EP 712: Make Me Water Pt. 2

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  • Опубліковано 20 жов 2024
  • Jordan, Damon & Tony are curious - how have our views around relationships become more fluid?
    This week we offer a second look at fluidity; this time through the lens of relationship types. We welcome Jahad J.C. Carter, host of the ‪@hopelessromanticsociety‬ back to the Surface Level table. A topic that is enriched through the technicolor lens of Queer experience; we are sure you all will have a lot to say. Are our views around relationships similar to how we grew up? Have they been varied based on the partner? or are we still just figuring it out? All levels of experience are valid as we share views that hopefully make you think differently, even if you disagree. Get ready for the ride as we close this special bonus series.
    We know a lot but we don’t know it all, so join the conversation on social and let us know your thoughts.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 16

  • @TL64646
    @TL64646 11 місяців тому +7

    THIS!!!!
    What a mature conversation, wow you guys betrayed your title because this was the antithesis of surface level. I’m here for it!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @thesagecc
    @thesagecc 11 місяців тому +5

    Love this conversation! Gained a subscriber! I need to go watch Part 1. (Personal Opinion) To me the thread of the conversation is how clear one is with themself and how aligned they are with this clarity. This translates behaviorally to what they will and will not accept and it’s up to them to communicate that and establish/reinforce boundaries. Once one’s stance is communicated… “it’s above me!” The receiver of the communication has a choice. How one becomes clear with themselves is experience, reflection, and application of their lessons learned. Clarity, communication, and choice. Again love this!

    • @SurfaceLevelPodcast
      @SurfaceLevelPodcast  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much, appreciate your thoughts and feedback 😌

  • @kairos1127
    @kairos1127 11 місяців тому +3

    I think any relationship requires you to know yourself. Not meaning you have to be 100% self realized, but knowing your limits. After a conversation you may realize you can be open to idea 1, but not comfortable with idea 2.

  • @prl08
    @prl08 10 місяців тому +1

    I love this episode and JC! I wish there was someone included who clearly favors monogamy so the conversation could have been more diverse/ challenging and less monolithic.

  • @RG-iu2up
    @RG-iu2up 11 місяців тому

    I related so much to Jahad’s perspective, it’s rough out there sometimes you want to trust people so much but they constantly disappoint and disappear. Hookup culture can be liberating but also hurtful.

  • @jicter1
    @jicter1 11 місяців тому +4

    My issue with an open relationship or polyamory is that some humans want to take the easy way out and practice discipline or commitment. Also, when is enough ever enough. Your conversation suggests that persons can have however many partners they desire, simply by desiring them. However, I am not opposed to anyone practising this lifestyle with consent...Simply their business.

  • @thefashionprince5561
    @thefashionprince5561 11 місяців тому

    Great cast and Greg Conversations really enjoy listening to sessions

  • @keke_vinhe
    @keke_vinhe 11 місяців тому +1

    Damon: And I also know you girls have never read the Bible
    Jordan: Oh, which one?
    Damon: THEE Bible
    😂😂😂

  • @helloxonsfan
    @helloxonsfan 11 місяців тому +1

    Excellent conversation...!!! 👍🏽 👍🏽 👍🏽

  • @albertwilson3624
    @albertwilson3624 11 місяців тому

    I really enjoyed you podcast ❤

  • @Casimiur1
    @Casimiur1 3 місяці тому

    I would have loved to question the cast on monogamous relationships. Commitment and control is very healthy for many individuals and shouldn't be shamed or be made to feel underdeveloped.

  • @sricardo8223
    @sricardo8223 11 місяців тому

    Powerful

  • @pmfcrew6551
    @pmfcrew6551 10 місяців тому

    Open relationships and Polyamorous relationships are two different things.

  • @JZidor
    @JZidor 10 місяців тому

    How is it insecurity if I'm expecting u not to be