Back then even the cartoons were real. The writers were well aware of what kind of things kids were actually growing up around, and dealing with. Even if they didn't always directly state something, they would outline specific issues through surrounding characters. Shows like this helped me become more prepared for the world than school or my parents combined.
I agree and that’s so important we bring up kinda with self esteem but not entitlement , so many younger folks have no self esteem or self confidence coming from an abusive household it striped of you pretty early but something we all have to learn to heal to keep us safe from them bad situations
-Susie deserved better -Oskar was toxic -Ernie deserved someone -Grandma was a real one -Grandpa was a sane one -Mr Hyunh is too pure for this world (My favorite character, I legit still cry when I think about him and his daughter) -Arnold was a kid with a lot of heart
You can see the anguish in Oskar’s face when he realizes the damage he has caused, to the point where his wife feels is overjoyed to think that he cares about her from such a small genture
@@tayojones9460change is hard, too many people revert back into their old ways. He could have tried changing for a while before it became too hard and he went back to his old ways.
@@tayojones9460also he didn’t really change, that suitcase he has was Arnold’s that he literally stole without asking Arnold and was like “eh he won’t mind”
Parents don't watch with their kids these days anymore, clearly. 😥 Times have changed. Nowadays kids watch terrible crap on YTK while their parents have no idea.
She being Optimistic.. hopeful.. for the sake of her relationship and for the man she loves. Hope is a hell of a thing. But sometimes you gotta learn the hard way that sometime hope can be misplaced
Hey Arnold is so real!! The series spoke to everyone, you could realize the differences, the nuances, the "why they were the way they were" of many characters, and with many real life themes.
For anyone wondering, Craig Bartlett (the creator) confirmed that before the events of the Jungle Movie, Suzie finally divorces him and moves out. Good for her.
That's why Hey Arnold will always be my favorite animated show of all time. It tackled some dark, serious topics whilst being insanely funny and charming and it never failed to teach an important life lesson in every single episode. Such a wildly underrated show and it will always be near to my heart. 🏈💛
The Christmas special with the Vietnamese neighbor reuniting with his daughter, the bird man episode, Arnold’s parents back story, ect. This show hit hard and definitely doesn’t get the praise it deserves now days.
I always felt so bad for Susie...she was so nice. And i remember she always seemed so tired, and was always rushing to work or cleaning something, while Mr. Kokoshka followed her around whining and pestering her for money. Like, she'd be washing the dishes or something, and he would be lying on the couch whining and pretending to be injured and always, ALWAYS begging her for money. Never wanting to get a job. Never even trying to clean around the house. Never even being nice to her! She deserved better. So many women deserved better, and deserve better. Hey Arnold was a great show made with care by people who really cared, and knew how to tell a real story.
Sounds like you project your own world in to this, by the way is totally okay, but don't make this pice of animated clip in too your own little propaganda there is millions of real Men that are victims of this behavior from woman's fare more womens are using men for Money. Men suffers from woman daily that's steals and ruins the life of Men and their families on purpose, 9 out of 10 marriages is broken up and 8 of 10 it's the woman that fils for divorce, most woman sees marriage as their grand pension scam and they get away with it Everyday the Court favors woman in all if their Shenanigans, listen SHEnanigans even words try to expose the Truth. Woman and and big medias have long enough mocked and ridiculing masculinity and Men it's called gender deviding and hate baiting please all woman start to respect masculinity if it was not for masculinity you would never have made it this far in history
growing up is realizing cartoons were not just made for kids they were made to travel with us our whole lives as we understand more hard things we see them in our cartoons it gives a sense of relief and perspective. everyone has things that hurt them and we are all trying to move past these things. remember be kind and it’s will come back stronger.
This is like the girls on tik tok praising their lowlife boyfriends for doing the bare minimum 😭 “ omg guys you’ll NEVER believe what Josh did for me - I gave him a drink … AND HE SAID THANK YOU OMG!!!!!”
Yeah and the girl I bought a car for left me after 2 years with no arguments out of nowhere…. Suspiciously shortly after becoming friends with a coworker whose girlfriend dumped him…. I just don’t get it man
They also create content to test their boyfriends. You can’t believe the shit I didn’t for my ex, and I’d get “this tik tok couple…” WHILE ON VACATIOM AT CANCUN AT 18 christ. Poison for the brain.
Guys she loves him. Imaging the heartbreak of loving someone this self-centered, and then imagine seeing signs that this person you love and have been holding out hope for is going to change.
People don't change. They either love you or they don't. The biggest lie women tell themselves is that the man who doesn't truly love them will change someday. You will waste your life waiting.
growing up is realizing how much growth actually comes after this and not letting dissapointment or disgust stop you from doing that. at least she made some sort of progress... or tried to
No. But unfortunately people act like oskar irl, sometimes intentionally sometimes not. But everyone has mistreated others in their life and it is important to showcase that it happens and growth is possible, that people aren't just atativ and goor or bad @@Commander_Shepard.
If you actually watched the show you would know that this man was monetarily abusive. No job. Had his wife Susie working like 3 jobs and when it was not enough he told her to work more while his dead ass sat on the sofa. Always asked for money and not properly using it. Some how racked up 200$ phone bill. Would eat out of the containers in the fridge. Dress like a slob. Made Susie do house work after working long hours while he sat at home. The list goes on and on.
Shes highlighting a sign of decency while giving a positive reaction and attention to reinforce that behavior. We shoildnt expect this reaction for being a decent person, but it helps guide people as broken as this guy.
No she's seeing stuff that isn't there. I know from experience that narcissists eventually get the bar so low that the smallest acts of kindness make you hopeful that am that time and energy and money and pain wasn't for nothing (sunk cost fallacy).
@@ellielou52 he would have reminded her how much they have been through in order to reinforce her investment with him. He is a narcissist for sure though.
The theme here is that her standards are so low, she has been mistreated and been taken for granted her whole life. And for many people it really is and will always be that way. Everything is relative.
Yeah I learned as a kid how good it was but many cartoons during that period actually had life lessons in them so Hey Arnold didn't stand out as much. It seems to me like once Spongebob came out the cartoons overall changed their direction.
There was a magic to the 90's shows. Hey Arnold, Boy meets world, Rug rats, Pokemon(early days) Kenan and kel, n the movies back then were so fire. Man, I'd do anything to go back in time. Those days were the BEST
Had a foreign exchange student from Moscow who was friends with my sister. She would come over and watch SNICK with us. She died laughing when she heard Mr. Kakaska's name. Apparently, it's children slang for poop in Russian.
@@squarebear619 well, maybe “kaka” is multilanguage word for poop/bad things. Cause im not russian, but in my language “kaka” be like “put that kaka(thing) away”, when kid pick up a bug, dirt or something like this shit
Growing up is realizing Susie absolutely enabled Oscar and even fed into it, Susie ignored every red flag possible, and still took him back time and time again. It’s time to recognize Susie didn’t want better. She gets mad, kicks him out, but brought him back every time.
Yup absolutely people say Oskar this Oskar that and yea dude was a bum but Susie also allowed it to happen and to continue. But as u kno accountability is a woman’s kryptonite. Women will always blame the man or anyone and anything else before the blame themselves
Honestly hey Arnold is just a reflection of growing up, it showed us how others lived. You look at every character you can really rationalize their behavior through their home life and social life
D.A.R.E kept me from drugs. Could never get the image of a pretty girl at the beginning of a video they showed. By the end of the video, she was emaciated and just scary looking.
Religion can be a double edged sword for addiction when used incorrectly though, like if the pastor is being judgmental person dealing with addiction is a "sinner", "immoral" bc they're on drugs. Our church acknowledges addiction as a serious issue and runs an AA program.
@@dalime605I think it was actually a kind nanny whose work ended and had to move away. His parents expresslg forbid him from chocolate, so he never received any from them, but she would secretly give him some. He lost her and had only the chocolate as a memento of her, so he eats it for comfort. ;__;
is pretty chill. some people never had the luxuary of trusting others but he still seems a decent human in general. just centered on his own well being. is not evil imo.
Sure and if you don't want to share you don't have to but If your going to post without full context expect some questions, and they asked a GOOD question since it's not just circumstance, you choose to get in a relationship you now say was bad, so if i may ask again why or how the lapse in judgement? What told you in your head, yeah I'll try (or continue to try) in the relationship? They could of been charismatic Or changed slowly over time so you hadn't noticed, or maybe they gave you something or some feeling no one ever gave you before ect. People can be afraid of being alone, or just afraid of losing their first love or whatever. I was genuinely curious from your story and I assume the other person was too @@adriangomez6826
People get used to bad situations that it becomes normal,I left my home and now I'm happier than ever,I found peace,trust me guys,be alone for a while,you'll find happiness again
This show was incredible and so ahead of its time. It has so many life lessons that people can learn from to this day. This will always remain one of the favorite shows of all time.
As a man. I could never. I couldn't look at myself in the mirror. I couldn't look her in the face and I damn sure wouldn't be able to meet my grandfather in heaven, knowing he knew I did some shit like that.
She's partially at fault, too, for enabling him. That was NOT the correct response to somebody basically saying, "Yeah, I'm not going to steal your money this time because I feel bad."
It sounds to me like he probably lied to get into the country, and then lied to her to get her sympathy to marry him so his visa wouldn't get revoked. And then like he never stopped lying and being pathetic. A lot of women get trapped like that, by guys who are always "about to get a job" or "about to go back to school". It's not fair to blame somebody for being tricked into being in a relationship with a selfish person...
@@rosethorne9155 1) you make immigrants sound like terrible people 2) you make women sound so stupid that they will fall for such a simple trick lol not saying I disagree with either…. People are far more complex than this basic logic that you have created….
Oskar couldn't read, never worked a job and was a straight up bum. Even when I was a kid watching this I still didn't understand what on earth Susie saw in Oskar that was worthy enough to marry him. Now as an adult I realize her self esteem must have extremely low and she probably thought she couldn't do better than him. She was better off alone and I'm glad she finally left him years later but I would've loved an episode dedicated to her divorcing him.
I remember watching this in my great auntie Pat's house after school waiting for my favourite dinner. Memory unlocked, miss you auntie Pat, thanks for all the beautiful memories 😊❤ xx
He actually ended up turning around after that getting a job and really turning his life around. Sometimes good men fall down and all they need is someone who loves them unconditionally to pick them back up Edit: I didn't know my comment would get this many people upset lol. I think as individuals we should all be able to understand that you do not need to be in someone's life to love them. that being said, all of you guys in this comment section have so much to say about Oscar, but what about helga's mom??!!! She was a whole alcoholic too neglected one of her kids on a constant basis...
But he isn't a good man. A good man doesn't take advantage of those who love him. A good man doesn't break a woman down to the point where 'You keep the money' is the nicest thing she's ever heard. "Unconditional love" is a lie and a way for abusers and lowlifes to take advantage of actual good people. The only type of unconditional love that should exist is between parent and child. It doesn't matter that he changed, he should have been better in the first place.
@@l.r.4006 People change. There are certain things that are unforgivable but being a bum isnt really one of them especially when you do learn your lesson and commit to being better. You also contradict your own logic by saying that a parent and childs love is unconditional when there are in fact unforgivable things that can be done meaning there are conditions.
@juice6521 no one is saying that that's a good thing, no one would lmao 🤣 if u care about someone truly, you'd help & do stuff for them even if it's a bit negative. Most don't confront because it's rlly important to learn themselves to not be that way.
I had a friend whose mom dated a guy like this, he was always at my friends house when i went over because he never had a job, he would just watch BET and basketball highlights all day while my friends mom worked 5 days a week as a nurse. You would think people would learn from seeing stuff like this growing up but it feel like these kind of relationships are way more common than ever before.
That's actually how people think irl. If someone is toxic or just not a good partner in a relationship them suddenly doing the smallest gesture for said partner is interpreted as a miracle and celebrated whereas if someone is good on a daily basis people take it for granted and expect more with time or even get disappointed with the smallest of things.
She only leaves him off-screen before the 2017 movie... The show never gave us that moment but instead implied that Oscar was on his way to reform. Guess it didn't stick 💀
Yea, the ick should have came before. Not just as he starts turning around. The sentiment seems a bit toxic in Itself. Context of the growth in the sitaution matters more than the sound clip of her saying "that's the nicest thing you've ever said to me." Gives the impression that denouncing him matters more than supporting his change for good.
Being in an abusive relationship. Just because your partner does one good thing that doesnt suddenly turn everything around. This is a cartoon but in reality people can take a long time to change if they ever do. You have no obligation to sit through that abuse.
@@josjos-x5s agreed, but the issue is the ick doesn't come before he learns and grows. But as he chooses to change. That sentiment is toxic for everyone in the long run.
Growing up is realizing that under extreme circumstances, people can grow. People can learn from their mistakes, people who don’t repeat them, can become better. Growing up is realizing THAT, and giving others who deserve it, another chance.
I’ve been crying for 3 minutes to this shit I’m ab to call my wife and tell her I love her she does nothing but the best for me and puts up with my attitudes all day all night till I’m done being mad and time to go to sleep just for it to happen the next day a woman like this is truly amazing and this was a huge eyeopener baby if you see this I love you🫶🏼
@@caseylayton4898that's not true, men would immediately be called a deadbeat husband his name will be dragged out across the street... For example YOU'RE DOING IT RIGHT NOW... Men are always expected to be the one to be responsible and accountable the one that has to pay for the dinner and pull the seat out for the woman stop lying for brownie points
@@jjm152 oh please. nobody praises men for “suffering silently” (if it’s so silent then why are we constantly hearing about it lol). ur only praised by ur own toxic masculinity. men refuse to vent to their friends/family or go to therapy or do literally anything to help themselves and then blame everyone else for it
As someone who's been on both sides of this... I get the ick from both of them. It's hard to need help, but you can take it too far. If you're a people pleaser, so can you. In this situation though, it was such an abundance of abuse in multiple ways besides financial shit, it becomes so much more of a talking point than just this scene alone.
Tbf, he actually did understand what he did was wrong and was trying to do the right thing. Its just unfortunately that was all he had to do to convince her he was a changed man
I think people are misunderstanding this scene. Their relationship isn't saved just because he made a token gesture of kindness, but she's treating it like he's completely changed his ways.
Why the fuck did Hey Arnold have so many mature themes. I'm 33 now and I keep seeing these shorts and now I'm going to have to rewatch it.
I was thinking the same... and I didn't understand why some of my friends weren't allowed to watch certain cartoons lol at 32 I do now 😅
Same
Because they used to make cartoons with substance
Back then even the cartoons were real.
The writers were well aware of what kind
of things kids were actually growing up around, and dealing with.
Even if they didn't always directly state something, they would outline specific issues through surrounding characters.
Shows like this helped me become more prepared for the world than school or my parents combined.
Because kids grow up better if they learn how adults handle themselves so they know who not to be. @@cicelymasden4477
Growing up is realizing our cartoons were way darker than we thought.
I could not agree more!!
Rugrats angelica mom booooy when you findout what shee does
Not darker. Just helping the kids experience these moments understand them in a way that helps them process it and deal with it :/
This is why them are GREAT!! They teaches lessons instead of pushing an agenda.
And now I watch my younger siblings watch teen titans go and I just get sad at the state of entertainment
Self esteem will protect you from situations like this.
I agree and that’s so important we bring up kinda with self esteem but not entitlement , so many younger folks have no self esteem or self confidence coming from an abusive household it striped of you pretty early but something we all have to learn to heal to keep us safe from them bad situations
i don’t believe in self-esteem
@@theoneandonly7019well, self-esteem believes in you!
This girl is so annoying and her stupid "hrowing up is..." Videos, eh
More like self respect. You can still think you're garbage without being codependent on others.
I still quote "you keep de money" to this day.
LMAOOOOO
Is he.. jewish
So glad I’m not the only one😂😅
Oh Oscar
Right! Me and my sister use this every opportunity 😅
-Susie deserved better
-Oskar was toxic
-Ernie deserved someone
-Grandma was a real one
-Grandpa was a sane one
-Mr Hyunh is too pure for this world
(My favorite character, I legit still cry when I think about him and his daughter)
-Arnold was a kid with a lot of heart
Hey listen grandma was sane too, she was just an anarchist and activist!
Susie received the love she thought she deserved
& helgas mom was an alcoholic
@dominiquepenn9477 And Olga was a damn mess because her and Helga's parents put her on a pedestal
I still watch it when I’m stoned sometimes lol
You can see the anguish in Oskar’s face when he realizes the damage he has caused, to the point where his wife feels is overjoyed to think that he cares about her from such a small genture
I know! I never watched the show but just from seeing this scene, it all just breaks me
@pfc-5503 Too bad the writers forgot this moment of growth for Oscar and turn him back to a selfish jerk in later episodes!
@@tayojones9460it's realistic though, takes a lot less effort to leave than to actually turn yourself into someone worth keeping around
@@tayojones9460change is hard, too many people revert back into their old ways. He could have tried changing for a while before it became too hard and he went back to his old ways.
@@tayojones9460also he didn’t really change, that suitcase he has was Arnold’s that he literally stole without asking Arnold and was like “eh he won’t mind”
She deserved far, far better. And Helga deserved more caring parents.
It's truly sad how they treated her. No wonder she had a hard time showing her true emotions around people
That’s not HelgaS parents lol
@@trackdaniel5630 I'm aware, Oscar isn't the only horrible person in the show.
i think they broke up when the jungle movie aired sooooo happy ending for her
Shut up
This is a significant lesson. Caring about others and being selfless is a key to better relationships.
That's just her love language, the love language of caring.
The ick must be from lack of a normal family dynamic and the side effect of modern day sheltering. 😂
A deadbeat couch potato anime/game addict will marry you right away
Well in moderation they are both on either side of that spectrum
But only when you're in a relationship do it too early you get friendzoned
Hey Arnold was from an age where cartoon were made for kids to watch with their parents. It was entertaining for both ages for different reasons.
Lol the MLP version that became popular was also made for parents to watch with their kids. There are a lot of shows like that tbh.
Parents don't watch with their kids these days anymore, clearly. 😥 Times have changed. Nowadays kids watch terrible crap on YTK while their parents have no idea.
A couple fifties is wild considering this was back in early 2000 or so
More like mid 90's
My old ass thought about how much that was back then too 😆
This aired in 1996 and a couple of 50's which is $100 would be $200 in today's currency.
Because Suzie was a hustler out there working to support two adults
@@skinsey85 a couple of 50ies are several 50ies. more than 100$.
She being Optimistic.. hopeful.. for the sake of her relationship and for the man she loves.
Hope is a hell of a thing. But sometimes you gotta learn the hard way that sometime hope can be misplaced
👍
Hey Arnold is so real!! The series spoke to everyone, you could realize the differences, the nuances, the "why they were the way they were" of many characters, and with many real life themes.
Let’s not forget this was Arnold’s suitcase he stole 😢
Why did he take the kid's case?
@@jackislegitterrified3689 because he didn’t have one. Oscar said he knew Arnold “wouldn’t mind”.
And he’s got a Jewish accent
@@NigelThornberyHispanic. His name is Oscar 😂 you could say Hispanic Jew 😂
@@NigelThornbery his full name in the series is Oscar Kokoshka, which is a very Baltic/Eastern European sounding name
For anyone wondering, Craig Bartlett (the creator) confirmed that before the events of the Jungle Movie, Suzie finally divorces him and moves out. Good for her.
Thanks for the info
Glad to hear that, even though it is just an animation 😂
Thank god for that!
Thank you. Good grief😂😂
@@xiatian22this a lie what actually happens is after this Oscar gets his life together gets a job and they move out together.
This made me so happy
"You keep de money?" 🤨
🤣🤣🤦🏾♀️
She got turned on when he said that 😂
That's why Hey Arnold will always be my favorite animated show of all time. It tackled some dark, serious topics whilst being insanely funny and charming and it never failed to teach an important life lesson in every single episode. Such a wildly underrated show and it will always be near to my heart. 🏈💛
Don't forget the music too. You're so right
I feel like a lot of 90’s cartoons were like that they don’t learn any moral lessons from cartoons today
The Christmas special with the Vietnamese neighbor reuniting with his daughter, the bird man episode, Arnold’s parents back story, ect. This show hit hard and definitely doesn’t get the praise it deserves now days.
Same!!! ♥️♥️
When it first came out, I didn't like it. At all, until I gave it an open minded watch. I came to quite enjoy that show.
Damn, her bar is so low it's not just beneath the ground, but it simply floats underneath planet Earth
Yeah, but she wasn’t with him because she didn’t know better. She was with him because she cared and wanted him to change.
That was pretty much just being a straight woman at any point in history almost anywhere I'm ngl to you ☠️
In their world, the planet is indeed flat.
That's what happens when manipulated and treated very bad for too long.
Ahh the I can fix him girl 😂
This scene sums up many months/years of pain and realization.
I always felt so bad for Susie...she was so nice. And i remember she always seemed so tired, and was always rushing to work or cleaning something, while Mr. Kokoshka followed her around whining and pestering her for money. Like, she'd be washing the dishes or something, and he would be lying on the couch whining and pretending to be injured and always, ALWAYS begging her for money. Never wanting to get a job. Never even trying to clean around the house. Never even being nice to her!
She deserved better. So many women deserved better, and deserve better. Hey Arnold was a great show made with care by people who really cared, and knew how to tell a real story.
Sounds like you project your own world in to this, by the way is totally okay, but don't make this pice of animated clip in too your own little propaganda there is millions of real Men that are victims of this behavior from woman's fare more womens are using men for Money. Men suffers from woman daily that's steals and ruins the life of Men and their families on purpose, 9 out of 10 marriages is broken up and 8 of 10 it's the woman that fils for divorce, most woman sees marriage as their grand pension scam and they get away with it Everyday the Court favors woman in all if their Shenanigans, listen SHEnanigans even words try to expose the Truth. Woman and and big medias have long enough mocked and ridiculing masculinity and Men it's called gender deviding and hate baiting please all woman start to respect masculinity if it was not for masculinity you would never have made it this far in history
That goes both ways, entitled people will akways act entitled.
growing up is realizing cartoons were not just made for kids they were made to travel with us our whole lives as we understand more hard things we see them in our cartoons it gives a sense of relief and perspective. everyone has things that hurt them and we are all trying to move past these things. remember be kind and it’s will come back stronger.
I remember this episode and never realized how deep this show is 😮
Dude, my friends and I didn't even understand relationships as kids, and even WE understood she deserved better.
Whenever I see Oscar I keep remembering him saying "Kitty kitty kitty, do you want to pet the kitty? Yes, I want to pet the kitty. Pet, pet, pet."
"it was the best of times it was the worst of times"
Sometimes the hardest part about loving someone is coming to terms with the fact they don't feel the same.
This is like the girls on tik tok praising their lowlife boyfriends for doing the bare minimum 😭 “ omg guys you’ll NEVER believe what Josh did for me - I gave him a drink … AND HE SAID THANK YOU OMG!!!!!”
thatd be really sweet though, if they werent losers
Yeah and the girl I bought a car for left me after 2 years with no arguments out of nowhere…. Suspiciously shortly after becoming friends with a coworker whose girlfriend dumped him…. I just don’t get it man
They also create content to test their boyfriends.
You can’t believe the shit I didn’t for my ex, and I’d get “this tik tok couple…” WHILE ON VACATIOM AT CANCUN AT 18 christ.
Poison for the brain.
@@Skufnut_I don’t get it either. It seems like they just desire different shit after a while.
Better than ungrateful women left and right not thanking any man for anything ever.
The most beautiful thing you have said 😍😍😍
Him: you keep the money? 🧐
Guys she loves him. Imaging the heartbreak of loving someone this self-centered, and then imagine seeing signs that this person you love and have been holding out hope for is going to change.
Except he doesnt.
People don't change. They either love you or they don't. The biggest lie women tell themselves is that the man who doesn't truly love them will change someday. You will waste your life waiting.
@saltycat662 that's my lady.
@@saltycat662 if people dont change why do people change
@@saltycat662people do change, the only people who don’t change are the ones too dumb to notice
growing up is realizing how much growth actually comes after this and not letting dissapointment or disgust stop you from doing that. at least she made some sort of progress... or tried to
also that this is a cartoon
@@martinio_dudei don't think it being a cartoon should hinder it from deep character driven stories.
No. But unfortunately people act like oskar irl, sometimes intentionally sometimes not. But everyone has mistreated others in their life and it is important to showcase that it happens and growth is possible, that people aren't just atativ and goor or bad @@Commander_Shepard.
If you actually watched the show you would know that this man was monetarily abusive. No job. Had his wife Susie working like 3 jobs and when it was not enough he told her to work more while his dead ass sat on the sofa. Always asked for money and not properly using it. Some how racked up 200$ phone bill. Would eat out of the containers in the fridge. Dress like a slob. Made Susie do house work after working long hours while he sat at home. The list goes on and on.
@CosmicChew yooo i appreciate the context ❤
She just threw the money off screen and never picked it up
That made me so anxious
she picked up later when the camera man wasnt watching...
I think it was to symbolize her throwing away money on Oscar
Shes highlighting a sign of decency while giving a positive reaction and attention to reinforce that behavior.
We shoildnt expect this reaction for being a decent person, but it helps guide people as broken as this guy.
No she's seeing stuff that isn't there. I know from experience that narcissists eventually get the bar so low that the smallest acts of kindness make you hopeful that am that time and energy and money and pain wasn't for nothing (sunk cost fallacy).
@@ellielou52 he would have reminded her how much they have been through in order to reinforce her investment with him.
He is a narcissist for sure though.
@@ellielou52narcissists make up like 6% of the population. How does every woman have an ex who’s a “narcissist”?
Let me get a “ few 50’s to hold me over” a few 50’s Is crazy
Bro it’s 50s IN THE 90s!! That’s like easily 3-400$ in today’s money!! 😭😅
Back in those days $100 could get you two weeks worth of groceries, but yeah, Oskar would have been okay with a few 50s.
The theme here is that her standards are so low, she has been mistreated and been taken for granted her whole life. And for many people it really is and will always be that way. Everything is relative.
Rewatch this entire show.
Literally every episode was a tug at the heart strings.
Hey Arnold was a cartoon i honestly never appreciated till i became older.
I didn't know about these characters in the cartoon
I never saw it, about to watch it for the first time at 23
Yeah I learned as a kid how good it was but many cartoons during that period actually had life lessons in them so Hey Arnold didn't stand out as much. It seems to me like once Spongebob came out the cartoons overall changed their direction.
caring for others is good but too much caring would make you an easy target to be manipulated
I Used to watch this with my mother, we used to laugh and use this phrase all the time. I miss her very much
The bar was in hell for this dude
The way he says “you keep the money?” As a question still randomly pops in my head to this day 😂
Even as a kid I knew she was deserved better.
IKR
I remember that episode. Homie kept saying "You keep the money" to turn her on😅
what
They ain't capping. He was saying it all the time. @@smonkwad
you look straight out of the boondocks lmao
@@theerealatm 😩
@@theerealatm Bruh.......
She saw something in him that doesn't exist like it's a magic lamp that fulfill your greatest desires.
“You keep the money” *she throws it into the hall*
The definition of "I can fix him"
There was a magic to the 90's shows. Hey Arnold, Boy meets world, Rug rats, Pokemon(early days) Kenan and kel, n the movies back then were so fire. Man, I'd do anything to go back in time. Those days were the BEST
Hey Arnold! One of my favourite cartoons growing up. It was so cool!
Had a foreign exchange student from Moscow who was friends with my sister. She would come over and watch SNICK with us. She died laughing when she heard Mr. Kakaska's name. Apparently, it's children slang for poop in Russian.
Yeah, it’s true.
That’s why in Russian dub his name was “Kokoska”, not “Kakaska”
The Kaka gave it away since it's also a way kids say poop in the U.S.😅
@@squarebear619 well, maybe “kaka” is multilanguage word for poop/bad things.
Cause im not russian, but in my language “kaka” be like “put that kaka(thing) away”, when kid pick up a bug, dirt or something like this shit
@@squarebear619I think kaka is Spanish for poop but I believe it's spelled as caca but that's why it's said in America
Yup same my brother and father would laugh at his name all the time
Growing up is realizing Susie absolutely enabled Oscar and even fed into it, Susie ignored every red flag possible, and still took him back time and time again. It’s time to recognize Susie didn’t want better. She gets mad, kicks him out, but brought him back every time.
Yup absolutely people say Oskar this Oskar that and yea dude was a bum but Susie also allowed it to happen and to continue. But as u kno accountability is a woman’s kryptonite. Women will always blame the man or anyone and anything else before the blame themselves
That’s why she wasn’t in the 2017 movie. She finally left him.
These cartoons were gold😊
Honestly hey Arnold is just a reflection of growing up, it showed us how others lived. You look at every character you can really rationalize their behavior through their home life and social life
Chocolate boy made me avoid drugs. Not religion, dare, or other programs, it was chocolate boy.
It blew my mind realizing it was a coping mechanism cause chocolate reminded him of his mom. 😢
A lot of serious content from "Hey Arnold".
D.A.R.E kept me from drugs. Could never get the image of a pretty girl at the beginning of a video they showed. By the end of the video, she was emaciated and just scary looking.
Religion can be a double edged sword for addiction when used incorrectly though, like if the pastor is being judgmental person dealing with addiction is a "sinner", "immoral" bc they're on drugs. Our church acknowledges addiction as a serious issue and runs an AA program.
@@dalime605I think it was actually a kind nanny whose work ended and had to move away. His parents expresslg forbid him from chocolate, so he never received any from them, but she would secretly give him some. He lost her and had only the chocolate as a memento of her, so he eats it for comfort. ;__;
I was asked for the first time in months how I was doing yesterday and it made my day.
I swear ❤️💯
How’s it going, my fellow spooder-men?
And how are you today my friend?
I love you
How are you doing today?
Damn even Oskar looks like he’s sad she’s forgiving him so easily…she really deserves better
is pretty chill. some people never had the luxuary of trusting others but he still seems a decent human in general. just centered on his own well being. is not evil imo.
The way I LITERALLY dated an Oscar who was just like this
And ur name is Susie
Why would you put up with that as a women?
lol why choose an Oscar
@@bento4876why anything? Life and people are complicated bro not everything makes sense.
Sure and if you don't want to share you don't have to but If your going to post without full context expect some questions, and they asked a GOOD question since it's not just circumstance, you choose to get in a relationship you now say was bad, so if i may ask again why or how the lapse in judgement?
What told you in your head, yeah I'll try (or continue to try) in the relationship?
They could of been charismatic
Or changed slowly over time so you hadn't noticed, or maybe they gave you something or some feeling no one ever gave you before ect.
People can be afraid of being alone, or just afraid of losing their first love or whatever.
I was genuinely curious from your story and I assume the other person was too
@@adriangomez6826
I'm glad she eventually did dump him, but scenes like this do show some humanity in Oscar.
People get used to bad situations that it becomes normal,I left my home and now I'm happier than ever,I found peace,trust me guys,be alone for a while,you'll find happiness again
I knew Susie deserved better back then!
Same. I knew he wouldn’t change even after “learning his lesson”.
This show was incredible and so ahead of its time. It has so many life lessons that people can learn from to this day. This will always remain one of the favorite shows of all time.
As a man. I could never. I couldn't look at myself in the mirror. I couldn't look her in the face and I damn sure wouldn't be able to meet my grandfather in heaven, knowing he knew I did some shit like that.
She's partially at fault, too, for enabling him. That was NOT the correct response to somebody basically saying, "Yeah, I'm not going to steal your money this time because I feel bad."
@@juice6521maybe more than partially if she allowed his behaviors since they got together it’s not his fault anymore she accepted him being like that
It sounds to me like he probably lied to get into the country, and then lied to her to get her sympathy to marry him so his visa wouldn't get revoked. And then like he never stopped lying and being pathetic.
A lot of women get trapped like that, by guys who are always "about to get a job" or "about to go back to school". It's not fair to blame somebody for being tricked into being in a relationship with a selfish person...
@@rosethorne9155
1) you make immigrants sound like terrible people
2) you make women sound so stupid that they will fall for such a simple trick
lol not saying I disagree with either….
People are far more complex than this basic logic that you have created….
@@rosethorne9155its a cartoon 😂😂😂
on an another note i absolutely loved the voice of both characters growing up
shes a major part of the problem for enabling him and continuing to take him back and give him chances
Oh and just a slap in the face, that was Arnold's suitcase and he said "I knew you wouldn't mind." Lol fu....
Hey Arnold was an all time great.
I miss Hey arnold...
Oskar couldn't read, never worked a job and was a straight up bum. Even when I was a kid watching this I still didn't understand what on earth Susie saw in Oskar that was worthy enough to marry him. Now as an adult I realize her self esteem must have extremely low and she probably thought she couldn't do better than him. She was better off alone and I'm glad she finally left him years later but I would've loved an episode dedicated to her divorcing him.
Hey Arnold!, Doug, Rugrats, Arthur, Wishbone, Reading Rainbow, Mr. Rodgers, etc
We really had the BEST content
Cyberchase, between the lions, heck even jimmy neutron and lilo and stitch there’s so many
Wild Thornberrys
Arthur was such a great show with such diverse characters and realistic relationships
It's called a "TV show".
You talk about it like amateur porn actresses talk about their fake careers
Big facts in here.❤
Susie not only deserved better but she was definitely capable of getting a much better guy. I always felt like she was just settling for less..
Still thinking about himself, just his guilt instead of his greed
No he actually turned his life around and got a decent job after this
Still pursuing others, have you made yourself any better or you still just a bitter loser?
@@Juece95they divorced.
To fill guilt is thinking of what you are doing wrong to others or in general.
What an odd thing to say
That show was so real.
Even as an elementary schooler, I knew that poor woman deserved better.
I remember watching this in my great auntie Pat's house after school waiting for my favourite dinner. Memory unlocked, miss you auntie Pat, thanks for all the beautiful memories 😊❤ xx
i remember this episode like it’s part of my DNA
But she still loved him😢
He actually ended up turning around after that getting a job and really turning his life around. Sometimes good men fall down and all they need is someone who loves them unconditionally to pick them back up
Edit: I didn't know my comment would get this many people upset lol. I think as individuals we should all be able to understand that you do not need to be in someone's life to love them. that being said, all of you guys in this comment section have so much to say about Oscar, but what about helga's mom??!!! She was a whole alcoholic too neglected one of her kids on a constant basis...
@@SamanthaDyson-qk9nj This is so true. Unconditional love is the answer.
But he isn't a good man. A good man doesn't take advantage of those who love him. A good man doesn't break a woman down to the point where 'You keep the money' is the nicest thing she's ever heard.
"Unconditional love" is a lie and a way for abusers and lowlifes to take advantage of actual good people. The only type of unconditional love that should exist is between parent and child. It doesn't matter that he changed, he should have been better in the first place.
@@l.r.4006 People change. There are certain things that are unforgivable but being a bum isnt really one of them especially when you do learn your lesson and commit to being better.
You also contradict your own logic by saying that a parent and childs love is unconditional when there are in fact unforgivable things that can be done meaning there are conditions.
@@l.r.4006It must be nice not living in the real world
@@michaelmatthews2759 okay butthead
That actually almost made me cry :') oh well off to make some more terrible decisions.
🤗 Hey! Over here! I can show you the fastest way to get there! I've been making bad decisions for a while now and have a fail proof process 😉
That's fine if you make bad decisions, just as long as you're the one that has to deal with the consequences and not throw them on everyone else.
@@baldeman r/woosh
Hey Arnold was a very realistic cartoon. Not vulgar but real life. And we loved it!
He was boutta go get some milk😂😂😂
I see what u did there 😂
Thats what an honest & caring person looks like
This is a really unhealthy relationship. One party is taking advantage, and the other enables them because they're blinded by love.
@juice6521 no one is saying that that's a good thing, no one would lmao 🤣 if u care about someone truly, you'd help & do stuff for them even if it's a bit negative. Most don't confront because it's rlly important to learn themselves to not be that way.
And us great men are out here single while these great women are suffering too
me when i buy my man one coffee when he pays for everything
Thanks you're the best
She took him and the room and gave him the sloppiest top ever given to any man, in life.
This right fucking here 😂😂 my gf this morning
😂😂😂
I had a friend whose mom dated a guy like this, he was always at my friends house when i went over because he never had a job, he would just watch BET and basketball highlights all day while my friends mom worked 5 days a week as a nurse.
You would think people would learn from seeing stuff like this growing up but it feel like these kind of relationships are way more common than ever before.
you can love a bum
What era of BET that matters
💯Where was this cartoon when I was growing up??? Cartoons nowadays is Waay to grown!
The bar’s lower than a speed bump
That's actually how people think irl. If someone is toxic or just not a good partner in a relationship them suddenly doing the smallest gesture for said partner is interpreted as a miracle and celebrated whereas if someone is good on a daily basis people take it for granted and expect more with time or even get disappointed with the smallest of things.
I don't think like that. I don't associate with people I deem to be toxic. It's not hard to do so, either.
The benefit of low expectations is that people will celebrate when you achieve the bare minimum
People really need to watch it again. He ends alone and only then he finally tries, but is pretty clear she left him.
She only leaves him off-screen before the 2017 movie... The show never gave us that moment but instead implied that Oscar was on his way to reform. Guess it didn't stick 💀
"Ick, hes learning!"
Yea, the ick should have came before. Not just as he starts turning around. The sentiment seems a bit toxic in Itself. Context of the growth in the sitaution matters more than the sound clip of her saying "that's the nicest thing you've ever said to me."
Gives the impression that denouncing him matters more than supporting his change for good.
@@crypticcorgi8280 Well said
You gotta meet people where they are.
Being in an abusive relationship. Just because your partner does one good thing that doesnt suddenly turn everything around.
This is a cartoon but in reality people can take a long time to change if they ever do. You have no obligation to sit through that abuse.
@@josjos-x5s agreed, but the issue is the ick doesn't come before he learns and grows. But as he chooses to change. That sentiment is toxic for everyone in the long run.
Growing up is realizing she did it to herself.
The bar is below hell atp
Growing up is realizing you might be Susie 😢
Growing up meant understanding how bad of a life Helga had and why she fell for Arnold.
The fact that she ended up leaving his "go make me a sandwich" asking self still cracks me up. (The Jungle Movie)
Growing up is realizing that under extreme circumstances, people can grow. People can learn from their mistakes, people who don’t repeat them, can become better. Growing up is realizing THAT, and giving others who deserve it, another chance.
You sound braindead
I’ve been crying for 3 minutes to this shit I’m ab to call my wife and tell her I love her she does nothing but the best for me and puts up with my attitudes all day all night till I’m done being mad and time to go to sleep just for it to happen the next day a woman like this is truly amazing and this was a huge eyeopener baby if you see this I love you🫶🏼
Growin up? I knew this as a little child 😂
this is scarily accurate. i feel like the bar for men is really low and they’re praised for the bare minimum or having basic human empathy/decency
Very low for men and nonexistent for women. Never expected to be accountable or responsible.
@@caseylayton4898 lmao right….
@@caseylayton4898that's not true, men would immediately be called a deadbeat husband his name will be dragged out across the street... For example YOU'RE DOING IT RIGHT NOW... Men are always expected to be the one to be responsible and accountable the one that has to pay for the dinner and pull the seat out for the woman stop lying for brownie points
Men aren't praised for having empathy. We're praised for suffering silently. Think about that for a minute.
@@jjm152 oh please. nobody praises men for “suffering silently” (if it’s so silent then why are we constantly hearing about it lol). ur only praised by ur own toxic masculinity. men refuse to vent to their friends/family or go to therapy or do literally anything to help themselves and then blame everyone else for it
As someone who's been on both sides of this... I get the ick from both of them. It's hard to need help, but you can take it too far. If you're a people pleaser, so can you. In this situation though, it was such an abundance of abuse in multiple ways besides financial shit, it becomes so much more of a talking point than just this scene alone.
WOW. It’s hitting me all at once 😂
Tbf, he actually did understand what he did was wrong and was trying to do the right thing.
Its just unfortunately that was all he had to do to convince her he was a changed man
I think people are misunderstanding this scene. Their relationship isn't saved just because he made a token gesture of kindness, but she's treating it like he's completely changed his ways.
Growing up is realizing it's making fun of both of them.