Dating After 35 | What Is It Really Like

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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @Saint_Darius
    @Saint_Darius 4 місяці тому +74

    Women need to stop listening to their friends, particularly their unmarried friends.

    • @pro-muffins2721
      @pro-muffins2721 4 місяці тому +3

      😂grandma said don’t listen to people that don’t have wisdom from their experiences

    • @davonfickling6822
      @davonfickling6822 4 місяці тому +3

      Exactly these women are all the way wrong 🤦🏾

    • @WalterDavis-z6c
      @WalterDavis-z6c 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@davonfickling6822 these women aren't serious money seems to be the only thing that is important

    • @WalterDavis-z6c
      @WalterDavis-z6c 4 місяці тому +2

      They will be single for a long time

  • @nycenyce7346
    @nycenyce7346 4 місяці тому +38

    Women have just been exposing how ridiculous they think with this internet thing lol The funniest part is they really believe the delusions

    • @pro-muffins2721
      @pro-muffins2721 4 місяці тому +2

      😂😂😂Delusional is the new toxic trait.

    • @WalterDavis-z6c
      @WalterDavis-z6c 4 місяці тому +2

      Exactly 💯 but they will never give up on their sisterhood. Going from man to man is what their good for.

    • @Astaesrsfg
      @Astaesrsfg 4 місяці тому

      It's no delusion cuz its actually happening

  • @asdfxcvbn746
    @asdfxcvbn746 4 місяці тому +61

    after 35 is when the "fun" happens. all the women who chased bad boys & got ran thru, the ones that thought they were too good for solid, well-meaning dudes, the ones who bought into feminism & the "independent woman" trope putting degrees, school & their career over finding a partner & family, the overweight women, the undesirables & women who didn't get chosen are left scavenging the dating leftovers after age 35.
    by age 35 nearly all of the good men their own age are taken, most of the older guys are either ruined financially in divorce, have lots of kids or they learned the game & are now permanent bachelors, just having fun with their money & dating younger women. the younger men are broke, so women don't want those guys either outside of sex.
    now 35 year old women are competing with 18-25 year old women for the same small pool of elite men that all women chase after & coming up short because they can't compete in the looks department. also time has made older women masculine, bossy, demanding & they have tons of relationship baggage & usually a couple kids & STD's to go along with it.
    to that, men collectively say: "no thank you... hard pass. we would rather date a 25 year old that will cooperate, let us lead, be submissive & get on our program."

    • @nextgenradio4477
      @nextgenradio4477 4 місяці тому +11

      Spot on. 1000% percent. We're now understanding that WE (Men) are the catch.

    • @premroawwwready29
      @premroawwwready29 4 місяці тому +1

      AwwwReady

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 4 місяці тому +9

      I'm 47 I prefer women 24 and under.

    • @pro-muffins2721
      @pro-muffins2721 4 місяці тому

      😮Resume means a lot. Relationship resume.

    • @LEKIPE1
      @LEKIPE1 4 місяці тому

      You say those women didn’t choose the nice guys. But then at 35 you say the nice guys are taken, they’re taken by who?

  • @arthurwiggins1861
    @arthurwiggins1861 4 місяці тому +20

    Answered all my questions of why older women are single. They over- think and make everything difficult.

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 3 місяці тому

      Its female open hypergamy. Plain and simple. She should have stayed with her last dude. She is just wasting her last few years getting ran through by Chad after Chad til she is completely washed up.

  • @primetimejones6442
    @primetimejones6442 4 місяці тому +10

    50/50 is definitely on the table especially if they can kick out $1100 to Chris Brown to take a picture. 50/50 shouldn’t be a problem at tf all

    • @TheAustrianPainter87
      @TheAustrianPainter87 4 місяці тому

      In 2024, any talk of providing and protecting is a scam.
      50/50

  • @3GzCapo
    @3GzCapo 4 місяці тому +30

    Easy to see who will be alone😂

    • @mondomondo9138
      @mondomondo9138 4 місяці тому

      Very

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 3 місяці тому

      Yep,she is still quite attractive,but clearly over 35.......she is hypergamous,and dealing with a Chad......she needs to get with an Average Good Man before she ages out. Chad doesnt give a damn.😅😂

    • @NOFEATURESVISSIONS
      @NOFEATURESVISSIONS 3 місяці тому +1

      😂😂 is sad you not lien

  • @demetriusbrown1019
    @demetriusbrown1019 4 місяці тому +13

    Women KEEP OTHER WOMEN SINGLE !

  • @BSF20
    @BSF20 4 місяці тому +10

    Dating pool was just fine when she was a 304 but now it’s terrible 😂

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 3 місяці тому +1

      She still is a 304.........just an old 304.

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 3 місяці тому

      ​@@jonthomson9262hahahahahaha.... freaking facts.

  • @pro-muffins2721
    @pro-muffins2721 4 місяці тому +15

    😢seeing this shows me that women can’t give other women good positive advice.

  • @elizabethiradukunda1950
    @elizabethiradukunda1950 4 місяці тому +15

    the two black women got so triggered when they heard the Latina girl splits bills
    they obviously cant
    black women in America.. black women in America

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 4 місяці тому +2

      Sistas are just the scapegoat, America on a macro level doesn't raise helpmeets....

    • @pro-muffins2721
      @pro-muffins2721 4 місяці тому

      ❤she know relationships don’t mean it’s about money. 💰

    • @Phantom6lack
      @Phantom6lack 4 місяці тому

      Latinas play to win and to be wifey. Some sister also do that but that enemy spirit to many of them do carry stop them from have anything real.

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 3 місяці тому

      These women are attractive,but clearly past their primes.........they are all about 5 years away from being single for the rest of their lives,and dont even know it.......Open Hypergamy is their ruin.😅😂

  • @feedback160
    @feedback160 4 місяці тому +2

    “Whatever happened, you need to overcome it. Don’t let yourself become worthless. #SelfRespect”

  • @DamonBlount
    @DamonBlount 4 місяці тому +6

    Stop telling these women your business.. they will get jealous

  • @bradleycampbell245
    @bradleycampbell245 4 місяці тому +7

    Real quality women wouldn’t be caught dead on these platforms lol 😂

  • @feedback160
    @feedback160 4 місяці тому +2

    “A gravesite isn’t a place of excitement. It’s a place of reflection and respect. #RealTalk”

  • @KingBobIsHere
    @KingBobIsHere 4 місяці тому +8

    This lovely lady needs to think for herself. Don't "flock together" with the other 2 birds that have a very one dimensional view on dating. I hope she finds what she's looking for on her terms not what society or the other two think is "good for her"

  • @llend07
    @llend07 4 місяці тому +7

    Be what men want in a potential mate or you’ll stay single.

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 3 місяці тому

      They are to selfish to care what a man wants......they all have about 3 to 8 years left,depending on how they age.........and after that,its Cats or Dogs........A womans Open Hypergamy is her ruin. She should have stayed with the last guy. She will see that as the years go by.😅😂

  • @illijah
    @illijah 4 місяці тому +5

    The dating pool SHOULD be bad for an old maid. They don’t get that.

    • @isaacjackson2770
      @isaacjackson2770 4 місяці тому +1

      100%

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 3 місяці тому

      Open Hypergamy appears to be failing her.........she probably should have stayed with the last guy.

  • @Lawrence-g8r
    @Lawrence-g8r 4 місяці тому +7

    She have to think for herself. Must not allow others to think for her. She sounds like an amazing woman. The one in the white dress.

    • @seanmichaels718
      @seanmichaels718 4 місяці тому

      @@Lawrence-g8r i disgree come on down hunnie lemme mold like mind for my greater good 😭😂.

  • @corywalker9498
    @corywalker9498 4 місяці тому +6

    The 1 in the black is a headache

  • @dariusd7098
    @dariusd7098 4 місяці тому +3

    This is probably why she’s still single now. She doesn’t sound like an independent thinker at all. Mind you these aren’t even people that she knows but she’s asking them to think for her. She probably allows her friends to dictate how she moves in a relationship and its self sabotaging. Hopefully she listens to her brothers and not these two likeminded walking liabilities. They’re literally trying to convince her that the guy is not going to want to spend more on her after they become exclusive. Any man would be more than happy to do more for his girl than some girl that could be just looking for a free meal. Stop letting women tell you how men think.

  • @hiramWilliam
    @hiramWilliam 4 місяці тому +7

    Men Say wOmen Are Boring why ?

  • @ericknowles8929
    @ericknowles8929 4 місяці тому +2

    After 35 y’all need to sit down and take what you can get, your time is ticking.

  • @themofomayor
    @themofomayor 4 місяці тому +3

    "When I hear this, BUT NOT FROM BROKE DUDES, I listen..."
    Not realizing that broke dudes and rich dudes are saying the same exact thing.
    Single for a reason

  • @reznog12
    @reznog12 4 місяці тому +2

    Flock mentality! I like her style. Very classy! If a man offers to pay, as long as it is not a SIMP move or an action bounded by niceness, accept. How can you tell? Well, read in between the lines, observe, use comonsense (love bombing for instance), and watch out for signs of grandiose / braggadoceous behavior.

  • @riahmariah8680
    @riahmariah8680 4 місяці тому

    I’m turning 26 next month but I feel 36 and I can relate thanks for making videos I’ve been watching for a while your pages help young ladies like myself. ❤🎉

  • @ronaldfreeman2088
    @ronaldfreeman2088 4 місяці тому +5

    This is a non selfish woman who takes care of both her parents asking two selfish ass chicks for dating advice. Girl your going to have a husband a two family income, love, and retirement. Them two aren't getting that. Continue to be you.

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 3 місяці тому

      Just because she takes care of her parents,doesnt mean she isnt selfish towards men. She is Openly Hypergamous.

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 3 місяці тому

      Chances are,if she doesnt stop Chasing Chad........she will have NONE of that,except her retirement.

  • @luisjiron8154
    @luisjiron8154 4 місяці тому +1

    This so the first and last time I give a pink pill podcast a try. I learned N O T H I N G ! ! ! ! ! ! ! These women are annoying.

  • @corywalker9498
    @corywalker9498 4 місяці тому +2

    Stay away from that woman. The1 in the white has potential. The lady in the black just pushing bad ideas . Stay around married if you want to ve married

  • @Jhonny50cash
    @Jhonny50cash 4 місяці тому +1

    When you’re 35 and not 25, 50/50 is on the table. Virgin material, never married- 💯

  • @Clue4488_
    @Clue4488_ 4 місяці тому

    You ladies have a pretty good show. Your opinions aren't ridiculous and make a ton of sense, from a guys perspective.
    Most women's podcast about dating are usually horrible. Women typically don't look at life from another lens ... but you 3 are very logical.
    Great clip!!! And yes, new age Jamaican's do give women head (I'm Americanized tho LOL)

  • @CeeceeH1819
    @CeeceeH1819 4 місяці тому +2

    As a woman, i found this really cringe to listen to, sorry...

  • @wildterk6631
    @wildterk6631 4 місяці тому +1

    50 50 should be expected in a relationship for everyone

  • @rapper4orty2
    @rapper4orty2 4 місяці тому +2

    Women single at 35 and over are spent matchs. I rather date younger. Im not buying and nissan altima with 300,000 miles on it.

  • @jlerrick
    @jlerrick 4 місяці тому +1

    😂 im not giving head.. im just not... just walk off at that point.

  • @lomadurohaciendoand1
    @lomadurohaciendoand1 4 місяці тому +3

    why women overcomplicate everything lol i lost braincells listening to these 3

  • @tafaragovha8561
    @tafaragovha8561 4 місяці тому +2

    It's interesting to hear how the minds of women work.

  • @godspeedredeicieli4384
    @godspeedredeicieli4384 4 місяці тому +1

    I wish the talk was more organized; this was really disorganized

  • @keithingram761
    @keithingram761 4 місяці тому +2

    I think those two talking to her are bad business they do everything to knock the choices she chose to make she needs to get away from them

    • @keithingram761
      @keithingram761 4 місяці тому

      I agree those two talking crazy she clearly saying those are choices she wanna make

  • @MichaelEBeard
    @MichaelEBeard 4 місяці тому +1

    Bazaar conversation nobody's counting these old people too masculine

  • @briann9336
    @briann9336 4 місяці тому +2

    Ain't even got to the MAN yet. Focus is too much on who paying for dinner smh.

  • @seanmichaels718
    @seanmichaels718 4 місяці тому +3

    Half & half on dinner is crazy is this high school 😂

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 4 місяці тому +4

      I'm not paying for dinner dates.
      I like women to spend their money on me

    • @asdfxcvbn746
      @asdfxcvbn746 4 місяці тому +5

      they chose the bear... they can pay for dates... grizzle grizzle

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 4 місяці тому +1

      @@asdfxcvbn746 lol touche

    • @seanmichaels718
      @seanmichaels718 4 місяці тому

      Women are like children lots of times even when they’re wrong u still have to show them the ways by example don’t let these chit chat on podcast fool u

  • @BossJustipher
    @BossJustipher 4 місяці тому

    This is why as a man in my late 30s is very hard to date women around my age🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @CurtisJackson-ox5ro
    @CurtisJackson-ox5ro 4 місяці тому +1

    50/50 is for dating
    When you are together and locked in that 50/50 childish mess go out the window

  • @rickysauce393
    @rickysauce393 4 місяці тому

    Homegirl is trippin’. Men don’t care if your VJ is brown.

  • @WATTS9300block
    @WATTS9300block 4 місяці тому

    That thumbnail explains it all

  • @SouthsideWing
    @SouthsideWing 4 місяці тому +1

    @29:08 chick in middle tries to flirt w girl on right. Chick on right dismisses it and they tried to edit it out 😂

  • @darrenhawkins9040
    @darrenhawkins9040 4 місяці тому

    What's up opinion seeker's , just because I'm interested doesn't mean she's off the hook for both of us giving each other experiences about what we like and to do because my opinion is most females are going to have a lot more events and there's no way I'm paying for everything thing just because I'm capable she has to show me she want me with her to enjoy her journey because if she wants to be with me she's going to come with me without her hesitation and that's how young ladies end up going on vacations.

  • @teepaint6076
    @teepaint6076 4 місяці тому +1

    Yall will repurpose tf outta some content ✌🏾

  • @BlackManUntethered
    @BlackManUntethered 4 місяці тому +1

    Monogamy is lmk what you ladies think

  • @lyfsalgorhythm
    @lyfsalgorhythm 4 місяці тому

    all this "intel" and are still waaaaayyy off the mark. i think men are super direct about what they want and its they still misinterpret the message. i couldn't finish the video its an absolute waste to listen to them driving around in circles with no final destination in sight.

  • @hiramWilliam
    @hiramWilliam 4 місяці тому +2

    Different Genes And Mind Sets

  • @BlackManUntethered
    @BlackManUntethered 4 місяці тому +1

    These women are wild

  • @treutable
    @treutable 4 місяці тому +1

    Women be wanting a sponsor! Smh

  • @LetsGoforDabash
    @LetsGoforDabash 4 місяці тому +1

    Adult kids who are still living in LaLa land

  • @RandomDad2024
    @RandomDad2024 4 місяці тому

    Did she just say recently I’ve been dating for a relationship?
    What was she dating for before to ride the carousel?

  • @hiramWilliam
    @hiramWilliam 4 місяці тому

    you would Be Surprised why And what Triggers The Temptation

  • @MDtrey0110
    @MDtrey0110 4 місяці тому

    It sounds like since these women have gotten older the men they really want don't want them I wouldn't blame them most men will not take women like this serious anyway that has male friends.

  • @hiramWilliam
    @hiramWilliam 4 місяці тому

    It's HOT in This Damn Building yOu Knew were Do ing

  • @hl5032
    @hl5032 4 місяці тому

    Funny how women standards get lower as they get older how ironic I know 15 years ago this women wouldn’t be talking about splitting 50 50 in her life

  • @davenquintana29
    @davenquintana29 3 місяці тому

    Learned a lot 😒

  • @michaelgrannum6582
    @michaelgrannum6582 4 місяці тому +2

    Please stop getting advice here.
    Self sabotage 😵‍💫

  • @treutable
    @treutable 4 місяці тому

    It’s always the heauxs who have the most advice and are still single 😮

  • @DomEverythingEZ
    @DomEverythingEZ 4 місяці тому

    so if you never have those conversations or haven't been through that then you probably shouldn't be telling someone else what to do based off of your inexperience 11:07

  • @MrJTK123
    @MrJTK123 4 місяці тому +3

    Single women keep women single.

  • @MrRitch13
    @MrRitch13 4 місяці тому

    This isn't about dating after 35 this is women who are bad at communicating their wants and needs

  • @JRWatts-mw7jz
    @JRWatts-mw7jz 4 місяці тому +2

    I couldn’t get past 5min off this video.. women give terrible advice

  • @antoniosanders4850
    @antoniosanders4850 4 місяці тому

    The host thinks because men tale her out and pay means they want to marry her. They there until the box open. She give bad advice

  • @Christopher-tr1xu
    @Christopher-tr1xu Місяць тому

    What men get from women is nagging and pre owned kitty. Men have to chase you just to pay for your bills etc.....sike

  • @ClutchwalkerHD
    @ClutchwalkerHD 4 місяці тому

    I don’t think she realizes other people are watching, Especially men…. White dress was attractive until the talking started.

  • @Elizabethitsthebig1
    @Elizabethitsthebig1 4 місяці тому

    There's a word called Dutch, and 50/50 in a living situation is a roommate. The woman on the end in white seems like she worries about social issues. Needs a therapist pronto!

    • @PFlaw317
      @PFlaw317 3 місяці тому

      75 percent of American households feature situations where both adults *heavily* contribute financially to the household (I.e some version of 50/50) Social Media has these women brain dead talking about roommates.

  • @rachelleach4563
    @rachelleach4563 4 місяці тому +2

    I would love to be on this

  • @john8855
    @john8855 4 місяці тому

    Best way to listen to women talk is on MUTE lol… they need to listen to older MARRIED WOMEN

  • @carldoss4195
    @carldoss4195 4 місяці тому

    Beautiful women

  • @hiramWilliam
    @hiramWilliam 4 місяці тому

    sOmetimes yOu can faCe view The Virginia

  • @hiramWilliam
    @hiramWilliam 4 місяці тому

    The Club 's noT Really Impressive seen much Better yOu Know That

  • @Execution88
    @Execution88 4 місяці тому

    Aye you old lol it is what it is. Still look aiight, but you aging out. I am also going to say, If I make more than you, my time is worth more, simple as that.

  • @rachelleach4563
    @rachelleach4563 4 місяці тому +1

    It’s bad

  • @hiramWilliam
    @hiramWilliam 4 місяці тому

    Mouch from o