Oh stop. She clearly hated herself, that’s why she was morbidly obese. Why are you putting expectations, on how strangers should treat you. #SeekGod 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊️
Absolutely! I saw that myself when I started gaining weight due to undiagnosed hypothyroidism. People were meaner, more judgmental, gave me looks, ignored me, talked to me as if I was a moron, etc, etc, etc.
This happened to me in high school years ago. I had lost 70 pounds and nobody ever sat with or spoke to me. I came back skinny and lost the weight over the summer and everyone thought I was new student and wanted to talk to me. I got a lot of attention after losing the weight. People are so shallow. They don’t really want you for your heart.
I had a similar experience. Broke my nose as a kid and my face was deformed. Got bullied so bad i wanted to self delete. Got rocks thrown at me every day in 7th grade. Had a nose job and switched to a new school and i was extremely popular in 8th grade & everyone thought i was new in town and wanted to be my friend and date me even tho the only thing that changed was my nose 😢
It’s a tale as old as time. Black Like Me (1964) - Fat Like Me (2007) - The Pregnancy Project (2012). All of these books/ movies tell of how people are treated differently because of one thing or another.
This is so true! As someone whose weight has fluctuated most of my life, I have always found myself being treated better when I am skinnier than when I have been on my heavier side.
@@carvedwood1953 Her video should be about that, but her video was to complain how people supposedly treated her when she was fat. Now it's we should shame people for having "skinny privilege", ridiculous.
Thankfully I don’t need the validation of others based on my looks. I’m youngish (a mom of young kids) and get plenty of attention but absolutely do not need or want it. I’m a humble Christian woman who seeks validation from the Lord and only cares what my husband thinks.
But wouldn't everyone else be getting older with you? Thus, making you less invisible because most would have the shared experience of being invisible so they would see you for more of who you are.
The truth is that as you age you do tend to be overlooked and ignored. I am almost 70 and am 110, silver hair and very physically fit. I STILL notice the difference in how I am treated when younger women are around. It’s mind blowing. I am a confident happy person and the struggle is REAL. 2:33
And I’m NOT blaming younger women…it’s just prevalent in our society that older folks have to be very careful in and watchful while in public. My parents passed 25 years ago and I remember taking my mother shopping when she was 87 and had to reprimand a young woman for shoving my mother out of her way while we were shopping. The gal just ignored me and kept on going. I mean it was unbelievable.
To social media, please don't stigmatize weight loss as a bad thing. It's so strange how some social media is framing it that way. People judge each other differently whether you want to realize it or not based on weight and if you want to change that perception that's one reason for losing weight. But the bigger one is health. You add so much more quality years to your life. I know people with diabetes and who just suffered a stroke or heart attacks. The people who had strokes can't even walk, they are immobilize and diabetes leads to blindness and limbs having be removed surgically. Weight loss only improves your life and it shouldn't be seen as anything different unless it's extreme and leads to anorexia, but in most cases that's not the case. So please leave people alone with their weight loss journey.
Thank you. She made her choices in life to be morbidly obese, she treated herself more poorly than anyone else in this world, and it almost cost her, her life. Now she wants to complains, instead of appreciating, that she’s treating herself better by maintaining this weight loss. Being a victim is a miserable way to live. 🤦🏽♀️ #GodFirst 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊️
@@kittenpawsbb the irony in the hashtag after being so judgmental in your comment... might want to go consult your god again on what he thinks you should be doing...
The worst part is my family is the toxic people who treated me WORSE when I was a healthy weight, because they are abusive and want me to be as miserable as they are. Every time I am away from them, I am so much better off. When I’m around normal healthy people I feel better about myself inside and out.
Congratulations 🎈🍾🎊🎉 on losing 250 lbs! I have lost half the inches this year so far already). Had to darn twice cancel weight in appointment sec time in a row two months I am doing the best I can in spite of the migraines been having so much for 7 months 😿.
I use to be that way until I had blood clots in my lungs so now to remain healthy I walk at least 5 miles 5x a week to not only to maintain my weight but to stay healthy the excess weight can shorten your life.
I was 75 pounds at most over weight. Now 15 pounds overweight. Everybody starts talking to you more and more smiles. Intermittent fasting helps the most and getting at least 10k steps a day with weight training.
People assume people who gain and carry a lot of weight don't care about themselves enough to lose the weight. They treat them as less valuable which is so sad
So happy she's doing well and she mentioned pretty privilege. There also needs to be a conversation, a much larger conversation, about pretty danger and pretty exploitation and harm as a result of being pretty. These are all very real things.
It’s a good thing for her that she is attractive. Now she is treated differently but I think it would be a different situation if she lost the weight and wasn’t also an aesthetically pretty person besides.
Yup they sure do treat u different. Used to be much heavier than I am now went thru abuse even from strangers and family alike. I remember that now when I’m in the presence of other beautiful humans who have may have my experience or any other surface issue. There are valuable beautiful people being cast aside all the time because we refuse to recognize worth past what we deem as acceptable appearance. It’s a shame and a drawback for mankind.🙁
No you should feel guilty for being naturally thin, and all the privileges that have come along with it. 🙄 She’s ridiculous for making up this claim, this is something she made up on her imagination. Thank you 🤗 #GodFirst
You didn’t treat yourself the same when you were heavier! That’s ALSO a fact! We gotta stop trying to make weight loss a crime! We also gotta stop making being fat seem like the only social disadvantage! I’m 6 feet 6 and athletic! I’ve seen how women treat my “not so tall” male friends! Different privileges and disadvantages happen every second of the day! Yes we must work everyday NOT to be judgmental and be better people, but it’s also ok to tell yourself the truth! You didn’t feel like your best self at that weight! Whether it was because of outside judgement or it was because you felt you could stand to lose some weight, whatever it was, YOU were the deciding factor, not just “people” !
I wish we could all find out what we need to "shed" in order to be treated like a normal human being... for her it was being fat. But what about people who are not fat but still treated like shxt and ignored? What are other things that non-fat people who are treated badly have to shed so that everyone can experience a normal life?
Being fat is a choice, nobody is pushing food down to your throat. Eating processed garbage and visiting McDonald every day is a choice. Intermittent fasting, avoiding bad choices is a must, we were not designed to eat all the time.
Of course your kids treat you differently!!! You have more energy to play with them!!! You lost a lot of weight!! That means you are determined! That you are motivated!! That you have self control!!!! All good things!!!
I will be completely honest- I have had many overweight/obese friends and had bad experiences with them stealing my food so I went hungry/missed meals or taking 2nds, taking the last of the food at meals before i had my first serving. It made me feel less respect for overweight people. Now I am biased and when i see overweight people I have no interest in them whatsoever, ill be friendly and kind but have zero interest in being friends because i assume they lack discipline and over eat. I have a hard time being friends with people who cant control their urges, people I struggle to respect. I understand thyroid issues can make a person gain weight, i had a friend who lost 100 pounds just by getting on thyroid meds. I had hypothyroidism as well however and though it was difficult, i stayed lean. It was very difficult. But its still a choice to be disciplined or not. It is true, people will not admire or respect you if your obese. They should still be kind and treat you fairly. But its no surprise people now respect and admire you once youve gotten in shape.
hard truth, your weight tells the world about your physical and mental health, as well as your values (discipline, motivation, passion for life, self love,) and most importantly self respect and self esteem. Its an unconscious message
But it doesn't tell the "why". Why is this person undisciplined, why is this person unmotivated, why this person has no passion for life, why does this person lack some self-love, why, why, why? People need to ask why. Maybe their compassion, mercy and empathy muscles will kick in. Just b/c a person is a "normal weight" does not mean they have or exhibit these characteristics. THEE TRUTH.
@@MercyMe3 its instinct, biology, human nature. It doesn't hasve reason. Then, the human empathic thing to do is ask all those questions, but since we are first animals, then humans, that is the main impression we have of the person.
Your weight tells the world about your discipline. Motivation, passion for life and self-love.!!?!?!? No, it does not. Again, this is pretty privilege, because there are many people that are not overweight, and some of these people are the most narcissistic, antagonistic and insulting and rude people that walk this Earth, but they get described as loving and supportive and just funny people, and then you conclude with self-respect and self-esteem!!!! Your weight does not define this. How you treat other people and how you live your life in this world defines that...not your weight. What's even more hilarious is that you can be overweight and still have all of the same characteristics of being narcissistic, antagonistic, insulting and rude and not have any self-love or self-respect.
@@ClaudiaM-f1y I get so tired of people blaming other people for how they see/treat them. Like they have no self-control over their thought life. It is a choice. You can choose to think negatively or positively. You are solely responsible for your own thoughts, feelings, actions, how you see the world and how you see other people. No one can "make" you see them a certain way. You see things the way you do b/c that's who YOU are. Thus, how you will treat other people. Your mind is already made up before you encounter anybody. There is no excuse for being mean or unkind to anyone especially to those who are not bothering you. We are Spirit first, then human. Animals are dogs, cats etc. You have that main impression of that person because the way you think is the problem. Change the mindset. Change the problem. How you think about how that person looks, NOT HOW THAT PERSON LOOKS, is YOUR problem.
Doesn’t she not realize she treated herself differently, to gain all that weight. As oppose to how she treats herself now, in order to maintain this weight loss. Don’t be so quick to point her finger at others, you were the reason why, you were morbidly obese in the first place. 🤦🏽♀️ #SeekGod 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊️
@@tltinatl She's a victim, whining and complaining about being thin now. Instead of enjoying her life. So she wasn't happy being morbidly obese and now she isn't happy being normal weight. What's the common denominator? 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ #SeekGod 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊
Getting pregnant and having postpartum…… I don’t think she meant to gain the weight and most people don’t plan to gain a lot of weight, be careful with straight up blaming people for weight gain, some drugs can cause weight gain, but yes seeking God is good advice for all of us. 😊 ✝️ 🙏🏼
@@User_U571 She admitted her life style change, led to her finally losing weight. Why don’t you accept that reality? This is about her and not most people, and definitely not about you. #Accountability #SeekGod 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊️
Are you ok? Do people talk to you like that, just wondering if this is a repeat what you hear kind of thing….sorry if I sound like I’m just being rude…. but really are you doing alright?
What a weird response. Her point is to make others aware that people who are overweight are treated less compassionately. Why does acknowledging this bother you so much?
@@nicoletrudell2065 exactly, I agree with you. She sounds a bit triggered; she may have been one of the ones who not only treated her differently but others too as well.
Skinny privilege and pretty privilege are SO REAL
Don't forget being young privilege too.
skinny, blonde, and white sure lmao. almost soccer momish ..
YES
Oh stop. She clearly hated herself, that’s why she was morbidly obese. Why are you putting expectations, on how strangers should treat you. #SeekGod 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊️
@@egl3369 and young privilege too
Absolutely! I saw that myself when I started gaining weight due to undiagnosed hypothyroidism. People were meaner, more judgmental, gave me looks, ignored me, talked to me as if I was a moron, etc, etc, etc.
This happened to me in high school years ago. I had lost 70 pounds and nobody ever sat with or spoke to me. I came back skinny and lost the weight over the summer and everyone thought I was new student and wanted to talk to me. I got a lot of attention after losing the weight. People are so shallow. They don’t really want you for your heart.
congrats on your weight loss, and your new healthy life
@@KQDYMagallaz thank you!
😢💕💕💕
I had a similar experience. Broke my nose as a kid and my face was deformed. Got bullied so bad i wanted to self delete. Got rocks thrown at me every day in 7th grade. Had a nose job and switched to a new school and i was extremely popular in 8th grade & everyone thought i was new in town and wanted to be my friend and date me even tho the only thing that changed was my nose 😢
@@lexa_power sounds like we went through similar experiences! Sorry you had to deal with the bullying. It just reveals how low down folks can be.
It’s a tale as old as time.
Black Like Me (1964) - Fat Like Me (2007) - The Pregnancy Project (2012).
All of these books/ movies tell of how people are treated differently because of one thing or another.
This is so true! As someone whose weight has fluctuated most of my life, I have always found myself being treated better when I am skinnier than when I have been on my heavier side.
When I was 40lbs heavier (almost 200lbs) due to a medication I was on, people and my FAMILY treated me differently. Their comments hurt my feelings.
Sorry u went through that 😿.
Attractive people will ALWAYS be treated better ,be it at school ,work or social life .This is brutal fact of life .
It is a rude awakening for them when they age, even with all the botox injections and fillers.
And she lost weight to be one of those attractive people. Can’t beat them, join them. 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
It's the definition of the word attractive
@@kittenpawsbb she lost the weight to live longer for her kids.
@@carvedwood1953 Her video should be about that, but her video was to complain how people supposedly treated her when she was fat. Now it's we should shame people for having "skinny privilege", ridiculous.
People treat you better when you're attractive and it's unfair, but most of us fall into that trap
Facts!!! I noticed this too as I recently lost quite a bit of weight.
Everyone in the comments complaining. Try getting older and see how invisible you become.
If a person works hard on their self-confidence and happiness/gratitude, they will not care whether others see them or what they think.
Thankfully I don’t need the validation of others based on my looks. I’m youngish (a mom of young kids) and get plenty of attention but absolutely do not need or want it. I’m a humble Christian woman who seeks validation from the Lord and only cares what my husband thinks.
But wouldn't everyone else be getting older with you? Thus, making you less invisible because most would have the shared experience of being invisible so they would see you for more of who you are.
The truth is that as you age you do tend to be overlooked and ignored.
I am almost 70 and am 110, silver hair and very physically fit. I STILL notice the difference in how I am treated when younger women are around. It’s mind blowing. I am a confident happy person and the struggle is REAL.
2:33
And I’m NOT blaming younger women…it’s just prevalent in our society that older folks have to be very careful in and watchful while in public. My parents passed 25 years ago and I remember taking my mother shopping when she was 87 and had to reprimand a young woman for shoving my mother out of her way while we were shopping. The gal just ignored me and kept on going. I mean it was unbelievable.
This is so real. People are nicer to you when you look skinny..
And attractive.
She’s not lying it’s absolutely crazy how different your treated.
So true and so real. Thanks for sharing
I’m confused. I like the message but why all the images of her eating food?
Good for her. She made the right decision and saw it through. Life is better when healthy.
To social media, please don't stigmatize weight loss as a bad thing. It's so strange how some social media is framing it that way. People judge each other differently whether you want to realize it or not based on weight and if you want to change that perception that's one reason for losing weight. But the bigger one is health. You add so much more quality years to your life. I know people with diabetes and who just suffered a stroke or heart attacks. The people who had strokes can't even walk, they are immobilize and diabetes leads to blindness and limbs having be removed surgically. Weight loss only improves your life and it shouldn't be seen as anything different unless it's extreme and leads to anorexia, but in most cases that's not the case. So please leave people alone with their weight loss journey.
Thank you. She made her choices in life to be morbidly obese, she treated herself more poorly than anyone else in this world, and it almost cost her, her life. Now she wants to complains, instead of appreciating, that she’s treating herself better by maintaining this weight loss. Being a victim is a miserable way to live. 🤦🏽♀️ #GodFirst 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊️
@@kittenpawsbb the irony in the hashtag after being so judgmental in your comment... might want to go consult your god again on what he thinks you should be doing...
The worst part is my family is the toxic people who treated me WORSE when I was a healthy weight, because they are abusive and want me to be as miserable as they are. Every time I am away from them, I am so much better off. When I’m around normal healthy people I feel better about myself inside and out.
Well people will judge you no matter what
wow this is unheard of, glad she exposed society
Congratulations 🎈🍾🎊🎉 on losing 250 lbs! I have lost half the inches this year so far already). Had to darn twice cancel weight in appointment sec time in a row two months I am doing the best I can in spite of the migraines been having so much for 7 months 😿.
when i was skinny, people just stop insisting i exercise. Still did not exercise before or after or even now.
I use to be that way until I had blood clots in my lungs so now to remain healthy I walk at least 5 miles 5x a week to not only to maintain my weight but to stay healthy the excess weight can shorten your life.
I was 75 pounds at most over weight. Now 15 pounds overweight. Everybody starts talking to you more and more smiles. Intermittent fasting helps the most and getting at least 10k steps a day with weight training.
I’ve recently lost 50lbs and I still feel like she does. Skinny privilege is a real thing
I'm in the same boat people just gravitate to people that are in shape
Good for you, keep it up.
What diet worked for you?
People assume people who gain and carry a lot of weight don't care about themselves enough to lose the weight. They treat them as less valuable which is so sad
So happy she's doing well and she mentioned pretty privilege. There also needs to be a conversation, a much larger conversation, about pretty danger and pretty exploitation and harm as a result of being pretty. These are all very real things.
It’s a good thing for her that she is attractive. Now she is treated differently but I think it would be a different situation if she lost the weight and wasn’t also an aesthetically pretty person besides.
Yup they sure do treat u different. Used to be much heavier than I am now went thru abuse even from strangers and family alike. I remember that now when I’m in the presence of other beautiful humans who have may have my experience or any other surface issue. There are valuable beautiful people being cast aside all the time because we refuse to recognize worth past what we deem as acceptable appearance. It’s a shame and a drawback for mankind.🙁
I’ve been low weight my entire life and I’m constantly harassed about it.
Well I’m glad this woman isn’t
No you should feel guilty for being naturally thin, and all the privileges that have come along with it. 🙄 She’s ridiculous for making up this claim, this is something she made up on her imagination. Thank you 🤗 #GodFirst
@@kittenpawsbbwow what a godly response
@@TheBrandiElizabeth It’s not, unlike you I don’t claim to be God. #SeekGod 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊️
@@kittenpawsbb lol I claimed to be God? I just knew I was forgetting something! 🙄
@@TheBrandiElizabeth Maybe you should reread your initial comment. #SeekGod 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊️
You didn’t treat yourself the same when you were heavier! That’s ALSO a fact! We gotta stop trying to make weight loss a crime! We also gotta stop making being fat seem like the only social disadvantage! I’m 6 feet 6 and athletic! I’ve seen how women treat my “not so tall” male friends! Different privileges and disadvantages happen every second of the day! Yes we must work everyday NOT to be judgmental and be better people, but it’s also ok to tell yourself the truth! You didn’t feel like your best self at that weight! Whether it was because of outside judgement or it was because you felt you could stand to lose some weight, whatever it was, YOU were the deciding factor, not just “people” !
She kind of reminds me of actress Jenna Elfman. 💫✨️🤩
OMG but she looks so good
😮😮😮
This is the problem she’s talking about
Totally! Like an entirely different person. The way her skin is glowing.
I wish we could all find out what we need to "shed" in order to be treated like a normal human being... for her it was being fat. But what about people who are not fat but still treated like shxt and ignored? What are other things that non-fat people who are treated badly have to shed so that everyone can experience a normal life?
People treat people differently when they are different. Ok. Thanks.
Being fat is a choice, nobody is pushing food down to your throat. Eating processed garbage and visiting McDonald every day is a choice. Intermittent fasting, avoiding bad choices is a must, we were not designed to eat all the time.
No subscribers. Wow.
She sure does do a lot a car eating.
Of course your kids treat you differently!!! You have more energy to play with them!!! You lost a lot of weight!! That means you are determined! That you are motivated!! That you have self control!!!! All good things!!!
She didn't say her kids treat her differently. She said her kids were treated differently (by doctors etc)
Pickles
She didn't say treated differently by doctors, she said by others, strangers
I will be completely honest- I have had many overweight/obese friends and had bad experiences with them stealing my food so I went hungry/missed meals or taking 2nds, taking the last of the food at meals before i had my first serving. It made me feel less respect for overweight people.
Now I am biased and when i see overweight people I have no interest in them whatsoever, ill be friendly and kind but have zero interest in being friends because i assume they lack discipline and over eat. I have a hard time being friends with people who cant control their urges, people I struggle to respect.
I understand thyroid issues can make a person gain weight, i had a friend who lost 100 pounds just by getting on thyroid meds. I had hypothyroidism as well however and though it was difficult, i stayed lean. It was very difficult. But its still a choice to be disciplined or not.
It is true, people will not admire or respect you if your obese. They should still be kind and treat you fairly. But its no surprise people now respect and admire you once youve gotten in shape.
hard truth, your weight tells the world about your physical and mental health, as well as your values (discipline, motivation, passion for life, self love,) and most importantly self respect and self esteem. Its an unconscious message
Wow you’re a really mean spirited person
But it doesn't tell the "why". Why is this person undisciplined, why is this person unmotivated, why this person has no passion for life, why does this person lack some self-love, why, why, why? People need to ask why. Maybe their compassion, mercy and empathy muscles will kick in. Just b/c a person is a "normal weight" does not mean they have or exhibit these characteristics. THEE TRUTH.
@@MercyMe3 its instinct, biology, human nature. It doesn't hasve reason. Then, the human empathic thing to do is ask all those questions, but since we are first animals, then humans, that is the main impression we have of the person.
Your weight tells the world about your discipline. Motivation, passion for life and self-love.!!?!?!?
No, it does not. Again, this is pretty privilege, because there are many people that are not overweight, and some of these people are the most narcissistic, antagonistic and insulting and rude people that walk this Earth, but they get described as loving and supportive and just funny people, and then you conclude with self-respect and self-esteem!!!!
Your weight does not define this. How you treat other people and how you live your life in this world defines that...not your weight. What's even more hilarious is that you can be overweight and still have all of the same characteristics of being narcissistic, antagonistic, insulting and rude and not have any self-love or self-respect.
@@ClaudiaM-f1y I get so tired of people blaming other people for how they see/treat them. Like they have no self-control over their thought life. It is a choice. You can choose to think negatively or positively. You are solely responsible for your own thoughts, feelings, actions, how you see the world and how you see other people. No one can "make" you see them a certain way. You see things the way you do b/c that's who YOU are. Thus, how you will treat other people. Your mind is already made up before you encounter anybody. There is no excuse for being mean or unkind to anyone especially to those who are not bothering you. We are Spirit first, then human. Animals are dogs, cats etc. You have that main impression of that person because the way you think is the problem. Change the mindset. Change the problem. How you think about how that person looks, NOT HOW THAT PERSON LOOKS, is YOUR problem.
I bet the calls for pound town went thru the roof huh? She’s been on both sides of it now she knows what husky folks go thru now
yet. I love fat women.. so it would be opposite lmaoo ...
I mean having her body half exposed might also have something to do with it. I’ve never been big though so can’t relate.
When you abuse yourself why do you expect others not to join in, I’m not saying it’s right but it is fact.
Doesn’t she not realize she treated herself differently, to gain all that weight. As oppose to how she treats herself now, in order to maintain this weight loss. Don’t be so quick to point her finger at others, you were the reason why, you were morbidly obese in the first place. 🤦🏽♀️ #SeekGod 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊️
Fuck god
Do you have some kind of personal conflict with this lady or something? You're all over this comment section, blaming her for how she was treated.
@@tltinatl She's a victim, whining and complaining about being thin now. Instead of enjoying her life. So she wasn't happy being morbidly obese and now she isn't happy being normal weight. What's the common denominator? 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ #SeekGod 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊
Getting pregnant and having postpartum…… I don’t think she meant to gain the weight and most people don’t plan to gain a lot of weight, be careful with straight up blaming people for weight gain, some drugs can cause weight gain, but yes seeking God is good advice for all of us. 😊 ✝️ 🙏🏼
@@User_U571 She admitted her life style change, led to her finally losing weight. Why don’t you accept that reality? This is about her and not most people, and definitely not about you. #Accountability #SeekGod 😌🙏🏽🌟🕊️
Poor baby had to be treated like a man
Are you ok? Do people talk to you like that, just wondering if this is a repeat what you hear kind of thing….sorry if I sound like I’m just being rude…. but really are you doing alright?
Why cant you just be happy being healthier instead of focusing on past traumas
GIRL let it go and move on! Sheesh!!
What a weird response. Her point is to make others aware that people who are overweight are treated less compassionately. Why does acknowledging this bother you so much?
@@nicoletrudell2065 exactly, I agree with you. She sounds a bit triggered; she may have been one of the ones who not only treated her differently but others too as well.
Right to bully is not a thjng
Damn you’re rude
@@nicoletrudell2065 it's not a weird response. you americans love using the word weird so much even when it's not applicable. grow up and get a life
Boo hoo now she can go cheat on her hubby