@@Maaagada BROO THAT HAPPENS TO ME ALL THE TIME!! Whenever I am looking down and using 0 muscles to smile or frown DOESN’T MEAN IM SAD. I’m just doing my normal face please 😭😭😭
One thing I'm apparently not aware of as an ISTP is my tone of voice. My mom always tells me to try to sound more friendly when I didn't think there was anything wrong.
@@KauaFraga Yeah...conceptualizing something that you said or didn't say, even assessing the strengths and weaknesses of your utterance...or as usual, unintentionally, zone you out so as to follow up on some complex endeavours that hardly can be attended to without going off to space.🚀
this!!!! or trying to follow the conversation while still furthering down the concept of one potentially small thing they had mentioned and what that could mean/be or explain
Smiling is such a conscious effort for me. In the rare occasions someone takes a picture of me, I think I'm smiling but I actually look I'm just done with everyone and everything lol
I'm an ISTP. People keep telling me to smile more or thinking I don't like them. Used to bother me when I was younger, now that I'm in my late 20s, I don't care anymore. I will smile when I want to smile. And if you made your own assumption about me, that's your problem not mine.
I am your exact opposite. I smile all the time when i am with people. I talk nonstop during classes (perks of using mask). I don't even know if i am really a istp cuz i don't match much.
People actually always think that I'm not paying attention- I guess for a lot of people, if the person isn't looking at them it equals their not listening. I could be reading a book and I'll still be listening to their conversation. Sometimes I'll stop reading and just stare at the book and listen. No idea why I do it, people in school always say everything around me because they think I'm not paying any attention because I'm "reading" then I come up with the information and they wonder where I got it from🤷🏻♀️
We trade our concentration in observing for concentration in thinking. This makes it way easier to just stop focusing on our surroundings so we can listen and process the information on a deeper level. I do this all the time and it hacks my mom off lol
INFJ can have the same stare. INFJ are balanced extro and introverts as well as in many other ways INFJ's are balance: analytical and creative, enjoy thinking while also connecting with others empathetically. INTP prefer to be introvert than forced into extroversion. I know an INTP who often looks like they are being judgmental/critical when they first look at you when in fact they are just thinking and were likely deep in thought while someone interrupted them (without knowing they were interrupting a thought process), and so the look remained stuck on their face, while it's not meant to be offensive, and it's just a thoughtful look. Sometimes people who are not INTP's can misunderstand this about them. However, INFJ's are typically good at connecting and reading between the lines and can understand this, especially if the INTP says they were only thinking of something and meant no offense! INFJ's also tend to think intensely like INTP's, but are better able to connect with others socially, so you might like to ask an INFJ for advice. INTP's are Logicians and INFJ's are advocates. Like INTP's, INFJ's are also often misunderstood. INFJ's have a good intuition about the world around them, while INTP's are usually thinking about it. They would likely be great brainstorming partners as INTP loves to think and INFJ likes to make the idea reality. Neither one loves the spotlight. They have a lot in common especially over both having their strong introverted thinking. Sometimes INFJ has a stare off into space look - when thinking. It's similar to the INTP stare.
My boss often asks me if I genuinely like the job because I always look down or mad when i work but I'm just vibing baking bread (I'm a baker) so now I have a clue of who they could be asking so often 😅
Not exactly, as an ISTP I can say that my eye contact is *unbreakable* when I listen to someone and because I'm not blinking for 20+ minutes straight, it gets even more serious and creepy, something like staring into your soul and trying to eat it
LOL. I'm an INTP, and my kids say I have a few looks on my face that I always get: 1. If someone is saying something stupid, apparently I give them a wtf face (my young adult kids' words) (I always thought I was smiling at the person); 2. If someone is making small talk (something i can't stand), I smile like I'm being tortured (in reality, I am, but here I was thinking I was doing a pleasant smile); 3. If I don't like the person, apparently I get a really big exaggerated smile on my face and a look in my eyes (they explained it as one that's reserved for the last dog left at the shelter cause it's "special") and I raise my eyebrows a lot and say "oh wow. Really" throughout the conversation; 4. And lastly, if I really really don't like the person, I just stare at them, then start talking intellectually, as my kids say. My one son said we can tell on your face how much you like or don't like people or how much they do or don't impress you. And here all along, I thought I was smiling and doing a good job. I'm really going to have to work in the mirror on my facial expressions. -- Quick question - how do you make a facial expression to make it look like you're interested in what someone is saying, without it looking like you're constipated? (cause I either look like that or I've got gas, when I'm pretending to listen to someone talk about something I could care less about- watched myself in the mirror!)
People usually think I'm angry, ignoring them, or something else. I'm an INTP. It came to the point where I don't care anymore but I do make sure to let them know that they haven't seen me angry for a reason 😅
Why is this so true lmao was called out on this exact thing recently and my suspicions are now confirmed. The problem is I can’t help it. If I put on a “nice” face too long my cheeks ache
lol, as an intp i either look at everything but the person's eyes or look right at their eyes with a death stare and don't even blink. there is no inbetween. and i usually don't realise that until someone tells me.
One teacher I had would often stop and ask me if I was ok(I ether made no eye contact or intense eye contact). She thought I was depressed(really I was just emotionless).
I swear we don't mean to; we are trying to read your lips and listen to you at the same time to better push your words through our thoughts. Or we are just trying to look normal. We don't do it on purpose though. -INTP
Whenever I see a picture of myself, I realise that I either look like I’m about to go on a murder spree or Perpetually constipated and I got evicted while I was taking that dump
Yes. I do stare at your eyes when you’re talking. DIRECTLY AT YOUR EYES. MAYBE EVEN DEEPER THAN YOUR EYES.. But I’m actually thinking about what you’re saying and how to answer. Don’t be afraid. As long as I stare at you I’m listening to you carefully.
Tbh I love that stare, it's exciting to know what their response could be (infj) Unless they're actually not paying attention then I get heartbroken lol
Even when i feel like i am smiling quite a bit, people ask me to smile a little. I think when it comes to smile, i smile in my only my mind and that's why people are not able to see it. But people! I am really trying my best
I’m married to an ISTP and have an INTP in the house….it’s so true and absolutely hilarious that you chose these two to compare. We are constantly pointing out the behavioral similarities between them 😂 bravo 👏 ❤
As a intp i would listen and creating a whole scenario based on their story and be so focused my face is a poker face and people think I'm just uninterested but I'm super interested
LoL, this is typically me, in my mind I'm really paying attention to what they're saying and listening to them, but then I hear 'why are you staring at me like that?' 😂. I seriously don't get it, I really wonder what my face looks like. Intp btw.
one of my friends' friend got scared to have lunch with us cuz i seem to not always smile, have bad thoughts on other people, look like i will kill people who stand in front of me, willn't bother of other people even when they're begging for something. but yeah, if i meet myself i will also get a bit scared tho
aa. how many times have i been told, "I thought at first you were snobbish." lmao. my poker face looks like a mix of i'm bored and i'm judging your whole life.
As an intp, my friends in high-school thought i didn’t care about them because of my face even though i do care😅. Now in college , i make sure to look open because makes life easier. 😊
I’ve learned to put a fake smile on at all times when talking to people because otherwise they assume I’m bored or disinterested when I’m paying full attention to them. The smile is fake in the sense that I would not naturally have the smile, I would have that dead/emotionless face. I’m Istp
Nah I've already trained smiling and nodding to at least appear "amiably" engaged in conversations but unless they talk about the weird, philosophical sh!ts I'm in to then i easily just get too fed up that I dont even wanna try pretending. Most of the time I'm just daydreaming 😂
Ah i see whats the problem with the way i stare at ppl now- i look like im about to attack their neck and eat out their flesh and bones… welp too bad not going to change anyways
É tão legal ver gringo usando música brasileira sem nem saber disso ksksks "It's so cool to see non brazilians using brazilian music without realizing it"
My sister was talking to me while i was playing on my tablet, I was playing so I couldn't really look at her but I was listening. She got mad at me for not listening to her and I told her I was actually listening but she said I was just lying.😂
I am intp girl. Some friends of mine told me I am just too deep in thought but surprisingly I am just thinking of you, your personality and why do you want to talk to me.
It's not that we are staring, we are literally visualizing what they are saying in real time
Lol thanks for clarifying!
Really? That sounds cool :O
As an INFP I always do that
Oh yeah, 100%. Especially when someone is telling me a story. I can see the story happening in front of me
@@KathiEOSp exactly
My teacher: "Excuse me, do you have a problem?" 😭
Lolz!
LITERALLY!!! She asked me if I was sad and if anything was wrong and everything was actually ok…it happens to me all of the time
@@Maaagada BROO THAT HAPPENS TO ME ALL THE TIME!! Whenever I am looking down and using 0 muscles to smile or frown DOESN’T MEAN IM SAD. I’m just doing my normal face please 😭😭😭
FR!!! This happened to me as well 😭😭
My teacher just saw me like that
And i already know its my face
One time in high school I was stopped in the hallway by a teacher for "looking high". I've never smoked weed in my life...
😭😭
😂😂😂😂 and how do pple look like when they are high
Man I’d be fucked going to that school lmao
Ohh god someone also said that to me in college
Same
One time in 5th grade my math teacher told me "you look like ur paying extra attention or planning to kill me" lmao , intp btw
Hahahaha
😂😂😂
Adults always tell me to stop looking at people intimidatingly even when I'm not aware of it. From an INTP.
Same thing here. From an ISTP
Menacing would have been funnier
One thing I'm apparently not aware of as an ISTP is my tone of voice. My mom always tells me to try to sound more friendly when I didn't think there was anything wrong.
Haha...their minds are at work.
In other 🌎
@@KauaFraga Yeah...conceptualizing something that you said or didn't say, even assessing the strengths and weaknesses of your utterance...or as usual, unintentionally, zone you out so as to follow up on some complex endeavours that hardly can be attended to without going off to space.🚀
this!!!! or trying to follow the conversation while still furthering down the concept of one potentially small thing they had mentioned and what that could mean/be or explain
@• 𝙣𝙚𝙣𝙖 • Haha. This is usually me which made it easy for me to explain.
Smiling is such a conscious effort for me. In the rare occasions someone takes a picture of me, I think I'm smiling but I actually look I'm just done with everyone and everything lol
I'm an ISTP. People keep telling me to smile more or thinking I don't like them. Used to bother me when I was younger, now that I'm in my late 20s, I don't care anymore. I will smile when I want to smile. And if you made your own assumption about me, that's your problem not mine.
Ti thinking is real
I'm also like tat🙂
I am your exact opposite. I smile all the time when i am with people. I talk nonstop during classes (perks of using mask). I don't even know if i am really a istp cuz i don't match much.
Omg that’s rude
@@EXOistheStandard sounds like you may have ADHD
People actually always think that I'm
not paying attention- I guess for a lot of people, if the person isn't looking at them it equals their not listening.
I could be reading a book and I'll still be listening to their conversation. Sometimes I'll stop reading and just stare at the book and listen.
No idea why I do it, people in school always say everything around me because they think I'm not paying any attention because I'm "reading" then I come up with the information and they wonder where I got it from🤷🏻♀️
Lol same. People think I'm not listening so they'll say anything around me
Same like , they legit be 5 feet away from me .
same bro
Yeah, we listen with our ears, not our eyes.🤷
We trade our concentration in observing for concentration in thinking.
This makes it way easier to just stop focusing on our surroundings so we can listen and process the information on a deeper level.
I do this all the time and it hacks my mom off lol
We took a class photo, i thought my face looked neutral but it turned out to be a death stare. I got legitimately scared of my own face.
•_•
"It's just my face"- me all the time
My INFJ friend always claims I give them strange looks when I'm doing nothing. I think my face is just strange at this point.
As an infj, i think we are equally strange zoning out. Ppl are mostly uncomfortable when we look at them.
Are you an istp or intp?
INFJ can have the same stare. INFJ are balanced extro and introverts as well as in many other ways INFJ's are balance: analytical and creative, enjoy thinking while also connecting with others empathetically. INTP prefer to be introvert than forced into extroversion. I know an INTP who often looks like they are being judgmental/critical when they first look at you when in fact they are just thinking and were likely deep in thought while someone interrupted them (without knowing they were interrupting a thought process), and so the look remained stuck on their face, while it's not meant to be offensive, and it's just a thoughtful look. Sometimes people who are not INTP's can misunderstand this about them. However, INFJ's are typically good at connecting and reading between the lines and can understand this, especially if the INTP says they were only thinking of something and meant no offense! INFJ's also tend to think intensely like INTP's, but are better able to connect with others socially, so you might like to ask an INFJ for advice. INTP's are Logicians and INFJ's are advocates. Like INTP's, INFJ's are also often misunderstood. INFJ's have a good intuition about the world around them, while INTP's are usually thinking about it. They would likely be great brainstorming partners as INTP loves to think and INFJ likes to make the idea reality. Neither one loves the spotlight. They have a lot in common especially over both having their strong introverted thinking. Sometimes INFJ has a stare off into space look - when thinking. It's similar to the INTP stare.
i’ve been told by many ppl that i’m not approachable bc i look mad like i’m boutta fight someone all the time but it’s just my resting face
I have been told I have "dead eyes" multiple times. Didn't know what that meant until yesterday.
I've learned to do the occasional head nod, smile, and "mhm"/"yeah"
That's soooo true 😭
🤗
My boss often asks me if I genuinely like the job because I always look down or mad when i work but I'm just vibing baking bread (I'm a baker) so now I have a clue of who they could be asking so often 😅
Lol thanks for sharing!
My coworker tattled on me because of this
Loool my boss asks me "how are things at home" on the daily, could this be why?
LOL i be trying so hard to not zone out
The audio is so masterfully blended with what is being conveyed here. I love it.
Thanks!
I am way more expressive in my head then I think I am on my face.
So real 😭😭😭😭
Not exactly, as an ISTP I can say that my eye contact is *unbreakable* when I listen to someone and because I'm not blinking for 20+ minutes straight, it gets even more serious and creepy, something like staring into your soul and trying to eat it
LOL. I'm an INTP, and my kids say I have a few looks on my face that I always get: 1. If someone is saying something stupid, apparently I give them a wtf face (my young adult kids' words) (I always thought I was smiling at the person); 2. If someone is making small talk (something i can't stand), I smile like I'm being tortured (in reality, I am, but here I was thinking I was doing a pleasant smile); 3. If I don't like the person, apparently I get a really big exaggerated smile on my face and a look in my eyes (they explained it as one that's reserved for the last dog left at the shelter cause it's "special") and I raise my eyebrows a lot and say "oh wow. Really" throughout the conversation; 4. And lastly, if I really really don't like the person, I just stare at them, then start talking intellectually, as my kids say. My one son said we can tell on your face how much you like or don't like people or how much they do or don't impress you. And here all along, I thought I was smiling and doing a good job. I'm really going to have to work in the mirror on my facial expressions. --
Quick question - how do you make a facial expression to make it look like you're interested in what someone is saying, without it looking like you're constipated? (cause I either look like that or I've got gas, when I'm pretending to listen to someone talk about something I could care less about- watched myself in the mirror!)
Stop giving a fuck about this... its the only solution. Or you can try acting courses.
hello to my twin sister 😂
😂😂😂
as an intp i dont even look at them i just listen starting at the floor😭😭
I once saw myself in a recorded work meeting and was really surprised at how inattentive and deadpan I looked.
We are not even aware we have that face.We are just visualising
Fr
People usually think I'm angry, ignoring them, or something else. I'm an INTP. It came to the point where I don't care anymore but I do make sure to let them know that they haven't seen me angry for a reason 😅
Why is this so true lmao was called out on this exact thing recently and my suspicions are now confirmed. The problem is I can’t help it. If I put on a “nice” face too long my cheeks ache
what, why is this so accurate-
lol, as an intp i either look at everything but the person's eyes or look right at their eyes with a death stare and don't even blink. there is no inbetween. and i usually don't realise that until someone tells me.
It's so true... And this is the reason why I got called rude by my parents and that's people's first impression on me🗿
But you're not really rude, correct? 🤗
@@bootheapp to me I'm not... But to some people I look and am 🙃
i love how they looo when they’re listening . i can tell that they are .
What does "looo" mean?
It's called LISTENING
they said i'm impolite cuz of this 🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️
One teacher I had would often stop and ask me if I was ok(I ether made no eye contact or intense eye contact). She thought I was depressed(really I was just emotionless).
I swear we don't mean to; we are trying to read your lips and listen to you at the same time to better push your words through our thoughts. Or we are just trying to look normal. We don't do it on purpose though.
-INTP
A lot of things are starting to make more sense now...
So true ! and after it they (my friends) ask me if I have a problem with them, my look always seems like I'm gonna kill them 🌚💀
Whenever I see a picture of myself, I realise that I either look like I’m about to go on a murder spree or Perpetually constipated and I got evicted while I was taking that dump
My teacher assumed that I was an "abused child" just because of that😒
Yes. I do stare at your eyes when you’re talking.
DIRECTLY AT YOUR EYES.
MAYBE EVEN DEEPER THAN YOUR EYES..
But I’m actually thinking about what you’re saying and how to answer.
Don’t be afraid. As long as I stare at you I’m listening to you carefully.
Tbh I love that stare, it's exciting to know what their response could be (infj)
Unless they're actually not paying attention then I get heartbroken lol
No way! I make a concerted effort to raise my eyebrows from time to time.
Even when i feel like i am smiling quite a bit, people ask me to smile a little. I think when it comes to smile, i smile in my only my mind and that's why people are not able to see it. But people! I am really trying my best
Lmao true that's why people always misunderstood if I'm mad at them
True😂. But add the looking away part.. never looking at your eyes.
this is too accurate 😭😭
It is ❤
I’m married to an ISTP and have an INTP in the house….it’s so true and absolutely hilarious that you chose these two to compare. We are constantly pointing out the behavioral similarities between them 😂 bravo 👏 ❤
As a intp i would listen and creating a whole scenario based on their story and be so focused my face is a poker face and people think I'm just uninterested but I'm super interested
True
💙
LoL, this is typically me, in my mind I'm really paying attention to what they're saying and listening to them, but then I hear 'why are you staring at me like that?' 😂. I seriously don't get it, I really wonder what my face looks like. Intp btw.
Why is this so trueee😭😭
Don't forget smiling randomly because of a thought you.
This is true for me lmao. I had an intj friend that told me that i stared at hima bit intimidating and i was confused af
Help! The accuracy I have to remind myself to try and smile or raise my eyebrows
My mother is an istp and I’m an intp. True af-
I've literally just realized this, so now everytime someone's talking, I just look somewhere else or stare like somewhere behind their back
one of my friends' friend got scared to have lunch with us cuz i seem to not always smile, have bad thoughts on other people, look like i will kill people who stand in front of me, willn't bother of other people even when they're begging for something. but yeah, if i meet myself i will also get a bit scared tho
As an INTP-T the comments are all so relatable 😂
I'm trying to show facial expression & I think I am, only to realize my face muscles don't move that easily... so, too tiring, let it go
I've had several people suspecting I'm planning to unalive them when I was just concentrating
aa. how many times have i been told, "I thought at first you were snobbish." lmao. my poker face looks like a mix of i'm bored and i'm judging your whole life.
Please 😂😂😂😂im trying so hard to have emphatic face
I always knew it but this confirms it anyway I almost never have an interest in listening only at times when I want to know something
I love the eye flick to the side at the end... How many takes did that take to get right?
As an intp, my friends in high-school thought i didn’t care about them because of my face even though i do care😅. Now in college , i make sure to look open because makes life easier. 😊
I’ve learned to put a fake smile on at all times when talking to people because otherwise they assume I’m bored or disinterested when I’m paying full attention to them. The smile is fake in the sense that I would not naturally have the smile, I would have that dead/emotionless face.
I’m Istp
I'm an intp and it's strange that people compliment me on the fact that I smile often
The fact that I still do just remembered what they literally said like how I just spotted on my grandma and mom gossip while being in my phone
I always thing I’m smiling, but I just look like 😐
I don't even look at them, just watch the floor. But I always tell them I'm listening, go on.
I hate that i got in trouble with my previous boss due to this. She said I was "making faces" when I was literally just focusing.
Too fucking accurate lol😂😂😂
the music that plays in my INTP mind, at random times: *bass da da da*
That me and my bff, im istp and she is intp
huh.. maybe that's why that one girl started crying when we were grouped up for a science project. - from an intp
Definitely my ISTP ex. They seem to be staring daggers when they hear something they don't agree on
That is me and my father we he tell its time to go out side😂
DAMN TRUE
Yass
my mom keeps telling me my resting face is intimidating and i need to look more approachable 😭
Tiktok tá fazendo esses funks br serem mais famosos do que merece
Nah I've already trained smiling and nodding to at least appear "amiably" engaged in conversations but unless they talk about the weird, philosophical sh!ts I'm in to then i easily just get too fed up that I dont even wanna try pretending. Most of the time I'm just daydreaming 😂
I'm an ISTJ and I also stare like that.
Ah i see whats the problem with the way i stare at ppl now- i look like im about to attack their neck and eat out their flesh and bones… welp too bad not going to change anyways
😂😂😂😂
My parents think i have a problem because of that when I'm listening to them
É tão legal ver gringo usando música brasileira sem nem saber disso ksksks
"It's so cool to see non brazilians using brazilian music without realizing it"
Bestie I’m autistic I ain’t doing that 😭😭😭😭
I'm INTP and that's so me😂
My sister was talking to me while i was playing on my tablet, I was playing so I couldn't really look at her but I was listening. She got mad at me for not listening to her and I told her I was actually listening but she said I was just lying.😂
This seems like a fair assessment. 👀 I know how intimidating I must come across. Intp 🙃
everyone thinks i have depression but im just an istp
Either my istp ass is really listening or my mind is flying elsewhere
This is true, I saw video of myself listening to soneone , i look scary even i wear a mask my eyes are just so, i can't explain 🌚
I used to be intp but I'm an istp now but this is so true lol 🤣
Literally me😂😂
yes but staring at the ground
IS THAT HOW I LOOK LIKE WHEN I LOOK AT PEOPLE???
While thinking: Is this dude serious??? No way he has such a childish way of thinking...
I am intp girl. Some friends of mine told me I am just too deep in thought but surprisingly I am just thinking of you, your personality and why do you want to talk to me.
My ISTP neighbor has this stare omg haha
Oh. I thought the other person stuttering and smiling nervously meant they liked me