My Missed Miscarriage | A Muslim Mother's Perspective

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  • @SalehFamily
    @SalehFamily  2 роки тому +331

    We want to honour our baby - Emaan, and build 100 water wells to provide clean drinking water to thousands of people in six different countries. Please donate here to help make this dream come true for us: www.launchgood.com/wellsforemaan

    • @nasrahtkhatar4384
      @nasrahtkhatar4384 2 роки тому +3

      How far along were you sis when you lost ur baby Emaan?

    • @rafidalnahiyan6504
      @rafidalnahiyan6504 2 роки тому

      @@nasrahtkhatar4384 Yes if it was early then there is a special hadeeth that is mind blowing for the mother

    • @noorienaeem4508
      @noorienaeem4508 2 роки тому +1

      Yes you didn’t mention how far along you were?

    • @RocioHernandez-oj7wp
      @RocioHernandez-oj7wp 2 роки тому +1

      I am so sorry for your loss, I wish you and your family so much hope and love to get your through. I challenge you to a new perspective on the days greif sits beside you and tugs on your heart do something to celebrate that life. I truly believe we never die so long as someone says our name. Even though grief will follow you, make sure the joy of his existence, the journey up until his passing is a happy one.

    • @safamadii1462
      @safamadii1462 2 роки тому

      @Saleh Family so sorry for ur loss sis..
      May Allah gave strength to u and ur family to bear this loss..
      I hav also gone through the same emotions @about 2 mnths 1 week...
      This loss is unbearable @times wether @early stage or when u're close to grab ur baby in ur lap & u don't..
      But sis u didn't mention in any of ur session how far u were when u loss ur child ???? Plz mention

  • @christinaolivia3475
    @christinaolivia3475 2 роки тому +163

    My sister Rebecca passed away a few minutes after she was born. 20 years-ish after her passing my dad on his death bed said that now he can be with her in Heaven. I never knew how much he mourned her until that day.

    • @esthellakomerl8084
      @esthellakomerl8084 2 роки тому +2

      Oh.. How sad.. But sweet at the same time.. ❤️

    • @stargazer4526
      @stargazer4526 2 роки тому

      Wow that is so beautiful

    • @soniiabaybee
      @soniiabaybee 2 роки тому

      Parents never stop mourning their child. It’s the same for mine for my older brother who passed in 2016 at 28 years suddenly.

    • @SunnyMoonwilluploadin
      @SunnyMoonwilluploadin 2 роки тому +1

      My parents had 2 daughters and a son, when the first daughter Fanaan (born 2007) was born, she was basically the only child. She got cancer at 8 months and lost the battle just before she turned 2. Then came me (2011) i was their 2nd daughter, and although i do suffer from diseases (asthma and Type 1 Diabetes [and im colorblind but its not a disease]) but i was definetly healthier than Fanaan. My brother (2015) was finally the only kid with no diseases and me, and my brother, and my parents, we see Fanaan’s grave every single birthday she has (September 23rd) and i talk with her grave whenever i have troubles. We never a miscarriage but we all know what its like

  • @sumaiyaansari9968
    @sumaiyaansari9968 2 роки тому +462

    No matter how cheerful you look or try to look...we can see the pain behind that smile and that voice. You definitely are not alone...you have your fans and family with you

    • @SalehFamily
      @SalehFamily  2 роки тому +83

      Love you all

    • @shaunamalcolm7031
      @shaunamalcolm7031 2 роки тому +8

      Infant loss is truly heart breaking. Allah tests the ones he loves and I can personally attest that time does heal the sting a little. Praying for patience and tranquility for you and your family. ♥️♥️♥️

    • @asahmed1612
      @asahmed1612 2 роки тому +2

      🥰🥰🥰

  • @amsterdam_budtender
    @amsterdam_budtender 2 роки тому +360

    Even for a non Muslim female I hold much value watching a Muslim talk about her miscarriage.
    I teared up after you explaining the narration that the prophet Abraham and his wife takes care of the kids and etc.
    Absolutely beautiful.
    Although I might not have a believe I hold on to, this still gives me some sort of hope for the afterlife, I've got my baby's waiting for me.
    I don't ever talk about it, but this particular story helps me so much after so so many years
    Thank you for sharing and all the love to you 💞

    • @SalehFamily
      @SalehFamily  2 роки тому +61

      Sending you so many blessings - you will be united with your baby one day inshAllah!

    • @EmanNagi
      @EmanNagi 2 роки тому +12

      I really hope Allah unite u someday in heaven with your little beautiful baby in shaa' Allah and I hope that your spark of hope turns into comfort of certainty about the beauty of afterlife under Allah's mercy and blessings ❤️

    • @zarah-2933
      @zarah-2933 2 роки тому +3

      I as well teared up I love u I will pray hopefully ur getting a lot better but don’t worry everything happens for a reason. But on the bright side the baby is in jenna now and as u said the baby is being watched. I love u so much and it broke my heart when I heard this I rlly hope ur ok now!

    • @amsterdam_budtender
      @amsterdam_budtender 2 роки тому +3

      @Proud Mleccha The way I grew up, my believe or maybe lack thereof at least growing up and my surroundings which also contains a lot of females, this was never really a subject.
      So that hasn't crossed my mind really, talking about afterlife or reuniting with passed relatives even.
      So also not with my own baby's in heaven to put it like that.
      Now growing to be older and forming more of my believes because I feel that grounds me more, I have come to terms that I do believe that more.
      And watching videos like this, helps me.
      And honestly, seeing a Muslim talking about this helps me more than maybe other religions or nun believers.
      So don't say stop it.
      Don't judge me for being helped by this amazing family.
      That's the opposite of what you should believe, as a Christian, don't you?
      Let me be as I don't seem to harm you, thank you.

  • @theothersilas7538
    @theothersilas7538 2 роки тому +49

    I didn't know that the baby is taken care of by Prophet Ibrahim (A.S.) and his wife. Knowing that alone is unbelievably comforting. May Allah help you through this. Ameen.

  • @lisalazarris9393
    @lisalazarris9393 2 роки тому +37

    I cried with you, I had 6 miscarriages, and I believe God was with me in the hospital room comforting me, I felt so much love in my heart, and I seen a bright light, Go'd was telling me everything will be ok !!!

  • @ambramarrs7325
    @ambramarrs7325 2 роки тому +179

    You don’t have to apologize for how you feel- I lost 5 children in my younger years, and am a 2 time widow- Time will become a buffer to the pain and loss, but keep your faith- it will get you through- Sending healing ❤️‍🩹 prayers…

    • @babdullah5025
      @babdullah5025 2 роки тому +4

      😔😔😔

    • @zeezee3891
      @zeezee3891 2 роки тому +14

      So sorry for your losses. May Allah give you immense ajr for your sabr and keep you strong and make it easy on you to deal with the loss. Ameen

    • @Khadijaunique
      @Khadijaunique 2 роки тому +8

      SubhanAllah- you are very strong. May Allah (SWT) bring you endless blessings and happiness in both this world and in the hereafter, Ameen!

    • @irumkhan3684
      @irumkhan3684 2 роки тому +2

      I am sorry for your losses 😢😢😢😢😢

    • @tinapourshirazi2471
      @tinapourshirazi2471 2 роки тому +3

      5?!?! My goodness. That’s so heartbreaking. I’m sure that all those now kids up in heaven must be so proud of you and love their mama. Gotta keep pushing for those children you are raising and those who are now grown up in heaven. Mothers and fathers. Women and men are all incredible and strong. You got this ❤️💪🏻🤗

  • @deborahdonut9522
    @deborahdonut9522 2 роки тому +42

    Ever since I heard you had a miscarriage I’ve been praying for you. I’m Jewish but that didn’t stop me from asking god to make sure you guys are ok. No one deserves to go through miscarriage. God bless you guys. May god bless you with a baby in the near future.

  • @gothgirlatheart3545
    @gothgirlatheart3545 2 роки тому +86

    I actually learned something very important from this video. I used to blame God for all the grief and loss that I experienced and I hated him for it… But you just showed me that turning your grief into a powerful message, meaning or reason to make a difference is far more healing than blaming my creator. Thank you so much for this video he made a difference in my life

    • @hhholly
      @hhholly 2 роки тому +6

      This comment made me cry.

    • @ummaryam1
      @ummaryam1 2 роки тому +1

      Subxana’allah ask Allah for forgiveness

    • @soniiabaybee
      @soniiabaybee 2 роки тому

      May God give you patience!

    • @aanieiyaali
      @aanieiyaali 2 роки тому

      @@ummaryam1 1090

  • @theartisticsoul9816
    @theartisticsoul9816 2 роки тому +156

    I had two miscarriages and I lost my baby boy in October 2021, just after three days of his birth. It was really painful, I can't describe it in words.😣But I'm satisfied coz ALLAH'S plans are better than our wishes. May ALLAH grant you Sabr. Ameen ❤️

    • @mrmiralem
      @mrmiralem 2 роки тому +6

      May Allah bless you in this life and more so in the next for all the pain you have had to endure. May you and your babies one day be reunited. 💙❤️❤️

    • @theartisticsoul9816
      @theartisticsoul9816 2 роки тому +1

      @@mrmiralem Ameen Jazak ALLAH KHAIR 🤲🏻

    • @kristinamelnichenko5775
      @kristinamelnichenko5775 2 роки тому +1

      Wow. So sorry🥺💔💔💔💔💔💔

    • @iphrahbano3465
      @iphrahbano3465 2 роки тому +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss, have patience and believe in Allah's promise....He will reward you for your suffering in the next life InshaAllah❤️

    • @theartisticsoul9816
      @theartisticsoul9816 2 роки тому

      @@iphrahbano3465 In SHAA ALLAH, Jazak ALLAH KHAIR 🤲🏻

  • @cristinab2263
    @cristinab2263 2 роки тому +44

    I've never had kids, but I'm a labor and delivery nurse, and this makes me feel better for the babies we've lost over the years. I grieve with the mothers, but they'll be together again one day.

  • @barbsams7774
    @barbsams7774 2 роки тому +39

    Many years ago, when my baby was born at 5 months and only lived 1 day it was never talked about. I just had to "get over it". So glad that is changing. Prayers to you and your family.

    • @taylor4800
      @taylor4800 2 роки тому

      I’m so sorry you had to go through that and were expected to just move on. I hope you know your pain is valid and you are strong and not alone in having a heavy heart for grieving.

  • @jeezlouise88
    @jeezlouise88 2 роки тому +28

    Thank you for sharing. I'm eating reakfast, bawling. I had to suffer in silence for 3 - 4 years. Until one day I decided silence wasn't going to heal. Why miscarriages are taboo subjects I will never understand. I'm so glad the platform is changing on this topic. I'm praying for you and your family!

    • @SalehFamily
      @SalehFamily  2 роки тому +9

      Bless you and I am so sorry for your loss

  • @rebeccasanford8607
    @rebeccasanford8607 2 роки тому +53

    Greetings from East Texas. I am a Retired OB RN Nurse. I am so sorry to hear of your loss and the ongoing battle dealing with a “missed” Miscarriage. The trauma is real. Both physical and emotional. Regardless of our Culture or Religious Beliefs. Thank you for having the courage to discuss this event from a Muslim Woman / Family perspective. Words cannot express the sorrow in my heart for your loss. I see the pain in your face and hear it in your voice. Honoring your child through facilitating clean water for those in need is a true Blessing. Peace be with you.

  • @KellyMurphy39
    @KellyMurphy39 2 роки тому +80

    Im sobbing ive never heard such a beautiful image of comfort. As much as my mom is Christian i feel i need to share this with her, shes always felt incomplete after losing my older sister who lived 1 day. Just the image of a child wanting to work to bring mom to them is so kind.

  • @user-qc8lk6sg7n
    @user-qc8lk6sg7n 2 роки тому +40

    I’m not religious, but I love Islam.. I got goosebumps hearing you talks abt the prophet Abraham

  • @thisisarika
    @thisisarika 2 роки тому +78

    This video must have been really really difficult to make, but please know that it will help many women who are going through the same thing. I have not seen anyone talk so candidly about miscarriage the way you both have. May Allah give you sabr to deal with this loss. You are truly in my prayers ❤ I wish you all the best in building the 100 water wells, what an amazing way to give back insha Allah

    • @SalehFamily
      @SalehFamily  2 роки тому +21

      Thank you so much for your kind duas - May Allah grant ease to every family that suffers child loss

    • @asmamuhammad1588
      @asmamuhammad1588 2 роки тому

      @@SalehFamily ameen

  • @mazudakhatun4533
    @mazudakhatun4533 2 роки тому +37

    So sorry for your loss. Listening to you has brought back so many of my sad memories. I had my first miscarriage in 1996, went in hospital by myself😢 no family support. 2003 had to give birth to my daughter Khadija of 32 weeks still born in hospital by myself. Then loosing my beautiful 10year old daughter Aleena 2019. I’m still in so much pain. You are so lucky to have the support of your family and especially your husband Alhamdulilah. I pray for all who go through a miscarriage that Allah SWT gives them the strength to deal with their loss and move forward in life. Ameen

    • @misramujeeb9521
      @misramujeeb9521 2 роки тому +5

      May Allah make things easy for u sister 🤲🏻

    • @whatever-ou2he
      @whatever-ou2he 2 роки тому +3

      Sister you've been through so much.
      May Allah reward you greatly after all these tests and give you a sense of peace and patience. Ameen.

    • @jocelynsmyth6604
      @jocelynsmyth6604 2 роки тому

      I am so, so sorry for your loss

    • @ayshabenfayed1763
      @ayshabenfayed1763 2 роки тому +2

      May Allah swt give you the highest place in jannah for your patience and pain. You have gone through so much loss. I'm so sad for you. Sending you love and hugs.

    • @stargazer4526
      @stargazer4526 2 роки тому

      I am so sorry for what you've had to endure.

  • @kelly1827
    @kelly1827 2 роки тому +26

    My deepest condolences for your family's loss. My mother suffered a similar stage loss and although I was only 7 at the time I could tell how devastating it was and how deeply she and my father grieved. He was my only brother and his name is Sean.

  • @lauramarika
    @lauramarika 2 роки тому +105

    I dont have time to watch this now, but I will watch it later 🥰 I just wanna say that Sana you're strong, amazing, beautiful woman who can do anything and I'm sure Baby Emaan sees you from Jannah and tells everyone, that is MY mom, look how amazing she is! ❤️

  • @lonniemason3084
    @lonniemason3084 2 роки тому +6

    that reading is so beautiful, and so reassuring. I have lost 2 babies before birth. you are doing a great service to others by sharing your story. I am not a Muslim, but I really enjoy your videos. You are a great mother.

  • @tehyalewis2549
    @tehyalewis2549 2 роки тому +33

    I feel like people think a miscarriage is just a bigger version of a “period” especially some men. I don’t have kids but my mom explained to me what it was and I’ve seen your videos and it’s much more. 🙏

    • @SalehFamily
      @SalehFamily  2 роки тому +29

      Giving birth to an unborn child is not just bleeding, it’s literally giving birth to your baby that is lifeless. I’m so glad your learning what it truly is ❤️

    • @diaaashah3240
      @diaaashah3240 2 роки тому

      @@SalehFamily hi sis mi pkistan se hou aap mujhe hijab gift kr sagte hy kiun k mi buy ni kr sagte

    • @mahjabifatima9628
      @mahjabifatima9628 2 роки тому +1

      @@SalehFamily which month?

  • @Golehzarif
    @Golehzarif 2 роки тому +7

    I want to say thank you for speaking out. I know you think you’re helping this community on this subject , but you have reached so far!! You’re helping all women. Every woman that sees this will have healing come from it. I want to say that I have never experienced these things you speak of but I am experiencing pcos and I have been bleeding for 5+ weeks. I know it’s no where near the same thing. But to bleed this long is so hard on my husband and my kids and just the day to day tasks are too much. I am alone. We are alone. We don’t have family that helps. So to hear your words has helped my mindset at least in so many ways.
    Sending love and prayers your way. Making dua and inshallah you are better soon. Thank you for what you are doing. Thank you truly.

  • @mini-me4996
    @mini-me4996 2 роки тому +6

    Wow I think you're such a strong woman!❤ I've never have lost a baby so I can't feel what you're feeling but hearing you talk about the lost en your faith give me goosebumps. I'm a Christian but have also always believed that your God is ours and sometimes I think we as Christians can take an example from your Muslims. There is so much negativity around being a muslim even were I live( the Nederlands) but seeing and hearing you talk about your faith in God and how good you're dealing with this lost I think it is ten thousend much stronger than all those negative comments. I wanna give you a big hug from the distance when I see your tears and grieve and I hope you guys can give it a place in time🥰 know you 2 are a role model for so many people and I hope you're inspire more people to work to such a pure and beautiful heart as yours.

  • @Pinkie277
    @Pinkie277 2 роки тому +3

    The strength it must have taken to make this video is incredible. It is plain to see the pain you are enduring right now. However, can I just say that I am in awe of your strength of faith, your willingness to use your story to help others, and using such a tragic time to try and do something so positive with the water well project. You are incredible.
    Your channel has, and continues to, inspire me so much, I have learnt so much from you. You are a remarkable woman, and I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

  • @carolynnixon3086
    @carolynnixon3086 2 роки тому +27

    Dear one, there is no need to apologize for expressing your emotions. Please know that we love you and you family. I feel you pain and embrace you all in my love.♥️

  • @rgnvelazquez
    @rgnvelazquez 2 роки тому +6

    Oh my goodness. That narration had me in tears. I know exactly how you are feeling. It still hurts. It’s been nine years that my baby went to heaven as well. With my first ultrasound, the baby had no heartbeat. After that miscarriage, I had two boys. I have a daughter prior to the miscarriage. I think and talk about our angel baby all the time.

  • @ClandestineGirl16X
    @ClandestineGirl16X 2 роки тому +18

    I'm so sorry. I'm sending so much support and love to you and your family ❤

  • @terrisanchez2516
    @terrisanchez2516 2 роки тому +1

    I am so sorry for your great loss.
    You have a beautiful family of 5. ❤
    Thank you for using your platform to share with others in your similar situation💔
    I had an ectopic pregnancy with my 3rd pregnancy after our 2 daughters were born.
    It was devastating.
    Then we were blessed with our 3rd daughter. Then had two more miscarriages.
    15 years later we lost our oldest daughter at the age of 23. It is truly a gutting and dark dark place.
    Lean on each other as I see you do 🌻
    There is always more support for moms as normally dads hide their feelings.
    It is wonderful that your husband will make a video also from a dads perspective .
    Only time, your faith, and loved ones (sometimes kind and unexpected word's from strangers) will help you through the darkest of days.

  • @bansheblue312
    @bansheblue312 2 роки тому +2

    This takes so much courage to openly talk about, and you both have my respect. I’m so sorry you had to endure the pain of this, and I wish the best for you and your family. May things only get better from here for you all

  • @ellamcguffee1669
    @ellamcguffee1669 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much for creating this video I’m sure it brings hope and comfort to those who need it and even for me a non-Muslim who has never given birth it helps me to understand how beautiful this religion is and how it is I think it’s so incredible that there is this ‘’verse” to help grieving women and families I don’t think that there’s a Christian equivalent and I think that’s a shame for everyone. I hope that creating this video and sharing your experience has been healing for you thank you.

  • @miah8896
    @miah8896 2 роки тому +11

    You are not alone ❤ your story is so relatable and you are so strong. The narration you shared is so comforting and made me so emotional. Thank you so much for sharing your story! Also, will be waiting on the Fathers perspective to forward to my husband. Sending prayers ❤

    • @SalehFamily
      @SalehFamily  2 роки тому

      Fathers perspective is now uploaded ❤️

  • @zebaneec378
    @zebaneec378 2 роки тому +13

    Sending love and prayers your way and your family… may Allah give you strength to get through this difficult time in your life❤️

  • @crystalsukhai8355
    @crystalsukhai8355 2 роки тому

    Your story will be heard . Such a strong and powerful yet emotional tribute to your baby and to yourself . To help other women and other families who are going thru the same ordeal to have this video as a reminder that it’s okay, you can get thru this . Your so brave ! Your baby Emaan gave u the strength and uplifted you to come on UA-cam and share your story and your true feelings. Your baby will forever be apart of you and part of this family. You are blessed to have emaan in your life . Your baby was not a lost Because you have gained so much more than u ever had before as a person , a mother , a UA-camr w.e the case may be . Keep going strong and thank you for helping others !

  • @8wheelsandasmile522
    @8wheelsandasmile522 2 роки тому +1

    Prayers for you and your family. I hope your family finds comfort through your grief. Thank you so much for sharing your story as hard as I’m sure it was to make this video.

  • @vanessap7902
    @vanessap7902 2 роки тому +3

    I’m so sorry for your loss, please let me know if you need anything. I know I’m just a stranger but you really are an inspiration to so many people. I will pray for you and your family. 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻

  • @christinebaur-millward3647
    @christinebaur-millward3647 2 роки тому +4

    Please don’t apologize for getting emotional. Your feelings are valid and natural. Being real and raw is the truest form of sending a message. Thank you for sharing your experience. You’re strong. God Bless you and your family 💚

  • @mahaazim9779
    @mahaazim9779 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story Sana. I felt all of your pain and emotions. I can’t imagine the amount of bravery it took to speak up about your experiences even while coping through the trauma yourself. Thinking of your family💙

  • @2002fulla
    @2002fulla 2 роки тому +2

    So much love and support to your family sister! You're really brave to talk and share about your experience even after so much of pain, Jazak Allahu khairan for speaking about this!
    I just got married in November and I got pregnant in mid Feb and me and my husband were so happy and we even informed our families but just after 2 weeks of the news we came to know that there was no baby's heart or anything detected in the Ultrasound and the doctor had thought maybe my HCG levels were indicating that it may be a critical scenario but in the end I was bleeding for a week and had enormous pain for 2 days and finally it came to us that I had a miscarriage (spontaneous abortion) that my body wasn't able to hold the pregnancy in the early stage and I lost it. I don't know how common this is but It really saddens me when I watch pregnancy videos as I was so excited about it and was planning so many things. It's certainly Allah's plans and he plans the best for us. But it's sad to lose something was had inside us which was so close to us.

  • @zanab.
    @zanab. 2 роки тому +3

    Salaam I am so sorry about this i love how faithful in Allah you still are after this horrible experience because it is sad but true that many people turn away from the beauty of Allah it’s very important as we prepare for Ramadan that we stay faithful even during tough times💕

  • @shanzenaqvi3254
    @shanzenaqvi3254 2 роки тому +5

    I am so sorry for your loss . i feel each and every pain you are going for and it breaks my heart to hear your story . i pray to allah that beautiful emaan is in good hands . Inshallah you will meet again in jannah . I hope Allah makes it easy for you ❤

  • @dyingdoesnthurt1967
    @dyingdoesnthurt1967 2 роки тому +6

    Sending love to you and your beautiful family 😘
    Sorry for your loss xxx

  • @sameeksha1359
    @sameeksha1359 2 роки тому +2

    You're so strong . Sending love and healing to you and your family ❤️❤️

  • @kamalhussain4286
    @kamalhussain4286 2 роки тому +11

    May Allah make it easy for you my dear sister InSha'Allah. I wish you and your family all the very best. I can completely understand your feelings.

  • @MegaTripsy
    @MegaTripsy 2 роки тому

    That narration is what gave me comfort during my two losses too, it is so beautiful. I am so sorry for your loss, it is so painful, but it will get easier Insha'Allah

  • @asmamuhammad1588
    @asmamuhammad1588 2 роки тому +2

    I got goosebumps while hearing the narration... lots of love and duas.. in this ramadan i will pray to allah for all women who had miscarriages.
    And also after hearing your story i have decided to choose gynocology in my post graduation and to become a gynecologist... inshallah ... pray for me that i could become a good gynecologist and help women

  • @madihakhalid5419
    @madihakhalid5419 2 роки тому +2

    Even though I am not a mom. Even tho I have not experienced a pain like yours, your words your story has touched me. Being a fellow believer I can not agree more on this point that we really do seek a faith's perspective on every matter of our lives and especially the ones that move us to our core. Ma shaa Allah. May Allah (swt) heal you guys and be your Guardian and Protecting friend(moula) always. Ameen.
    This was much much needed. Jazakallah khairun.

  • @stacygarrison7991
    @stacygarrison7991 2 роки тому +3

    Sending so much love and prayers for your family. Emaan is such a beautiful name.

  • @mehreenkw
    @mehreenkw 2 роки тому +1

    Oh sana, i'm in tears ... i hear you and i feel EVERY emotion you're feeling right now. Your baby Emaan is waiting for you and my babies are waiting for me. May Allah swt grant us Sabr in this life. AND reunite us with our babies in the hereafter. AMEEN. Sending you hugs, love and lots of duas... you're an amazing mom and human being! I just adore you!

  • @kerrimarie413
    @kerrimarie413 Рік тому

    Thank you for speaking up. I was feeling lonely and like no one understood what I was feeling. I loved the reading!!!

  • @priyam8372
    @priyam8372 2 роки тому +2

    I never comment on UA-cam but I was weeping the whole time I heard you speak. God bless you

  • @Lynx-ch3ul
    @Lynx-ch3ul 2 роки тому

    I can not express my condolences enough for your loss. Thank you for sharing your perspective. I continue to pray for your family and for healing in this difficult time. God be with you, Will and your girls.

  • @emanmusa6727
    @emanmusa6727 2 роки тому +14

    I’m so sorry for your loss💔inshallah everything gets better for you guys❤️

    • @SalehFamily
      @SalehFamily  2 роки тому +8

      We are getting stronger each day Alhamdulillah

    • @emanmusa6727
      @emanmusa6727 2 роки тому +3

      I love you guys and I know you can do this it’s a journey from Allah to Allah❤️

  • @justsomeautisticwoman6202
    @justsomeautisticwoman6202 2 роки тому

    So sorry for your lost…This is never easy to deal with, my mom lost 3 boys during childbirth its been more then 20 years for 2 and 10 for 1 both are extremely painful still for all us but especially for her the pain of not having your baby is beyond painful..and Its ok to hurt no matter if it just happened or if its been 20 years or more it hurts and its ok to cry its ok to feel that pain don’t apologize for feeling that because it ok and normal to feel that pain no matter how long its been, condolences for your lost pls try and stay strong and don’t be afraid to cry part of being strong is letting out that hurt when needed, real sorry for your lost💖💝

  • @jessicacossin6282
    @jessicacossin6282 2 роки тому +19

    Sending my love & condolences to you and your family. I'm not a Muslim, but that story of Abraham is a beautiful one. I've suffered through a miscarriage myself, it can a long time emotionally & physically, but you just have to let yourself feel what you feel. Stay strong, you're such a beautiful woman, with a beautiful family.

  • @leona3912
    @leona3912 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your video, don't be sorry , your video is perfect, I'm a muslim women ive had 8 children and 3 are heaven children ,I lost my 2 sons and daughter 19 and 18 years ago ,its brings me great comfort that they are being looks after in heaven, the pain never goes away its just gets easier to deal with , love and prayers to you and your family lots of tears when you brought up the milk with no baby to feed ,brought back lots of memories, stay strong you will get through it

  • @RabbitNachos
    @RabbitNachos 2 роки тому +2

    I’m so sorry that this happened to your family. I lost my baby girl at 32 weeks after a seemingly perfect pregnancy. That was 11 years ago and her memory is still with me. My milk came in too, and as weird as this may sound I pumped for a while to help my body heal faster. I just wanted things to feel normal again as quickly as possible.

  • @kristinolan7240
    @kristinolan7240 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ I'm so sorry you have gone through this loss

  • @hhholly
    @hhholly 2 роки тому +7

    I will never be a mother, I’m also Christian, and when you said “God will test us with what we love”..I started crying. This is so true. 😭😭😭

  • @Justine-jp4fq
    @Justine-jp4fq 2 роки тому +2

    We love you and we are here for you. My family is praying for you and yours. Wishing you all the love ❤️

  • @lisamarierussell8601
    @lisamarierussell8601 2 роки тому

    My prayers go out to you and your family.
    I have lost several babies in my life. Weather I lost them early on or late after 18 weeks it still hurts just as much.
    Just remember that this chapter in your life will now help others who will go through the same thing. I was told by my counselor that a woman on average looses 1 in 3 pregnancies and so far this keeps proving right.
    I am grateful that God has given me the ability to help others.
    Love and prayers

  • @sharebear2275
    @sharebear2275 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you. Have courage, you are strong. I love your honesty. Kiss the babies that are with you here on earth. You will be reunited in Heaven. The umbilical story is certainly very encouraging. Peace be with you.

  • @Chispitaa_
    @Chispitaa_ 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your story, I admire you and the family so much. We love you and sending our prayers 🙏🏼

  • @umaizafathima9284
    @umaizafathima9284 2 роки тому +2

    This is honestly the 1st time that I shed a tear while watching your video🥺....Your really strong and Baby Emaan has truly taught us so much in such a short time...May Allah Bless You...💕

  • @ar.zainabali2620
    @ar.zainabali2620 2 роки тому

    May Allah ease your pain and thrive you do so much more good in this world. Ameen. My heart breaks hearing this but I am so happy Allah will reunite us with all our loved ones in Jannah!

  • @alexisbailey6315
    @alexisbailey6315 2 роки тому

    Sending you so much love and peace. May Allah continue to comfort you❤️

  • @Amy.13....
    @Amy.13.... 2 роки тому +3

    I'm so sorry for your loss but don't worry stay strong May Allah bless you! Ameen 💗

  • @madamedragon
    @madamedragon 2 роки тому

    I am so so sorry for your loss, I pray that you and your family will find peace and I know that your reunion with your child will be beautiful and joyful beyond words

  • @susanwright1931
    @susanwright1931 Рік тому

    You have made your personal heartbreak into something so beautiful and inspiring. This truly was beautiful. I would love to read the story you spoke of from the Koran but I am so terrified to get a bad translation or something someone has used to try to make Islam into something it is not. I see people say this quite often that some of the translations are very off. I believe that is very true in the Bible as well. Thank you for sharing your story. You will hold your beautiful baby. I have zero doubts about that. 💙

  • @Animalsoverhumans101
    @Animalsoverhumans101 2 роки тому

    The strength you show is only the first step. I haven’t lost a child or experienced a miscarriage in my family but I’ve lost my grandfather whom I was very close to and I get the pain. It sucks! So just remember that there are people out there that care and want to supper you!❤️❤️❤️

  • @Backforthefuture
    @Backforthefuture 2 роки тому +1

    So brave 🙏 Thank you for sharing your loss and the words. My baby’s heart was shown to me on 28th Feb 2006 and it was pointed out it wasn’t beating. Another Dr came in with a handful of leaflets which he held in his hand whilst scanning me…He confirmed the death and handed me the leaflets. My daughter was born in the 5 th March 2006. She wasn’t in a good condition and it traumatised me..I also haemorrhaged. I retained some of the placenta and had infection like you. I gave birth to a baby that I had to leave in the hospital. My milk came in and my body reacted as it had during other births. You never get over the loss, you get used to feeling that pain. It’s 16 years for me and still painful. My husband didn’t see our daughter and I was alone.. I wish I’d had someone with me..I have found the more I talk about her the more other women tell me about their losses. It’s a silent pain that many women have suffered with and I wish it wasn’t this way. Sorry to have waffled. You are not alone. I feel your pain, like so many other women. Sending you so much love and strength ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nimosaid5151
    @nimosaid5151 2 роки тому

    So sorry for your loss.I cannot say I exactly know how u felt but I had a similar trauma of losing my twin girls at 26 weeks.I was in and out of the hospital for 3 months and got admitted for the last one month until I delivered.Its so devastating and traumatizing subhnallah especially after having other miscarriages and still not having baby.May Allah(sw) give us sabr sis.Sending you hugs

  • @lacietaulbee8810
    @lacietaulbee8810 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing this very emotional message, it definitely gave me inspiration. I pray every morning and night for God to provide a baby and I know it’s all in his time. I just know that my husband and I will be great parents, one day. Infertility is something I thought would be nothing I would struggle with, but here I am.
    I pray for comfort for you and your family. God bless ❤️

  • @angelinal3815
    @angelinal3815 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your story. Praying for you and your family.❤️

  • @kristinebaker9094
    @kristinebaker9094 2 роки тому

    Sending love and healing wishes to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

  • @gracemastoros6126
    @gracemastoros6126 2 роки тому

    God bless you so kind of you to explain what you have been through. I have learned a lot from you. Thank you beautiful sister I pray for you and your loving family. ❤️🙏🏼

  • @nevadag606
    @nevadag606 2 роки тому +3

    The pain and loss behind your smile is felt, we are with you Sanna 🥺❤️ this is a hardship that no one deserves to experience, but you are so strong and Allah wouldn’t give you an emotional burden you couldn’t bear ❤️❤️❤️

  • @zainsultan8628
    @zainsultan8628 2 роки тому

    sister im sorry for your families loss it must be hard to lose a child especially at a really young age.
    I also want to say you guys are the best and that i hope you feel better soon! May You Meet Emaan In Jannah!
    I will support you guys!
    This comment is before i watch the video

  • @cutenoodle9888
    @cutenoodle9888 2 роки тому +5

    May God bless you and your beautiful baby! I was raised Christian (do not currently follow any religion)but I loved the scripture you shared.

  • @citlaligonzalezgodinez4359
    @citlaligonzalezgodinez4359 2 роки тому +3

    Well, that is exactly the reason why religions exist in the first place, why there have been some many religions throughout history, they give us comfort and answers, in other words, to satisfy our spiritual needs which varies form person to person. A lot of people out there feel satisfaction in questioning other peoples faith and believes, wanting to destroy them, believing their truth is the absolute one, but they dont think about the harm and pain they may be inflicting on the others by doing so. Its great that you are sharing your story so that other people in the same situation and with the same believe system dont feel alone

  • @rayluby6659
    @rayluby6659 2 роки тому

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Wishing your hearts peace. One thing I thought about your body continuing to go through the process that might be helpful is that perhaps your baby is spiritually with you being a guardian through this. Like they are holding your hand through it saying you are never alone again because they’ll always be with you ❤️

  • @seraiahdaniella3755
    @seraiahdaniella3755 2 роки тому +2

    I wish I could give you a big hug ❤️ I've never been pregnant, nor am I Muslim, but I empathize with you. May you and your family find peace in the midst of your loss and grief. I love you.

  • @Xybrawq
    @Xybrawq 2 роки тому +1

    I feel super bad but just know I will be praying for you and things will get better. Bless your heart ❤

  • @evershade.after.dark.
    @evershade.after.dark. 2 роки тому +10

    Don't feel the need to hide your pain. Experience it. Sometimes the only way out is through. ❤️

  • @katieelynne4044
    @katieelynne4044 2 роки тому +2

    I am so sorry for your loss. A week ago, I just had a miscarriage at 10 weeks and 1 day. My prayers and condolences go out to you.

  • @darleneprowse5714
    @darleneprowse5714 2 роки тому

    What great insight! It is ok to be happy. The loved one is never forgotten.

  • @utoobe2011
    @utoobe2011 2 роки тому

    You are helping so many who have lost or will lose a baby 😢Thank you for sharing your story. Baby Emaan never had to know anything in this world other than your warmth, comfort, voice, and love. 💕

  • @SRBang0409
    @SRBang0409 2 роки тому

    Sending you so much love! 💗

  • @nevadag606
    @nevadag606 2 роки тому +4

    NEVER apologize for feeling your raw emotions, you are human and we feel things so deeply because of that. You are so allowed to cry and be emotional in moments of pain

  • @jjdoe686
    @jjdoe686 2 роки тому +1

    We love both of you and your family. Thank you for everything.

  • @rayla366
    @rayla366 2 роки тому

    This happed to me this month. I had to have the assisted miscarriage last week and it was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through. I feel your pain sis, may Allah bless us with healthy babies in sha Allah ameen!

  • @aqualife88
    @aqualife88 2 роки тому

    God bless you and inshallah you will keep feeling better. I will keep yall in my prayers

  • @arelidurrani
    @arelidurrani 2 роки тому

    My condolences to you and your family, I went through a early miscarriage , I can't imagine going through one very late during pregnancy. May God give you strength to carry on and bless you with another pregnancy god willing .

  • @aliciaarguello1989
    @aliciaarguello1989 2 роки тому

    I’m so sorry for your loss Sana. May god give you the strength to heal. Prayers for you and your family. Your baby is so loved❤️

  • @jennasyoutube
    @jennasyoutube 2 роки тому

    I’ve definitely been crying watching these videos - May Allah continue to give your family strength as you continue to heal. 🤍 Such a devastating and tough thing to go through.
    Also a couple ways I like to think your baby Emaan has helped inspire me to do: I have donated to the fundraiser and inshallah I’ll donate more later, and I prayed salah for the first time in a while 🤍
    Sending lots of love and internet hugs your families way.

  • @mdahmd7979
    @mdahmd7979 2 роки тому

    Sending a lot of love, and hugs. I just lost a loved one and what impressed me was the difficulty i faced in realizing this was true, it was really happening to me...I cried a lot, called to Allah and He answered me so fast, healed my heart, comforted me...He's so near! .. I felt safe and kind of "respectful" dealing with the idea that we belong to the Lord of the worlds and He does with us whatever He wants...It helped me and lead me to respect even death, because is one of His creatures..a sister ❤

  • @theajaoalimat
    @theajaoalimat 2 роки тому

    Sending loads of love to your dear family ❣️❤️❣️❤️❤️.
    I am not even married but I felt the depth of this message and I learnt a thing or two about dealing with grief having lost my Dad this time last year. May Allah Grant him jannah
    May Allah Grant you was ease, comfort and reunite you with your baby in Sha Allah❣️

  • @ZomBabeZoe
    @ZomBabeZoe Рік тому +2

    I know it's many months since it happened but I am sending hugs and Comfort to you all,and your project to honour your baby is also so amazing. I lost twins 14 years ago,only got a tattoo to commemorate them this year(cupcakes because my Tara and Gabriella never to have got birthday cakes,and it bothered me), and I still miss them but their little sister Bella came at the perfect time to comfort me... she was born 13 months after and is my only non-angel baby so far. Miscarriages/stillbirth aren't the mama's fault,I blamed myself too for a long time btw,sometimes it just happens that way. Please accept this virtual hug from me. I am truly sorry, knowing how this all feels... oh and at least you didn't have to hear "maybe if you cleaned your house better and believed in Jesus your babies would still be alive. Get up and clean!" Like I did,from a midwife who was supposed to be visiting to check on me...I was 21 and luckily on meds that made me feel like my brain was marshmallow(I think it was sedatives,my gp had me on them for a few weeks) or I'd have probably decked her,instead I cried and asked her to leave.
    But yeah,I hope you're feeling better emotionally and physically, and well done for honouring your angel-baby in a really wonderful way.

  • @noors698
    @noors698 2 роки тому

    Instead of watching videos on life with a newborn as I thought I would be... I flicked over to this knowing the title, SubhanAllah a eye openerand well Needed video. I've learnt something today, especially what u said about not going to bed angry and letting go of the little things... The reason for your video benefitted me and I haven't experienced this, it's definitely educational for all the Muslim women out there
    AL HAMDULILAH to ALLAH SWT in all circumstances.

  • @camandbrinjensen8174
    @camandbrinjensen8174 2 роки тому

    Sending prayers and comfort your way 🙏🏼❤