"you're a baby back bitch at 14" TELL ME WHY I had to PAUSE the video to laugh for a good minute so i don't miss anything 😂😂 idk why that got me but thanks for bringing this up cause i feel like other youtubers wouldn't cause this is an important topic
I genuinely enjoyed this video because there's so much pressure to have sex, especially in college. I always try telling people to wait until they're comfortable but they never listen to me..maybe they'll listen to you.
personally i really like these serious videos rather than the joking videos. joey you are an amazing content creator and you have comedy gold videos that are super funny and we can relate to them, but dont make videos just because they are trending. i LOVED this video and you didnt have to become this character for it to be good. the views or the likes dont matter, as long as the video you put out is real and you, the true kidney beans will always stick around. ❤ please please keep going back to these serious videos like you used to 💕
"the people who live in the hookup society who just want a relationship rather than a hookup, it's hard" SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK. my family always asks me if I have a boyfriend or if I like anyone and last time they asked I said no for this exact reason. I'm waiting for the right person to pop up in my life. 👏😁 loved this video
Hey Joey! I'm 20 and still a virgin, and I'm so happy about the fact that I am, but some of my friends are always like making fun it and telling me that I'm not being practical and shit, so sometimes it's difficult. But then "it's your body, own it". Thank you so much for this video. ❤
All your virgin girls are queens especially ones who wait until marriage you are like pure clean diamonds rare but precious not stinking of rotten fish catching all sorts of dieases .
I feel like I'm one of few who is waiting to have sex until I'm married. And in this hookup culture we're in right now, it seems like the "wrong" thing to believe. Is it?
I think I'm crazy that I just 'nods' like 20 times to my phone while watching Joey. What he said is always exactly what inside my brain. i don't understand
Ava H waiting for marriage is really absurd. Your virginity is not something precious, your virginity is the lack of something. What’s truly precious is your intimacy. You must be fine with your dating pool going down significantly unless your religious then find someone with the same beliefs.
Patrick Patrick, the problem with that is a lot of people would only marry to have sex which would lead to more divorce, unhappy marriages, or even abusive marriages.
i relate so much man. people thought i was gay too because i wouldn't date someone if i didn't see a future with them and i didn't just hookup with people. i feel ya joey
Where I live, losing your virginity is some kind of bad omen and a big no-no at least until you turn 19+. Here, kissing or holding hands is treated the same as losing your virginity is treated in most parts of the world (not to offend anyone). Everyone my age (I'm 16) has had boyfriends and they are extremely proud of the number they've had. Like, "I had my first bf at 13, that's cool, ain't it?" and "I totally held hands with blah blah guy at blah blah age". So, with all this going on, I felt really pressurized to socialize with boys and fit in even though I wasn't really comfortable about the idea of having a boyfriend. Everyone my age was doing it so I was confused if I should do it too. But, now that I've seen this video I know that the moment I feel comfortable with something is the moment when it's right to do it. Thank you so much, Joey. Though, you discussed a topic much more serious than mine, I could still relate. Stay Gold!:)
Haley Kits I know how you're feeling. I went through an experience where I was pressured to do things I didn't want to do and it messed me up for a while. Focus on yourself and don't rush anything. If the person you're with doesn't respect your boundaries then they don't deserve you
you're so amazing Joey. The world deadass needs more people who care like you...like I haven't had my first kiss and I'm 16...people look at me like I'm on drugs, why should they care ? I totally get where you're coming from.
Honestly I've been watching your videos for like 2 days and I think I've already fell in love. I think you're one of those few guys that seriously care about people's feelings and try to make them confident with themselves. P.S. I love it when you say "stay you, stay beautiful"; they are very simple words but they have a deep meaning in today's society.
I totally agree w u , like whenever you feel like you're ready do it go for it. If you're not ready don't do it. People nowadays think it's some kind of game, or that it's bad if you don't lose your virginity at a certain age. You're the only person in charge of your body , so you're the only one who can make the right decision. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this Joey. Btw love the new background thing
You have a way of stating things without being too vague or sharing too much and that's why I love watching your videos when you just sit and talk. It's open and just enough
I don't disagree that it is anyone business but I do disagree on the importance of it, at least to me. As a christian I believe that one should wait till marriage because it's an intimate act between man and wife. However, it's at everyone's discretion how, when, and who. It's just a matter of opinion.
This honestly lifted my spirits so much. I'm almost 16 and I'm in the same situation you are where I haven't done anything because it just hasn't felt right. My brother is all about hooking up and that's how he met his girlfriend but I'm not the same. He keeps telling me just to have fun and I get where he's coming from but that's not me. I didn't know how to explain it and my aunt was even like oh does she even like guys. I do but I'm just not ready for certain steps with certain people. I didn't think anyone else understood so thank you for this.
I just want to say that I love how your channel is so human! How you make mistakes in previous videos, talk about the mistakes you made, give us your thoughts and feelings on why it was a mistake and what we should take into consideration and most importantly how you talk about how you have grown! I don't know if that makes any sense but that's one of the things that got me hooked! The fact that you are you!... And don't hide the fact of being human making mistakes and not being or living in a perfect world but in reality! Your advice and words not only help but the simple fact that you make sure we Kidney Beans know we are not alone and are not the only ones that make mistakes because everyone does and that our thoughts and feelings are valid... That they mean something and there is only room to grow is what I have learned and how you have helped me and I that you for that Joey! Much love!❤️❤️❤️
PREACH JOEY. I am a hopeless romantic myself and it's incredibly hard to find someone in this generation because everyone is so social media driven. So many people don't take the time to look above their phone screens to look at the outside world and enjoy what's going on around them. It makes me really sad people are not enjoying life. I love social media don't get me wrong but I don't love how it's affecting the way we live and the way we love. Anywayyy love you joey! Great video!
you're the kind of guy that i would be with because you're so mature and respectful and genuine. keep doing you because honestly there's not much people like you , in a good way(:
This was a really good video and I completely agree with you, Joey. I think people need to understand personal boundaries and how much you should tell people, because some stuff should stay private and some stuff has no business being put out into the world.
You are such a great role model for people who watch your videos. It's great that you are spreading so much self love and positivity while still recognizing and talking about the uncomfortable things. Love this video💕
I am 14 and I take relationship very serious. At least, that's what all people say to me. With this video you just took the words out of my mouth so thank you❤️
i literally saw myself in your words. you're a great guy and right now, in this society guys like you doesn't exist anymore. people said they exist but i think they don't. you're a good person, mature, cool and beautiful in every way. ❤
Joey, I totally agree with you on this issue! I used to get so caught up in what everyone else's expectations were, versus what my expectations were for myself. Thank you so much for doing what you do!!
You took the words right out of my mouth on this topic. I agree with you 100%. I hate how much pressure society puts on you for this, even if you are in a relationship and have been for awhile. Thank you so much for making this
I didn't know how much I needed this until I watched it.. Thank you Joey for being the voice to talk about these things when no one else will. Can't wait to talk about this sort of stuff with you at PP San Fran!
I hate it when people joke about my virginity even my friends it actually hurts because I trust them so I told them but then they bring it up every time we have a conversation with like our class mates like no it's not something you can tell everyone?!
Joey I just wanna say thank you for speaking up about this, even though it's a completely serious topic. And kids where I live are starting at 9 - 12 which is crazy to me! So crazy and scary.
I think that you deserve so much recognition cause you are one of those rare persons who inspire others and I just wanna say that I love your videos cause you've got everything..comedy, passion, reality, advice and above all you are inspiring..Hope you don't change..love yah..
dude u re so wise , I'm Muslimha & for us it's forbidden till marriage , what I liked of your message is that it's not bout having fun it's bout being completely comfortable with the situation it's like the same for us to pick up the right person . it's a great message . and seeing a guy who had made the decision to stay virgin in our time is just amazing. u do have my all respect now
Gosh, I respect you so much. Your outlook on things is so amazing. You promote such good messages. You're an inspiring person please don't ever change.
I think it is amazing that there is someone out here with a name for themselves that is giving this kind of knowledge to the world. I didn't realize until I got into high school how big of an issue this truly was, but I'm 18 now and I still have people who aske me this at least once a week, and I figured that I was the only person who felt this way about sharing this information with people. I hope you stay you, because you, and the things you contribute to this world are amazing
Joey from what you share with us, I can tell that you have an amazing soul. The courage you have to share your thought with us is outstanding (I dont even share my thoughts in real life). It makes me really happy to see you, you make me smile, laugh and also cry sometimes, but thats okay. I wish I had the ability to support you more. To be honest I could have commented this on any video. I love everything that you post because you're in it. I hope you take the time to read this and know that you have never disapinted us💕. P.s. I love this video, I agree that it dosen't matter and it is up to you.
I get messaged everyday by guys only interested in friends with benefits or saying "fat ass and big titties ✔" and looking to smash and I just have to sit there and curse this hook up society and what we've come too. I'm a hopeless romantic. I don't want to be used and I want to wait for the right person. And my friends look at me and automatically assume I have and have even said "Elena definitely has" and yeah I get offended, and when I say I haven't they're like 'wait really? I didn't expect that from you" Point is, I needed this video. I'm 17 and always insecure about not having done it yet when all my classmates have and then I think they're something wrong with me or I'm ugly. Thank you Joey for this video. I should be proud to be who I am and proud that I'm waiting. Too many people regret it or get used...I don't plan to be one of them 💗 You really don't get enough credit for your content Joey 💗
I´m a true believer of finding that person that makes you feel in love just by the way you look at him/her and the way he/she looks back. But now I realized how I misleaded i´ve been and how much my opinion is based on others. i have always wanted love and being true with a person and suddenly, I wanted to have sex. yeah, I want to but as you pointed with a good person who would make me feel comfortable I lost myself in this issue, and i was needed to hear what my heart feels in order to gain back my true self.. Thank you, Joey
This video was very informative because like it's uncomfortable when u feel that everyone is only thinking about sex. I'm a senior in high school and raised under strict household so like never had first boyfriend etc so like hearing this about losing virginity it's very eye opening.
Joey you help me so much even when there's something i'm not comfortable to talk with my friends like mental health or something like that and you're here to help thank you ❤
This is so inspirational. I totally get it. I feel the same way. There isn't a set time for it. It should be with who you're comfortable with and when you feel like the time is right. I think you are very brave putting this up because as you said, this is a hook up society, and some people would not agree with what you're saying, but you are brave to face them and tell your opinion. I know I would definitely not be brave enough to put this out there. You're a very inspirational person and I admire you :) KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO! :)))))
I love this video, joey! You make such good content & I agree completely. I don't know why other people always want to know these details and judge you if you lost it early or if you haven't yet, when it has nothing to do with them. It's a hard society to live in, and I hope other people watching this realize it's okay to wait until you're comfortable because I know so many who felt pressured, which is not okay. Thank you for being honest and not coming across with a boastful or judgmental tone that influences young people negatively. Well said.
This is the fourth blog of yours I've seen this day and it's my first time to encounter your works and it's kinda weird because whenever I watch your video, it feels like I'm talking to myself. hahaha. Anyway, you're amazing! I'm glad that you are brave enough to show the world your version of reality.
I am from Germany and I am still young, so I would like to say sorry for the language mistages . But I hope you understand what I want to say. Yesterday I found your canal and it was so great. I think you are doing so incredibly good videos and about such important topics. Just these more serious videos I find so good, because you dare to talk about thing like that openly. And that most famous UA-camr do not. I wonder why you do not have millions of subscriptions, because that's what you should have!!!
Wow. This really made a difference for me. Thank you for this. I don't want to get into too much detail cause I'd rather not post it all over the internet, but just know this made my really shitty week not a shitty week. Thank you. I really needed to hear all that. And you said it all perfectly.
Virginity is precious for both sides because it's an indicator of your mental strength to resist sex out of marriage which will translate to longer lasting marriage. Keeping the virginity is only the starting steps, the next step is the commitment during marriage. Commitment to make each other happy.
Yes Joey! Thanks so much for being real and honest. It so nice to have someone "famous" share on this topic. Its interesting to know what the typical you tuber thinks. (you're not typical tho lol) Its so true about being a hopeless romantic, because i am one too. I just want that relationship that is built on trust and friendship, but most people just want the bedroom talk. Thanks Joey for the positive message! I like all your videos! They are so good! hope i can meet you someday!
that breath of relief after the video made it even more amazing to me. i love your advice and your vids and i myself is a hopeless romantic, so thank you for this.
This video meant SO much to me. All my friends care about is bragging about all the sexual things they have done and I hate it. All the guys around me care about is hooking up with girls and nobody wants a genuine relationship they just want to fool around with no strings. It feels impossible to find a guy that actually wants to just spend time with me for me and not for my body. I'm worried I never will find that guy
I was told I was gay my whole life until I got my boyfriend. I was completely bullied about it for years, because I am into "guy" things. On top of that I have always had anxiety about physical contact with people. And still people think my boyfriend is an act because I don't tell them anything. This was really nice to hear because the society that I live in is all about sex.... and I am just like not yet. Thanks I love your videos!
Amazing video on a topic that I find is so important in today's society... people are always so pressured to feel the need to fit in that they don't realize it doesn't matter! Great message to people struggling with this right now. Thanks for the video joey! Glad you were able to film this!!
One word....Respect your videos are just simply honest in the most beautiful way I've ever seen ❤ please stay positive, stay respectful, stay honest, stay creative and stay beautiful....you deserve the best in life ;)
I usually don't comment on videos, but I just wanted to say thank you. if you're reading this, thank you for being you, and for being open to talking about subjects like this. Honestly, I've been having a hard time with this subject, and I often forget that what matters is that I'm comfortable and that consent does matter. Far too often I fall into what today's society expects of me, and when I don't do it, it's this constant mental battle of should I or should I not have, ect.. so i just wanted to say Thank you, I really appreciate you :)
Omg I am so lucky I stumbled over you video. It helped me so much. Everyone in my class had their first kiss, and some of them even had sex and they keep on asking me how was my first time. And there I stand, and say i didn't have my first kiss nor have sex. I mean I was on a couple of dates and so but it didn't feel right. And it put a huge pressure on me. And I keep telling myself that it is not worth it. And I am thankful for that video. I even cried... but thanks nevertheless. It feels good to know I am not the only one out there who is a hopeless romantic person... 💕 so thanks
Joey this was actually the first video I saw of yours and I am really surprised in a good way I think you are really mature and besides you were feeling awkward its was totally right what you said. Greetings from Chile
you are _such_ an amazing person wow i need someone like you in my life. honestly you deserve more recognition- you're _alwaysss_ spreading positive messages and i just want to say THANK YOU! we love you soso much
I don't know how many of you have faith in God too, but it's really encouraging to see so many other people who may/may not believe in God waiting till marriage too.
I'm 15 (turning 16 in two months) I've never been in love and i've never kissed someone or something. I always felt embarrased about it because everyone has been in love once and I do not. I felt ugly and i thought nobody liked me. Now i don't care anymore, it doesn't matter. i'm just being me and i'll wait for someone who truly loves me. Thanks for making this video bye
I love this so much! No one needs to know your personal information. That is between you and the person you are involved with. No matter what age you are, it is an intimate thing and don't feel pressured. and don't let others tease you for it either way. It's your body, and you get to make that decision
I think Joey should get far more recognition for what he does! He's always promoting such good messages and I think he should be noticed for that 🌹
Ellie Cilenti same
Ellie Cilenti YESSSSS
Ellie Cilenti yes👏
Ellie Cilenti Trueeee
agreed and I've faith he will
"you're a baby back bitch at 14" TELL ME WHY I had to PAUSE the video to laugh for a good minute so i don't miss anything 😂😂 idk why that got me
but thanks for bringing this up cause i feel like other youtubers wouldn't cause this is an important topic
I genuinely enjoyed this video because there's so much pressure to have sex, especially in college. I always try telling people to wait until they're comfortable but they never listen to me..maybe they'll listen to you.
the awkward joey is the best joey
personally i really like these serious videos rather than the joking videos. joey you are an amazing content creator and you have comedy gold videos that are super funny and we can relate to them, but dont make videos just because they are trending. i LOVED this video and you didnt have to become this character for it to be good. the views or the likes dont matter, as long as the video you put out is real and you, the true kidney beans will always stick around. ❤ please please keep going back to these serious videos like you used to 💕
Brittany O'Keefe same
"the people who live in the hookup society who just want a relationship rather than a hookup, it's hard"
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK.
my family always asks me if I have a boyfriend or if I like anyone and last time they asked I said no for this exact reason. I'm waiting for the right person to pop up in my life. 👏😁
loved this video
Hey Joey! I'm 20 and still a virgin, and I'm so happy about the fact that I am, but some of my friends are always like making fun it and telling me that I'm not being practical and shit, so sometimes it's difficult. But then "it's your body, own it". Thank you so much for this video. ❤
Just went through this this week. I'm 20 as well, in your boat. Yes this video was great! Really made me feel better.
I'll a guy! 18 Also still a vergian! Not having sex until marrige!!
All your virgin girls are queens especially ones who wait until marriage you are like pure clean diamonds rare but precious not stinking of rotten fish catching all sorts of dieases .
You're the first youtuber I know that has opened talked about this thank you sm for this
I feel like I'm one of few who is waiting to have sex until I'm married. And in this hookup culture we're in right now, it seems like the "wrong" thing to believe. Is it?
Angela Athanas there are no wrong beliefs you do you girl
Angela Athanas I'm waiting too. Don't let anyone tell you it's "wrong"
Same here
Nothing wrong about it. I'm waiting too.
you're not alone. I'm waiting until I'm married.
Im 18 and hadnt my first Kiss and still a virgin😭
Mm H your time- your best time will come, everyone experience it eventually so no need worry wish u the best and have a great day dear! *hugs*
me tooo. I'm 20
it's okay, your age doesn't matter. you shouldn't do something just because you feel pressured to. :)
Mm H the whole point of this video was to show that it doesn't matter. regardless of age, virgin or not, you're no less of a person.
Save your self for your husband/wife
I'm so glad you've got the guts to talk about this! It needs to be talked about this way, not as a competition, so thanks for doing that publicly. xx
I just want a boyfriend who thinks like Joey
Frida Acosta honestly same
I think I'm crazy that I just 'nods' like 20 times to my phone while watching Joey. What he said is always exactly what inside my brain. i don't understand
If people didn't have sex until marriage everything would be a lot less complicated.
Ava H yessss. I feel like this concept is so foreign nowadays :( :(
Ava H waiting for marriage is really absurd. Your virginity is not something precious, your virginity is the lack of something. What’s truly precious is your intimacy. You must be fine with your dating pool going down significantly unless your religious then find someone with the same beliefs.
I doubt that
Patrick Patrick, the problem with that is a lot of people would only marry to have sex which would lead to more divorce, unhappy marriages, or even abusive marriages.
@@fatmaabdalla1 Of course
Virginity is a treasure for the person that is love u
wait what people like you actually exist?! omfg
i relate so much man. people thought i was gay too because i wouldn't date someone if i didn't see a future with them and i didn't just hookup with people. i feel ya joey
its cos you are gay fuck offffffffffffffff
Where I live, losing your virginity is some kind of bad omen and a big no-no at least until you turn 19+. Here, kissing or holding hands is treated the same as losing your virginity is treated in most parts of the world (not to offend anyone). Everyone my age (I'm 16) has had boyfriends and they are extremely proud of the number they've had. Like, "I had my first bf at 13, that's cool, ain't it?" and "I totally held hands with blah blah guy at blah blah age". So, with all this going on, I felt really pressurized to socialize with boys and fit in even though I wasn't really comfortable about the idea of having a boyfriend. Everyone my age was doing it so I was confused if I should do it too. But, now that I've seen this video I know that the moment I feel comfortable with something is the moment when it's right to do it. Thank you so much, Joey. Though, you discussed a topic much more serious than mine, I could still relate. Stay Gold!:)
I don't think I'm ever going to be comfortable because my first kiss was completely unwanted and it's just scarred me and idk I just hate it
Haley Kits u
Haley Kits usually there will be a person that is just so easy to be around and you're so comfortable with them. just you wait.
Haley Kits Mine was too :( but have faith, you will find that right person someday who you don't feel you have to force anything with, as will I. :)
Haley Kits I know how you're feeling. I went through an experience where I was pressured to do things I didn't want to do and it messed me up for a while. Focus on yourself and don't rush anything. If the person you're with doesn't respect your boundaries then they don't deserve you
you're so amazing Joey. The world deadass needs more people who care like you...like I haven't had my first kiss and I'm 16...people look at me like I'm on drugs, why should they care ? I totally get where you're coming from.
This is the best video I've seen you do! This video was insightful and responsible. I like this tone from you!
Honestly I've been watching your videos for like 2 days and I think I've already fell in love. I think you're one of those few guys that seriously care about people's feelings and try to make them confident with themselves. P.S. I love it when you say "stay you, stay beautiful"; they are very simple words but they have a deep meaning in today's society.
I'm so glad I came across this video, I'm 20 and feel exactly the same! Waiting until your comfortable is what I needed to hear!!!
I totally agree w u , like whenever you feel like you're ready do it go for it. If you're not ready don't do it. People nowadays think it's some kind of game, or that it's bad if you don't lose your virginity at a certain age. You're the only person in charge of your body , so you're the only one who can make the right decision. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this Joey. Btw love the new background thing
Smart person
You have a way of stating things without being too vague or sharing too much and that's why I love watching your videos when you just sit and talk. It's open and just enough
this video is so deep i love it
I don't disagree that it is anyone business but I do disagree on the importance of it, at least to me. As a christian I believe that one should wait till marriage because it's an intimate act between man and wife. However, it's at everyone's discretion how, when, and who. It's just a matter of opinion.
Madeleine Young 7788
This honestly lifted my spirits so much. I'm almost 16 and I'm in the same situation you are where I haven't done anything because it just hasn't felt right. My brother is all about hooking up and that's how he met his girlfriend but I'm not the same. He keeps telling me just to have fun and I get where he's coming from but that's not me. I didn't know how to explain it and my aunt was even like oh does she even like guys. I do but I'm just not ready for certain steps with certain people. I didn't think anyone else understood so thank you for this.
I just want to say that I love how your channel is so human! How you make mistakes in previous videos, talk about the mistakes you made, give us your thoughts and feelings on why it was a mistake and what we should take into consideration and most importantly how you talk about how you have grown! I don't know if that makes any sense but that's one of the things that got me hooked! The fact that you are you!... And don't hide the fact of being human making mistakes and not being or living in a perfect world but in reality! Your advice and words not only help but the simple fact that you make sure we Kidney Beans know we are not alone and are not the only ones that make mistakes because everyone does and that our thoughts and feelings are valid... That they mean something and there is only room to grow is what I have learned and how you have helped me and I that you for that Joey! Much love!❤️❤️❤️
PREACH JOEY. I am a hopeless romantic myself and it's incredibly hard to find someone in this generation because everyone is so social media driven. So many people don't take the time to look above their phone screens to look at the outside world and enjoy what's going on around them. It makes me really sad people are not enjoying life. I love social media don't get me wrong but I don't love how it's affecting the way we live and the way we love. Anywayyy love you joey! Great video!
you're the kind of guy that i would be with because you're so mature and respectful and genuine. keep doing you because honestly there's not much people like you , in a good way(:
This was a really good video and I completely agree with you, Joey. I think people need to understand personal boundaries and how much you should tell people, because some stuff should stay private and some stuff has no business being put out into the world.
You are such a great role model for people who watch your videos. It's great that you are spreading so much self love and positivity while still recognizing and talking about the uncomfortable things. Love this video💕
I am 14 and I take relationship very serious. At least, that's what all people say to me. With this video you just took the words out of my mouth so thank you❤️
In this messed up world, people like you are hard to find.. Your mentality is so damn amazing.. I really appreciate it! Keep making such vids ! XOXO
i literally saw myself in your words. you're a great guy and right now, in this society guys like you doesn't exist anymore. people said they exist but i think they don't. you're a good person, mature, cool and beautiful in every way. ❤
Joey,
I totally agree with you on this issue! I used to get so caught up in what everyone else's expectations were, versus what my expectations were for myself. Thank you so much for doing what you do!!
joey i frikin love how honest and positive you are THANK YOU
Find a guy like Joey. Respectable person.
I cannot express how much I appreciate what you say. Your stance on so many things is incredible, and I love every one of your videos
You took the words right out of my mouth on this topic. I agree with you 100%. I hate how much pressure society puts on you for this, even if you are in a relationship and have been for awhile. Thank you so much for making this
I didn't know how much I needed this until I watched it.. Thank you Joey for being the voice to talk about these things when no one else will. Can't wait to talk about this sort of stuff with you at PP San Fran!
I hate it when people joke about my virginity even my friends it actually hurts because I trust them so I told them but then they bring it up every time we have a conversation with like our class mates like no it's not something you can tell everyone?!
Joey you are literal goals. Not many guys are actually in it for the relationship these days I swear. You're my inspiration
Joey I just wanna say thank you for speaking up about this, even though it's a completely serious topic. And kids where I live are starting at 9 - 12 which is crazy to me! So crazy and scary.
I think that you deserve so much recognition cause you are one of those rare persons who inspire others and I just wanna say that I love your videos cause you've got everything..comedy, passion, reality, advice and above all you are inspiring..Hope you don't change..love yah..
I don't know why you are not there in the list of top 10 youtubers...
dude u re so wise , I'm Muslimha & for us it's forbidden till marriage , what I liked of your message is that it's not bout having fun it's bout being completely comfortable with the situation it's like the same for us to pick up the right person . it's a great message . and seeing a guy who had made the decision to stay virgin in our time is just amazing. u do have my all respect now
You're seriously a hero for telling people this... i feel exactly the same
hearing it from a stranger really helps and takes the weight of your shoulder especially when dealing with peer pressure. thanks
I almost cried cuz you make so much sense and I feel blessed seeing such a great person spreading right message, thank you for being you 😊
Gosh, I respect you so much. Your outlook on things is so amazing. You promote such good messages. You're an inspiring person please don't ever change.
hahaha the intro was phenomenal. beautiful, i loved it
I think it is amazing that there is someone out here with a name for themselves that is giving this kind of knowledge to the world. I didn't realize until I got into high school how big of an issue this truly was, but I'm 18 now and I still have people who aske me this at least once a week, and I figured that I was the only person who felt this way about sharing this information with people.
I hope you stay you, because you, and the things you contribute to this world are amazing
this video made me feel so much better about myself
Joey from what you share with us, I can tell that you have an amazing soul. The courage you have to share your thought with us is outstanding (I dont even share my thoughts in real life). It makes me really happy to see you, you make me smile, laugh and also cry sometimes, but thats okay. I wish I had the ability to support you more. To be honest I could have commented this on any video. I love everything that you post because you're in it. I hope you take the time to read this and know that you have never disapinted us💕. P.s. I love this video, I agree that it dosen't matter and it is up to you.
I get messaged everyday by guys only interested in friends with benefits or saying "fat ass and big titties ✔" and looking to smash and I just have to sit there and curse this hook up society and what we've come too. I'm a hopeless romantic. I don't want to be used and I want to wait for the right person. And my friends look at me and automatically assume I have and have even said "Elena definitely has" and yeah I get offended, and when I say I haven't they're like 'wait really? I didn't expect that from you"
Point is, I needed this video. I'm 17 and always insecure about not having done it yet when all my classmates have and then I think they're something wrong with me or I'm ugly. Thank you Joey for this video. I should be proud to be who I am and proud that I'm waiting. Too many people regret it or get used...I don't plan to be one of them 💗
You really don't get enough credit for your content Joey 💗
I´m a true believer of finding that person that makes you feel in love just by the way you look at him/her and the way he/she looks back. But now I realized how I misleaded i´ve been and how much my opinion is based on others. i have always wanted love and being true with a person and suddenly, I wanted to have sex. yeah, I want to but as you pointed with a good person who would make me feel comfortable
I lost myself in this issue, and i was needed to hear what my heart feels in order to gain back my true self..
Thank you, Joey
I want to hug you, pat you on the back for being brave....
This video was very informative because like it's uncomfortable when u feel that everyone is only thinking about sex. I'm a senior in high school and raised under strict household so like never had first boyfriend etc so like hearing this about losing virginity it's very eye opening.
Joey you help me so much even when there's something i'm not comfortable to talk with my friends like mental health or something like that and you're here to help thank you ❤
HI JOEY!!!! I love the new decor!!!!!!!!
This is so inspirational. I totally get it. I feel the same way. There isn't a set time for it. It should be with who you're comfortable with and when you feel like the time is right. I think you are very brave putting this up because as you said, this is a hook up society, and some people would not agree with what you're saying, but you are brave to face them and tell your opinion. I know I would definitely not be brave enough to put this out there.
You're a very inspirational person and I admire you :)
KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO! :)))))
I love this video, joey! You make such good content & I agree completely. I don't know why other people always want to know these details and judge you if you lost it early or if you haven't yet, when it has nothing to do with them. It's a hard society to live in, and I hope other people watching this realize it's okay to wait until you're comfortable because I know so many who felt pressured, which is not okay. Thank you for being honest and not coming across with a boastful or judgmental tone that influences young people negatively. Well said.
Thank you for being yourself, for talking about the themes that really matter, about life lessons, for always being a positive influence. Thank you. 💙
You make me feel happy in every video. I dont know what would I do without you
This is the fourth blog of yours I've seen this day and it's my first time to encounter your works and it's kinda weird because whenever I watch your video, it feels like I'm talking to myself. hahaha. Anyway, you're amazing! I'm glad that you are brave enough to show the world your version of reality.
It’s so nice to know that guys like you exist! I’m a hopeless romantic too, but 17 and never been kissed.
I am from Germany and I am still young, so I would like to say sorry for the language mistages . But I hope you understand what I want to say. Yesterday I found your canal and it was so great. I think you are doing so incredibly good videos and about such important topics. Just these more serious videos I find so good, because you dare to talk about thing like that openly. And that most famous UA-camr do not. I wonder why you do not have millions of subscriptions, because that's what you should have!!!
Very well said Joey. You are absolutely right, in every aspect of your discussion.
Wow. This really made a difference for me. Thank you for this. I don't want to get into too much detail cause I'd rather not post it all over the internet, but just know this made my really shitty week not a shitty week. Thank you. I really needed to hear all that. And you said it all perfectly.
you have such a great perspective on life, thank you for sharing your words with the internet
Virginity is precious for both sides because it's an indicator of your mental strength to resist sex out of marriage which will translate to longer lasting marriage. Keeping the virginity is only the starting steps, the next step is the commitment during marriage. Commitment to make each other happy.
Serious Joey is my favorite. Another great video.
Yes Joey! Thanks so much for being real and honest. It so nice to have someone "famous" share on this topic. Its interesting to know what the typical you tuber thinks. (you're not typical tho lol) Its so true about being a hopeless romantic, because i am one too. I just want that relationship that is built on trust and friendship, but most people just want the bedroom talk. Thanks Joey for the positive message!
I like all your videos! They are so good! hope i can meet you someday!
I hope there are other guys like you out there. I hate when people trivialize sex and act like it's an accomplishment.
that breath of relief after the video made it even more amazing to me. i love your advice and your vids and i myself is a hopeless romantic, so thank you for this.
Hey hey hey. That's not stupid, you are honest and felt the need to share it joey!
You're really right bout everything. There's no perfect time. Keep doing videos... you're Really good!
This video meant SO much to me. All my friends care about is bragging about all the sexual things they have done and I hate it. All the guys around me care about is hooking up with girls and nobody wants a genuine relationship they just want to fool around with no strings. It feels impossible to find a guy that actually wants to just spend time with me for me and not for my body. I'm worried I never will find that guy
I was told I was gay my whole life until I got my boyfriend. I was completely bullied about it for years, because I am into "guy" things. On top of that I have always had anxiety about physical contact with people. And still people think my boyfriend is an act because I don't tell them anything. This was really nice to hear because the society that I live in is all about sex.... and I am just like not yet. Thanks I love your videos!
This is so important. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this video
Amazing video on a topic that I find is so important in today's society... people are always so pressured to feel the need to fit in that they don't realize it doesn't matter! Great message to people struggling with this right now. Thanks for the video joey! Glad you were able to film this!!
One word....Respect
your videos are just simply honest in the most beautiful way I've ever seen ❤ please stay positive, stay respectful, stay honest, stay creative and stay beautiful....you deserve the best in life ;)
thanks you so much for talking about this! I was recently having this thought non stop and I completely agree with you!
I usually don't comment on videos, but I just wanted to say thank you. if you're reading this, thank you for being you, and for being open to talking about subjects like this. Honestly, I've been having a hard time with this subject, and I often forget that what matters is that I'm comfortable and that consent does matter. Far too often I fall into what today's society expects of me, and when I don't do it, it's this constant mental battle of should I or should I not have, ect.. so i just wanted to say Thank you, I really appreciate you :)
thank you so much for this vid, made me cry and think about my future decisions 😭😭
Omg I am so lucky I stumbled over you video. It helped me so much. Everyone in my class had their first kiss, and some of them even had sex and they keep on asking me how was my first time. And there I stand, and say i didn't have my first kiss nor have sex. I mean I was on a couple of dates and so but it didn't feel right. And it put a huge pressure on me. And I keep telling myself that it is not worth it. And I am thankful for that video. I even cried... but thanks nevertheless. It feels good to know I am not the only one out there who is a hopeless romantic person... 💕 so thanks
Joey this was actually the first video I saw of yours and I am really surprised in a good way I think you are really mature and besides you were feeling awkward its was totally right what you said. Greetings from Chile
I haven't watched one of your videos in so long... I'm so glad I came back ❤
You're so incredible for voicing your opinion on this and standing up for those of us that value relationships
You deserve so much more attention for these real ass, reality check videos ily
you are _such_ an amazing person wow i need someone like you in my life. honestly you deserve more recognition- you're _alwaysss_ spreading positive messages and i just want to say THANK YOU! we love you soso much
I don't know how many of you have faith in God too, but it's really encouraging to see so many other people who may/may not believe in God waiting till marriage too.
quite a nice topic and i like the advice you gave. and i like the pace of your speech too.. not too fast and not too slow.. keep it up joey
This such an important video to me. Personally think everyone should see this. Couldn't agree more with all of this.
This is such an important topic and i'm glad that you have the courage to talk about it so openly.! side note love the new decor.!! love you Joey 💙
Very insightful video, your perspective on things is what makes your channel different and refreshing.
I'm 15 (turning 16 in two months)
I've never been in love and i've never kissed someone or something.
I always felt embarrased about it because everyone has been in love once and I do not. I felt ugly and i thought nobody liked me.
Now i don't care anymore, it doesn't matter. i'm just being me and i'll wait for someone who truly loves me. Thanks for making this video bye
I love this so much! No one needs to know your personal information. That is between you and the person you are involved with. No matter what age you are, it is an intimate thing and don't feel pressured. and don't let others tease you for it either way. It's your body, and you get to make that decision