This video was a perfect example of what most men have to deal with. Women don’t take or respond to criticism well! A man can be absolutely correct in expressing a flaw or negative that a woman possesses and even though he’s right, it almost never ends well. Most men know this up front and will refrain from immediately addressing an issue unless it’s absolutely necessary. We will usually wait until cooler heads prevail or just let it pass altogether. Another issue brought up in this video is how most women will almost never take responsibility for a failed relationship. I’ve had multiple female friends comes to me with that, “All men……”, line only for me to point out to them, “No, it’s not all men. It’s all men YOU choose!” I had to make the see that in reality, they kept choosing the same man over and over again!
We can say that women are like this bro clearly they can't control them selves been watching alot of videos here, they do the same, I would these 2 guys to bring different well cawl type women that have whatever your show criteria requires n let us see they gonna scream also, I didn't hear a thing in these women, This is exactly how most women are, they can't talk normally when engaging a man in a normal conversation, They are always yelling, as if these 2 men are saying they are saying wrong something of which they not . I deeply understand the female bahavior of not wanting to so cawl like we do most of us. They think we trying to act smart but we not. It's just normal for to talk calw we see no point at all, This can be a greate show for me, if only we can have cawl girls these girls are not thinking they jumping on the topic without reasoning first. So boring though if another can listen to you then why can't they listen too to the guys
This is exactly why men want to avoid confrontation. Women do not like to listen and let a man finish his point, then respond. I've been married for 26 years we Do NOT interrupt each other. If she does, she gets checked which I rarely have to do.
I'm glad they brought this clip back. Let's take a moment and appreciate how Oliver took what Rico said and understood instead of getting wrapped up. This would be the difference where men must speak this way to one another, respectfully, while being realistic.
They spend more time fighting to be heard than actually speaking about the issues. You can see how much trauma is in that one little circle. Everyone has the answers but all the answers are different.
Yep non relatable responses from the group of women. The want to be right with or without logic is strong indeed almost a force to be reckon with indeed.
True they have ovwerblown egos and no humility or discipline. None of them can allow someone to complete their thought. They need a strong parental figure to moderate this panel and guide their lives.
Noticed how Rico said directly to the women they are hard-headed and the women barked and all talked at a time over him. That right there proves they are hard-headed cause instead of listening and grasping what he's saying they rather overtalk, argue, and lie to each other, or come up with a crazy oddball scenario like it really happened.
correct the will to be right without logical responses. Women in safe space groups such as this bunch have to be a emotionally draining. Toxic women refuse logic and reason by not listing. imagine that. SMH
The issue with these types of discussions will always be, that this is a two way street conversation being held down a one way. When men speak up on the things that need to change, things that happen, issues within the situation? It always turns into the men. Not for better clarification, but to just shift blame and make it men’s faults
Facts. That's why I ideally would never want to get into an argument or heated discussion with a woman ever again, because they can even agree with you, but are too triggered to have a clear, biased, logical discussion. And they can often contradict themselves or just deny facts. Women have a proclivity for manipulation. Never trust what they say. Observe their actions. That's why it's not worth getting into any deep sort of convo with them.
VVomen fail to accept any accountability for where they fall short. Especially our bw. That 24% marriage rate of bw will fall to single digits very soon…
They’re not in a conversation to listen they’re in a conversation to talk. They couldn’t wait for him to finish his statement only to prove him right. Exactly the reason why men don’t say how they truly feel just to avoid an argument.
I'm 43, I've had 2 real relationships second one was a marriage. I dont even comprehend how women run around having double digit relationships and act like it has nothing to do with them. Women have the options all they have to do is pick based off the right criteria. When I was single I didnt act like the women I had sex with were my woman. These women have sex act like it's a relationship then blame the man who was never faithful to them.
2:58 That's because he tried to talk to her BEFORE and she was confrontational! He tried to confide in her about something, maybe two or three times, and she responded confrontational. That is the reason why he doesn't want to go through the headache. This lady gave the answer in her own response to why men do what they do. This is a perfect example of modern women not only listening to men, but not listening to what they say, which gives them their answers and solutions. They refuse to hold any accountability.
Rico on point. Hopefully, this lady will shut up and listen. Outside of a successful relationship you have take a break and learn something new. Our results say a lot about us.
If the two people are not compatible or meant to be together its not a "failed relationship" its one that never should have taken place in the first place... The issue with most alleged failed relationships is that they were never a good choice to begin with.
Majority of men, 60%- 80%, of men speak their mind. Even man to man. If he doesn't address an issue it simple a peaceful decision. He is choosing to retain his peace. But that doesn't negate his problem solving. He could be planning an exit. Especially if he is logically sound enough to know that a grown woman knows bad behavior is non-conducive for relationship growth & effecting his demeanor.
My only thought about this is we as a people need to understand that if everybody is talking at the same time, regardless of the point they want to make, does not help the discussion or allow understanding. Moderators would be nice
Britney Renner thinks it is more so the guys that she chose to sleep withs fault that she is where she is at instead of blaming herself for making bad decisions. She is the mascot of failing to keep a high status rapper
This podcast would genuinely improve if they didn't talk over eachother. Everybody has solid points and they all essentially agree with eachother but every episode everyone cuts eachother off. At moments there are times of peace and clarity but the arguing adds a lot of confusion and takes away from the overall message. Some episodes are better than others when it comes to letting everyone talk but some really are just 10-15-20 minutes of arguing and the message doesn't get through and its leads to a lot of misunderstanding and misinforms the people watching.
I'm 40 with no kids and I never been married never been in a serious relationship you ain't calling me no lame or no buster I just know who I am and I know who y'all is your unworthy
First, we must establish a communication protocol in our relationships. Active listening is a skill that must be practiced. Then there’s emotional intelligence! You can’t clearly hear or understand if your emotions are in the way.
I've met personally the Dr. who was a pioneer in the "emotional intelligence" movement in psychology and let me say it's bullshit. He did make a lot of money on books and seminars though.
Some of us are single because having sex no longer requires marriage/relationship. It's funny how women can choose to single & it's okay but a man choosing to be single means something is wrong with him🤣
At the end I figured out that we just have to start telling me and women stop doing mean things and saying mean things in order to get attention. Because that is the real disease that ends relationships
when they start off with "do you FEEL like", deal in reals not feels (feelings) Men dont have the luxury of living in feelings we have to be tactical and logical about everything!!
It's true....if I point anything negative about my significant other its always a problem. She will either interpret what I'm saying as an insult or she will revert the issue back on me. Kevin samuels said it best, "accountability is like Kryptonite to women."
How these women don’t understand men and women are different. There is not a single reason for a man to get married in 2022. Marriage is not a man measure of success, it’s a woman’s.
I would say that the biggest issue is first, knowing that you are likely the source of your problems. The next part, the part that holds you back is twofold: Being too lazy to want to address the issues, because it's serious work, something you lack the willpower to do. The next part is dealing with the fear of what skeletons you'll have to dig up, in order to address the issues..... negative emotions are enough to make anyone steer to avoid, even if they know that they could end up in a better place from having done so.
I wanted to be be behind one of the guys based on the “knowing about your toxicity” topic but none of what either dude said have any legitimate takeaways. Erin was the only one that was close enough to making an informed statement on it. For some reason they just chose to ignore it.
I couldn't have ever sat in on this discussion. I don't like to be cut off while I'm talking for one, and I'm not going to walk on eggshells, I'm a say what I got to say whether you like it or not. #2, if a man feels like he has to walk on egg shells he's with the wrong woman. And they need to stop throwing that "toxic" word around so loosely. The word for the year is #Accountability
If someone had 8 different jobs in 8 years, is it alwas the employers fault? TF outta here. Some woman lost the peer bonding ability. Rico that dude, stay strong young King
It’s so crazy that when the men were even describing what men THEMSELVES are doing wrong after clearly self reflecting.. the women STILL tell them they wrong lmfao. You can’t make this shit up.
What does a single 40 year old woman with 5 inch red nails knows about relationships? She can't even keep a man yet has an opinion on how to talk to men
He really doesn’t know what happens in his friend’s conversations with their women. We think and communicate differently. There is no way I can speak on the type of wives my friends are, I can only speak on if she is a good woman & he can only say he’s a good man. Good or successful in business doesn’t make you a good partner. That goes for everyone. We shouldn’t be up close and personal in our friends’ marriages/relationships.
They didn't even absorb the words Rico said before jumping down his throat! This is exactly what he's talking about! No listening skills!
Man it’s so tiring how women just dismiss our words and feelings and then say with a straight face that we don’t open up or talk to them smh!
Then when dudes leave or shut down they wonder whats going on......
Ready to refute
He’s a CLOWN!! 🤡 🤡🤡🤡
That behavior is childish af. 😂
This video was a perfect example of what most men have to deal with. Women don’t take or respond to criticism well! A man can be absolutely correct in expressing a flaw or negative that a woman possesses and even though he’s right, it almost never ends well. Most men know this up front and will refrain from immediately addressing an issue unless it’s absolutely necessary. We will usually wait until cooler heads prevail or just let it pass altogether.
Another issue brought up in this video is how most women will almost never take responsibility for a failed relationship. I’ve had multiple female friends comes to me with that, “All men……”, line only for me to point out to them, “No, it’s not all men. It’s all men YOU choose!” I had to make the see that in reality, they kept choosing the same man over and over again!
We can say that women are like this bro clearly they can't control them selves been watching alot of videos here, they do the same,
I would these 2 guys to bring different well cawl type women that have whatever your show criteria requires n let us see they gonna scream also, I didn't hear a thing in these women,
This is exactly how most women are, they can't talk normally when engaging a man in a normal conversation, They are always yelling, as if these 2 men are saying they are saying wrong something of which they not .
I deeply understand the female bahavior of not wanting to so cawl like we do most of us. They think we trying to act smart but we not. It's just normal for to talk calw we see no point at all,
This can be a greate show for me, if only we can have cawl girls these girls are not thinking they jumping on the topic without reasoning first. So boring though if another can listen to you then why can't they listen too to the guys
They proved his point immediately.
What gets me is how they try to answer questions directed to the man like they’re the man
Right 😂
first 10 seconds
On God!
@Butterfly Mage IMMEDIATELY!!!😂😂
How is it, that when women’s behavior is the topic...it never stays on the topic? Ever.
It NEVER STAYS on them EVER!
Accountability
“ women don” t listen “
* instant emotional talking*
Man: "Women don't listen."
Woman two seconds into him saying that: "I find that to be.:
Instantly proving his point
This is exactly why men want to avoid confrontation. Women do not like to listen and let a man finish his point, then respond. I've been married for 26 years we Do NOT interrupt each other. If she does, she gets checked which I rarely have to do.
He could barely get a few words before the snapping turtle went off. 8 failed relationships after 2 you need some self reflection!!!
that would take self awareness ; and living in reality when all women hold each others hands its tough
@@TheAwe50me big facts straight hope-ium and fantasies
They immediately proved him right without hesitation 🤣.
If someone has multiple failed relationships the only common denominator is themselves.
I'm glad they brought this clip back. Let's take a moment and appreciate how Oliver took what Rico said and understood instead of getting wrapped up. This would be the difference where men must speak this way to one another, respectfully, while being realistic.
They spend more time fighting to be heard than actually speaking about the issues. You can see how much trauma is in that one little circle. Everyone has the answers but all the answers are different.
Yep non relatable responses from the group of women.
The want to be right with or without logic is strong indeed almost a force to be reckon with indeed.
True they have ovwerblown egos and no humility or discipline. None of them can allow someone to complete their thought. They need a strong parental figure to moderate this panel and guide their lives.
Noticed how Rico said directly to the women they are hard-headed and the women barked and all talked at a time over him. That right there proves they are hard-headed cause instead of listening and grasping what he's saying they rather overtalk, argue, and lie to each other, or come up with a crazy oddball scenario like it really happened.
correct the will to be right without logical responses.
Women in safe space groups such as this bunch have to be a emotionally draining.
Toxic women refuse logic and reason by not listing. imagine that. SMH
The issue with these types of discussions will always be, that this is a two way street conversation being held down a one way. When men speak up on the things that need to change, things that happen, issues within the situation? It always turns into the men. Not for better clarification, but to just shift blame and make it men’s faults
I am at the point of not wanting to hear women talk anymore. Stop giving them a microphone.
Facts. That's why I ideally would never want to get into an argument or heated discussion with a woman ever again, because they can even agree with you, but are too triggered to have a clear, biased, logical discussion. And they can often contradict themselves or just deny facts. Women have a proclivity for manipulation. Never trust what they say. Observe their actions. That's why it's not worth getting into any deep sort of convo with them.
It’s not a two way street. Women create the atmosphere for their own chaos.
8 failed relationships:
"If everywhere you go there is a problem, then maybe you are the problem going everywhere."
No
VVomen fail to accept any accountability for where they fall short. Especially our bw. That 24% marriage rate of bw will fall to single digits very soon…
They’re not in a conversation to listen they’re in a conversation to talk. They couldn’t wait for him to finish his statement only to prove him right. Exactly the reason why men don’t say how they truly feel just to avoid an argument.
Lmfao the way the camera moves from him to her when he said women are hard headed and don’t listen lmfao
They can never have a flowing productive dialogue because all they do is talk over each other smh
Exactly.
I could not help but notice the entire cast was wearing animal print.
"Captain Obvious" over here 🤣
Looking like they ready to be put on the Trac.....
They're wearing uniforms.
it's a wild discussion
Afrikaaaans
Facts bro , hardheaded and don’t listen 😅
Exactly and they don’t understand most men don’t hit a stable place financially until they are older smh
Grown adults need to take accountability for there actions and stop playing the blame game all the time it's not a one way it goes both ways
Thank you. Finally someone who make sense. Thank you. This shhh is sad!!!
4:30 yes there are some of us that’s just single for our own good and not toxic
These creatures dont even listen, they hear and reply😂 no understanding at all
I'm 43, I've had 2 real relationships second one was a marriage. I dont even comprehend how women run around having double digit relationships and act like it has nothing to do with them. Women have the options all they have to do is pick based off the right criteria. When I was single I didnt act like the women I had sex with were my woman. These women have sex act like it's a relationship then blame the man who was never faithful to them.
Rico be talking that Ish 🔥🔥💪🏾💪🏾
2:58 That's because he tried to talk to her BEFORE and she was confrontational! He tried to confide in her about something, maybe two or three times, and she responded confrontational. That is the reason why he doesn't want to go through the headache. This lady gave the answer in her own response to why men do what they do. This is a perfect example of modern women not only listening to men, but not listening to what they say, which gives them their answers and solutions. They refuse to hold any accountability.
Rico on point. Hopefully, this lady will shut up and listen. Outside of a successful relationship you have take a break and learn something new. Our results say a lot about us.
Erin never makes a good point she loses herself in her own examples
If the two people are not compatible or meant to be together its not a "failed relationship" its one that never should have taken place in the first place... The issue with most alleged failed relationships is that they were never a good choice to begin with.
These women are beyond help. Don't argue. Leave them alone.
She proved women don’t listen 5 secs in his comment. He only said 4 words. Amazing.
Majority of men, 60%- 80%, of men speak their mind. Even man to man. If he doesn't address an issue it simple a peaceful decision. He is choosing to retain his peace. But that doesn't negate his problem solving. He could be planning an exit. Especially if he is logically sound enough to know that a grown woman knows bad behavior is non-conducive for relationship growth & effecting his demeanor.
Damn 10 seconds until the video and you already proving his point 🤣🤣🤣
How y’all not get a headache repeating yourself when they not gon listen 😭
I think I got more anxiety than anything from this 🤣😭
My only thought about this is we as a people need to understand that if everybody is talking at the same time, regardless of the point they want to make, does not help the discussion or allow understanding. Moderators would be nice
Britney Renner thinks it is more so the guys that she chose to sleep withs fault that she is where she is at instead of blaming herself for making bad decisions. She is the mascot of failing to keep a high status rapper
15:00 Jordy did exactly what she was explaining she’s practicing what she preaches 😅
No one can get their point across or hear alternative perspectives on a topic if they’re all shouting over each other.
This podcast would genuinely improve if they didn't talk over eachother. Everybody has solid points and they all essentially agree with eachother but every episode everyone cuts eachother off. At moments there are times of peace and clarity but the arguing adds a lot of confusion and takes away from the overall message. Some episodes are better than others when it comes to letting everyone talk but some really are just 10-15-20 minutes of arguing and the message doesn't get through and its leads to a lot of misunderstanding and misinforms the people watching.
one of the reasons I stopped watching and just stumbled on this one. Also, the immature mindsets of the hosts and repeat topics reshuffled.
It's too chaotic. Typical of effeminate spaces. Reason why women can't lead or provide solutions
They need less people on the panel and a strong moderator. They are too caught up with hearing their own voices.
I'm 40 with no kids and I never been married never been in a serious relationship you ain't calling me no lame or no buster I just know who I am and I know who y'all is your unworthy
First, we must establish a communication protocol in our relationships. Active listening is a skill that must be practiced. Then there’s emotional intelligence! You can’t clearly hear or understand if your emotions are in the way.
Actually, first we need to take the microphone away from women. No more attention.
I've met personally the Dr. who was a pioneer in the "emotional intelligence" movement in psychology and let me say it's bullshit. He did make a lot of money on books and seminars though.
@@slardebard women love beautiful lies. They hate just the truth.
Some of us are single because having sex no longer requires marriage/relationship. It's funny how women can choose to single & it's okay but a man choosing to be single means something is wrong with him🤣
Honesty I agree with the last chick more than anyone victimhood is a defense mechanism for continuing toxic behavior facts
He made his point and they immediately proved him right and they couldn't even comprehend it...
These don’t listen to understand they listen to respond it’s exhausting it makes men what to shutdown
Wow these ladies are absolutely unreal
Let's gooo brothers. Great points. 👍🏿
City girls will always be combative 🥴
Listening to these is like listening to fingernails on chalkboard
No man in his right mind will voluntarily start an argument with a contentious woman.
Its crazy the lengths people go to to avoid accountability. If you know you have a problem stay alone, dont go around hurting people.
Rico: "You not even a man"🤭
You couldn't pay me to date any of these women!! Rico is 100% correct!!
At the end I figured out that we just have to start telling me and women stop doing mean things and saying mean things in order to get attention. Because that is the real disease that ends relationships
when they start off with "do you FEEL like", deal in reals not feels (feelings) Men dont have the luxury of living in feelings we have to be tactical and logical about everything!!
Men if you’re always walking on eggshells it’s not going to work.
Jordyn took Oliver's response over with disrespect. Wow!
Bro was spot on 🎯
She proved his point nuff said
Thanks my dude
Legend has it to this day …
that he is still trying to speak without getting cut off ..
In this, it’s very interesting to see that Erin is the least self-aware person speaking
Where’s the full link to this?
That “friend” bit was cold. I must know know the whole story.
When she said it’s something wrong with you when you’re in your 30’s means it’s something wrong with you 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ she sounds ignorant.
The lost table lol
They are the perfect example what Rico said,the moment he said they displayed what he just said
It's true....if I point anything negative about my significant other its always a problem. She will either interpret what I'm saying as an insult or she will revert the issue back on me. Kevin samuels said it best, "accountability is like Kryptonite to women."
I'm 42 and I'm single. I'm taking care of my health, my bank statement are looking good and I'm living stress free! 😎🤙🏽
How these women don’t understand men and women are different. There is not a single reason for a man to get married in 2022. Marriage is not a man measure of success, it’s a woman’s.
I would say that the biggest issue is first, knowing that you are likely the source of your problems. The next part, the part that holds you back is twofold: Being too lazy to want to address the issues, because it's serious work, something you lack the willpower to do. The next part is dealing with the fear of what skeletons you'll have to dig up, in order to address the issues..... negative emotions are enough to make anyone steer to avoid, even if they know that they could end up in a better place from having done so.
Proved his point 8 seconds into it.
They thought the man Oliver was on their side. Whoops 😂😂😂
@8 At The Table
Notice, when Rico stated the truth that women don't listen, do you hear the noise in response to him delivering the truth?
They never look for the common denominator!
I wanted to be be behind one of the guys based on the “knowing about your toxicity” topic but none of what either dude said have any legitimate takeaways. Erin was the only one that was close enough to making an informed statement on it. For some reason they just chose to ignore it.
Why the hell is everybody wearing animal print 😂
I couldn't have ever sat in on this discussion. I don't like to be cut off while I'm talking for one, and I'm not going to walk on eggshells, I'm a say what I got to say whether you like it or not. #2, if a man feels like he has to walk on egg shells he's with the wrong woman. And they need to stop throwing that "toxic" word around so loosely. The word for the year is #Accountability
They couldn’t wait they interrupting him exactly what he speaking
Immediately they all talk over each other and interrupt.
They never let a
man finish a sentence in these conversations.
This in itself shares that most women don’t listen.
Rico hit on the head everyone else was just rambling
This show clearly needs a mediator…lol. 😂😂
Admittance is the first step, and most ppl stay stuck there because they don't work or the solution
Late 30'S and single is an issue for women not men
LARGE FACTS
If a woman is not fertile....she find a guy who is not potent or has a vasctomy.
She will need to marry a much older man..
Kevin Samuels was direct and these very same chix thought he was the devil. 🤦🏿♂️
10 sec in "women don't listen" women proceeds to interrupt = point proven *signing off
If someone had 8 different jobs in 8 years, is it alwas the employers fault? TF outta here. Some woman lost the peer bonding ability. Rico that dude, stay strong young King
Women prove him right every time🤣🤣🤣
....A LOT more if us are ready to give up on relationships because of THIS!
It’s so crazy that when the men were even describing what men THEMSELVES are doing wrong after clearly self reflecting.. the women STILL tell them they wrong lmfao. You can’t make this shit up.
I couldn’t deal with that young girl lmao nobody can get a word in around her
If she had a lot of failed relationships there is a common denominator somewhere.
What does a single 40 year old woman with 5 inch red nails knows about relationships? She can't even keep a man yet has an opinion on how to talk to men
Oliver better not ever go to prison he gonna be watching somebody under pants lol
0:07 and thats all he needed to prove his point.
He really doesn’t know what happens in his friend’s conversations with their women. We think and communicate differently. There is no way I can speak on the type of wives my friends are, I can only speak on if she is a good woman & he can only say he’s a good man. Good or successful in business doesn’t make you a good partner. That goes for everyone. We shouldn’t be up close and personal in our friends’ marriages/relationships.