My brother right here is so wise. Many people ask which celebrity we would have dinner with. I would not choose any one but this man right here. Smart as can be and an inspiration
Yep Tyler you was pulling no punches you hitting hard I had family member come by with being fake giving compliment but follow up with a lot of what you need to do so let me know he jealous can’t just be happy for you give you good sincere compliment and leave at that but you right family is the ones who got too watch because they want to control reason why because they don’t want to shine and be great like you deserve
Tyler, you hit the nail on the head. A brother in law screamed and berated me for asking a simple question. This left me so dumbfounded that I had to go no contact with his family (my sister) and other family members. It's been 2 years now and I'm enjoying my peace from all of these phoney people. They are wolves in sheep's clothing. Thank you so much for your very wise message.
Just had somebody try this and you best believe, I cut it short!! Come with the energy I come with, or I’ll leave you where you stand with no explanation because you know what you did. 💯 People aren’t dogs, they don’t need training and people will try you if you let them
People really operate from a philosophy of 'I will be a rude insidious ashhole but soon as you stand up for yourself now you're the offender'. Absolutely no effort to self reflect or change.
That's why I threw away the then popular "You train people how to treat you" myth into the trashcan a long time ago. I'm not a dog, I'm a man! Same with my friends of foes. Get on the ball or GET OUT OF TOWN!
I say this occasionally when dealing with people throughout Detroit. People be doing shit that leaves you wondering if they’re slow or just fcking with you. They’ve lived past the age of 25 and still need to learn common sense
My family gossiped about me at the family reunion. I was living in another state and didn't attend. My brother let me know in a harsh way and even gave me a new diagnosis of mental illness. THE TRUTH IS I AM A SURVIVOR OF MENTAL ABUSE GROWING UP ! I WAS CALLED NAMES IN THE HOME AND MY BROTHER HIT ME UP ALL THE TIME UNTIL CPS INVESTIGATED!
Grateful for your content, Tyler. When someone says one thing but does another thing (saying they care, they’ll call, but ultimately don’t because they’re cowards and fools) that certainly reveals their true colors, that these people are garbage and a waste of your time and energy.
A lot of time it is family. So sad. This is the book of Revelations and these things have to play out. But you don't have to worry because God has got them and you covered. HE knows what to do and when to do it. Bless you Tyler for always giving it to us straight.
I was just thinking about this I have NEVER had a true friendship relationship or even family members treat me well it’s honestly overwhelming 😢every person I have trued to love has treated me so bad. So many scars on my heart 😢💔
Same here so I hear you. The only two people that ever loved me as much as I love them were my cat and my grandma (who I consider to be my mom). Both were sadly brutally murdered - by narcissists, in two separate incidents. No one else. I've been treated in extremely cruel ways by those I loved - the cruelty has included false police reports with the intention to get me into jail for life (they nearly succeeded), the above mentioned murders as well as the murder of my human child, selling me and getting me trafficked to another country (my so-called "parents"), lifelong r @ p e , black magic resulting in severe disability for which no medical reason can be found (I prefer to find "rational" explanations but have to admit, there is none - and just a few days before I suddenly became totally disabled, I severed a "friendship" with one of these creatures... ) It really is overwhelming to realizde there is absolutely nobody that cares. To have to declare in hospitals and at doctors' offices "no next of kin", only to get started at and then suffer arguments from receptionists who cannot imagine that there are people who just don't have anyone. To suffer extreme ill health and still be alone because nobody gives a hoot. To realize that our death will probably either be dropping at home and what's left of us, getting found after weeks or months because nobody misses us - or getting bumped off in a nursing home or hospital where they routinely bump off those who have nobody and who are considered "useless eaters" (at least here in the UK and in Canada that's what they do, but the US is rapidly catching up with its "patient dumping"). But here a saying I came across just today: how people treat you is a reflection of who they are. It's nothing to do with you. This is one of the most important sayings ever... I'm in the same boat. Always wanted to get married, to love and be loved by a husband. I ended up permanently single and now, knowing what I know now about how most people are, you couldn't pay me enough to want even a boyfriend. Can't trust anyone. I'm a very positive person so I think that says it all... Take good care and look after yourself!
Same here. You're not alone. You are loved, beautiful, and awesome. Know that for you. Be you with no apologies. Keep your head up and don't be afraid to demand love and respect from others. If they can't give you that they don't deserve to be in your circle or space. I recently cut off my entire family. I have no friends. I'm literally alone but I'm learning to put me first and enjoy peace and clearing up toxicity. Know that you are making room for the right people to be in your space. You deserve the best.
I stuck with my family for so many years believing the saying they told me that Family is everything… That is a true saying if your family is with you but mine wasn’t I went through there crap until enough was enough and I left! I never looked back and I ain’t going back! My life has been so much better and all it takes is courage to do hat God has been telling me all those years to leave but I never listened sometimes we just want to stick with it cause we think things are gonna change. I tell you they’re not gonna change and what Tyler talks about forgiveness they shoved that down my throat all those years and I forgave but it gave them the OK to do whatever they want and I’ll just forgive them. No more of that garbage!
Thank you so much Tyler!! As always your messages are always so timely...i honestly believe you are a vessel of Light and Love used to spread messages of enlightenment and warning to those that resonate with you. Peace, Love and Blessings Always from the Uk
He's right my moms and her favorite sisters trying to do this now my therapist told me to cut off all my family members she said if anyone who knows your past and wants to keep you that way they don't deserve to be apart of your future I said say less 🖕 them i see the games paise the most high Amen
My family do not call me in 12 years since my mom died. Only 1 niece calls me it's sad. my nephew got out of prison and called me once and he do not call me no more. All stay in Austin. So no one talks and I don't care thank you so much.
Yep! Tyler got me through the worst of times from FOO a few years ago. His videos were the best on UA-cam. Gotta add, I had a sibling show up out of nowhere who completely was overt in a smear campaign eventually. Then he lectured me on going to a dentist the next day from across a few 100 miles about how I should a bit to the dentist that did the so-called sin of not doing a Covid Vax. Caller-blocked his "trifling" ass immediately. Signing off, the Whitest dude ever on UA-cam
Im really dealing with this right now with certain family members who took advantage of me and using me and their true intentions starting to show and reveal themselves
The guy I like is very nice to me in person. We chat, he takes a lunch break in my car, we hug. He just never calls or texts. I have to be a customer at his job to see him.
My narcissistic mother....She is cut off for life.....They say that you only have one mother well I only got one life & I have to protect my mental sanity.
I’ve been treated so bad 30 years worth now I’m sitting & isolation reflecting it’s messing with my mental how I was so attached , Family is the worst man
signs they dont like you, no matter how much they chat & smile 😊: 1)always want to know what youre doing(aka how much 💵💵 you have), but never how youre doing 2) will ask about you through others, never reach out directly 3) they never want to hang/reconnect one-on-one.. you throw out plans but nothing comes of it 4) you keep winning at a game & they "jokingly" say theyre going to have to stop inviting you bc you keep winning 5) youre alienated from pier conversations 6) youre the only one made center of a "joke"/picked on 7) copying you/repeating things you say/do 8) dislike the fact that their children gravitate to you/have a close bond w you 9) will talk rudely/w attitude/ change of tone to you, but no one else 10) only want to see you at large group settings, but gather amongst themselves often its beautiful yet disappointing when people subtly reveal how they feel about you 🤍🤍
Speak the truth and it is family who are the two faced fakes blood makes you related love makes you family .Know people family include by their fruit.let them where they are at let them fall into their own pit they dug never deal with fools .Its sad when they are a family of fools.
Mr. Tyler you are so right I was just telling something like this to a very confused not too bright individual earlier and he just couldn't grasp the concept of what I was saying
BOYYYY,tyler,you aint never lied😮😮😮😮. I tell my mom this all the time when "family members" and my brothers talk to her stupid and disrespect her🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️..she has "burnt toast syndrome " meaning she does for everyonee yet they dont do for hee😮. She just brushes the behavior off
I had to move to a different county from my family. Love them from afar. I heard one family member say sometimes the black sheep of the family tell the truth. Sorry I cannot deal with hypocritical people.
Same here. Actually it was the "family" that had me trafficked but I've had to go via several countries to ensure they can't find me as they have connections (they are part of the "elite"). Considering the next move now, to yet another continent, following yet another brutal murder of a loved one and ongoing attempts from their cronies to get me locked up and thus silenced and discredited.
@@arethaboddy7490 Thank you, so sorry you are going through the same. The destruction that narcissists bring about is impossible to understand unless one has experienced it! Did you also loose everything? I did - ended up from riches to rags, literally: from a family of the super rich to at times total destitution and now still in a low income slum. Can't tell anyone my story - when I tried, I encountered disbelief and incorrect assumptions about my mental health. So I have to stay shtum and pretend I'm just another failure, too stupid to get anywhere in life! The loss of my identity and status as well as the constant living a lie is the worst!
There 2 types of toxic truth speakers 1) that blabbers their negative thoughts about you right in that moment not caring how sharp their words come out 2) (which I believe is worse) this person represses their negative opinion about you only to reveal them when they are upset or in between an arguement. This is worse because it takes them so long to bring this to your attention, that you might not even recall when you did what they’re complaining about and it creates a notion that y’all entire relationship was never real to begin with. I’d say the best way avoid both of these is to just voice your opinion when they 1st come to mind in a respectful, constructive way. It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.
Those is good one that try to manipulate play with your mind set do you think thiet intentions is good but they always mean harn to they don't want you to see them but I call it the Columbo effect you let them think you are not onto their mess but you eventually let them tell on themselves right before you and they will know you been watching their actions and listening to them the whole time
Yes family is the worst. They act like they got a problem when you speak up and stand up for yourself.
A person treats you how they feel about themselves too
Yes!
Yes 👏👏👏👏👏
How a person treats you is a reflection on theirself. Hurt people hurt people.
Yes you’re right
Speaking facts never ignore when they reveal their true colors towards you it shows how they been feeling the whole time 💯
My brother right here is so wise. Many people ask which celebrity we would have dinner with. I would not choose any one but this man right here. Smart as can be and an inspiration
I fully agree! He's one of these rare people that are completely genuine, and he's very passionate about teaching us the truth about narcissists!
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Yep Tyler you was pulling no punches you hitting hard I had family member come by with being fake giving compliment but follow up with a lot of what you need to do so let me know he jealous
can’t just be happy for you give you good sincere compliment and leave at that but you right family is the ones who got too watch because they want to control reason why because they don’t want to shine and be great like you deserve
Yesss! he is very, very wise! I am constantly listening to him everyday. I love and appreciate Tyler. He sure is speaking the truth.
❤
I couldn't agree more Tyler. Actions definitely speak louder than words. 👍
You're right
Amen I totally agree 💯❤️🙏
And they lied to your face knowing they feel a whole different way
Amen! Preach it. Always pay attention and never let folks push you around.
Thank you. I have cancelled several people including so called family. ❤️
Nowadays, I just wait for the switch up. 🤷♀️
Already know it’s coming
💯💯💯💯
Literally it never fails lmao people are so fake
Took me many years to come to terms with this message. The truth hurts but my remedy for this type of behavior is called cut-off w/o notice.
Nice 🎉
Tyler, you hit the nail on the head. A brother in law screamed and berated me for asking a simple question. This left me so dumbfounded that I had to go no contact with his family (my sister) and other family members. It's been 2 years now and I'm enjoying my peace from all of these phoney people. They are wolves in sheep's clothing. Thank you so much for your very wise message.
It's crazy how I can listen to this brother all day. Straight facts.
Just had somebody try this and you best believe, I cut it short!! Come with the energy I come with, or I’ll leave you where you stand with no explanation because you know what you did. 💯 People aren’t dogs, they don’t need training and people will try you if you let them
People really operate from a philosophy of 'I will be a rude insidious ashhole but soon as you stand up for yourself now you're the offender'. Absolutely no effort to self reflect or change.
Girl I had somebody try me today and I pulled a them on them 😂🤡silly rabbit tricks are for kids !😘😁
@@jaymitaylor9937Can’t let nobody walk over you, Salute!!
That's why I threw away the then popular "You train people how to treat you" myth into the trashcan a long time ago. I'm not a dog, I'm a man! Same with my friends of foes. Get on the ball or GET OUT OF TOWN!
I say this occasionally when dealing with people throughout Detroit. People be doing shit that leaves you wondering if they’re slow or just fcking with you. They’ve lived past the age of 25 and still need to learn common sense
My family gossiped about me at the family reunion. I was living in another state and didn't attend. My brother let me know in a harsh way and even gave me a new diagnosis of mental illness. THE TRUTH IS I AM A SURVIVOR OF MENTAL ABUSE GROWING UP ! I WAS CALLED NAMES IN THE HOME AND MY BROTHER HIT ME UP ALL THE TIME UNTIL CPS INVESTIGATED!
Ain’t too many good folks left they all either sick or worship the toxic stuff
Well damn sounds like most of my family and so called friends Thank You needed to hear this just for a reminder to stay away from these people
Grateful for your content, Tyler. When someone says one thing but does another thing (saying they care, they’ll call, but ultimately don’t because they’re cowards and fools) that certainly reveals their true colors, that these people are garbage and a waste of your time and energy.
My 3 Sister's treat me Bad , They messed up my Relationship & Friendship up with Good People's , People's know how they are !!
Be wise as a serpent. Always understand who or what is in front of you. Another great video Tyler! Blessings to you
Brotha....SPEAK IT!!! GOTTA see the facade that takes one away from your self worth!!!
Amen 🙏🏽
This is so true and right on point with people and family members. 👀😱
Thank you for always speaking truths and keeping it real 💯.
A lot of time it is family. So sad. This is the book of Revelations and these things have to play out. But you don't have to worry because God has got them and you covered. HE knows what to do and when to do it. Bless you Tyler for always giving it to us straight.
I was just thinking about this I have NEVER had a true friendship relationship or even family members treat me well it’s honestly overwhelming 😢every person I have trued to love has treated me so bad. So many scars on my heart 😢💔
Same here so I hear you. The only two people that ever loved me as much as I love them were my cat and my grandma (who I consider to be my mom). Both were sadly brutally murdered - by narcissists, in two separate incidents. No one else.
I've been treated in extremely cruel ways by those I loved - the cruelty has included false police reports with the intention to get me into jail for life (they nearly succeeded), the above mentioned murders as well as the murder of my human child, selling me and getting me trafficked to another country (my so-called "parents"), lifelong r @ p e , black magic resulting in severe disability for which no medical reason can be found (I prefer to find "rational" explanations but have to admit, there is none - and just a few days before I suddenly became totally disabled, I severed a "friendship" with one of these creatures... )
It really is overwhelming to realizde there is absolutely nobody that cares. To have to declare in hospitals and at doctors' offices "no next of kin", only to get started at and then suffer arguments from receptionists who cannot imagine that there are people who just don't have anyone. To suffer extreme ill health and still be alone because nobody gives a hoot. To realize that our death will probably either be dropping at home and what's left of us, getting found after weeks or months because nobody misses us - or getting bumped off in a nursing home or hospital where they routinely bump off those who have nobody and who are considered "useless eaters" (at least here in the UK and in Canada that's what they do, but the US is rapidly catching up with its "patient dumping").
But here a saying I came across just today:
how people treat you is a reflection of who they are.
It's nothing to do with you.
This is one of the most important sayings ever...
I'm in the same boat. Always wanted to get married, to love and be loved by a husband. I ended up permanently single and now, knowing what I know now about how most people are, you couldn't pay me enough to want even a boyfriend. Can't trust anyone. I'm a very positive person so I think that says it all...
Take good care and look after yourself!
Same here. You're not alone. You are loved, beautiful, and awesome. Know that for you. Be you with no apologies. Keep your head up and don't be afraid to demand love and respect from others. If they can't give you that they don't deserve to be in your circle or space. I recently cut off my entire family. I have no friends. I'm literally alone but I'm learning to put me first and enjoy peace and clearing up toxicity. Know that you are making room for the right people to be in your space. You deserve the best.
@@Hope-pz2fv 🙏🏾 Thank you for the kind words and comment 🙏🏾
Me too 😢
You are not alone
Excellent brother peace love and blessings
Yup! I’ve had to cut family off because ,they really did not gaf about me & that’s okay at least I know, so I keep my distance!!
Same here 😊
I stuck with my family for so many years believing the saying they told me that Family is everything… That is a true saying if your family is with you but mine wasn’t I went through there crap until enough was enough and I left! I never looked back and I ain’t going back! My life has been so much better and all it takes is courage to do hat God has been telling me all those years to leave but I never listened sometimes we just want to stick with it cause we think things are gonna change. I tell you they’re not gonna change and what Tyler talks about forgiveness they shoved that down my throat all those years and I forgave but it gave them the OK to do whatever they want and I’ll just forgive them. No more of that garbage!
Exactly. You are so right.
Exactly and I’m over it and done with it my sisters have never been there for me in my tough times without talking about me or putting me down
I want to thank you, Tyler .You preach such common sense.
Family is the first to get you hurt claim they Love you with no Loyalty Patience or any form of respect
I agree
Thank you so much Tyler!! As always your messages are always so timely...i honestly believe you are a vessel of Light and Love used to spread messages of enlightenment and warning to those that resonate with you. Peace, Love and Blessings Always from the Uk
No. That's wrong how they treat you is how they feel about themselves . ❤
Likely both
Tyler speaks the truth.
Boy o boy! Ain't nothing like hearing truth!
I can already tell from the title that this is so true! 🤍🤍🙌🏿
He's right my moms and her favorite sisters trying to do this now my therapist told me to cut off all my family members she said if anyone who knows your past and wants to keep you that way they don't deserve to be apart of your future I said say less 🖕 them i see the games paise the most high Amen
My family do not call me in 12 years since my mom died. Only 1 niece calls me it's sad. my nephew got out of prison and called me once and he do not call me no more. All stay in Austin. So no one talks and I don't care thank you so much.
Family is the worst That's Big Facts!!
You are so right. Thanks for making this video Tyler
Yep! Tyler got me through the worst of times from FOO a few years ago. His videos were the best on UA-cam.
Gotta add, I had a sibling show up out of nowhere who completely was overt in a smear campaign eventually. Then he lectured me on going to a dentist the next day from across a few 100 miles about how I should a bit to the dentist that did the so-called sin of not doing a Covid Vax. Caller-blocked his "trifling" ass immediately.
Signing off, the Whitest dude ever on UA-cam
Thank you so much
Facts!
Those kinds of friends and family members do not deserve an empath
So much truth here in this delivery.
This is a Tyler house because he always goes in like he got a curfew.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Im really dealing with this right now with certain family members who took advantage of me and using me and their true intentions starting to show and reveal themselves
The guy I like is very nice to me in person. We chat, he takes a lunch break in my car, we hug. He just never calls or texts. I have to be a customer at his job to see him.
My narcissistic mother....She is cut off for life.....They say that you only have one mother well I only got one life & I have to protect my mental sanity.
I loved this video! 👍🙌 Truth
HEY TYLER!!!!👋 🤗💕💪 YEP, THEIR HEART IS NOT RIGHT...💯😔😔😔
I’ve been treated so bad 30 years worth now I’m sitting & isolation reflecting it’s messing with my mental how I was so attached , Family is the worst man
Hey Mr Tyler, thank you😢🙏🏿
No lies here ✔️
signs they dont like you, no matter how much they chat & smile 😊:
1)always want to know what youre doing(aka how much 💵💵 you have), but never how youre doing
2) will ask about you through others, never reach out directly
3) they never want to hang/reconnect one-on-one.. you throw out plans but nothing comes of it
4) you keep winning at a game & they "jokingly" say theyre going to have to stop inviting you bc you keep winning
5) youre alienated from pier conversations
6) youre the only one made center of a "joke"/picked on
7) copying you/repeating things you say/do
8) dislike the fact that their children gravitate to you/have a close bond w you
9) will talk rudely/w attitude/ change of tone to you, but no one else
10) only want to see you at large group settings, but gather amongst themselves often
its beautiful yet disappointing when people subtly reveal how they feel about you 🤍🤍
Thanks
Speak the truth and it is family who are the two faced fakes blood makes you related love makes you family .Know people family include by their fruit.let them where they are at let them fall into their own pit they dug never deal with fools .Its sad when they are a family of fools.
I got a person like this right now
Mr. Tyler you are so right I was just telling something like this to a very confused not too bright individual earlier and he just couldn't grasp the concept of what I was saying
I learned this the hard way, unfortunately 💯🙏🏽
These Videos have helped Me. Thanks
You're welcome
Very true thanks for the wisdom learning and growing everyday
Family can do way worse to you than some stranger can.
I know right.A stranger treats you much better than family
@@TylerJTI that has been my life
@@kezmenflowers8691 mine too for most of my family.
Tyler this is the one right here ‼️everything you said was spot on hit it right on the nail
👼🏿SHALOM KING🎖🤴🏿👑🎗
“ASK DA MOST HIGH 2 GET DEM OUT”💯%
#STOP GIVING AF wat ppl think; IT WILL raise ur VIBRATION🔥#avoiddem!✊🏿
Amen 🙌🏼 Tyler! So true. Keep keeping it 💯! I love your channel, it's so real. God bless you always my brotha🙏🏼.
Yea this was right on time .
i love your messages so much that I often post them to my FB. Keep up the good work!!
BOYYYY,tyler,you aint never lied😮😮😮😮. I tell my mom this all the time when "family members" and my brothers talk to her stupid and disrespect her🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️..she has "burnt toast syndrome " meaning she does for everyonee yet they dont do for hee😮. She just brushes the behavior off
Wow, bro you are very right on track! The Lord is speaking right from you to me, right now.
You told the truth brother!
True.
GOLD! ❤
True
So much truth if I had to add anything it would be they try to hide behind I’m a Christian you should assume they have best interest for you
Amén ❤
I had to move to a different county from my family. Love them from afar. I heard one family member say sometimes the black sheep of the family tell the truth. Sorry I cannot deal with hypocritical people.
Same here. Actually it was the "family" that had me trafficked but I've had to go via several countries to ensure they can't find me as they have connections (they are part of the "elite"). Considering the next move now, to yet another continent, following yet another brutal murder of a loved one and ongoing attempts from their cronies to get me locked up and thus silenced and discredited.
@@LittleKitty22 I'm sorry you had to go through that. 😟🙏
@@arethaboddy7490 Thank you, so sorry you are going through the same. The destruction that narcissists bring about is impossible to understand unless one has experienced it! Did you also loose everything? I did - ended up from riches to rags, literally: from a family of the super rich to at times total destitution and now still in a low income slum. Can't tell anyone my story - when I tried, I encountered disbelief and incorrect assumptions about my mental health. So I have to stay shtum and pretend I'm just another failure, too stupid to get anywhere in life!
The loss of my identity and status as well as the constant living a lie is the worst!
Have you done a video on trauma bonds?
I don't think so? What is that🤔?
There 2 types of toxic truth speakers
1) that blabbers their negative thoughts about you right in that moment not caring how sharp their words come out
2) (which I believe is worse) this person represses their negative opinion about you only to reveal them when they are upset or in between an arguement. This is worse because it takes them so long to bring this to your attention, that you might not even recall when you did what they’re complaining about and it creates a notion that y’all entire relationship was never real to begin with.
I’d say the best way avoid both of these is to just voice your opinion when they 1st come to mind in a respectful, constructive way. It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.
He treats me poorly
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I need advice y’all would anyone be open to listening ?
Please submit your contact for topics we want you to address. You do good videos. You are straight up.
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A saying I've just come across:
How people treat you is a reflection of who they are.
It's nothing to do with you.
Truth
😂
My damn momma.
Truth Serum!
I never paid attention.
Those is good one that try to manipulate play with your mind set do you think thiet intentions is good but they always mean harn to they don't want you to see them but I call it the Columbo effect you let them think you are not onto their mess but you eventually let them tell on themselves right before you and they will know you been watching their actions and listening to them the whole time
Can you make an video on social media thanks
Hey Camille how are you? What type of social media video? Are you talking about folks being messy on there 🤔?
@@TylerJTIyess social being messy !!!!
Military?
Mmh mmmmhh
Tyler
You were on point Tyler from the beginning to the end. Great message and well done. 🙌🏽🍁🍃🔥🪵
Hey Tyler aint seen u in a while