When I was a kid, maybe 10-11 years old, I had a conversation with my mom, sitting in the car in our driveway. It was dark out, we'd just come home from something and I don't remember exactly what prompted the conversation, but we were talking about sexuality. There was a lull in the conversation, and I remember staring at the dashboard, just mulling things over, before turning to my mom, and saying, utterly serious: "But...like, bi people. How do they do it? It must be so exhausting." My mom, simultaneously perplexed and trying not to laugh, "What do you mean, sweetie?" Me: "Liking everyone, boys and girls, all the time. It just sounds like it would be so tiring. And confusing." Mom: "Oh no, sweetie. Bi people don't have to like everyone, all the time. They just don't mind if the person they like is a boy or a girl. Just like...well, you don't have a crush on every boy you meet, do you?" Me [emphatically]: No! Me: But it still sounds like a lot. Cut to nearly twenty years later--You're absolutely right, Mom, I don't like everyone all the time, but so was I, being bi is still exhausting!
@@danivee8572 She, and my dad, absolutely are! They definitely screwed some things up, raising me, but I never, ever had reason to doubt their love and acceptance. I seriously lucked out, in the scheme of things!
The term gay is like trans, it can be used as a general descriptor for being on the spectrum. Technically queer is a blanket term but thats just feels TOO general at this point.
I am a bi male but mostky attracted to women. One woukd think that I don't have this problem, but I do have to explain every time when I tell one of my girl friends that some guy is cute and then I have to remain them. It js exhausting.
calling yourself gay and then remembering you're bi is the ultimate bisexual experience
I usually do it on purpose because it's easier to explain lol
can confirm...
@@VermillionPengu who doesn't!
Same with straight to bi, I hate it
I’m bi too and it IS exhausting
I'm not bi nor gay but f*cking dudes is still exhausting
Petition to start a support group for exhausted bis
I’m so tired
Solutions exist
What exact part of being bi is exhausting?
I’m Bi too and I genuinely have no clue
When I was a kid, maybe 10-11 years old, I had a conversation with my mom, sitting in the car in our driveway. It was dark out, we'd just come home from something and I don't remember exactly what prompted the conversation, but we were talking about sexuality.
There was a lull in the conversation, and I remember staring at the dashboard, just mulling things over, before turning to my mom, and saying, utterly serious:
"But...like, bi people. How do they do it? It must be so exhausting."
My mom, simultaneously perplexed and trying not to laugh, "What do you mean, sweetie?"
Me: "Liking everyone, boys and girls, all the time. It just sounds like it would be so tiring. And confusing."
Mom: "Oh no, sweetie. Bi people don't have to like everyone, all the time. They just don't mind if the person they like is a boy or a girl. Just like...well, you don't have a crush on every boy you meet, do you?"
Me [emphatically]: No!
Me: But it still sounds like a lot.
Cut to nearly twenty years later--You're absolutely right, Mom, I don't like everyone all the time, but so was I, being bi is still exhausting!
Your mom sounds like a gem!
@@danivee8572 She, and my dad, absolutely are! They definitely screwed some things up, raising me, but I never, ever had reason to doubt their love and acceptance. I seriously lucked out, in the scheme of things!
Yeah that didn't happen
You discover that you are bi and think "This is great! My prospects have doubled!" But no, the rejections are what doubles.
When everyone's an option but no one wants you
I believe in you two. You *will* find an awesome partner in crime, I know it!
@Joe-ix5hjcan we kiss
Not true. At least 50 people wanted him in one night in 2012
@Joe-ix5hj ok, i go first. my favourite colour is yellow. what's yours?
forgetting your sexuality is the epitome of being bi
it's the dictionary definition!✨✨
When i watched this episode i recorded this exact snippet badly on my phone and sent it to my friend saying "HES JUST LIKE ME FR"
As a Bi, this is the most relatable thing anyone has ever said.
I’m bi but call myself gay because it’s easier to explain, even to myself
I feel exhausted just by existing
I'm non-binary and it's exhausting in much the same way :')
I'm both and my energy levels are permanently negative :')
you're not bi(nary)
Big mood. "I'm male presenting non-binary who likes men" is a mouthful. I'm gay. W/e
Same
@@VicciplsSame here, it was tiring to try to explain how that worked to my mother in law, though that might have been a mistake from the get go
*Telling people at an LGBTQ club you’re gay because it’s easier to explain and clear up any confusion later*
This is too fucking real lmao
The term gay is like trans, it can be used as a general descriptor for being on the spectrum. Technically queer is a blanket term but thats just feels TOO general at this point.
truly
Yes.
it’s so exhausting, im bi but it’s easier to just be a gay girl who clarifies her bi identity when it comes up
Monosexual here sending love to all the bisexuals relating hard :/
wait i thought he was gay. GRANT IS BI REP?
Yes, it's also the plot twist in his CH coming out sketch
@@arudei-mb6wl shit I thought he was kidding.
I am a bi male but mostky attracted to women. One woukd think that I don't have this problem, but I do have to explain every time when I tell one of my girl friends that some guy is cute and then I have to remain them.
It js exhausting.