that don't carry one around and know that you do will bug you to use it all the time. 2.) A quality writing instrument. I believe every man should own at least one nice writing instrument. I have more pens than any sane person should own. The classiest being a Pelikan Souveran M800 fountain pen (black with solid gold trim and nib) purchased some 17 years ago from Richard Binder (fountain people will know the name). It's timelessly elegant in my opinion. You don't need something that expensive. Like pocket knives, there is an endless variety and you can find something classy and nice for a fraction of the price. Taking notes on a smart phone is not as good as using actual pen and paper. I promise you will get compliments on this item from people.
I had to say your list is spot on.... I add perhaps an nice medium level, classic, fountain pen, that also will last many lifetimes, and is eco-friendly.... Greetings from Brazil 🤗 ciao!!!!
I would definitely add a small pocket knife or small multitool plus a small flashlight. You never realize how handy they are until you start carrying them every day. My go-to right now is Either a Boker urban trapper with Cocabola scales or a Victorinox Alux Pioneer X and 2 small lights. One tiny Olight i1R 2 for my keychain plus an Olight Baton 3 in red. I am slowly collecting small lights Olights in ANY color except black. I'm so tired of Black flashlights.😅 I also carry a pen. A small collapsable pen is always on my keychain and sometimes I have an Olight flashlight pen in real cooper or Blue instead of my Baton 3 flashlight. Lastly if am carrying my journal I always carry a jotter (thanks for the recommendation) and a high-quality mechanical pencil or lead holder.
You are one classy guy!...and you got me into horology at a late stage in my life (66) I'd add a good hifi system...something that in the age of mp3s and small blu-tooth speakers seems to be lacking and I think the last couple of generations have missed out on and are oblivious to good stereo sound reproduction that you can just take the time to sit down and enjoy by itself with no distractions
I would have agreed with you 15 or 20 years ago, but that ship has sailed. I spent years carefully curating a collection of records and cds, and investing in a high quality stereo to enjoy them. But that feels like a long time ago, because in many requests, it was. Firing up the big stereo with floorstanding speakers, cd player or turntable, etc, must look to young people as old fashioned as my grandparents putting a 78 on the old Victrola looked to me when I was a teenager. Like it or not, streaming services mated with smart speakers are how most people listen to music, so maybe the key is to invest in a good set of headphones or better quality smart speakers.
Agree. Naim amp + preamp, decent speakers and stream from a lossless format (or vinyl for some warmth and detail) cannot beat it. Sitting down and listening takes a bit of discipline in today’s frenetic world, but will reward with enjoyment, new creative thoughts and an appreciation of musicians and their craft.
One thing I learned from the Army, never go cheap on footwear. If you are on your feet alot, especially in a job setting, it is probably your biggest investment when it comes to gear. I wear steel toe boots daily and you can certainly tell cheaply made boots versus those that might seem more expensive initially, but always pay off in the end. Also, get a watch. Never be forced to have to ask the time. Even today, with smart phones and watches, I still get asked the time when I am out. If I could go back 25 years, I would tell myself, "buy the best that you can afford, and be prepared to hang on to it for as long as you can." Great video, TGV!
Great upload! Great list! My book of choice that is always with me is Derek Robinson’s Piece Of Cake. The story of a fictional RAF Fighter Command Hurricane squadron in the 1st year of WW2. It inspired me to become a pilot. Which brings me to my next choice, as a pilot, decent sun glasses are essential when flying and something with “big windows” especially so. For me, it’s a pair of Ray Ban Aviators.
I got two pairs of desert boots from clarks (leather and suede) 10 years ago and are both worn at least half of the year and they still come up like new once cleaned. Fantastic quality.
TGV - would love to see a video about your take on Sprezzatura, I have read a little on the topic, but would appreciate your perspective given how dapper you are. Thank you Sir
I’d say do not get the Clark’s and just save a little longer and get a pair of loakes which will set you back anywhere in the £180/270, they are well made, fit like a glove. Plus the in store advice is very good. They’ll recommend you something. A proper good year welted shoe is not even in the same conversation as glued shoes, remember that.
I"m in my early thirties and this felt like a big brother is giving me life advices. I do try to live by all these. Thank you for always presenting in such a classy way. TGV, if you're ever in London, let me know. I'd love to buy you a drink and geek out on art, music, whiskey and of course, watches.
You’re a life saver, I was in desperate search for a good pair of dress shoes for two upcoming weddings I am invited to. As always, thanks TGV, excellent excellent video
This was a fantastic video. I am doing pretty well on your list, although our tastes are slightly different. The one thing I would add to the list is while not a tangible “thing” is humility.
1000% agree with the Clark’s shoes 👞 one, I’ve always felt the value in them, my good old Clark’s brown leather Chelsea boots r my go to for anything with wearing to wearing with a suit, they are so comfortable, look after them & they will last you 10 years min.
Your right with your list and as you said I would include a pocket knife as well. At first everyone laught but now they are all happy that their s that crazy guy with a knife in his pocket 🤣
A gentlemen's pocketknife or swiss army knife (I prefer the alox series) for sure. Besides being genuinely useful, it gives a sense of being self-reliant and capable to help others in need (by solving problems and fixing stuff on the spot).
I picked up a lovely Smythson Burlington holdall, further to one of you previous videos. Quite an indulgent purchase in this climate but so happy I’ve finally committed. Great intro buddy as always!!
Great video. Thanks. I’d add something very few think about. A fully equipped first aid kit. I use a first aid roll that is always in my car and it has virtually everything that anyone could possibly need for any sort of emergency (within reason). And you should double that up by taking an emergency first aid class every 5 years or so, so you know what to do in emergencies. I cannot count the number of times, I’ve gone to that kit over the years. So important is this, TGV, that I recommend that you put together one for a video. I’m happy to share the contents of mine if you are interested.
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance is my "book for life"- I've read it probably a dozen or more times already, and I still learn useful new things from it every time.
Awesome list TGV! I think too many 30-somethings tend to focus so much on gadgets like phones, smartwatches, etc. for their everyday carry. It's nice to see some advice like this for more traditional (yet critical) items like bags, shoes, clothes, and of course a watch.
I would add a good pen. Perhaps even a fountain pen. Perhaps even a pen collection. Personally I prefer writing my thoughts down than typing them on a phone or computer.
I just got fitted for a custom pair of boots for the reasons outlined in this episode. It is quite pricey at over $600 USD. But, they measured every aspect of each foot and I was able to pick out the leather and make choices on all other parts, including the sole. My watch (other than my Fenix 6x) is custom made by a micro brand (the owner is a good friend), and the same things apply: I get to choose the movement, the hands, the strap, etc. I've looked into bespoke jeans, but have not ordered any. My EDC pocket knife is also custom made by a gentleman in North Carolina. Again, expensive, but I have never needed another blade in over four years.
As a music teacher I wholeheartedly agree. Nothing tops being able to express yourself through sound. It's like unlocking a pathway to your inner self through artistic expression you wouldn't otherwise be able to connect with
Thank God I'm already in my 40s :-) On a serious note, apart from still working on formal attire, these are great points. I used the same, high-quality backpack from the first year of high school until I got my PhD -- its replacement is now going strong for 10 years. Used the same good suitcase for all of my adult life. And while I'm super frugal, I'll always buy good shoes and have learned to take care of them.
I swear by Johnston & Murphy for dress shoes. I’ve had my current black Oxford’s for at least 15 years with two sole replacements. They look brand new. Super well made.
When I first finished high school, a college mentor once told me the three things you need in the real world are: 1) Comfortable shoes to get you where you need to go 2) a good suit/blazer so you look good when you get there 3) a good watch so you get there on time. I am glad, TGV, that these three are on your list.
Thank you Kenneth, you are lucky to have such a pragmatic and inspirational mentor, you chose well.
Have a great weekend, onwards and upwards!
Best regards,
TGV
Heres it for me what I would like to own a good suit made out of fully natural fabric, a good dress watch, quality shoes and socks, a house, a proper kitchenware set up, toiletries organised well, a good razor, quality entertainment system and a good workout routine.
My Grandad wore a sports jacket but was a roadmaker by trade. Deck shoes can go well with smarter attire
As far as a book it would have to be Khalil gibraun the prophet,and as for art it would have to be anything by Jackson pollack aka “jack the dripper
Ooh.. That's so good! 😆 Sounds like a great thing to pass on to my son! Thanks for sharing👍
That sounds great 👍🏼
#7: Every man should own a great set of high quality tools, and know how to use them!
Yes, and have them in 45 and 9mm.
That's a great addition. Not just the tools but the skills to use them. I believe there is a decent correlation between the library and the tool shop :) Engaging in either one leads to knowledge and productivity.
Its facts!!!!!
At least a knife or a SAK
@@JoeloftheTigers I would have gone with semi and full
Being a 35 year old man, I am going into this video a bit on edge
"Ummm what was I saying?"
I suppose we all thought that, one way or another.
ngl that clip was expertly added.
Yup that last one flew by me as well
apparently it's two way or another
Fantastic! Such a Matrix moment. Did you noticed the lady in red? I put her there.
Lol! Never seen TGV like that before!
11:05 lol 😂 perfect reaction to that footage
That was my reaction too.
Had me going too..
Was she even wearing a watch? I didn’t notice
Hilarious 😂
Had a wank.
For those of you who wants to be quick:
1. Good shoes 1:27
2. A book collection 3:37
3. A bag that will last 6:13
4. A real watch 9:01
5. Formal attire 12:13
6. Art 14:20
Thank you 🙏🏼
A truck
Thanks bro
7. Boobs 10:56
the hero we needed
I was very lucky to inherit my grandfather's shotguns, I proudly display them in the living room of his (now our family's house) where he kept them for the last 60 years. I truly believe every man should know how to fire a gun. I would add a pistol, rifle or shotgun that one is very familiar with. Not necessarily with the aim of hunting or self defence but as an added skill. Bows are a good option as well. And besides, shooting clay is mighty fun. Loved this video!!
I have to disagree with you, because weapons are made to kill which isn't really what I want in my life.
@@jarkob1117 weapons was made to defence yourself.
@@januszp0143 Other words for the same thing
@@jarkob1117 I would prefer to live and my family to live than to have my life ended simply because I couldn't protect myself or my family.
@@zahktuthalxalyrion6364 as a german my philosophy and my fear of attackers my be a little diffrent than yours
I'd add the right fountain pen - it's a personal thing, but when you find that pen where aesthetics, weight, balance, nib feel & feedback (or smoothness), wetness & line width are "just so" for you - it makes the simple act of writing into a pleasure that you're delighted to revisit.
A basic toolbox, especially if you have children, is absolutely essential. For quick assess, I recommend a pocket-sized multi tool. I have a Leatherman Micra that is used daily in our household.
The most important things in the 30s is not having any debts and not being tied down. Works absolutely great for me. No subscriptions and other annoyances that only hold you down. When it comes to bags I have two good quality casual back packs, I find a hand bag / briefcase very inconvenient ( even if it can be hanged on your shoulder ).
A good pen (refillable, not disposable) and notepad. Yes we have phones but you never know when you have to sign for something or want to write something down properly.
I like to use a Parker Sonnet fountain pen with Mont Blanc toffee brown ink.
Oh and don’t underestimate just writing random words every now and then. Got to keep that good handwriting up to date.
My dad gave me a pelican fountain pelikan fountain pen i love it
A nice fountain pen is a great conversation starter. It doesn't have to be expensive either. I custom ordered some Pilot Varsity fountain pens with my branding on it so I can advertise while on the job.
I would normally agree, except after I found the Uniball Vision pens (particularly the Micro), I just can't bring myself to use anything else.
A durable note book and a pen. No updates, no software malfunctions. Just paper and ink. Nobody can hack it, you cannot accidentally delete it. I always have one in my suitcase or coat pocket. 💪
When I attended med school in Düsseldorf in 1997 the central gathering place for our faculty was the Roy Lichtenstein hall which was lined with artwork the artist himself had worked on on the walls of our building. It took me a couple of years to realize that Lichtenstein had died only 2 weeks before I saw these walls for the first time. Sometimes it takes a certain age and maturity to appreciate and fully understand the profoundness of culture.
When I went to med school in Philadelphia in 1986 our gathering place was linoleum and fluorescent lights. I think I should have studied abroad.
Thank you for link it is indeed special.
How old was he
I grew up in Düsseldorf, down the street from my house was a shopping center with a naked statue of Adam, and an Italian restaurant with a smell that I cannot find anywhere in the world. It’s funny the things you take for granted and the lifetime it took to realize it!
didn't read
Sir, my heart swells and my chest expands on your comments on a ‘real watch!’ You are exactly right on the definition. Be gone with those ‘Johnny come lately’ UA-cam experts who define ‘real watch’ in five figures! Stand proud, I salute you!
Okay, what would I add; a good tool kit: tool box with both metric and standard wrenches and sockets, good assortment of screwdrivers, pliers, hammers and chisels - either metal working or wood working. Any tool which can help you build, repair, fix or assemble anything you want to tackle. I do agree with every item TGV put forth, but for those who like the hands on experience, a good set of tools are essential.
You beat me to it, I'll also add a swiss army knife
I couldn't agree more
@@133774c05 You can never go wrong with a SAK.
Would recommend the (not a joke!) harbor freight mechanics tool sets. Very affordable, high quality, and come with a lifetime warranty. If anything in the kit fails, one can bring it back for a no-questions-asked replacement at no cost. Can’t ask for more!
Totally agree. Though I would say this is something you should own in your twenties. And then when you are 35 you've lost random sockets and drill bits and need to update
A decent set of tools. Things break. Knowing how to repair something and having the tools to do so yourself is essential.
I'd add a good quality belt that's suitable for all occasions to the list. Wearing a belt gives a certain sense of security and you can use one to save someone's life.
In addition to books I’d say a journal. I think keeping a journal is an excellent way to help manage stress. I also carry a small sketch pad and a pencil with me. I’m not a great artist by any means, but every so often when I’m out and about I’ll see something interesting or majestic and I’ll do a little sketch and write a little note and it makes those moments so much more memorable for me.
A nice cast iron skillet and chefs knife.
From the grill to oven to cooktop to table, versatile tools for any meal.
Learn how to cook, is most under rated gift a man can give to himself and all the people in his life.
A fisherman told me something similar one night. I considered it; if a poor, hard worker that pass days far away into the sea in a small boat to sustain his family gives a life hint, you probably must follow it.
These are items, cooking is a skill. As he said - a topic for another video
"A real watch is never obsolete."
Well said TGV, you put into words the criteria point that has been on the tip of my tongue. I feel that the same point applies to a watch's style too. A "real" watch is (pun intended) timeless.
A real watch that has to be serviced for a half the price you paid?
@@entertainme7523 a wristwatch is a mechanical item. you service it every few years. as you might a car. look after these things and they will last years. my father has a pocketwatch he got from his grandfather from the early 1900s. a smartwatch is a disposable item. you discard it when it malfunctions, or when it becomes obsolete.
I would like to add another point to this great list which is a signature scent. Having a signature scent will truly make you unique since the large majority of the population isn’t wearing any fragrance. Also, it greatly enhances your mood, confidence and the way other people will approach and look at you. It’s a no brainer to me to also add a beautiful signature scent to this list😄
lol
+1 on luggage, +1 on a good mechanical watch, +1 on good footware.
I would add a grooming kit (dob kit), handkerchiefs, and pocket knife.
As to character development, the ability to mend/repair things as needed, being very good at something--whether playing an instrument, or cabinet making, etc, and the ability to communicate/carry on a conversation.
Knives have been the most important tools and a good knife can last as long as a good watch when taken care of. That emotional bond you can also form with a knive that makes a companion in your adventures. Every man needs a companion knive like an Opinel or a Victorinox or whatever suits you best.
Personally i missed one thing: A decent Hifi System ☝️
Yes!! Music is as important as books in my opinion.
I agree. AirPods, Spotify and your phone are ok on the move. But when at home its nice to listen to music on a nice British hifi system.
I'm 54 and may not own any art but my wife bought me tickets for Xmas to the pre raphaelite exhibition in battersea. They wasn't expensive but was and is the best present I've ever received. Great video as usual.
One thing to add would be a good set of tools. Hammer, screwdriver, and wrench at the minimum. A true renaissance man can fix his car saturday afternoon and still make it to the opera in the evening
I spent my whole life like that ...................perhaps because I had no one to do it for me.
Well said!
@Max E Wonder who told you this ?
@@peterkull8354 my nephews always ask how I learned to do something. My answer is always the same.
@Max E Gentleman or not, a ‘man’ is self-reliant.
coffee grinder!!! (best investment - huge improvement to life quality)
descent kitchen knifes
good cooking pans
Great list! I'd like to add a couple of ideas (perhaps for a second video)
7. A pen, preferably fountain pen. It's been said in several comments already
8. Something to document life with: camera, journal, voice recorder, sketch notebook, etc.
9. Umbrella.
I would add: a good bed. We spend almost half of our lives in it and a good night's sleep is so important.
Wow this is near scary, I'm 38 and have everything on the list except art. Scary thing is I recently started looking for a nice painting, so you are SPOT ON.
Remember, all it has to do is make you think! Or make you feel one way or another, anyway
Lots of things I could add. Decent tools (whether for the normal stuff or more specialized hobbies), a good chef's knife and pans, a decent vacuum cleaner, a good pocket knife and multitool . . . but I think the most important thing I'll add is this: A good mattress, bed frame, sheets, and pillows. You spend a lot of your time using these things so they should be quality.
I SO agree with all your additions!
Every man should be humble, be willing to work hard for his family and to love unconditionally - and to have a least one really, really truly great watch.
I would add a decent stereo and entertainment system and a quality culinary knife set to the list.
Bluetooth radio and Uber Eats account, simple as
i’m into music (playing, production, listening) and even though i’m an audiophile i don’t think a decent stereo and entertainment system is something “essential” for a man in his 30s. For me and you it probably is, but I think the point here is “presentation” of the person and quality of said presentation, you don’t present yourself with a “decent stereo and entertainment system”.
The books I keep coming back to are all the works of C.S. Lewis.
"The Horse and His Boy", the "Space Trilogy", and "Till We Have Faces" are among his best works, in my opinion.
I love CS Lewis. The Screwtape Letters is one of my favorite books.
Hear, hear! My personal favorite is the Four Loves..
My appreciation for this channel is growing higher and higher by the day! I just love the light-hearted and yet absolutely perfect review of the must-have items, I enjoyed the little funny "reaction"... what's not to love, really?
Almost forgot: that Accutron book... what a teaser! I hope to see more of it (and the watches, of course) in the future!
A reusable water bottle. Staying hydrated is crucial to staying on your A game.
I agree I use an Ernosto metal flask
Modest pelican
Do you live in the Sahara desert ? Carrying water bottles around in a modern city is laughable
@@steved2008 its not just the practically of it though, there is an environmental impact too, imagine you buy a bottle of water in a plastic bottle twice a day, on your way to work and at lunch. That bottle could end up general trash rather than being recycled. That's 10 a week, or around 260 a year potentially. And that's just you. If everyone in an office of 200 did that too think of the ongoing impact 🤔
Steve D manky or non existent water fountains, Covid 19 and the time it takes to get water in a cafe etc makes Water bottles convient
A swiss pocket knife. From opening a bottle of your favourite beverage to cutting open a packet, it is one of the most versatile items you can carry on your body. It also doesn’t cost an arm and a leg.
An outstanding list, TVG. Excellent guidance for all ages. There are a few accessories I think are worth considering: 1) A solid pen along the lines of Cross, for example, which will last a lifetime. 2) A smartphone, essential for communication and information. Unfortunately, you'll have to upgrade occasionally. 3) A Swiss Army Knife, with scissors, a bottle/can opener, etc. This tool will also last a lifetime. My three suggestions are items I find myself using daily.
Definitely not a smartphone.
9:45 can't believe you mentioned the iconic F91W!! Big thumbs up from me buddy. I also loved that you defined what a "real watch" is to you. ❤️
10:55-11:08 is one of the all time great moments of this legendary channel.
A good pen! A well made winter coat and a good (legal) pocket knife
Wearing a living, ticking watch is a must for me. I like my clothes and shoes to be comfortable and utilitarian while maintaining an appropriate look for the occasion. I have a canvas and leather shoulder/camera bag that I have had for over 20 years, and it's been wherever I have traveled. When the style fits the personality it's a good look.
As a storybook my favourite is Watership Down. I love both the steadily darkening tone and how it always contrasts with the excellent description of the english countryside from a low-down perspective.
I’d add a very good kitchen knife and a copper pan. Everyone should be able to cook a basic meal and having a knife that you love and know how to keep sharp helps that process
Great call.
Great choice. I love my Miyabi Birchwood Japanese chefs knife. Probably never have to but another knife again
Kai Shun kitchen knife 18mm. You only need one. It is also a piece of art.
Very good advice. I do have both.
Yes ! I use a Randall Model 10 Saltwater fisherman & Utility knife 7 inch blade 😂
one of my favorite forever lasting items is I bought a royal navy surplus coat for the winter, weighs an absolute ton, looks so great, 100% wool so its very warm, very stylish and very cheap (i paid 25 pounds for it)
And this is why I subscribe to the channel.
I have all these save a jacket, a pair of goodyear welted cap toe oxfords, a multitude of books, an old Zero Halliburton suitcase, a few affordable Japanese quartz watches, and art in many mediums. I would add a rifle to the list.
In Minnesota or other cold locations, a good quality winter jacket!! We spend nearly half the year sometimes wearing it.
My personal top 6: 1. Watch 2. Tool kit 3. Stereo 4. Stock Portfolio 5. Art 6. Musical instrument. Great video, thanks!
That intro is the business.
Physical forms of music like vinyl, CDs, or even cassettes are a must. They just go to show your maturity while also revealing your fun side imo.
A few things to add to the list: High quality work boots (Nick's, Whites bc men should be ready to do some hard work and good footwear is crucial to that), a good cast iron skillet (cook almost anything), a good fixed blade (bark river for camping).
Great show T! Spot on with what you said about watches! Your main one shouldn’t need a software update and it’s main purpose is that you read the time from it!
With regards to attire! My dinner jacket has a lovely family of moths living in the pockets!!!!!!!!! Will it ever come out of the wardrobe again???????!!!!!!! Maybe!!! Have a great weekend T!
A dependable, unassisted pocket knife is a must. A reputable brand can also last generations and have the sentimental value of a passed-down watch.
I agree! I have a Buck 110.
A good bike and the fitness to use it.
I hope a cope of Meditations is on here! I’m still a teenager and it’s helped change my outlook on life and the way I try and live it
I am so happy to hear that you have no idea!
Thank you my friend, enjoy the book, onwards and upwards,
Best regards,
TGV
At 27 I'm definitely getting more concious of things I should own to get through life / EDC items that will last a lifetime
1. A real watch (obviously)
2. A pen, I've got an engraved gold Parker jotter
3. Tools and a tool box
4. A well fitted suit or even a tailored suit
5. Good pair of shoes / smart shoes in general
10:55 I was not expecting that kind of response and it caught me off guard. I was laughing so hard I couldn't breathe 🤣
LOL, thank you Taylor, hearing that I think you will really like my reaction in my recent Seamaster video 😉
ua-cam.com/video/aR9TyT2-9X8/v-deo.html
Best regards,
TGV
Was thinking the same thing as TGV there.
It was so unexpected, but I was doing the EXACT same thing. I couldn't stop laughing, hahaha
My go-to book is Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas by Hunter S. Thompson! It was extremely inspiring to know that someone that mentally unhinged could stumble from one dangerous adventure to another and come away from the experience richer, smarter, and full of delightful stories to tell. It emboldened me to take risks in my life that greatly enriched my character.
Dremel, decent audio system to listen to whatever music you're into, down coat. Love your recommendations!
YESSSSS!!!! I love it, so true. Thank you Dennis.
Best regards,
TGV
If you look in the comments I said the same. . Music is a huge part of my life and being able to really immerse myself in my favourite music is massively important to me
I would have agreed 20 years ago with the good stereo, but I am thinking these days, maybe all you need are good headphones, and maybe a small headphone amp.
@@martintanz9098 yes agree, I’m loving Spatial Audio from Apple Music at no extra cost , & a good pair of headphones 🎧 like Apple AirPods Max wireless over-ear headphones.
Linn Sondek LP12 make excellent decks for old school vinyl - Liquid sound no listening fatigue
A good audio system. Just because I love music and it helps me wind down after a tough day and nothing is better than hearing your favourite album on something that reveals the finer details of that album.
Items to own by 35: A proper coffee/espresso grinder!
Tea all the way
Yes! 🙂
@@mikesomerset6338 What brand
I can say about watch
I was going somewhere with my relative we barely did any big conversation but when he saw my watch he just saw i ve seen you maintained watch still look new and where we talked about automatic watch about an half an hour😂 seriously that was our 1st big talk just on automatic or quartz
You only need 3 things in life, A good bed, a good toothbrush , & a good watch lol 😂
I completely agree with you, but I'll add good shoes and a good desk chair. If you're not sleeping you're on your feet or sitting for work. For toothbrush (with sensodyne), a good electric fixed my sensitive tooth the dentist couldn't find, for which I suffered for years where a cheap electric couldn't fix.
@@PWCDN yes I agree , I don’t wear shoes that often, but have found the most comfortable/light weight & breathable -Nike zoom winflo 4 trainers.
My toothbrush is the Philips Diamondclean Sonic electric “if Apple made Toothbrushes it would be this one, in white of course lol 😁”
Knowledge. It's everything and it encompasses everything. Every day you can learn something new and improve yourself. Nowadays the internet seems so underrated for how much you can learn about anything for FREE. We have access to pretty much the whole human knowledge in our pockets and use it to fight ourselves on twitter, look at memes on social media, or watch TGV's videos on youtube. I do that too ngl.
But Cicero and Marcus Aurelius would have given each and every one of their descendants and empire for this kind of power. We take for granted too many things.
Also, I need a nice pair of shoes and a good jacket.
I will add two items.
1.) A pocket knife. You can find an endless variety of styles, sizes, shapes, colors, materials, etc. There is something out there that will speak to you. There's nothing wrong with a simple little Swiss Army Knife. I lost count of how many loose threads I cut off of clothing with those little scissors some of them have attached. They are simply very useful tools. Be warned, people that don't carry one around and know that you do will bug you to use it all the time.
2.) A quality writing instrument. I believe every man should own at least one nice writing instrument. I have more pens than any sane person should own. The classiest being a Pelikan Souveran M800 fountain pen (black with solid gold trim and nib) purchased some 17 years ago from Richard Binder (fountain people will know the name). It's timelessly elegant in my opinion. You don't need something that expensive. Like pocket knives, there is an endless variety and you can find something classy and nice for a fraction of the price. Taking notes on a smart phone is not as good as using actual pen and paper. I promise you will get compliments on this item from people.
I had to say your list is spot on.... I add perhaps an nice medium level, classic, fountain pen, that also will last many lifetimes, and is eco-friendly.... Greetings from Brazil 🤗 ciao!!!!
Literally, just crawled in the jet. I'll watch as soon as I get to the hotel. I am sure this one will be EPIC! Onward and Upward, my friend!
Haha, safe flying my friend.
O&U!!!
Best regards,
TGV
I would definitely add a small pocket knife or small multitool plus a small flashlight. You never realize how handy they are until you start carrying them every day. My go-to right now is Either a Boker urban trapper with Cocabola scales or a Victorinox Alux Pioneer X and 2 small lights. One tiny Olight i1R 2 for my keychain plus an Olight Baton 3 in red. I am slowly collecting small lights Olights in ANY color except black. I'm so tired of Black flashlights.😅
I also carry a pen. A small collapsable pen is always on my keychain and sometimes I have an Olight flashlight pen in real cooper or Blue instead of my Baton 3 flashlight.
Lastly if am carrying my journal I always carry a jotter (thanks for the recommendation) and a high-quality mechanical pencil or lead holder.
Mite lite by Maglite is a classic keychain size flashlight that is affordable and super quality
You are one classy guy!...and you got me into horology at a late stage in my life (66) I'd add a good hifi system...something that in the age of mp3s and small blu-tooth speakers seems to be lacking and I think the last couple of generations have missed out on and are oblivious to good stereo sound reproduction that you can just take the time to sit down and enjoy by itself with no distractions
I am ancient too and cant get over what the kids listen to now and think its ok.
I would have agreed with you 15 or 20 years ago, but that ship has sailed. I spent years carefully curating a collection of records and cds, and investing in a high quality stereo to enjoy them. But that feels like a long time ago, because in many requests, it was. Firing up the big stereo with floorstanding speakers, cd player or turntable, etc, must look to young people as old fashioned as my grandparents putting a 78 on the old Victrola looked to me when I was a teenager.
Like it or not, streaming services mated with smart speakers are how most people listen to music, so maybe the key is to invest in a good set of headphones or better quality smart speakers.
Agree
Agree. Naim amp + preamp, decent speakers and stream from a lossless format (or vinyl for some warmth and detail) cannot beat it. Sitting down and listening takes a bit of discipline in today’s frenetic world, but will reward with enjoyment, new creative thoughts and an appreciation of musicians and their craft.
One thing I learned from the Army, never go cheap on footwear. If you are on your feet alot, especially in a job setting, it is probably your biggest investment when it comes to gear. I wear steel toe boots daily and you can certainly tell cheaply made boots versus those that might seem more expensive initially, but always pay off in the end. Also, get a watch. Never be forced to have to ask the time. Even today, with smart phones and watches, I still get asked the time when I am out. If I could go back 25 years, I would tell myself, "buy the best that you can afford, and be prepared to hang on to it for as long as you can." Great video, TGV!
That pusher poster is art! Mandy too, wonderful taste in film.
Thank you Luke, I love that you appreciate it too.
Best regards,
TGV
@@theurbangentry I was just gonna say. That Mandy poster! Punk fuckin' rock. Cheers brother.
Great upload! Great list! My book of choice that is always with me is Derek Robinson’s Piece Of Cake. The story of a fictional RAF Fighter Command Hurricane squadron in the 1st year of WW2. It inspired me to become a pilot. Which brings me to my next choice, as a pilot, decent sun glasses are essential when flying and something with “big windows” especially so. For me, it’s a pair of Ray Ban Aviators.
Basic tools like a hammer, drill, rachet etc. So you can do small rapairs on your own. Also decent headphones/speakers to enjoy music more.
I got two pairs of desert boots from clarks (leather and suede) 10 years ago and are both worn at least half of the year and they still come up like new once cleaned. Fantastic quality.
TGV - would love to see a video about your take on Sprezzatura, I have read a little on the topic, but would appreciate your perspective given how dapper you are. Thank you Sir
After reading some of the comments I would agree and say a good pen, essential in this day, and yes black ink.
I’d say do not get the Clark’s and just save a little longer and get a pair of loakes which will set you back anywhere in the £180/270, they are well made, fit like a glove. Plus the in store advice is very good. They’ll recommend you something. A proper good year welted shoe is not even in the same conversation as glued shoes, remember that.
I"m in my early thirties and this felt like a big brother is giving me life advices. I do try to live by all these. Thank you for always presenting in such a classy way. TGV, if you're ever in London, let me know. I'd love to buy you a drink and geek out on art, music, whiskey and of course, watches.
You’re a life saver, I was in desperate search for a good pair of dress shoes for two upcoming weddings I am invited to. As always, thanks TGV, excellent excellent video
This was a fantastic video. I am doing pretty well on your list, although our tastes are slightly different. The one thing I would add to the list is while not a tangible “thing” is humility.
1000% agree with the Clark’s shoes 👞 one, I’ve always felt the value in them, my good old Clark’s brown leather Chelsea boots r my go to for anything with wearing to wearing with a suit, they are so comfortable, look after them & they will last you 10 years min.
Your right with your list and as you said I would include a pocket knife as well. At first everyone laught but now they are all happy that their s that crazy guy with a knife in his pocket 🤣
Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind is one of my favorite reads
Thank you Steve, deffo going to check it out.
Best regards,
TGV
Great book.. as is the sequel: Homo Deus: A Brief History of Tomorrow
@@MrPatrick1414 I bought it but haven't had the chance to read it!
@@theurbangentry its a great read! Really puts our story (humans in general) into perspective.
An absolute masterpiece,fellow gentry! Really puts things into perspective!
I believe a good fountain pen, a good pocket knife and a good working/office chair are must own items.
A gentlemen's pocketknife or swiss army knife (I prefer the alox series) for sure. Besides being genuinely useful, it gives a sense of being self-reliant and capable to help others in need (by solving problems and fixing stuff on the spot).
A Leatherman Wave my friend.....amazing !
I picked up a lovely Smythson Burlington holdall, further to one of you previous videos. Quite an indulgent purchase in this climate but so happy I’ve finally committed.
Great intro buddy as always!!
11:04 I hope I'm not the only one who got the joke! And yes, I had the same reaction as I watched the video.
Hahahah
Me too. The most enjoyable Easter egg I've seen in a while.............or forever in a TGV video.
I can only speak as a man but I think we all get the joke.
Great video. Thanks. I’d add something very few think about. A fully equipped first aid kit. I use a first aid roll that is always in my car and it has virtually everything that anyone could possibly need for any sort of emergency (within reason). And you should double that up by taking an emergency first aid class every 5 years or so, so you know what to do in emergencies. I cannot count the number of times, I’ve gone to that kit over the years. So important is this, TGV, that I recommend that you put together one for a video. I’m happy to share the contents of mine if you are interested.
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance is my "book for life"- I've read it probably a dozen or more times already, and I still learn useful new things from it every time.
I've never heard anyone reference this book before. I read it back in 2004 or 2005.
Cheers!
Awesome list TGV! I think too many 30-somethings tend to focus so much on gadgets like phones, smartwatches, etc. for their everyday carry. It's nice to see some advice like this for more traditional (yet critical) items like bags, shoes, clothes, and of course a watch.
I would add a good pen. Perhaps even a fountain pen. Perhaps even a pen collection. Personally I prefer writing my thoughts down than typing them on a phone or computer.
I just got fitted for a custom pair of boots for the reasons outlined in this episode. It is quite pricey at over $600 USD. But, they measured every aspect of each foot and I was able to pick out the leather and make choices on all other parts, including the sole. My watch (other than my Fenix 6x) is custom made by a micro brand (the owner is a good friend), and the same things apply: I get to choose the movement, the hands, the strap, etc. I've looked into bespoke jeans, but have not ordered any. My EDC pocket knife is also custom made by a gentleman in North Carolina. Again, expensive, but I have never needed another blade in over four years.
You need to learn a musical instrument! It brings joy and tranquility in life.
Well said!
As a music teacher I wholeheartedly agree. Nothing tops being able to express yourself through sound. It's like unlocking a pathway to your inner self through artistic expression you wouldn't otherwise be able to connect with
I would love to see formal hats come back into fashion. I wore a fedora for years when I was younger (I'm 63 now).
You can't beat a good book. If I was Stuck on a Island with only 2 books. They would have to be Beowulf & the Hobbit.
Hey Beowulf and The Hobbit, is a good concept for a new novel, you should think about writing it.
@@simply_psi thanks. I will 👍
Thank God I'm already in my 40s :-)
On a serious note, apart from still working on formal attire, these are great points. I used the same, high-quality backpack from the first year of high school until I got my PhD -- its replacement is now going strong for 10 years. Used the same good suitcase for all of my adult life. And while I'm super frugal, I'll always buy good shoes and have learned to take care of them.
Pocket knife! Buck, Laguiole, Swiss Army. Cheers everyone!
I swear by Johnston & Murphy for dress shoes. I’ve had my current black Oxford’s for at least 15 years with two sole replacements. They look brand new. Super well made.