When I was in my twenties I dated a girl who was extremely intelligent, and very introverted. We were sitting in a restaurant one night when out of the blue she turned to me and said, "Most people have no idea how hard some people have to work just to appear normal from day to day". I had to think about it for a while.
Deal with it since 1999. Just gotta be open and be good to each other. Some folk are quiet about some open about it. Just treat everyone fairly and offer to help if they need. A friendly hello or how are you can go a long way. Proud of you Bubba
I have been battling depression since I was 12 years old for 25 years. Also have anxiety among other issues. I've always been open about it I don't hide it I wear my heart on my sleeve and I have been vilified and made to feel like I'm not even human for having an incurable illness that I was born with. Bubba Wallace is a hero. it is not a weakness people do not realize how strong we have to be the battle this war in our heads every day. Video has tears in my eyes because unless you know the struggle you have no idea.
ChrisS82 Cris & Bubba I feel your pain! I also struggle with depression Some days are better than others.Maybe he can get a good sponsor and run up front and hope you feel better.We need you NASCAR
I feel for ya brother im going through the same battling severe intestinal issues that's affecting my whole body, my weight, heart, etc. I don't even know how I get through day to day cuz I feel the condition is gonna eventually kill me. But I hope you get better man, keep battling and never give up bro.
I’ve been struggling with mental health issues since I was 12. It’s always good to see those with a platform come out and help destigmatize it for everyone.
I’ve fought suicidal thoughts through high school, and when Bubba came out about his depression, I could relate to him more. I was a fan of him from when he started in the 43, and I’ll continue to be a fan of him. Such a nice guy. So glad I got to meet him in Daytona this year.
It's good to see this side of Bubba, and good on Dale for being a great interviewer. I think a lot of people have been judging Bubba a little harshly lately, and maybe this will help open some eyes.
Lori Beck I liked the guy just fine until he started talking this sissy stuff . Still like the guy but he has lost some street cred with this feelings garbage .
This was awesome, one of the best Jr downloads I've watched. I understand the word depression, i have felt it for many years and for a guy a year older then me that has a proclaimed name like Bubba Wallace to come out and be open about this is just awsome to me. I'm glad I get to watch things like this. -Dale Jr Download
I was so excited about Bubba coming to Nascar, his excitement for the sport was electric for me. I was a fan from day one, he was and is always just himself on or off the track. He is a great driver, and I will always be a fan.
This makes me respect Bubba (and Jr.) more than I already did. The sport needs more drivers like Bubba, who show emotion and personality. Not enough of these young guys show their personality. They end up looking and sounding same, reciting the same script and comments in every interview. I hope Bubba sticks around around finds his way to a winning ride.
We need a lot more " open books "!! We can't fix problems if we don't read the book and learn to understand. We may be Racers and fans and men and women , But thank you Bubba for sharing and helping all of us cope. NASCAR needs more people that are honest and transparent. 62 year old broken home child here.
Bubba, I originally had mostly criticisms toward you, especially after the incident with the 88 fee weeks back. After this podcast, you have actually made me feel no longer alone. I too have struggled with depression, and I to got into a physical fist fight with my father back in May and I feel absolutely horrible about it. All I can think is that this is not normal, this doesn’t happen with anyone else. And it isn’t normal, but it does happen. I appreciate you talking about everything.
Thanks Dirty Mo, great to see Bubba being himself, struggled with depression as well, worked through it and looks like he is as well. Dale you have a way of getting in the hard questions with out offending, thank you so much for taking the time from your life to keep this show going. I listen every Tuesday and look forward to the next. Would love to see the Eury’s come back when ever they have time. Thanks to all the Dirty Mo crew for all of the time you donate to make this show and all the others possible.
Bubba seems like a cool down to earth guy. This year at Michigan rain delay he threw football with the fans basically down the whole track. I know his arm was probably killing him but he still took the time to do something with the fans when he didn’t have too.. I felt that was pretty cool. Good luck with your fight against depression..
Ok bubba I know that life can throw us some curves . But just hang in there and when you are alone just talk to the good Lord my husband also had a ruff time in the seventies and he turned to the Lord and found peace so when you are down just look up stay like you are and please know that God loves you . Prayers and thoughts are with you my raceing friend.
@@marshalljimduncan yeah dude. I was on the complete wrong side of the racetrack trying to get to turn four while the drivers were doing the ride along introductions or whatever it's called
Wow, what a powerful interview,good for you Bubba,your not alone bud ,just keep focused,on your future ,theres nothing you can do about someone elses doing,just focus on what can make you better ,you deserve it ,ive been there,and done it and still doing it , with family and whatnot, just think about your goals in life and you will succeed,remember take care of what takes care you,theres a light there bud,.....thanks jr,for having him on ....
I felt very related, I kinda lived the same. A lot of people complain about Bubba's immaturity, well, I think it takes a lot of maturity to just stay away of drama and problems that just ain't your fault, a lot more if these problems are inside your family, sure, it gets lonely and dark, but that's how freedom feels sometimes, specially when you travel alone so much and is all work like being a racecar driver. A big help for Bubba is to get close to positive people and true friends that help him get by his family issues and overcome that eventually.
My parents divorced in my senior year in high school and they both to this day do that same thing Bubba was talking about. "Did you hear what they did today?" I've always liked Bubba and after this interview, have even more respect for the man.
Thoroughly enjoyed the interview with Bubba I’ve always wondered what was going on about his parents. Good to know things are getting better. Thanks guys
I do not usually comment, BUT this guy is super cool Dale! I don't care if he has a temper, good or bad, Nascar needs more young men like this fella. Bubba Wallace, you have definitely changed my mind about what kind of person you are! Thanks for these awesome podcasts Dale...
An i love how others always come to the show an want to speak the truth an their minds. Everyone knws that they can come to Jr an say what ups an he aint gonna judge
A professional driver today has so many expectations put upon them even before they get behind the wheel. It has to be difficult to find a balance between the personal and professional aspects. It's good that Bubba has opened up about his personal battles because it's allowed others to feel comfortable in sharing their own stories thus allowing the healing process to begin. I believe if anyone that could have helped in Bubbas' case, it would've been the King. The pain and sorrow Richard Petty endured has been monumental yet he kept going. I hope Bubba will consider that and reach out to the King if he hasn't already.
Glad to see this conversation, I'm sure we have some level of depression once i n our lives, and sometimes ongoing. The only way to beat it is to talk about it, trying to deal with it alone is dangerous at best! And, it doesn't define us as people it, it's part of us that needs to be identified properly and treated. One day at a time. Thank you all.
In a span of a year, 3 drivers admitted to suffering from Depression: Bubba Wallace, Cody Ware, & Stephen Leicht. I *really* hope that NASCAR is helping & assisting the people in the sport who are suffering from mental health ailments like those 3... ... because years ago there was another driver who was also suffering from Depression that NASCAR actually illegitimatly suspended back in 2006... That driver died in 2009, succumbing to his depression. I hope NASCAR learned from that so they don't make the same fatal mistake ever again...
I agree, these sports brands (NFL, NHL, MLB, NASCAR, etc) need to have some type of mental health program that these Athletes need. Because nobody knows what goes through their mind except them and for them to have a place for them to maybe vent or something could be very good for them.
Wow glad to see The Young Man Bubba Wallace is the real deal love to hear honesty from a real unashamed young man drive it like the devil is on your tail and your trying to get to heaven good show Dale my Dad was my HERO TOO
Thank you Bubba for explaining everything! I have been wondering why I haven't seen your father around literally ever since you finished 2nd in the Daytona 500! Thank you for explaining your depression. Thank you.
Our fathers grew up at a different time than we did and it's hard to compare the difference to today. Our fathers always did the best they could, right or wrong, for their Families and sometimes we don't agree. I obviously don't know you personally but try to keep your focus on your career and the good people involved, Bubba as you will need that when your parents pass on.
This channel is getting more and more real all the time. Maybe Jr. can make the new NASCAR here with social media. He's looking long-term wise here. NASCAR needs every bit of what Jr. is doing now.
Bubba is awesome and talking about depression is NOT weakness at all. It's all 💪💪💪. I commend Dale Jr. for bringing on Bubba to discuss this. Total respect for Bubba.
Divorce can definitely still be very depressing to go through, even in your 20's. I was 22 when my parents finally split, and I felt exactly like Bubba...my mom's stilll my mom and my dad was still my dad at the time. I didn't care so much about the divorce as much as i did my dad just completely walking out of my life. As soon as their divorce finalized, it was like he walked off the face of the earth. He wouldn't answer calls, texts, and if you tried to talk to him in person he would call the cops on his own son for trespassing. The only time I've seen or spoken to him in the last decade was twice when his parents died 3 years apart at their funerals. I really wish he would have just done this when i was a baby or a young child. At least that way i wouldn't have had 20 years to get to know him, just to have him abandon me. He midas well be dead bc i cant see him or talk to him even though we still live in the same county and I know where he lives. It truly sucks and has affected my depression greatly. I had already been diagnosed with it before, but after all this, it was taken to a whole new level. And the worse part of it is I have no idea why he chose to do this. Not knowing why your own father wants nothing to do with you eats you alive mentally. If i could just find out why, maybe i could finally move past all this. But until then, there's nothing else I can do except hope he comes around someday.
As a middle aged man that was diagnosed with Clinical depression 18 years ago, and have been through the gamut of prescriptions and countless hrs of counsel. I hate to break it to you Mr. Bubba, but this condition is a life long journey! 2 sessions just isn't going to cut it. I'm off prescriptions now and rarely see my counselor, but every day when I get out of bed in the morning "I" need to manage the depression! So if your serious Bubba, you've got a lot of work and a long journey ahead of you. It all starts with your counselor.
This is greatest show on earth....why Because it is the real deal.... you all might need to change the name to Dale's real deal... keep up the good work...be strong.
Wow, I think y’all should have Bubba on a lot more for some reason today the atmosphere was so different and I really enjoyed that. I can say I’m gonna through some of these time and actually was pretty therapeutic!!!
I like Bubba. He's one I Root for. Wish he ran or had a better ride. To me he seems the most personable of this generation of drivers. Thanks Dale for having him!
Bubba, I fought my dad once when I was 18. He and my mother were upstairs in the kitchen and I heard them begin to argue, something they had never done in front of us kids. Next thing I heard a loud, "SLAP!". Then I heard my mother say, "Don't you ever raise a hand to me again (explitive)". She never cusses. That was all I needed to hear. I ran upstairs and started punching him upside his head, then picked him up and tried to throw him over the second floor railing to the downstairs living room. He's punching me and clinging to the railing, I'm punching him and trying to pry his fingers off the rail so I could drop him 12 feet to the floor below. Suddenly, I hear my mother start screaming, "Stop! I hit him! I hit him! I hit him!". Cautiously, I stopped trying to rip him loose from the railing and we negotiated a break form the action. In the long run he wasn't mad at me, because I was protecting my mother. Not sure what he did to deserve the slap, but it must have been something because my mother is a good person. Time passed eventually, and they are no longer together. She's since remarried.
Man I went through the excact same when my parents divorced after 38 years of marriage.I was put in the middle.My pops wanted me to take his side Mom wanted me to take her side,even though I was a adult it still devastated me.
@bl st Honest I am still dealing with it.My dad got sick in my opinion from a broken heart and dyed two years ago and three months later my mom got married.I am just num from it all.
I had given up on Nascar, when Jr retired I didn't feel like cheering for anyone. I've had my problems with Nascar and stupid rules. But Mr Wallace is someone I can admire and cheer for. I really like his attitude and honesty. And I've been there with depression and anxiety. People love to say get over it. Wow, thanks for telling me how easy it is. It's not that easy.
Bubba always seems to do or say things during/after races that make me not care for him but this is the second interview with him that I’ve watched where I’m like “man I have to get one of his T shirts”
Reading a lot of comments below, I realize Bubba and NASCAR have played you people like a Harp From Hell... On 29 Nov 10, I lost my left knee because of my military service. I was in the hospital for 3 days, and became rightly depressed (according to the VA Psychologist). I did not give the doctors and nurses the finger... I can not curse at anyone... I did not attack anyone, especially someone getting medical care. I made a plan, and stuck to it... I focused on getting better, my rehab and doing what I could, so I could actually race again. After 3 additional surgeries on my left knee, and two on my right, I returned to racing, and have won 4 Series Championships, and in 2020, be racing in Europe with a Porsche Race Team... You can allow depression and situations to control your life, OR, you can take charge and control your own life... The decision is yours. And if Bubba is this weak in the head, he does not need to be racing in NASCAR, where he can kill someone!
I have never had to deal with depression or had anyone close to me deal with it and I hope this comment doesn't come off the wrong way but there is research being done with it tracing back to diet. The one study I read went into the chemical structure of foods, another found people with depression had a lack of red meat consumption. I have always had a happy go lucky attitude and lately I blame my meat and potatoes kind of diet. Again I don't won't to come off the wrong way and I believe there may be more to it than that, but it is interesting research and it may be a help to some people. There is a lot of science these days that people ignore because it doesn't fit their beliefs but everyone needs to keep an open mind, myself included!
Interesting that a Libra would have a temper. Usually, if out of balance it shows. Keeping things inside though I get. Glad he opened up about depression. Many affected and stay silent.
I hope his sponsorships improve his equipment. He is a driver with an actual chip on his shoulder,and if he gets top tier equipment he will be able to be more competitive.
Loved hearing about you and some of your past, Bubba and thank you for sharing. As a long time fan of the sport who grew inside of the sport of NASCAR and as a fan to a professional. Don’t ever change your style. You’re raw, you’re gifted and drivers come at you the way they do because they’re scared of you. Man to man weather this gets to you or not. Keep doing you, Bubba because you’re going to do great things in this sport and I hope NASCAR flourishs once again so that you may shine brightest when it’s your time. As long as you’re behind the wheel, I’ll be rooting for you down here in South Texas. ✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼
I was a little pissed when I saw the altercation with Bowman BUT now it's more clear to what transpired and now it's like OK I GET IT. To me I'd rather see that than bubba retaliate say at Daytona or Talladega and risk hurting someone or himself.
been struggling with depression and anxiety for 18 years, my insurance never would cover my therapy sessions, i used my 401k to pay for my therapy, once that money dried up i pretty much got kicked to the curb, people lose interest when the money dries up.....
My family members have been though the same type of experiences. Fortunately I have been able to offer some assistance. Is there anyway that you can pay for the counseling sessions with payments. Is there anyone you can reach out to? I am so sorry that you have to suffer with these serious issues.
When I was in my twenties I dated a girl who was extremely intelligent, and very introverted. We were sitting in a restaurant one night when out of the blue she turned to me and said, "Most people have no idea how hard some people have to work just to appear normal from day to day". I had to think about it for a while.
Amen
This conversation was healing to me. Made me feel like I’m not alone.
Very much so
I understand how You & him feel because I had depression too
Lee Varner Same but were in this together 💪
Suicide increased by 20% in less than 20yrs, it's depressing that no one is talking about depression.
U ain't alone
Deal with it since 1999. Just gotta be open and be good to each other. Some folk are quiet about some open about it. Just treat everyone fairly and offer to help if they need.
A friendly hello or how are you can go a long way.
Proud of you Bubba
Thank you Dale Jr for having Bubba on and thank you Bubba for your honesty and transparency.
Very well said JP S . I could not agree more .
@@mrnelson1911 Thanks so much...I think this will help a lot of folks who also struggle with depression and anxiety.Myself included.
Bubba Wallace wears his heart on his sleeve, emotional but he’s very honest and for that I’m thankful as I’ve had my share of battles with depression
Bubba should be depressed about his total lack of driving skill. He's a punk who uses the race card to hurt NASCAR.
I have been battling depression since I was 12 years old for 25 years. Also have anxiety among other issues. I've always been open about it I don't hide it I wear my heart on my sleeve and I have been vilified and made to feel like I'm not even human for having an incurable illness that I was born with. Bubba Wallace is a hero. it is not a weakness people do not realize how strong we have to be the battle this war in our heads every day. Video has tears in my eyes because unless you know the struggle you have no idea.
ChrisS82 Cris & Bubba I feel your pain! I also struggle with depression Some days are better than others.Maybe he can get a good sponsor and run up front and hope you feel better.We need you NASCAR
If you were born, GOD meant YOU!!! Its non debatable. GOD MEANT YOU!!!
ChrisS82 Thank you for sharing.
Very true, people with depression have to be very strong to cope with this illness on a daily basis.
I feel for ya brother im going through the same battling severe intestinal issues that's affecting my whole body, my weight, heart, etc. I don't even know how I get through day to day cuz I feel the condition is gonna eventually kill me. But I hope you get better man, keep battling and never give up bro.
I’ve been struggling with mental health issues since I was 12. It’s always good to see those with a platform come out and help destigmatize it for everyone.
I’ve fought suicidal thoughts through high school, and when Bubba came out about his depression, I could relate to him more. I was a fan of him from when he started in the 43, and I’ll continue to be a fan of him. Such a nice guy. So glad I got to meet him in Daytona this year.
It's good to see this side of Bubba, and good on Dale for being a great interviewer. I think a lot of people have been judging Bubba a little harshly lately, and maybe this will help open some eyes.
Lori Beck I liked the guy just fine until he started talking this sissy stuff . Still like the guy but he has lost some street cred with this feelings garbage .
@@arizonarider6998 ignorant comments like this just show that you have no idea what other are going through nor do you care
Thicc Ricc That was just mean . I think you just infected me with depression.
@@arizonarider6998 wow you're something else nice to hide behind your phone or whatever you're using
Arizona Rider someone’s had alittle too much street drugs.
i’m so happy that more and more people are being more open about mental health
The the number of things I could relate to...in this video...as far as family...
Is STRIKING.
Love Jr. talking about going to therapy and connecting with the right therapist. Great point, and great to "normalize" therapy.
By far one of the best UA-cam Channels and Interviewers (Jr.).
"What you see is what you get." How much better we could all be if we lived our lives like that. Great interview Bubba.
Thank you for addressing these issues head on.
Great episode, need to have Bubba on again.
I'm thinking Dale would make a terrific therapist himself. He's smart, honest, empathetic, and one of the best listeners I've ever seen.
This was awesome, one of the best Jr downloads I've watched. I understand the word depression, i have felt it for many years and for a guy a year older then me that has a proclaimed name like Bubba Wallace to come out and be open about this is just awsome to me. I'm glad I get to watch things like this. -Dale Jr Download
I find it interesting that as new episodes ares broadcast people say, "this is the best episode so far". And it absolutely feels true.
I appreciate this very much. I have been battling this monster in and out of life. Right now my life is hell.
What a great display of three people trusting each other enough to get real. Kudos for Bubba ...love it ...keep up the great work guys.
I was so excited about Bubba coming to Nascar, his excitement for the sport was electric for me. I was a fan from day one, he was and is always just himself on or off the track. He is a great driver, and I will always be a fan.
This makes me respect Bubba (and Jr.) more than I already did. The sport needs more drivers like Bubba, who show emotion and personality. Not enough of these young guys show their personality. They end up looking and sounding same, reciting the same script and comments in every interview. I hope Bubba sticks around around finds his way to a winning ride.
I have severe depression and anxiety. I respect you for sharing your own struggles.
I have been dealing with depression since 2004 but it came out really badly in 2012
We need a lot more " open books "!! We can't fix problems if we don't read the book and learn to understand. We may be Racers and fans and men and women , But thank you Bubba for sharing and helping all of us cope. NASCAR needs more people that are honest and transparent. 62 year old broken home child here.
Bubba, I originally had mostly criticisms toward you, especially after the incident with the 88 fee weeks back. After this podcast, you have actually made me feel no longer alone. I too have struggled with depression, and I to got into a physical fist fight with my father back in May and I feel absolutely horrible about it. All I can think is that this is not normal, this doesn’t happen with anyone else. And it isn’t normal, but it does happen. I appreciate you talking about everything.
Oh, this is just fantastic. Such good everything.
Thanks Dirty Mo, great to see Bubba being himself, struggled with depression as well, worked through it and looks like he is as well. Dale you have a way of getting in the hard questions with out offending, thank you so much for taking the time from your life to keep this show going. I listen every Tuesday and look forward to the next. Would love to see the Eury’s come back when ever they have time. Thanks to all the Dirty Mo crew for all of the time you donate to make this show and all the others possible.
It's nice to see all the love and support,almost none of the negativity involved with other aspects of Bubbas personality and passion. Go Bubba!
Bubba seems like a cool down to earth guy. This year at Michigan rain delay he threw football with the fans basically down the whole track. I know his arm was probably killing him but he still took the time to do something with the fans when he didn’t have too.. I felt that was pretty cool. Good luck with your fight against depression..
Jr.,
Hire Bubba!
Ok bubba I know that life can throw us some curves . But just hang in there and when you are alone just talk to the good Lord my husband also had a ruff time in the seventies and he turned to the Lord and found peace so when you are down just look up stay like you are and please know that God loves you . Prayers and thoughts are with you my raceing friend.
Totally gave bubba the devil horns before Dover startup, bubba totally gave me the horns back. I think I have a new favorite driver y'all
You serious?
@@marshalljimduncan yeah dude. I was on the complete wrong side of the racetrack trying to get to turn four while the drivers were doing the ride along introductions or whatever it's called
You have a new favorite driver good luck cuz he don't know how to drive buddy
Thank you Bubba. This has helped me to here a shared difficulty.
Wow, what a powerful interview,good for you Bubba,your not alone bud ,just keep focused,on your future ,theres nothing you can do about someone elses doing,just focus on what can make you better ,you deserve it ,ive been there,and done it and still doing it , with family and whatnot, just think about your goals in life and you will succeed,remember take care of what takes care you,theres a light there bud,.....thanks jr,for having him on ....
Dale handles those types of conversations very well. I would think the guests must appreciate it.
I felt very related, I kinda lived the same. A lot of people complain about Bubba's immaturity, well, I think it takes a lot of maturity to just stay away of drama and problems that just ain't your fault, a lot more if these problems are inside your family, sure, it gets lonely and dark, but that's how freedom feels sometimes, specially when you travel alone so much and is all work like being a racecar driver. A big help for Bubba is to get close to positive people and true friends that help him get by his family issues and overcome that eventually.
I already knew that when he opened up about his depression during rainout in Chicagoland. It’s quite tough to go through
Very mature for 26 years old. Impressive person.
Another great interview! I look forward to the DJD every week 😃
Bubba.. never give up the fight.. Never let what anyone thinks get to you or change you. Be You!
Right on Bubba and Dale. Thank you for this.
One of the most humble drivers ever talking with one of the most egotistical drivers ever.
My parents divorced in my senior year in high school and they both to this day do that same thing Bubba was talking about. "Did you hear what they did today?" I've always liked Bubba and after this interview, have even more respect for the man.
Dang Junior, you are really good at this! I am enjoying your podcasts. Long time fan😁
Really would be nice to bring Jimmy Means on to interview.
Wood Bruthas jimmy means isn’t coming on any time soon.
Thoroughly enjoyed the interview with Bubba I’ve always wondered what was going on about his parents. Good to know things are getting better. Thanks guys
I do not usually comment, BUT this guy is super cool Dale! I don't care if he has a temper, good or bad, Nascar needs more young men like this fella. Bubba Wallace, you have definitely changed my mind about what kind of person you are! Thanks for these awesome podcasts Dale...
Turns out, talking about my depression has been the best medicine.
An i love how others always come to the show an want to speak the truth an their minds. Everyone knws that they can come to Jr an say what ups an he aint gonna judge
Literally I've been and done this my entire life
A professional driver today has so many expectations put upon them even before they get behind the wheel. It has to be difficult to find a balance between the personal and professional aspects. It's good that Bubba has opened up about his personal battles because it's allowed others to feel comfortable in sharing their own stories thus allowing the healing process to begin. I believe if anyone that could have helped in Bubbas' case, it would've been the King. The pain and sorrow Richard Petty endured has been monumental yet he kept going. I hope Bubba will consider that and reach out to the King if he hasn't already.
Glad to see this conversation, I'm sure we have some level of depression once i n our lives, and sometimes ongoing. The only way to beat it is to talk about it, trying to deal with it alone is dangerous at best! And, it doesn't define us as people it, it's part of us that needs to be identified properly and treated. One day at a time. Thank you all.
In a span of a year, 3 drivers admitted to suffering from Depression: Bubba Wallace, Cody Ware, & Stephen Leicht.
I *really* hope that NASCAR is helping & assisting the people in the sport who are suffering from mental health ailments like those 3...
... because years ago there was another driver who was also suffering from Depression that NASCAR actually illegitimatly suspended back in 2006... That driver died in 2009, succumbing to his depression. I hope NASCAR learned from that so they don't make the same fatal mistake ever again...
you can't assist depression dude , only the guy driving the wheel of life can fix it
I agree, these sports brands (NFL, NHL, MLB, NASCAR, etc) need to have some type of mental health program that these Athletes need. Because nobody knows what goes through their mind except them and for them to have a place for them to maybe vent or something could be very good for them.
Bubba Wallace, thanks for the open honesty. Rooting for your racing success and more so your personal well being success.
Wow glad to see The Young Man Bubba Wallace is the real deal love to hear honesty from a real unashamed young man drive it like the devil is on your tail and your trying to get to heaven good show Dale my Dad was my HERO TOO
Bubba is way the bigger man. At 26. He has a lot on his shoulders.
Ya look at the size of his head he's depressed his career is almost over he finally realizes he can't drive
That was a great interview...there IS magic in that room. I'm a brand new Bubba fan!
Thank you Bubba for explaining everything! I have been wondering why I haven't seen your father around literally ever since you finished 2nd in the Daytona 500!
Thank you for explaining your depression. Thank you.
Our fathers grew up at a different time than we did and it's hard to compare the difference to today. Our fathers always did the best they could, right or wrong, for their Families and sometimes we don't agree.
I obviously don't know you personally but try to keep your focus on your career and the good people involved, Bubba as you will need that when your parents pass on.
This channel is getting more and more real all the time. Maybe Jr. can make the new NASCAR here with social media. He's looking long-term wise here. NASCAR needs every bit of what Jr. is doing now.
Can't help but root for Bubba. I've liked him since he came into the Cup series. Hope he finds all the success possible.
Bubba is awesome and talking about depression is NOT weakness at all. It's all 💪💪💪. I commend Dale Jr. for bringing on Bubba to discuss this. Total respect for Bubba.
Good video. All 3 of y'all are good people.
Damn you guys are good at this lol
Divorce can definitely still be very depressing to go through, even in your 20's. I was 22 when my parents finally split, and I felt exactly like Bubba...my mom's stilll my mom and my dad was still my dad at the time. I didn't care so much about the divorce as much as i did my dad just completely walking out of my life. As soon as their divorce finalized, it was like he walked off the face of the earth. He wouldn't answer calls, texts, and if you tried to talk to him in person he would call the cops on his own son for trespassing. The only time I've seen or spoken to him in the last decade was twice when his parents died 3 years apart at their funerals. I really wish he would have just done this when i was a baby or a young child. At least that way i wouldn't have had 20 years to get to know him, just to have him abandon me. He midas well be dead bc i cant see him or talk to him even though we still live in the same county and I know where he lives. It truly sucks and has affected my depression greatly. I had already been diagnosed with it before, but after all this, it was taken to a whole new level. And the worse part of it is I have no idea why he chose to do this. Not knowing why your own father wants nothing to do with you eats you alive mentally. If i could just find out why, maybe i could finally move past all this. But until then, there's nothing else I can do except hope he comes around someday.
I have always liked bubba. Now so even more. Fucking strong, honest man. On the lighter side...don’t let Prozac sponsor your car.
This gives voice to what a lot of us go through.
As a middle aged man that was diagnosed with Clinical depression 18 years ago, and have been through the gamut of prescriptions and countless hrs of counsel. I hate to break it to you Mr. Bubba, but this condition is a life long journey! 2 sessions just isn't going to cut it. I'm off prescriptions now and rarely see my counselor, but every day when I get out of bed in the morning "I" need to manage the depression! So if your serious Bubba, you've got a lot of work and a long journey ahead of you. It all starts with your counselor.
Wrong. It all starts with Bubba.
I really didn't think that I would have to explain to anyone that of course Bubba is with the counselor, ummm being counseled.
This is greatest show on earth....why
Because it is the real deal.... you all might need to change the name to Dale's real deal... keep up the good work...be strong.
Wow, I think y’all should have Bubba on a lot more for some reason today the atmosphere was so different and I really enjoyed that. I can say I’m gonna through some of these time and actually was pretty therapeutic!!!
I like Bubba. He's one I Root for. Wish he ran or had a better ride. To me he seems the most personable of this generation of drivers. Thanks Dale for having him!
Bubba, I fought my dad once when I was 18. He and my mother were upstairs in the kitchen and I heard them begin to argue, something they had never done in front of us kids. Next thing I heard a loud, "SLAP!". Then I heard my mother say, "Don't you ever raise a hand to me again (explitive)". She never cusses. That was all I needed to hear. I ran upstairs and started punching him upside his head, then picked him up and tried to throw him over the second floor railing to the downstairs living room. He's punching me and clinging to the railing, I'm punching him and trying to pry his fingers off the rail so I could drop him 12 feet to the floor below. Suddenly, I hear my mother start screaming, "Stop! I hit him! I hit him! I hit him!".
Cautiously, I stopped trying to rip him loose from the railing and we negotiated a break form the action. In the long run he wasn't mad at me, because I was protecting my mother. Not sure what he did to deserve the slap, but it must have been something because my mother is a good person. Time passed eventually, and they are no longer together. She's since remarried.
Bubba is my favorite driver, get it Bubba!!!
Dale Jr. conducts awesome interviews. Reminds me of Roy Firestone.
I'm proud of ya Bubba
Man, sounded almost identical to my dad's issues too.
Hope the best for Bubba Wallace.
Father and son should not ever resort to violence period. Time will not ever heal that situation once done it’s done and there is no taking it back.
Great interview, but damn that table is awesome!
Was this before or after the "noose" theory?
Talking about depression and "feelings" alone is such a relief. That alone can be better than medication.
Man I went through the excact same when my parents divorced after 38 years of marriage.I was put in the middle.My pops wanted me to take his side Mom wanted me to take her side,even though I was a adult it still devastated me.
@bl st Honest I am still dealing with it.My dad got sick in my opinion from a broken heart and dyed two years ago and three months later my mom got married.I am just num from it all.
@bl st Thankyou
I had given up on Nascar, when Jr retired I didn't feel like cheering for anyone. I've had my problems with Nascar and stupid rules. But Mr Wallace is someone I can admire and cheer for. I really like his attitude and honesty. And I've been there with depression and anxiety. People love to say get over it. Wow, thanks for telling me how easy it is. It's not that easy.
Happy birthday from a listen in calif
The guy has RAW talent not TAUGHT talent like a lot of the newer guys have these days
it shows
@@alvarsdzenis4739 Indy ..great example
It'd be good if he was with a better team than Petty (Even though I love him and the King).
Bubba always seems to do or say things during/after races that make me not care for him but this is the second interview with him that I’ve watched where I’m like “man I have to get one of his T shirts”
Can relate to a lot a lot here. Especially with the divorce talk and being pulled in both directions
Gah. Amazingly pertinent.
Reading a lot of comments below, I realize Bubba and NASCAR have played you people like a Harp From Hell... On 29 Nov 10, I lost my left knee because of my military service. I was in the hospital for 3 days, and became rightly depressed (according to the VA Psychologist).
I did not give the doctors and nurses the finger... I can not curse at anyone... I did not attack anyone, especially someone getting medical care. I made a plan, and stuck to it...
I focused on getting better, my rehab and doing what I could, so I could actually race again. After 3 additional surgeries on my left knee, and two on my right, I returned to racing, and have won 4 Series Championships, and in 2020, be racing in Europe with a Porsche Race Team...
You can allow depression and situations to control your life, OR, you can take charge and control your own life... The decision is yours. And if Bubba is this weak in the head, he does not need to be racing in NASCAR, where he can kill someone!
I have never had to deal with depression or had anyone close to me deal with it and I hope this comment doesn't come off the wrong way but there is research being done with it tracing back to diet. The one study I read went into the chemical structure of foods, another found people with depression had a lack of red meat consumption. I have always had a happy go lucky attitude and lately I blame my meat and potatoes kind of diet. Again I don't won't to come off the wrong way and I believe there may be more to it than that, but it is interesting research and it may be a help to some people. There is a lot of science these days that people ignore because it doesn't fit their beliefs but everyone needs to keep an open mind, myself included!
Interesting that a Libra would have a temper. Usually, if out of balance it shows. Keeping things inside though I get. Glad he opened up about depression. Many affected and stay silent.
I hope his sponsorships improve his equipment. He is a driver with an actual chip on his shoulder,and if he gets top tier equipment he will be able to be more competitive.
you couldn't be more wrong. just ask yourself, why did petty's give him a drive, rather than dozens of other eligibles?
Loved hearing about you and some of your past, Bubba and thank you for sharing. As a long time fan of the sport who grew inside of the sport of NASCAR and as a fan to a professional. Don’t ever change your style. You’re raw, you’re gifted and drivers come at you the way they do because they’re scared of you. Man to man weather this gets to you or not. Keep doing you, Bubba because you’re going to do great things in this sport and I hope NASCAR flourishs once again so that you may shine brightest when it’s your time. As long as you’re behind the wheel, I’ll be rooting for you down here in South Texas. ✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼
I'm violent and impulsive and raging but it's not my fault because... muh depression.
Kevin T exactly. I bet he sucker punched his dad too, it’s all depression’s fault.
Just another badge people use to justify their fuckery .
You're brain dead morons without capacity to form original thoughts.
@@shanetrent3242 what you wrote there makes 0.00 sense in the context of this thread.
I was a little pissed when I saw the altercation with Bowman BUT now it's more clear to what transpired and now it's like OK I GET IT. To me I'd rather see that than bubba retaliate say at Daytona or Talladega and risk hurting someone or himself.
been struggling with depression and anxiety for 18 years, my insurance never would cover my therapy sessions, i used my 401k to pay for my therapy, once that money dried up i pretty much got kicked to the curb, people lose interest when the money dries up.....
My family members have been though the same type of experiences. Fortunately I have been able to offer some assistance. Is there anyway that you can pay for the counseling sessions with payments. Is there anyone you can reach out to? I am so sorry that you have to suffer with these serious issues.
Not surprising for how emotional he is
You need counseling. I'm definitely a believer in counseling
Awesome interview Dale Jr and Jim 😀👍🏾 Bubba Wallace was cool too😉Watched the Dale Jr Download yesterday on SNBC and enjoyed as well.
Good for you Bubba. Godbless you for sharing that. It’s a such a blessing for others to let them know we all go through stuff .🤘😎🤘