I Will SHAME YOU To Win My Argument! - The Things We Have To Go Through
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
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She met him fighting on a bus, but was surprised he was toxic... foh
🤣
Soon as home girl wouldn’t say how old she was, she knew the game was over. Can’t even count how many times I’ve heard this exact story and the women always push the blame on to something else, 90% of the time it’s their age or they completely blame the man. Don’t get me wrong it is the mans fault for putting his hands on a female but I’m sorry I can never understand why a women would stay in that situation. Maybe if the girl is young and the man is older with a lot of status, then I can kinda understand why a women would stay.
He was breaking up the fight
Yeah in her defense she definitely implied he was breaking up the fight
Anyone who willingly gets into a physical altercation … on THE BUS 😹 is a walking red flag
Accusing a man of violence because he said something you don't like is child behavior.
@stephenfoster1257 it’s her “truth” .. Your asking for introspection and accountability. She was punched into a bush and undercover police happened to pass by !! 🤦🏾♀️
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Very Childish Ahahaha 🤣🤣🤣
She's not a victim, she's a volunteer.
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😂😂😂😂 the internet is undefeated
Followed by a liar
I think she's lying. We are only hearing her side. She's leaving something out.
DAMMMNN
No accountability whatsoever, just shame us into accepting your behavior.
She was lying about her age, she wasn’t a kid she was probably around 26 at that time.
Lolllllll, Facts 🙌🏾
I think she was underage and should not have been with him in the first place
Hot take…people develop at different paces. There are of 20-somethings completely indistinguishable from high school freshman. If she’s calling herself a child she probably feels like one in hindsight. A lot of the redpilled nerds and hyper leftist SJWs are going to feel the same way ten years from now.
Got abused after 9 months, yet stayed for 3yrs. Ridiculous, I don't care what the age is.
The fighting on the bus situation was viewed in her delusional mind as “a knight in shining armor” 😂🤦🏾♂️
Correct.
This is what it sounds like when an abusive woman lies and pretends it was him abusing her.
But it was almost deffo 2 way abuse.
THAT'S why she stayed.
Never trust the ones in those hoodies. Definitely has bad pH
@@bensheard3969 🤣
@@bensheard3969 woooow shots fired😂
@@alexanderblake3569 You gotta give em the finger test👀 ifykyk
@@bensheard3969 😂😂😂
"I was abused." "we are now best friends"
Kevin Samuels: You can't make this S4it up.
Be accountable for your age. She knows she was over 18 years old but said she was too young. Lol.
Facts
you still make dumb incoherent decisions at 18 lmao people mature at different stages and often based from their experiences, it would be kinda different if she was mid 20's/30s
He was a bad boy for 3 years straight? Claim you don’t like bad boys
He proved he was a bad boy, Broke up with him for being a bad boy , but still in contact with him? Claim you don’t like bad boys
Pictures of him in your phone still ? Yes. Claim you don’t like bad boys
Pearls pods like….who are you tryna convince me or yourself lol
yeah i am thinking how stupid do you need to be to stay in a bad situation for 3 years? thats waaay to long. She dont want solutions she wants to be the victim but your not a victim if you let others do shitty things to you and you dont get out of that situation. You just dumb.
She's a liar. Plain and simple.
exactly…she’s the kind of chick you got to be very careful with the type that if your honest with her she will lie to herself.
Broad is batshit crazy falling for a dude that had a fight on a bus.
He intervened in a fight
Bruh pay attention can you hear???? He broke it up
Lol true that made no sense 🤣🤣🤣
She stayed 3 years after 9months.. She stried to manipulate the man and then claimed toxic. You can tell by the sweatpants, long nails etc..
I had a FWB say to me one time she met a super nice guy. Then a couple of weeks later, mentioned him again. I said to her "after smashing lol" Why don't you go out on a date with him since he's so nice?
I can't.
Why not?
He's doing 3 to 5 in prison for selling crack lol
WHAT? if he's in prison for selling crack he's NOT a nice guy!
NO, just because he sells drugs doesn't mean he can't be a nice guy!!
WTF?
“After smashing lol” in that sentence should be in parenthesis, not quotes. And i call bs on your story. She couldn’t meet him while he’s in prison.
@@coltonsmith3724 You can call BS all you want, she could have met him before he went in.......or even before he was charged. She never said WHEN she met him......and I didn't bother to ask because it is irrelevant.
For all I know he could have plead guilty to a lessor charge and there was no trial.
You might want to put your thinking cap on before calling anything. Remember the saying: it is better to be thought a fool than to post and remove all doubt.
@@muskokamike127
Either way crack addict and dealer is not a good person
@@deidresable Yup! I had it out with a local woman about a post in our town's facebook group. A local crack head was caught (for the 12th time) breaking into cars for money to support her habit.
Many women were all "oh that poor soul, she needs help not jail" and I said "so help her, bring her into your home and support her" NOOOO we need to get her into the government programs"!!!
I said "no, we don't have the money for that, tell me: there's a woman who has 2 kids, working to support them, needs $1000 for the last month's rent on an apartment with 2 bedrooms, who are you going to spend that money on, the crack head criminal or her"?
Know what the tw*t said? THE CRACKHEAD OF COURSE!!!!
You can't fix stupid.
ZERO accountability. Everyone has issues, so you MUST put up with mine.
[ WARNING ⚠️ ]
IF A WOMAN MENTIONS ANYTHING ON THIS LIST IN A CONVERSATION, WALK AWAY IMMEDIATELY...
Woman's argument arsenal:
1- but
2- however
3- who hurt you
4- not every (insert noun) does
5- what about men
6- women's rights
7- I learned
8- I didn't know
9- what I've seen
10- I feel
Again if any woman mentions any argumentative point from this list while you are speaking with them immediately stop, and walk away. whenever any one of these phrases comes out of her mouth you instantly should know that she no longer cares about what's right, but only cares about how she's right, and your WRONG...
put 'I feel' at No 1!
I agree with everything you said but I’ll add
They are only focused on WINNING the argument. They no longer care about
1) finding any truth,
2) being corrected on their errors,
3)being educated about men
4) being honest
They’ll
1) insert “what about isms”
2) make up stories as they go “they always conviently know/or don’t know many people that support whatever they’re trying to argue
3) not admit to blatantly known things that paint them in a negative light
4) have convenient cognitive dissonance in which they act like that can’t understand basic concepts, to them IMMEDIATELY say how smart/educate s they are
Yip, this is unfortunately true
Also:
11-you are generalising
12-you are judging
Word. Looks like u finna be in monk mode dude.😏
Blue teletubby chick is a perfect example of a red flag when information is withheld. It’s very easy to just walk away men. Don’t try to understand. Just identify and make the logical choice.
It's hilarious because women wanna talk about being aggressive but they don't even know what real aggression is and when they use that argument they're only embarrassing themselves.
💯💯💯💯 women are always the aggressive and society allows it. But the only problem here is this guy is emotional AF he's shouting for no reason we're not dumb we can see it and hear him but for some reason we're choosing to ignore it
@@acetrap when they dont understand simple things its really annoying. I would be yelling too. Its basically: i have an apple, i see an apple, they see an apple, i say its an apple and they argue its a banana. Annoying and it gets me mad.
@@tuinov6286 bro 100 percent women pretend to act dumb and play victim to get their way its annoying and I'm bored of it. However this guy isnt a good representation of masculinity he's an emotional mess he gets angry even when nothings has happened yet
Ladies your new guy is not responsible for your past bad decisions. That's why we are very particular about your body counts
She is lying about something 🤣🤣🤣
She has more caps than MLB
A "toxic" guy he met on a bus fighting someone...is a nice guy. 🤔
Then says you did not know how bad he was until he beats her...then covers parts of the story, (like her age at the time which is highly sus), and he later gets arrested for domestic abuse. 😐
You can't make this ish up. 😑
She's wearing a onesie in her thirties, I wouldn't be surprised if it was a few months before this
I think she covered it because she was a minor and he was an older guy. Smfh
She accepted being his GF for 3 years, got Ab'ed for a significant amount of their relationship, it only stopped becuz an Undie saw her get tossed into a bush, she's back with him sort of, she doesn't want to disclose the age but is happy to talk about all else he has or hasn't done for or to her and for himself. He's non-black and he gave her a ring that she didn't want but she likes she knows it's still a relative possibility of marriage.
Nobody asked her any of what she disclosed. If we know how old she is now, it shouldn't be that hard to figure out how old she was (because now it matters; she made it matter) - her age now and his age or his age back then should give us a clearer view of how old was young 😅🤦🏾♂️😂🤣
What's an undie?
@@Anthony90026 undercover
I just get nonce and grooming vibes 😂
Someone always has to bear the costs of bad decisions.
Right now for example, there's a huge huge push for people to go to therapy. And people who have gone and shared their problems with their therapist, have been going out there and encouraging others to do the same. However, even that comes with a cost. There's a concept in therapy known as Vicarious Trauma or Compassion Fatigue, where therapists basically become exhausted by absorbing the trauma and negative emotions that their clients dump in their lap (which is often what they have to do to not appear judgemental, unempathetic or dismissive) in order to help them feel better.
At least in the case of the therapist, they are compensated. However, these women want to dump all the baggage that comes with their bad decisions on their man's lap, and believe they're entitled to it. They don't realize how exhausting and how much compassion fatigue that their own men carry simply dealing with their problems, which is part of the reason why they don't share their own traumas with women, because they know how exhausting it is being on the other side of the issue.
If you're not good at handling your own trauma on your own, it makes the most sense that you work hard to avoid it as much as possible. Since the person most qualified to deal with trauma with the least amount of ripple effects is the person who experienced it and knows themselves the best. Everything else is not really a solution, but passing your trauma on to other people and dispersing it among them, while they still have theirs to deal with.
Beautifully written
Please get her ex on the show. I can’t wait to hear his version of the abuse in their relationship.
Bro these women are the toxic ones...they are horrible horrible people. If he was that bad why did she continue being "friends" aka he still smashes her?!
That should be a standard question. Where is your abusive ex can we call him? WE would like to get his version
She was 28 at the time🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"I was a kid then!" "How old were you?" "were not going to get into that."
Oh yes the hell we are sweetie. If you are 18 and over, you gotta take responsibility for you part of failed relationships. If you cant recognize that after beating you, you should leave asap, then you have to take some responsibility for what happened. Its not right for him to do that, but staying for three years doesnt give me any sympathy for you. Its not easy leaving an abusive relationship, but its NOT three years difficult. You had men to reach out to to help you. You just dont want to be held accountable, so you say you were a child, then when you realize that you were legally an adult and are questioned on it, you just deflect.
Even if she was a teenager, everyone knows a punch to the face isnt loving. Im sorry. zero accountability yet again. Always someone else’s fault
@@theblackhand1 doesn't matter. She should have left and not taken three years.
It does not take three years to leave an abusive relationship. There is no excuse for it. This isn't Stockholm syndrome. Women need to take responsibility for part of what they choose.
I would love to see a word definition test on these types of shows. Do they even understand the words they’re using? If not how are they supposed to understand anything or even comprehend the conversation hahaha
She is lying for sure.
Longterm suitable Men should never be the therapist for women’s mistakes. Some men have to respect themselves more
Girl in blue: I was young when it happened
.......I bet it was only a few months ago
Most women don't like logic because if you move in logic accountability comes with it. That's why when men argue with logic women go straight to shame and name calling
Had a very similar conversation with a female friend of mine about this subject, let´s say it does not take much for it to go away from the conversation and logic, and turned into emotional "arguing" and "shaming" tactics.
It is a waste of time talking and having discussions with people that are not genuine about the problems.
She would still be with him getting Ryued into bushes if that officer never drove by. Seems like she’s low key helping him rehabilitate so she can get back with him.
Ryued???? ☠
@@yaboi-ru4532 yeah like Street Fighter lol she was defending his abuse a little too much for my liking and she’s still close to a guy that was uppercutting her in public. This chick is throwed off and turned out.
I call b.s on this. A guy isn't a "nice guy" for 9 months and then suddenly turn into a "bad boy" out of the blue. I bet there WERE signs, or that he was ALWAYS a "bad boy", but you REFUSED to see what was right in front of you, and only it was convenient for YOU, did you come to the realization that he was a "bad boy". Be that as it may, you just proved something else, because YOU said that when you realised that he WAS a "bad bay" after 9 months, you STILL stayed with him for tears after the fact. And, to make matters worse for yourself, you make up excuses to justify this. And I'm sorry to say, but your excuses are just that: Excuses. Because let's be honest here: The vast majority of women LOVE the "bad boys", because "bad boys" are exciting, they're more "fun", than the nice guy that you PRETEND to want but DON'T want because, in contrast to "bad boys", are "boring".
Yep, it was 100% BS. You can tell straight away by the over-explaining and completely unbelievable story she presents. No one suddenly turns a light-switch on and becomes a different person FFS. Unless she was the 0.0001 % of extremely unlucky women that just so happened to get caught up with the Talented Mr Ripley or some shit.
Zero accountability for herself.
She's lying when asked how old she was and she could respond all she said was BS.
The blue Telly Tubby has something to say. Let’s listen and try it to laugh!!
* goes to speak * time for tubby bye bye time for tubby bye bye
lol accountability is impossible for modern women especially those who got crazy colors and teletubby costumes
Same experience here. Bin a year with my ex, became pregnant found out he cheated, confronted him about it and he hit me and strangled me because I wanted to leave him. Pearl stop being a pick me already🤮🤮 people are different .. life isn't a textbook print that you can studie in college. People Change and some for the better and some for worse. Don't act like you know everything and everybody ugh 🤮
I call b.s. you miss the redflags. Sounds like a you problem. Let me play the world's smallest violin for you 🎻.
From lust to disgust
Why do they use points to prove their situation. And they plead the fifth to stop the accountability from calling BS.
This lady in blue is capping...
No ounce of honesty in what she's saying...
Shaming doesn't win the argument, it just takes away from the point
Respect the man making a point to address that aggressive narrative she was about to spin.
Why can't this aunty mention the age she was , might this be because kids can be terrible at relationships.
Some people just don’t want to be helped. That’s sad.
The woman in blue proved the point of everyone in the room . She is just trying to disagree to sound smart
The lack of accountability and deflection is astounding.
Relationships are falling because now days woman are handing out their best years to mans in their 20s but then wished to settle down around 30s for mr right guy. Only problems is that, man becomes financially stabled and likely to have an understanding on who their truly are around 30s. At that age most of these man are likely to not be faithful. Your best chance of finding a good guy is around your 20s. So stop opening them 🦵s and having 🕳 s nights out and find the right man that will grow with you.
I absolutely love the fact that these conversations are being had, they should’ve been had 30 years ago. Thank God for the Internet..
I am so sick of listening to all this first world trauma Garbage! Move on. It’s over and done with . Learn from it and do better today. It’s in the past so leave it there! You will never be present and grow if you stay stuck emotionally and mentally in the past. We ALL have bad things that happened to us! Use it to learn and go help other people! Be useful and not excuse full! Shine on!!!!
We all know what they jump to when we bring up things like accountability....
*- who hurt you* - usually use when you are holding women accountable for their actions and the decisions they made.
*- hate your mama* - usually use when a blackmen date outside his race or when a blackmen talks about bad things blackwomen do.
*- not settling* usually use when the woman can't get the man she wants because of her past decisions or have really high standards her physical appearance can't get.
*- victim-blaming* women shut down the process of investigation , just believe all women.
shaming, insults, lies and deflection when men speak up.
learn to control your emotion.. meanwhile any and everyone doing everything possible to give you reasons to snap. learn to control yo emotion is a excuse for people who want to take advantage of you in my opinion. if someone is trying to make you mad and you get mad how are you the bad emotion guys? i dont understand the logic. we dont live in a time of controlling your emotion but do as you will regardless of emotions. i say equal right and lefts. dont comprimise and dont retreat apply heat or see your demise. im not a robot.. if you as much as call me a name i dont like its own.
This is an example of women using their words to BEND reality. 🤣🤣
He was such a kind guy, he was nice. His care for the elderly man and the boy that git my attention. It took 9 months of me not listening, accusing him of things he didn't do, and gaslight him for me to push him to put his hands on me.
Women always say, " you are yelling. I can't talk when you're yelling." But they expect you to listen when they're freaking out. And half the time the guy isn't even yelling.
Sometimes I tell myself..if I was there I would tell all these women "STOP THE CAP!!"
Every time a woman says “I feel like” the next statement that comes after that is always pure BS
5:44 A quality woman? Lol!🤣 🧢
A black women telling a man your coming across bare Aggressive pure gold 😂
There is a lot of shaming going on about men and dating younger women
lol they brought back teletubby?
You mean a stupid cwunnuut dressed as a blue teletubby 😂
Women expect men to act like… women. We are not the same.
soon as they say "I feel like" they lost me
The way this video starts, those first 10 seconds...I like.
Verbal gymnastics 🤦🏾♂️
This is why I'm going abroad when I'm ready to settle down
Nobody wants the “Cookie Monster “ 😂😂. She loves the drama.
She's not done with therapy.
They love pookie. All throughout their 20s they been on the carousel. Riding pookie pipe. Then like Brittany Renner they know wanna "find themselves" and get a better man! Too late....men are waking up.
Anyone using the word "Toxic" outside the realm of science, should be ignored. That word is worn out worse than today's modern heauxs.
I cant believe they brought up "tone" in a person's speech. Look up a man named Dame Dash. He & myself included (my circle of friends/family) have talked about our tone and how we say things & that makes us wrong not what we said but how we said it. Men & women treat me in this manner.
This is just my truth.
I feel like...i feel like...i feel like...where do they learn that 'nansense' from?
When you tell the truth, the first question is always "who hurt you"?
NO ACCOUNTABILITY !! FHET ACTIONS!
Simple deal with your past issues and traumas before you move to a new relationship, don't carry the baggage with you to the next. Heal first.
If you don't then directly or indirect the new guy will definitely have to pay the price.
They say it was abusive. Its just that the dude ain't gonna put up with her b.s.
When they start with I FEEL LIKE you know they have a BRAIN OF A WORM 🙄😏
A quality bird,the one wirh the hoodie.lol
Bruh…women don’t like being generalized and will literally defend a woman she doesn’t know and never seen before to defend “women” but will slander and generalize men at a moment’s notice. Wtf type world we live in?
She didn’t wanna give an age and said she was a child. Why is this guy pressuring her unecessary.
Did she say she's "no snitch"?🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Women have to use Shame tactics in every argument 😂😂😂😂
The trump card 🤦🏾♂️
Women always come back with Shame, Insults, Guilt, and an overwhelming Need to be right (S.I.G.N)
When he becomes a "good" guy now there just friends
Did she really just say "I'm not a snitch", and none of the guys prodded her on that stupidity? Man, I wish they did.
The girl in the blue track suit should be banned from the net Lying
Like that for no damn reason🤨
Men- we explain our issues and disagreements with woman
Woman- well MEN!!!! Do it also. 😂
You have to understand who you are dealing with when you talk to them. This is a woman that's has a past . I always say a hurt dog will holla . First thing she did was give it away that she feels like he's telling her story so she was like please leave me alone but at her age she says you are aggressive . This is typical classic manipulative young immature tactic . Just press through and say we can continue or stop but i want you to grow up right now if we are to continue.
The Godfather KS would've said she chose Fellons and Ass Whippers during her prime years and now she wanna force men to deal with her drama while those men are in their prime years
Exactly.
Brotha Kevin Samuels wouldve went straight to the point long ago, fawk their feelings.
You picked him and them.. take accountability that you can't judge/picking correctly.
She’s a brand ambassador 😂
“Im not a snitch” they gotta stop with this falling for dudes fighting and “not snitching” stuff your just protecting your abuser and the next guy who is treating you good your gonna shit on him…endless cycle 🔄
Learned he was abusive after 9 months, stayed another 3 years
An undercover cop was passing by when he punched me into a bush. I got a good chuckle out of that.
Once she said I’m still friends with the abuser I couldn’t watch anymore.
People act like they've never had any learning experiences, and are shocked and critical when someone is sharing theirs . Where's Pearl's ex boyfriend stories? Where's her life lessons? Please share and let us know what you've learnt from them. Thanks in advance. BTW guy in the blue shirt is very attractive to me 🤭
Pearl is a butt kisser to men. A bit like the arranged wife in coming to America, ref: "bark like a dog" "woof woof woof". She never challenges men on their experiences but as soon as a woman opens her mouth, she finds a way to condescend any assertions they make turning into a submission or age thing.
Imagine, this woman is 25 years old and is looking like she's going on 40. Age is not on her side as she thinks. She is definitely not the prize and I'm pretty confident she has a long body count bucket list.
@@ladeliciosa244 lol I was trying to be nice but well said lol someone who is one dimensional in their argument isn't worth debating. There's no meeting of the minds , common ground nothing..giving brainwashed to me. The amount of advice and criticism she gives she'd be in a successful long-term relationship.??no?
The first mistake you made was thinking you could be reasonable with chaotic behavior.
The "grown women" in the blue onesy sounds like a liar and reeks of head case.
Male or female only A crazy person blames someone for something they had absolutely nothing to do with.