I CANT STILL BELIEVE HE DID THIS TO ME ONE WEEK AFTER OUR WEDDING!

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  • Опубліковано 21 гру 2024

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  • @williamswetnam4070
    @williamswetnam4070 6 місяців тому +20

    Sorry this happened to her. She deserves better. 😢
    Watching from our new home in Kampala! 🏡🇺🇬

  • @PhionaPhifi-bv9mx
    @PhionaPhifi-bv9mx 6 місяців тому +20

    God is able we will will find that quality guy in Jesus name 🙏

  • @asabee56
    @asabee56 6 місяців тому +32

    Badoo dating site, 99% of the men there are not serious and also are married. They are just there for casual girlfriends to satisfy their sexual needs.... Being black or white guys. Just need to becareful and cautious if on that site.
    Thank you so so much Queen Bella for always opening our eyes and minds ❤🤝🙏🏼

    • @Stellanankya
      @Stellanankya 6 місяців тому

      Isn't it full of Indians? lol But yes, we need to shine our eyes, its not easy

    • @essohnalvine154
      @essohnalvine154 5 місяців тому

      True

    • @mercychilembo
      @mercychilembo 5 місяців тому

      Very much true

  • @LilyB4882
    @LilyB4882 6 місяців тому +8

    I feel sorry for her. Good luck to any one out there still searching. Girls remember to shine your eyes as you pray. The right guys will locate you at the right time.

  • @Brenda-dl8tw
    @Brenda-dl8tw 6 місяців тому +3

    There is a Zambian lady that married a Canadian man she met in a week and they have been together for years now with 4 children. Its God that should direct our steps

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  6 місяців тому +1

      Keep marrying these white men in a week of knowing each other.When things goes bad you will be crying,every one got their luck on my own opinion better watch them redflags if you not so sure of his real intentions don't marry him.

    • @Brenda-dl8tw
      @Brenda-dl8tw 6 місяців тому

      I wasn't disputing the fact that one has to watch for red flags and of course wait to know the man well. I gave that example to show that situations differ and most importantly one has to put God first. Because when we involve God he opens our eyes to see what we can not see and in the end avoid such mistakes. The Bible says unless the Lord builds the city the laborers labor in vain and unless he watches over the city the watchmen watch but in vain. From this story I can see a lot of things that were happening that this lady was blinded too. Well certain situations happen for others to learn from. Even in her pain its working out for her good.

  • @EvaEk-h6k
    @EvaEk-h6k 6 місяців тому +75

    People need to talk to God BEFORE they get married...

    • @sheisjacinta_
      @sheisjacinta_ 6 місяців тому +5

      Sure, u have been telling that God lately however much I desire marriage, only the one ordained by Him❤

    • @EvaEk-h6k
      @EvaEk-h6k 6 місяців тому +3

      @@sheisjacinta_ Only go for the one that God says yes to.

    • @fridamukelabai8188
      @fridamukelabai8188 6 місяців тому +1

      Proverbs 2 vs 5

    • @sheisjacinta_
      @sheisjacinta_ 6 місяців тому +4

      Absolutely 🙌 not about money or status, peace 🕊️

    • @EvaEk-h6k
      @EvaEk-h6k 6 місяців тому +1

      @@sheisjacinta_ Correct, in my case. I don't want any of it, I just want to go home! May Jesus Christ make his grand return soon!

  • @jaseminephat4953
    @jaseminephat4953 6 місяців тому +25

    I am married to a black American but all documents were got from the embassy here in uganda, thank God may man is the best because he is building my life for real ..i dont even know how i got married we dated for 6yrs before going legal

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  6 місяців тому +2

      Congratulations

    • @beryltammybee9136
      @beryltammybee9136 6 місяців тому +3

      Is a man talking too much about sex online a red flag?

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  6 місяців тому +2

      @beryltammybee9136 yes it is

    • @beryltammybee9136
      @beryltammybee9136 6 місяців тому

      @@africanbellatherealtalk thanks for responding

    • @beryltammybee9136
      @beryltammybee9136 6 місяців тому

      @@africanbellatherealtalk hello,I do appreciate so much for bringing us so stories to help us shine our eyes,so I got blocked on Badoo dating app,I opened a new account using different email address I got blocked again,I open account on bumble again they block me,I think the owner of Badoo and bumble are one , what can I do to open another account without them noticing it's me?

  • @memorybanda9277
    @memorybanda9277 6 місяців тому +9

    Oh my God that was so sad, that man didn't love Precious at all, even the lady he is dating now must not be proud that she has got a white man he is a Casanova he will do the same thing to her. Poor Precious may the good Lord heal her and help her find a better man who will love her for who she is, i wish her good luck, thanks my dear Bella we have learned something in this story, love you always ❤❤❤

  • @ProcitaPeach
    @ProcitaPeach 6 місяців тому +5

    So sorry to hear what she went through, it’s really bad😮. But God is gonna remember her one day , the right person will locate her ❤

  • @charlottequeen2079
    @charlottequeen2079 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank you sis Bella for the story,but my advice to her is ,let her take enough time to heal those wounds , I Kno God is watching over her,and let her not worry about losing that man because himself only is a total loss,no way you can marry a loss,we thank God for her life and God will always put these users so called men to shame, Precious just know you server a better man not that loss,and remember a good man is given by God, pray, fast, believe and God will open all the closed doors in your life,take heart gal, dont allow any spirit of anger in you because you have worn the enemy, congratulations gal and remember when wrong people leave your life,wrong things will stop happening ,i love you my sister ❤

  • @Daisy-p7g
    @Daisy-p7g 6 місяців тому +5

    Online dating can be stressful than in real life... May we meet those right white guys who are genuine 😢

  • @FaustinaHotpops-yi9pz
    @FaustinaHotpops-yi9pz 6 місяців тому +6

    I know the lady it's really sad I pray she finds someone better who deserves her.

  • @riamhills11
    @riamhills11 5 місяців тому

    Eh 😮that's a great idea buying a camera for monitoring our precious Champion 💪🥰🥰. We thank God for protecting him🙏

  • @joycendanundanu9218
    @joycendanundanu9218 5 місяців тому +1

    Bella l feel so hurt also for our sister 😢 l swear siwezi kukuachia my husband easy akili zangu Nazijua mwenyewe. May God comfort her🙏

  • @BarbraNyashega
    @BarbraNyashega 6 місяців тому +4

    Can't wait to hear the end of the story because this guy sounded and looked good

  • @Asia-ew9wx
    @Asia-ew9wx 6 місяців тому +4

    Welcome back lovelie❤❤❤been missing ur tips.lets see what happened to precious 🤔🤔🤔🤔may be it was village people who ruined her marriage since they was no red flag btn them😮

  • @PreciousPaa
    @PreciousPaa 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you very much for always sharing knowledge with us Anty Bella ❤❤. Good to see you again 🥰🥰

  • @Mauryn-19
    @Mauryn-19 6 місяців тому +5

    Me liking everytime before even watching ❤

  • @carolinewanjiku1433
    @carolinewanjiku1433 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Bella...we are ready for story after story... after story...after story. 🥰🥰 Thanks also to all the beautiful ladies that share their love stories with us for us to learn.

  • @AminaAmina-gs9zz
    @AminaAmina-gs9zz 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks bella you real African lady who care for your peoples

  • @jessybwalya2565
    @jessybwalya2565 5 місяців тому

    Sorry for that sister my heart goes out to you ❣️

  • @VickyGist7477
    @VickyGist7477 5 місяців тому

    So sorry for what she went through, may God almighty see her through, thanks for sharing dear African bella. 🥰🥰👍

  • @floraselez
    @floraselez 6 місяців тому

    Ooh am so sorry for Precious, I thank God she's back on ground, and she has been qble to share this with us.....
    I pray she can find a genuine man..someone that will shed off her tears....

  • @annmungai4753
    @annmungai4753 6 місяців тому

    May precious find true love😢God will give her another chance❤❤

  • @Josephinevibes123
    @Josephinevibes123 6 місяців тому +2

    I'm glad upload is here. Let me balance and watch before commenting.

  • @Stellanankya
    @Stellanankya 6 місяців тому

    This is an emotional episode Bella today....... I am truly sorry for Precious. May God heal her heart.🥲

  • @nakawooyagrace792
    @nakawooyagrace792 6 місяців тому

    So sorry dear Sister Precious i feel bad some men are just players and when he see you crying, thats his happiness
    Stay strong dear God will give you your soulmate 🙏🙏🙏🙏
    Thanks Bella dear for always give us the tips and tricks much love ❤️❤️💕💕💕

  • @riamhills11
    @riamhills11 5 місяців тому

    It's been too long when I'm off youtube, I really missed you Bella plus the afro cinemas 😊. Sorry sister Precious for the bad luck, wising you all the best dear 🙏

  • @leticiakemirembe5636
    @leticiakemirembe5636 6 місяців тому +2

    Banage. Hello everyone, how are you all doing. Welcome back Bella

  • @Lovice-n9z
    @Lovice-n9z 6 місяців тому

    Oh gosh
    This was soo heartbreaking .i personally feel sorry for her and the rest of us who are still searching for love because it can happen to anyone....may God help and locate us to the serious men

  • @marthakunda-nn9jc
    @marthakunda-nn9jc 6 місяців тому

    I'm so sorry my dear sister for that
    Put everything in God is hands is our comforter he will provide a good man for you

  • @jjdorothy7866
    @jjdorothy7866 6 місяців тому

    Bella it's like ur talking about me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂about I found love😂😂😂😂😂😂😂after 2 to 3months things don't work out💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃but am thankful to God cz its giving me enough time to come concerte on my goals.

  • @chipobenjaminnyahuye4165
    @chipobenjaminnyahuye4165 6 місяців тому

    Sad story 😂 . Hope one day God is going to bless her with the one . Thank you Bella for sharing this story ❤.

  • @Fav-y-y5c
    @Fav-y-y5c 6 місяців тому

    Bella thank you for the story but i wnat to tell precious that she's not alone .. God has protected her from that scam of a man . And for the lady at the registra God will pay both back .

  • @myrafavour9733
    @myrafavour9733 5 місяців тому

    Thanks Bella, just learned well. It's my first video of yours. Will contact you when I'm on my way to getting a guy.

  • @اااا-و8ز1ي
    @اااا-و8ز1ي 6 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤ thanks sweetie bella well come in full swing, you have given us the right fruit content ,thanks so much.

  • @Mavismut
    @Mavismut 6 місяців тому

    Wow I feel for my fellow Zambian sister, thanks for sharing so that we learn and me who is dating someone in America my eyes are open 😢

  • @edesouza9515
    @edesouza9515 5 місяців тому +1

    we were expecting pictures from your Vacay Bella😜

  • @sibonylendoro7056
    @sibonylendoro7056 6 місяців тому

    Sorry my sister. God his watching keep on praying

  • @rebekalysandFam
    @rebekalysandFam 6 місяців тому +1

    People are wicked that lady just snatch someone s love 😮 But in all that Polish guy was not serious, you cannot just change from a wife to another woman😡 That why ladies should not jump into marriage and take time to know the person…. Thank you for this warning story Bella❤

  • @rosemunisi818
    @rosemunisi818 6 місяців тому +1

    Daah wanawake Tuna roho Mbaya sanaaaa

  • @olivianangobi1746
    @olivianangobi1746 6 місяців тому

    Thanks so much dear sister Bella for the story,May the good Lord guide and lead us in each and every step to successed ,it's not really easy.May God help us.🙏🙏🙏

  • @wanjirajackfred4686
    @wanjirajackfred4686 6 місяців тому

    am so sorry for our sister ,too bad she fell for the wrong man may God help us.....thanks African Bellah and i like your hair its dope 🥰🥰

  • @BarbraNyashega
    @BarbraNyashega 6 місяців тому +7

    This is exactly what my online boyfriend said,we don't need to rush to get married .we need to stay together as boyfriend and girlfriend and see if we get along well

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  6 місяців тому +3

      He shouldn't date you for years though

    • @BarbraNyashega
      @BarbraNyashega 6 місяців тому +2

      @@africanbellatherealtalk yes 😆 but at least 6.9 months to a year is good and reasonable

    • @divine5582
      @divine5582 6 місяців тому

      ​@@africanbellatherealtalk
      I agree with you darling however there's no formula in dating. I used to believe that as well but everyone has their principle. More so if you happen to meet a man who wants to take his time after some not so good precious relationship. God is the only guide we can rely on

  • @fatimfcoker9593
    @fatimfcoker9593 6 місяців тому

    Sorry sister 😢 may God have mercy on us and lead us to our right partner🙏

  • @nureenrahmaumat7151
    @nureenrahmaumat7151 6 місяців тому +1

    Welcm back our own hope u enjoyed ur holiday❤❤❤❤❤we missed u on these streets now let me watch.

  • @mollieejang3490
    @mollieejang3490 6 місяців тому

    Welcome back from vacation sister....we missed you and so sorry about what happened to our sister. Me now get scared of these online guys...have alot of trust issues with them

  • @Lilymul
    @Lilymul 6 місяців тому

    I learned alot today,i wish precious goodluck in her search may good bless her with agood guy,and thank you sister bella for sharing this story❤❤❤

  • @paulinajames5995
    @paulinajames5995 5 місяців тому +1

    It's not good to take someone is man at all, I am so sorry sister for all what you went through 🤗 they say what is goes around always comes around and that lady the same she took it the same she gonna loose it.

  • @laetitiamathe5779
    @laetitiamathe5779 6 місяців тому +4

    I don't know how this story Didn't habe any redflag before. It's now possible to fall in a trap of any player ! God help😢

    • @maximr6576
      @maximr6576 6 місяців тому +2

      Rushing marriage, moving too fast is a red flag

    • @rose_Winchester86
      @rose_Winchester86 5 місяців тому

      ​@@maximr6576Yes

  • @NambuyaJosephine-mj3fb
    @NambuyaJosephine-mj3fb 6 місяців тому +1

    Sorry for her God have good plans for her

  • @Iqia122
    @Iqia122 6 місяців тому +1

    Helloo mommy well come back I hope you enjoyed your vacation 😊 ☺️ 💓 I miss you video always waiting now it's over ❤❤❤ let enjoy 😂

  • @kristenrick1
    @kristenrick1 6 місяців тому +1

    Thankyou Bella for shinning our eyes😅❤❤❤

  • @mollyatm2326
    @mollyatm2326 6 місяців тому

    I feel sorry for her.may God give her more strength

  • @CarolyneChebon
    @CarolyneChebon 6 місяців тому

    Sorry for precious God knows why it happened like that.i I have learned something though much love for Bella❤❤

  • @NalubegaMariam-tl2li
    @NalubegaMariam-tl2li 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks our dear sis

  • @Mampisiloka
    @Mampisiloka 6 місяців тому

    Uuuummm sorry for the lady please,u saw her wedding photos I was Soo shocked coz I had watched her receive him at the airport and then boom they were getting married Soo 😢😢😢😢

  • @RuthOdunga-nn9it
    @RuthOdunga-nn9it 6 місяців тому +1

    We missed you our African Queen ❤❤

  • @luyigairene7037
    @luyigairene7037 5 місяців тому

    ok I didn't see this twist in the afro cinema. like eehhhhh eh these men can surely show you shege. well whatever is done is done I pray precious heals from that trauma

  • @carolinewanjiku1433
    @carolinewanjiku1433 5 місяців тому +1

    Also Bella if you have a man that you have guided successfully please share with us so that we can also experience the men's side of their story and learn from it too.

  • @mashachaney2048
    @mashachaney2048 5 місяців тому

    Jamaniii😢 Am sorry that happened to her

  • @Remi-k2q
    @Remi-k2q 6 місяців тому

    Very sad in deed,glad you're back.am watching you from Nigeria 🇳🇬

  • @nyiterapretty9287
    @nyiterapretty9287 6 місяців тому

    Hello sis Bella🥰well be back darling❤️❤️ we missed you're Tips and Guidance😊😊

  • @FlorencePhilip-p7c
    @FlorencePhilip-p7c 6 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ God knows everything

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 6 місяців тому +1

    Bella you have tought alot of things it's just like some people are ignorant

  • @PhionaPhifi-bv9mx
    @PhionaPhifi-bv9mx 6 місяців тому +1

    We be back dear

  • @24sleekneny
    @24sleekneny 6 місяців тому +2

    I love your hair colour babes 😊

  • @memeamoah4974
    @memeamoah4974 6 місяців тому +2

    Hmm, may God have mercy on us all. Some men are very wicked. Sorry, my dear sister😢😢, may God give you a good man next time🙏🙏

  • @Surprises3558
    @Surprises3558 6 місяців тому

    In this case , she needs to Sela with the matter spiritually that's if she is a Christian.
    It sounds like Ni mateso ya kujirudia rudia , aombee Tena saana .
    May God bless us with good partners all

  • @peaceisrael8158
    @peaceisrael8158 6 місяців тому +1

    Very sad story😢 shit happen but sure she will find her soulmate, Amen🙏✨

  • @evanakiboneka862
    @evanakiboneka862 6 місяців тому +2

    Welcome back Bella ❤, that man it wasn't vulnerability but I think it's his game to marry and leave ladies and jump on to the next those are kind of guys who can date even all your friends and these days ladies should be very careful white guys are more players than you can just imagine. Everyone searching for love honestly should take their time Aman shouldn't rush you, there is a saying "a broken relationship relationship is better than a broken marriage.
    Our sister Precious I know you get someone who will appreciate and love you❤

  • @miss_setutsinam
    @miss_setutsinam 6 місяців тому

    This is really sad, with personal experience, I've come to understand that when a man suddenly stops talking to you, its definitely because he is no more interested.

  • @JosephineInterchannel839
    @JosephineInterchannel839 6 місяців тому

    African Bella is the best. Here catching up again.

  • @halimahassan3031
    @halimahassan3031 6 місяців тому +1

    So sad, we should not rush to things

  • @lorrainengolofwana6058
    @lorrainengolofwana6058 6 місяців тому

    Welcome Bella,l really missed you,l hope you had a wonderful time on your vacation, l know her, it's so disappointing, God will bless her with another man.

  • @katusiimepatience8403
    @katusiimepatience8403 6 місяців тому

    I feel so hurt😢may God comfort her❤

  • @MaureenWafula-pe3pl
    @MaureenWafula-pe3pl 6 місяців тому

    I don't know why my eyes are tearing 😢

  • @NaomiNatukunda
    @NaomiNatukunda 6 місяців тому +1

    Much love from this side lovely Bella❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @margaretgabriel8123
    @margaretgabriel8123 6 місяців тому +2

    Hi Bella I have a guy who’s asking for my digits for a better communication after just days of meetings each other on the dating site , tell me if it’s okay to do that

  • @Lizdavids
    @Lizdavids 3 місяці тому +1

    Please pray against the spirit of abondonement. Prayers is the solution

  • @jjdorothy7866
    @jjdorothy7866 6 місяців тому

    Hello Sweet Bella long time, am so tired up with work these days, but thanks for all ur videos ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @yesyoucanwithinevara6826
    @yesyoucanwithinevara6826 6 місяців тому

    All the best to her, I am really sorry for all her troubles. 🙏

  • @krystelmakena3015
    @krystelmakena3015 6 місяців тому

    Welcome back baby girl.I missed you.if I may ask,what happened to charity and Darren?

  • @stellanthenya7259
    @stellanthenya7259 6 місяців тому

    So sad to that girl bt God will give her the good guy

  • @farie6795
    @farie6795 6 місяців тому

    ❤❤Subhana'Allah. Bella thank you so much. You're a gem.

  • @beryltammybee9136
    @beryltammybee9136 6 місяців тому

    That guy is a player ,the best advice have heard today is ,stay as a boyfriend and a girlfriend get to know each other first then Decide if you'll go on with the relationship or not

  • @sarahrukunga9268
    @sarahrukunga9268 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank for the goods advised you usually give out

  • @marymaimu216
    @marymaimu216 6 місяців тому

    Nilikumiss kipenzi changu

  • @cupid_secrets
    @cupid_secrets 5 місяців тому +2

    Why didn't she do a spiritual consultation make una dey play

  • @Bfatty256.zechariah4.6
    @Bfatty256.zechariah4.6 5 місяців тому

    Hmmm i remember a guy from USA we chatted for almost three months and everything was going well and even was saying he will wait me i finish my contract which was almost 1yrs to finish but he talked about meeting himfirst in USA and what pushed me out was saying that i should go with my son and he will give me a work visa for two years then we get married there😂😂😊i was like why with this openness of mine i directly told him that can't work and since then he started pulling out and i realised him and immediately we ended it .Though he was trying to give excuses of being a single father, kids are disturbing him 😂😂which wasn't back when we were chatting.
    To me refusing was caring about my life and my son.

  • @nabukerahadija5
    @nabukerahadija5 6 місяців тому

    Hi Bell you are beautiful 🥰 thank you for opening out eyes

  • @sarahrukunga9268
    @sarahrukunga9268 6 місяців тому +1

    Hope you enjoyed your vacations ❤

  • @hellenmwelwa2326
    @hellenmwelwa2326 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing

  • @sibonylendoro7056
    @sibonylendoro7056 6 місяців тому

    Bella please help me which dating sites will you recommend me to join

  • @Mauryn-19
    @Mauryn-19 6 місяців тому +8

    Thinking of keeping mine in a cave so that no one sees him😂,not even my family members 😅

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 6 місяців тому +1

    Looking good Bella

  • @marthakunda-nn9jc
    @marthakunda-nn9jc 6 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤ to you and your family
    God bless you and your family

  • @justinamumbi7418
    @justinamumbi7418 6 місяців тому

    I think I used to watch this ladies videos on tiktok even when she got married.

  • @CommunityArtsInitiative
    @CommunityArtsInitiative 5 місяців тому

    ❤ This is so good bella,thanks for sharing..I have a question..is it okey,deting a white guy who says he is still in the devorce process,? And meets his children during the weekend,but whenever with them,doesn't appear online or chat

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  5 місяців тому +1

      It's a redflag my dear

    • @rosiealways1082
      @rosiealways1082 5 місяців тому +1

      Someone in the middle of a divorce, they are entangled so much don’t risk.
      Him telling you he’s with his kids and can’t appear online?! Those are not kids he’s with. He’s with another woman on the days he doesn’t appear online

    • @CommunityArtsInitiative
      @CommunityArtsInitiative 5 місяців тому

      @@rosiealways1082 thanks dear,,it's now like 6months talking,but whenever I ask him when the divorce process will end,he says it's a long process. He is in Beligiumbut Lebanese origin

    • @africanbellatherealtalk
      @africanbellatherealtalk  5 місяців тому +1

      @CommunityArtsInitiative Lebanese guys are a no go zone by the way

    • @CommunityArtsInitiative
      @CommunityArtsInitiative 5 місяців тому

      @@rosiealways1082 he says he wants to come soon" but never mention when that soon is...I followed Bella's advise and told him,I Wana visit him first,he said okey at first ,then he said he was told when he invites me,he will be in charge and responsible for me...I went mute

  • @realitycorner3365
    @realitycorner3365 5 місяців тому

    Looking beautiful ❤