When one has experienced any type of trauma, that's not a deck of cards you say "now want do I do with these deck of cards?" One has to heal, forgive yourself because it was not your fault, forgive the other person, I heard that the best description of forgiveness is "giving up the hope that things would have been different". It is a process, painful and long, that with the right supports, one comes out of. Then one fine morning, you wake up and it is not the first thing that comes to your mind. It is the start of light coming thru the skirts of pain and darkness. And that light will keep coming thru, little by little, one beam at a time.
Holy crap, as soon as I heard John’s voice on my podcast during my drive I knew this was gonna be great (been following him for years now!) …. I didn’t make the connection immediately as I kinda glazed over during the intro 😂😂 Vanessa and John are a gift to relationship building information, perfect guests, thank you!!
Relationships...coming from a place of lack is a wrench...law of attraction states a relationship and "lack of a relationship" are "two ends of the same stick". Focusing on the lack will trip you up. Reach for next best feelings, engage in joyful pursuits outside of a search for a relationship...raise your vibration and you will attract raised vibration suitors. There is no law of insertion...only a law of attraction.
Ryan, T.K. and Joshua, would you consider doing a hybrid Sunday Symposium for people that do not live in the LA area? Same event in person for LA folks and Zoom for people from other cities/states?
Culturally, marriage comes from the beginning of time, a man should leave his family and cleave to his wife. Biblical. Whether people like it or not, this entire world revolves around the Bible, including time, the calendar, and so forth.
What is your attachment style?
An anxious attacher...we love avoidant attachers...hahaha
I guess anxious. I haven't been successful with relationships. I can't seem to get past the attraction stage or friend's with benefits.
When one has experienced any type of trauma, that's not a deck of cards you say "now want do I do with these deck of cards?" One has to heal, forgive yourself because it was not your fault, forgive the other person, I heard that the best description of forgiveness is "giving up the hope that things would have been different". It is a process, painful and long, that with the right supports, one comes out of.
Then one fine morning, you wake up and it is not the first thing that comes to your mind. It is the start of light coming thru the skirts of pain and darkness.
And that light will keep coming thru, little by little, one beam at a time.
Holy crap, as soon as I heard John’s voice on my podcast during my drive I knew this was gonna be great (been following him for years now!) …. I didn’t make the connection immediately as I kinda glazed over during the intro 😂😂
Vanessa and John are a gift to relationship building information, perfect guests, thank you!!
When you find the right people to add to your life, that's healthy and a bonus.
12 steps is the same! Love it. Gathered together. It's all about the fellowship.
Got a lot of insights and inspiration again. Thank you guys!
I want to hear more about separation and that resulting into more desire! Loved that
Society puts too much pressure on people to find partners and get married.
Great interview! Being intentional with our relationships is a must.
YOu FINALLY have them in your podcast!!! im soo glad.
I found so much peace in the caller from Russia. Thank you ❤️
Relationships...coming from a place of lack is a wrench...law of attraction states a relationship and "lack of a relationship" are "two ends of the same stick". Focusing on the lack will trip you up. Reach for next best feelings, engage in joyful pursuits outside of a search for a relationship...raise your vibration and you will attract raised vibration suitors. There is no law of insertion...only a law of attraction.
Ryan, T.K. and Joshua, would you consider doing a hybrid Sunday Symposium for people that do not live in the LA area?
Same event in person for LA folks and Zoom for people from other cities/states?
❤️ this episode.
Karen here. The cause of many divorces is finding a partner but then realizes that person WON'T support or join in your lifes calling.
Contracts in marriage protect children financially and rationally.
when someone is having a hard time, you shouldnt make it about you.
I am relistening to some episodes and the listener comment from Maria from Russia has already been used in an other podcast episode before 😅
'Who is telling you?' People who lived longer than you. Young people have little to advise on lifelong union
split from a eight year relationship, ask me about it
Maybe I just want a heart.
Burning Man, Relationships...
Culturally, marriage comes from the beginning of time, a man should leave his family and cleave to his wife. Biblical. Whether people like it or not, this entire world revolves around the Bible, including time, the calendar, and so forth.
Also the Quran.