Dr Shefali at THE HUMAN GATHERING
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- Опубліковано 29 лип 2024
- Shefali Tsabary, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist with a private practice in New York. She is the author of is the award-winning, The Conscious Parent. Prefaced by HH The Dalai Lama, this book revolutionizes the parenting paradigm. Check more details at: drshefali.com/
She is so good that I had to pause in between to digest the information. Wow
Dr. Tsabary is one of a kind. While being a professional she is also living in her humanist of NOW and total Presence. She is special. Listen to her each and everyday. You will gain by accident as the seeds falling from the tree. Love her!!!!!
I loved what she said about not reading any books, looking at youtube, she does breathing meditation. (I'm constantly reading self help books and looking at youtube videos) I'm going to take her suggestion and for 5 minutes every hour I will listen to my breath and let it transform my life. Of course I loved this whole video. 😁
This truly just confirmed why I’ve felt and act the way I do. My entire life of feeling I didn’t belong in this world because I don’t agree with its customs and I just want to be me for whoever I want to be at that moment! This is just so inspirational and what great way of waking up to this deep breath of fresh air! Thank you!!!
She is relaying the age-old wisdom of India. Read Ramana Maharshi - "Who am I?". Read Nisargadatta - "I am That". Read about Advaita Vedanta. She is articulate and is able to share the wisdom of the sages/ages in a very modern way. Wonderful!
@faith umuk Yes - when we are more aware of our own strengths and the wisdom our own traditions bring, then we are able to deflect superficial (and sometimes popular) and unhealthy ways of thinking and living.
she is certainly doing so and in such a contemporary way, jai ho!
@faith umuk white people?? What has it got to do with white people..
@faith umuk the very fact you use youtube is technology grow up this has nothing to do with the west. You have a force without you.. that the breath of the almighty..
She is an indian
The Buddha said if you see a Buddha outside kill the Buddha! Hahah I love this woman so much. Her wisdom and honesty is mind shattering. I have done the quickest and largest amount of healing since following her words. Ironically I’ve found, a lot of what she says, I have thought to myself at one time. The truth really is in you all along 💖
32 minutes of wisdom!
It´s so good to hear Dr. Shefali.
Thanks for all these remembering!
You are a “breath” of fresh air! Thank you! 🙏🏻
This is a full package. Always refereshing to hear you talk. Thankyou
Amazing human being 😍 I am in awe. She has no pride and is so real
This is the future of parenting, changing the global consciousness, one parent and child at a time. The time for global awakening here!
I never get tired listening to her. She's my all time favourite speaker
I love you Shefali .. and I didn’t mention docteur . ❤️😘
Shefali is still relevant 5 years later. Will never get tired with her no bullshit approach.
Amazing! I admire her
So hard not to judge, as you watch Dr Shefali speak, as she is so beautiful, eloquent, charming and smart. Wondeful messages, tho, breathe and go within. The rest is noise.
Wow! If you could apply just 10% of your wisdom... love your teachings!! Thank you!! Please keep changing the world!!
Shefali and her words are a gift to our generation ❤
Dr Shefali you are really a true inspiration. I’m so blessed and got to you and you are teaching me so much. Thank you 🙏🏻
Realizing that I've been trying unsuccessfully (fortunately) to get my chilfren stick on the form when they were desperatingly trying to show (teach) me to get out of it. And my point of view was "how come my own children can go against me". And I was loosing all my energy in fighting them, asking myself what did I do to deserve this? when they were giving me a gift each day. Thanks to them 🙏. With all my gratitude ❤️
She is an inspiration!!!!
The most realistic, honest and truthful approach I have ever heard in my 61 years of life. Excellent! Supports the quantum approach to a resolution of dilemmas life has manufactured for us and we unknowingly became a part of.
I love these talk especially when it’s Dr Shefali Tsabary
OMG i love Dr Shefali soo much, Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Namaste
I’m so glad I discovered you today! Thank you for your beautiful message ❤️
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Dr. Shefali Tsabary, a clinical psychologist can revolutionise your life
00:47 Q:How are you going to 'fix' the world? A: Parental Evolution.
01:58 Ultimate level of Consciousness - untethered from all identities - achievable only through Meditation
03:36 Can you just wake up to the reality that you are creating every moment yourself.
04:19 Try to be non-judgemental - we can not be non-judgemental even for an hour
05:03 Advancement, Technology, Robotics and AI - "We can do all that when the basic innerself can sit with the self and is healed"
05:53 "We are humanity that is suffering because we do not know that we are divine.......so let us go inward before we go outward"
06:30 Mechanisation is devolution not evolution. Evolution is human connection.
07:37 The Self Help Industry perpetuates dependency on an external source.
13:26 Try sitting with yourself in silence for 35 minutes.
Guided Vipaasana Meditation
13:51 Guided Vipaasana Meditation till 16:56
Q & A Session
17:52 It is NOT something you say - it is how you live your life.
22:47 When one is truly connected with the self, there is no agenda. When you are truly connected your field opens up because you are without judgement.
23:13 Being transactional blocks connection. Connecting is not a doing state it is a being state.
25:16 How do I live in this muck understanding it is all an illusion? This is the power of Meditation - it teaches you to detach - does not mean dis-associate.
26:23 Here, but not of it, part of it but not in it. This is the beautiful duality.
28:37 Refer Matrix the movie!
30:07 Importance of breath - Budha - 1. Breath is the most elegant pathway to the present moment. 2. Breath is constantly impermanent - teaches you life is in the now and it is impermanent. 3. Breath is the only thing we have with us all the time as a mediator between inner world and outer world of 'form'.
31:54 When you breath and meditate, you see how your thoughts influence your breath and your breath influences your thought - and you realise I am creating my 'cause and effect'
I'm simply seeking the easiest way to move through this "dance/drama" that is the spiritual detoxification process, and simply enjoy my life by traveling to beautiful places on earth, and continuing to teach AND learn God/source energy/PURE JOY AND TRUTH more and more. Going with the flow of LIFE, with a balanced mentality. Thank you sooooo very much for teaching and learning with me.... God bless y'all!!!!
Thank you for your wisdom and inspiration - as always!
Awesome ...Wisdom so precious from Dr.Shefali..Much power to you doctor
Wonderful and wonderful! I love her, this is the best refresh I hear in the last few years of teachings
OMG! SPEECHLESS.........❤️
Your brilliant.. You are definitely changing the world
The teacher is always ready. It’s the student that needs to appear. ❤️🙏
Love her! Amazing wisdom every.single.time!
wow wow wow, thank you for sharing!
Just WOW. Thank you
27:30 Interviewer: wowow, let's not get too crazy
27:31Shefali: true , committed and in integrity with the message through the wise mind, declares the message. No reactivity , no stand up, no bigotry, no display of dejection that wisdom is not seen for what it is .
True respect for your being Shefali
Thank you, I learnt a lesson. respect. 🙏
28:06 interviewer: maybe a litte
28:06 dr Shefali: the same 🙏
She should teach the last higher GE class in college...Before we go ahead and start messing up life and have Children of our own. 😤
Yes!! I would even say way before college because kids are having kids really young like 15/16 😳
It’s always such a pleasure to listen to you. The resonance is spot on always, so much validation and heart expansion. ❤️
Be accountable for who you are and grow more and it's on going
I LOVE THIS WOMAN!
Thank y’all so much dearest 🌹
Y’all such an inspiration 🥰
Be Blissful Eternally 🙏😇🌈
Thank you for going online 🙏🏻
Universe blesses us, Thankyou
Absolutely feeling this message is all i can say. Thank you Shefali
Thank you so much ❤🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for that!
I love your truth!!
Dr.Shefali ,LoVe 💚You Beyond 🙏🏼
I would absolutely appreciate to listen you meditation.🙏🏼
Love this 💛
Wonderful!
Underrated, often misunderstood, but 100% true. Open consciousness
Love Dr Shefali🙌
💥🔥🔥💥 WOW AND THANKYOU! sharing this now
This lady. ♥️
I'm learning like crazy .... I've been following you for quite a while ... I'm on my pathway of liberation.... still few things to work on but that's the beauty of it ... thank you
The Super Sunshine's is so great ...Thank you Jesus...
Fabulous 🙏 speaking the truth💖
we appreciate you drshefali
Dr.Shefali, You know the secret.
bloody god damn brilliant! xx
Fantastic teaching on the breath! Life changing 🙏🏼
When a societys biggest concern is "what would we be doing if we werent suffering and arguing this way?"
It’s indeed great , should get more views
Amázing! I love how much she’s bringing conscious awareness. Everyone we meet teaches us what we need
She is wonderful
I love you from many lives
Great talk, would love to meet her.
Simply beautiful.
Beautiful as well
I am glad the audience is so responsive but the overt come-ons and fawning of Dr. Shefali is hard to watch. I think these fellows were really touched and were reaching back but I have a hard time with the way they expressed it. I think I may be attached to some ideas myself if I am taking the lessons from the video to heart. This was an amazing video to watch.
Awesome Thoughts🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amazing 😊😍🥰❤️
Thank you for saying about donations, bcs i felt that is correct way, how can u put price on something and decide the worthiness
Thank you 🙏
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I love you human ❤
Lovely, the mechanics of "the breath is now". That breathing happens in exactly the actual moment.
And anything in the mind that is not exactly in that breath and now, is outside the now.
"My bills"
No, the now.
Breathe.
"My child"
No, the now.
The breath.
To keep pulling mind from all the outside the now.
With practice, the now expands.
From the breath of the self to the collective breath.
The world becomes less of a burden and more of an actual exploration.
If only the people who are really running this state that we are in now, could hear this, really hear this. We all would be in a better way.
Stop trying to rule the world 🌎
Elect are witnesses in the preservation of freedom, divine human will to self-govern.
Appointed the guardians of liberty, divine human domain of sovereign SAFETY.
Love ❤️❤️
Pure science is humanity and LAW(LandAirWater)
LAW is encoded into the mind soul and heart of humanity as freedom sound reason and liberty in, by, through participation. Giving ONE a reverence for all creation.
At first hearing, it seems provocative- The World is evolving quite fast in Modern Sciences since the last Century- it is at Infancy level in Neurology. All that HB learns is from Others, starting from his Parents,the first Educators. As HB learns as early as in the womb of his Mother and absorbs All as a Sponge, seeping and absorbing everything (food for his Body, Mind, Spirit) that is being fed and exposed (good and bad) during his Childhood. HB may have ,or will surely have to decide over his choices after his learning, acquiring Knowledge, developing his Consciousness.
Principle based rather than AGENDA driven
Friends-Obligations
Family-liabilities
Society-debt
32:58 she does a meditation
AWSOME
Form is legal personality superimposed over our true character and nature, self-governing sovereign self rule. Mind soul heart.
Its not just the exploration of space and robotics and tech.
We don't have the capacity to meet that AI with the emotional depth of a new born.
Like giving keys to a formula 1 race car to a child in utero.
The "self" is us all at once. The space that contains us all. The energy beyond all labels and identities.
"But who am I if I'm not christian?"
Try just not judging anyone else until you notice you nearly never judge any other at all if ever.
Then see what happens after a few years studying that.
And don't worry about who you'll be.
If you're removing judgment of others, a huge door opens.
The physical realm are the artifacts of yesterdays consciousness. To remain attached and detached is to see it like photos in a photo album of loved ones.
Those loved ones aren't those photos anymore.
They aren't the 2 year old. They're an entirely different reality.
Life and its artifacts are very similar.
The feelings in this realm require much practice to understand. You can't jump to knowing.
She has the knowing.
But it took years of deep self study.
People get high on feeling good and generally tend to just watch people like her rather than be prepared for the work.
So many addicts.
So few practicioners.
Because it is.work.
And if yer doing it right it fucking sucks in the beginning.
It can even catch ya by surprise after practicing for decades.
Sure, the recoveries are more swift, but the physical realm is in a forever state of decay.
The collective self of consciousness is eternal. To be eternal and witness the decay of the physical plain like aging in the human body.
The whole as my personal piece is within my form. The artifact from another generation. And as I watch it age and decay over 100 years, my within is eternal.
The brain has stored memories like a photo album, and I can make them real to me. But they won't be real to others as they are to me. No one can see that part of me. And yet, within, everything is stored neatly.
The physical plain is like a museum I get to visit.
Yes.
Even when its a new swanky restaurant. Its already in a state of decay.
And so I love it while its around.
Its likely to be impermanent.
Most things are.
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Dr. There is something similar in you & Aishwarya rai.🤔
(May be the beauty of soul that shines from within)
I have a question, what about coaching? At 11:05 she talks about dependency on psychotherapists. That we should be able to "move on" from psychotherapy instead of looking at it at something that we need or the rest of our lives. But, in your opinion, is life coaching the same? Or should we be in life coaching forever? Do we need that as part of our long term personal development?
Coaching is opening the self up to being the profile residing inside each of us that we keep hidden for no legitimate reason. A good Coach helps with bringing that person out versus TELLING or providing direction when the direction already exists.
Liz , if I understand her ..... she talks about detachment to every form in this world and focus on our inside that has no form. That is where wisdom lies. Focusing on your inhale and exhale of air in silence.
Hearing her one more time may help too.
Then Coaching is not required.
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Does anybody knows her zodiac sign pleaseee? :D
The three temptations in the wilderness are:
1- Titles
2- Names
3- Status (Quo)
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her knowledge and the way to explain that data Is fucking amazing. Powerful
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Thank you Shefali. My son is 3.5 years old. Could you suggest one of your books that I can refer to ?
I'm so horrible I didn't understand her 😪 I feel depressed already I can't take charge in my family anymore 😞
You are too Beautiful. . . ..
It seems the levels of consciousness, which I think there are seven, mirror the mansions in heaven that Teresa of Avila speaks of. The Kingdom of Heaven is here right now inside of us. It's called Consciousness.
Yes and christian parenting teaches this.. nothing new.
Hi. . Interconnectedness & Vibrations of. NADA. == when the sharing // you are the Knowing, not the condition that is known -- e tolle. // knowing that we are borrowing Earth from Future Generations ,, ,, I have a Question :: y is the words -- knowing & borrowing == has. ,,,, wing. ,,, at the end of them and the word -- Generations. -- has. .... gene. // at the beginning of the word. //// y. What means
Damn I was thinking self help/development books and videos and everything. BUT just watch these videos and take ownership of yourself!
Loved it