Nne it is because you are successful in your career, that's why they find you attractive. Some are literally coming to cash out, not actually finding you attractive, while some are there to catch cruise with you and move to the next available big engine. Due to the way Nigeria society is currently structured, most people in both genders view intimate relationship as scaling point to clinch to a new height in their lives even though i will not dispute the fact that some youny guys that are at the midpoint of their career in the same society don't want to role with a woman who is still struggling in her career. Most of these older guys you are expecting are still busy chasing and wooing teenage girls around. So it's just a norm in the Nigerian society they found themselves. Nne just assuming you are still struggling to survive in your career, none of them will find you attractive, talk more of dating you. Finally, go for who meets your ethics and let it be open for review by yourself as our society changes daily. That's all I can say, though. Ngwanu ka ọ dị nwaanyị ọma.
I think it's wrong to have negative thoughts like that, Asa, In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with being in a committed relationship with a younger guy, as long as he is not just looking for a short-term fling. By the way, I have been harboring a crush on you for a while now, but I was reluctant to tell you earlier because I thought you were already married. However, now that I know you're still single, I feel relieved to let you know how I've been feeling."😊
Nnem you have the right to your own opinion but you have to equally retrospect and introspect your situation and thoughts because if you’re still on the market with your checked baggage and all the goods you’re genuinely interested in are not so much there per say, you have to reconsider and have a critical look at what’s at your disposal because you might end up being surprised and overwhelmed by what you see, life is not always black and white “ The stone that the builder rejected might be the Chief Corner Stone “ age is just a number, they maybe be younger by age but older and more mature in their thinking and deeds, in other words, in my own opinion, I would advise you to give them a chance not necessarily being intimate with them but you can have a better chance of vetting them if you give them the opportunity to prove their worth, it might be that you’re not destined to be with the older man, who knows…. By the way I’m one of your fans and an older admirer from Imo State but in the diaspora. You’re a great woman and a very intelligent and beautiful outspoken woman. You’re my crush but I’m not on the bigger side though. I wish you all the best 😊😊😊😊
I would have sarcastically given you a direct comment if I hadn't spent couple of minutes listening to your 20mins rant. Somewhat interesting in your video you gave some valid reasons which is quite considerable in your own context, however to the best of my knowledge some factors might be the reason why some people are attracted to older gender & vice-versa. Yes as a single working class lady who takes care of herself in this present Nigeria, you get lots of attention from most guys in that age bracket cos they're more out-spoken than people born in the late 60s' and 70s' kids. 60s & 70s' kids are more reserved and retrogressed with age, way pass their prime at this present moment. Secondly, could I say the environment or your social circle of you find yourself at any given time? Thirdly, 12:59 says it all. You know you've got what they want so why are you complaining 😄 Nothing bad about "chyking", its shows your market value is still on upward trajectory for a lady in her late 30's with a kid is something to commend. 👍 Do you think you will get "hit" by younger guys if you already had a ring on your finger?? Well, if the younger guys see you and come aim at you, You too if you see older guys you like, you aim for them. Nothing feels uncomfortable like seeing what you want and letting it slip off your fingers.
If the younger guys are mature minded, I think you should give them a try. Some could be young body big engine! Go ahead and have fun. After all it could be God's will for you.
I'll advise you go for a man older than you. An older man will treat you better and like the queen you are. The younger ones are after you because you have exceled in your career. You are a public figure and they want to connect with you. I'm of the same opinion with you; I can't go nude for someone I'm older than. Growing up, I never dated a guy I'm older than. When suitors started coming for me, I considered age. And I resolved I must marry someone who's is at least 7 years older than me. I'm a married woman now with 4 grown kids. My hubby is 10 years older than me, and he treats me like his kid sister. I'm enjoying my marriage and the relationship I have with my hubby. My dear sis, an older person will not toy with your emotions, he will genuinely love and adore you so far you accord him his respect and regard.
Just be careful ooooooo!
Nne it is because you are successful in your career, that's why they find you attractive.
Some are literally coming to cash out, not actually finding you attractive, while some are there to catch cruise with you and move to the next available big engine.
Due to the way Nigeria society is currently structured, most people in both genders view intimate relationship as scaling point to clinch to a new height in their lives even though i will not dispute the fact that some youny guys that are at the midpoint of their career in the same society don't want to role with a woman who is still struggling in her career.
Most of these older guys you are expecting are still busy chasing and wooing teenage girls around. So it's just a norm in the Nigerian society they found themselves.
Nne just assuming you are still struggling to survive in your career, none of them will find you attractive, talk more of dating you.
Finally, go for who meets your ethics and let it be open for review by yourself as our society changes daily.
That's all I can say, though.
Ngwanu ka ọ dị nwaanyị ọma.
I think it's wrong to have negative thoughts like that, Asa, In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with being in a committed relationship with a younger guy, as long as he is not just looking for a short-term fling. By the way, I have been harboring a crush on you for a while now, but I was reluctant to tell you earlier because I thought you were already married. However, now that I know you're still single, I feel relieved to let you know how I've been feeling."😊
Nnem you have the right to your own opinion but you have to equally retrospect and introspect your situation and thoughts because if you’re still on the market with your checked baggage and all the goods you’re genuinely interested in are not so much there per say, you have to reconsider and have a critical look at what’s at your disposal because you might end up being surprised and overwhelmed by what you see, life is not always black and white “ The stone that the builder rejected might be the Chief Corner Stone “ age is just a number, they maybe be younger by age but older and more mature in their thinking and deeds, in other words, in my own opinion, I would advise you to give them a chance not necessarily being intimate with them but you can have a better chance of vetting them if you give them the opportunity to prove their worth, it might be that you’re not destined to be with the older man, who knows…. By the way I’m one of your fans and an older admirer from Imo State but in the diaspora. You’re a great woman and a very intelligent and beautiful outspoken woman. You’re my crush but I’m not on the bigger side though. I wish you all the best 😊😊😊😊
Apt 👌
I would have sarcastically given you a direct comment if I hadn't spent couple of minutes listening to your 20mins rant.
Somewhat interesting in your video you gave some valid reasons which is quite considerable in your own context, however to the best of my knowledge some factors might be the reason why some people are attracted to older gender & vice-versa.
Yes as a single working class lady who takes care of herself in this present Nigeria, you get lots of attention from most guys in that age bracket cos they're more out-spoken than people born in the late 60s' and 70s' kids.
60s & 70s' kids are more reserved and retrogressed with age, way pass their prime at this present moment.
Secondly, could I say the environment or your social circle of you find yourself at any given time?
Thirdly, 12:59 says it all. You know you've got what they want so why are you complaining 😄
Nothing bad about "chyking", its shows your market value is still on upward trajectory for a lady in her late 30's with a kid is something to commend. 👍
Do you think you will get "hit" by younger guys if you already had a ring on your finger??
Well, if the younger guys see you and come aim at you,
You too if you see older guys you like, you aim for them.
Nothing feels uncomfortable like seeing what you want and letting it slip off your fingers.
You shaaaa
If the younger guys are mature minded, I think you should give them a try. Some could be young body big engine! Go ahead and have fun. After all it could be God's will for you.
Guess the reason why the younger guys are attracted to you is because you look Younger
I'll advise you go for a man older than you. An older man will treat you better and like the queen you are. The younger ones are after you because you have exceled in your career. You are a public figure and they want to connect with you. I'm of the same opinion with you; I can't go nude for someone I'm older than. Growing up, I never dated a guy I'm older than. When suitors started coming for me, I considered age. And I resolved I must marry someone who's is at least 7 years older than me. I'm a married woman now with 4 grown kids. My hubby is 10 years older than me, and he treats me like his kid sister. I'm enjoying my marriage and the relationship I have with my hubby. My dear sis, an older person will not toy with your emotions, he will genuinely love and adore you so far you accord him his respect and regard.
hi
Cos u r beautiful, anyways let me let u know I ain't younger and I find u attractive