DON'T GET MARRIED THEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shit, just date until you're ready to share yourself with one person only. That is not marriage, that is NOT a commitment.
Wait so I'm confused. At first, they described "open marriage" as just being honest with constant dialogue then they moved on to intimacy or seeing other people. Why would a preacher even "entertain" guests whose conversations, life choices or standards are contrary to the word of God? EVE sinned the moment she considered what the SNAKE had to say -- not when she took the bite of the apple and certainly not after she coaxed her husband to eat too. We already have examples of alternate relationships from the world, we don't need paper Christians co-signing an alternate life style or coaxing us to eat off the tree of Life and Death. Mo'Nique is so used of the enemy that she dare ask John to check with his wife to make sure she's not contemplating an open marriage. How subtle is that to sow a thought in that man's head immediately after he said there'd be a 100% divorce rate in his house. Remember, this was the SAME MAN who was a virgin up until marriage. How soon he forgot how painful it was to wait for the blessing of a Godly wife and children only to entertain a different type of marriage now that he's "grown"? And fellow pastor Jamal celebrates the idea, SMH! It may not be scriptural, but the saying is true: if you play with fire, you will get burned. And if that's not enough know that EVIL communication corrupts good manners. Come out from among those who will lead you astray in these last days. It's not worth the pay!
THE KNOWLEDGE BEAST if women only knew the half of it -- how powerful sex is they may not be so compelled to be promiscuous. But don't get it twisted, the hormones women secret during intercourse also impacts a man's mind is why he'll circle back to the same woman in between excursions. It's not a win-win situation either way, but the culture is such that you must and should sleep with everyone you meet or you're not cool or worthy.
People don't know the meaning of a biblical marriage...these type of marriages are not Christ like nor are they done to bring God glory. That's the problem. 😔😫
I’m so glad that I see many people in the comments with their heads on straight enough to know what the Word of God actually says 🤦🏾♀️ I’m 19 and I know this is wrong it will not work because “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” Hebrews 13:4 KJV When you bring dishonor in your marriage it will not work. God has to be in the center not other people from the outside because that’s immoral. It’s not about what these “preachers” consider a sin it’s about what The Most High God considers as a sin! And he definitely did not say go have sex with anybody you want to in marriage because it’s a reflection of our relationship with him. That’s like him saying you can worship me and still worship and serve other Gods that’s contradicting the word of God all around. Those that are true believers not only believe in the word of God but also LIVE by it daily. Our own morals and rules will not work!
It's like as Pastors....Your thier to encourage people....Of all the things why bring on a couple....talking about consent about adultery...WHY?!???...it was promoted as an option as long as you talk about it???.No it's still a sin...It wrong .......this show is just stupid..
@@Tnz_ira200 lol, so you tahent actually read any of the Old Testament then? Cuz these dudes had multiple wives and concubine their whole lives until they died: Solomon, David, etc. How come the Bible never had abythung to say about that?
@@dankxng you’re right about this. However, I always fall back on God’s intention. When he created Adam, he gave him one woman, Eve. Men have free will and do what they want, but that doesn’t mean that it was God’s intention for men to have multiple wives. Just my perspective....
No. No sex. None. No matter how you feel. Sex in marriage, that's what THE KING dictates. Contrary to popular belief and wishes - this universe is NOT a democracy but a THEOCRACY. He's coming and I wouldn't be on the wrong side of Him for NOTHING. Friendship, job, family, spouse, culture ... NOTHING! Jesus said that it would be like this and worse. We haven't seen ANYthing yet according to scripture. It will be Hell on Earth - literally.
They are making a mockery of what God intends for marriage. A marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman and Him. Its a joke to them and Jamal bryant is a hyprocrite. To call himself a man of God is an insult to God himself and i don't respect him. He said on national television in a laughing manner that he believes in open marriage and then even furthered it to say that he forgot to tell his wife when he would step outside of their marriage. I don't expect much from Monique and her husband tbh. They are not believers in Christ. To me it just gave me the impression of a modern day Ahab and Jezebel relationship. She basically told him because she is an entertainer she couldn't guarantee that she would be able to be faithful to him and he agreed to it as long as he could step outside their union. How twisted is that? But what is truly unacceptable is the fact that noone on the podium tried to minister to them and tell them What the bible says about adultery but instead they allowed Jamal bryant to make a joke about it. What example is he showing to those who are out in the world about believers in Christ? It's quite sad. We have to do better as believers. We have to not only speak the Word but we have to live it in our everyday lives just not in the pulpit on Sundays. We have to be examples of Christ and uphold his name in a righteous manner. Those preachers are embracing sin and not standing bold in being a firm believer in Christ. To me it's all for the love of money and not for the glory of the Lord. It's disgusting.
+Dionne Saucier totally felt the same way. I was so hurt watching this as well but I don't think the show really allowed him the opportunity in the time slot or else it would have seemed like he was judging :(
yeh if you think about it it's kinda sad for them. That's why the Bible says get married young after you leave home. to avoid all those problems people have when they get older.
+Andre Spivey Having an open relationship can work really well for some people, however, as people, we're also inclined to be sexually jealous of a partner being with someone else, and from a biological standpoint, we're resistant to that partner having another relationship.
+Andre Spivey God created marriage to be between one man and one woman. It is to be respected by all and The marriage bed is to be kept undefiled as scripture says (Hebrews 13:4). It's a sign of immaturity to want an open marriage instead of real commitment and doing it God's way.
I just came across this show. Are these men actual preachers? if so i don't think they are biblical because in no way would a good christian entertain such a conversation.
You're right. These are the people Jesus warned us about. Wolves in sheep's clothing. They use the Lord's name to spread their true agenda. You can not be a worldly Christian. You're either for or against God.
I agree and not give the Word of God with no compromising. God don't change. There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death. Proverbs 14:12 What they think is okay is not what God calls okay. 3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 1 Cor 7:3-5 He is her husband thats who he is. Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Heb 13:4 Shame on them all. God don't change. Enemy got them sewed up. God ordains marriage and Satan wants to destroy it.
She has been married 3x's no judgement on her I'm just saying... there are plenty of couples that are thriving without having to cheat on one another openly.
uhhh, actually, a number of the patriarchs in the "Bible" had more than one wife; yet, I agree with you. Polygamy in the Bible, only reveals how dysfunctional all of those relationships were (there existed nothing but strife, envy, pain and heartache amongst all of the women who were espoused to one man). In the context of this obscenity (this video clip), they are merely whore-mongering swingers. Honestly, all the men on that panel are suspect... meaning, they show signs of homosexual tendencies, especially Monique's "husband", and the over sized host. And these are the so-called black spiritual leaders??? Our folks are going out the world backwards.
Did you really just say that... Like really you can't be that misinformed to say something like that...Marriage is a not JUST a christian institution. This is why black need to learn our history. Our REAL history. This was a sad comment for you to make. Just go do research. SERIOUSLY.
He can joke on this show about his sin but he won't be joking when he face God and how he is accountable as a preacher to live according to the bible. It won't be a a joke when he's in hell though! This is soo sad, preachers more concerned about entertaining the world than preaching the gospel and helping to save this world! Insanity.
First of all, what he said made me burst out laughing. Secondly, he has already paid dearly. He lost his church and family because of the affair. He has admitted he was wrong and apologized to his wife and church
A blatant, open attack on biblical marriage. I am deeply saddened by the pastor's response to this woman's warped view on marriage. How will they know unless they are told.?This was an opportunity to shed light on her otherwise dark world. And it was lightly dusted over with laughs and jokes. This is no joke.
The one hosting got me off guard because I was thinking he was gonna come back and say despite what u feel truth still stands ... Sin is sin and God will not be mocked for his wrath is as deep as his grace ... Marriage was made by God and he set the rules .. we may not like it but we gonna stand by it because we are not of this world and we will stand apart and walk the narrow road of righteous... But I guess this is just a platform for views and wealth and love of the world rather than a platform for God
Have you seen, John Gray's response to Open Marriage? You should check it out. It's towards the end of the show. It is apparent that he didn't want to get into an argument with Monique and they allowed her share her views.
+Richard Ediok i agree. When people are stuck in their way of thinking like Monique and her husband are here.. it's hard to try and explain anything different. Especially that the lifestyle they're living is ungodly. I'm not sure why Jamal thought this was a beautiful thing...
Yea I do have to agree that John looked uncomfortable from the get go however Jamel seemed to be encouraging it and was for it and that just rubbed me the wrong way
He shouldn't have had her as a guest on the show to talk about topics he knows is anti-Christ and against Biblical principles so it doesn't matter what he really thinks. He allowed baby Christians and others to be exposed to this type of mess. Imagine if a couple was struggling and listening to Jamal tell it or John mishandle it. They will both be responsible for serving the "fruit" of this alternate lifestyle. Remember, sin is in the THOUGHT long before it's an ACTION. We are to guard our HEARTS from THOUGHTS and PASTORS are supposed to SHEPHERDS who PROTECT sheep. Both men opened the sheep up to deception!
I’m 17 years old & I have a purity ring. I’m 100% confident in saving myself for marriage. Before I even knew that’s what I wanted, I know it’s what God wanted for me. Watching this makes me sick to my stomach. How do you call yourself a preacher and encourage this mess! Marriage is one of the most holy and sanctified things. How dare you mock God and say that having sex outside of a marriage is ok? Smh these are the days
Please don't be discouraged. Keep your purity. It's worth it and you will be glad you did it for yourself . God still has people who are devoted to Him. These are the very last days. These are so called pastors who are truly not pastors but wolves in sheep's clothing.
Open marriage = oxymoron. They shared vows but didn't abide by them. These people don't know what marriage means. Marriage is not selfish. All i see are two childish people who made a grown up decision to get married. You want to see other people then just date.
You don't seem to understand that everyone doesn't want the same things, and not every relationship is the same. Being open in your relationship doesn't mean people aren't committed to each other. It's you claiming they aren't committed to each other.
I'm not saying it's right or wrong but I like to clean out that a lot of the founders of Christianity that people admire so much had polygamous marriages. They had more than one wife. King Solomon and like what 600 wives and then concubines on top of that.
"Who am I to tell her what she can and cannot do? And if I did tell her...is there a possibility that she could still do it anyway?" Dude is weak. There's no justification for an open marriage.
Of course there is. It takes two secure people. Our society is full of insecure people that cheat instead. It is still happening we all want to think it can be controlled or should be controlled. It is called ethical non monogamy but it isn’t for those that stick to their life long conditioning of brain washing and possessive nature of another while married.
@@diegom8 thats insecure. Being so scared to be left so you agree for everything and being disrespected. Thats some low esteem people who goes this way, or there is no love they just slutty friends who wants to keep some when they run out of options
What's the point of marriage if it's going to be open? 😂😂 This is why I'm never getting married. It's all a joke. Just be single if you want to be open.
I always knew that Monique had a low self -esteem but really? Why get married if you're going to give the one you love to someone else? Just stay single because it's not a marriage its a situation Definitely nothing to be proud of!
This isn't that uncommon to me. Couples just don't talk about it this way. There are many people out there who say that cheating isn't a deal breaker. That, to me, is an open marriage. It's very unfortunate that these grown folks don't have more self control. How can you raise responsible children when you can't even stay true to the marriage that YOU chose to be in. This raises so many questions. When you indulge, do you tell your spouse every little detail? Is any type of sex off limits? Do you use protection EVERY time? Is it worth it when someone brings an STD or new baby home?
For Kingdom Builders, an "open" marriage is NOT an option. Listen carefully to what's being spoken in this video. Did you notice what Monique's husband said after Jamal Bryant's statement? You are human, NOT a Pastor or Preacher. Her husband is exactly right. Jamal Bryant is willfully forfeiting his calling. The WORD says "be ye NOT conformed to this world(human behavior), but transformed(spiritual maturity and Godly behavior) by the RENEWING of your MIND!! Let's THIRST AFTER Righteousness my fellow Kingdom Builders and "root out" this unbelief and division in the Body of Christ. I am thankful to my Queen, my Proverbs 31 Woman, my LOVE for honoring Our Father and then me with her commitment regarding Holy Matrimony. FINAL THOUGHT: If matrimony, in and of itself, was considered by the Father to be holy then there would be no need to place "Holy" in front of matrimony. So clearly, there is Holy Matrimony and there is Un-holy matrimony. The choice is ours . . . I love you all with the LOVE of Our Father. Peace
As we all know, the dark side takes the beauty of what our Lord created and tries to distort and destroy it. The purpose is to Pervert the family structure and weaken all involved. Study John 10:10.
+amcra1 Because these men are suppose to be ministers of the Gospel of Jesus Christ! Gods word is not for adultery! These men are looking and sounding like false prophets!
I hate when black people say this crap. There is no hell it's 2016 people educate yourself. We're in the age of information and we're still carrying on with the hell and heaven dogma/fear tactics. I love you black queen but we have to stop this propaganda.
Be NOT conformed to THIS world but renewed by the transformation of your mind THROUGH the WORD of GOD. How does this platform or conversation edify that?
yes in the bible there are men who have had more than one wife but that all changed when Jesus died on the cross. He redefined what marriage was to be "wives submit to your husband, husbands love your wife as Christ love the church," see singular
They had more than one wife for Specific reasons in the Bible explains that in many scriptures God reminds us what is was from the beginning that’s a sin and it’s not the law of God
Please leave this show immediately John Gray, I've watched you for years and you are someone who I respect. Your encouragement to young people is so powerful. This show will destroy your credibility, please run far from this nonsense. This is not worth jeopardising what has taken years for you to build. Please.
ADULTRY SHOULD NEVER BE GLORIFIED- IT'S NOT WHAT WE CONSIDER SIN, IT IS WHAT GOD SAYS IS SIN. Proverbs 14:12 “There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.” FIRST OFF I AM NOT SHOCKED AT WHAT THE WORLD DECIDES TO DO BUT TO THESE PASTORS WHO SHOULD KNOW BETTER, ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS WOW AND WOW!!!!
I love John Gray, mostly for his integrity and stance, but this show will devalue him in the name of "ratings". He already had A Voice and a MAJOR platform to be heard by the world. Jamal was already a freak show and clown. John is better than this....
This is sickening… and then pastor Jamal sitting and saying that’s amazing and saying “y’all church people “ not gonna like it or have a heart attack, and continue to try to justify this sin because both him and Monique is from Baltimore. Being from Baltimore don’t have nothing to do with that. Pastor Jamal is out here teaching false doctrine. He straight up said he believes in open marriage but suppose to be a pastor. I’m not God so I have no right to say what he should be, and if The Lord truly called him, him needs to reevaluate his beliefs and repent before it’s too late, cause otherwise if this is a belief he’s standing on till the day he die, then maybe he’s not called by God. If he’s truly called by the Lord, then I repent for saying that he’s not, but he needs to repent
Ok I've clearly wandered into the wrong section of youtube again. I've no idea who these people are or what's going on so I'll be going now ok .... Bye... X
Okay, what I don't understand about Monique and Sidney' s decision to have an open marriage is why go public with it? There is something called privacy. What is the point on talking publicly about such a controversial issue? I would never talk publicly about my personal business. I don't get it.
Gonna have to start taking names! Seems like only a few people still hearing from God. May you not be lead astray in any way. May God keep you from Evil.
This a conversation of the “light” and the “dark”. It will Never mix. 14Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
God created marriage to be between one man and one woman. It is to be respected by all and The marriage bed is to be kept undefiled as scripture says (Hebrews 13:4). God set those boundaries in place to protect us and to bless us with having a fruitful, committed relationship giving yourself to that one person.The truth has to be preached. period. If it's not then we are doing a disservice. and many have accepted right as wrong and wrong as right they reject truth for their lustful, selfish desires.
Polygamy is practiced throughout the entire bible and there is nothing specific against multiple wives unless you are a priest, bishop deacon etc...for everyone else it was practiced. That is the truth...he specified for his ministry leaders, but kings and others nowhere does it say it is sin...not to mention it was widely practiced. Read that thing for what it says, not for how society interprets...if you find it in there I'll believe it, but I suspect that you wont. Polygamy is marriages, just multiple wives, polyandry is multiple husbands I believe.
I'm a South African and I'm so confused... About what is happening on this show, I understand that it is hosted by preachers but what message are they trying to send to people?? The Gospel of Jesus Christ or foreign doctrines of this world!
I understand it is possible to be in love with one man and want to date another. This is a brilliant idea. Some of y’all are getting cheated on right now and because you don’t know you think shit is so perfect lol
ain't that much open in the world, she said that's her best friend.They changed the narative when they decided to marry they might as well stayed single. and not involved the sacredness of it all and took vows between her and him and God. ...opinion!!! To each is own.
Is there no such thing as real Biblical Christianity anymore??????? The Bible is not for "private interpretation" The Bible says what it means and means what it says!! The unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God! One of these so called preachers should have "openly" rebuked them for their un Godly open marriage!
Yes one of them should have rebuked them right there on the show I am sadden by their behavior Jamal Byrant and the other guy they are not true men of God they are false prophets I pray they repent to Our God before it is to late I am a Single woman wow I really have to know I heard my father God on who my future husband truly is this is frighthen if a woman donot have soild relationship with God she will not be able to discern when the wolf dress in sheep clothing comes her way
evil can never be good and woe into those who call evil good. God's word, his direction dictates the marriage bed is undefiled for the two that have become one. Anything else is fornication and adulterous.
I like there reason. Open marriage study has been shown to work and give the couple a bit more of what they can’t give each other, but in a more unified way. Shit, If she of all people is successful, then it’s worth looking into
How can you say you honor your spouse by being “ honest” about sleeping with other men. What a mockery of the idea of Christian marriage!!! This whole show is a joke. These “preachers” are NOT godly men but simply entertainers!!!
Looking at all of these comments...what if they just got a civil marriage and not a religious marriage? Civil marriage is just used for laws. This doesn't go against civil marriage. It does go against religious marriage.
Was marriage invented before or after the time of Jesus? Jesus was alive around from 4BC to 32 AD and humans have been around for at least 10,000(according to creationists) and a maximum of 100,000-200,000(according to geology and science). Human ancestors(nonhumans) have been around for 6 million years.
Yes Isaiah 5:20 woe to those who call evil good and good evil who put darkness for light and light for darkness who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter
Can’t imagine being married when your famous so much temptation when traveling and meeting new people. Normal people work and go straight home but people with money travel and live luxury lifestyles as they meet people just like them. Rich people are never home.
With 'pastors' like this, the enemy can sit back and relax.
I agree 😂😂
agree with you
Has nothing to do with the pastors but with her and her husband’s lifestyle
Okay!!!
Explains, the reason pastor not in the Bible.
Mo’nique, this is such a mess. Just bc she speaks with passion, doesn’t make it right.
She can convince anyone with that voice.
@@alishaally1819 you weak then.
She sounds like she's on something
Amen to that! People get so paralyzed by how passionate someone speaks.
Say it again for the people out of state .
DON'T GET MARRIED THEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shit, just date until you're ready to share yourself with one person only. That is not marriage, that is NOT a commitment.
Right Crystal.
real talk
Wait so I'm confused. At first, they described "open marriage" as just being honest with constant dialogue then they moved on to intimacy or seeing other people. Why would a preacher even "entertain" guests whose conversations, life choices or standards are contrary to the word of God?
EVE sinned the moment she considered what the SNAKE had to say -- not when she took the bite of the apple and certainly not after she coaxed her husband to eat too. We already have examples of alternate relationships from the world, we don't need paper Christians co-signing an alternate life style or coaxing us to eat off the tree of Life and Death. Mo'Nique is so used of the enemy that she dare ask John to check with his wife to make sure she's not contemplating an open marriage. How subtle is that to sow a thought in that man's head immediately after he said there'd be a 100% divorce rate in his house. Remember, this was the SAME MAN who was a virgin up until marriage. How soon he forgot how painful it was to wait for the blessing of a Godly wife and children only to entertain a different type of marriage now that he's "grown"? And fellow pastor Jamal celebrates the idea, SMH!
It may not be scriptural, but the saying is true: if you play with fire, you will get burned. And if that's not enough know that EVIL communication corrupts good manners. Come out from among those who will lead you astray in these last days. It's not worth the pay!
THE KNOWLEDGE BEAST if women only knew the half of it -- how powerful sex is they may not be so compelled to be promiscuous. But don't get it twisted, the hormones women secret during intercourse also impacts a man's mind is why he'll circle back to the same woman in between excursions. It's not a win-win situation either way, but the culture is such that you must and should sleep with everyone you meet or you're not cool or worthy.
People don't know the meaning of a biblical marriage...these type of marriages are not Christ like nor are they done to bring God glory. That's the problem. 😔😫
I’m so glad that I see many people in the comments with their heads on straight enough to know what the Word of God actually says 🤦🏾♀️ I’m 19 and I know this is wrong it will not work because “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.”
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
When you bring dishonor in your marriage it will not work. God has to be in the center not other people from the outside because that’s immoral. It’s not about what these “preachers” consider a sin it’s about what The Most High God considers as a sin! And he definitely did not say go have sex with anybody you want to in marriage because it’s a reflection of our relationship with him. That’s like him saying you can worship me and still worship and serve other Gods that’s contradicting the word of God all around. Those that are true believers not only believe in the word of God but also LIVE by it daily. Our own morals and rules will not work!
AMEN!
Amen. Hallelujah to this response.
This is NOT a Christian channel....
Exactly
For real this is sad
It's like as Pastors....Your thier to encourage people....Of all the things why bring on a couple....talking about consent about adultery...WHY?!???...it was promoted as an option as long as you talk about it???.No it's still a sin...It wrong .......this show is just stupid..
This is sad,her husband is the head but he's acting like the tail
We ain't in the last days we in the last minutes.
You know! 😂😂 couldn't say it better
We in the last seconds
😂 werd
#JesusIsOnTheWay
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So as long as I notify the bank manager that I'm robbing the bank Tuesday at 11am it's not robbery because they know.
Lol 😂😭😅🤣😂🥲
What an absolute banger of an analogy! Spot on!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Never seen "open marriage" in the Bible, Bryant - God is not mocked.
Really? You must ain't read your Bible then lol. All the kings, prophets, and men of the Bible had multiple concubines and wives....
@@dankxng I am pretty sure they turned their lives around to be able to serve God!
@@Tnz_ira200 lol, so you tahent actually read any of the Old Testament then? Cuz these dudes had multiple wives and concubine their whole lives until they died: Solomon, David, etc. How come the Bible never had abythung to say about that?
@@dankxng you’re right about this. However, I always fall back on God’s intention. When he created Adam, he gave him one woman, Eve. Men have free will and do what they want, but that doesn’t mean that it was God’s intention for men to have multiple wives. Just my perspective....
@@shauntellewoods4050 exactly
Just stay single and don't get married if you wanna date multiple people
No. No sex. None. No matter how you feel. Sex in marriage, that's what THE KING dictates. Contrary to popular belief and wishes - this universe is NOT a democracy but a THEOCRACY. He's coming and I wouldn't be on the wrong side of Him for NOTHING. Friendship, job, family, spouse, culture ... NOTHING! Jesus said that it would be like this and worse. We haven't seen ANYthing yet according to scripture. It will be Hell on Earth - literally.
Exactly! Your comment is the realest.
Who are you to tell anyone what to do?
jcanthony16 I agreeEventually out of the two of them want to change their mind and then after that what do you have a great big ass mess
Common sense went out the window for the average person decades ago
THIS IS CRAZY!!!! LORD WE NEED YOU MORE THAN WE KNOW!
They are making a mockery of what God intends for marriage. A marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman and Him. Its a joke to them and Jamal bryant is a hyprocrite. To call himself a man of God is an insult to God himself and i don't respect him. He said on national television in a laughing manner that he believes in open marriage and then even furthered it to say that he forgot to tell his wife when he would step outside of their marriage. I don't expect much from Monique and her husband tbh. They are not believers in Christ. To me it just gave me the impression of a modern day Ahab and Jezebel relationship. She basically told him because she is an entertainer she couldn't guarantee that she would be able to be faithful to him and he agreed to it as long as he could step outside their union. How twisted is that? But what is truly unacceptable is the fact that noone on the podium tried to minister to them and tell them What the bible says about adultery but instead they allowed Jamal bryant to make a joke about it. What example is he showing to those who are out in the world about believers in Christ? It's quite sad. We have to do better as believers. We have to not only speak the Word but we have to live it in our everyday lives just not in the pulpit on Sundays. We have to be examples of Christ and uphold his name in a righteous manner. Those preachers are embracing sin and not standing bold in being a firm believer in Christ. To me it's all for the love of money and not for the glory of the Lord. It's disgusting.
Preach
go watch the 'Pastor Gray's take on open marriages" he discussed his beliefs there
+ENNNNIID Thank You for sharing that with me. I just wished he would've said that when Monique told him to ask his wife
+Dionne Saucier totally felt the same way. I was so hurt watching this as well but I don't think the show really allowed him the opportunity in the time slot or else it would have seemed like he was judging :(
Dionne, very well spoken!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So she's basically saying that it's not cheating if she knows about it. Sounds kind of sad to me.
yeh if you think about it it's kinda sad for them. That's why the Bible says get married young after you leave home. to avoid all those problems people have when they get older.
It’s sounds because you were feed and shoved down your throat to think that way. Don’t knock it if you haven’t tried it
low self esteem
Coconut soursop nope being jealous is low self of steam, you have to have high self of steam to be in a open marriage
No she isn’t saying that. She is saying that it isn’t cheating if he knows AND they agree. It is called ethical non monogamy.
the wife in the back like hell no
Right, but he was cheating anyway.
Why get married if you’re still going to “potentially” sleep with other individuals?
Marriage is a financial contract. A separate thing from sex/intimacy/love.
@@notabadword4026 the only person a marriage benefits financially is the woman so you sound mental .
@@cuttinupthecarpet504 No it doesn't yall just pick the wrong wives.
Open relationships to hold on or to keep my marriage... I think I would rather stay single.
I know right!
Jealousy is a sign of immaturity anyway.
+Andre Spivey Having an open relationship can work really well for some people, however, as people, we're also inclined to be sexually jealous of a partner being with someone else, and from a biological standpoint, we're resistant to that partner having another relationship.
So it's immature to not like (or be jealous of) your spouse having sex with someone else?
..... I'm just supposed to not feel some type of way
+Andre Spivey God created marriage to be between one man and one woman. It is to be respected by all and The marriage bed is to be kept undefiled as scripture says (Hebrews 13:4). It's a sign of immaturity to want an open marriage instead of real commitment and doing it God's way.
I just came across this show. Are these men actual preachers? if so i don't think they are biblical because in no way would a good christian entertain such a conversation.
I'm not even religious but I wholeheartedly agree.
You're right. These are the people Jesus warned us about. Wolves in sheep's clothing. They use the Lord's name to spread their true agenda. You can not be a worldly Christian. You're either for or against God.
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING THAT WAS DONE OR SAID ON THIS TRASHY PSYCHOLOGICAL PROGRAMMING WAS BIBLICAL! Read the Bible for yourself!
+C Ali Amen, sister!
I agree and not give the Word of God with no compromising. God don't change. There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death. Proverbs 14:12 What they think is okay is not what God calls okay.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 1 Cor 7:3-5 He is her husband thats who he is.
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Heb 13:4
Shame on them all. God don't change. Enemy got them sewed up. God ordains marriage and Satan wants to destroy it.
Those hand claps started thinning out...
i noticed that and i died LMAO!
Yes, it really did! lol
I hate to hear the rest of their story, I'm sure there's more.😩
Lol
Time stamp??? Lmao
Wow this is a bunch of senseless foolishness!!!!!!!!!!! Definitely not supported by the bible!!!!!!!!!
She has been married 3x's no judgement on her I'm just saying... there are plenty of couples that are thriving without having to cheat on one another openly.
uhhh, actually, a number of the patriarchs in the "Bible" had more than one wife; yet, I agree with you. Polygamy in the Bible, only reveals how dysfunctional all of those relationships were (there existed nothing but strife, envy, pain and heartache amongst all of the women who were espoused to one man).
In the context of this obscenity (this video clip), they are merely whore-mongering swingers. Honestly, all the men on that panel are suspect... meaning, they show signs of homosexual tendencies, especially Monique's "husband", and the over sized host. And these are the so-called black spiritual leaders??? Our folks are going out the world backwards.
go watch the 'Pastor Gray's take on open marriages" he discussed his beliefs there
Who said they were believers? Because they are not.
Did you really just say that... Like really you can't be that misinformed to say something like that...Marriage is a not JUST a christian institution. This is why black need to learn our history. Our REAL history. This was a sad comment for you to make. Just go do research. SERIOUSLY.
He can joke on this show about his sin but he won't be joking when he face God and how he is accountable as a preacher to live according to the bible. It won't be a a joke when he's in hell though! This is soo sad, preachers more concerned about entertaining the world than preaching the gospel and helping to save this world! Insanity.
First of all, what he said made me burst out laughing. Secondly, he has already paid dearly. He lost his church and family because of the affair. He has admitted he was wrong and apologized to his wife and church
Friendship with the world is enmity with God
@@CocoChanelle-1 it was nothing to joke about. If you are truly sorry for sin. This was not it and why this show never took off.
@@moniquewrites9046 he most definitely wasn’t joking when it all went down. He was totally humiliated before the world.
I hope this garbage gets cancelled. 👎🏾
Amen to that....I agree smh
amen
It is a christian show? Since when adultery ok?
Everything Or Nothing Right!!!! SMH
It is never okay.
RATINGS**
Exactly
Y’all don’t understand that open for them means honesty. Y’all immediately think it means other partners and get mad while y’all still get cheated on
when he falls for another woman/man then she going to regret it!!!!
woe unto those who call evil good and good evil....smh this world is crazy and these are pastors entertaining this foolishness
And??? What do you think they deal with everyday when they have pastoral care 🙄
+amcra1 if you remove the attitude maybe I'd understand the point you're attempting to make
+Not2008Me you don't tell me what to do het that straight
+amcra1 lol so immature
+Not2008Me yeah ok
A blatant, open attack on biblical marriage. I am deeply saddened by the pastor's response to this woman's warped view on marriage. How will they know unless they are told.?This was an opportunity to shed light on her otherwise dark world. And it was lightly dusted over with laughs and jokes. This is no joke.
You said everything right ✅️ except for him being a Pastor..😆😆😆🙏🏾❤️🩹
The one hosting got me off guard because I was thinking he was gonna come back and say despite what u feel truth still stands ... Sin is sin and God will not be mocked for his wrath is as deep as his grace ... Marriage was made by God and he set the rules .. we may not like it but we gonna stand by it because we are not of this world and we will stand apart and walk the narrow road of righteous... But I guess this is just a platform for views and wealth and love of the world rather than a platform for God
So that's me done with these 2 pastors ✌🏾 I'm out
Have you seen, John Gray's response to Open Marriage? You should check it out. It's towards the end of the show. It is apparent that he didn't want to get into an argument with Monique and they allowed her share her views.
+Richard Ediok i agree. When people are stuck in their way of thinking like Monique and her husband are here.. it's hard to try and explain anything different. Especially that the lifestyle they're living is ungodly.
I'm not sure why Jamal thought this was a beautiful thing...
Yea I do have to agree that John looked uncomfortable from the get go however Jamel seemed to be encouraging it and was for it and that just rubbed me the wrong way
He shouldn't have had her as a guest on the show to talk about topics he knows is anti-Christ and against Biblical principles so it doesn't matter what he really thinks. He allowed baby Christians and others to be exposed to this type of mess. Imagine if a couple was struggling and listening to Jamal tell it or John mishandle it. They will both be responsible for serving the "fruit" of this alternate lifestyle. Remember, sin is in the THOUGHT long before it's an ACTION. We are to guard our HEARTS from THOUGHTS and PASTORS are supposed to SHEPHERDS who PROTECT sheep. Both men opened the sheep up to deception!
Yep, this was all I needed to see ✌🏽
I’m 17 years old & I have a purity ring. I’m 100% confident in saving myself for marriage. Before I even knew that’s what I wanted, I know it’s what God wanted for me. Watching this makes me sick to my stomach. How do you call yourself a preacher and encourage this mess! Marriage is one of the most holy and sanctified things. How dare you mock God and say that having sex outside of a marriage is ok? Smh these are the days
Still got it?
Please don't be discouraged. Keep your purity. It's worth it and you will be glad you did it for yourself .
God still has people who are devoted to Him. These are the very last days. These are so called pastors who are truly not pastors but wolves in sheep's clothing.
Open marriage = oxymoron. They shared vows but didn't abide by them. These people don't know what marriage means. Marriage is not selfish. All i see are two childish people who made a grown up decision to get married. You want to see other people then just date.
And two so called Pastors not standing on the word of God and not ministering to a God centered lifestyle.
Not everyone's vows are the same. Not every marriage is the same. The rules (if there are any) for one marriage isn't necessarily the same for others.
Santricia Jones no dating just flinging and slinging smdh
@@EmperorMegas open relationships\marriages come from lack of commitment you don't want a relationship\marriage but want the benefits
You don't seem to understand that everyone doesn't want the same things, and not every relationship is the same.
Being open in your relationship doesn't mean people aren't committed to each other. It's you claiming they aren't committed to each other.
wow monique looks good! but i dont agree with there believe tho
pray for them
this is pure confusion
Shame, shame, shame on you so called preachers. Now we know why the church is in so much trouble.
right and this is why folks do not go to church anymore.
Stop trying to justify foolishness this is not biblical... many were seduced away by the lust of their own flesh !
I'm not saying it's right or wrong but I like to clean out that a lot of the founders of Christianity that people admire so much had polygamous marriages. They had more than one wife. King Solomon and like what 600 wives and then concubines on top of that.
"Who am I to tell her what she can and cannot do? And if I did tell her...is there a possibility that she could still do it anyway?" Dude is weak. There's no justification for an open marriage.
Agreed
Of course there is. It takes two secure people. Our society is full of insecure people that cheat instead. It is still happening we all want to think it can be controlled or should be controlled. It is called ethical non monogamy but it isn’t for those that stick to their life long conditioning of brain washing and possessive nature of another while married.
@@diegom8 thats insecure. Being so scared to be left so you agree for everything and being disrespected. Thats some low esteem people who goes this way, or there is no love they just slutty friends who wants to keep some when they run out of options
@@diegom8 it's called swingers and if you have that mentality theres no need to be married just suck n fuck everything.
Why did this 'preacher' call them believers??? They are not!!! Im glad this show is OFF the air!!
What's the point of marriage if it's going to be open? 😂😂 This is why I'm never getting married. It's all a joke. Just be single if you want to be open.
J.W. thsnks
Exactly 💯 might as well just been long term boyfriend and girlfriend
Monique you and your husband are your own gods.
THIS SHOW IS A JOKE !!! Jesus would never approve of this nonsense. True believers would know this.
Before Jesus our ancestors believed in this 😂😂😂
So I assume you've never fornicated and had any children outside of wedlock, Right?...
I always knew that Monique had a low self -esteem but really? Why get married if you're going to give the one you love to someone else? Just stay single because it's not a marriage its a situation Definitely nothing to be proud of!
SexyRapSinger
she said she initiated it.
VERY LOW self-esteem
This isn't that uncommon to me. Couples just don't talk about it this way. There are many people out there who say that cheating isn't a deal breaker. That, to me, is an open marriage. It's very unfortunate that these grown folks don't have more self control. How can you raise responsible children when you can't even stay true to the marriage that YOU chose to be in. This raises so many questions. When you indulge, do you tell your spouse every little detail? Is any type of sex off limits? Do you use protection EVERY time? Is it worth it when someone brings an STD or new baby home?
For Kingdom Builders, an "open" marriage is NOT an option. Listen carefully to what's being spoken in this video. Did you notice what Monique's husband said after Jamal Bryant's statement? You are human, NOT a Pastor or Preacher. Her husband is exactly right. Jamal Bryant is willfully forfeiting his calling. The WORD says "be ye NOT conformed to this world(human behavior), but transformed(spiritual maturity and Godly behavior) by the RENEWING of your MIND!! Let's THIRST AFTER Righteousness my fellow Kingdom Builders and "root out" this unbelief and division in the Body of Christ. I am thankful to my Queen, my Proverbs 31 Woman, my LOVE for honoring Our Father and then me with her commitment regarding Holy Matrimony. FINAL THOUGHT: If matrimony, in and of itself, was considered by the Father to be holy then there would be no need to place "Holy" in front of matrimony. So clearly, there is Holy Matrimony and there is Un-holy matrimony. The choice is ours . . . I love you all with the LOVE of Our Father. Peace
Amen!!!!
If a man have TWO WIVES... ONE LOVED AND ONE HATED...
Bruh, bibble clearly doesn't condone fornication
As we all know, the dark side takes the beauty of what our Lord created and tries to distort and destroy it. The purpose is to Pervert the family structure and weaken all involved.
Study John 10:10.
They are open to straight foolishness.
Lost respect for Jamal Bryant..he tried to make a joke out of the conversation but it's not funny..hHe also apologized on Periscope yesterday..🤔😒😏
I have lost respect for him too!
Omg the one from RHOP?
Monique is LOST in this. She IS NOT a Believer.
This sad and stupid at the same time 😕😑
It is neither.
they are pitiful.
Truly
No. They are Super Pitiful!
@Angel Johnson if you dont know why. You would not understand even if it was explained to you. Be Blessed.
Sheila Yoma Kit
if you are a true believer in our lord and saver Jesus christ don't support this show
Worry about yourself
+SonofA PreacherMan how is a show that inspires ppl a joke?
agreed!
+amcra1 Because these men are suppose to be ministers of the Gospel of Jesus Christ! Gods word is not for adultery! These men are looking and sounding like false prophets!
My mind is blown as to how they sat there and had this conversation. Wow.
The nerve to be mad at "would you rather?" Is beyond me
This type of arrangement has been more prevalent in the course of history than 5,000 years of marriage
In hell they will lift up their eyes if they don't repent
yes, you are right this is a mess
where is hell? is it up or down...
I hate when black people say this crap. There is no hell it's 2016 people educate yourself. We're in the age of information and we're still carrying on with the hell and heaven dogma/fear tactics. I love you black queen but we have to stop this propaganda.
I'm tryna lift up that skirt and hit it from the back tho
lmaooooo
" study to show THEY SELF..... I'm done....
Amen Sis!!!!!!!!
She knew she had to do it to keep him around
What a load of pure unadulterated foolishness.
Bullshit!
Question: Open Marriage
Answer: What is adultery?
Proverbs 1:7 The fear(reverence) of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction.
Be NOT conformed to THIS world but renewed by the transformation of your mind THROUGH the WORD of GOD. How does this platform or conversation edify that?
yes in the bible there are men who have had more than one wife but that all changed when Jesus died on the cross. He redefined what marriage was to be "wives submit to your husband, husbands love your wife as Christ love the church," see singular
They had more than one wife for Specific reasons in the Bible explains that in many scriptures God reminds us what is was from the beginning that’s a sin and it’s not the law of God
@@linnag3117 facts
Cheating with consent. Wonderful way to put it🙄One word. RIDICULOUS
Why was it not mentioned that when "those " feelings come up prayer is needed between the two of them and God.
Please leave this show immediately John Gray, I've watched you for years and you are someone who I respect. Your encouragement to young people is so powerful. This show will destroy your credibility, please run far from this nonsense. This is not worth jeopardising what has taken years for you to build. Please.
How sad! This is awful! Praying that God will give them a revelation of who He truly is because obviously they don't know Him.
The very fact that these so called pastors are supporting this mess by having them on the show is BEYOND ME!!!??😱😱😱😱😱😱😳😳😳😳🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
Bruh that Jamal such a compromiser it’s not even funny no one said not one scripture on the subject
ADULTRY SHOULD NEVER BE GLORIFIED- IT'S NOT WHAT WE CONSIDER SIN, IT IS WHAT GOD SAYS IS SIN. Proverbs 14:12
“There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.” FIRST OFF I AM NOT SHOCKED AT WHAT THE WORLD DECIDES TO DO BUT TO THESE PASTORS WHO SHOULD KNOW BETTER, ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS WOW AND WOW!!!!
I love John Gray, mostly for his integrity and stance, but this show will devalue him in the name of "ratings". He already had A Voice and a MAJOR platform to be heard by the world. Jamal was already a freak show and clown. John is better than this....
SPEAK!
I completely agree!!!
I totally agree with you regarding John Gray's integrity and platform. I hope he leaves this "circus".
Funny how John Gray has cheated on his wife now.
Mo'Nique Look so good Here
This is sickening… and then pastor Jamal sitting and saying that’s amazing and saying “y’all church people “ not gonna like it or have a heart attack, and continue to try to justify this sin because both him and Monique is from Baltimore. Being from Baltimore don’t have nothing to do with that. Pastor Jamal is out here teaching false doctrine. He straight up said he believes in open marriage but suppose to be a pastor. I’m not God so I have no right to say what he should be, and if The Lord truly called him, him needs to reevaluate his beliefs and repent before it’s too late, cause otherwise if this is a belief he’s standing on till the day he die, then maybe he’s not called by God. If he’s truly called by the Lord, then I repent for saying that he’s not, but he needs to repent
To Jamal Bryant -
Proverbs 17:15 “He who justifies the wicked, and he who condemns the just, Both of them alike are an abomination to the LORD.”
Ok I've clearly wandered into the wrong section of youtube again. I've no idea who these people are or what's going on so I'll be going now ok .... Bye... X
Okay, what I don't understand about Monique and Sidney' s decision to have an open marriage is why go public with it? There is something called privacy. What is the point on talking publicly about such a controversial issue? I would never talk publicly about my personal business. I don't get it.
I agree. Im the same way.
@@Nekole1 amen.
unbelievable
Scripture coming to pass..............
Absolutely.
Gonna have to start taking names! Seems like only a few people still hearing from God. May you not be lead astray in any way. May God keep you from Evil.
we all are accountable to our creator for our life choices.
This a conversation of the “light” and the “dark”. It will Never mix.
14Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
The blood of Jesus!!
I don't see the issue. If they happy then cool!
+Nyakz Exactly.
God created marriage to be between one man and one woman. It is to be respected by all and The marriage bed is to be kept undefiled as scripture says (Hebrews 13:4). God set those boundaries in place to protect us and to bless us with having a fruitful, committed relationship giving yourself to that one person.The truth has to be preached. period. If it's not then we are doing a disservice. and many have accepted right as wrong and wrong as right they reject truth for their lustful, selfish desires.
AG FilmWriter cooool LOL
Polygamy is practiced throughout the entire bible and there is nothing specific against multiple wives unless you are a priest, bishop deacon etc...for everyone else it was practiced. That is the truth...he specified for his ministry leaders, but kings and others nowhere does it say it is sin...not to mention it was widely practiced. Read that thing for what it says, not for how society interprets...if you find it in there I'll believe it, but I suspect that you wont. Polygamy is marriages, just multiple wives, polyandry is multiple husbands I believe.
I was disappointed to see Jamal joke around about this I'm not even judging him because we all fall but I would never joke around but it
Foolishness.
The wages for sin equals “death”. The Bible also says don’t commit adulter
I'm a South African and I'm so confused... About what is happening on this show, I understand that it is hosted by preachers but what message are they trying to send to people?? The Gospel of Jesus Christ or foreign doctrines of this world!
Deliwe Lethabo Ncube Foreign doctorines. Most likely Jewish controlled and influence
😂😂
Doctrines of devils
I understand it is possible to be in love with one man and want to date another. This is a brilliant idea. Some of y’all are getting cheated on right now and because you don’t know you think shit is so perfect lol
Matthew 12:34
Romans 1:28
Ephesians 4:29
Ephesians 5:20
Colossians 3:8
Philemon 1:8
Ephesians 5:3,4
preach!
Thanks for scriptures. This world needs it.
These Pastor's believe in open marriage as well but they keep it close😂😂😂
Lol true
ain't that much open in the world, she said that's her best friend.They changed the narative when they decided to marry they might as well
stayed single. and not involved the sacredness of it all and took vows between her and him and God. ...opinion!!! To each is own.
This aged like spoiled milk for John Gray
To hell with this logic.
Jesus be a help to us. I'll tell you this. My conversation with my husband would go like this.
Open relationship = Open Casket.
Is there no such thing as real Biblical Christianity anymore??????? The Bible is not for "private interpretation" The Bible says what it means and means what it says!! The unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God! One of these so called preachers should have "openly" rebuked them for their un Godly open marriage!
Yes one of them should have rebuked them right there on the show I am sadden by their behavior Jamal Byrant and the other guy they are not true men of God they are false prophets
I pray they repent to Our God before it is to late
I am a Single woman wow I really have to know I heard my father God on who my future husband truly is
this is frighthen
if a woman donot have soild relationship with God she will not be able to discern when the wolf dress in sheep clothing comes her way
Ironic that the two most famous for cheating Pastors are touching on this topic. 🙄
These guys preaching the wrong message!
Even if this does make your marriage work, then the main thing that you should know is to keep your business to yourselves.
Do NOT Conform to this world!!!
It is worse than the world. At least the world has no compass. Believers do and they do it regardless.
evil can never be good and woe into those who call evil good. God's word, his direction dictates the marriage bed is undefiled for the two that have become one. Anything else is fornication and adulterous.
I like there reason. Open marriage study has been shown to work and give the couple a bit more of what they can’t give each other, but in a more unified way. Shit, If she of all people is successful, then it’s worth looking into
Don't be deceived...this is still "cheating", adultery, sin.
Yeah, give each other herpes and monkeypox. But you go right ahead.
I so glad that this is catching on.
He not that fine! Open relationship my ass!
I understand that infidelity is a sin but so is "lust" & thats why they support open relationship. To each their own.
How can you say you honor your spouse by being “ honest” about sleeping with other men. What a mockery of the idea of Christian marriage!!! This whole show is a joke. These “preachers” are NOT godly men but simply entertainers!!!
Looking at all of these comments...what if they just got a civil marriage and not a religious marriage?
Civil marriage is just used for laws. This doesn't go against civil marriage. It does go against religious marriage.
Was marriage invented before or after the time of Jesus?
Jesus was alive around from 4BC to 32 AD and humans have been around for at least 10,000(according to creationists) and a maximum of 100,000-200,000(according to geology and science). Human ancestors(nonhumans) have been around for 6 million years.
im not the one to judge but God will. sad that they compromise their beliefs for sexual desire
wow Jamaal ..wow
I honestly believe this is the future of relationships whether you like it or not.
Yes Isaiah 5:20 woe to those who call evil good and good evil who put darkness for light and light for darkness who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter
Always has been if you ask me
Can’t imagine being married when your famous so much temptation when traveling and meeting new people. Normal people work and go straight home but people with money travel and live luxury lifestyles as they meet people just like them. Rich people are never home.