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  • @IAllegedly
    @IAllegedly  Місяць тому +6

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    • @billallen504
      @billallen504 Місяць тому

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    • @SSNESS
      @SSNESS Місяць тому +1

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  • @patplante8739
    @patplante8739 Місяць тому +46

    No way would I go. If you can't pay for your own wedding...don't do it

  • @silversleuth007
    @silversleuth007 Місяць тому +23

    I have spent my entire adult life training people to not invite me to their events.

    • @IAllegedly
      @IAllegedly  Місяць тому +6

      I read this twice. That’s actually very funny.

  • @marysmith9824
    @marysmith9824 Місяць тому +78

    Would I pay this? No. No. No. Not in a million years. Such a request is unbelievably rude. What is wrong with people? And, would those people do the same for you?

    • @therooster6104
      @therooster6104 Місяць тому +8

      Absolutely agree Mary,No is my view also 🙏🏼🌹

  • @royparker9509
    @royparker9509 Місяць тому +135

    The wedding couple sound like a product of the entitlement generation.

    • @Riowestie
      @Riowestie Місяць тому +12

      They apparently do not know etiquette!

    • @SoFloPepe
      @SoFloPepe Місяць тому +20

      Bingo , spot on , desensitized entitled brats

    • @ryanlight1013
      @ryanlight1013 Місяць тому

      They sound like pieces of shit

    • @NoDaysOff-oz2zl
      @NoDaysOff-oz2zl Місяць тому +6

      Nobody should get married

    • @DeannaClark-oo9ut
      @DeannaClark-oo9ut Місяць тому +3

      Generation my foot.....can't blame it on their age group. being that spoiled I don't give it 5 years.

  • @shelly1747
    @shelly1747 Місяць тому +81

    Would I pay to go to someone's wedding? Not on your life. I give gifts to whomever I want. Not paying to attend a wedding.

  • @Ghost_of_Joe_Biden
    @Ghost_of_Joe_Biden Місяць тому +43

    These days, I avoid social occasions that puts me in a position that I feel grifted upon. 100 people paying $2,500 is $250,000. HELL NO!!!

    • @Riowestie
      @Riowestie Місяць тому +7

      I think the parents are con artists and trying to make an extra buck.

    • @michaeloneill5877
      @michaeloneill5877 Місяць тому

      And there you have it, a RESOUNDING "NO"

  • @Eyes2theSkies
    @Eyes2theSkies Місяць тому +21

    What blows my mind is, people paid to go to the wedding! Unbelievable.

  • @keep.on.trying
    @keep.on.trying Місяць тому +3

    So many zoos take in wildlife that are not able to be rereleased, and take in rescued exotic pets.

  • @jimmyPx9
    @jimmyPx9 Місяць тому +36

    I'm about Dan's age and have been to many weddings in my life. I have found that there is a direct correlation between how expensive the wedding is vs how long until the divorce. I swear almost every single big fancy wedding that I have attended, there is a divorce within 5 years. Small to moderate weddings have a much greater chance of the marriage to last.

    • @DeannaClark-oo9ut
      @DeannaClark-oo9ut Місяць тому +6

      We married in the Tet offensive of January1968 because his brother in law chaplain was doing the service and he was shipping out. My dad gave us $400 and the ice storm sure showed who my friends were. Money can't buy such things.

    • @debbieschultz106
      @debbieschultz106 Місяць тому +3

      Number 1 reason for divorce is money. They start in the hole before they're life begins

  • @WilliamLouis-vk6wz
    @WilliamLouis-vk6wz Місяць тому +41

    I told a young man who was getting married to save first for the divorce and then save for your wedding

  • @dennisfetterman1644
    @dennisfetterman1644 Місяць тому +80

    We have two daughters you’re 10 years apart. when the oldest got married, it was traditional when the youngest got married, we told her she too could have a traditional wedding or something simple and her mother and I would give her the money we would have spent on the wedding they took the money and now they own a house😁

    • @andrewsnyder9262
      @andrewsnyder9262 Місяць тому +3

      Yea that’s fair. Count on resentment setting in for the older daughter.

    • @susandavey3312
      @susandavey3312 Місяць тому +2

      ​@@andrewsnyder9262perhaps the elder daughter was also offered the cash. In the 1970's, during the Carter recession, this was also very popular. My friend took the $, they bought a two story home, rented the main floor for the payment amount, lived in the vacant part. As their equity grew, they mortgaged the 1st house, bought a 2nd rent house, rented it for the payment amount, and after ten years of doing this, ended up with four homes, two completely paid for. Smart start, wasn't it? But a nice wedding can be worth more than any house, just depends.

    • @dennisfetterman1644
      @dennisfetterman1644 Місяць тому +2

      @@andrewsnyder9262 no she’s fine her grandmother gave her the house but thanks for the concern.

    • @andrewsnyder9262
      @andrewsnyder9262 Місяць тому

      @@williamlyons3947 yuk. My wife and I got married 10 years ago for free on a beach. Well we had to pay for the notary and a few details along with a family meal afterwards but there is no reason to go crazy on a wedding that has a 50% chance of failing.

    • @dennisfetterman1644
      @dennisfetterman1644 Місяць тому +1

      @@williamlyons3947 are you kidding me in this country wedding memories on average don’t last more than 7 to 10 years.

  • @user-cl5ov9dx5o
    @user-cl5ov9dx5o Місяць тому +10

    Had someone pretending to be a power company person drive up to my neighbors home. Immediately went to the back side of house. I went out, took a picture of his CAR and tag #. Then walked around to ask for ID...He immediately stopped and ran to his car. Wound not have seen this without CCTV

  • @blondepoupon
    @blondepoupon Місяць тому +19

    This year in my family, we had 4 high school graduations and one wedding. Sent money to the graduates and 1/4 oz of gold to the bride and groom. Only got a thank you from one of the graduates.
    If i had to pay that kind of money to attend a wedding, I'd say to the couple they need more than money...how about A Shrink bcuz they r mental!!

  • @jimwolfe4286
    @jimwolfe4286 Місяць тому +79

    Dan, PLEASE READ:....Wedding Charge: $2,500...OK........My Charge to Attend your Wedding....$5,000.......Do you still want me to attend ??....Have a Nice Life !!....

    • @IAllegedly
      @IAllegedly  Місяць тому +19

      Exactly. It’s outrageous to think that people should be paying this stuff.

    • @Pax0122
      @Pax0122 Місяць тому +8

      Exactly!!!👍

    • @roxannerobertson554
      @roxannerobertson554 Місяць тому +13

      Priceless response!🤦‍♀🤣👍

    • @mermaidgurl5635
      @mermaidgurl5635 Місяць тому +16

      I would not pay an admission fee for a wedding

    • @williamcollins4583
      @williamcollins4583 Місяць тому +9

      Unbelievable.. can you say unfriend me…😭

  • @gwencowan135
    @gwencowan135 Місяць тому +27

    Would I pay for this? No way.

  • @virgierutledge3004
    @virgierutledge3004 Місяць тому +12

    Weddings and fake people make me sick. I would never pay for that nor attend a Destination show wedding. Doing this and asking people to pay is selfish and hedonistic. This world is lost. Dan, you are right in the olden days 1969. I was 19, working and lived at home still. My parents were on the poor side. But we had a good life. They gave me $200 for my wedding. My seamstress charged me $50 for the dress. I paid for all refreshments and flowers. The church downstairs reception was free except for custodian. My husband to be was working, age 20 paid for the organist, preacher and his parents paid for a wonderful rehearsal dinner at a local nice restaurant. I did register but not for ultra expensive crap. We still remember those friends and family giving us nice things. We are 74, been married 55 years. We worked hard and are happy. I pity the greedy.

  • @dorasidrian7482
    @dorasidrian7482 Місяць тому +2

    How shameful, definitely would not attend. I live in California, a nephew got married early this year and he set up a webpage asking for donations to help pay for their wedding. If anyone cant afford to pay for a wedding they shouldn't go that route.

  • @connievaughn8468
    @connievaughn8468 Місяць тому +4

    No, I would never pay that. Ultimate greed.

  • @barjer54
    @barjer54 Місяць тому +2

    I'm appalled at the gall some people have with their expectations. A 30-ish couple went on the nextdoor app and asked for picture *and* honeymoon money! The backlash was severe & rightfully so!

  • @paullabrie6082
    @paullabrie6082 Місяць тому +22

    In my family we absolutely enjoy meeting after a church wedding and celebrate at a home by everyone bringing their favorite food recipes and BYOB. Low cost and the great love abounds!

    • @brettloo7588
      @brettloo7588 Місяць тому +4

      Simple and comfortable is Infinitely better to me than boujee and expensive

    • @barjer54
      @barjer54 Місяць тому +2

      My gen X daughter put off wedding plans for 10-yrs. She's happily celebrating 2-yrs soon after a simple surprise wedding with her congregation. A well off couple hosted the event. The congregation brought covered dishes thinking it was for a fall festival. They pulled it off perfectly!

  • @debbieschultz106
    @debbieschultz106 Місяць тому +4

    I'm a caterer. I've been in business for 35 years. I've never heard of such a thing.

  • @slim3160
    @slim3160 Місяць тому +13

    The bride and groom need to go to the courthouse and pay for they own stuff

  • @357Addict
    @357Addict Місяць тому +7

    I've heard people say, you can't put a price on friendship. I guess, now you can.

  • @nancyjones3039
    @nancyjones3039 Місяць тому +10

    We had an affordable backyard wedding but we had it at a home we bought ourselves and it turned out to be a good decision. Equity is an amazing thing!

  • @kathleenbaer7037
    @kathleenbaer7037 Місяць тому +9

    The sense of entitlement runs deep.

  • @wb7942
    @wb7942 Місяць тому +15

    No.
    That's what wedding gifts are for.

    • @Noworries-PU7ye
      @Noworries-PU7ye Місяць тому +2

      Yep I would not pay it. Even if it meant my friendship with these people. I don't care

  • @alandixon6500
    @alandixon6500 Місяць тому +11

    Not even for Family ......!!!

  • @edwardgarcia614
    @edwardgarcia614 Місяць тому +9

    I would send an expensive congratulations card with the receipt and bill asking for the payment for the card. lol Yes I would !

  • @johntiger5
    @johntiger5 Місяць тому +3

    There's a sucker born every minute". Who's the fool..the one asking for it , or the one paying it?

  • @Riowestie
    @Riowestie Місяць тому +13

    I wonder if the Bride and Groom know that the parents of the Bride are doing this?! This is outrageous. My response would be, 'Is this an April fools joke?!" 😂

  • @josephking7674
    @josephking7674 Місяць тому +7

    I wouldn't attend if they paid me $2500

  • @DianeBianchi_MnWx
    @DianeBianchi_MnWx Місяць тому +5

    No, I would decline the invitation. It never makes sense to me about these hugely expensive weddings. A waste of money.

  • @barbaraleach2891
    @barbaraleach2891 Місяць тому +25

    I’d decline the invitation, and email them a $25.00 Amazon gift card for a gift.

  • @Catfish5577
    @Catfish5577 Місяць тому +3

    My wife and I went to a big wedding for one of her coworkers. The wedding was so big it took 2 churches, one where the wedding was and the other had CCTV so everyone could watch. We watched. It was very nice, the reception was on a huge horse farm. We had a great time, the couple had an annulment 6 weeks later. I'm not sure how much money was spent but I know now what, money can't buy me love means.

  • @missyk1477
    @missyk1477 Місяць тому +18

    Hmmm....I'm not sure what is more asinine....the couple charging people to attend their wedding or the person(s) who actually paid to attend the wedding. For $2000+ I can find way better events to attend / things to spend my money on than a wedding. Just say'n.

  • @greyballer1671
    @greyballer1671 Місяць тому +1

    I live in a small town in South Dakota now but have lived in Chicago and Minneapolis for most of my life. Nobody gets in my house without a warrant.

  • @762foryou
    @762foryou Місяць тому +11

    Nice Dan!
    In the 1990's in San Diego I was working with a tree trimming crew trimming palm trees in Vista, CA. As I was in the first palm about 40ft up, I witnessed a landscape crew pull up to a house 4 doors down and three guys hopped out, one guy started edging the front lawn and the two other guys headed to the back. They were gone in ten minutes. Turns out the two guys in the back robbed the house and the edging guy was just a front. The people didn't have a landscaper. The crazy thing is they used the blower and cleaned up the sidewalks and driveway😆

    • @brendamartin7280
      @brendamartin7280 Місяць тому +3

      Wow that's terrible

    • @greatestever8976
      @greatestever8976 Місяць тому

      Cocky criminals! I hate to say it, but we should all have cameras.

    • @NoDaysOff-oz2zl
      @NoDaysOff-oz2zl Місяць тому +1

      I'm stealing that idea

    • @crosslink1493
      @crosslink1493 Місяць тому +2

      Interesting aside: I live in a suburban neighborhood of houses with fairly small yards front and back. I WAS the only one on my block who was still doing their own yardwork in 2023. This year about 4 of the other 20 houses started doing their own yardwork, and none of the houses have been up for sale in the last year. Things must be getting a little tough out there.

  • @lisacarden1309
    @lisacarden1309 Місяць тому +9

    Thank you for the field trip Dan!
    🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @michaelsupranowitz8265
    @michaelsupranowitz8265 Місяць тому +18

    Once had an invention for a wedding in England at an old Castle. If I went with my wife it would have cost over $5k . Air fair , gift, housing for the weekend. We did not go and don't regret it at all.

  • @patriceh-tissier6425
    @patriceh-tissier6425 Місяць тому +25

    ss for Americans 1200$ ................................ for illegals 4000$ a month plus unlimited......... advantages!....................................can you explain to me people !...good job Sir.

    • @babs01655
      @babs01655 Місяць тому

      I don't even get $1,000 a month. Really is ridiculous they are giving these Illegals everything on a silver platter while we Americans are struggling to just survive!!!

  • @hekterr6677
    @hekterr6677 Місяць тому +14

    It could get really expensive over a lifetime,as a lot of people get married multiple times! Reminds me of a friends father in regards to his daughters second marriage..Hey -- are you going to _--‘s wedding? His reply”No,I’ll go to the next one”

  • @robertjhilliard2403
    @robertjhilliard2403 Місяць тому +10

    Boomer here.... traditional simple is great....it works....we took our cash gifts and put down on a house ...70s

  • @candacebakasy620
    @candacebakasy620 Місяць тому +8

    I would not attend

  • @TXJan0057
    @TXJan0057 Місяць тому +6

    Bank of America made some questionable loans to Diddy without proper collateral. Wonder why?

  • @lori282smith2
    @lori282smith2 Місяць тому

    Being a teacher I would grade the invitation. Give them an “F” and mail it back!!

  • @bradknight2618
    @bradknight2618 Місяць тому +5

    I’ve been married 3 times, I’ll be sending out bills tomorrow!😂😂😂

  • @hagarolsen
    @hagarolsen Місяць тому +1

    Correct me if I’m wrong, but the UK grocery stores that are sending these messages are bordering on giving medical advice. Here in the United States I don’t think they would be allowed to give medical advice. I would do a couple things if I were to receive any messages like that from a store. The first thing is, I would ask them if they were my medical doctor and knew my specific medical history in order to give me advice? And the second thing, I would do is not shop there anymore.

  • @allegrabraun7545
    @allegrabraun7545 Місяць тому +9

    No I WOULD NOT😂
    Do not get married if you can't afford it😂AND
    I wouldn't pay for their divorce either😂

  • @KS0102
    @KS0102 Місяць тому

    It's easier to beg for forgiveness than permission to steal.

  • @adelefortin6913
    @adelefortin6913 Місяць тому +3

    A year or two later, they are divorced. Then you can pay for another wedding when they remarry later again.

  • @raffyzoo2130
    @raffyzoo2130 Місяць тому +1

    the divorce costs even more

  • @johns4699
    @johns4699 Місяць тому +31

    I wouldn’t pay that for my own son.

    • @sscbkr48
      @sscbkr48 Місяць тому +1

      I'd rather be hanging out with the animals than attending a wedding. Watching that poor bear wandering aimlessly breaks my heart.

  • @HeidiPerkins-w1m
    @HeidiPerkins-w1m Місяць тому +1

    People get married much later in life and pay for their own weddings now. Charging people is like begging.

  • @lyntrombley6382
    @lyntrombley6382 Місяць тому

    No never ,They are out of their minds. Wonder if they would attend a wedding requiring the same.

  • @bdcochran01
    @bdcochran01 Місяць тому +7

    People do what they want, especially with weddings.
    1. I went to a wedding at the Beverly Hills Courthouse in January. Wealthy couple. Frugal. Have a new home. No wedding gift registration. No crowd. The new home is remote. The couple had a photographer.
    Based upon my expertise, the bride made a simple request. Now every room in the house has a flashlight capable of taking rechargeable batteries with chargers and she also received a fire extinguisher.
    Years earlier, the groom's brother had to had the wedding on the beach in Mexico! That marriage is history, of course.
    2. Everyone is so different. If you are speaking about gifts, I don't have an answer. For my wedding gift, my wife received a wedding gift from a cousin that still had the note that indicated it had been a wedding gift to the cousin.
    3. Years ago, we were invited to a wedding. It was held at a lavish country club. Very expensive. We didn't take a gift to the wedding ceremony and I asked my wife how long we could delay. One year was the response. Good, the marriage was annulled within the year. When my wife asked how I knew, I responded that it was a sham wedding for business purposes.

  • @nitaihammari6994
    @nitaihammari6994 Місяць тому +1

    Yes, the dancing bears! And yes it is true he is alive, fed. As a teenager I used to imagine getting the job of being the "human" exhibit in a zoo. Living in a grotto with a swimming pool? Amazing!

  • @kathytierney3855
    @kathytierney3855 Місяць тому +7

    Wow! No way.

  • @cynthiachronister4082
    @cynthiachronister4082 Місяць тому

    Here's a good one my friends husband has dementia but his psychologist still calls every week for his counseling session😅

  • @Lynnette-e9n
    @Lynnette-e9n Місяць тому +2

    I would never pay anything to go to someone’s wedding and my gift would be moderate from their registry. The amount people pay for weddings these days is nuts! I live I. The mid west and most of the weddings I go to are punch, cake or cookies, or may little finger foods. A meal provided by the grooms family is often held for Close family and friends after the ceremony and the reception is held by the brides family in the evening. People are making it too hard! If someone sent me an invitation asking for money I would send them a letter saying that I was unable to attend.

  • @PostScript23
    @PostScript23 Місяць тому +1

    Hi Dan! I can’t believe that anyone would have the nerve to ask such a question??? A wedding is supposed to be about celebrating a family member or friend that wants you to be a part of the joy on their special day! It isn’t about the venue, food, flowers, etc. I’ve been to lavish weddings and backyard weddings and I’ve had a wonderful time at both ❤. The younger generations seem to feel that they are owed something and I think it’s time they realize that no one really cares enough to “pay for your wedding day” except maybe your parents!!! So NO I WOULD NOT PAY TO ATTEND A WEDDING🥹

  • @appomattoxross6751
    @appomattoxross6751 Місяць тому +7

    The Next Insult:
    "Hi there. I'm having a party at my house. Please RSVP. Please send payment of $300 towards house payment and food. Thanks."

  • @nancywynn5596
    @nancywynn5596 Місяць тому +1

    I would not pay to go to a wedding as you described I did go to a wedding where I paid for my airline tickets from Michigan to Carmel CA. It was absolutely a beautiful wedding. Groom’s parents rented a house for our families. So nice and wonderful memories!

  • @robertwalker5521
    @robertwalker5521 Місяць тому +7

    "FHA can't reach 17% of the customers who are delinquent on payments) by phone or mail ..NOTHING!"
    Solution : Go to the property address and
    KNOCK ON THE DOOR !!

    • @IAllegedly
      @IAllegedly  Місяць тому +3

      It’s going to happen

    • @crosslink1493
      @crosslink1493 Місяць тому

      By the time the mortgage company/FHA knocks on their door it'll be too late. It'll be Dan's friend posting the house in preparation for foreclosure.

  • @DeannaClark-oo9ut
    @DeannaClark-oo9ut Місяць тому +2

    When did the grace leave American life? A classical musician, my husband's side gig was strolling violin and in the 70s and early 80s things were VERY different. My 2 year old and I were invited to come along with him to a big Jewish wedding with all the trimmings at the yacht club here. The bride's father told us to eat all we wanted, drink, have fun....this was not unusual. At the Hilton he played requests for many WWII vets and their wives, many celebrity families, like Henry Winkler's (the Fonz) mother and dad treated by son for a trip to the East coast and Savannah. There were Mother's day breakfasts with more working class families....but EVERYBODY was polite, appreciative, and left tips...a huge blessing for the musician!!
    Around the early 80s people changed...all the friendly chatter and tips were gone...everything was getting colder. The yuppies had arrived....and with them grace and appreciation left the building. Been all about money and snot ever since.

  • @acidfroggy1194
    @acidfroggy1194 Місяць тому +2

    I'd tell the couple to get married at City Hall. You can get drunk at the local pub afterwards and still save thousands!

  • @slong835
    @slong835 Місяць тому +6

    Next insult: we are pregnant: gender reveal $1200 ( oh...its twins 😮)

    • @DianeBianchi_MnWx
      @DianeBianchi_MnWx Місяць тому +2

      And the next insult after that: It's the twin's first birthday party! Pay up if you want to watch them smear cake all over their face.

  • @patplante8739
    @patplante8739 Місяць тому +4

    The bear was walking like it was hurting in the hip area

  • @daleolson3506
    @daleolson3506 Місяць тому +1

    Insane a hard no.

  • @xmare6
    @xmare6 Місяць тому +3

    no I would not

  • @MarcHasaraMarcHasara
    @MarcHasaraMarcHasara Місяць тому +1

    I don't pay for or buy anything I don't specifically need or want anymore.

  • @tommak6516
    @tommak6516 Місяць тому

    If some scammer posed as utility employee they would have fake ID. And a fake phone number to call where another fraud person could answer and 'verify.'

  • @sonyameinecke45
    @sonyameinecke45 Місяць тому +2

    No I absolutely wouldn't have paid or attended.

  • @maryclebeau
    @maryclebeau Місяць тому

    I love today’s trip! What a beautiful day! 😊

  • @phxmateo
    @phxmateo Місяць тому +1

    Never

  • @stevew6138
    @stevew6138 Місяць тому +3

    OMG................ they want me to make a down payment on the divorce? LOL...............

  • @6ftfox
    @6ftfox Місяць тому +1

    Why are you even go? I don’t understand who pays to go to somebody’s wedding that’s absolute nonsense.

  • @borstan2811
    @borstan2811 Місяць тому +1

    Hey Dan, not sure if you lost your wireless mic but audio hasn't been great last couple vids. Makes a big difference. Thanks and appreciate all the great content!

  • @dmark6699
    @dmark6699 Місяць тому +2

    Reminds me years ago when my boss got married besides the expensive gift registry there was a donation expected at the wedding of 100 dollars plus.

  • @kenlang2154
    @kenlang2154 Місяць тому +2

    Yeah, the city of Topeka bought the hotel and then had to put a lot of money into repairs and updates. 😧

  • @theraptureisnearbelieveinj448
    @theraptureisnearbelieveinj448 Місяць тому

    I wouldn’t go to that wedding, and I wouldn’t be friends with those people again. 🙄

  • @johnb-qw9sp
    @johnb-qw9sp Місяць тому +2

    I would only attend if i were immediate family. Otherwise, sending a card with a check.

  • @ajett5081
    @ajett5081 Місяць тому +2

    Next the animals in the zoo will charge you for visiting them and not bringing them snacks.

  • @arizonamountainwoman3750
    @arizonamountainwoman3750 Місяць тому

    I would NOT go. Forget it. I would send them a lovely card to congratulate them, but I would not attend. No gift.

  • @denisep.98
    @denisep.98 Місяць тому

    If I was charged to attend a wedding, I would RSVP my regrets.

  • @Prince_Arcturus
    @Prince_Arcturus Місяць тому

    I’m so tired of hearing about people complaining about the price of food, drinks and parking. I told them if they didn’t like it I’d stop inviting them over to my house.

  • @coloradopackratprepper
    @coloradopackratprepper Місяць тому +2

    I wont pay for their " Wedding" and i wont pay for their Divorce either!!!! for that matter the gift is now out so lose my number.

  • @renardfranse
    @renardfranse Місяць тому +5

    they will be divorced in a year with this way of thinking!

  • @robertwalker5521
    @robertwalker5521 Місяць тому +1

    That black T-shirt suddenly grew a collar
    during the sponsor/ad.... amazing .

  • @birdingtrip7101
    @birdingtrip7101 Місяць тому +1

    I would take that money and go out of town, and have some fun for a week. I think weddings of casual friends, are pretty much a drag anyway. No way.

  • @bburn1793
    @bburn1793 Місяць тому

    Couples i know paid for a significant part of their weddings. Parents were unable to pay the full cost.

  • @KristopherStidd
    @KristopherStidd Місяць тому

    Thank you for the video Dan!!! ❤❤

  • @azplanner4546
    @azplanner4546 Місяць тому +5

    That's stupid. There is no wedding I need to go to where I would pay in order to attend. They should elope.

    • @IAllegedly
      @IAllegedly  Місяць тому +2

      Think of all the money they wasted

    • @Riowestie
      @Riowestie Місяць тому

      It's like paying to buy things at Costco!!!

  • @aldgatewest
    @aldgatewest Місяць тому +4

    Jesu Cristo!! Did the guests also get to attend or even take part in some "honeymoon entertainment" for the price of attending the wedding maybe?? If not, I would've thanked the bride and groom for the invitation, and then politely would have told them that I would've loved to have been there, but I already had plans to change the oil in my car that day.

  • @lot2196
    @lot2196 Місяць тому +3

    My two sons got married last year. I gave them each $5,000.

  • @TXJan0057
    @TXJan0057 Місяць тому +3

    In Texas it's a custom for Mexican couples to ask family and close friends to sponsor certain parts of a wedding or quinceañera. I have only been asked once, but my niece who asked me also asked what I thought about it. I told her it's not a custom white people have, but if she wants to, it's her business.

    • @tangyjoe4326
      @tangyjoe4326 Місяць тому

      Yes, close friends and family. And it’s generally accepted that at some point it’s reciprocated: when those 15 year old girls get older they’ll be sponsoring things for other family members, or Uncle pays for the cake, somebody will buy the cake for his daughter’s ceremony when it’s her turn. It’s completely different than these greedy, entitled couples trying to profit off their wedding. Unfortunately like everything else contaminated by social media, things have gotten more over the top over the years for quinceaneras too.

  • @kenlang2154
    @kenlang2154 Місяць тому +1

    Another good one Dan 🎉

  • @aquatecpoolservice4547
    @aquatecpoolservice4547 Місяць тому

    I believe that you don't even bother with a wedding because you've already consummated the wedding either on the first or second date. But throw a kickass divorce party. Then depending on the venue, sure charge a few bucks.

  • @greyballer1671
    @greyballer1671 Місяць тому

    Wouldn't have even gone. Nope.

  • @lizacopeland2388
    @lizacopeland2388 Місяць тому

    I paid my own wedding and the beverages were all paid for by me. My in-laws paid for the rehearsal dinner and gave us several thousand dollars for our honeymoon.