7 Powerful Ways To Make Him Scared Of Losing You

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  • @ozzyoz5210
    @ozzyoz5210 2 роки тому +27

    Who else can sit and listen to this man's accent all day?

  • @KerriRusnak
    @KerriRusnak Рік тому +27

    1. Energy
    2. Social value
    3. Professional value
    4. Take care of yourself
    5. Be busy

  • @instagamrr
    @instagamrr Рік тому +11

    You are freaking amazing! I am the “nice” girl so too often I let things go and allow people to violate my boundaries or compromise on standards. Thanks for reminding me to take my power back!

  • @kamoftheriver
    @kamoftheriver 2 роки тому +30

    I am going through a rough patch in my relationship and these past few days have been all about me crying and waiting for him to leave me, but today I found your videos and it gave me so much strength already! I'll make sure to put those words into practice and hopefully it will now be HIM going crazy about losing me. Thank you and greetings all the way from Poland!!

    • @Priya-mk4ok
      @Priya-mk4ok 2 роки тому +3

      Good luck! If they want to go let them go. Meanwhile we do all our work within and shine like a Goddess

    • @333pinkitty
      @333pinkitty 2 роки тому +6

      I hope you are not crying anymore but smiling because you are a confident, beautiful and special!!!!

    • @EvDazell
      @EvDazell 2 роки тому

      I know the feeling. My fiancé was flirting with another woman on social media awhile ago but it shattered my confidence in our relationship. I am not constantly wondering if he is doing this again or has continued and taken it further. I don’t know how to over come this self-esteem blow, lack of confidence and insecurities.
      I hope you’re in a better place now and the tears and worry has stopped. You are valuable and deserving of everything beautiful and amazing. I hope he sees it as well.

  • @juliezhu7508
    @juliezhu7508 2 роки тому +36

    I love this classroom setting, Prof. Alex! 👍😄 Every word is gold. You are the best!

  • @lilmizzfoxy
    @lilmizzfoxy 2 роки тому +47

    Social value is often highlighted as important. Are we supposed to be social butterflies when we are not comfortable being one? I am an introvert, I don't really enjoy big social gatherings, I enjoy time on my own pursuing my interests and occasional outings with good friends.

    • @sarmisthabarua9696
      @sarmisthabarua9696 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly. So much to expect and have the basics met from a man! Lol. Can’t..🌻

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 2 роки тому +17

      Social is more about your interest, hobbies, passions having a life outside of a man. Be authentic and autonomous love your life. Have OPTIONS besides from him.
      Hope that helps💕💕💕

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 роки тому +1

      💞

    • @eattravellovejoy20
      @eattravellovejoy20 Рік тому

      I think you can also show your social value by having interests that are popular with many people. Example: if you are extremely interested in the art world.

  • @victorianorris1916
    @victorianorris1916 2 роки тому +29

    I’m not giving him no more of my attention I lost 30 pounds feeling and looking even better go out with friends enjoy myself discover new things I want to do, I’m be distance not calling or texting him

  • @kaalamankusinaatkantahan3487
    @kaalamankusinaatkantahan3487 7 місяців тому +1

    Before being left, I sensed it and walked away instead. I went to the gym, starting regaining my lost energy, achieved new heights in my career, learned cooking, go to social events, ang voila, I am a better me and that's when this person started regretting why I walked away. Tables have turned but trouble is, I am now used to just being with me.

  • @angelasellon8683
    @angelasellon8683 2 роки тому +9

    Yes. Alex. I am Breaking my habit today. Consistent effort is the only way. He knows I am here, he is thinking about me, As I am turning away, and effervescent all at once! I have a good time, and I am focused on my skills. Thank you so much friend!

  • @Abrilgee
    @Abrilgee Рік тому +2

    I’m not scared of losing him anymore but even though I feel I don’t receive the love and reassurance I need.. i still end up giving him whatever he likes. I’m stuck in between giving my best or giving distance. It’s too hard

  • @zenadaapoejoe7442
    @zenadaapoejoe7442 2 роки тому +2

    I dont have enough words 2 thank you 4 this lesson. Wonderfull, thank u, totally appreciate

  • @deloresmcray602
    @deloresmcray602 8 місяців тому

    Alex, you empower me, thank you for giving me strength in knowing what to do.

  • @selly.c472
    @selly.c472 2 роки тому +4

    When I first saw your video and at that time you said that we are very valuable at that moment I stopped to chase and pull him back. I'm so happy right now loving myself and I've forgotten him and all the things he did to me. Thank you Alex for all your help, success and GBU

  • @Priya-mk4ok
    @Priya-mk4ok 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you Alex, I am following all your tips. I worked internally too by thinking to myself I am the prize, I am not in the scarcity vibe and time waits for no one. Whats for me will never pass me.

  • @yvonnekalkhoven3459
    @yvonnekalkhoven3459 Рік тому

    Hey Alex well because of my value I take the control back and..told him I take time out and the space to work on my own issues. I am planning a lot of nice things. With my inner circle. Must say Alex..it gave me rest. Not explaining to him but let go. No more codependentie. Good luck everybody and thanks Alex.😘

  • @MsPatriot420
    @MsPatriot420 2 роки тому +5

    Wow, Alex. I love this setting because I can see the points and it gives me understanding that will stay with me. This particular video tells me I am on course. One day I had enough and told him I could not continue our relationship. It still hurts, but I was sure then and still am that if I didn't do this I wouldn't have a shred of self-respect left since I truly felt I was being used to fill in blank spots in his calendar. No contact is what it is and will forever be unless he decides I'm precious commodity. I was single for a long time before I married my husband who passed away last year. In the single years before I adopted the philosophy that if you waste your time with WRONG people you make yourself unavailable for RIGHT people. Why waste your life trying to make someone be the person you're looking for? Too much work, and, frankly, they don't deserve you. Their (love) life really isn't headed anywhere, but why shouldn't yours?

  • @dallasdinkins5033
    @dallasdinkins5033 Рік тому

    I think my brother needs to listen to this

  • @nancybruney2202
    @nancybruney2202 2 роки тому +5

    Excellent video. You care and help people.

  • @twinklewankhade8027
    @twinklewankhade8027 2 роки тому +7

    So beautifully explained Sir, self respect n our self positive energy makes us sparkle brighter .. makes us a rare gem which everyone desires ❤️... Thankyou Sir 🙏😊

  • @ayebazibwetasha8095
    @ayebazibwetasha8095 Рік тому

    I have learnt on this UA-cam channel today but am glad whatever Alex is teaching here is happening in my relationship

  • @joycemasemola2223
    @joycemasemola2223 10 місяців тому

    Thank you prof Alex. Good stuff. God bless you and protect your family.

  • @FidelmaMok-cg7td
    @FidelmaMok-cg7td Рік тому

    Am pleased and it's cool am actually doing them... Papua New Guinea Pacific

  • @mistykaikai
    @mistykaikai 2 роки тому +4

    You are such a good teacher - thank you! 🌏

  • @KyalisiimaJoy-oz8ej
    @KyalisiimaJoy-oz8ej Рік тому

    I like the way you teaching us on the board😍😍

  • @k_i_koalas
    @k_i_koalas 2 роки тому +1

    Alex! Well done. The classroom approach is much better

  • @Kristina-cl6ug
    @Kristina-cl6ug Рік тому

    Professor Alex! Thank you your videos, I've learned so much and am teaching my daughter your tips.

  • @sanjeysanjey1391
    @sanjeysanjey1391 10 місяців тому

    Yes u are a Professor sir.. ❤take love from Bangladesh

  • @margaretabuandaway6234
    @margaretabuandaway6234 2 роки тому +5

    Yes! This format looks good on you Professor Cormont! Great job! Amazing! You nailed it! Deeply grateful again Coach Alex! Yey! Cheering you on!

  • @cookingwithjollymolly168
    @cookingwithjollymolly168 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you so much for your guidance. This video literally helped me to clear so many doubts. 😊

  • @marjantarlan3325
    @marjantarlan3325 3 місяці тому

    Standing bybthe board really suits u keep up the good work thus way❤

  • @veronicakimeu4966
    @veronicakimeu4966 Рік тому

    Prof. This the best relationship advice for me... quite greatful!

  • @sanjeysanjey1391
    @sanjeysanjey1391 Рік тому

    U are a angel Alex, pls take love from my heart. I am from Bangladesh 🇧🇩

  • @timelesswords6826
    @timelesswords6826 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this😢

  • @amyangon8793
    @amyangon8793 2 роки тому +5

    Love love love!!!💕this new way you presented made me so focus, thank you Professor Alex!

  • @Lina00
    @Lina00 2 роки тому +3

    Thank u for this great advice Alex. love from the Caribbean 🙏

  • @maricelg777
    @maricelg777 2 роки тому +5

    Always enjoy watching your video , Alex. Thanks 😊🤍🌸🎀

  • @rosetalan1022
    @rosetalan1022 Рік тому

    Thanks Prof.Cormont

  • @jasnafadljevic4572
    @jasnafadljevic4572 2 роки тому +4

    Please,do not be serious,just continue this way.😁

  • @nuranisanis2950
    @nuranisanis2950 2 роки тому +3

    Wow impressive tips ever ! Easy to understand and apply immediately . And it also make me realise the reason why he is acting differently compare to the beginning phase of our relationship, that I give him a lots of my attention and control to him . Okay make sense now, thank you so muchh Alex !

  • @powerloverespectthanks2522
    @powerloverespectthanks2522 2 роки тому

    Thanks Alex. From Bangladesh

  • @summersky7824
    @summersky7824 2 роки тому +1

    I enjoyed your classroom video PROFESSOR Cormont!😃👍🏼

  • @Arewatv_Plus
    @Arewatv_Plus 8 місяців тому

    U’re truly a genius

  • @isabellairaca1669
    @isabellairaca1669 2 роки тому +4

    I like you professor Cormont even if you destroyed my misbelief about love.. 😂 “l amor est simple come bonjour …,”an old French song by Prevert

  • @martinakournikova564
    @martinakournikova564 Рік тому

    Love the professor and the clarity, excellent energy from you Alex, this is helping ❤️🙏🌺

  • @dimaawad7725
    @dimaawad7725 2 роки тому +3

    Another gold video of Alex!
    NO : is so strong, to get results, to get a stable long sustainable relationship
    You taught me that!
    I am forever grateful!
    Thank you! 💓

  • @mrnmrn1628
    @mrnmrn1628 Рік тому

    Excellent video!

  • @naceramekharbeche5547
    @naceramekharbeche5547 2 роки тому +1

    Very nice video Alex! I am a French follower and just noticed that you are also active in the US 🇺🇸 ! Bien joué continues comme ça Professeur Cormont !!

  • @ichloefetti
    @ichloefetti 2 роки тому +1

    This was dead on right from the start

  • @MinuwangodaGnanawasa
    @MinuwangodaGnanawasa Рік тому

    Beautiful. You are the man.

  • @anupamaraianvirai1183
    @anupamaraianvirai1183 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks Alex 🙏🏻 u just made it so simple n clear.

  • @sharafunnissapv4825
    @sharafunnissapv4825 2 роки тому

    Thanks...Alex..you are amazing and tallented.

  • @shinelikeshiny
    @shinelikeshiny Рік тому

    Like the presentation

  • @monaper3114
    @monaper3114 2 роки тому +1

    Great , Thank you!

  • @moureenmasika7608
    @moureenmasika7608 2 роки тому +1

    Ave just joined your channel mr. Alex but for sure ave learn thank you for your guidance

  • @larena08
    @larena08 2 роки тому +1

    Merci beaucoup your teachings are the best.

  • @saidass9741
    @saidass9741 2 роки тому +4

    Alex, t le meilleur !
    41 days of no contact rule emplemented for the second time.by the way, does no contact rule work second time ?
    41 days still hasn't reached out, any reaction i'm confused whereas the first time brought me a super results he almost lost control, reached out, despite the fact that i was the dumper. I think N.C is less effective when it comes for second time.

  • @munakhan5723
    @munakhan5723 2 роки тому +1

    I'm watching ur video from Pakistan..nd it's so powerful..I need ur more videos.. u r such an amazing coach... God bless u....

  • @jacquelinevelez1982
    @jacquelinevelez1982 2 роки тому +1

    Merci beaucoup, Thanks for detailing all of that, I like the board Professor Alex🌟

  • @mayapanayotopoulou6645
    @mayapanayotopoulou6645 2 роки тому

    Absolutely right tips thank you so much Alex they must not take us for granted hearing you from Greece 💙🌷love the Professor Cormont 😂

  • @misliyvonne
    @misliyvonne 2 роки тому +1

    Smaching the like button 100000000 times Alex ☺️

  • @marlimarlirni
    @marlimarlirni 2 роки тому +1

    I think you wrote Emergy, u r so cute ! Thank you for the video

  • @Maria-ts4uw
    @Maria-ts4uw 2 роки тому +1

    Fantastique comme d'habitude, Alex. Merci beaucoup!

  • @marthmfn9707
    @marthmfn9707 2 роки тому

    A true professor ☕

  • @deepukankaria6973
    @deepukankaria6973 2 роки тому +1

    Hi coach good afternoon.. Thank you for teaching to be independent

  • @thewisdombrook1701
    @thewisdombrook1701 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much Alex!

  • @liinamangou7469
    @liinamangou7469 2 роки тому +1

    You are amazing Alex I appreciate your advice

  • @marlimarlirni
    @marlimarlirni 2 роки тому

    I like this style it’s different. Have been watching you for years

  • @voineacatalina4539
    @voineacatalina4539 2 роки тому +1

    Well done Alex 👏❤️i LOVE your lesson 😉

  • @heidibonaroti4081
    @heidibonaroti4081 2 роки тому +2

    Alex!!! I love your professor attitude and adorable French accent! I could listen to you all day (and I do!!)
    Merci Infiniment!! 🙏💓

  • @monasingh3305
    @monasingh3305 Рік тому

    Veryyyy nice vedio

  • @mariamakunateh4674
    @mariamakunateh4674 2 роки тому

    I have done this all

  • @dr.manishasdiary8788
    @dr.manishasdiary8788 2 роки тому +2

    Question :
    It is said that if a man says no ,then he will never return ...is it true to their mentality
    Then how can we apply ur tactics on their mentality n rudeness??

  • @paolacoppola7660
    @paolacoppola7660 2 роки тому

    I perfere this video of you Alex.....it is more professional and always great advice

  • @zzzzz2120
    @zzzzz2120 2 роки тому +3

    How should we punish a guy for acting bad? Should we tell him outright that it wasn’t cool or be more creative?

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 роки тому

      1. Observe
      2. Retract
      3. Advise
      4. Assure
      Their response is #KEY 👆

    • @danicaharley6273
      @danicaharley6273 2 роки тому

      Don't reward him with you time or attention when he's done bad. He'll figure it out. He needs to reach out to you to apoligize

  • @alicehoward2961
    @alicehoward2961 2 роки тому

    Hello Alex,thanks for the update

  • @herstory1012
    @herstory1012 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks Alex! This is so helpful x

  • @ViralVibes_01
    @ViralVibes_01 2 роки тому

    I love this educative video! Yes make some more Im a fan 🥰🥰🥰

  • @SylviaDuplatBudd1
    @SylviaDuplatBudd1 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent Advice! Thank you Alex :)

  • @noratikah7983
    @noratikah7983 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks Alex. I'm from Malaysia. Today, my anniversary of 1 month broke up.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  2 роки тому +1

      I know how difficult this can be to deal with but keep pushing through! I'm here for you!

    • @noratikah7983
      @noratikah7983 2 роки тому +1

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert he's uncomfortable with me and can't accept my weakness, on the other hand I can accept him. Hmm I guess I'm a fool. But I will keep moving on and get rid of him from my life, mind and heart.

  • @tsegeredatesfaye735
    @tsegeredatesfaye735 2 роки тому

    we like the video so much thank you Alex

  • @ashalatha2263
    @ashalatha2263 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much Darling♥

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much for watching!

    • @ashalatha2263
      @ashalatha2263 2 роки тому

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert there is a magic in your voice and words...thank you for empowering so many life's. god bless you

  • @AfricanDominican
    @AfricanDominican 2 роки тому +1

    This is very insightful and helpful.

  • @jasmineflower6
    @jasmineflower6 2 роки тому

    Looking good the French men🤛🏽

  • @renoaczhary1232
    @renoaczhary1232 3 місяці тому

    Love this❤

  • @dorahlukayi755
    @dorahlukayi755 2 роки тому +1

    I like the video,the handwriting . Professor Cormon you should be doing the video while standing,you look good 😊.

  • @shalimar29
    @shalimar29 Рік тому

    What about recently divorced man who says his sutuation is complicated. He has still feelings for ex and cant easily forget the past. He is not ready to date. How can I deal with this situation and help him move on with life?

  • @gutsandgrittv5076
    @gutsandgrittv5076 2 роки тому

    Thank you♥️

  • @samanthamoonga9587
    @samanthamoonga9587 2 роки тому

    Professor carmo.i luv it.

  • @isabellairaca1669
    @isabellairaca1669 2 роки тому +3

    What can I do if he lives with his mother who calls him even at midnight on Friday and Saturday and has an emotional trauma whose roots I don t know ..

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  2 роки тому +1

      Hi Isabella!
      I would love to help you with this. I hope you can book a coaching session with me so I can know more about your relationship with him in order to give you proper advice.
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/

    • @isabellairaca1669
      @isabellairaca1669 2 роки тому

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank you Alex! I ve been knowing him just a month ago, we don t have a relationship and he got in touch three times just when he wants to meet me

  • @heartfulvibes987
    @heartfulvibes987 2 роки тому

    Thanks for everything, god bless u 🙏

  • @effatsharmin8389
    @effatsharmin8389 2 роки тому

    Hello! I think classroom helps.

  • @vickikaras9662
    @vickikaras9662 2 роки тому +1

    More videos like this 👍

  • @mehakbohra4567
    @mehakbohra4567 2 роки тому

    Awesome 👍🏼

  • @emperatrizquiming5960
    @emperatrizquiming5960 2 роки тому

    Professor Alex

  • @thewhitequeen777
    @thewhitequeen777 2 роки тому +1

    i love this video ❤️❤️

  • @kendrabee100
    @kendrabee100 2 роки тому +1

    Great video 💞

  • @timelesswords6826
    @timelesswords6826 2 роки тому

    NOTED😊

  • @godsfavour5012
    @godsfavour5012 2 роки тому +1

    Wow!!! What a powerful teaching. Thanks Alex, I am so glad I subscribed to your channel🤗

  • @bmelody3250
    @bmelody3250 2 роки тому +1

    Very correct 💯📌

  • @naseemhaider4417
    @naseemhaider4417 2 роки тому

    Tm watching this and same time mylover is watching this finaly we both break up