Living Room Design Mistakes (And How to Fix Them!)

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  • @trilliand
    @trilliand Рік тому +454

    Primary function of living room for me: comfortable sofa to curl up on and take a nap, read, enjoy view out of window.

    • @Xandycane
      @Xandycane Рік тому +4

      My dream living room

    • @ruby11
      @ruby11 Рік тому +5

      Same here, on every point.

    • @martah5369
      @martah5369 Рік тому +9

      For me it's space for kiddo to run around. Then comes sofa. We do not have a coffe table.

    • @OHbabe574
      @OHbabe574 Рік тому +1

      Same

    • @mtnshelby7059
      @mtnshelby7059 Рік тому +7

      Same here. No guests. I talk to the dogs.

  • @merrywalsh2809
    @merrywalsh2809 Рік тому +156

    For me, the living room is for stretching out on the sofa with my iPad and listening to Nick throw shade on my design choices.

  • @guesswhatrielle
    @guesswhatrielle Рік тому +785

    Maybe I’m in the minority, but I rarely host guests - my living room hosts people maybe twice a year. On a daily basis, the living room is for reading, napping or watching tv with my partner. That, plus the small size of my living room, means that orienting it towards the TV makes the most sense for us!

    • @cynthiajohnston424
      @cynthiajohnston424 Рік тому +49

      Same here & when not watching tv , it is behind the closed doors of a wall unit scaled to our small room size . Not " on trend " for 2023 , but suits our lifestyle & I'm quite sure neither Nick or Architectural Digest will show up to pass judgement ! 😂

    • @deborahshipman8888
      @deborahshipman8888 Рік тому +101

      Who entertains guests frequently? Only on TV...lol

    • @emryspaperart
      @emryspaperart Рік тому +23

      imo the photo examples of the tv being blended into a gallery wall are perfect for situations like this because god what a difference they made

    • @cynthiajohnston424
      @cynthiajohnston424 Рік тому +35

      @@allalala9916 My middle class parents " entertained " but guests always contributed , even if it was to bring the dessert , but usually potluck dinners & cookouts were always potluck . Good memories !

    • @daCubanaqt
      @daCubanaqt Рік тому +32

      @@deborahshipman8888 I think if you have a close knit family, they would be over all the time. When I was younger, we used to visit my mother’s family every weekend. Like it was an event every Saturday and in the summer, one of her aunts would host a cookout and everyone brought something. I love watching these videos, but honestly, people need to design their spaces to match their lives and what they like. It’s your home and I’m sure most people don’t care about interior design trends or rules.

  • @milkispolitics
    @milkispolitics Рік тому +352

    As a disabled person who loves design, i absolutely love how you bring up the accessibility of certain pieces! I SO rarely see that talked about outside of spaces focused on disability

    • @cass6020
      @cass6020 Рік тому +5

      Can I ask an opinion? For your disability, are there styles of doors you hate? Do you have strong feelings towards sliding doors?
      I partially just want to hear what more people think from a practical standpoint of their own experience, and partially I happen to be in a one floor house and would rather make choices that suit more peoples needs for when I'm not living here since my city is very lacking in accessibility. The bathroom is tiny, and it seems like the door (which knocks into another door when you open it) would be better off sliding instead of swinging. We expanded the bathroom as much as we could when we moved in, but I still doubt a wheelchair could turn around in it. If the door is lockable, and not challenging to grab and move (the hideaway sliding doors have always been difficult for me, I can't imagine using one of those) then it seems like a viable option, but I haven't heard people talk about doors a whole lot

    • @bobbert1945
      @bobbert1945 6 місяців тому +3

      I agree! I'm a retired PT, and I used to do home assessments making recommendations on chair height, bars in bathrooms, assistive equipment, etc....and a couple years ago a friend with mobility issues came over, and I realized I didn't have a single arm chair with standard 18" floor to seat height. Embarrassing. I do have one now. Next will be adding grab bars for the toilets and shower, before we need them.

    • @jamesdellaneve9005
      @jamesdellaneve9005 6 місяців тому +1

      There’s a reason that 98% of all furniture has certain dimensions. We’ve figured it out over the last 10,000 years.

  • @pjperdue1293
    @pjperdue1293 Рік тому +250

    One of my favourite lines from Friends: Joey finds out someone doesn't own a TV. "No TV...? What's all their furniture pointing at, then?"

    • @gloriaalex11
      @gloriaalex11 Рік тому +21

      Then furniture placement would be a "moo point." 🐮😂

    • @flynnmorrow6945
      @flynnmorrow6945 Рік тому +5

      That's exactly where my brain went, too!

    • @gaildela5710
      @gaildela5710 10 місяців тому +2

      Ha ha ha .... gotta love Joey! 💓😎🍹

    • @annalieff-saxby568
      @annalieff-saxby568 9 місяців тому +4

      I was asked that by a co-worker back in the early nineties.
      My answer? "At the fire!"

    • @reginafallangie2867
      @reginafallangie2867 5 місяців тому +2

      When moving the sofa up the stairs, be sure to…”pivot, pivot, PIVOT!!”

  • @MrVisde
    @MrVisde Рік тому +263

    It took me awhile to learn, but I’m figuring out: 1) don’t just shove furniture up against the wall, use seating and a rug to define the space and 2) more important than the furniture is the absence of furniture, give yourself enough space to move through the room comfortably.

    • @vacuumblink2300
      @vacuumblink2300 Рік тому +53

      I hear the whole rule about furniture not going against the wall so many times, but so many people have small apartments. I just don’t see any other options. I would literally be blocking the flow if I pulled my out from the wall lol

    • @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley
      @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley Рік тому

      ​@@vacuumblink2300Apartments are stifling for interior decorating and so those of us who rent don't really get a lot of helpful advice. There's maybe snippets we can take away, but most things don't apply to us.
      I do find this a little funny given my generation and the next (I'm a millenial) are struggling to afford a house, so the amount of people that this advice can apply to is becoming less and less 😂

    • @FairbrookWingates
      @FairbrookWingates Рік тому +4

      I'm with those who's living room is in the 10-15 squared range. It really can't be directed at us as it would look ridiculous to have just a foot or two of space behind the couch or the couch would be in the middle of the whole room blocking everything if there were enough room to walk around it. Plus I find the back of a couch boring to bother making visible...

    • @i.t.t.
      @i.t.t. 2 місяці тому

      This is new to me but also my LR is a 6 tatami room, ie barely 10 square meter. This is an upgrade from the 4.5 tatami room where I couldn't barely have a coffee table.

  • @loisbarry5534
    @loisbarry5534 Рік тому +147

    Nick, we do care (11.33). We tune in to see you and hear about your life - not just about your insightful content. You may not necessarily ‘want’ us as friends, but we all care. That’s why we watch you. Blessings and good wishes… Lois x

  • @KatieCunningham
    @KatieCunningham Рік тому +28

    Low furniture was the bane of my existence when I was pregnant. One friend had a couch that REALLY low because he broke one leg (so took them all off). I had to roll off of it to get up.

  • @the_eerie_faerie_tales
    @the_eerie_faerie_tales Рік тому +250

    2:59 one possible benefit to having uncomfortable furniture is that guests don't stay too long 😜
    P.S.: for those of you who are judgmental and need it explained because the 😜 wasn't a context clue.. THIS IS A JOKE.

    • @vacuumblink2300
      @vacuumblink2300 Рік тому +8

      Kinda weird attitude to have towards guests

    • @glockenrein
      @glockenrein Рік тому +13

      @@vacuumblink2300 it seems to have become chic to hate other people and call it being introverted or having social anxiety. I have made it a point to cut those people out of my life that are scared to answer the phone or make me feel unwelcome if I stay more than half an hour.

    • @utahdan231
      @utahdan231 Рік тому +5

      😅😅😅

    • @utahdan231
      @utahdan231 Рік тому

      @@vacuumblink2300😮

    • @ladycactus110
      @ladycactus110 Рік тому +31

      @@vacuumblink2300i saw it as humorous.😀

  • @cliftonmcnalley8469
    @cliftonmcnalley8469 Рік тому +252

    Floating furniture is only applicable to larger spaces. Please, don't forget that if your space is small (mine is 12' x 16'), the furniture must sit against the walls in order for the space to function efficiently.

    • @pauka123
      @pauka123 Рік тому +17

      I live in 32 square meters and I have two big seats that I move around : in the 2/3rds of the room in order to watch a movie, or against the wall when I'm alone. They definitely belong in the 2/3ds of the space, because they are round white armchairs (scandi style) and easy to curl into or move ! Round furniture is my go to for a small space :)

    • @jmunt
      @jmunt Рік тому +16

      He said not to put it on ALL the walls. He has said in videos before, you can have furniture against 1 wall but almost never against the walls next to that one (he brought up his one couch against the wall but the furniture on both sides are floating)

    • @cliftonmcnalley8469
      @cliftonmcnalley8469 Рік тому +28

      @@jmunt I can assure you, as a designer myself, my furniture is almost exclusively against the walls due to the size of my livingroom. One chair sits at an angle in a corner. I've maximized seating and the room is easy to move thru with visitors amazed at the spaciousness once inside. Floating furniture is very difficult in small spaces. I have been in many tiny rooms where the lack of space was emphasized by the owner attempting to needlessly float pieces because "designers say so." The photos Nick shows are for very open large spaces. They absolutely need to float furniture in order to create comfortable spaces.

    • @jenniferlynn3537
      @jenniferlynn3537 Рік тому +15

      Whether or not one can float furniture in a living room is dependent on a number of variables. The fact that designers voice an ideal or a preference doesn’t mean that every consideration should be subordinated to that concept.
      Furniture DOES look best when floated. That doesn’t mean every space looks or works best with floated furniture.
      Honestly, what is so difficult to understand about this? 🙄

    • @cliftonmcnalley8469
      @cliftonmcnalley8469 Рік тому +12

      @@jenniferlynn3537 Most of us in the design field are simply born with an ability to understand concepts such as scale and balance. We work easily with color, texture, sheen, etc. Those concepts are simple and easy. But many people do not have this ability and therefore seek out "professional advice" which they simply aren't able to understand and can only take things literally. Applying "rules of thumb" in this manner is quite often unsuccessful by those that are "design challenged".

  • @woolypuffin392
    @woolypuffin392 Рік тому +10

    Def. try out furniture before buying. I was in love with an armchair from Ikea because it looked great. Was head over heels for weeks and when I finally got to see it in the store, it was so uncomfortable!!!

  • @kathyf.2002
    @kathyf.2002 Рік тому +32

    Another thing to be aware of: make sure your upholstered furniture is fade resistant. I loved having my blinds up to see a beautiful view. Unfortunately, it turned the back of my dark black and green herringbone loveseat white over time. It was worth the view, and now resides against a wall until it wears out.

    • @lsamoa
      @lsamoa Рік тому +2

      Very good point. We don't consider enough how our belongings fare over longer periods of time.

  • @dyanalayng5507
    @dyanalayng5507 Рік тому +101

    I measured all my furniture, drew them out to scale, laminated the pieces and tried them on rooms drawn to scale... and it still comes down to trying the furniture out, and moving it around. But this weeded out the less useful pices before moving. "Biggest help" award goes to our cat Sophie, who always jumped up on my room test drawings when everything was just about right. 😍

    • @reginosky.
      @reginosky. Рік тому +12

      Sophie wanted to check if the chosen layout was comfortable to jump on before you committed to anything 😹!

    • @dyanalayng5507
      @dyanalayng5507 Рік тому +5

      @@reginosky. 😂🤣😎 and cats just love paper!

    • @annt7384
      @annt7384 Рік тому +2

      Cats always choose the best spaces. Quiet warmth and softness with exactly the right amount of sun, and no drafts.

    • @jmunt
      @jmunt Рік тому +5

      I taught myself 3D modeling in blender just to figure out couch layout when I bought a house recently, and then as I wanted to see how I could change other things, I added more and more so now I almost have my whole living/kitchen (open concept) area modeled with all the changes I’m doing for a remodel lol

    • @dyanalayng5507
      @dyanalayng5507 Рік тому +5

      @@jmunt yes that's a great solution & you get the elevation as well as the layout. The weakness of my 2-D is just that, but I didnt have a laptop at the time.
      It adds to the tension when any moment Catzilla may jump into the scenario!

  • @jilldalia1344
    @jilldalia1344 Рік тому +49

    I’m actually redoing the living room right now.When it feels overwhelming I say to myself “what would Nick think” and it’s an immediate yes or no decision

  • @LilPotatoz
    @LilPotatoz Рік тому +42

    Your navy wall gave me lots of courage to paint my bedroom dark navy. After freaking out about a black bedroom when the paint was wet, I now love the (dried) navy walls!

    • @tylerbrown4483
      @tylerbrown4483 Рік тому

      I love dark rooms. They just require more attention to lighting. If you do a good job layering the lighting and nail the temperature of the lighting the darkness can be very dramatic and cozy.
      If you’re just going to leave the overhead light and a table lamp, even with great natural daytime light, at night it’s going to feel like a cave.

  • @robine916
    @robine916 Рік тому +30

    Another thing to keep in mind with high LRV white is that it makes it harder to view art/photos. The white reflects so much light that your eyes can't focus as well and become tired. Thank you for addressing the too high TV's. The same goes for art hung too high. 💖

  • @AJR99
    @AJR99 Рік тому +37

    Very good call on the benefits of testing furniture for comfort before buying. I bought two custom living chairs online that were donated a month later because they were beautiful and also the most uncomfortable things I'd ever sat on. $1400 later, lesson learned; I won't do that again. I bought their replacement locally after testing it in person.

  • @pipmitchell7059
    @pipmitchell7059 Рік тому +20

    Your advice about moving/downsizing is spot-on. When my parents-in-law downsized from their house to an apartment, they kept furniture that was too big for the space. Practically, it didn't function well in the sense that there was always something in the way of whatever you were trying to do. Even worse, it looked so bad that it bugged my father-in-law every day for the last ten years of his life. So sad.

  • @Jeepgirlcj7
    @Jeepgirlcj7 Рік тому +22

    I finally purchased a proper sized rug for my livingroom and I have to say it makes a HUGE difference!!

  • @lap_of_the_goddess
    @lap_of_the_goddess Рік тому +77

    I'd really love it if you could do a video on design tips for low ceilings.
    Low ceilings are common in a lot of older homes and I've been struggling to design around mine. For example, I'm limited to flush mount ceiling lights, I can't do any fun moulding or paneling, I'm not sure what color to paint the ceilings, etc.

    • @Kathywake23
      @Kathywake23 Рік тому

      How low are your ceilings?

    • @lap_of_the_goddess
      @lap_of_the_goddess Рік тому +3

      @@Kathywake23 About 8 feet.

    • @debblouin
      @debblouin Рік тому +6

      Make sure to take window coverings to the ceiling. Also, if you paint consider painting the ceiling, too. It depends on your lighting.

    • @debblouin
      @debblouin Рік тому +5

      @@lap_of_the_goddess
      Those are actually standard height. If you are used to 10’ ceilings, 8’ can seem low. Does you ceiling have beams as well as being 8’? That will definitely make the ceilings feel lower.

    • @earthmoonstars2013
      @earthmoonstars2013 Рік тому +4

      I have low ceiling & crown moulding. Its fine

  • @megb9700
    @megb9700 Рік тому +18

    “Think about accessibility issues…” Yeah!

  • @annt7384
    @annt7384 Рік тому +23

    Those were some gorgeous illustrations you provided for us, Nick. I still think too many pillows are too many pillows.

    • @jmsl_910
      @jmsl_910 Рік тому +3

      agree!!

    • @dking1362
      @dking1362 Рік тому +4

      Right? Do people just dump their decorative pillows on the floor at night and then put them back on it again in the morning? Are they just constantly moving them to make room on the couch and then "restyling" them? I can't get into that! Just....why???

  • @JanuaryLisa
    @JanuaryLisa Рік тому +23

    Forget the furniture--can we talk about how GOOD Nick's shirt (color) looks on him today?! ❤

  • @firestick4991
    @firestick4991 Рік тому +11

    I’ve got a large living room. I broke all the rules by putting the rug long ways under the couch, with the coffee table in front of that, and the TV hutch in front of that. Behind the couch, I have the love seat. So they are back to back. The love seat faces the sliding glass doors that open up to the balcony, with an small ottoman in front of the love seat, flanked by end tables, so there’s plenty of places to put a drink, and the rest of the rug ends in front of love seat.
    Somehow, it ended up looking really high end while being unusual. The living room is large and tall enough for a tall dining room table with lots of seating for the rare conversation with guests. I’m such a rebel! 😎

  • @AaronOfYell
    @AaronOfYell Рік тому +7

    Good video. Never stop emphasizing that TVs should never ever go above a fireplace. I know you mentioned TV height in the previous video but fireplaces need a special mention. If you hang a TV on the wall just above a TV cabinet or even on it's own it might be too high. But no fireplace has ever been constructed which would be an appropriate height for a TV. You need to really drive the message home at every opportunity, NO TVs ABOVE FIREPLACES!

  • @marynorton2679
    @marynorton2679 Рік тому +156

    Two thoughts…
    1. I think the anti TV centered living room is not conducive for introverts. As an introvert, I hang out with people in public and my home is where I decompress.
    2. With ADHD, out of sight with closed shelving can mean I forget it exists. Can you do a video with recommendations on that?

    • @AlexHider
      @AlexHider Рік тому +28

      Glass doors on cabinets

    • @cristianabarsuglia629
      @cristianabarsuglia629 Рік тому +2

      @@AlexHider 😄

    • @TheValkryie
      @TheValkryie Рік тому +20

      You can also make small labels on the cabinet doors or drawers, specifying their contents.

    • @BelgianBisous
      @BelgianBisous Рік тому +53

      In regards to adhd, i've got a sister and mom who have it and it's made me realize everyone needs some closed shelves. Because by the time you reach 50-60 you have way too much stuff to have everything out in the open. My mom's doompiles became doomcountertops became doomrooms. And then it became overstimulating and she lost courage to clean or sort. Getting rid of things in time partially sorts out the issue of closed shelving since you wouldn't have to look long if you didn't have much. Second what helps is very fixed places, because having everything out in the open in any kind of place, means you never start linking certain kinds of items with certain cupboards because you never get used to things being there. Always dump keys on a plate on the table and you start looking on the table for your keys, not just any surface unless you misplaced it. Same methodology goes into the shelves. My sister labels or puts pictures on the outside of her boxes, shelves and cupboards. Might look a bit childish but it certainly helps her when she looks for something. Then if she enters a room she can quickly look based on words and pictograms. Another tip is glass, which reflects, so you see a bit but it is also more closed. Tinted glass as well. Lastly: it's never about open shelves being forbidden, but about balance. Have as much open as you need, just not all. Because if all is open you have too much visual clutter and will need a longer time to find something even if everything is out in the open. And to make the open shelves more organized: metal baskets you can see through or plates. It "bundles" stuff so it looks more organized 🙂

    • @alisonsmith7162
      @alisonsmith7162 Рік тому +22

      Clutterbug is great for tips re this.

  • @gary4760
    @gary4760 Рік тому +47

    When considering seating height, consider your view and the sill height of your windows.
    A friend purchased a high rise condo with a city view. He put in sleek, low, modern seating. When seated, you had to lookup to see out, so the city view became a view of the dark night sky.
    As for me, I prefer no art on the walls. I instead enjoy a 270 degree view of the British Columbia forest at the appropriate seating height. (A lucky rental find that fit my furniture pieces as well!)

    • @suzanneakerley1354
      @suzanneakerley1354 Рік тому +6

      Lucky you!!

    • @sim771
      @sim771 Рік тому +2

      Well yeah hahah BC views are art! Living in Ontario, I am finally moving into an outward facing apartment and get a view that isn’t another building! No more fireworks from my couch view but I get to see some hills in the distance from the downtown

  • @lucybraun8969
    @lucybraun8969 Рік тому +17

    My living room has two focal points: one wall with the TV, and another wall with the fireplace. Both can be viewed from the sofa, even though my living room is small. I had to downsize from a sectional to a sofa to achieve this, but doing that made all the difference. The room feels larger and is more conversational in its arrangement.

  • @elisabethmcclure1732
    @elisabethmcclure1732 Рік тому +6

    "maybe you don't even NEED the teal throw pillow!" 😂😂 Omg I feel called out. Our couch situation is truly dire AND I have 1 teal pilow! 😂😂 Also one sad brocade one I made like 10 years ago.

  • @KristiBranstetter
    @KristiBranstetter Рік тому +26

    You would hate my living room. 😂 I use a daybed instead of a couch. My living room doubles as my office. I use warm colors. It is the way I like it. :-)

    • @BeautifulSilence
      @BeautifulSilence Рік тому +7

      Team Daybed as Couch! My boyfriend says no, it's weird. I say, it's a lifestyle! 😆

    • @KristiBranstetter
      @KristiBranstetter Рік тому +1

      @@BeautifulSilence I couldn't find a couch I liked so I went the daybed route. I don't regret my decision at all!

    • @Zarga8
      @Zarga8 Рік тому +3

      I use a daybed as well

  • @johnnyboyvan
    @johnnyboyvan Рік тому +33

    Hope you are doing well, Nick. You are very informative and entertaining. 😊 No TV for 22 years so the living room looks modern and chic. Discuss the use of mirrors, pls.

  • @KatSchlitz
    @KatSchlitz Рік тому +19

    I loved your navy wall and noticed when it changed, along with the sofa change, but the reasons bring new opportunity and excitement for what can come.
    I hope you will share your design dilemmas and choice possibilities and decisions for your new place, when it is found and the work begins! We would learn so much by being "at your side" for the design journey. Then you would not need to feel you have to show perfection, which most of us do not have. Instead we can see the possibilities through your eyes, and learn by example.
    Thanks as always for your positive mindset and teaching!

  • @paulascott5701
    @paulascott5701 Рік тому +50

    I wanted to pop in and say thank you for the suggestion of purchasing duck feather throw pillow inserts and changeable covers from Ikea. I bought four of them and they are an amazing value!

    • @dominaevillae28
      @dominaevillae28 Рік тому

      Love IKEA feather throws.

    • @mffmoniz2948
      @mffmoniz2948 Рік тому +5

      I prefer to change the pillow cases on my sofa instead of buying new pillows. There's only so much storage for pillows. Covers are easy to change.

  • @bluedrummajor2876
    @bluedrummajor2876 Рік тому +5

    Thank you so much for reminding everyone that seating height for those with mobility issues.

  • @rachaelbruesch6306
    @rachaelbruesch6306 Рік тому +25

    As a person who is slightly afraid of color, I recently embraced the color teal.🤨 I didn't go "Home Goods Crazy" and buy everything in teal. 😅

    • @tylerbrown4483
      @tylerbrown4483 Рік тому

      My spouse is pretty afraid of color, but slowly I brought her around on some dark earth tones. Forest green, terra cotta, browns, clay blues… in small doses.

    • @sharoncontini3284
      @sharoncontini3284 9 місяців тому

      An interesting color. What colors did you pair it with? I can only come up with pink, gray, and black.

    • @tylerbrown4483
      @tylerbrown4483 9 місяців тому

      @@sharoncontini3284 gold, white, terra cotta, wine, natural woods, taupe, dark gray, mustard yellow… teal goes well with lots of things

  • @battletestedbeauty3758
    @battletestedbeauty3758 Рік тому +4

    Been watching your videos for ages now, just wanna pop on to say thank you for frequently touching on accessibility issues in interior design! It means a lot when an influencer I love considers this and goes a bit further than 'sometimes people are old' to acknowledge that disabled people like, exist and visit friends. xoxo

  • @theabispin8032
    @theabispin8032 10 місяців тому +4

    I loved when you talked about Access Ability of furniture

  • @saramiller9529
    @saramiller9529 Рік тому +4

    Measurements are so important. Rugs, sofas, etc. A lot of what you’re describing seems like common sense but I was looking at houses in an area and people really don’t seem to consider comfort and esthetics. I get why I love watching you.

  • @isagoldfield7393
    @isagoldfield7393 Рік тому +6

    Who else press the 👍before even watching,,,, we 💚 u Nick💫💥🌻

  • @mimib95
    @mimib95 Рік тому +2

    I agree with your comment about comfortable sofas. I bought two 2 seater sofas, which are pretty and stylish , but too uncomfortable for my 2 tall sons who like to lounge about. I’ve moved them to another room where they are much more at home but had to invest in 2 more suitable and comfortable sofas to replace them in the original space.

  • @lisalamendola
    @lisalamendola Рік тому +18

    I started painting my living room this morning, so this was very helpful! There is only one way the furniture can go in my living room, but now I have a better picture in my head as to how I can help make it look and feel better. Thanks!

  • @andrewturlington9184
    @andrewturlington9184 10 місяців тому +4

    Always enjoy your videos , but couldn't stop watching the clock.

  • @suemahoney7330
    @suemahoney7330 Рік тому +3

    You have the best "do" and "don't" photos. I have learned so much from you and the photos make it so clear. And let's be real, I love the "don't " ones for a few reasons, one of which is that it is such fun seeing what horrible mistakes others made. As bad as I may think I am at decorating others are always worse. I'm thinking of you and all you are going through! Thanks for all you do

  • @middlesismonica
    @middlesismonica Рік тому +5

    Thanks Nick. These are great tips. I don't have thousands to devote to furniture and decorating , but these ideas are helpful for any budget.

  • @emilyremnant4040
    @emilyremnant4040 Рік тому +1

    Always appreciate the comments about sustainability and recycling/reselling furniture that doesn’t work for your space!

  • @alisonsmith7162
    @alisonsmith7162 Рік тому +24

    Maybe if you love your artwork, cycle curated batches of it from time to time, so you get to see it all, and the changes make you appreciate the 'new' lot more.

    • @katiegleaves3792
      @katiegleaves3792 Рік тому +3

      I've been doing this for a few years and really enjoying it! I inherited a lot of framed prints when my photographer friend passed away. His art was just sitting in boxes in my basement for a long time, till one day I decided to give them the chance to shine! Now I rotate through the collection while my rooms get a refresh, and honoring my friend's work ❤

  • @torichristensen9587
    @torichristensen9587 9 місяців тому +1

    Yes! I have lived in my house for 10 years and i have finally realized i need to buy furniture for this living room. Finally bought shelves that fit better and totally changed the feel of the room.

  • @mettamia2008
    @mettamia2008 Рік тому +4

    I miss the navy wall. It added so much interest to the room. Good luck with the move.

  • @rebeccarendle3706
    @rebeccarendle3706 Рік тому +20

    Making living room to suit your familys needs! Yes!
    The primary focus of our living room is to watch TV and relax, read, nap etc. We eat at the dining table and chat and play board games there ie socialise there. In our living room, our coffee table is beside the sofa and our floor is empty in front the sofa because my kids like lying on the floor to watch TV and relax etc...I love the huge open floor space in front of the sofa.. we use it for so many different things..eg crafting, sport etc.
    We rarely have guests and if we do, its a maximum of two extra people so we don't need loads of furniture and the 3er sofa, 1 arm chair and 2 bean bags are enough.
    I find the American style living rooms with multiple couches, chairs, big central coffee table and multiple side tables, a side board, shelves, big floor lamps, TV console etc just to much and to full and busy..totally claustrophobic. ..I love "less is more."

    • @cynthiajohnston424
      @cynthiajohnston424 Рік тому +1

      Living in the US & being a house & pet sitter , plus former interior designer , most middle & upper middle class homes are " less is more " & very much family oriented as you cited in your opening paragraph. The things shown in magazines & YT are " idealized " - staged , too impractical & too expensive for the average American home owner . 🥰

  • @GabbyPaynter
    @GabbyPaynter Рік тому +2

    I totally agree that too much open shelving in a room looks cluttered and bad, but I've also seen the opposite where only have closed pieces makes the room look really boxy. I've made this mistake myself when, due to a lack of confidence in curating decor, I've hidden everything away and it looked boring.

  • @the_eerie_faerie_tales
    @the_eerie_faerie_tales Рік тому +7

    I've noticed sometimes at other people's houses that they will have lights/lamps right beside or behind the TV, so if you're watching the screen you have even more light blasting your eyeballs. Why do people do that. 🙈

  • @grouchostarx531
    @grouchostarx531 Рік тому +4

    In my previous two homes, the living spaces were so narrow that we really had no choice but to place the seating up against the wall, which I abhorred. One of the selling points of my current home is that it has a large living space, which gives me a lot of furniture placement options. I have enough space to keep furniture away from windows and walls. 😊
    The only caveat is that we don’t have a true entry area, so I had to visually create the illusion of an entryway by placing a loveseat along the space near the door, to create that separation of the entry from the intended gathering space. It works, though! No couches against the walls, which is good enough for me. 😊❤

  • @CallistoTheWarriorQueen
    @CallistoTheWarriorQueen Рік тому +5

    I bought an Ikea sofa and then buy covers from Bemz. Its great because you can change up the colour or texture without replacing a whole couch ☺️

  • @jonaslilyfan1
    @jonaslilyfan1 Рік тому +9

    Love the brighter paint color in your place!!

    • @juliedubberley1192
      @juliedubberley1192 Рік тому +1

      Oh yes hadn't noticed till you mentioned but does look good😊😊

  • @chsu915
    @chsu915 Рік тому +53

    Practically speaking, families rarely have face-to-face conversations these days. When they do, it's usually at the dinner table or in the family room (if they have one). Also, in reality, most people don't entertain guests in their everyday lives. Maybe once or twice a month? Most families live in single family homes where there's only one living room in which they use to hangout comfortably and watch TV. One suggestion for an episode would be how best to decorate a functional living room for real family living rather than a showroom for face-to-face conversations that happen twice a month. :)

    • @RandomViewerOnline
      @RandomViewerOnline Рік тому +14

      Agreed! I think an average working family has very little time to sit around and speak and just want to use their spaces in ways they like it, which might be binge watching TV or playing video games on a counsel.

    • @blackwaltz2363
      @blackwaltz2363 Рік тому +7

      Ugh tell me about it. Most of these social media interior design people are designing for a beautiful photograph. The big comfy couch faces the TV at a reasonable distance. That's how 99% of people use their living rooms. Otherwise it becomes the "formal living room" that no one ever uses.

    • @Lyndseyde
      @Lyndseyde Рік тому +1

      Our sofa faces the TV and then our accent chairs face the sofa. We do have family around a lot though and don’t usually all watch TV together (as we have different tastes). Do whatever works best for your family ❤️

    • @user-qp6lj6gu7s
      @user-qp6lj6gu7s Рік тому +2

      @@allalala9916 I watch on my laptop but same, I know one person my age range (20-30) that has a TV and it's not used very often, and a few that have very large extra screens for their computers but the big difference is that there is more freedom on what to watch rather than being spoon fed things you can't even interact with.

    • @user-qp6lj6gu7s
      @user-qp6lj6gu7s Рік тому +7

      @@RandomViewerOnline They don't have time to speak but they have time to binge watch TV? Sounds like some people really need to make sure they prioritise the right things or they'll regret it later, but I've never really met anyone like that, maybe they feel fulfilled doing so. Either way, time is not the issue, choices are.

  • @joycestempa5647
    @joycestempa5647 Рік тому +1

    Nick, BTW we do care. We can read that you’re having a struggle day and we understand why. It’s okay to get through it with us because we love you but we do look forward to seeing those sparkly mischievous eyes again soon when you finally settle in your new place and you get bit by the nesting bug …. I can’t wait to see it!!!! We’re going to have so much fun with the new vlogging background. Don’t forget, step out of your comfort zone and let’s try new things together - if we (a/k/a, you) don’t like it, it’s just paint & stuff, it can be changed, right??
    Excited - Cheers! ❤

  • @joanklein960
    @joanklein960 Рік тому +1

    About 20 years ago I painted the public parts of my house gray. My kids told me it would look like a prison. When it was done they loved it. I just repainted several spaces a nice clean white. I wanted it to feel cheery and bright. I am trying to figure out what to paint the living room and dining room that are across from each other. They are still currently the gray. Your videos really help me make tricky decisions. Thank you!

  • @JC-jm6ql
    @JC-jm6ql 7 місяців тому +1

    You are a sweetheart to bring in accessibility with furniture! Thank you!

  • @Inlelendri
    @Inlelendri Рік тому +4

    I'm so looking forward to putting all this into practice when I move into my new, proper little house in a few months. Thank you for keeping the anxiety away by giving me tools for it.
    One small extra thing with small sofas - if you are tall, sitting with knees bent up under your chin is neither comfortable nor particularly appealing.

  • @cinderelli3192
    @cinderelli3192 Рік тому +8

    thank you for another amazing educational video Nick, I loved your comments on being aware that we may have to rethink our furniture when moving to a new home, I think I ended up replacing most or all my furniture after moving due to being smaller than my existing home. Very few of my items worked in my new space. Oh yes, it was also a challenge to find a couch that would fit thru my small front entrance door. Thank goodness for Marketplace LOL

  • @shannon8485
    @shannon8485 Рік тому +1

    I've raised 3 rambunctious boys currently in their teens. Thanks to them and the several couches they destroyed made me decide to choose something comfortable but not too comfortable where you want to sleep on it all the time. It's there to hangout spend time as a family but no sleeping, food, and drinks!

  • @rachelhall4808
    @rachelhall4808 Рік тому +13

    I completely understand the gallery wall advice but I’m a maximalist and I love the “too much” wall!! ❤️❤️❤️ but done correctly.

    • @Geronimo2Fly
      @Geronimo2Fly Рік тому +5

      My mom loves lots of artwork on her walls as well, and I think it looks fantastic. Somehow she manages to make a gallery wall not look visually overwhelming. It's a real talent LOL.

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Рік тому +6

      Me as well. I thrive with lots of art and beautiful things. Only the ugly gets to be put away hidden, the rest can be all out.

    • @melaniesee8916
      @melaniesee8916 Рік тому +1

      I collect and create art. Best believe I’m rocking a gallery wall. :)

  • @lmarti12
    @lmarti12 Рік тому

    I’ll never stop loving your unbothered realness! “Mmm, I dunno, I’ve been on UA-cam for years and I still don’t know where to point.” Keep being you!!!

  • @joytotheworld2100
    @joytotheworld2100 Рік тому +2

    I moved into a tiny 700 sf cottage 20 years ago. I had a huge dark leather sofa. It was way too big for the room. I went on fb marketplace and bought a perfect loveseat for $50. It's a much better fit. You're so right again.

    • @lisam1196
      @lisam1196 Рік тому

      I love smaller homes and seeing what people do with the space. I find it more exciting than huge homes with tons of rooms.

  • @dking1362
    @dking1362 Рік тому +12

    Yes to color on the walls! I don't WANT my house to look like everyone else's, and I love color! (In fact, as much as I TOTALLY love your videos, Nick, and really learn from them, if I am honest I have always thought that the room behind you is a bit....ummm...boring. Too each their own!)

  • @kathleenellison6869
    @kathleenellison6869 Рік тому +4

    Nick Nick Nick… I really loved your dark dining room wall. I really do care, who made you paint it. Do your next video on them. We all have those design bullies in our lives.

    • @treasuremuch9185
      @treasuremuch9185 Рік тому

      Nick is moving soon. Split with his relationship. No other details mentioned.

  • @ThisAbilityClinic
    @ThisAbilityClinic Рік тому +1

    Really appreciate your point about accessible seating like higher seats are easier to get in and out of and leaving enough through way room for wheelchairs! 🤟🏼

  • @matthewj9832
    @matthewj9832 7 місяців тому +3

    The opening shelving thing is super helpful

  • @jenewingtxlpc
    @jenewingtxlpc 7 місяців тому

    You have some great points! I’m planning on buying a house soon and I’ve been looking at homes online for nearly a year. I see some homes that are overwhelming to the eye. Like their kitchen counters are not terribly busy with dishes left out, etc., but they have SOO much furniture in each room that it feels like they created a contest to see who can put the most furniture and decorations in their house. It’s overwhelming and stressful. In my house, I have a tiny wall between the garage door and laundry room where I put those little signs that say cute/funny things on them. I like it for me, nobody will see it unless they go to the pantry, laundry room, or garage, and it’s a place to add whimsy. Everywhere else has been thoughtfully laid out. But even then, when I sell my house, I’ll probably have to take down the signs on my little “fun wall.” Great tips! Thank you for your insight!!💗

  • @susiedupuy9532
    @susiedupuy9532 10 місяців тому +1

    I thought I was picking a cream color that was really a pale yellow for my living room. People thought it was surprisingly good. I was glad it turned out so well.

  • @stephaniegrehan9084
    @stephaniegrehan9084 Рік тому +2

    I need to redo our whole lounge/dining space from scratch, so these are super handy to keep in mind before i go shopping! Love your advice and perspectives

  • @karlaclodfelter1343
    @karlaclodfelter1343 10 місяців тому +1

    Love watching your channel. You always make me smile. I'm so excited for your partnership with Bootstrap Farmer. I'm excited to grow geraniums this year. I grew them last year but didn't have anything seed starting stuff I used old nursery cans, this would be a dream to have for this years seeds. Thanks so much Robbie. Hope you feel better soon. Karla

  • @kelliw5571
    @kelliw5571 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for your videos. I have been watching them while doing some redecorating and minor renovations on my home. I tend to be a maximalist by nature and I often feel overwhelmed by it. Your videos have helped me to scale things back and put more thought into the things that I allow in my home.

  • @ihaveinsomnia1
    @ihaveinsomnia1 Рік тому +3

    I moved into my home almost 4 years ago. The house colors were so ugly with no rhyme or reason to them, glossy peach foyer, drab green, eggplant, Burnt Sienna focal wall in the livingroom, yellow focal wall in the master bedroom. The house itself is nice and the outside is beautiful. I finally finished painting and went with Bone White. Living with that many colors i needed to be void of color for a while. I love it!

  • @yvonneschermerhorn866
    @yvonneschermerhorn866 Рік тому +8

    I've been meaning to compliment you, as a matter of fact, on painting the navy background wall white. It was so dark behind you before and I really like the continuity of the white. ( Also more flattering to you in your videos!) 🎉

    • @41hulas82
      @41hulas82 Рік тому +4

      So interesting! I disagree as I loved the contrast of the blue wall. But i am a color person for sure. To each their own!

  • @bobbert1945
    @bobbert1945 6 місяців тому

    What a spot-on video. A couple years ago we had friends over for dinner, and one of our them uses a cane to walk, and has a very hard time standing up from even a standard 18" floor to seat height chair, much less from the typical low MCM 16" floor to seat height. Although we had a few standard height chairs, we did NOT have a single arm chair. This was particularly embarrassing since I'm a Physical Therapist and I've worked a lot with people training them how to get in and out of a chair, and recommended what kind of chair to buy. Well, we have one now.

  • @Sooz1234
    @Sooz1234 Рік тому +6

    As always, excellent points for use by anyone regardless of living or financial situation. Thank you!

  • @maryannepapendick7581
    @maryannepapendick7581 Рік тому +4

    Again, I just love your sarcasm.

  • @AlwaysAmTired
    @AlwaysAmTired Рік тому +8

    Thinking about who will be using your furniture is so important! If you have disabled, fat, or elderly loved ones, please think of them. It is such a shame when I don't visit friends because I know their furniture won't accommodate me :(

  • @FionaApplewright
    @FionaApplewright 9 місяців тому +1

    When moving from a smaller place to larger, you can use different pieces to make multi-purpose rooms, or accents like rugs and curtains to make a larger space feel more like 2 individual spaces. Just make sure there's walking space or else it'll feel like you just crammed your entire house into one area

  • @luisbello7592
    @luisbello7592 Рік тому

    I watch the whole sponsor part just because I find your videos pretty nurturing

  • @jennifergraham3752
    @jennifergraham3752 Рік тому +24

    Merch idea: remaking the Live Laugh Love poster but have it say “Tints Tones and Shades”. If you know, you know. Oh better yet make it a wall decal.

  • @jeff__w
    @jeff__w Рік тому +26

    A friend of mine probably close to three decades ago said she _never_ buys full sofas (i.e., with three cushions)-she buys _only_ love seats, usually two, and has those face each other, with other chairs thrown in. Why? _No one_ wants to sit in the middle seat on a sofa so why have it. She’s right, I think. I’ve never bought a full sofa since.

    • @jeff__w
      @jeff__w 8 місяців тому +1

      @Josuperhero I think so. I thought it was a really good observation.

    • @kateyare4708
      @kateyare4708 7 місяців тому +8

      The only reason to have a three-seater is to be able to take naps on the piece.

    • @SN-sz7kw
      @SN-sz7kw 9 днів тому +1

      But middle seats exist so you don’t have to sit right NEXT to the other person. 😂

    • @jeff__w
      @jeff__w 9 днів тому

      @@SN-sz7kw Haha, true! 😂That might be the best justification _to_ buy full-size sofas!

  • @HeliliftRose
    @HeliliftRose 9 днів тому

    My home was a mid-tone greige when I moved in… hated it, painted everything white. Gave me my blank canvas, which I needed, to think. But I ended up painting all the walls in the entire house Ozark Shadows, a medium/light gray and it’s a game changer. Warmed it up, it’s not too dark, seems to work well with mid century architecture and the rich warm walnut. Happy!

  • @karendevine7074
    @karendevine7074 Рік тому +2

    You are a great teacher. Thank you for explaining things so well and thoroughly. I appreciate you!

  • @carolefreeman2544
    @carolefreeman2544 Рік тому +5

    Great video Nick! It was very informative and eye opening. I have a Kallax bookshelf from ikea with our cookbook’s displayed. I never though about it before, but if we put doors on it, it would look tidier and much nicer visually. After all, nobody is interested in seeing our cookbook collection 😂. Thanks Nick! ❤🤗🇨🇦

    • @redpastawench
      @redpastawench Рік тому +3

      I would be! I confess to always checking out other peoples books :)

  • @Lee-up5qf
    @Lee-up5qf Рік тому +10

    A video on how to make a house look better for sale could be very on topic...
    I.e. why whitewash the beautiful navy feature wall in prep for selling?
    Love your videos. ❤

    • @betmo
      @betmo Рік тому

      my realtor had us paint...buyers love fresh paint...they feel it's clean...decluttering everything with no personal stuff...because the buyer can't picture themselves in the space if your stuff is there...neutrals...

  • @Gringo7213
    @Gringo7213 Рік тому +2

    My parent's house uses the all white theme for most of it, mainly because the house is pretty dark without it. But my room was a very light blue and there is another room that is a light green (again had to consider how dark the house would be without light color walls). We basically had to use stuff with high LRV.

  • @ewelenc
    @ewelenc Рік тому +2

    I didn't really grasp how key that navy wall was until it was gone. Hope the sale goes well!

  • @suzanneakerley1354
    @suzanneakerley1354 Рік тому +4

    Great information/reminders as usual.
    We care!

  • @DesireeGonza
    @DesireeGonza Рік тому +4

    I dislike low sofas, low chairs and low beds. They are so uncomfortable. No open shelving for me, I hide my mess. Thanks ❤

  • @erintannehill
    @erintannehill Рік тому +2

    Such a helpful video, Nick! Thank you for making a part two with the living room. I feel like I have the basics down but wasn’t sure how to take it to the next level and this video gave me a few ideas. Thanks again!! 💚

  • @johnspetkitty81
    @johnspetkitty81 Рік тому +1

    We rarely have guests, so a lot of seating isn't a big deal...which is good, because our apartment is kinda small, and both me & my husband have our computers/desks in here (nowhere else to put them). And while I DO agree with the open shelving...as someone with ADHD, if I can't see it, it doesn't exist lol

  • @Print229
    @Print229 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for including traditional design style photos, also.

  • @Cece9090
    @Cece9090 Рік тому

    I love your rant on throw pillows! I had four on my couch and genuinely would only use two to lay on, when I got a couch cover to update it as a poor college student I got two that matched some artwork I had, they're still cheap so I hope to upgrade when I buy a home soon and get a better more fun couch.

  • @GilliMarieMoody
    @GilliMarieMoody Рік тому +1

    Thanks. …By getting rid of the navy wall, the blurry greige couch is more noticeable. However, your lovely dark furniture is more noticeable too🙂. Cheers.

  • @girlinthecity6075
    @girlinthecity6075 Рік тому +5

    I loved this video Nick!! Well done!

  • @karlie9590
    @karlie9590 Рік тому +16

    Decor tip of the day : “ No one wants to see your Shrek 2” 😂😂😂

    • @alisonsmith7162
      @alisonsmith7162 Рік тому +2

      This and all Nick's other surprise comments would make a hilarious video - just have all the snippets mashed together, with no context. It'd be very random, but dedicated Nick watchers would get it.

  • @murielbaith5445
    @murielbaith5445 Рік тому +3

    I do care that you're selling your home. Can't wait to see what's next!

  • @moondriedtomato
    @moondriedtomato 11 місяців тому

    I pay attention, but it tends to get a bit rushed. Thanks I've learned so much!