Stop setting goals and limiting your life...be Illogical
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- Опубліковано 28 сер 2024
- We can’t believe the lie that we are our accomplishments or we need goals to succeed. Setting a goal is the easiest way to fail. Stop setting goals, don’t put a limit on your life your happiness or your achievement. #BeIllogical #shorts #IllogicalBook
This is fake deep.
You set goals and achieve them and then you set new goals after reaching the original goals.
By setting the new greater goals you aren’t limiting yourself.
Exactly. Got the bots in the audience clapping for superficial statements made at high volumes.
i knew there was gonna be a hater in the comments lmaoo
Goals only for me
Instead you can just set systems in place that will bring you to a higher advantage then people who just put an objective in one place
@@maximusneal2642exactly that's what I was thinking the video was talking about. People have talked about using systems instead of goals before
I've never looked at having goals this way and looking at it this way is actually life changing! Good stuff💯
I’ve always hated goals. They’ve never motivated me. Thank you for stating this in a way suited for me to communicate this to others. Just because I hate goals doesn’t mean I’m unmotivated or unsuccessful. I just don’t see them as a way to drive me forward because they seem limiting.
So what was driving you forward then and now?
They’ve always just given me the fear of failure
@@slickrick5596who tf are u to ask
“Why would I start something with the end in mind?”
Because part of the journey is the end. There’s an eventual end to something, and the more you stay on a journey, or in this case, the road to achieving a goal or an objective, the end’s going to be there.
The point is you don't even know what the end is
Listening to this sounds crazy. God finished the world and went back to our beginning to have us live it out. The Bible says he knows our end from our beginning. Why would you not want to see the end? We are living in time where everything has an end
“A goal is the simplest way to fail” No, my guy. Setting goals with unrealistic expectations while having little potential and ambition is an easy way to fail. Check your expectations.
Notice how he starts saying , “By 30…”, “By 20…” once you start putting ages and dates to many goals, they can become unrealistic and deter you from achieving them. So check your expectations as it relates to your goals.
There’s a difference between setting goals, having expectations and meeting those expectations. One can set goals and perform objectives to achieve their goals. There are times in life where we all will set goals and have set goals that we did not achieve. Just because a person sets a goal and doesn’t achieve it, that is not a bad thing necessarily. After all, a person may came close to achieving what it is that he or she sets. When expectations come into play, that is when the goal changes. Think about it. Putting unnecessary, unrealistic time frames on your goals and aspirations causes so many people to lose hope, dream and try to achieve.
He’s pretty much saying the same things I’m saying in this comment but he’s conveying differently. But when stop and think what it is that Acho is saying, you realize that he’s telling you what you already know. But, Set goals, you guys!!
Like I tell my students, set goals and aspirations for yourself. Make sure all your of goals are realistic and measurable, but always remember that life happens as well. It may deter your goal a bit, but keep going. Don’t stop.
You’re right. Word salad. An objective is a goal. He’s setting milestones and limiting based on expectations of meeting the objective/goal within a certain restriction. Don’t set limits on your goals/objectives. But setting time limits allows one to try to reach them and is a forcing function and if you fail you look at what you missed on and how to recalculate not wasting any previous effort by learning and improving on your way to the goal/objective. Different ways of looking at it and saying and doing the same thing. Just a different reference point.
The only ones dishin up a word salad is you two. Go ahead and stay simple minded with no originality.
I agree!!!! I have struggled with this and it took me a long time to come to terms with not meeting these expectations I set for myself.
1 year later, how are things going? I'm currently struggling with this at 23 and i feel like i've been going in a failure loop for years and i'm so tired of it.
Absolute BS!!! Set a goal, accomplish it. Then when that goal is accomplished, set another. If you fail, try till u accomplish it. Then set another. You build by accomplishing goals???
I would rather set a system in place making me limitless in growth then people who just have a spot on one place to fail 100 times too in order to get, itd really about choosing something that works more
There's nothing wrong with having goals and why are you treating "failure" as a bad thing? One of the best pieces of advice that I ever heard was "fail faster". In fact, for my entire life I have learned far more from my failures that I ever had from success. Especially when that success was (Forcefully) given/thrust-on to me.
There's nothing wrong with not achieving certain goals. Sometimes we drop certain goals all together and create new ones.
The problem is either setting unrealistic goals or rigidly following "the plan". That doesn't mean don't make any plans in order to achieve something you want. It just means be ready to adapt or even outright abandon plans that end up being either deadends or more trouble than they're actually worth. (Aka avoiding the sunk investment fallacy).
Very good point spoken about goals. I attained one of my goals and didn't think about surpassing it, until I got to it and thought about what was next. Instead of another goal, I'm thinking about having a different state of mind about my accomplishments.
Goals are still valid and vital,that is why we are expected to set achievable goals
But goals work for me, small or big. An objective with no limitations ia too vague for me.
1. It’s not setting a goal that’s bad it’s the mindset, if I set a goal and don’t achieve it, then you gotta rethink your strategy and come up with another game plan.
2. Just because you didn’t achieve your goal this time doesn’t mean you won’t get it the second time around. And when you do plan your goals you also need to set systems in place to achieve your goals without a system you won’t achieve anything.
3. Set bigger goals. Let’s say you want to make 10k this year make your goal 10k but don’t aim for 10k aim higher, 30k or 100k now you’ll start to think differently and view things at a different angle. So then if by the end of the year you didn’t make that 30k or 100k you definitely would’ve made 10k
Exactly!
You cant control your life by doing things how you want it, it changes by putting in a system of habits and not focusing on that objective really eventually you will pass it then the people who are more goal oriantated
A goal is not an end, it's a beginning. Look at it from a sports perspective; if you make a goal, you are not at the end, you move on to the next goal. It sounds like you have just one goal in mind, rather than setting multiple goals to reach the "end" as a winner. Illogical was the perfect title for your book.
Goals are limited, greatness is limitless.
It’s called making adjustments too!
An objective is a target. IE a goal 🥅
The book loves up to the hype y'all, get it!
Failure is not bad.
This book is so good! It normally takes me a while to finish a book. I’m two days in and already past 100 pages. Its like having my best friend hype me up!
My God my God that was deep and powerful what a message
See don’t think of a wheel as a round object on which things can be moved, think of an object that can move things because it has a circular shape on 2D axis and in the 3dimension it occupies space in a limited linear fashion. And that my friends, is how you roll.
😶... 😅
Even if u don’t set any goals or write it down your mind still has a vision of achieving certain things and only goal setting will make the achieving clear, set goals or not u r gonna still regret some things in life
Goals are NOT dumb.
In his zeal to sound intelligent, he should have said this.
Goals are the outcomes you intend to achieve, whereas objectives are the specific actions and measurable steps that you need to take to achieve a goal. Goals and Objectives work in tandem to achieve success. If you create goals without clear objectives, you run the risk of not accomplishing your goals.
A goal is NOT an end. If the mind can conceive it, you can achieve it. He acquired some knowledge, but he did not have a clear 'understanding' of what he is saying about goals.
I would say a whole scenario here but I will say add transparency. Too many days, years, decades and lives are lost in time because people cheat.
Transparency! Is! MANDATORY!
-Brooke
You’re right. Word salad. An objective is a goal. He’s setting milestones and limiting based on expectations of meeting the objective/goal within a certain restriction. Don’t set limits on your goals/objectives. But setting time limits allows one to try to reach them and is a forcing function and if you fail you look at what you missed on and how to recalculate not wasting any previous effort by learning and improving on your way to the goal/objective. Different ways of saying and doing the same thing.
What? An objective is a goal. What does "an objective without limitations" even mean? Like, set realistic goals, yes. And don't limit yourself, sure. I don't think you're addressing the actual cause of the issues you mention here.
Failing to meet a goal doesn't mean that you shouldn't have one, you have to have a focus, and isn't having a goal or objective the same thing? Also, don't you continue to pursue goals/objectives until you do reach them?
Thank you.
Fuck that..set goals. Some u get some you don't..thats life. Its hard no matter WHAT.
Wow....powerful!
How come God sees the end from the beginning? Aren't we meant to think like God when we set goals? Aren't realistic goals mediocre or self limiting? How come we get into war when we know we can't win? Isn't it foolish to take the path of death when you know you can't win the war? Our human thoughts are flawed if we look at them taking a different approach.
That's why you're supposed to set realistic goals. Key word, realistic.
If a person is 33 and physically handicapped and want to become an NBA player by 35, then get mad when it doesn't happen...? Reality sets it.
But the same person wants to walk by that age, is a bit more realistic, depending on the severity of their condition. And stop rushing yourself with time stamps.
Yes and no. Acheiving a goal is the end but can also be the beginning. Small goals are the beginning to bigger goals and bigger goals are the objective of a successful fulfilling life. A life that will eventually end. Everything ends. Some people just dont know how to set realistic goals and end up failing and giving up. You should always set smaller goals first.
Goals and objectives work together. Goals are NOT dumb. In his zeal to sound intelligent he obviously left this out. You need both to work toward whatever it is you setting out to achieve.
Semantics 😏🙄 ... to sell a book 🙄
how to set objective? And how would you not be dissapointed when you don't achieve that objective?
Exactly
But also some need deadlines, small ones, to stay on track. Life is so overwhelming with almost no reward these days. I can kick out meaningful work and all I hear is "why wasn't it this way" and my personhood is challenged for for a sick day, being meticulous, for proposing a bigger role or better comp elsewhere.
I don't like to pull "you're lucky" on people, but I'm so tired of being hounded for good work ethic over pure bored "what if" thinking by higher ups who like to speculate and tear down achievements because THEY set unspoken goals on ME that I definitely failed, but they're inconsequential. No, not saying that to oppose. Some people are truly so privileged and comfortable that they're bored to create conflict. If you've never been in it, good for you, try to keep it that way. But some professions really are ostrich looking for a hole to stick their head in, and if all else fails, they'll just go right up their own.
AMAZING N BRILLIANT MIND...Thank you Acho!
Lol
Goals or not you are going to fail but personally I would rather keep something in the back of my mind & work towards it than move off thought but maybe I jus haven’t got to that stage of mind yet
Just because you put music behind something doesn’t make it profound…Setting goals keeps you on task it helps you execute at a higher level when you don’t write it down you can’t visualize it. But when you do write it down it becomes clear.
just set a lot of goals and so the variety of i couldve done better or the goals are too hard decreases because you will always reach some of them but neber all of them
D Wade is the last person to talk bout this subject
AND YET Dwade did not speak in this clip.
@@ralexand8888 and Yet ik this and u clearly missed the point
@@manyfaces2614 I guess written words dont be wording some times.
@@ralexand8888 🤷♂️
What’s so bad about reaching for the goals and failing huh?
You're confusing goals with destinations. A goal is only a waypoint, not an end. I want to lose 20 pounds. Then I may want to lose 20 more.
Twitch looking healthy
Poor twitch 🤦♂️ rest easy brother
Wait. What? Lmao
Rewatch it
I understood it. It makes no sense to me. But to each their own.
u wont fail if u didn’t set goal, only because there is nothing to measure, and it doesn’t mean u are success either!
if u can’t even reach the goal, how come u think u can go beyond the goal? limitation is not exceed if u don’t even come close to the goal….
For me, I disagree with this, even if you don't achieve your goals, I'm sure there are one or two things that you'll learn along the line. And when you fail that is an obstacle out of the way cuz you know, ok that way didn't work so I have to change my strategy.
Setting goals doesn't necessarily mean achieving them at that exact time. i think you are also forgetting the "God factor" we don't know what will happen tomorrow or next but we always have plans, that's just how it is, I don't know if I'll be successful exactly at 20 but I can aim towards being successful, either at 20 or 30, whenever, a day will come when all the hard work will pay off. So goals are important.
Nice word salad … guy makes a living among them
Well you just don’t write and wait, you write and you work on it and look at it every day
This doesn’t make sense - man’s statement was both incredulous and illogical. There’s nothing wrong with failure or struggle in context. “Goal” is synonymous with “Objective”. If you fail to meet the deadline of your goals, look at the goal, your controllables, and the parameters you set and adjust accordingly and get after it. I know 4 men who became fathers after the age of 40, and 10 others right of college - both groups aimed for it to be that way. Come on man.
I go to the airport to take a ticket with the end destination in mind. Why would someone go to the airport without the need to get somewhere?
BARS‼️
I don't get it, what's the point?
Goals are bibical. Proverbs 21:5. Goals are good. What kind of goals are you making? Putting God in your goals ....you can never fail.
Great, but could u give us examples? I think that would help your message, dm me if you would like to talk more about this, specifically why I think you should add some examples.
Sad that Twitch did not think he was enough. Rest In Peace!
Why do I feel like he just ran some game? It sounded so good until you play it back 10 times. . .lol Isn't an objective a goal?
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Dam!! Shit hit home!!
first
big fan acho
R.I.P. Twitch....
Where's Ellen
This video ended my depression .Thank u ❤❤❤
Need to speak more to lack of initiative and motivation but meh
I disagree with him. Yes you should look at yourself and assess where you went wrong. Plus, goal setting can’t be put on things like marriage, kids etc - those things are out of one’s control. Goal setting is about success driven actions, having discipline to execute on a plan until it is realized. This guy is an amateur.
My credentials: 31 yrs old. Married. 1 baby. Millionaire.
Illogical......I sure won't follow this advice
He didn't really make a convincing case tho.
How is an objective different? lol
What kind of Ellen rip off is this lol
Lol this guy said a whole lot of nothing. He says to set goals without setting goals. Real weak mental game on display here
This is total BS...