@@coolgainz9307r u slow? Times change and in this day and age a girl isn’t gonna look at you and say I’ll give him a chance cause he looks like he has a good personality. And men r supposed say something to a girl first but u don’t get the meaning of status . Thats why u r alone. Not being rude btw just speaking facts
@@dolcedempsey9739 You just mad that I’m saying the truth, fuck what social media saids, the real world always defeats social media whether you like it or not
The kids argument is valid. He knows social media is a flexing game and he does not have the time/energy/resources to play that game. So he prefers to play the in-person game where he feels he has more of an advantage (tall, white, decent looks). This is not rocket science. not sure why Fit is shocked.
I kinda seen coopers point of view also but at the same time I feel like in todays world dating isn’t super simple like that. Women do tend to go for a man with more status who presents himself well on social media & off.
No, this isn't about just his point, that's not where things went downhill, they went downhill because of two reasons, 1. He couldn't even follow his own Point, fit ask him and he said he wasn't even approaching people in person, this is not to say you have to 24/7 approach in person, but this guy was literally not Even doing it, snd 2. He couldn't understand fits simple ass points, in a world where you never know what's gonna happen, as a men you have to check all boxes, you'll be a fool not to levage yourself in all areas, why? Because it's not about what u want u not st thr top, this guy is not at the top, so him just approaching in person, with him barely doing it is not gonna get him to the top, you gotta remember fit is about maximum to thr fullest, and u can only do that when you upgrade everywhere, just like it's best to not only like one race, because it will limit you, you gotta like them all, but he couldn't understand that simple Point, and on top of that remember this guy said, girl's don't dm guys and then he changed it to , they only do it if you have high status, no disrespect to him, but it's bot Rocket science, u don't need high status for a gal to dm you, snd thr fact he thought that, really tells you a lot about him, he lacks reality perspective, which from this convo we saw, those are the reasons why fit was tripping
I see coopers point but you don’t need to spend countless hours on social media to have a social media page. At most you take a picture once every few weeks or months, post, build up a decent following of a couple 100 people you know irl and then that’s enough social proof already that helps you in dating
The guy wasn’t necessarily wrong. Fit thinks everything is a one size fits all. Everyone isn’t into social media or desires to attract women in that way. Just like he tells every guy to grow their hair and a beard. That’s not for everyone. It’s multiple ways to skin a cat
Bro your agreeing with his contradiction. that's like saying "I'm not even into the gym like that" yet you still show up because you have a membership with them.
Ur wrong here. “A one size fits all” isn’t the definition of being a well rounded man in all areas, that’s where you lose me in this argument. Bismarck has said countless times. Increase the area’s where you can meet good women. Social media, In public, at the mall (Whilst shopping) You know how business have multiple lead flows to convert to customers. Dating isn’t any different, the more lead flows you have the easier the picking. You should try everything to make it work. Social media is leverage when you use it correctly. It isn’t meant to flex, it’s just meant to scale your presence to a larger audience increasing the percentage of women reaching out to you.
@ No arguing there he was saying some real stuff I'm not some fitx fangirl I don't believe I gotta spend money on dating apps I think it can be useful not necessary and I agree I like to meet girls in public but this guy was saying (might be off i watched this earlier) no gym girls they bops and yes bar girls but i wont go with bar girls and i sleep with gym bum girls
@ I think fit advice is for those just stepping out of high school. As you get older (30+) social media presence really doesn’t matter. No woman age 30+ gives a hell about how popular your social media page is. That mindset is for younger women,
@ I'm 17 graduated already made about 700 bucks last year from doing yard work all year round and after graduating this year got into a dope trade school type pre apprenticeship program where im making a solid $1.2k a month and I will say some of the doc plans he sets up and in general his advice motivates the hell outta me. I didn't have a dad growing up although have an awesome grandpa who was always there for me but other than that no one under 60 could help me with girls but fit and a few good friends of mine helped me realize you gotta just boss up grow some nuts be a man stay on your ps and qs and be confident and yourself 💯
FITX says you have to be well rounded. Didn’t you hear him say “The degree is part of the status, not Everything” ? You have to be well rounded. So Social media/social skills in real life Bering attractive/ making good money Having your life in order and time management while dating females you like. I don’t get what’s so hard about this. By ticking all the boxes you make it way easier for you.
@@Raging_wolverine4233 I don’t see what your ability to listening has to do with me protecting hypocrisy l. Im not even a fan of fitforlife nor do I support in any way. Go off tho
Bro said he would only want to pursue a woman if she was attractive, then says he doesn't want a woman to judge him based off of looks as an argument to not have IG 😂😂
Who wouldn't want an attractive long term partner? Is that too much to ask for? When you click on an ig profile, the first thing that comes to mind is what they look like, not their personality or charisma. If this guy doesn't necessaily have the looks, then he should uphold what he does have.
See how fit tried to attack this kids sexuality because he has a different opinion. The guy doesn’t agree that social media matters in dating (which it doesn’t) and then fit says “if you don’t like women it’s ok”. After the kid clearly said he is looking for a long term partner and not hookups.
He is loooking for one thing and saying it but on the other he with someone from the bar with no intentions of taking it seriously. He came to argue and only argue
If he doesn't want to use social media, let him be. It's his belief. He's looking for a woman who will accept him for who he is. Not just because a certain man is rich, has power, has higher social status, has a lot of friends, etc. Yes, that's something almost all women aspire to be with. But, it's too difficult. Not everyone is perfect. And generally speaking, women dm men who have a ton of followers and/or have a vlogging platform. This is the issue with every dating coach: Todd V, Coach Kyle, Austin Dunham, FITX, etc. Instead of pulling someone up to be better, they roast these people who struggle to be the best version of themselves and then teach them this "one right way" to get girls and get laid consistently. These dating coaches teach men to be more like them personality-wise. It's totally different than in the gym. Yes, certain overweight/obese individuals need to lose weight, build and maintain muscle by changing their lifestyle habits like lowering their calorie intake, what foods they're eating, do strength training 3-4x a week, do a form of cardio, etc. But for dating, it's psychology. Psychology is very complex, people function differently. What these clients try to do or say whatever the coaches tell them to, it's forced because it's not natural and ain't a part of their personalities. There is no one size fits all. Coaches shouldn't be assholes and ignore the clients' excuses on why they can't accomplish a certain goal. Some of the excuses are valid like someone lives in a bad environment with mean, dangerous people. Someone may have been bullied, lives in a strict family with strict rules, someone may be from a poor family and cannot afford these dating courses. I attended 2 of coach Kyle's group sessions a few years ago. I found out his one on one course is $200 per session. Too much. Give me a break. As a coach, you must read people verbally and nonverbally to see what you can do to adjust your teaching strategies based on their learning experiences. Everyone's learning experience is different. For me personally, if any coach doesn't do what I suggested, I would leave them.
Bro girls don't only hit up someone who has a lot of followers. Yall don't even know what you are talking about. Guys who look good on there, get hit on
“It’s to difficult” no it’s not. “Not everyone is perfect” No one said this is the (Perfect) way to do it. The reason you want to have all boxes checked is to leverage your presence and acknowledgement
“A woman who accepts him for who he is” Lmaooo, I read that sentence and refuse to read the rest of your paragraphs. Guys like you will NEVER get it man. Fit is all about maximizing your life in ALL aspects and social media helps in dating whether you like it or not. If cooper doesn’t want to use SM fine but he can’t complain about his results with dating either. He can’t have his cake and eat it too. Adjust with the times or be a loser like 99% of men.
nah he's delusional. he wants a girl that isn't a hoe, yet his excuse for not talking to women in real life is because he was satisfied with his hoe at the time, even though he admitted it was only for the last 2 weeks and he hardly approached girls throughout the entire year. he doesnt wanna start ig because he says everyone is addicted to doom scrolling, when it's easy to just have a life and you know, not do that? he acts like he's superior to people who use social media without understanding that women are inherently attracted to higher status, whether he likes it or not. the beautiful and innocent women he's after are attracted to high status men, not some nerdy engineering kid with a mid physique who doesn't do anything to enhance or market his charisma.
@coolgainz9307 He's not going to win unless he changes. He is stubborn, argumentative, listens poorly, and not nearly as smart as he thinks he is. Fit said he needs a haircut that looks better. He said - "like shorter?" Fit said, nah just something that looks better that works with your face. He said, I've tried short, medium, long, and i haven't noticed a difference, except girls don't like buzz cuts. As though there are only 4 hair styles: buzz, short, medium, long. Plus, fit said it's not necessarily about long or short. Doesn't listen, plus it was just a really dumb way of thinking about it. Also, girls DO hit up guys on social... but only select guys. Most men have very little choice and few men have a LOT of choice. The data proves this. Fit was trying to explain to him how to be one of the lucky few. Even if he got an extremely high value woman, he would lose her because he's way too stubborn and argumentative. Girls like confidence and don't want a pushover, but this guy is insufferable. He is a terrible listener, which drives intelligent women crazy, and makes really bad points and just digs in.
@@joek5078 right, he is so smart he's dumb. when you think you are so smart you stop listening to outside advice he's looking for. can't stand ppl like this. like GTFO my phone call
@cadedrury I can tell you were born in 2015 after social media already existed. You can’t recognize the devastation it has caused within western society, among some other places. Also, when it comes to looking for high value women and not superficial thots, social media will typically be completely useless.
No, cooper has no argument summed up. Look at the end of the video from 17:00. He saids he wants a high quality girl. Yet He is still sleeping with a bop. Proceeds to talk about meeting women in real life but isn’t actively practicing what he’s preaching. So fits solution is to scale his presence on social media whilst approaching more girls in real life. How is that delusional?
Facts, why would anyone pay for a consultation from this guy? 70% of what he says is hogwash and the other 30% is stuff you can figure out on your own. Don't need another grown man to tell me to groom and dress decently
He was making sense until 11:20 , plenty of women text men first because they look good. besides, there's barely a difference between a women seeing a fine dude at the mall and walking up to him, and a girl dm-ing a man first on insta because he is attractive.
He has an inflated ego. He gives me the vibe that he could be one of those guys that comes across a spirtual awakening, either through religion or other means, and leaves this ultra-materialistic and looks-focused life behind.
I feel like theyre both wrong but also right in their own way. Id say at the start of the argument fit was right abt how u comsume and use it and that the app isnt all bad. But after that is where i kind of disagree@Idyliss
@saitamacraft5322 Go find girls on social media. You’ll be used, manipulated, and cheated on by girls who’ve already been ran through. When you grow up and mature, you’ll realize that social media is a cesspool of nothing but superficial displays of one’s self.
@sjcsscjios4112 Social Media is not for everyone.This guy just wants to interact with women the old fashioned way. Look, if he knows what he is doing with his dating life, he can certainly make it work without Social media.
I gotta give credit to Fit. This is how the world we live in today works. You won't ever make the world adapt to your standards, but the other way around. Play the game as it is or don't play it at all. I understand the frustration about the superficial shxt and status, but as I said before, it is what it is, fxckin' accept it.
myron jr was wrong here and got so defensive... i fully agree that social media definitely isnt necessary for high quality women that are wifey material...
@ high quality wifey type girls don’t give a fuck about your ig, ofc if your just tryna rack up your body count and smash through girls, then yes ig will be very useful
Travis Hunter himself needs to be on this the way his girl acts. Cooper does make good points though social media is unhealthy meeting women in person is better. Fitx one of the few self improvement guys that I see promote dating apps and social media vs real life.
Wether you like it or not , Social media has changed the dating game. If you’re not flexing your looks on the gram you’re missing out. This kid expects his engineering status to bring him girls when in reality, most girls not even know what engineers do 🤷🏽♂️
No social media is a different game for low quality women. The kid is right it’s better to do in person to present yourself better and to feel her out. Saves time too
@ Not saying you shouldn’t be talking to woman in person, but a man who has a decent Ig with good looking pictures and shows off a little of their lifestyle in a positive way without trying too hard will likely grab more attention from woman than someone who has nothing. You don’t think woman like to know a little about a man before going on a date? Having zero social media presence will raise red flags. There are plenty of high quality woman who use social media without the purpose of seeking validation. Maybe this kid has nothing going on in his life besides school which is what makes him lack social media presence, which is a sign that he’s probably boring.
@@MiloMad not having social media presence makes you boring? I disagree man. If anything it tells you that the person lives in the moment and doesn't have the need to upload the highlights of their lives to seek social approval. I deleted social media 2 years ago and you definitely realize how fake it is. I do agree with you in the sense that it is a handicap when it comes to dating, but i've had no problem meeting women. Just takes some networking, getting out there and meeting people, making friends etc. I made some new friends last year and they've already introduce me to 3 girls whom I hit it off with so not too bad. If a girl thinks not having social media is a red flag, well she's entitled to her own opinion, but i'm also entitled to think that her way of thinking is shallow.
Yeah but so many people try to be something they’re not on social media and then when you scratch the surface and get to know them you realise there’s not much there..
I have never even used Instagram. It's so strange to me that men who are not fitness or clothing models are taking photo shoots and posting it to attract women. The world has gone weird.
@Somefun0341 Right. But when a person is hit on in person it leads to an actual conversation. This doesn’t happen on social media. That’s the difference kiddo.
College guy: I don’t want women to want me for my looks bc personality is the most important thing. Also college guy: I don’t want to date a women I don’t find attractive. Like bro women feel the same way 😂
young guy needs god and a religious woman. hes absolutely right about the fact that there are no women to have a lasting relationsship with on instagram, tinder, bars etc. he is looking for a high quality women and they just simply arent on these apps and sleeping around. and so he does that too. dodges the hoes and works on himself. sleeping around will leave you empty. focusing on god and working on yourself to have a wife few years down the line is definitely the path rather than being on those apps and hooking up with women who have been touched. like they preach alotta masculinity but date women who arent virgins. equal attracts equal. thats why he aint on these apps. he better than that modern degeneracy.
He made good points but fit is right. You dont have to be a influencer but simply having an active profile and good looking pics and lets face it if the guy had a less hitler looking haircut would all help. Not saying you NEED a good social media but it defo helps a shit load
This guy has a good a point in my opinion with the whole social media shit but even fit himself it too trapped in the social media lifestyle and unreality
Is it going to be way harder for me to ever attract a girl? I didn't do very well in school, but I have a work around to get to the course and career I want to pursue, but it will take me longer.
He literally came on the stream to argue LOL, yes he made some valid points at times but every time Fit tries to tell him something the other guy just always comes back to counter Fits claims.
I get what bro was saying, but he could’ve articulated better. He’s right that currently the odds are stacked against him - majority of the girls he’ll run into in his environment don’t fit his criteria. But he has to do something about it instead of just freeze. That’s where Bismarck’s points come in, where he tells bro to do something. Use Social Media properly, emphasis on properly - leverage approaching people and maybe pick environments you’d fine girls more aligned (ir not bars) Honestly props to Bismarck for trying to understand and giving time. The advice was good. Cooper should just leverage all options to meet girls properly and go for one that aligns with him.
@charliem4560 we all know your cooper...he came on fits live stream to argue he knows what fit was going to say lets be honest. Classic guy in his 20s. Asking for advice then proceeding to not listen. And its fine If he doesn't want to use social media but he's not even taking his own advice
though the guy's decision was weird, fit was still kind of slightly wrong in this. it seemed like he was having a hard time proving himself right kind of lol
fitx has good points but puts too much importance on the status, i mean it is important if you want to take care of the girl, but if you want to have fun and live life with women, you need to relax, there are men out there who were basically homeless addicts and now they have family because women liked them for who they are as people, aka they are what a man is supposed to be the only true masculine feature, which is independence (in sense, no mommy issues) and accountability/responsibility for your OWN actions.
This guy is a incel, i agree on the social media but this guy does not pull at all.. you don´t need social media to get women. I get them all without using insta. I do use snap though
You can tell, the thing is you just need to look good as well. I have a friend that’s 6’5 skinny, but looks good he constantly gets choosing signals and women have approached him. He’s very shy yet women still do this. Looks attraxt women before anything
Looks matter to a certain degree, but once she finds out you cant hold a conversion she'll go onto the next, that's why fit has gone 0-10 in the field 😭
The guy is contradicting himself he just doesn’t want to admit that he’s wrong and refuses to take the advice bro just try what he is telling you to do if you don’t want to listen why you call him😂
I dont have socials but I would probably have a better time with women if I had a better social media. Sure its superficial, but thats how it is in this era.
You talking about the guy on the left? First of all, the guy on the right doesn’t even have any degrees yet. Second, everything the guy on the right said is correct and he seems to be much wiser than the buffoon on the left.
He’s taking advice, he just disagreed with one thing, that Fit happened to be wrong about. Everything he was saying to argue with Fit was completely correct.
I get on what some of the things hes trying to say but obviously in the world we live in now it revolves around the internet he can still make connections with girls in person but it won't hurt to leverge the dating space on social media as well. He joined Fits call to get some advice but he chose to have a debate instead, whats the point by joining this call if u don't want to take his advice💀
@Somefun0341 He doesn’t need to argue his points. His points were already made earlier in the video. He was right, Fit was wrong. Fit was just too much of a naive buffoon to realize it.
Social media does play a role but it’s not everything you just have to have some kind of personality on there and post stories atleast you don’t gotta be some kind of try hard
Social media should play 0 role if you’re looking for a genuine and good person. Anyone who needs to see your social media to validate their feelings about you is a superficial thot.
Bro litterly made a video of how to sitt wich is crazy this guy is like a 6 years old boy how thinks every thing he says is right im taking to this weirdo
Nothing wrong with how the college bro is thinking, because i also think that way. But you have to understand we’re in the social media ages, where everything is online. The ways of dating has changed, so yea having a status online will boost your image. I’ve girls DM me on TikTok a few times as well as instagram. I never entertain them because I’m committed, but it proves how showing yourself off the internet attracts people in general whether if you’re beautiful/handsome, rich, smart, etc.
College dude is living in the real world no social media
That’s what I like about him, I hate how clowns like Fitx talking about social media
Yeah. Maybe some day in the future when they wind up alone, people like Fit will realize they were chasing the wrong women.
social media is feminine as hell. men like that fitness guy is coping hard
@@coolgainz9307r u slow? Times change and in this day and age a girl isn’t gonna look at you and say I’ll give him a chance cause he looks like he has a good personality. And men r supposed say something to a girl first but u don’t get the meaning of status . Thats why u r alone. Not being rude btw just speaking facts
@@dolcedempsey9739 You just mad that I’m saying the truth, fuck what social media saids, the real world always defeats social media whether you like it or not
“Girls never DM guys” This guy hasn’t gotten hit on in so long he thinks it literally doesn’t happen 😭
lmao yeah he really is oblivious bc women be shooting their shot on IG too u don't need hella followers to experience that
right up there with "girls dont frt" haha
Now me personally never expierenced that, but my friend literally only goes out with girls who hit him up, and he got like 20 bodies this year😂😂
Never experienced this ever girls don’t even acknowledge me
Men get hit on? If a woman even acknowledges my existence I have to turn around to make sure she's talking to me.
The kids argument is valid. He knows social media is a flexing game and he does not have the time/energy/resources to play that game. So he prefers to play the in-person game where he feels he has more of an advantage (tall, white, decent looks). This is not rocket science. not sure why Fit is shocked.
I kinda seen coopers point of view also but at the same time I feel like in todays world dating isn’t super simple like that. Women do tend to go for a man with more status who presents himself well on social media & off.
White?? 😭
No, this isn't about just his point, that's not where things went downhill, they went downhill because of two reasons, 1. He couldn't even follow his own Point, fit ask him and he said he wasn't even approaching people in person, this is not to say you have to 24/7 approach in person, but this guy was literally not Even doing it, snd 2. He couldn't understand fits simple ass points, in a world where you never know what's gonna happen, as a men you have to check all boxes, you'll be a fool not to levage yourself in all areas, why? Because it's not about what u want u not st thr top, this guy is not at the top, so him just approaching in person, with him barely doing it is not gonna get him to the top, you gotta remember fit is about maximum to thr fullest, and u can only do that when you upgrade everywhere, just like it's best to not only like one race, because it will limit you, you gotta like them all, but he couldn't understand that simple Point, and on top of that remember this guy said, girl's don't dm guys and then he changed it to , they only do it if you have high status, no disrespect to him, but it's bot Rocket science, u don't need high status for a gal to dm you, snd thr fact he thought that, really tells you a lot about him, he lacks reality perspective, which from this convo we saw, those are the reasons why fit was tripping
@@Spastic110it’s been proven that white men are the most desired. Yeah it’s messed up but it’s true
I see coopers point but you don’t need to spend countless hours on social media to have a social media page. At most you take a picture once every few weeks or months, post, build up a decent following of a couple 100 people you know irl and then that’s enough social proof already that helps you in dating
The guy wasn’t necessarily wrong. Fit thinks everything is a one size fits all. Everyone isn’t into social media or desires to attract women in that way. Just like he tells every guy to grow their hair and a beard. That’s not for everyone. It’s multiple ways to skin a cat
Exactly
But he wasnt even looking for the women he wants at the places he would find em
Bro your agreeing with his contradiction. that's like saying "I'm not even into the gym like that" yet you still show up because you have a membership with them.
Yea I was gonna say the guy is right
Ur wrong here.
“A one size fits all” isn’t the definition of being a well rounded man in all areas, that’s where you lose me in this argument.
Bismarck has said countless times. Increase the area’s where you can meet good women.
Social media, In public, at the mall (Whilst shopping)
You know how business have multiple lead flows to convert to customers. Dating isn’t any different, the more lead flows you have the easier the picking.
You should try everything to make it work. Social media is leverage when you use it correctly. It isn’t meant to flex, it’s just meant to scale your presence to a larger audience increasing the percentage of women reaching out to you.
bro definitely came on stream to argue😂
And made some valid points.
@ No arguing there he was saying some real stuff I'm not some fitx fangirl I don't believe I gotta spend money on dating apps I think it can be useful not necessary and I agree I like to meet girls in public but this guy was saying (might be off i watched this earlier) no gym girls they bops and yes bar girls but i wont go with bar girls and i sleep with gym bum girls
@ I think fit advice is for those just stepping out of high school. As you get older (30+) social media presence really doesn’t matter. No woman age 30+ gives a hell about how popular your social media page is. That mindset is for younger women,
@ I'm 17 graduated already made about 700 bucks last year from doing yard work all year round and after graduating this year got into a dope trade school type pre apprenticeship program where im making a solid $1.2k a month and I will say some of the doc plans he sets up and in general his advice motivates the hell outta me. I didn't have a dad growing up although have an awesome grandpa who was always there for me but other than that no one under 60 could help me with girls but fit and a few good friends of mine helped me realize you gotta just boss up grow some nuts be a man stay on your ps and qs and be confident and yourself 💯
No.
Ngl the guy is right. Fit doesn’t understand how things are on a college campus
That’s why they talked about social media and going to meet women at malls. Y’all don’t like listening to
@@CourtxKings1exactly. Library, mall, target, Ross, Starbucks, literally anyplace where it’s appropriate to have a conversation with someone else.
@@CourtxKings1 malls it's not 1994.
Bros is slow
He never went. He only went there and got laughed with his “approach game “
Having a good job and being fit are signs of status not just instagram. Fit is living in lala land.
FITX says you have to be well rounded. Didn’t you hear him say “The degree is part of the status, not Everything” ?
You have to be well rounded. So
Social media/social skills in real life
Bering attractive/ making good money
Having your life in order and time management while dating females you like.
I don’t get what’s so hard about this. By ticking all the boxes you make it way easier for you.
@ he might have said that but he’s all over the place so I can’t remember and if he did he’s contradicting himself.
@@Raging_wolverine4233its just ur shit at listening and staying on point
@@Thermait you’d know since you protect hypocrites 😂
@@Raging_wolverine4233 I don’t see what your ability to listening has to do with me protecting hypocrisy l. Im not even a fan of fitforlife nor do I support in any way. Go off tho
Bro said he would only want to pursue a woman if she was attractive, then says he doesn't want a woman to judge him based off of looks as an argument to not have IG 😂😂
he framed the question quite poorly
Who wouldn't want an attractive long term partner? Is that too much to ask for?
When you click on an ig profile, the first thing that comes to mind is what they look like, not their personality or charisma. If this guy doesn't necessaily have the looks, then he should uphold what he does have.
See how fit tried to attack this kids sexuality because he has a different opinion. The guy doesn’t agree that social media matters in dating (which it doesn’t) and then fit says “if you don’t like women it’s ok”. After the kid clearly said he is looking for a long term partner and not hookups.
If you want a long term partner why are you going to fit x for advice. People keep exposing themselves that they are contradicting themselves. 😂😂😂 L
@ Fit is a dating couch, right? So maybe that’s why he went to Fit for advice.
@mrmister2474 yeah you go to listen. Not to calculate your own answers after being unsure of yourself. You go to learn not to politic
Very true
He is loooking for one thing and saying it but on the other he with someone from the bar with no intentions of taking it seriously. He came to argue and only argue
If he doesn't want to use social media, let him be. It's his belief. He's looking for a woman who will accept him for who he is. Not just because a certain man is rich, has power, has higher social status, has a lot of friends, etc. Yes, that's something almost all women aspire to be with. But, it's too difficult. Not everyone is perfect. And generally speaking, women dm men who have a ton of followers and/or have a vlogging platform. This is the issue with every dating coach: Todd V, Coach Kyle, Austin Dunham, FITX, etc. Instead of pulling someone up to be better, they roast these people who struggle to be the best version of themselves and then teach them this "one right way" to get girls and get laid consistently. These dating coaches teach men to be more like them personality-wise.
It's totally different than in the gym. Yes, certain overweight/obese individuals need to lose weight, build and maintain muscle by changing their lifestyle habits like lowering their calorie intake, what foods they're eating, do strength training 3-4x a week, do a form of cardio, etc. But for dating, it's psychology. Psychology is very complex, people function differently. What these clients try to do or say whatever the coaches tell them to, it's forced because it's not natural and ain't a part of their personalities.
There is no one size fits all. Coaches shouldn't be assholes and ignore the clients' excuses on why they can't accomplish a certain goal. Some of the excuses are valid like someone lives in a bad environment with mean, dangerous people. Someone may have been bullied, lives in a strict family with strict rules, someone may be from a poor family and cannot afford these dating courses. I attended 2 of coach Kyle's group sessions a few years ago. I found out his one on one course is $200 per session. Too much. Give me a break. As a coach, you must read people verbally and nonverbally to see what you can do to adjust your teaching strategies based on their learning experiences. Everyone's learning experience is different. For me personally, if any coach doesn't do what I suggested, I would leave them.
At the end of the day, alpha males are grifters trying to make money out of u instead of solving the real solution plus they lack perspective
Bro girls don't only hit up someone who has a lot of followers. Yall don't even know what you are talking about. Guys who look good on there, get hit on
“It’s to difficult” no it’s not.
“Not everyone is perfect”
No one said this is the (Perfect) way to do it. The reason you want to have all boxes checked is to leverage your presence and acknowledgement
“A woman who accepts him for who he is”
Lmaooo, I read that sentence and refuse to read the rest of your paragraphs. Guys like you will NEVER get it man. Fit is all about maximizing your life in ALL aspects and social media helps in dating whether you like it or not. If cooper doesn’t want to use SM fine but he can’t complain about his results with dating either. He can’t have his cake and eat it too. Adjust with the times or be a loser like 99% of men.
If a girl needs you to have social media to acknowledge your existence, you’re dating the wrong women. You’ll probably realize some day.
The college dud won he speaks facts
Yeah he did and I already know he’s gonna win
nah he's delusional. he wants a girl that isn't a hoe, yet his excuse for not talking to women in real life is because he was satisfied with his hoe at the time, even though he admitted it was only for the last 2 weeks and he hardly approached girls throughout the entire year. he doesnt wanna start ig because he says everyone is addicted to doom scrolling, when it's easy to just have a life and you know, not do that? he acts like he's superior to people who use social media without understanding that women are inherently attracted to higher status, whether he likes it or not. the beautiful and innocent women he's after are attracted to high status men, not some nerdy engineering kid with a mid physique who doesn't do anything to enhance or market his charisma.
no point calling up if you going to disagree with everything and not willing to take advice i dont see how he won..
@coolgainz9307 He's not going to win unless he changes. He is stubborn, argumentative, listens poorly, and not nearly as smart as he thinks he is. Fit said he needs a haircut that looks better. He said - "like shorter?" Fit said, nah just something that looks better that works with your face. He said, I've tried short, medium, long, and i haven't noticed a difference, except girls don't like buzz cuts. As though there are only 4 hair styles: buzz, short, medium, long. Plus, fit said it's not necessarily about long or short. Doesn't listen, plus it was just a really dumb way of thinking about it.
Also, girls DO hit up guys on social... but only select guys. Most men have very little choice and few men have a LOT of choice. The data proves this. Fit was trying to explain to him how to be one of the lucky few.
Even if he got an extremely high value woman, he would lose her because he's way too stubborn and argumentative. Girls like confidence and don't want a pushover, but this guy is insufferable. He is a terrible listener, which drives intelligent women crazy, and makes really bad points and just digs in.
@@joek5078 right, he is so smart he's dumb. when you think you are so smart you stop listening to outside advice he's looking for. can't stand ppl like this. like GTFO my phone call
6”2 and skinny. HE WILL BE FINE
Don’t forget white
not how the world works
@ whaaaat?!
He was making some good points about social media
u live in la la land
love it or hate it, social media is here to stay
I hate it with a passion. Only social media I have is this YT account
@@Walkingadversitygotta be introspective and ask why you hate it when you can use it to your advantage
@cadedrury I can tell you were born in 2015 after social media already existed. You can’t recognize the devastation it has caused within western society, among some other places. Also, when it comes to looking for high value women and not superficial thots, social media will typically be completely useless.
@@cadedrury it's more of a obstacle then a asset.
social media serves to female narcissism. narcissism is glorified in society now
This was a good ass convo.
fit is just delusional , he looks down at anyone arguing with him logically
No, cooper has no argument summed up. Look at the end of the video from 17:00.
He saids he wants a high quality girl. Yet He is still sleeping with a bop. Proceeds to talk about meeting women in real life but isn’t actively practicing what he’s preaching.
So fits solution is to scale his presence on social media whilst approaching more girls in real life.
How is that delusional?
Facts, why would anyone pay for a consultation from this guy? 70% of what he says is hogwash and the other 30% is stuff you can figure out on your own. Don't need another grown man to tell me to groom and dress decently
u live in la la land
He was making sense until 11:20 , plenty of women text men first because they look good. besides, there's barely a difference between a women seeing a fine dude at the mall and walking up to him, and a girl dm-ing a man first on insta because he is attractive.
Need longer videos like this 🤣
Social media clown vs a productive member of society
rs☠️
College student
College creates workers not bosses change ya mindset instagram is just a tool it’s how you use it clown 🤡
I mean fit is an engineer too or something like that. He said he was something like that
@@GerardoBarragan-ve2by he got an engineering degree, but most people don’t know that
That one thing I hate about fit is when he makes a point instead of saying now you learned that, he attacks the other person and say's they're idiots.
He has an inflated ego. He gives me the vibe that he could be one of those guys that comes across a spirtual awakening, either through religion or other means, and leaves this ultra-materialistic and looks-focused life behind.
He’s also incorrect about most things he says, especially in this video, which make it even more unbearable.
It's projecting
Problem with this kid is he thinks he's better then everybody else.
He was right about social media bro.
No he wasn’t, his argument is stupid. He kept contradicting himself and he’s delusional
@sjcsscjios4112 everyone thinks everyone is delusional nowadays. A bit of a strong word.
I feel like theyre both wrong but also right in their own way. Id say at the start of the argument fit was right abt how u comsume and use it and that the app isnt all bad. But after that is where i kind of disagree@Idyliss
@saitamacraft5322 Go find girls on social media. You’ll be used, manipulated, and cheated on by girls who’ve already been ran through. When you grow up and mature, you’ll realize that social media is a cesspool of nothing but superficial displays of one’s self.
@sjcsscjios4112 Social Media is not for everyone.This guy just wants to interact with women the old fashioned way. Look, if he knows what he is doing with his dating life, he can certainly make it work without Social media.
I gotta give credit to Fit. This is how the world we live in today works. You won't ever make the world adapt to your standards, but the other way around. Play the game as it is or don't play it at all. I understand the frustration about the superficial shxt and status, but as I said before, it is what it is, fxckin' accept it.
myron jr was wrong here and got so defensive... i fully agree that social media definitely isnt necessary for high quality women that are wifey material...
How. If by using social media you maximize your exposure and make it more likely to attract a girl like that
@ high quality wifey type girls don’t give a fuck about your ig, ofc if your just tryna rack up your body count and smash through girls, then yes ig will be very useful
@@sjcsscjios4112Fitx has brainwashed you.
Myron Jr 😭
@@christopheryanez2303 Shush yanez
Props for the college kids standing up for himself and staying his ground
Travis Hunter himself needs to be on this the way his girl acts. Cooper does make good points though social media is unhealthy meeting women in person is better. Fitx one of the few self improvement guys that I see promote dating apps and social media vs real life.
Fit: *makes a simple logical argument*
College kid: “wHaT do YoU MeAn?”
Fit: *ends call*
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He got a point.
Wether you like it or not , Social media has changed the dating game. If you’re not flexing your looks on the gram you’re missing out. This kid expects his engineering status to bring him girls when in reality, most girls not even know what engineers do 🤷🏽♂️
No social media is a different game for low quality women. The kid is right it’s better to do in person to present yourself better and to feel her out. Saves time too
@ Not saying you shouldn’t be talking to woman in person, but a man who has a decent Ig with good looking pictures and shows off a little of their lifestyle in a positive way without trying too hard will likely grab more attention from woman than someone who has nothing. You don’t think woman like to know a little about a man before going on a date? Having zero social media presence will raise red flags. There are plenty of high quality woman who use social media without the purpose of seeking validation. Maybe this kid has nothing going on in his life besides school which is what makes him lack social media presence, which is a sign that he’s probably boring.
@@DaDirtyTroll even high quality women are on instagram buddy
@@MiloMad not having social media presence makes you boring? I disagree man. If anything it tells you that the person lives in the moment and doesn't have the need to upload the highlights of their lives to seek social approval. I deleted social media 2 years ago and you definitely realize how fake it is.
I do agree with you in the sense that it is a handicap when it comes to dating, but i've had no problem meeting women. Just takes some networking, getting out there and meeting people, making friends etc. I made some new friends last year and they've already introduce me to 3 girls whom I hit it off with so not too bad. If a girl thinks not having social media is a red flag, well she's entitled to her own opinion, but i'm also entitled to think that her way of thinking is shallow.
Yeah but so many people try to be something they’re not on social media and then when you scratch the surface and get to know them you realise there’s not much there..
I have never even used Instagram. It's so strange to me that men who are not fitness or clothing models are taking photo shoots and posting it to attract women. The world has gone weird.
Good looking men have always been hit on. On and outside of social media
@@Somefun0341 Sure but my dad and grandpa weren't doing photo shoots to thirst trap women. This crap is all weird and not normal or healthy.
Well being outside isn't enough lol
@Somefun0341 Right. But when a person is hit on in person it leads to an actual conversation. This doesn’t happen on social media. That’s the difference kiddo.
"You become a man once you're on social media"
Really bro?
This generation is the most goofiest ever. Enough with the giggling and snarky responses
College guy: I don’t want women to want me for my looks bc personality is the most important thing.
Also college guy: I don’t want to date a women I don’t find attractive.
Like bro women feel the same way 😂
young guy needs god and a religious woman. hes absolutely right about the fact that there are no women to have a lasting relationsship with on instagram, tinder, bars etc. he is looking for a high quality women and they just simply arent on these apps and sleeping around. and so he does that too. dodges the hoes and works on himself. sleeping around will leave you empty. focusing on god and working on yourself to have a wife few years down the line is definitely the path rather than being on those apps and hooking up with women who have been touched. like they preach alotta masculinity but date women who arent virgins. equal attracts equal. thats why he aint on these apps. he better than that modern degeneracy.
God? Lol
@@ItsRyanPuleoGod bless you
God bless you bro.
3.4 at Colorado school of mines in engineering is infinitely harder than boulder.
Cooper was entirely right, and fit was rude. Thank you goodnight.
He made good points but fit is right. You dont have to be a influencer but simply having an active profile and good looking pics and lets face it if the guy had a less hitler looking haircut would all help. Not saying you NEED a good social media but it defo helps a shit load
@D.P.T.V i can agree with this alot more
@@IdylissI literally have a friend that only goes out with girls who hit him up on ig😂
@Idyliss and he has like 400 followers
“Fit was rude” you call that rude? Soyboy soft generation man. I’ve had harsher sports debates with strangers than this lmao. Drop your nuts
This video is my favourite one. Best of the bunch.😂
This guy has a good a point in my opinion with the whole social media shit but even fit himself it too trapped in the social media lifestyle and unreality
the college dude knows what hes talkin bout
Nah not really he contradicted himself like three times
@@iimrigoo6536 especially when he used his jism on his face as skin care routine
is fit drawing on his hairline? This shit doesnt look right LOL
The college student is right
Is it going to be way harder for me to ever attract a girl? I didn't do very well in school, but I have a work around to get to the course and career I want to pursue, but it will take me longer.
College dude won
Social media bros vs Intelligent ppl
He literally came on the stream to argue LOL, yes he made some valid points at times but every time Fit tries to tell him something the other guy just always comes back to counter Fits claims.
Icl some people hate on fit but he actually gives good advice
I don’t need another man to tell me how good I look or what kind of woman I can get or can’t get
I get what bro was saying, but he could’ve articulated better. He’s right that currently the odds are stacked against him - majority of the girls he’ll run into in his environment don’t fit his criteria. But he has to do something about it instead of just freeze.
That’s where Bismarck’s points come in, where he tells bro to do something. Use Social Media properly, emphasis on properly - leverage approaching people and maybe pick environments you’d fine girls more aligned (ir not bars)
Honestly props to Bismarck for trying to understand and giving time. The advice was good. Cooper should just leverage all options to meet girls properly and go for one that aligns with him.
So funny cooper doesnt believe girls dm dudes 🤣 goes to show hes clueless
So he hasn’t had any superficial and ran through thots dm him? And you think that’s an insult?😂 So delusional and brainrotted.
@charliem4560 we all know your cooper...he came on fits live stream to argue he knows what fit was going to say lets be honest. Classic guy in his 20s. Asking for advice then proceeding to not listen. And its fine If he doesn't want to use social media but he's not even taking his own advice
though the guy's decision was weird, fit was still kind of slightly wrong in this. it seemed like he was having a hard time proving himself right kind of lol
How in the fuck is not having social media to attract women weird? The world has seriously gone to shit. Brain rot has taken over.
Fit hairline is cooked 😅😂 and he giving people advice on looks maxing looool
It looks like they use that fill in spray on his forehead
fitx has good points but puts too much importance on the status, i mean it is important if you want to take care of the girl, but if you want to have fun and live life with women, you need to relax, there are men out there who were basically homeless addicts and now they have family because women liked them for who they are as people, aka they are what a man is supposed to be the only true masculine feature, which is independence (in sense, no mommy issues) and accountability/responsibility for your OWN actions.
Any women looking for social media status is not a high value women. That’s a fact. Simple as that.
15:13 added a new word to his inventory 😂
This guy is a incel, i agree on the social media but this guy does not pull at all.. you don´t need social media to get women. I get them all without using insta. I do use snap though
You can tell, the thing is you just need to look good as well. I have a friend that’s 6’5 skinny, but looks good he constantly gets choosing signals and women have approached him. He’s very shy yet women still do this.
Looks attraxt women before anything
never noticed his hairline is receding
Bro joined the video to give himself advice💀
Sigma mentality🗿
@Lastnameabdi u call that sigma mentality💀
the guy is right with social media fitx trippin
19:34 hes right, social media is a waste of time
This is BS. Focus on yourself and pursue your goals. The right woman will come in time.
Fit is right on this one i was like this young dude he will find out the hard way
The only girls that DM guys are bots tbh
3:55 apparently this is long hair i cant believe bruh said wym change my hair with that split down the middle shades to the side ahh cut 😂
He’s a delusional clown. He think he got sauce cuz he got a 3.4 😂😂 FOH
@@alanfadezexactly man i get the feeling he came to argue not even to troll he's definitely smart just not street smart
This was long ass argument lol, I forgot why he got on here 😂
This vid got me dying😭😭bro had the thickest skull of all time
And the guy on the right was correct
@ you’re so wrong
Why do i need social media ? Fit : To BE A MAN . What?
Fit met his match 😂
Looks matter to a certain degree, but once she finds out you cant hold a conversion she'll go onto the next, that's why fit has gone 0-10 in the field 😭
Well having conversation skills does matter but if you're ugly it's gonna be the same or maybe even worse
Kid is right about Social Media. Fit's first L unfortunately.
LeafyIsHere reincarnated.
All I see is Bryce hall
The guy is contradicting himself he just doesn’t want to admit that he’s wrong and refuses to take the advice bro just try what he is telling you to do if you don’t want to listen why you call him😂
mechanical engineering bro can work at exonn my friend had same degreee gets to travel for work
I dont have socials but I would probably have a better time with women if I had a better social media. Sure its superficial, but thats how it is in this era.
Degrees don’t make you smart brother .
You talking about the guy on the left? First of all, the guy on the right doesn’t even have any degrees yet. Second, everything the guy on the right said is correct and he seems to be much wiser than the buffoon on the left.
What the dude on the right said def sounded smart and non-chronically online unlike most of these “alpha males” fans
You are correct. But im sure this guy is smart, he has a hard major at a hard school.
One sided and defensive and naive
Fit was defo bugging here😂
I hxate people like this, if u know it all why are you here
He’s taking advice, he just disagreed with one thing, that Fit happened to be wrong about. Everything he was saying to argue with Fit was completely correct.
I get on what some of the things hes trying to say but obviously in the world we live in now it revolves around the internet he can still make connections with girls in person but it won't hurt to leverge the dating space on social media as well. He joined Fits call to get some advice but he chose to have a debate instead, whats the point by joining this call if u don't want to take his advice💀
this guy should just be quiet and listen he would learn alot
Walmart Mr Beast 😭
at least he has the cojones to show his face online.
Bro goes same college as travis hunter🤯🤯
Thats normal literally every one in Colorado goes to boulder🤣
Travis Hunter himself needs to be on this the way his girl acts.
@@rami533boulder overated
I saw this live, I hated this guy
Why
3:14 freaky ah 😭
I didnt fully agree with fit being so defensive of what cooper was saying.
Watch from 17:00
Cooper has a hard time arguing his points after all.
@Somefun0341 He doesn’t need to argue his points. His points were already made earlier in the video. He was right, Fit was wrong. Fit was just too much of a naive buffoon to realize it.
304 is crazy 😭
You would be surprised how many socially dumb engineers I know but im with coop on this one. Rare L from fit
Yes. Fit is wrong about social media. Guy seems very out of touch with reality. Needs to get off Instagram for a bit.
@@charliem4560 facts
@@charliem4560yeah but I guarantee fit gets a lot more females than him and it’s because of social media presence
@@Alex-df9rhand I’m sure this guy probably has 200k+ followers on instagram, which was the guy point 😂.
No wonder he doesn’t get any , like look at ts guys hair 😂 goofy Ahhh
i definitely dmed my boyfriend first 🤣
Fits perfect match 😂
Bro cooper is a clown 😂
stop glazing bismarck lmao
I agree with fit. Cooper has some weird opposition to taking advice.
Why the heck do these guys come on saying that want guidance & then sit & argue. Sillyness
idk i agree with the college student tbh
Yeah. He’s correct. A lot more wisdom when it comes to actual high value women than the goofball on the left.
Engineers ain’t anything special trust me. 🤣
iwl, hes right
Social media does play a role but it’s not everything you just have to have some kind of personality on there and post stories atleast you don’t gotta be some kind of try hard
Social media should play 0 role if you’re looking for a genuine and good person. Anyone who needs to see your social media to validate their feelings about you is a superficial thot.
Fit is right he full of shit n he contradicts himself w everything he says
I agree half with both of them
Bro litterly made a video of how to sitt wich is crazy this guy is like a 6 years old boy how thinks every thing he says is right im taking to this weirdo
Maybe I should make an IG
Bro is on 300mg of steroids lmao
Nothing wrong with how the college bro is thinking, because i also think that way. But you have to understand we’re in the social media ages, where everything is online. The ways of dating has changed, so yea having a status online will boost your image. I’ve girls DM me on TikTok a few times as well as instagram. I never entertain them because I’m committed, but it proves how showing yourself off the internet attracts people in general whether if you’re beautiful/handsome, rich, smart, etc.