You can tell Ian is good in communication because he is facing Chris the whole time, meaning giving Chris all his attention, doing eye contact and nodding (means he is letting Chris know he is listening). Ian also asks questions to make Chris clarify to understand him better.
I’m only 2 mins in, but I had a type of intervention just before Christmas for self harm. I’m now 60 days clean as of today. So so proud of you and anybody else who may be on this journey, at whatever stage 🖤
@@ianpaget2.0 and I’m so glad you talked about how you don’t need to have the biggest problem to HAVE a problem and deserve help. That’s so important and something I personally and I’m guessing a lot of others have struggled with 🖤
Ian becoming so emotional about a time that he wasn’t actually in Chris’ life shows multiple things. One, Chris continues to be a phenomenal, honest communicator of events and feelings and pretty much everything so you can feel what he was going through even when he’s just recounting it years later. Secondly, their love for each other is so deep and raw that Ian is so affected by just thinking of a time when Chris was hurting emotionally and struggling even though we are years removed from the traumatizing events he’s talking about. I love these 2 so much❤️
I still remember my intervention. I've been clean for 15 years and can still remember how low and alone I felt. The intervention helped me realize that I wasn't as good at hiding my addiction as I thought I was. Thank you for sharing your experience. You're amazing.
So proud of you. My boyfriend passed away from a drug overdose at 23. It always makes me happy to see someone whose struggled with addiction recovering and thriving. Thank you for sharing your story.
I know this is late but I just wanted to say I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m a recovering addict myself, been clean for about 5 years. I know what you went through with him was hard. Hope you’re doing well!
@@brandonchambers963 Thank you so much for this comment. It’s never easy. I miss him like crazy sometimes. Congrats on getting sober. That’s amazing! So proud of you! 🖤
My husband’s turning point was when he passed out in the recliner and left our newborn baby sleeping on the couch. I heard baby crying for like 5 straight minutes so I was like ok well, I’ll just get up and nurse if Daddy’s not getting a bottle, and that’s what I found. Sometimes you just get so used to it and don’t realize how deep into it you really are, until something serious pulls you out of it. So happy for you and proud of you, Chris! ❤️
wow.. that’s really powerful. For me, both my parents were struggling addicts up until I was 7 / 8. They had a lot of moments when they nearly stopped, but what did it for them was when my almost 2 year old brother called me “mom” because I was practically the one raising him full time. It’s tough on both ends. But once you’re out of the loop it’s one of the best things to happen to you and the family around you ❤️
Chris, I know how vulnerable it is to tell your story to the world. I cried as I admired your incredible strength through the hardest years of your life. I just want you to know that I am so endlessly proud of you. You are an inspiration to me and so many people. Not only did this teach me about addiction, but it taught me about the importance of family. Thank you Chris. You are incredible and I love you so so much❤️
The way Ian looks at Chris the whole time melts my heart. That is true love. Chris, thank you so much for sharing your story. Showing your vulnerabilities and how you conquered them is a powerful thing. The amount of people you are helping with this video is immense. You are an incredible human! Sending love to you both! #myfavecouple
My dad struggled with addiction basically my whole life. He did rehab 3 times and then ended up taking his own life thinking it would be better for us. So happy you overcame you addiction❤️❤️❤️
Chris- thank you so much for sharing this. My sister is 37 and an addict. As hard as my family tries to support her going to rehab and help to make that a reality, I just don’t know if I will ever see the day that she becomes clean. I pray everyday that I do and that she finds the strength to surrender her need to control this one thing that so desperately mis-serves her. Weird coming from a stranger, but I’m so proud of you and happy for you and your sobriety. Wishing you the VERY best of everything. 💖
I watched this as I was drinking a bottle of vodka because my depression is so bad. This video alone made me stop. I’m still depressed and crying but the bottles down.. but thank you Chris for sharing, it’s hard to get by anything, substances are definitely a issue with myself but I’m hoping if I rewatch this whenever I drink and I’m depressed, the bottle goes down.. thank you so much❤️
you got this babe! i know we are total strangers but thank you for opening up the world. weather you’re religious or not, God has a plan for you. always go back to this amazing video when you need it. they are a beautiful couple
Respectful of your honesty. Reassuring to see how far you have come and that you have such a positive relationship. Great example for others but don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Focus on your blooming... xxx
I hate seeing you cry. However I am so touched. I am so proud of you for going and getting sober. I absolutely love you so much. I love you for being so strong, and an amazing person. You are seriously a role model for so many people including me. I really hope one of these days I can meet you. I was diagnosed HIV+, after being raped and thought of myself as a nasty person. I felt so gross, that for a year straight, I never looked in the mirror. Already having Bipolar disorder and PTSD. That was the icing on the cake. It wasn't until I saw you on TikTok that I started to finally realize my worth, "and focused on my blooming" that I started to love myself. Seeing this video... just makes me so happy that there are people out there like you to look up too. I love you so much Chris and Ian. You have no idea, that you helped save me. Plus credit to my boyfriend who stuck beside me lol. But thank you so much for sharing. Thank you so much for being so inspiring.
Can we acknowledge how well you explained you past issues. You explained them with UNDERSTANDING of why you would drink. Not knowing how to release emotions earlier in life is a huge reason so many people may have a similar issue! It’s way more common then we admit & I can tell you are HEALING! God bless you guys. & Ian’s communication skills are PHENOMENAL.
I went through something so similar , around the same time. And he’s right. I’ve told the story 6868 times but rarely get emotional. I just relived my “moments” in my head and cried like a baby. When you’ve been here and you’ve come out on the other side - it is almost impossible to fathom that this used to be you. So glad you shared this and so glad I watched it
OMG...all the tears. I can feel your pain remembering this time in your life. I'm so happy that I found you two to follow. Live in your light and you are so wonderful.
Thank you so much, I really needed this. I'm a recovering heroin addict I am 310 days sober, and my friends and family saved my life as well. I commend you for all your hard work, I know it's hard. ❤💖💜❤💖💜❤💖💜❤💖💜❤💖💜❤💖💜❤🙏😻
I’m one of the “silent followers” who just likes and follows , but I wanted to say thank you for this video. I felt every feeling you described. God is good . So happy you are who you are !
You two have such a beautiful loving and respectful relationship. I teared up watching Ian get emotional because I can just see and feel how much he cares.
Just imagining how many of your friends and family members are so proud of you and what you have accomplished with this journey! Truly inspirational my king!!!
I absolutely LOVE you guys, your silliness, rants etc but what i love most is your emotional openness & ability to share so sensitively and inspiringly the seriously hard parts of your life. thank you so much for sharing this with us! There's so much power in sharing this; your story will absolutely help others and we're constantly moving towards eradicating stigma attached to mental illness and embracing the whole spectrum of emotions we feel, not just positive.
i’ve always seen interventions on the tv but i never really thought about it from your prospective. you really did open my eyes. you’re very strong and very inspiring❤️
i love this and i’m so proud of you, chris. i also just wanted to point how ian starts crying at about minute 7 but makes sure that chris keeps going and doesn’t try to make it about him. (idk if that makes sense, but it’s so sweet how supportive they are) ❤️
this video was beautifully put together and inspiring and i am so incredibly proud of you. you have been such a light in my life, and will continue to be regardless of where you may end up. you are unforgettable, i love you.
I’m not sure whether you’ll see this or not, but from the bottom of my heart, thank you. This has had such a huge impact on me. I’m currently struggling my own alcohol addiction and dependency, and I feel like it can be very taboo, especially for young, college aged people who it’s “the norm” for. This is so courageous and has made a big impact that will last with me, let alone anyone else who you have touched through your work and words. Again, thank you for your raw vulnerability, it is so so difficult, but so so appreciated and respected ❤️❤️
My dad went through rehab when I was in my early teens/preteens. Hearing this is like hearing his side of what happened. I know it only gets better for you
i have been almost one month sober. After drinking, smoking almost everyday I was so tired of the depression that was killing me. Alcohol kills the soul. I was also addicted to nicotine since I was a freshman In homeschool. I’m now a sophomore in college. one month sober of everything. Withdraws are the worst but I’m getting there. Seeing this video gives me hope that there is more to life. I’m proud of you
We're all so proud of you, Chris! It's so amazing to see someone who is able to overcome addiction. My brother and I tried talking to our dad recently and he didn't hear us...but this gives me hope that one day he might. Love you guys!
Telling your story could very well help someone that's struggling. You're so strong for sharing this. And the way Ian looks at you and was affected by your story...that man LOVES you Chris. You're such a beautiful couple ❤️
Everyone in life needs an Ian. How different life would be to have someones support like that. Chris thank you for sharing this, you are so strong and brave! I'm so happy you are in recovery❤️❤️ edited to add I'm happy to see in the comments I wasn't the only one crying like a baby with you all.
I have have followed you boys for a while... and greatly enjoyed your banter and Ian's dead panned looks of amusement at your antics.... seldom do I comment on things, but i wanted to this time... This video popped into my feed and I had not seen it before... first and foremost, I think you are incredibly brave and inspiring.... I know it is a daily fight you will have for the rest of your life and for what its worth, I am extremely proud of you! This was the first time that I had seen Ian looking so serious and listening to every word you had to say, so I knew this was going to be quite important... when he started shedding tears, mine began as well..... since you are part Filipino..... I know the close bond that as a family you share..... I lived in Manila and miss it there greatly... so no doubt it was hard for you to deal with the letters your family had written.... but they must be so incredibly proud of you..... Now as I am posting this, I also discovered you and Ian are no longer in a committed relationship, but are remaining good friends. I do so hope that continues.... and I hope that you both never loose that bond for each other. My tagalog isnt any good anymore but... nagpapadala sa iyo ng lakas, tapang at mainit na yakap warm regards, Randolph
I know I’m a complete stranger but I wanted to say I’m so proud of you. I’ve been through a very similar situation and I know how hard it hits you. I’m so proud of anyone reading this, no matter where you are in life
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ This is a very raw emotional video that took your inner strength in order to relive this episode in your life. Congratulations on getting help, as I wish you both the very best of what life has to offer. Stay Safe & Healthy... Abrazos
I don’t think I’ve ever been moved so greatly by a yt video before and I don’t even have anyone in my life that’s an addict so that just goes to show you how much I love your guys’ love & the graciousness of your sister!! I mean wow. really beautifully told, Chris
Wow! Just...wow! I’m at a loss for words. I’ve watched this video at least 12 times now. The sheer amount of vulnerability and bravery you displayed by sharing your story with a bunch of strangers is so powerful to me. This is your truth and you own it proudly. I really just have to say thank you. When I found you on TikTok lord knows how long ago, I was in a rough and dark space, unsure if I’d ever find my way out of it. However, the love you two share on top of the joy you spread through your shenanigans with one another and emotional affirmations to your audience made a huge impact on me. It’s like you fell through the dark cloud over me and let the light start to finally shine in piece by piece. You showed and embodied something that the world, myself included, seems to often forget. That we are all people, we are all struggling, we are all beautifully flawed and that it’s a wonderful and natural thing. Words will never fully describe the change your positivity, honesty and jocularity has had on me as a person. It’s because of you I started my own page. I want to bring people joy and laughter, even if just for a moment through 60 second videos. It is my hope that someday I can affect someone the way you both have affected me as well as so many others. I know this video is a couple moths old and this very long winded “thank you” will probably get lost amongst the comments. I’m probably just writing this for myself honestly and that’s okay because it’s my truth and I’m inspired by you sharing your own to share it with anyone who’s willing to read it. You both are amazing individuals and an unstoppable duo. Thank you again for being so open and honest and for being a light. Should it ever dim, I hope this message finds it’s way to you and reminds you just how brightly you can truly shine and lighten someone else’s life. I’m proof of that after all. I am so inspired by you both and I will forever be thankful to you. Thank you Chris and Ian.
I had to go through this process with my mom. sitting there and telling her I couldn’t see her like that anymore, and that she basically had to choose drugs or life one of the hardest things i’ve ever had to do, but so very grateful I did it and i’m grateful you shared this too. thank you
i’m so glad you were able to come out of that. a lot of people aren’t as strong and lucky to do so. so proud of you, chris! ps: i’m sorry if that was offensive in any way; i haven’t been through something like that lol
Thank you for sharing, I struggled with addiction from the age of 15-16 and I overdosed last summer and almost died. It’s great you are showing awareness for addiction. Anyone reading this I promise things get better, please get help before it’s too late.
omg i knew i loved the two of you i had my intervention at 15 and got sent to rehab. i was so confused because i didnt know that theyd take it to that extent. fortunately, i have been sober for 5 years now and the happiest ive ever been. thank you so much for this.
I think Chris' tendency to end things when he is done sharing is a Filipino trait. When I talk to my mom, I am always ending with I love you (click) Mom...ok, then 🤣 That being said, thank you for sharing your story. To see Ian so supportive as you were sharing is so sweet.
So crazy I'm seeing this video the same day my best friend publicly acknowledged my help and the reason she is sober for over 25 years. I was that friend and for me it was an easy decision but many people struggle with being "that" person. Thank you for this video you are helping many people out there be "that" person. Ian crying was too much me. It broke my heart to see him feel your pain. You are both so blessed to have found one another. Oh and love those pink leggings lol much love from Melissa from NJ
I think it's kind of badass how you opens about this publicly but it's even more awe inspiring when you consider the fact that he's saying all of this right next to his dude like the honesty of it all good for him
I'm 28 and three years sober, this year has made it hard to not turn back to drinking but I keep reminding myself how important it is to not turn back.
I appreciate this video so much. I went through this with my own son and I know what it is like to watch your child go through addiction. We also staged an intervention with my son. Unfortunately it took quite a few times in rehab before he finally wanted to change his life. I never gave up on him, but learned not to enable him at the same time. I am so thankful to have my son back. It has been 5 1/2 years now since he has been sober. He is married and has a 5 year old beautiful daughter. I truly believe she saved his life. I wish you the very best and hope and pray for you and your sobriety. I know your family is very proud of you and grateful for the changes you have made, just as I am with my son. God bless. ❤️
I stumbled into my first NA meeting with a plan to kill myself. My entire world had come crashing down and everyone in my life finally knew about my drug use which I had gone years hiding and I did not think I could face life clean and sober or at all. At the end of the meeting someone invited me to a meeting the next night and without thinking I promised him I’d be there. The entire drive home I fought with myself about how I couldn’t kill myself like I planned because I promised I’d be at the meeting the next day and I couldn’t let him down and besides what’s one more day if I’m just going to die. So I went to that meeting the next day and listened to a man talk about how he never imagined he could have thirty two years clean and something clicked in my head that maybe just maybe if this man had made it 32 years and through all the shit that maybe I could try this way of life. I picked up three years in December and I am so thankful that I gave it a chance. THANK YOU for sharing your story it made me emotional because I remember that feeling of knowing that if you didn’t get clean you’d have to walk away from your family and I just couldn’t do it either. You are amazing and I’m so thankful for you and Ian I found your TikTok while I had Covid and I needed the laughs and positive vibes from you guys they helped me get through it. 💜💜
Thank you so much for sharing your story. It has help me understand my cousin more. She is my day one best friend and been going through a rough patch. She just entered a 2 year rehab program ❤️
You are awesome Chris I'm glad you are here with us. I lost my 39 year old son to Covic19 n he had drug addiction n drinking. It was horrible we were gonna do the same for him like your family did but it was to late. He ended having 2 heart attacks back to back n in a coma. I finally had to let him go n donated all his organs. I'm happy for you n life is God , everything happens for a reason. I pray alot of people see this video. Remember always Jesus loves you n so do I. 😪😘🤗kisses n hugs to you n Ian.
Feels so good to cry while watching this. To see you two loving each other and growing. So vulnerable... So important to talk about. I'm sitting with so much gratitude for your willingness to share about such a important and difficult moment
I had a very similar situation happen to me at 18. I OD'd for the first (and last) time and realized that if I didn't change, I would reach the point of no return. It's been three years since then and many ups, downs and relapses but I've been in active recovery for a year now. Sobriety has been difficult and has caused me to go to some of the darkest places of my mind and life, but I lived through it and am reminded just how resilient and capable I am. To look back and see an even younger version of myself struggling with so much pain hurts my soul but the lessons it has taught me about love, life, and family are invaluable. Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful story, your vulnerabilty is helping so many people like me remember why we do it
Thank you. My experience was different. I hid my alcoholism from 90 % per cent of family and friends. The first time I said out loud that I was an alcoholic was at a doctor's office. I broke down cried and been sober over 20 years. Love ya both.
I adore you both. Your videos instantly perk me up. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been in a dark place, then watched your videos, and just felt better. No, I wasn’t magically okay. I was still broken, but you gave me reason to smile. Hearing the journey you went through...I just hope you’re incredibly proud. It takes so much strength to win a battle with addiction. And, look at you now! Making millions of strangers all over the world laugh, smile, and cry with you. You have such a huge impact that you wouldn’t have had you not went through what you’ve went through and made it out on the other side. Sending so much love to you both. ❤️
I was in a similar situation 15 years ago. Badly addicted to drugs and Alcohol. But it took a family intervention to realise I needed help. 15 years later I'm fully clean and sober and I'm greatful to everyone in my family. Keep being your fabulous selves guys love you both.
The way Ian looks at Chris the whole time he talks is so sweet.
Dayum, didn't know I was gonna cry 😥
ikr! i started crying bc of ian..
It’s so sweet
he's a great listener and not to mention when he started to talk. the first time i watched them i was like "Is he a psychiatrist?". I LOVE THEM
@@kiel56 he kinda is lol
Seeing Ian get emotional with you just shows how much he loves you Chris. Y’all are the best much love 🤍🤍
You can tell Ian is good in communication because he is facing Chris the whole time, meaning giving Chris all his attention, doing eye contact and nodding (means he is letting Chris know he is listening). Ian also asks questions to make Chris clarify to understand him better.
I’m only 2 mins in, but I had a type of intervention just before Christmas for self harm. I’m now 60 days clean as of today. So so proud of you and anybody else who may be on this journey, at whatever stage 🖤
so proud of you ❤️
So so so very proud of you !!!
Sending u a huuuuuge virtual hug 🥺
Yess purr, i am prada you 💙
@@ianpaget2.0 and I’m so glad you talked about how you don’t need to have the biggest problem to HAVE a problem and deserve help. That’s so important and something I personally and I’m guessing a lot of others have struggled with 🖤
When they started crying i started crying
Ian becoming so emotional about a time that he wasn’t actually in Chris’ life shows multiple things. One, Chris continues to be a phenomenal, honest communicator of events and feelings and pretty much everything so you can feel what he was going through even when he’s just recounting it years later. Secondly, their love for each other is so deep and raw that Ian is so affected by just thinking of a time when Chris was hurting emotionally and struggling even though we are years removed from the traumatizing events he’s talking about. I love these 2 so much❤️
Ok at 9:10 when they look at each other and start crying🥺 so very proud of you ❤️
Such an important video! Congrats on your sobriety!
Peter! Long time fan. Saw this and instantly made me think about you!!
Was not expecting to see your name here lol
Peter monn❤️❤️❤️
Ahhhh hi Peter!
I FREAKING LOVE PETER MON!!! Such an Iconic Queen!!!
I would love to see these two grow old together and have kids. Imagine how blessed their kids will be.
Or imagine one of the children arguing with Ian:D
@@kathiii581 Haha exactly and I hope they film it and put it on youtube
@@staceycasta yes please, or at least just do a story time about funny moments:))
Kids howww???
@@marquise400 adoption?
I still remember my intervention. I've been clean for 15 years and can still remember how low and alone I felt. The intervention helped me realize that I wasn't as good at hiding my addiction as I thought I was. Thank you for sharing your experience. You're amazing.
im so proud of you!
I am so proud of you!!
YOU are amazing. Thank you for sharing 💜
@@ianpaget2.0 ❤❤❤
Chris: Cuz I always feel weird talking about my past
Ian: No you don’t 🥰
I love that your roommate was willing to lose your friendship forever to help you. That's so special to have someone like that in your life.
So proud of you. My boyfriend passed away from a drug overdose at 23. It always makes me happy to see someone whose struggled with addiction recovering and thriving. Thank you for sharing your story.
I know this is late but I just wanted to say I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m a recovering addict myself, been clean for about 5 years. I know what you went through with him was hard. Hope you’re doing well!
@@brandonchambers963 Thank you so much for this comment. It’s never easy. I miss him like crazy sometimes. Congrats on getting sober. That’s amazing! So proud of you! 🖤
I've typed and deleted what I thought I wanted to say so many times..... All I can say is THANK YOU!
My husband’s turning point was when he passed out in the recliner and left our newborn baby sleeping on the couch. I heard baby crying for like 5 straight minutes so I was like ok well, I’ll just get up and nurse if Daddy’s not getting a bottle, and that’s what I found. Sometimes you just get so used to it and don’t realize how deep into it you really are, until something serious pulls you out of it. So happy for you and proud of you, Chris! ❤️
omg i love you
Love ya🥺
You are loved 🧡
Love you 🤍 bless you!
wow.. that’s really powerful. For me, both my parents were struggling addicts up until I was 7 / 8. They had a lot of moments when they nearly stopped, but what did it for them was when my almost 2 year old brother called me “mom” because I was practically the one raising him full time. It’s tough on both ends. But once you’re out of the loop it’s one of the best things to happen to you and the family around you ❤️
I want an Ian in my life. His eye contact, his communication. IS MORE VALUABLE THEN GOLD.
You will get someone nice like him👍😊 all the best
That was the hardest day of my life! I love you so much, Christopher. Thank you for shining your light to help others.
Thank you for doing this for him! I’m sure everyone is so grateful he was so strong and recovered
thank u
Oh... You are so brave and see Ian cry for you is just beautiful you passed thought all of this to be happy and we are proud of you... 🪐👑✨💙
the way Ian looks at Chris. Is the way you know that they’re in love. Crying together. ✋🥺 They’re so good for each other.
Chris, I know how vulnerable it is to tell your story to the world. I cried as I admired your incredible strength through the hardest years of your life. I just want you to know that I am so endlessly proud of you. You are an inspiration to me and so many people. Not only did this teach me about addiction, but it taught me about the importance of family. Thank you Chris. You are incredible and I love you so so much❤️
The way Ian looks at Chris the whole time melts my heart. That is true love.
Chris, thank you so much for sharing your story. Showing your vulnerabilities and how you conquered them is a powerful thing.
The amount of people you are helping with this video is immense. You are an incredible human!
Sending love to you both! #myfavecouple
Ian comforting you is so sweet, you definitely found your soulmate
My dad struggled with addiction basically my whole life. He did rehab 3 times and then ended up taking his own life thinking it would be better for us. So happy you overcame you addiction❤️❤️❤️
Aw 🥺 you’re strong for sharing 💕
It really is amazing that the people u were surrounded with recognized your problem and cared enough to help u a lot of times that isn’t the case
Chris- thank you so much for sharing this. My sister is 37 and an addict. As hard as my family tries to support her going to rehab and help to make that a reality, I just don’t know if I will ever see the day that she becomes clean. I pray everyday that I do and that she finds the strength to surrender her need to control this one thing that so desperately mis-serves her. Weird coming from a stranger, but I’m so proud of you and happy for you and your sobriety. Wishing you the VERY best of everything. 💖
I watched this as I was drinking a bottle of vodka because my depression is so bad. This video alone made me stop. I’m still depressed and crying but the bottles down.. but thank you Chris for sharing, it’s hard to get by anything, substances are definitely a issue with myself but I’m hoping if I rewatch this whenever I drink and I’m depressed, the bottle goes down.. thank you so much❤️
Hey honey you will overcome.. You are stronger than your depression.. Hugs from Kenya🇰🇪🥰🥰
you got this babe! i know we are total strangers but thank you for opening up the world. weather you’re religious or not, God has a plan for you. always go back to this amazing video when you need it. they are a beautiful couple
Thanks for sharing. You can do this, stay strong 💛✊🏼
i am SO proud of you. That is a HUGE step
Hey. Love you bitch. It’ll be okay.
Respectful of your honesty. Reassuring to see how far you have come and that you have such a positive relationship. Great example for others but don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Focus on your blooming... xxx
Wow. So strong🥺
Remember: what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger!
God bless you
I hate seeing you cry. However I am so touched. I am so proud of you for going and getting sober. I absolutely love you so much. I love you for being so strong, and an amazing person. You are seriously a role model for so many people including me. I really hope one of these days I can meet you. I was diagnosed HIV+, after being raped and thought of myself as a nasty person. I felt so gross, that for a year straight, I never looked in the mirror. Already having Bipolar disorder and PTSD. That was the icing on the cake. It wasn't until I saw you on TikTok that I started to finally realize my worth, "and focused on my blooming" that I started to love myself. Seeing this video... just makes me so happy that there are people out there like you to look up too. I love you so much Chris and Ian. You have no idea, that you helped save me. Plus credit to my boyfriend who stuck beside me lol. But thank you so much for sharing. Thank you so much for being so inspiring.
Can we acknowledge how well you explained you past issues. You explained them with UNDERSTANDING of why you would drink. Not knowing how to release emotions earlier in life is a huge reason so many people may have a similar issue! It’s way more common then we admit & I can tell you are HEALING! God bless you guys. & Ian’s communication skills are PHENOMENAL.
When Ian started crying listening to him🥺🥺
I went through something so similar , around the same time. And he’s right. I’ve told the story 6868 times but rarely get emotional. I just relived my “moments” in my head and cried like a baby. When you’ve been here and you’ve come out on the other side - it is almost impossible to fathom that this used to be you. So glad you shared this and so glad I watched it
ians right, just the visual of all your close family in a room there to confront you that way is so emotionally powerful it had me crying to.
OMG...all the tears. I can feel your pain remembering this time in your life. I'm so happy that I found you two to follow. Live in your light and you are so wonderful.
Thank you so much, I really needed this. I'm a recovering heroin addict I am 310 days sober, and my friends and family saved my life as well. I commend you for all your hard work, I know it's hard. ❤💖💜❤💖💜❤💖💜❤💖💜❤💖💜❤💖💜❤🙏😻
Congratulations! :)
I’m one of the “silent followers” who just likes and follows , but I wanted to say thank you for this video. I felt every feeling you described. God is good . So happy you are who you are !
I love how much Ian really cares and listens to every word🥺💗 such a strong relationship, thank you for sharing the hard parts of your life with us!
You two have such a beautiful loving and respectful relationship. I teared up watching Ian get emotional because I can just see and feel how much he cares.
Just imagining how many of your friends and family members are so proud of you and what you have accomplished with this journey! Truly inspirational my king!!!
You know his roommate loves him more than anything. She was willing to risk him hating her for life just so he could live his.
I absolutely LOVE you guys, your silliness, rants etc but what i love most is your emotional openness & ability to share so sensitively and inspiringly the seriously hard parts of your life. thank you so much for sharing this with us! There's so much power in sharing this; your story will absolutely help others and we're constantly moving towards eradicating stigma attached to mental illness and embracing the whole spectrum of emotions we feel, not just positive.
i’ve always seen interventions on the tv but i never really thought about it from your prospective. you really did open my eyes. you’re very strong and very inspiring❤️
i love this and i’m so proud of you, chris. i also just wanted to point how ian starts crying at about minute 7 but makes sure that chris keeps going and doesn’t try to make it about him. (idk if that makes sense, but it’s so sweet how supportive they are) ❤️
Such a good example of giving space and support.
this video was beautifully put together and inspiring and i am so incredibly proud of you. you have been such a light in my life, and will continue to be regardless of where you may end up. you are unforgettable, i love you.
The way you looked at Ian was genuinely the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen. To seen Ian hold back tears to lend you his strength is amazing.
I’m not sure whether you’ll see this or not, but from the bottom of my heart, thank you. This has had such a huge impact on me. I’m currently struggling my own alcohol addiction and dependency, and I feel like it can be very taboo, especially for young, college aged people who it’s “the norm” for. This is so courageous and has made a big impact that will last with me, let alone anyone else who you have touched through your work and words. Again, thank you for your raw vulnerability, it is so so difficult, but so so appreciated and respected ❤️❤️
My dad went through rehab when I was in my early teens/preteens. Hearing this is like hearing his side of what happened. I know it only gets better for you
i have been almost one month sober. After drinking, smoking almost everyday I was so tired of the depression that was killing me. Alcohol kills the soul. I was also addicted to nicotine since I was a freshman In homeschool. I’m now a sophomore in college. one month sober of everything. Withdraws are the worst but I’m getting there. Seeing this video gives me hope that there is more to life. I’m proud of you
We're all so proud of you, Chris! It's so amazing to see someone who is able to overcome addiction. My brother and I tried talking to our dad recently and he didn't hear us...but this gives me hope that one day he might. Love you guys!
Keep having faith and strength! Don’t lose hope 🤍
good luck and a lot of health for all of you
LMAO Ian calling him out at the beginning
But thank you for sharing! 🤍🤍💕💕 ur inspiring
why’d I decide to watch this in a middle of an existential crisis
Telling your story could very well help someone that's struggling. You're so strong for sharing this. And the way Ian looks at you and was affected by your story...that man LOVES you Chris. You're such a beautiful couple ❤️
Everyone in life needs an Ian. How different life would be to have someones support like that. Chris thank you for sharing this, you are so strong and brave! I'm so happy you are in recovery❤️❤️ edited to add I'm happy to see in the comments I wasn't the only one crying like a baby with you all.
Stay strong and sober sweetheart, do it for the ones you love but most importantly do it for yourself!🥰
I have have followed you boys for a while... and greatly enjoyed your banter and Ian's dead panned looks of amusement at your antics.... seldom do I comment on things, but i wanted to this time... This video popped into my feed and I had not seen it before... first and foremost, I think you are incredibly brave and inspiring.... I know it is a daily fight you will have for the rest of your life and for what its worth, I am extremely proud of you!
This was the first time that I had seen Ian looking so serious and listening to every word you had to say, so I knew this was going to be quite important... when he started shedding tears, mine began as well..... since you are part Filipino..... I know the close bond that as a family you share..... I lived in Manila and miss it there greatly... so no doubt it was hard for you to deal with the letters your family had written.... but they must be so incredibly proud of you.....
Now as I am posting this, I also discovered you and Ian are no longer in a committed relationship, but are remaining good friends. I do so hope that continues.... and I hope that you both never loose that bond for each other.
My tagalog isnt any good anymore but...
nagpapadala sa iyo ng lakas, tapang at mainit na yakap
warm regards,
Randolph
I know I’m a complete stranger but I wanted to say I’m so proud of you. I’ve been through a very similar situation and I know how hard it hits you. I’m so proud of anyone reading this, no matter where you are in life
When I tell you I *sobbed*. Thank you for sharing. It must have been so painful to relive.
Sober 7 years.Thank you for sharing you're personal experience👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ This is a very raw emotional video that took your inner strength in order to relive this episode in your life. Congratulations on getting help, as I wish you both the very best of what life has to offer. Stay Safe & Healthy... Abrazos
Thank you sooo much for opening up. I felt the same way when I was going thru my addiction. Just know you are LOVED.
Ian is es perfect example of. “Listen to me” look like. ♥️ he felt & hear & understood.
I don’t think I’ve ever been moved so greatly by a yt video before and I don’t even have anyone in my life that’s an addict so that just goes to show you how much I love your guys’ love & the graciousness of your sister!! I mean wow. really beautifully told, Chris
The look of support between the two of you was beautiful
Wow! Just...wow! I’m at a loss for words. I’ve watched this video at least 12 times now. The sheer amount of vulnerability and bravery you displayed by sharing your story with a bunch of strangers is so powerful to me. This is your truth and you own it proudly. I really just have to say thank you. When I found you on TikTok lord knows how long ago, I was in a rough and dark space, unsure if I’d ever find my way out of it. However, the love you two share on top of the joy you spread through your shenanigans with one another and emotional affirmations to your audience made a huge impact on me. It’s like you fell through the dark cloud over me and let the light start to finally shine in piece by piece. You showed and embodied something that the world, myself included, seems to often forget. That we are all people, we are all struggling, we are all beautifully flawed and that it’s a wonderful and natural thing. Words will never fully describe the change your positivity, honesty and jocularity has had on me as a person. It’s because of you I started my own page. I want to bring people joy and laughter, even if just for a moment through 60 second videos. It is my hope that someday I can affect someone the way you both have affected me as well as so many others. I know this video is a couple moths old and this very long winded “thank you” will probably get lost amongst the comments. I’m probably just writing this for myself honestly and that’s okay because it’s my truth and I’m inspired by you sharing your own to share it with anyone who’s willing to read it. You both are amazing individuals and an unstoppable duo. Thank you again for being so open and honest and for being a light. Should it ever dim, I hope this message finds it’s way to you and reminds you just how brightly you can truly shine and lighten someone else’s life. I’m proof of that after all. I am so inspired by you both and I will forever be thankful to you.
Thank you Chris and Ian.
I also hate my voice when I cry so I know exactly what you're talking about haha.
Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing this story
I had to go through this process with my mom. sitting there and telling her I couldn’t see her like that anymore, and that she basically had to choose drugs or life one of the hardest things i’ve ever had to do, but so very grateful I did it and i’m grateful you shared this too. thank you
i’m so glad you were able to come out of that. a lot of people aren’t as strong and lucky to do so. so proud of you, chris!
ps: i’m sorry if that was offensive in any way; i haven’t been through something like that lol
Thank you for sharing, I struggled with addiction from the age of 15-16 and I overdosed last summer and almost died. It’s great you are showing awareness for addiction. Anyone reading this I promise things get better, please get help before it’s too late.
gays being vulnerable and overcoming we love to see it 🥺
5 years clean myself so know how hard this is...so proud of you and glad you have a supportive partner💗
8 years clean here!! Glad you made it out. Thanks for sharing xoxo
So proud of you
proud of you!
omg i knew i loved the two of you
i had my intervention at 15 and got sent to rehab. i was so confused because i didnt know that theyd take it to that extent. fortunately, i have been sober for 5 years now and the happiest ive ever been. thank you so much for this.
I think Chris' tendency to end things when he is done sharing is a Filipino trait. When I talk to my mom, I am always ending with I love you (click) Mom...ok, then 🤣
That being said, thank you for sharing your story. To see Ian so supportive as you were sharing is so sweet.
thank you for talking about this, happy that you were able to get the help you needed
The same exact thing happened to me. We went to Turks and Caicos and I completely ruined the family trip because of my drinking. #SoberSquad
So crazy I'm seeing this video the same day my best friend publicly acknowledged my help and the reason she is sober for over 25 years. I was that friend and for me it was an easy decision but many people struggle with being "that" person. Thank you for this video you are helping many people out there be "that" person. Ian crying was too much me. It broke my heart to see him feel your pain. You are both so blessed to have found one another. Oh and love those pink leggings lol much love from Melissa from NJ
Iannnn omg
Thank you for sharing. Your recovery story will help so many people, I know it. I’m so glad you’re sober now and you’re happier ❤️❤️❤️
You do know Ian didn’t share his story?His name is chris
I'm still crying even after the video is over. Thank you for opening up to us and sharing. Love you both ❤
you both are so strong. so much love :)
I think it's kind of badass how you opens about this publicly but it's even more awe inspiring when you consider the fact that he's saying all of this right next to his dude like the honesty of it all good for him
i'm 19 right now, about to be 20 and going through a similar phase that you were going through. this had me crying for real. thank you for sharing
I'm 28 and three years sober, this year has made it hard to not turn back to drinking but I keep reminding myself how important it is to not turn back.
I appreciate this video so much. I went through this with my own son and I know what it is like to watch your child go through addiction. We also staged an intervention with my son. Unfortunately it took quite a few times in rehab before he finally wanted to change his life. I never gave up on him, but learned not to enable him at the same time. I am so thankful to have my son back. It has been 5 1/2 years now since he has been sober. He is married and has a 5 year old beautiful daughter. I truly believe she saved his life. I wish you the very best and hope and pray for you and your sobriety. I know your family is very proud of you and grateful for the changes you have made, just as I am with my son. God bless. ❤️
I stumbled into my first NA meeting with a plan to kill myself. My entire world had come crashing down and everyone in my life finally knew about my drug use which I had gone years hiding and I did not think I could face life clean and sober or at all. At the end of the meeting someone invited me to a meeting the next night and without thinking I promised him I’d be there. The entire drive home I fought with myself about how I couldn’t kill myself like I planned because I promised I’d be at the meeting the next day and I couldn’t let him down and besides what’s one more day if I’m just going to die. So I went to that meeting the next day and listened to a man talk about how he never imagined he could have thirty two years clean and something clicked in my head that maybe just maybe if this man had made it 32 years and through all the shit that maybe I could try this way of life. I picked up three years in December and I am so thankful that I gave it a chance. THANK YOU for sharing your story it made me emotional because I remember that feeling of knowing that if you didn’t get clean you’d have to walk away from your family and I just couldn’t do it either. You are amazing and I’m so thankful for you and Ian I found your TikTok while I had Covid and I needed the laughs and positive vibes from you guys they helped me get through it. 💜💜
i’m so glad you chose to stay !!❤️
@@curlsanonymous1356 thank you!💜 I am too!
Proud of you 🖤🖤
The way Ian looks at you is so sweet. He is so engulfed in everything you say. You are so loved!
If someone needs a hug, just tell me. No matter what, I am able to do that ❣️
Thank you so much for sharing your story. It has help me understand my cousin more. She is my day one best friend and been going through a rough patch. She just entered a 2 year rehab program ❤️
Y'all stay on the real! ❤
You are awesome Chris I'm glad you are here with us. I lost my 39 year old son to Covic19 n he had drug addiction n drinking. It was horrible we were gonna do the same for him like your family did but it was to late. He ended having 2 heart attacks back to back n in a coma. I finally had to let him go n donated all his organs. I'm happy for you n life is God , everything happens for a reason. I pray alot of people see this video. Remember always Jesus loves you n so do I. 😪😘🤗kisses n hugs to you n Ian.
I hope I’m not the only one that physically waved when they said hi.
Also it was after that I realized they can’t see it 😐
Me too 🤣
Feels so good to cry while watching this. To see you two loving each other and growing. So vulnerable... So important to talk about. I'm sitting with so much gratitude for your willingness to share about such a important and difficult moment
im so early 😌 but don’t forget that we all love you! ❤️
I had a very similar situation happen to me at 18. I OD'd for the first (and last) time and realized that if I didn't change, I would reach the point of no return. It's been three years since then and many ups, downs and relapses but I've been in active recovery for a year now. Sobriety has been difficult and has caused me
to go to some of the darkest places of my mind and life, but I lived through it and am reminded just how resilient and capable I am. To look back and see
an even younger version of myself struggling with so much pain hurts my
soul but the lessons it has taught me about love, life, and family are invaluable. Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful story, your vulnerabilty is helping so many people like me remember why we do it
For a sec I thought it was his dad saying that cause he was gay then I realized my mistake
i know, i came from his tiktok and my heart dropped. still a terrible experience but i’m glad his dad did that for him.
Thank you. My experience was different. I hid my alcoholism from 90 % per cent of family and friends. The first time I said out loud that I was an alcoholic was at a doctor's office. I broke down cried and been sober over 20 years. Love ya both.
Didn't noticed how early this was but how did someone comment 18 hours ago
It was probably on private to close friends only
I adore you both. Your videos instantly perk me up. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been in a dark place, then watched your videos, and just felt better. No, I wasn’t magically okay. I was still broken, but you gave me reason to smile. Hearing the journey you went through...I just hope you’re incredibly proud. It takes so much strength to win a battle with addiction. And, look at you now! Making millions of strangers all over the world laugh, smile, and cry with you. You have such a huge impact that you wouldn’t have had you not went through what you’ve went through and made it out on the other side. Sending so much love to you both. ❤️
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I was in a similar situation 15 years ago. Badly addicted to drugs and Alcohol. But it took a family intervention to realise I needed help. 15 years later I'm fully clean and sober and I'm greatful to everyone in my family. Keep being your fabulous selves guys love you both.
As hard as this was, you probably just saved a life by sharing this. Because somebody, somewhere, needed to see it💖