8 Week Missed Miscarriage Story | First Pregnancy Loss | 3 Years TTC

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  • Опубліковано 14 січ 2021
  • After 3 years of trying to conceive, I finally got pregnant! However, just a few weeks later, the pregnancy ended in miscarriage. We were devastated, but in the midst of the storm, I was able to find gratitude.
    For women who have suffered a pregnancy loss, I hope you can find peace and hope that you are holding your beautiful rainbow baby soon!
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  • @NaturallyMermaid
    @NaturallyMermaid  3 роки тому +31

    If you have experienced a pregnancy loss, please remember that you are loved and you are enough. I hope you can find peace. 💛

  • @ChewonThat
    @ChewonThat 3 роки тому +1

    Ariel, thank you so much for really opening up about your story. So sorry you dealt with this, and I know you're helping others by speaking on it because it's a very common experience. Best of luck with your health, I love your positive attitude about the future! I know you'll have a baby when the time is right :)

  • @stephaniejackson6669
    @stephaniejackson6669 3 роки тому

    I'm sorry your loss and I thank you for making this video. Your transparency about this situation is going to be the life-line that someone needs to begin their healing process. Although I have never experienced this, my husband and I initially thought we were not going to be able to conceive. I experience major anxiety and fear throughout my pregnancy due to this. I really appreciate you sharing this. Not enough conversations are had about the process of pregnancy loss or the emotional toll it takes on woman and couple. 🌈

  • @ayteeshamarch8538
    @ayteeshamarch8538 3 роки тому

    Keep praying 🙏🏾 TMH will hear your cries and bless you. Thanks for sharing, this video will uplift so many ❤️

  • @StrollingThroughLife
    @StrollingThroughLife 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for sharing such a personal part of your life, Ariel. I know this will help someone who also went through this. Sending love your way!

  • @pinkchucktaylor
    @pinkchucktaylor Рік тому +2

    I just had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy around Thanksgiving this year. Thanks for this video. I’m sorry this happened to you and Congratulations on your rainbow baby! 🙏🏽

    • @NaturallyMermaid
      @NaturallyMermaid  Рік тому +1

      Sending you so much love and prayers that you’ll have a rainbow baby soon 🌈💛

  • @dilynduffeysmith2128
    @dilynduffeysmith2128 3 роки тому +1

    This was so brave of you to share! Thanks for working to normalize talking about it. I hope you are feeling hopeful for the future!

  • @musicmama2864
    @musicmama2864 3 роки тому +5

    My heart goes out to you and your husband. So sorry for your loss.

  • @lisaallen9310
    @lisaallen9310 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your story Ariel. I'm sorry about your loss and wish you the best!

  • @teehlfx5238
    @teehlfx5238 3 роки тому +7

    I’m so sorry. This also happened to me. I remember being told about those 3 choices minutes after having the ultrasound where we found out. I remember trying to process and feeling very betrayed by my body. Sending you grace and support. ❤️

    • @NaturallyMermaid
      @NaturallyMermaid  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing and for your support 💛

    • @teehlfx5238
      @teehlfx5238 3 роки тому

      @@NaturallyMermaid Thank you for sharing. We do need spaces to talk about this openly ❤️

  • @camillegaston5583
    @camillegaston5583 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing your story! I can see how difficult this was to share. If was difficult for me to hear and see your pain. I’m a bit of an empath. Haha. But, this is so real. Thank you for the details shared. This conversation needs to be normalized, and I am so happy that you posted this. Blessings to you!

  • @ItsTylerChanel
    @ItsTylerChanel 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for sharing this story. My heart goes out to you and your husband. 💚

  • @ColorShananigans
    @ColorShananigans 3 роки тому

    Awww! My heart goes out to you and your hubby! You will be a mother.... a GREAT one! Praying for you two. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @dagonundone
    @dagonundone 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you for sharing your story. Even a year later, it’s helping people still. Your words about the baby floating under the stars was beautiful. I had a spontaneous miscarriage last week. I had a doctors appointment the day before and despite having bleeding, the baby had a strong heartbeat and it gave us a lot of hope that it would be ok. When I started bleeding more heavily, I still didn’t know for sure that I was miscarrying until I saw the fetus outside of my body. My husband found me on the bathroom floor sobbing and holding it in my hands. He thought it would help if I didn’t have to look at it and so he took it from me and flushed it. I know he meant well by doing this but I still struggled with the thought of my baby being flushed. So thank you for your words, they gave me comfort during an impossibly hard situation. ❤️

    • @NaturallyMermaid
      @NaturallyMermaid  2 роки тому

      I’m so glad that my story helped you. I’m sending you and your husband so much love and peace. 💛💛💛

  • @tabiree
    @tabiree 3 роки тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss... And thank you for sharing

  • @jenn3rz
    @jenn3rz 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for your video. You answered a lot of questions for me.

  • @juanitagrant
    @juanitagrant 2 роки тому

    😥😥😥This one hurt my soul. I pray that you overcome and get to experience childbirth ❤️ It’s beautiful and I’ve always hoped and wish to experience that with my husband but I never had the opportunity so be happy that you had someone there❤️ Wishing you well
    Rest In Peace Nyla…I’m sorry

  • @missld6856
    @missld6856 2 роки тому +1

    @Naturally Mermaid, Omg I just cried listening to the “imagine your baby or it’s little souls floating through the ocean underneath the stars” I agree that is such a beautiful way to see envision it. I may have to do that. I am waiting for my miscarrige to happen we just found out our baby had no heart beat and it died at 9 weeks according to the doctor. Thank you for your video. It’s a very hard time ❤️

  • @ladydexx9264
    @ladydexx9264 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for sharing & I’m so sorry for you and your husband. Praying & hoping that you’ll be blessed with an Angel soon. I also lost mine yesterday at 8 weeks & 5 days & it’s so painful.

    • @NaturallyMermaid
      @NaturallyMermaid  2 роки тому +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you love and healing. 💛🌈

    • @ladydexx9264
      @ladydexx9264 2 роки тому

      @@NaturallyMermaid thank u love!

    • @anh8388
      @anh8388 2 роки тому

      Just found out today that my baby stopped growing at 5 weeks. I should’ve been 8 weeks. Now is the agonizing wait for my body to pass everything and it sucks. I understand your pain. Sending well wishes and healing energy to everyone who has or is going through this.

  • @debduttbhattachargee1814
    @debduttbhattachargee1814 2 роки тому +1

    All the best dear😊 You know what, my wife had ectopic pregnancy, she lost one tube & then again she concieved after 3 months, but lost our baby again at the end of 8 weeks found during 11th week check up by missed miscarriage, no heart beat!Had D&C! Life is cruel 😢... Watching her cry in pain is so much difficult for me! I can't do anything except consoling her! Becoming Dad is still a dream for me

  • @Garn40
    @Garn40 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @novyantiporta3256
    @novyantiporta3256 2 місяці тому

    thank you for this video…

  • @liezlgg
    @liezlgg Рік тому +1

    Last June 29th I was told my baby has no heartbeat at 7 weeks. I decided to wait for the natural miscarriage to happen. Or maybe buy some time for a miracle to happen... The miscarriage happened last July 24th. I don't know how to move on and accept this reality. I am in so much pain... I wish there is a drug that would shut my emotions, endless tears and grief. I felt that I was deprived of being a mother to my child and I feel that I would have this longing that will forever be unfulfilled. Thank you for sharing your story. I pray no woman would be subjected to this kind of situation... I hope all those who experienced this kind of loss find peace somewhere, somehow..

  • @tvt3331
    @tvt3331 2 роки тому +1

    I just had a miscarriage 8 weeks. Thank you for sharing this. Makes me feel like I’m not alone💕

    • @NaturallyMermaid
      @NaturallyMermaid  2 роки тому +2

      You are not alone. 💛 Sending you so much love and peace.

    • @tvt3331
      @tvt3331 2 роки тому

      @@NaturallyMermaid thank you so much
      Something strange is happening though not sure if you’re interested in knowing but it turns out I’m still pregnant. I’m worried I’m having an ectopic pregnancy 😓

    • @NaturallyMermaid
      @NaturallyMermaid  2 роки тому

      @@tvt3331 Oh wow...hopefully you can speak with your doctor to find out what's going on. 💕

  • @MariahLove
    @MariahLove 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your experience. I am currently going through the 3 options . Very hard to choose

    • @NaturallyMermaid
      @NaturallyMermaid  2 роки тому +1

      I’m so sorry girlfriend. Sending you peace and love. 💛

  • @erins3147
    @erins3147 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @taj2962
    @taj2962 3 роки тому +2

    I'm sorry that happened to you. But don't worry, God has it under control. You are strong and you will be provided with a baby if that's the desire of your heart ❤

  • @Rashonye
    @Rashonye Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing 🖤

  • @tiiiamiiia0386
    @tiiiamiiia0386 3 роки тому +2

    The details you gave told me that I think I had a miscarriage in 2020 on New Years ikr “great way to bring in the new year “ I took a picture of it it literally looks just as you describe I do get sad thinking about it but I don’t feel how I thought I would feel if I had actually gotten a positive test I have the pictures to this day and I still want a fr to tell me yes I was pregnant just to make it real I don’t wanna cry I just wanna know I can bring a baby into this world

    • @NaturallyMermaid
      @NaturallyMermaid  3 роки тому

      It does sound like a similar experience. I'm so sorry. Maybe a doctor will be able to confirm with the picture. Lots of love and dust to you. 💛

  • @n.a9187
    @n.a9187 Рік тому

    Im so sory for your lost

  • @tajeriathompson6703
    @tajeriathompson6703 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your story can u tell me what the pill name that the doctor gave you please

  • @amandaeve3404
    @amandaeve3404 Рік тому

    I Hope everything is well with u

  • @theresamartinez5630
    @theresamartinez5630 Рік тому

  • @toniannevenezia6700
    @toniannevenezia6700 2 роки тому +1

    I'm 8 weeks pregnant now and my question for you is was that your 1st ultrasound at the 8 week mark? Did you have an ultrasound before that 8 week? I've had 3 ultrasounds confirmed great heart rate and measurements and baby is apparently ahead 2 to 5 days lol but I still worry. That's why I am asking still about was that your 1st ultrasound at 8 weeks? Thank you ! Thanks for sharing your story!

    • @NaturallyMermaid
      @NaturallyMermaid  2 роки тому +1

      That was my first ultrasound at 8 weeks. If you’ve heard/seen the heartbeat several times, you probably have nothing to worry about. I’m currently 14 weeks pregnant and have heard the heartbeat multiple times starting at 7 weeks so I feel like we’re out of the danger zone for the most part. Don’t worry, Mama!! 💛

    • @toniannevenezia6700
      @toniannevenezia6700 Рік тому

      @@NaturallyMermaid I've seen the heart beat multiple times suppose to hear it next Thursday:) my fertility clinic apparently didn't have the sound capability but I saw it like 3 times