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Alux.com What makes me happy? Trying to enjoy life and not complicate or overthink it. As usual, you are showing that building wealth starts with building a positive mindset.
Alux.com being successful makes me happy and relaxing and a lot of people that say they are going to do something but they don't Truth. Even I do it sometimes.
Money can definitely make me happy. I want a gaming system, unlimited wifi , 4k tv ,netflix , a chef and a treadmill. With that, I can live happily in a single room for months. Trust me 😊
I can’t stand being poor anymore, I can’t fucking deal with it. Been in poverty my whole fucking life and all I have to look forward to is working everyday of my life at a shit fucking foundry or factory job that I can’t even get because of pre employment drug screens for fucking marijuana. I hate how this world works, I just want to fucking die.
Amer Sultan well done I've just read your comment. That's brill hope your still clean. Be proud I've worked in lots of rehab centers and it's not easy. I love reading posts like this. Good for you take care
Hi Amer 😃 hope you are doing well and I hope you are still being clean, I too have rid myself of the demon 18 months now, almost off my meds for it too. Looking back I never thought I'd be able to make it this far. Well done to you, it's a big deal. All the best John 😉
Start by breaking your PlayStation or Xbox or sale it. Then read business books like rich dad poor dad and get working. (Heads up, progress will take a while)
1. You think money will make you happy 2. You think just because you were born you deserve to be happy 3. You think that other people should make you happy 4 . you expect life to be like you have seen in movies 5. You watch too much TV 6 . you spend too much time on social network 7. You have bad relationship with your siblings and family 8. You don't own a pet 9. You eat junk food 10. You live in the past 11. You are not decisive enough 12 you surround your self with unhappy people 13 you are scared of trying new things 14 . you hate your job but wouldn't do anything about it 15 . you never meditate
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I think money has many things to do with happiness. You said: "Money has to do with comfort, security and freedom". My question is: how can one be happy if he's in an uncomfortable situation, lives in a dangerous and unsecured place, and is not free?! So, I believe maybe money does not necessarily make you happy, but, not having money definitely makes you unhappy and miserable.
Arash Shahin Coming from a poorer individual agreed, you also need it for things like healthy food which is necessary in general but my parents cannot afford it, they are always stressed about being on debt.
Arash Shahin Its true i have seen many mr beast videos in which he donated 10000$ to people and they were as happy that they broke their chairs and laughing laudly.
I heard Tony Robbins say something like, “the secret to happiness is progress.” That makes a lot of sense to me. If we work on improving our lives (work, family, relationships, money, health, personal growth), then as we start seeing the results of our lives it will make us happy.
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For me I think I realised that it was making me unhappy being bigger than I wanted to be. And then when I went on a diet I realised that I love chocco sundaes too much. So now I'm healthy but I eat chocco sundaes. I'm big but not too big and I'm ok with that now
1:50 I'd rather be unhappy in a big ass house (and able to afford therapy) than be unhappy in a shitty, thin walled apartment, with roaches. I live in a decent apartment, and there aren't any bugs and the walls are thick, but you get my point right? lol Money apparently doesn't buy happiness, but I'd sure as hell would like to find out for myself.
If you have the leisure time and resources to be watching this video, you are richer than the majority of people on this planet. I'm clearly one of these people and I'm pretty damned unhappy. By reflection I'd say I'm unhappy because I am VERY self critical and am generally a pessimist. The majority of my family is VERY poor (from a developing country) but my parents happened to make all the right moves in at all the right times and now we are pretty well off and live in a developed country. Regardless I'm a lot less happy than the majority of my poor relatives.
having a relative understanding of what others have is also helpful. when my wife was volunteering as an EMT she saw the inside of a lot of people's homes, and saw how small their common rooms were. we have a large dining and living area, and a cozy kitchen where the 6 of us usually eat together. she had been unhappy with our house until she saw how so many others were living. and she'd been discontented with herself before realizing that wherever she goes, everyone tells her how nice our kids are.
most of my unhappiness is due to my procrastination. towards everything. I don't study for that test until the night before, I didn't tell that girl what I felt about her until she got a boyfriend, I am not focusing on my future right now, even though I know I should. and also , I always wonder "what if I'm rejected?" or "what if she says she doesn't like me?" these kinds of things. I am trying to improve, little by little. hope it doesn't take long until I have myself under control, If I might say it that way...
Амадей Моцарт I read your comment and pray you realize the happiness in life and relationship you desire. These Alux videos are helpful and will guide you towards your life goals. Have you tried befriending someone who needs guidance or a mentor? That has proven to give one a sense of joy. Maybe try helping an elderly family member. In other words, seek to help those less fortunate than you and hopefully that action will jumpstart your road to happiness.
Btw working on anything, even minor accomplishments produces endorphins (natural ‘high’) to enable you to move forward. Just get started,let the rest take care of itself!
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Yeah that's the same problem with me, procrastination and I am really unhappy now. I just want to do it but can't. I know the consequences but I can't just do it or focus on it. I remember from the morning till midnight I have not smiled once just want to cry 😭😔. I dunno why please help 😭
Hey Alux, you said money provides security, comfort and freedom. I was never happy when I was feeling insecure, uncomfortable or trapped. So, if someone is unhappy with their millions, put me in touch with them. I will gladly take it off their hands.
I have been following your videos for quite some time now. While all your videos are awesome, this is probably the best till date. You explained such a complex thing as human happiness in such a lucid easily understandable manner. I have been going through some really unhappy times of late and have been searching in the Internet for ways to lead a happier life. This video of yours is God sent for me. Three things that I liked are 1. If we are not happy when we are poor, we are not going to be happy when we are rich 2. If we are stuck in a screwed up job, don't quit. Rather just hold on and try to get higher education, try to start own business. 3. We don't pursue happiness, we create it. This is what my dad has been telling me since I was a child. He says "If you can't be happy here and now, you can't be happy anytime, anywhere". This video really inspired me, particularly when I am feeling down and was about to give up fighting any more. Thanks a lot. I sincerely pray that God bless you!
@@danamariebangalisan7224 yup, and i think by putting it like that, happiness isn't not garanteed, like searching for anything, finding it isn't garanteed. But when we think it's creatable, then nothing would stop you other than yourself ! And that's a good thing, because one is the first person that it is the fastest to control by oneself :)
People are unhappy because society is so demanding. If a guy is overweight and short and is deprived of intimate/deep social interaction he then becomes insecure and sad. He now he has to work to get in shape in hopes to attract people into his life. What im saying is that if it were ok to be short/overweight/poor etc. People would be happy as is. But they cant because society says you have to be fit, have money, be tall etc. Being happy means trying to fit in even when you cant.
I saw the Haitian Orphan Choir at church the other day. Key word "orphan". Most of these lovely children lost their families in the earthquake a few years ago. Yet they were all absolutely beaming with JOY! Honestly, they were happier than most Americans I know!
Another secret to happiness is practicing thankfulness , for what you already have . At least once a day. This has brought me victory over depression and an overall transformation
I love it how you tell people what they need to know, not what they want to hear. Every channel tries to please people. but you take the channel on a whole new level by keeping this real. I love it Alux! keep it up!
Some people are unhappy because they just think they will never be happy and once they start changing this mindset they are getting closer to create their happiness
I'm sure his show wasn't doing so hot so he's probably on tour. Idk if tosh.o is even still on TV. I haven't personally sat down and watched it myself in almost 2 years so you'd know more than me.
Pay off debt as soon as possible, avoid lending money to friends & family, don't smoke, read more, never co-sign on a loan, choose friends & lovers wisely, travel more, if you must marry do it later, invest in a good education, learn about wealth & investing, spend less than you make, take good care of your teeth, eat healthy food, google automatic investing, take more photos, practice positive self talk, volunteer, become a doer, learn to say no, always wear a seat belt, hang out with other successful people, walk in nature, watch more documentaries, find work you love.
I discovered that I am very unhappy ☹️ 😔 as a teenager. Almost all of the following are true for me. I don’t have a good family life. I am really not happy. I love luxury.
I think you guys address your haters too much in your videos. If people don't like what you have to say, they can go elsewhere. No need to justify it in every video.
Go elsewhere? No...because I like to think outside of the box...there are some things I agree with her and some things I disagree because I lived that life.
Seeking others approval is something that you can hardly get and it makes me unhappy when I depend on others approval in order to become motivated. Thank you for the video.
I’m poor So I don’t have enough money So I’m not comfortable in life And I feel insecure And I’m not free... So I’m unhappy Which ultimately means that money will make me happy... Because once i have money i’m free,comfortable and secure.. Which will bring me confidence.. ❤️❤️❤️
i agree with the number 10 that says "you live in the past and continue to go over it " but comon how can you say that you can't expect other people to give you happyness i can give you a lot of examples of this, im happy when a friend sees me on the street and greets me, im happy when i take care of my friends and they recognize me, im happy when my family smiles at me and the list goes on.. Happyness doesnt exist if we go by rules because the human nature doesnt allow it like you said " i want this and then i want that " and still you can't find the pieces to fill the holes that life made on you, but there are moments if there is a way of being trully happy the purest feeling it would be "Love" being it phisical, emotional or any other thing that you wanna call it for me that is when a man or a woman are trully happy when you love yourself, when you love your family, when you love your friends and in the end it doesn't matter any of your problems because you are trully grateful for every single thing that the world gave you..
Not true! You can still end up at zero after you have put in the work. There is just not enough success to go around for everyone in this world. Sorry!
I have the feeling, that I've lost my true friends. Those, who are making me happy. That might be influenced by thinking about everything was better in the past. But I dont think so because they've made me very happy in the past too. I've basically changed school 2014 and graduated this year. I keep thinking now, that I havent used opportunities with my friends. But I was scared often of being rejected and of having the akward moment of being boring and not doing something cool, which is why I didnt spent as much time with them as I would have wanted. I changed school back then because I was being bullied, but now I keep thinking, that it was wrong to change and that I should have walked and gotten through all of that instead of being a "pussy". I just cant look into the future and keep thinking about how many times I've fallen apart and how often I haven't used my time instead of looking in front.
Another thing that adds to unhappiness is worrying about your relationship and only to find your partner is making a fool of you and you keep believing he or she will change.
Seriously.?? Since last 3 days we was suffering from same issues in family. And I was thing but didn’t search anything on Internet.. just opened UA-cam. And “this video shows up” . You are amazing 🤩 thank you 😊
Number 14 got to me. Thank you for touching that topic. People would always say follow your passion what if your passion fetches you only $30 a year? Now you will be more unhappy than you'll ever be.
As a Christian, I really think the church should start to give more hard advice like this besides "Trust God/Pray about it/God has you here for a reason/etc." There is almost a sense that if you aren't where you want to be, you SHOULDN'T do anything, as taking steps would somehow in some way be going against "God's Will" and all that. Personally, I'm tired of it. Thanks for laying this all out. I think another thing that leads to unhappiness is something I do all the time - over analyze everything, and always coming away with a negative conclusion.
Phew a wonderful self searching video. Very important and no bullshit it Hurts! The Truth Hurts. I don’t need to Pursue Happiness. I need to Create it. Now I am Glad ALUX exist. I rated myself on 5 for each point and scored 47/75. I need to work on point 2, 7, 8, 9 and 15. I definitely need to create a stronger Family Bond. Thank you.😌🙏🏽
i just cant find the reason why am unhappy , but i think i miss my childhood cause since i ve reached 13 years old, i started feelin bad till now and i really can t be happy no matter what I do , where I go, what I eat,,,,, I really and litteraly hate my life , i tried countless times to do all the things ppl advice me with : meditation, waking up early ,be healthy , move and do sports,or doing somethin i m passionate about , travel, laugh, but in vain I just want to go back to my childhood , i think that my main problem and i can t solve it , i tried to move forward like they said but nostalgia keep chasin me , I just live without purpose now , and my biggest fear is to continue and finish my life this way , I feel like I m never gonna be happy again , anyway thanx for the advices up there
my home full of vintage 2nd hand, my dog, coffee and the newspaper, friends, books, friends, moving at my own speed is what makes me content. happiness comes and goes; its never a constant.
I think I am unhappy because of my past I went through a lot of things I went to meant to physical and sexual abuse with teachers and family members I am 38 years old now and I am trying to get out of this depression whole I have been in this hole for the past 20 years I feel less if I need to move on with my life and keep going I thought money was the answer I thought sex and love is the answer as well but looking at these videos are improving my thoughtsAnd for me to Reconsider my thoughts as to what I want to do I don’t feel like that I am in a place that I should be I don’t think my life is where it should be at the moment at the age of 38 but I think I am going to put my pain behind me and move on to get where I need to be
Allen D Allen, just the fact that you are here says a lot. there are times when it's just time to turn your back on all that and march forward. Everything you will be is on the road ahead. The you need to build your future, you are carrying with you.
Pray repent forgive and let god find his way withinyou then you are helped but just because youre happy doesnt mean that the enemy wont try your happiness iuic he
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Make sure u have a personal relationship with God he can bring u true happiness. & Happiness doesn't come from money,sex, fortune, or fame it comes from within inside of U! If money could bring happiness all of these famous ppl wouldn't commit suicide then..🤔🤷🏻♀️👌🏽
Looking back I realized that I have had alot of unhappiness in my life not only from dealing with my current problems and situations now ,but for the last 15 yrs I've been living an unhappy life. I feel that I have lead a very worried life,stressful life,and not alot of happiness. I feel that I really need to make some changes in my life.
If you don't have shoes, look at the person who doesn't have a leg. Whole of the video, you talk of materialism, mostly. You yourself is yet to understand what it takes to be happy.
"You Create It"!!! After the goddess explained this, goosebumps shivered from my face down my neck, along my shoulders to my arms. My fingers are still tingling
i have only seen your videos twice and the first one 15 things people learned latter in life is truly amazing same as why you are unhappy thank you so much GOD BLESS
The principle reason is that we aren't meant to be happy; we'd still be living in the trees if happiness was our true goal. No, we are built to strive, for some unobtainable state of Nirvana.
The most spot-on of all your excellent vids. I would add this ingredient as a sure-fire recipe for unhappiness: insisting that people, events and circumstances be other than they are.
I confess I have now watched this video about a dozen times in 2 days. Such a great list of things I already know or heard- but really needed to hear now in such a concise and clear manner. I finally subbed, as I didn't want to sub to a channel that only did 10 things you didn't know about that one country or what's so great about my watch versus yours. Please keep up the variety! Thanx, B
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"The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want right now" -Zig Ziglar "Tell me the reality is better than the dream." - Corey Todd Taylor Unfortunately, what makes me happy is buying material things and food. My expected are never met with my reality, the reality is never better than what I dream about. I wish there was a way, sure-shot way to change. This was one of the best videos I have ever seen on UA-cam. I rarely comment, but I had to on this one. Thanks Alux this has given me a lot to think about.
I know someone at my part-time job who is constantly negative and complains about how much she hates the job. Does she do anything about it? No! She just loves to complain. I try to hang around her as little as possible. Even after just a few minutes with her I start to feel negative.
Sometimes, being afraid that you MIGHT fail holds you back and eventually leads to an unhappy life! Of all your videos, this was my favourite. Thank You so much!!!
If I was living in poverty and can't provide etc no opportunity's nothing new can't do anything suddenly got money OooooO no more worrieing about providing and safety comfort things to do you WILL be more happy
Happiness is achieved on the inside but a lot of us look to the outside. Case and point. Most of my life I always looked to partners, jobs and materials for happiness. I'd meet someone new and be happy for a few months but then realize something was missing. I'd get a new job and the same exact thing would happen. New car, house, tv, etc. all the same. I finally took some time to myself and worked on me and what I felt was important to me. What I really enjoyed doing. Then things started to change. I started meeting friends and love interests that were much different than I was used to. They didn't make me overly excited but definitely made me fulfilled. I got a job offer that seemed too good to be true, but it was true. I stopped caring so much about material things. I can't say I feel happy all the time, but I sure am a lot happier than I was just a few years ago. It's all done from the inside.
Another deep video. Much appreciated. I m struggling with No. 11. And almost all the time, I m stuck between what I want and what others in my innercircle want. 90% of the time I do what others want and end up unhapppy. If I do it my way then I m faced with oppression.
Wait a minute....Parents don't owe their children anything? Sounds like advice on how to be a bad parent. Parents owe their children. Plain and simple. If they don't give to their children, they make bad parents. We should abandon bad parents. They are all around us.
It's amazing how many people think that money brings happiness rather than realizing that happiness is an internal feeling first regardless of your conditions. You can go to the Philippines, or some other poverty infested country, and you will find children - who have very little opportunity in life when compared to American children - who are running around having a blast while American children stare, like zombies, at their electronic gadgets and sigh like they are about as bored as one could possibly be. Even so, there are plenty of fools who believe that happiness is determined by your conditions.
Life in the Philippines is cheap, the weather is good, there is little govt control and there is plenty of food and sex even for the poorest of the poor. You can live poor without paying taxes and still have all the basic necessities. It is also a very religious society, with little discrimination and resentment, very communal, into friendship, and peace loving. Their culture, economic and social systems are superb. In the US, there are high taxes, high rents, cold weather, harsh government control and sex is in short supply - for men at least. There is mistrust, loneliness and unfriendliness everywhere. So, it's not just the poverty of the Philippines that creates happiness, but the fact that their society supplies you with all you need even on the lowest rungs of society, whereas in the US, only the rich can enjoy such a lifestyle.
You dont have to be happy and rich to understand the changes you need to make in your life. As long as you do everything you can in the moment over all of life's moments you will be successful. Take pride in everything you do.
@@starfedright6362 When you cook in the kitchen do you wipe your stove off after you use it? When your carpet is dirty do you vacuum? When you have garbage do you throw it on the ground or do you put it in a garbage can? So long as day to day you are constantly doing everything in your power to the best of your abilities there is no reason you shouldnt at least be happy with how you carry yourself. Theres always outliers, but that's my outlook.
I'm writing a book on finding lasting happiness, so I'm familiar with the topic :-) Your video is well worth a watch! Regarding the item about having a pet: The significance of this is that humans seek a sense of "connection." This is true even when their thought system's reaction to emotional wounds results in defensive behavior to keep "harm" at bay (e.g., emotional barriers, emotional distancing in the belief that this will prevent a future heartbreak). A person may take a step out of this protective/guarded/distancing state with a pet. because a pet is not judgmental, does not question one's thoughts and actions, and often exhibits what one interprets as affection. So in essence, this feel more like "unconditional love" than what the person might have experienced with other humans. Pets can also be more willing recipients of expressions of affection, rather than "not now" or "I'm busy" etc. Your closing statement is indeed a "Holy Truth". One either creates their own happiness, or they forever seek it, believing they'll find it from external sources. Change your thoughts, change your life!
Yes, l can't get out of my bed , never go outside anywhere, my brother keeps telling me to go sit in the front yard and get 10 mins of sunshine, but l can't even do that , unless it's summer . Goals? My goal everyday is to watch UA-cam videos on the lastest samsung phone, and go on facebook or Twitter to find out what's gonna happen next on my favorite show. I have no job, when l did have jobs l could never stay long in them, max 3 months, cause l always get sick , so I'd either quit , or the Employers would get rid of me. Now as a 42 yo , and still living at home, l'm looking after my 71 year old Schizophrenic mother who can't walk at times. So l'm her Carer getting the Carer Pension and Carer Allowance from Centrelink ( Social security ) . l went to see Psychologist and Psychiatrist years ago, and took the meds they gave me and the one the doctor have me . In the end l felt it was all a a waste of time, l hated it . I stopped seeing them and stopped taking the meds. Was a complete waste of time. They all told me the same things, things l don't wanna do, like for example leave home , as much as l'd like to have my own home, l couldn't do it, no way l'm gonna dump my mum at a mental hospital or a nursing home, even if she does Schizophrenia and Arthritis in her legs and can't walk at times. She only wants me to look after her, not strangers.
I've watched a few videos already, and my overall opinion is that they're well-researched, analyse multiple aspects of a phenomenon, which is good, and show your general intelligence. I truly enjoy the frequent sarcasm;)
Thank you for not filling your channel with bullshit, I really appreciate it. From the voice and editing I judged this video by its cover. (Comparing it to bright side) You guys have great content and your female voice has such a charming unique character (isn't robotic and sounds like she actually cares about what she's talking about) 👍👍
"Reality check, you unique snowflake. The world doesn't owe you shit." These are the most sober, wonderful words I've herd from a youtube channel in a LONG time. You just became a personal favorite.
Wow, I want to hug whoever made this video. Personally, I think the biggest contributor is the expectation versus reality. I think you can entertain yourself through media, but being able to distinguish what's real and what's not is important.
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Alux.com What makes me happy? Trying to enjoy life and not complicate or overthink it. As usual, you are showing that building wealth starts with building a positive mindset.
TRUE WORDS
I'm surprised not to see anything about sex.
Alux.com being successful makes me happy and relaxing and a lot of people that say they are going to do something but they don't Truth. Even I do it sometimes.
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Yes money cannot make you happy but it can afford you many opportunities that can bring happiness in your life.
Super true!!
Money can definitely make me happy.
I want a gaming system, unlimited wifi , 4k tv ,netflix , a chef and a treadmill. With that, I can live happily in a single room for months. Trust me 😊
I Agree I Can buy Lot Of Drugs if I Have Lot of Money
I can’t stand being poor anymore, I can’t fucking deal with it. Been in poverty my whole fucking life and all I have to look forward to is working everyday of my life at a shit fucking foundry or factory job that I can’t even get because of pre employment drug screens for fucking marijuana. I hate how this world works, I just want to fucking die.
Aayush Chandra that’s what wishing for tho...you don’t have it yet..so how do you know for sure
I'm happy I freed myself from the grips of heroin. Been clean for a year now.
Amer Sultan well done I've just read your comment. That's brill hope your still clean. Be proud I've worked in lots of rehab centers and it's not easy. I love reading posts like this. Good for you take care
Hi Amer 😃 hope you are doing well and I hope you are still being clean, I too have rid myself of the demon 18 months now, almost off my meds for it too. Looking back I never thought I'd be able to make it this far. Well done to you, it's a big deal. All the best John 😉
Nice work, man! ☺️👍🏻
well done. may the power protect you
Bravo
Me:
-Wake up
-Work my awful job
- play video games
- Sleep and Repeat
I feel like a zombie. 😩
Start by breaking your PlayStation or Xbox or sale it.
Then read business books like rich dad poor dad and get working. (Heads up, progress will take a while)
Lol, same.
I feel ya. The same cycle everyday it's kinda boring and tiring idk. 😭😭
Doing the same thing every day makes you feel depressed but it’s very easy to get in that stupid cycle
Do go on trips brother,u will feel happy.
1. You think money will make you happy
2. You think just because you were born you deserve to be happy
3. You think that other people should make you happy
4 . you expect life to be like you have seen in movies
5. You watch too much TV
6 . you spend too much time on social network
7. You have bad relationship with your siblings and family
8. You don't own a pet
9. You eat junk food
10. You live in the past
11. You are not decisive enough
12 you surround your self with unhappy people
13 you are scared of trying new things
14 . you hate your job but wouldn't do anything about it
15 . you never meditate
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Why are you describing the list in Second-Person perspective?
Guy: I'm actually at rock bottom. I can't pick up the pieces. My drug addiction has taken complete control and I've lost all custody of the kids. My own parents wont speak to me anymore.
Guy on UA-cam: *D O Y O U E V E N M E D I T A T E B R O?*
zakariya sh hussein thank you！
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How to be happy
Just don't expect a single shit from anyone
You can't rely on others to provide your happiness. They're too busy trying to find it for themselves.
Very True... if you want to be happy.... Tie your life to a GOAL., Everyday will be a day you will want to work up to.
That's more like , how not to be unhappy .
agreed
Harsh Sanket lol that's true
I think money has many things to do with happiness. You said: "Money has to do with comfort, security and freedom". My question is: how can one be happy if he's in an uncomfortable situation, lives in a dangerous and unsecured place, and is not free?! So, I believe maybe money does not necessarily make you happy, but, not having money definitely makes you unhappy and miserable.
Arash Shahin Coming from a poorer individual agreed, you also need it for things like healthy food which is necessary in general but my parents cannot afford it, they are always stressed about being on debt.
true enough
Arash Shahin
Its true i have seen many mr beast videos in which he donated 10000$ to people and they were as happy that they broke their chairs and laughing laudly.
exactly
One factor doesn't define it completely.
I heard Tony Robbins say something like, “the secret to happiness is progress.” That makes a lot of sense to me. If we work on improving our lives (work, family, relationships, money, health, personal growth), then as we start seeing the results of our lives it will make us happy.
Benjamin Garcia i believe there us truth to that
Benjamin Garcia spot on man.
And guess what progress is getting 💰 💰 💰 money makes you happy fuck what alux think
@@kingstonflava5318 Everything is money nowadays. It's true.
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Being around negative people makes me unhappy. That's my number one thing that I avoid.
What if you are forced to be with them
same here
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That’s my problem I’m with negative people
Same
I'm unhappy with my weight but I am WORKING hard on it ❤️❤️❤️🐶
Good luck on crushing that weight! Send us pictures when you get to your desired weight
For me I think I realised that it was making me unhappy being bigger than I wanted to be. And then when I went on a diet I realised that I love chocco sundaes too much. So now I'm healthy but I eat chocco sundaes. I'm big but not too big and I'm ok with that now
best of luck my friend, shouldn't be too hard :D
Emoji Dog good i am with you in this workout i also have same thing
Thank you for all of the support tbh its only like 10lb but it is still difficult 💜🐶
1:50 I'd rather be unhappy in a big ass house (and able to afford therapy) than be unhappy in a shitty, thin walled apartment, with roaches. I live in a decent apartment, and there aren't any bugs and the walls are thick, but you get my point right? lol Money apparently doesn't buy happiness, but I'd sure as hell would like to find out for myself.
If you have the leisure time and resources to be watching this video, you are richer than the majority of people on this planet. I'm clearly one of these people and I'm pretty damned unhappy. By reflection I'd say I'm unhappy because I am VERY self critical and am generally a pessimist. The majority of my family is VERY poor (from a developing country) but my parents happened to make all the right moves in at all the right times and now we are pretty well off and live in a developed country. Regardless I'm a lot less happy than the majority of my poor relatives.
Lol same bro lol
having a relative understanding of what others have is also helpful. when my wife was volunteering as an EMT she saw the inside of a lot of people's homes, and saw how small their common rooms were. we have a large dining and living area, and a cozy kitchen where the 6 of us usually eat together.
she had been unhappy with our house until she saw how so many others were living. and she'd been discontented with herself before realizing that wherever she goes, everyone tells her how nice our kids are.
I don't have the time to watch this video.
I write in my journal every morning ‘“I Choose To Be Happy Today”. And it works!!
Her voice is soothing.
In my life , not knowing when to say no has created an abundance of unhappiness. Learn to say "no" more.
most of my unhappiness is due to my procrastination. towards everything. I don't study for that test until the night before, I didn't tell that girl what I felt about her until she got a boyfriend, I am not focusing on my future right now, even though I know I should.
and also , I always wonder "what if I'm rejected?" or "what if she says she doesn't like me?" these kinds of things.
I am trying to improve, little by little. hope it doesn't take long until I have myself under control, If I might say it that way...
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I read your comment and pray you realize the happiness in life and relationship you desire.
These Alux videos are helpful and will guide you towards your life goals.
Have you tried befriending someone who needs guidance or a mentor? That has proven to give one a sense of joy. Maybe try helping an elderly family member. In other words, seek to help those less fortunate than you and hopefully that action will jumpstart your road to happiness.
If I’m not mistaken you’re name is spelled in Russian & as a ‘Russofile’ & self-taught speaker & cultural all I have to say is ‘do the worst first!’
Btw working on anything, even minor accomplishments produces endorphins (natural ‘high’) to enable you to move forward. Just get started,let the rest take care of itself!
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Yeah that's the same problem with me, procrastination and I am really unhappy now. I just want to do it but can't. I know the consequences but I can't just do it or focus on it. I remember from the morning till midnight I have not smiled once just want to cry 😭😔. I dunno why please help 😭
Lady, I find your no BS straightforward talk to be quite refreshing :)
I'm starting to really appreciate this channel more straight to the point.
Hey Alux, you said money provides security, comfort and freedom. I was never happy when I was feeling insecure, uncomfortable or trapped. So, if someone is unhappy with their millions, put me in touch with them. I will gladly take it off their hands.
Yeah I would like the depressing money
I have been following your videos for quite some time now. While all your videos are awesome, this is probably the best till date. You explained such a complex thing as human happiness in such a lucid easily understandable manner. I have been going through some really unhappy times of late and have been searching in the Internet for ways to lead a happier life. This video of yours is God sent for me. Three things that I liked are 1. If we are not happy when we are poor, we are not going to be happy when we are rich 2. If we are stuck in a screwed up job, don't quit. Rather just hold on and try to get higher education, try to start own business. 3. We don't pursue happiness, we create it. This is what my dad has been telling me since I was a child. He says "If you can't be happy here and now, you can't be happy anytime, anywhere". This video really inspired me, particularly when I am feeling down and was about to give up fighting any more. Thanks a lot. I sincerely pray that God bless you!
"...You don't pursue happiness. You create it..."
@@danamariebangalisan7224 yup, and i think by putting it like that, happiness isn't not garanteed, like searching for anything, finding it isn't garanteed. But when we think it's creatable, then nothing would stop you other than yourself ! And that's a good thing, because one is the first person that it is the fastest to control by oneself :)
People are unhappy because society is so demanding. If a guy is overweight and short and is deprived of intimate/deep social interaction he then becomes insecure and sad. He now he has to work to get in shape in hopes to attract people into his life. What im saying is that if it were ok to be short/overweight/poor etc. People would be happy as is. But they cant because society says you have to be fit, have money, be tall etc. Being happy means trying to fit in even when you cant.
Jay Hayes You must train your brain to forget about society and what they think and expect. I know it's hard but it's doable.
Jay Hayes forgot to mention race and gender?
Nonsense Jones it’s ok if you are ok with it you gotta love your self bro
Ana Martins Every socialy is like that
Nonsense Jones ok
I saw the Haitian Orphan Choir at church the other day. Key word "orphan". Most of these lovely children lost their families in the earthquake a few years ago. Yet they were all absolutely beaming with JOY! Honestly, they were happier than most Americans I know!
Another secret to happiness is practicing thankfulness , for what you already have . At least once a day. This has brought me victory over depression and an overall transformation
I love it how you tell people what they need to know, not what they want to hear. Every channel tries to please people. but you take the channel on a whole new level by keeping this real. I love it Alux! keep it up!
That's what we're all about Mayank & we're lucky to have people like you in our community! Thank you for being an Aluxer!
Thank you for being a virtual mentor Alux... Continuous improvement and small victories will most definitely keep me happy.
Some people are unhappy because they just think they will never be happy and once they start changing this mindset they are getting closer to create their happiness
This video is actually starting to help me get out of my depression
"Money doesn't buy happiness but it buys a waverunner" - Daniel Tosh
Lol, true!
davohsaurus wait what happened to guy? Lol
I'm sure his show wasn't doing so hot so he's probably on tour. Idk if tosh.o is even still on TV. I haven't personally sat down and watched it myself in almost 2 years so you'd know more than me.
Pay off debt as soon as possible, avoid lending money to friends & family, don't smoke, read more, never co-sign on a loan, choose friends & lovers wisely, travel more, if you must marry do it later, invest in a good education, learn about wealth & investing, spend less than you make, take good care of your teeth, eat healthy food, google automatic investing, take more photos, practice positive self talk, volunteer, become a doer, learn to say no, always wear a seat belt, hang out with other successful people, walk in nature, watch more documentaries, find work you love.
... or, it buys a new guitar which helps me bring happiness to others ... which makes me really HAPPY!
I discovered that I am very unhappy ☹️ 😔 as a teenager. Almost all of the following are true for me. I don’t have a good family life. I am really not happy. I love luxury.
that’s what i’m sayin, ik money will fasho make me happy, all i want in life is to be rich
Are you happy now?
I think you guys address your haters too much in your videos. If people don't like what you have to say, they can go elsewhere. No need to justify it in every video.
Pretty sure they tell people who are offended to go to another channel to confirm their own views.
Go elsewhere? No...because I like to think outside of the box...there are some things I agree with her and some things I disagree because I lived that life.
Seeking others approval is something that you can hardly get and it makes me unhappy when I depend on others approval in order to become motivated.
Thank you for the video.
I’m poor
So I don’t have enough money
So I’m not comfortable in life
And I feel insecure
And I’m not free...
So I’m unhappy
Which ultimately means that money will make me happy...
Because once i have money i’m free,comfortable and secure..
Which will bring me confidence..
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i agree with the number 10 that says "you live in the past and continue to go over it " but comon how can you say that you can't expect other people to give you happyness i can give you a lot of examples of this, im happy when a friend sees me on the street and greets me, im happy when i take care of my friends and they recognize me, im happy when my family smiles at me and the list goes on.. Happyness doesnt exist if we go by rules because the human nature doesnt allow it like you said " i want this and then i want that " and still you can't find the pieces to fill the holes that life made on you, but there are moments if there is a way of being trully happy the purest feeling it would be "Love" being it phisical, emotional or any other thing that you wanna call it for me that is when a man or a woman are trully happy when you love yourself, when you love your family, when you love your friends and in the end it doesn't matter any of your problems because you are trully grateful for every single thing that the world gave you..
You don't pursue happiness
You create it
Damn right Zain!
But how
It's the lack of direction that we all go through at some point. The sudden change of events and feeling of helplessness.
Have you ever wished your life could change? Wake up and you lived your dreams?..
put the work in and things will change forever
That's right!
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Not true! You can still end up at zero after you have put in the work. There is just not enough success to go around for everyone in this world. Sorry!
Adele Celeste This is not so.
I have put in the work and nothing.
I am a long time Aluxer and I like it. This type of content is pure gold. You do a good job, keep going! :)
I have the feeling, that I've lost my true friends. Those, who are making me happy. That might be influenced by thinking about everything was better in the past. But I dont think so because they've made me very happy in the past too. I've basically changed school 2014 and graduated this year. I keep thinking now, that I havent used opportunities with my friends. But I was scared often of being rejected and of having the akward moment of being boring and not doing something cool, which is why I didnt spent as much time with them as I would have wanted. I changed school back then because I was being bullied, but now I keep thinking, that it was wrong to change and that I should have walked and gotten through all of that instead of being a "pussy". I just cant look into the future and keep thinking about how many times I've fallen apart and how often I haven't used my time instead of looking in front.
This works because it enlightens unhappy folks. I hope you guys keep Growing massively
Another thing that adds to unhappiness is worrying about your relationship and only to find your partner is making a fool of you and you keep believing he or she will change.
Mxolisi Mashiloane I wish I could like what you've said a thousand times.
Seriously.?? Since last 3 days we was suffering from same issues in family. And I was thing but didn’t search anything on Internet.. just opened UA-cam. And “this video shows up” . You are amazing 🤩 thank you 😊
Happiness is the golden treasure! So let's be happy.
Number 14 got to me. Thank you for touching that topic. People would always say follow your passion what if your passion fetches you only $30 a year? Now you will be more unhappy than you'll ever be.
As a Christian, I really think the church should start to give more hard advice like this besides "Trust God/Pray about it/God has you here for a reason/etc." There is almost a sense that if you aren't where you want to be, you SHOULDN'T do anything, as taking steps would somehow in some way be going against "God's Will" and all that. Personally, I'm tired of it. Thanks for laying this all out. I think another thing that leads to unhappiness is something I do all the time - over analyze everything, and always coming away with a negative conclusion.
WOW!! I JUST LOVE THE PRESENTER OF ALUX, ,SHE IS SO ON POINT, CRITICAL, STRONG AND YET VERY KIND
I really love your chanel i not regret it ever since i have subscribed thanks a lot i appreciate.
This is one of the best channels on UA-cam.
Phew a wonderful self searching video. Very important and no bullshit it Hurts! The Truth Hurts. I don’t need to Pursue Happiness. I need to Create it. Now I am Glad ALUX exist. I rated myself on 5 for each point and scored 47/75. I need to work on point 2, 7, 8, 9 and 15. I definitely need to create a stronger Family Bond. Thank you.😌🙏🏽
"Work Work Work Work Work" - Alux
Love this channel haha
i just cant find the reason why am unhappy , but i think i miss my childhood cause since i ve reached 13 years old, i started feelin bad till now and i really can t be happy no matter what I do , where I go, what I eat,,,,,
I really and litteraly hate my life , i tried countless times to do all the things ppl advice me with : meditation, waking up early ,be healthy , move and do sports,or doing somethin i m passionate about , travel, laugh, but in vain
I just want to go back to my childhood , i think that my main problem and i can t solve it , i tried to move forward like they said but nostalgia keep chasin me , I just live without purpose now , and my biggest fear is to continue and finish my life this way , I feel like I m never gonna be happy again , anyway thanx for the advices up there
Maybe you should ask your friends and family for help... they could give you the support you need
I love it. " The world doesn't owe you shit"
my home full of vintage 2nd hand, my dog, coffee and the newspaper, friends, books, friends, moving at my own speed is what makes me content. happiness comes and goes; its never a constant.
I think I am unhappy because of my past I went through a lot of things I went to meant to physical and sexual abuse with teachers and family members I am 38 years old now and I am trying to get out of this depression whole I have been in this hole for the past 20 years I feel less if I need to move on with my life and keep going I thought money was the answer I thought sex and love is the answer as well but looking at these videos are improving my thoughtsAnd for me to Reconsider my thoughts as to what I want to do I don’t feel like that I am in a place that I should be I don’t think my life is where it should be at the moment at the age of 38 but I think I am going to put my pain behind me and move on to get where I need to be
Allen D
Allen, just the fact that you are here says a lot. there are times when it's just time to turn your back on all that and march forward. Everything you will be is on the road ahead. The you need to build your future, you are carrying with you.
Good luck, man. I hope things improve.
Pray repent forgive and let god find his way withinyou then you are helped but just because youre happy doesnt mean that the enemy wont try your happiness iuic he
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Make sure u have a personal relationship with God he can bring u true happiness. & Happiness doesn't come from money,sex, fortune, or fame it comes from within inside of U! If money could bring happiness all of these famous ppl wouldn't commit suicide then..🤔🤷🏻♀️👌🏽
I like how she's mean and still says the truth as it is... literally the best channel I found today.
Looking back I realized that I have had alot of unhappiness in my life not only from dealing with my current problems and situations now ,but for the last 15 yrs I've been living an unhappy life. I feel that I have lead a very worried life,stressful life,and not alot of happiness. I feel that I really need to make some changes in my life.
If you don't have shoes, look at the person who doesn't have a leg.
Whole of the video, you talk of materialism, mostly. You yourself is yet to understand what it takes to be happy.
You didn't watch the video obviously.
And you have yet learned how to spell
I love the voice and quality of the narrator! Also, thank you for your great content. Keep it up xo
Wow this video blew me away, thank you alux and with this newfound inspiration I can start turning my life around
You're welcome!
Angryeddie14 bullshit
Great advice I enjoyed every bit of it..and sat here agreeing with you..well done😁
Nice video Alux.com. If their was an award for best videos on youtube you would win
That would be awesome!
"You Create It"!!! After the goddess explained this, goosebumps shivered from my face down my neck, along my shoulders to my arms. My fingers are still tingling
To be happy LOVE YOURSELF
Thanks❤✌
It's so damn hard
i have only seen your videos twice and the first one 15 things people learned latter in life is truly amazing same as why you are unhappy thank you so much GOD BLESS
The principle reason is that we aren't meant to be happy; we'd still be living in the trees if happiness was our true goal. No, we are built to strive, for some unobtainable state of Nirvana.
The most spot-on of all your excellent vids. I would add this ingredient as a sure-fire recipe for unhappiness: insisting that people, events and circumstances be other than they are.
I really needed this video
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I didn’t know how to feel about this video until 2:19
LOL
I confess I have now watched this video about a dozen times in 2 days. Such a great list of things I already know or heard- but really needed to hear now in such a concise and clear manner. I finally subbed, as I didn't want to sub to a channel that only did 10 things you didn't know about that one country or what's so great about my watch versus yours. Please keep up the variety! Thanx, B
Me:
Wake up
Work
Social Network
Sleep
The same cycle everyday 🤧😭
I feel like I'm a freakin' robot ☠️😵
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Then maybe it's time 4 a change and find out work or something that makes u happy.🤷🏻♀️👍🏾👌🏽😊
most people same feeling dear
"The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want right now" -Zig Ziglar
"Tell me the reality is better than the dream." - Corey Todd Taylor
Unfortunately, what makes me happy is buying material things and food. My expected are never met with my reality, the reality is never better than what I dream about. I wish there was a way, sure-shot way to change.
This was one of the best videos I have ever seen on UA-cam. I rarely comment, but I had to on this one. Thanks Alux this has given me a lot to think about.
You're welcome.
Can you make a video about *How to control emotions?* and *How to meditate?*
This is one of the best videos to listen to on Alux; to motivate you, to take action to change your life.
first learn reality is dark, then learn not to give a damn
I didn't take your comment seriously first, but wow! It does work
I know someone at my part-time job who is constantly negative and complains about how much she hates the job. Does she do anything about it? No! She just loves to complain. I try to hang around her as little as possible. Even after just a few minutes with her I start to feel negative.
If your happy and you know it say Amen, “Amen.”
Money cannot buy happiness but it buys freedom which is the key to happiness
"You get a fresh start every day, unless you're dumb enough to screw up the little freedom that you have."
Ahem, school.
Sometimes, being afraid that you MIGHT fail holds you back and eventually leads to an unhappy life!
Of all your videos, this was my favourite. Thank You so much!!!
The biggest lie i ever heard ''' if you are not happy when you are poor you will not be happy when you are rich ''''
THE MATRIX KID
*YEAH . THAT'S TOTAL BULLSHIT . THAT'S A HUGE FUCKING LIE . DON'T BELIEVE THAT SHIT . MONEY DEFINITELY MAKES ME HAPPY .*
If I was living in poverty and can't provide etc no opportunity's nothing new can't do anything suddenly got money OooooO no more worrieing about providing and safety comfort things to do you WILL be more happy
Happiness is achieved on the inside but a lot of us look to the outside. Case and point. Most of my life I always looked to partners, jobs and materials for happiness. I'd meet someone new and be happy for a few months but then realize something was missing. I'd get a new job and the same exact thing would happen. New car, house, tv, etc. all the same. I finally took some time to myself and worked on me and what I felt was important to me. What I really enjoyed doing. Then things started to change. I started meeting friends and love interests that were much different than I was used to. They didn't make me overly excited but definitely made me fulfilled. I got a job offer that seemed too good to be true, but it was true. I stopped caring so much about material things. I can't say I feel happy all the time, but I sure am a lot happier than I was just a few years ago. It's all done from the inside.
without money there is no happiness
Faxs
You Right
True
This is one of the best lists you have ever done. Very true.
Another deep video. Much appreciated. I m struggling with No. 11. And almost all the time, I m stuck between what I want and what others in my innercircle want.
90% of the time I do what others want and end up unhapppy. If I do it my way then I m faced with oppression.
To be born as Creator of happiness and President of life is great privilege = THANK YOU ALUX!
Wait a minute....Parents don't owe their children anything? Sounds like advice on how to be a bad parent. Parents owe their children. Plain and simple. If they don't give to their children, they make bad parents. We should abandon bad parents. They are all around us.
worst thing about that sentence is that we didnt choose to be here, but because of them..
This is very insightful! Thank you so much!!!! Really like how you talk about harsh truth - it needs to be said and heard
It's amazing how many people think that money brings happiness rather than realizing that happiness is an internal feeling first regardless of your conditions. You can go to the Philippines, or some other poverty infested country, and you will find children - who have very little opportunity in life when compared to American children - who are running around having a blast while American children stare, like zombies, at their electronic gadgets and sigh like they are about as bored as one could possibly be.
Even so, there are plenty of fools who believe that happiness is determined by your conditions.
Life in the Philippines is cheap, the weather is good, there is little govt control and there is plenty of food and sex even for the poorest of the poor. You can live poor without paying taxes and still have all the basic necessities. It is also a very religious society, with little discrimination and resentment, very communal, into friendship, and peace loving. Their culture, economic and social systems are superb. In the US, there are high taxes, high rents, cold weather, harsh government control and sex is in short supply - for men at least. There is mistrust, loneliness and unfriendliness everywhere. So, it's not just the poverty of the Philippines that creates happiness, but the fact that their society supplies you with all you need even on the lowest rungs of society, whereas in the US, only the rich can enjoy such a lifestyle.
How much crime comes from them after they grew up ?
An attitude of gratitude will make you happy always..
The guys who own this channel must be really happy and rich :/
You dont have to be happy and rich to understand the changes you need to make in your life. As long as you do everything you can in the moment over all of life's moments you will be successful. Take pride in everything you do.
@@BerryMan427 can you explain to me what you mean by 'take pride in everything you do' ?
@@starfedright6362 When you cook in the kitchen do you wipe your stove off after you use it? When your carpet is dirty do you vacuum? When you have garbage do you throw it on the ground or do you put it in a garbage can? So long as day to day you are constantly doing everything in your power to the best of your abilities there is no reason you shouldnt at least be happy with how you carry yourself. Theres always outliers, but that's my outlook.
I know right
I'm writing a book on finding lasting happiness, so I'm familiar with the topic :-) Your video is well worth a watch!
Regarding the item about having a pet: The significance of this is that humans seek a sense of "connection." This is true even when their thought system's reaction to emotional wounds results in defensive behavior to keep "harm" at bay (e.g., emotional barriers, emotional distancing in the belief that this will prevent a future heartbreak). A person may take a step out of this protective/guarded/distancing state with a pet. because a pet is not judgmental, does not question one's thoughts and actions, and often exhibits what one interprets as affection. So in essence, this feel more like "unconditional love" than what the person might have experienced with other humans. Pets can also be more willing recipients of expressions of affection, rather than "not now" or "I'm busy" etc.
Your closing statement is indeed a "Holy Truth". One either creates their own happiness, or they forever seek it, believing they'll find it from external sources. Change your thoughts, change your life!
I'm unhappy because of my pathetic life!
Yes, l can't get out of my bed , never go outside anywhere, my brother keeps telling me to go sit in the front yard and get 10 mins of sunshine, but l can't even do that , unless it's summer .
Goals? My goal everyday is to watch UA-cam videos on the lastest samsung phone, and go on facebook or Twitter to find out what's gonna happen next on my favorite show.
I have no job, when l did have jobs l could never stay long in them, max 3 months, cause l always get sick , so I'd either quit , or the Employers would get rid of me. Now as a 42 yo , and still living at home, l'm looking after my 71 year old Schizophrenic mother who can't walk at times. So l'm her Carer getting the Carer Pension and Carer Allowance from Centrelink ( Social security ) .
l went to see Psychologist and Psychiatrist years ago, and took the meds they gave me and the one the doctor have me . In the end l felt it was all a a waste of time, l hated it . I stopped seeing them and stopped taking the meds. Was a complete waste of time. They all told me the same things, things l don't wanna do, like for example leave home , as much as l'd like to have my own home, l couldn't do it, no way l'm gonna dump my mum at a mental hospital or a nursing home, even if she does Schizophrenia and Arthritis in her legs and can't walk at times. She only wants me to look after her, not strangers.
I've watched a few videos already, and my overall opinion is that they're well-researched, analyse multiple aspects of a phenomenon, which is good, and show your general intelligence. I truly enjoy the frequent sarcasm;)
Not sure why I am watching this. I am happy and I know what makes me happy and not.
Thank you for not filling your channel with bullshit, I really appreciate it.
From the voice and editing I judged this video by its cover. (Comparing it to bright side)
You guys have great content and your female voice has such a charming unique character (isn't robotic and sounds like she actually cares about what she's talking about) 👍👍
Very very good video, thank you ALUX!❤️
You're welcome!
This video changed my mind. Ive been having some hard times and this video has explained each and every single one of them. Thanks a lot. Loved it!
+ahmed muhamed happy to help!
Alux you guys are Awesome this is my favorite UA-cam channel because your content is straight up
Jose Mendoza it’s unrealistic and bullshit and thinks people are gullible and stupid
"Reality check, you unique snowflake. The world doesn't owe you shit."
These are the most sober, wonderful words I've herd from a youtube channel in a LONG time. You just became a personal favorite.
Money doesn't make you happy but a Lamborghini does.
temporarily.
Wow, I want to hug whoever made this video. Personally, I think the biggest contributor is the expectation versus reality. I think you can entertain yourself through media, but being able to distinguish what's real and what's not is important.
This channel is best..!!👍
Totally agree!
No Bull....! Great tips and info in this video! Looking forward to using this info right away.