I have not had my periods for 15 years after using depo, married for 10 years and still no child|LNN
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- "Hi Lynn just saw your post on family planning on fb I will never use any again used depo back in 2007 and the years following upto date I have never seen my periods. I have tried getting pregnant I can't it messed me up got married in 2013 upto now, I can't conceive 15years no period it's the most heartbreaking thing ever i still have hope though thank you so much for your platforms be blessed"
This are the words my guest today wrote me few months ago.
On today's episode of LNS, she walks Lynn through through her journey using depo contraceptives and the potential danger they could have on the Africa woman
Disclaimer: This episode is not for medical advice purposes
but a journalistic piece sharing our guest's views and a call for further research, sensitization and inquiry on these drugs
Follow-up: • The truth behind Depo ...
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Good morning team LNN?
What are your views about contracrptives, safe days and withdrawals?
Which option can you recommend and why?
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Thank you so much for watching..stay tuned for the gynecologist's view
Much love @lynn ngugi
About contraceptives men inawahusu sana bana,changamkeni. About safe days n withdrawals , sincerely hapo Sina maoni
I had rather date woman with 3kids than woman who has aborted 1times or more ....
Good morning viewers I congratulate the husband of this lady because many men chase their wives when they realise this situation
Have never used contraceptive in my life. But I received my periods mwanzo mwanzo when I was class 6 and 7. After that I had a lot of difficulties kupata periods. Niliogopa kuambia parents coz they judge me wakidhani I’m pregnant yet have never had sex. I was divorced in my first marriage because I could not give birth. But later I was married again. 8 years without a baby. But alhamduliallah I decided to visit one of the herbal clinic and guess what. I’m a mother of 3year baby girl. ….never give up.
I was one of those who used DEPO shot after I had my daughter at 21 and used it for 5 years and after, stopping I was hoping it will come in 3-6 months as I was told by the doctor which turned to 1 year without periods. I had to visit a hospital over here who gave me another type of contraceptive pills that worked to revive my periods however, when time came to have a baby it never happened even though I kept receiving MPs , I seriously tried for 5yrs nothing. After my relationship ended by my partners secretly deciding to marry behind my back.😥😥😭 . Fast forward the following year now 7 yrs ago God blessed us with a fruit of the womb naturally. There is God in heaven who answers every tears and pain and he will answer yours too. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
With the same partner who married behind your back??
yea its true...i changed to pills which workd on periods bt conceiving took a while not that long hajaribu pills maybe her body will go back to normal
Amen
@@kishngatia hehe 🤣 chill
@@kishngatia hope not.
We honestly need to have more contraception conversations. No one talks about the side effects.
Thanks Queen
There are no side effects. Everything is working as planned. Contraceptives are being used by big pharmas to sterilise our women. Israel did it to thousands of Ethiopian jews. Its called eugenics. Afrikans wake up. I feel sorry for my sistas everywhere in the globe.
They do talk about it go to ntv wicked edition by Dr king'ori,
@@zackzackie. i honestly thought something took you out or you got saved coz your mean comments were very consistent 😅Glad to see you are back!
@Wanjiru before you choose which contraceptive to use...there always a learning session atleast for you to know the side effects...how long is it effective...and also to make the right choice of the contraceptive to use
Yes we are not safe at all
Lynn thanks for the conversation, my wife got baby girl 10yrs ago since then we have tried nothing has happened, we have never used those contraceptions, i really love her and have nothing will stop me from loving her, if it pleases God to bless with another we will praise Him and if he sees good for us to be with this one only still we praise him again, we are children workers in church and we thank God. i apload the man of the lady be blessed. this is hard topic to talk about in african setup but its worthy.
Keep up you are a real gentleman ☺️☺️
Woow thanks mr Samuel may the Holy spirit bless you with twins
Also check on your side too!!Go and have fertility test...you may have sexual desires but still a man may not be able to impregnate her woman!!!!I'm a man too so don't worry to go and check may be the problem is at your side
Pray and have faith. God surprised me after 6 years of waiting. Hakuna asiloliweza
May the Lord honour the desires of your hearts
The Lynn family are not only Kenyans. I'm Tanzanian and love your show. My dear sister may God bless you. You will conceive in Jesus name. I pray for you.
My mum advised me never to use contraceptive and I love her so much for being my precious jewel....
You are very young. You will get pregnant soon in Jesus name. Never give up.
She wouldn't have because that was exactly what she wanted to avoid when she was consuming the contraceptives, Jesus is against them, so she already went against God's will.
@@martinjacobtv9864 God is merciful and her blessings are on the way
He's a God of second chance
But If you follow the scriptures you should abstain till marriage!!!Jesus didn't tell her to use those contraceptives...so I don't see any point of involving Jesus to sympathize with her!!
If God dealt with us the way man deals with us, we would all perish. I'm just reading some of these comments and I'm grateful that God is merciful and forgiving. Thanks be to God for His mercies towards humanity.
@@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood yes sure His ways ain't ours and His mercy is just smt else we thank Him for always being merciful
Very educative topic....I honestly never knew anything about contraceptives until I joined college we should embrace this topic and teach our girls the pros and cons.....
Am a nurse
Passionate on this topic,I did my research on this.
I always give all the information to my patients but above all still explain the side effects,not once have I readvised several of my patients from depo but the good thing it has been withdrawn unless there are still facilities that administer.
Sending my love hugs to you, it's okay to be vulnerable sometimes it's the only way we get help.hang in there, don't blame yourself you only did what you knew was best at that time and just like the old saying goes wisdom doesn't come fast.
We love you and appreciate you just the way you are, I know it takes a lot of courage to speak about it so thank you for coming out to educate others.
Kindly let's note every fp method works differently on every woman and until you're sure it's working for you,ask those questions it's your body after all and let's not forget there are natural methods too .
W thank you
Lynn thank you for your support and the legacy your are making
I totally agree with you contraceptives are sold and advocated for but the side effects are not talked about people use blindly without good evidence based scientific information for credible sources
I have never used these contraceptive, but from what i have seen my close friends suffer, I can never advice at all !! The suffering and complications not worth it, I would rather have ten kids or more than suffer like that? Thanks Lin for bringing this.
Thank you very much for this Educative session, in my opinion, "The primary and obvious method is COMPLETE ABSTINENCE FROM INTERCOUSE. (as far as may be necessary), the life of discipline and self-control lived by the power of the Holy Spirit"
If you're married this is not a viable option
Okay,but for the married that's not an option
I know of a woman who hadn’t had a periods in years and was told by doctors she will never conceive but God came through and now her baby is 6yrs old , God will show up for you too my sister.
Glory be to God; the purposes of God will always prevail
I can say I was lucky?I got married got one child and started using depo.For ten good yrs I have never missed my periods not even for a month.And it came normally for 3 days every month.I stopped using depo last yr Feb and by may I was pregnant,I thank God I have a bouncing baby girl.
This gives me hope though my case is different coz I don't see my periods
Thanks, Lynn for always educating us on all sensitive topics, this story is really sad😭😭😭😭😭😭 such conversations should be taken to universities, colleges and other institutions of higher learning, I am a young man and I have seen so many young ladies taking the contraceptives recklessly and while others consume P2 on daily basis
Absolutely true,,,
True women go through alot
I think if you are dating someone,better muongee hii story about kids na the perfect time you both you want to have kids na incase upate mtoi is he ready to accept it ,mtoi hawezi kuzuia uwe na future yako ,the kid will grow and continue with your career
Facts
Lynn, depo was banned in 1st world completely, i used it in 1994, conceiving in 2004 Lynn was a miracle, i spent sleepless nights in prayer houses, begging God almighty 🛐i had no periods, i was so broken, immediately after giving birth my periods disappeared again until this year, let women speak out....
Jesus Christ of Nazareth , since 2004 you have never seen your periods😒may the good Lord cleanse you
Pole mami. That's sad, I pray that God restores you completely.
Your periods disappeared since 2004??🥺😯am sorry
How many years did you used depo?
Sorry ma'am,
This woman is so strong to share her story, there are some comments talking about exactly the same thing she's talking about. May God see her through,time is everything ✌️
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You're an answer to the nation, you are doing great Ms Lynn, we appreciate all you're doing. May God give you strength always, love from Namibia 🇳🇦
Am glad you have a very supportive husband. I personally know a couple that was married for over 10yrs, they later decided to do IVF and were blessed with one child and a year later conceived naturally. God is in control sister.
This episode is a trigger to me 😭💔💔😭😭😭 you are not alone sister.
Good lord remember this woman that she will come back here again and testify.
There is nothing more traumatising like for a married woman having fertility issues...in our African setting being unable to conceive is seen as the woman is evil, cursed and so on..... Personally have gone through blasphemy,all kinds of names, intimidation but am still waiting 19 years.Now 45 years of age and trusting God.for babies, someone shout AMEN.
Nevertheless am a God fearing woman i don't care what people say,I love the good things in life,Am very positive about life and am happy.DONT LET ANYTHING OR ANYONE SNACTH YOUR HAPPINESS.TRUST IN GOD.
Pole my dear, may God answer your prayer. I had fibroids and I worried to bit. The fibroids were so big but I prayed, and God heard my prayer. I have a baby girl. Mungu ajibu maombi yako pia.
Amen God will visit you. In his appointed time.
African married women with fertility issues have brought this on themselves. Traditionally were women sterilizing themselves, no? We run to western medication thinking it's good for us. Conceiving is a natural occurrence but due to the lack of knowledge many African women are steralised with contraceptive methods
Amen
Ameeeeeeeeeeeeen,,I'm 30 old now and have been through a lot,,I got married at 19 and fertility issues has made me go through hell,,I thank God for this comment and I'm happy about your positivity mummy,, let's wait and trust in the living God
Being a woman is beautiful also not easy . My heart goes out to this lady and I pray she gets her blessings and peace as well. I wish our society would be more understanding. It’s horrible how we treat each other based on Society standards. Just like you said a baby does not define who you are and your worth . We are humans first and we all deserve to live regardless of our situation. Good story definitely lessons to be learned. Thank you both
Gossipers will never understand.
Our queen 👑 Lynn always enlightening society 🙌🙌
at least una mume anajitambua otherwise the suffering would have been hell, thank God for this angelic husband, from Tz we appreciate you husband send the salute to this brother for being such a humble man
Such topics should be done especially in colleges mostly and these teenage school going girls. It's good to create awareness and educate both genders about effects of contraceptives, Epills n FP.
Very true
I hope this story will teach a lot of us and we also take that opportunity to teach these young gals about contraceptives,Epills n FP ,kwanza the so called P2 ndo umeharibu wasichana wadogo. Siku hizi mimba ndo inaogopwa kuliko magonjwa. This topic is so educating 💯
From her talks and boldness I must confirm that the lady is beautiful.The Lord gonna answer her prayer one day.
In this life I taught myself...never to comment,judge someone without knowing what they are battling....but we believe in God siz you will get children triplets in the Name of Jesus Christ
Amen
After I gave birth to my second child i was advised to get depo as form family planning and I did , I went for only 2times I stayed 3yrs without my periods my marriage was trembling almost got divorced I started having problems weight gain, feeling abdominal pain, extreme cramps I went to the hospital I was given some madications didn't work i suffered one and half years in and out of the hospital it reached a time I was told I had to do surgery to remove fluids found in my P.O.D I had enough I decided to go to home town I was given some herbs by my grandma and finally got back my periods now am happy mother of six beautiful, amazing kids
I am experiencing the same abdominal pain and extreme cramps ..had the shot once
Masha Allah. So happy for you.
Which herb did you use?
The herb please
Tell us the herb we need it
This is just sad. However, thank you for being vulnerable to share about your experiences. You don't know how many people you've helped out here especially the ignorant ones. May God hear your cry and bless you with a child 🙏
Lynn thanks for listening to us about the identity incognito, people are suffering out here and they would love to tell their story but chini ya maji, thank you again. I pray for our guest today that may God remember her just as He remembered Sarah and Hannah 🙏.
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Our guest I can recommend a gynaecologist from guru Nanak hospital me too nilikuwa napata period 4tymes in a year I stayed 9yrs without conceiveing but through God and help of Dr kamau I'm mother of 1beutiful daughter I wish you all the best dear.
This is sad. Personally I have kid, and after my 2nd born in 2000, I sought a family planning advice from a government hospital and DEPO was adviced. I missed my periods for 15 years, went through excruciating pains for a period of time until 2015 when a doctor told me to a papsmear and a scan and I had ovarian cyst. After they removed the cyst, my periods came back. I feel relieved. Thanks for the wonderful topic
Lynn I had my son in 2007 and started family planning ,but later tried to have another child n am not sure of what happened with my body I had 6 miscarriages n gave up on having more children.16years later only one child n I finally decided to love myself and appreciate what I have.luckly my husband is very supportive
Sorry for that, which FP were you using?
Dear young girls, You dont need contraceptives if you are unmarried. What are you family planning for if you dont have a family? Abstain from sex and if you really really can't then go natural. After getting married have kids first, 1,2 or 3 of them then you can get a serious contraceptive. Again, usiingie hosi useme unataka kuwekwa ile, pimwa kwanza and the one that goes well with your body daktari atakuambia. Also, chagua kitu inaeza tolewa kwa mwili if you dont like it anymore. Natural family planning works well for people doing long distance relationships sana sana(personally l dont like it😂)coz sitashinda nikicount days kila siku or asking my husband to withdraw na hataki. Lets educate ourselves
Abstain or use condoms. Those are the safest ways
My cry goes out to the childless families.God of Sarah,Elizabeth,Hannah and Manoah come through for you in Jesus name.Amen
Add Rebecca,Rachel, Ruth the list is endless... But it is a sin to engage in sex before marriage. The bible is very clear on this.
Amen
Amen
Amen🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen Amen may God hear us
Never judge anyone without knowing what she or he going through
God will grant you the desires of your hearts,Thank you for your hubby who is soo supportive and non judgemental.I know of a friend who used depo after 1st child 26 yrs ago,Shes never been able to conceive again,though shes been getting her periods.Personally i used it unkowingly but after 1st child,it almost killed me with non stop bleeding and migraine,I thank God that i got 2 more babies who are now young adults.I have been on norplant for 14 yrs i got it removed in 2019,I was advised by my hubby because of the effect it has had on me.Natural family planning is way to go but it also depends on the kind of partner you have.I congratulate you for speaking about it,Am soo optimistic that you are soon coming back with bundles of Joy to celebrate at LNN.God continue blessing you.
Thanks for enlightening us mamaa it's always good to consult medical practitioners who have more knowledge about contraceptives
I really thank my mom because every time she sits down with me upto todate to talk about everything sex , contraceptives , periods , and she has forever Been my best friend
I had the same experience and waited for more than 6years. Someone once said that someone should not talk to me about kids coz I don't have any and it really did hurt me. Finally God blessed me with a very beautiful baby girl who is now 4 years old. She is my sunshine and my pride.
Glory to God, I am currently using it for 10 months I had never had my periods and am worried too...my daughter is now ayear
Miracles still exist. This woman will get a child by a miracle. She will testify on this very platform, May God hear me,
Amen...Amen in Jesus Name.
Am a nurse and I always discourage ladies without children and those who have and want to have others later from using depo coz during my years of training we encountered alot of women who couldn't conceive as a side effect of it and also now in my practice it's so devastating.I remember one girl some years back she came to our clinic and I got concerned because she was coming for the injection after looking at the card it's something she has been using for a long time when I asked her if she knew the future repercussions of the injection she had no Idea since it was the mother who introduced her and she was only 15yrs.I think the topic on FP should be taught in public coz we cannot reach everyone using since in some pharmacy they just offer the injection without counseling.May the God of Hannah remember you.I have my friend going through the same and she used depo when we were in college and I had discouraged her today she tells me she regrets not listening to me but I also pray for her
What do we use since I have one kid and I want another one after 3yrs?
@@noreenvuhya2029 withdraw or trust
Am a nurse too, most woman come to the facility when they have already made up their minds that they want depo and no matter how much you try to discourage them, they still insist.
May God remember all women crying for the fruit of the womb.
Hello
@@noreenvuhya2029 Go to your primary care provider, ask them to give you options that are best for you such IUD(Intrauterine device). There is one with hormone and one without aka(spermicide kills sperms). Most people prefer the copper none hormonal kind this way you can get pregnant as soon as you take it out or it has minimal complications. I would highly recommend talking to your PCP.
I fear going to hospital because the first question i get is "when was your last monthly period" this question kills me a lot. May God bless everyone struggling with infertility.
Hugs!
😢 there is God
Hugs
Me too😭
Hugs🫂
Your husband is such an angel 😇
This is so sad to listen too, I used the strip they put under the arm and caused me to loose my hair had alopecia for 2 years. Luckily my hair grew back after I got it removed. May the almighty God bless her wish her own children if it's according to his will. Take heart 🙏🏽
We appreciate your husband for standing with you and being your shoulder through the tough times. I'm hopeful all will work out soon and you'll testify of God's goodness
This video has come to me at the right time,I have been using depo for the last 1 year,I never received periods since then and when I asked a nurse she said it's normal,no one ever talks about the negative effects of contraceptive , thanks for sharing may God remember you and bless your womb in due time,be strong
I used it after giving birth and I became like a Stone (no feelings at all)
It's normal not to have periods even for a year when you are using this depo even inplanon.I myself did not have period for a year and a half but once I stopped using I conceived.so it's completely normal
@@gracy2545 First of all why will you even use them surely🤔🤔
I am using Janelle implant right now its been 2years ,i must say at first i was worried since i wasn't experiencing periods,luckily 4 moths ago everyday i have had periods which its ok with me.Also in my opinion i would advise WOMEN using family planning after you are done having kids,and also mind where you are getting them from(facilities) for young women especially in primary and high school to abstain cause from testimonies from other women it seems this things are unpredictable.
@@CynthiaMata. Its for your own good,the moment you will realize that the countries producing those family planning pills are banned in their own countries you will be surprised 🤷♂️🤷♂️
I really understand this lady for sure, it has happened to me and my life changed until today but I thank God because I can see my periods every month
What are you using my dear
I am 22 years and I can say I have really really learned a lot about contraceptives and all about the family planning thing,, I have never used any of them but am grateful I watched this, I can't wait to watch the next week show, thanks alot Lynn,,, I wish alot of young people sees this. show love on my channel as well❤️
Trust me we needed this. Am your age mate. Nowadays fungua mdomo useme you ain't sleeping around or using these damn contraceptives you look like a fool! Abstainance is way to go!
@@rispergichuki3172 Yes abstaining is the way.
Same here, thanks for the advice
Good girls choices have consequences life is so precious and short to be wasted
@@rispergichuki3172 si jamiane na mtu 😂
She will have her own children soon she should not worry Gods time is the best
I am 25 and i did the same thing after i got my son at 21.I have experienced irregular periods,painful cramps,very serious back pains can't walk.I have visited gynae hadi nimechoka.When i realized i was going through alot about the periods i decided to try getting pregnant and since 2020 i have never gotten page despite being very sexually active.I don't use any contraceptives no pullouts but never gotten pregnant.I used the depo once but that once changed alot.I feel like i understand our guest coz its almost the same thing that is happening to me.I hope the fact that i have realized early i will get help in hospital and be well.
Have you ever heard about Harriet's Botanicals?
@@naomkibet927 do they work
Go see a nutritionist, sometimes all you need a reboot of your system after a cleanse and good diet. Here in Uganda 🇺🇬 am seeing it do miracles in the lives of many women
Similar story.. God will soon hear our cry
Use guava leaves juice
Please don’t loose faith!! Iam a Miracle baby my self my Mum waited for twenty years after marriage but God gave her two of us Me and my brother!!! She never gave up, so believe with me in prayer and you will have babies in Jesus Name!!! There is nothing impossible before God , He is a God who open doors.read lev.:3🙏
Amen! I tap the blessings
Amen
Please don't give up. I had a baby after 9 years...5 years after depo with no intervention. Please go to Clinic 66 at Kenyatta National Hospital
I would recommend knh any time
Hi Lynn, a kind reminder we are still waiting for you to bring a gynaecologist in the studio.Thank you.
At the right time God will bless you, just never loose hope and faith and grace shall find you
All the way from Saudi Arabia (Dammam)
Tuned in from this episode 💖
Much love to our guest and Lynn ❤️❤️
The moment I turned 15 my mum sat me down and said this"Am not going to introduce you to any kind of contraceptives that's for married women ukianza kucheza na vijana it's upto you but let me assure you the best method is to abstain till marriage" Today Lynn am turning twenty and believe it or not I took that path
great. and me too. i wasnt adviced by anyone but im for chilling till marriage
Keep it up! Bravo 👌
I used dipo for 6,months that is I got injected twice, I didn't not see my period I stopped using it so I can get pregnant I tried to convince for a whole year after I gave up and when I list expected. I found out that am pregnant may the same God who visited me visit you at this point trust in him
I love the way Lynn you have handled her ,may God see her through and I believe she will come back with a testimony ❤️
Am just here to encourage someone...I saw mam go through the pain of not bearing a child..she is in her mid fifties so most ladies of her age have four kids and above and all grown ups but our last born is only 10years ...the gap between me and him is around 14yrs which were the hardest years of her life .. people asking her why she doesn't have anymore kids and surprisingly after she convinced our last born in her late 40s , some still told her how old she was too old to be changing diapers while her agemates are grandparents..mind you we had a first born who would be in his 30's but he passed in 2008..My mam never used contraceptives ..she is the strongest woman I know and positive about life ...she jokes that even if she gets pregnant today in her mid fifties she will still celebrate and walk proudly with her Belly...
My point is God gives at his own time .. support each other as women and learn not to judge be your sister's pillars and know that even you who is a mother can wake up and find you are not anymore..
Does norplant have side effects
@@monicawambui1798 Every method of family planning has side effect. That is why it is very important to consult a gynacologist.
Watching this episode took me back to Alessia Cara's words in her song🎵scars to your beautiful 🎵she says 'There's a hope that's waiting for you in the dark ,you should know your beautiful just the way you are and you don't have to change a thing the world could change its heart , no scars to your beautiful we stars and we're beautiful ' Madam W I just wanna tell you theres hope and one day you will come back with a testimony glorifying God cause he is the giver and he gives at his own time .Be blessed🙏
First I'm so so sorry about that.. You just reminded me when I first used depo after getting my first daughter but I was a young girl so i didn't understand anything to do with family planning. A friend advised me to use depo which really messed up my hormones didn't get my periods for 7years!!, couldn't take tea with milk for years.. Nausea every morning and I was always moody and lost so much weight. On the 7th year what I felt I'll never forget in my entire life. I had so much pain in my lower abdomen and after 2hrs of excruciating pain, I started seeing big clots of blood coming out, luckily It was my off day.. Since then I have never used it again. I have couple of friends who encountered the same. So sorry again and trust in God.. His time is the best. All the best
This is a very sensitive topic ,thank you for sharing with us and my prayer is that may our Almighty find it worthy to bless you according to your heart's desire Mom! God please bless this womb and anybody desiring to have a child of their own🙏.It shall be okay Mama♥️🥰🥰
I like this conversation and the fact that she says unmarried ladies should completely abstain i pray for her upcoming testimony, as we await the gyna to empower us more.
May our good Lord remember you and change your story and bless you with your own baby
Me I ve stayed for 19yrs without conceiving,,, nimeachwa na watu watatu wakingoja matokeo lakini wapi. But mungu ni nani my son is turning 2yrs now after waiting for that long. Thank you soooo much for this topic aki
Aki Lynn it's only the Lord will reward you for the good work.
Nor plant (the one with 5 sticks) was also banned in Europe way back in the 80’s. Kenya 🇰🇪 government allowed it to be damped here. Stock ikaisha…. Then now the one with 2 sticks was introduced and is the one ok the market. Be ware beautiful ladies.
I remember mm wakati nlienda kuintroduciwa mambo ya family planning I told the doctor nataka hyo ya depo akiniuliza do u have a child nkamshw yap one ,do u want wengine I said yes akanshw do u know the pain ya kukosa mtoto na he told me hawezi ni Dunga hyo Kuna madaktari watakushw c mzuri wengine hawashughuliki ju haja Yao ni pesa
This so educative and I think we should raise an idea country wide that this topics of sex and contraceptive should be included at school syllabus
Yes name sake
Ow!I'm just crying while watching and listening to this story but thank you so much Lynn and our mgeni here for sharing
Lnny i like watching your shows atleast every day when I'm relaxed, they are so educative and inspiring..This lady has said that depo.has been banned in first world countries long time ago,Idont think its true. I live in the uk and I have been using depo for all this long have lived here
becaue I was having 3 children when I left Kenya.But in btn 2008 I stopped using this depo for few months and fortunately I conceived with my 4th kid here in the uk,and then after birth I resumed back to my depo.upto 2020 is when I stopped using it becase the nurse advised me to stop using it because of my advancing age ,it might affect my bones .So let's not rely on the things people post on line.Depo is still being used in the uk.
Whoelse wants to give lynn nice flowers for her hardwork.Tumpee 1000 likes kindly
Am a nurse and as a student we used to learn about contraceptive complications . personally am 29years old and I have never used them .I hate them and I can't advocate anyone to use them .enzi za wazazi wetu hakukuwa na hizi complications mingi naona nowadays mwanamke akifika 35 bila mtoi unaanza kuona mtu amepata fibroids majority of them .before a woman could deliver mtoto safety Kwa nyumba sai most of us tunaenda operations ,getting a baby nowadays ningumu a woman stays hata ten years after so many attemps Hadi za IVF zingine zinafail .....there is a certain nurse she was giving health talk and she linked depo na uterine cancer .wanawake tuamke hizi vitu zitatuharibu nowander Catholic church hawapendi
Hej LNN, thanks for the great work you render to the society, My advice to my sister is to openheartedly continue receiving the babies that come to her house and to stop being angry to people that come in with the topic of babies. Please let her welcome every topic about kids with all her entire heart. In that way she will be preparing for the many kids that are under way. please just a simple change of attitude is going to make her dreams come true. As a believer i know she will not get her periods instead she will be pregnant, maybe to four or five possibly 8. Lots of love
Great advice
Mama you’re complete even without kids. God is the giver of life
I was traumatized when I was a little girl and it affected me psychological because when I started receiving periods it started abnormally I have tried to see a gnaenacologist but it haven't bored any fruits.im praying that one day God will answer my prayers 🙏. My sister be strong God's time is the best
May our good Lord hear your prayers
Thanks Lynn, this topic is eye opening and am being educated. May God open the wombs of those who are waiting for children.
Hamjasikia stories mtu alipata bol akiwa na coil 🙄🤔 to me I think men should be the one to use contraceptives n FP
True
Off topic kidogo but Winnie, really love you❤️❤️
Thank you for the love❤️❤️
Yes it happens coz there is no contraceptive that is 100%. For IUD I think if you have it done with a good specialist you won't have to worry. Have been using it for 5 years now and it has been the best option haven't experienced any changes especially in my body
Never I can't and I will never use those things never
Mine failed terribly my fp bby is 5 yrs I thank God for him😂🙏
Please Lynn Ngugi thanks for this show and the discussion it is of wonderful help. Please is it possible to connect with this lady, I had someone of the kind and she tried some remedy and it worked together with prayers and trusting in God she can get her periods back and get to conceive.
I went to the hospital last week and I was asked..
"Are you using any contraceptives? I said No! They asked," are you sexually active?" I said No! The doctor was like 👀👁️👀.. Mrembo kama Wewe?" I said, Next question? ALAR!!
Ghaaaai even me I was asked two months ago by a doctor kama am using any contraceptive pills kwanini wanaulizanga mtu hivyo.
I get that look too when i say i am not sexually active, my response usually is " just because you cant control your genitalias doesn't mean everybody else cant". People always think everyone is like them.
I think they want to know if your symptoms are pregnancy or pill related. That's my guess
@@RhodaK. na venye ladies tunaweza kaa before being involved.. Si lazima
Alar, The Medics think everyone is doing sex.
I once went for treatment in hospital because I was sick, then came compulsory ( "coerced") HIV TESTING, the counselor asked uko na mrembo ni kasema hapana, how many sexual partners do you have, I said zero. Akasema uko sure au unandanganya?
I said nipime niende.
She said are you sure uko normal, I felt like walking away. In fact I stretched my hand for her to prick, na nkamwambia sitaki her pre and post counselling anipe result. These guys are too judgemental
Oh really she's such sweet soul to share her story may the good lord see her through mama 🙏just have Faith and believe in God all will be well 🙌 🙏
Again thaxs my beautiful Lynn for contraceptive program we really need more shows about this 🙏👏
Thanks Lyn for your consistency and hardwork,nifikisheni 1k niwaambia how p2 ruined my life
I used this depo 3 months n I never had my periods, wen I gave births went for the 5yrs still I never had periods for 1yr later I removed it, loose weight hormonal change, up to now I fear, I guess we us women we should stop using family planning n start counting days. To this lady I believe one day u will hold ua baby. U never did this knowing that it will cost you. But we have a God in heaven in heaven who does wonders n he will do it for you. Thanks for sharing ua story not all would stand n make a decision of coming out n sharing wat they are going thru may God bless you for this. I guess this is a calling for us all to go out there n preach to every young gal that fp have consequences
First year in college I tried to get the girl I was sleeping with to use contraceptives but she was against them. She told me she knew an aunt who had complications from contraceptive use. I never pushed her further because as a guy I didn't even know how contraceptives worked; still don't. Seeing this now reminds me she was right, I wonder how many girls experimenting with sex for the first time in college don't know about contraceptive side effects or rather know about them but use them anyway to quell the 'birth control' noise from their sexual partners.
That's where education comes in. Contraceptives come in many forms. Hormones are what messes up everything but there many options. The caveat especially for young college and high school girls is that they also need to know that contraceptives does not protect against STIs but for the sake of learning the complications and ways of using contraceptives, it's important to educate both women and men so they both can have understanding of what they are getting themselves into. The importance of educating the men, is so that, they can prevent unplanned pregnancies, be supportive of their partners, and just to be knowledgeable and to educate their future children so they don't run into problems most of us did. My thoughts
@@makenanyakio6 Agree.
Can't wait to see her face n the baby, may she receive the miracle in Jesus mighty name.
I used implant of 5yrs I never had any periods for all those 5 yrs but when I stopped using it I conceived within 3months. Our bodies reacts differently on contraceptives
Thank you Mgeni wetu leo and Lynn for that very Educative discussion.
I hope our young Sisters can learn a thing or two and stay away from contraceptives.
I wish Lynn and your team can organise seminars for such discussions in our institutions of higher learning..
"To our mgeni...just hold on you will sing a sing of Joy soon.."
Her story is so like about not being taught/taught properly. I learned things the hard way for a long time until I was born again through relationship with Jesus I could hold on. Prior to, I took depo. shot. I had cramps bad. I found out other women had used it and had trouble or couldn't get pregnant after getting off it. Cycles weren't the same and cramping, too. When I finally got pregnant I hemorrhaged with my both my kids almost died after having my son. Almost miscarried my son twice and my daughter's heartbeat went low after contractions so I had to be induced. We need to honor sex as God's creation for enjoyment in marriage. So much damage to our spirit, soul, and body when we have sex outside marriage. We're too precious to God and should realize our worth not to go out. Jesus loves you. I pray God bless you for helping us through this interview.
It also messed me badly .i had crazy hormonal imbalance .i couldn't convince since 2017 up to last year. Thanks God i have a miracle baby boy now ,6 mnths old .i know how this lady feels . having fake pregnancy symptoms then boom nothing
Public dispensaries is usually against someone starting on family planning if you have never have a kid
I went thro this after using depo about 4yrs after my first born.I stayed 11good yrs searching a second born. Depo is very bad family planning. I even stayed without visiting home for when i go home my mother in law could not give me space always asking me you only decided to stay with one child this question kept me away from going home like 4yrs.i used to have period sometime like the whole month nonstop.Depo almost coast my marriage to break.
After some yrs like 5yrs in search of second, i decided to go and see the geno whereby i went every month to see her until i give up.i stopped and just stayed like now i have given up.After the 11 yrs of waiting i got my second born at the age of 38yrs third born at 40yrs and fourth born at the age of42yrs.
So even you,you will get your child you only need to see a good professional gynocolegiest ,follow the instruction and relax.stay without thinking that when you have sex you will conceive.Relax you will get yourself conceived. THANK YOU FOR YOUR TESTIMONY.
Wow,God is great
I think my fear of needles, my christian background and medical background saved me from so much in my campus years. I still insist wait until marriage to start having sex but pole mama, keep trying, you'll conceive one day
Hai Lynn,am from zambia,I've learnt alot from your UA-cam channel,I discovered your channel last year, thank you ❤️
She is truly inspiring and I think many women out here need to hear her coz the same thing happened to a close relative but we never knew why until later.. family planning ain't for African people at all
Actually read on how contraceptives came about utakuwa shocked
I think its just bad luck. I live in America and contraceptive use is very common. But you don't see it leading to infertility.
@@mercyk2672 za Kenya ni za China... Fake ones.
@@Zenitram-xv1qs 😄 🤣 😂 weee kweri nikumbayaaa
Very sad 😢
Dear W, know that God loves you and saw you and your hubby. Just be faithful for one another and know that He watch over His word to work in your life. Don't blame yourself instead forgive yourself for accusing yourself. I thank the Lord for your hubby. I pray for patience in him. God is faithful. Blessing.
I understand her aki, swallow raw garlic and cloves, chop them into small pieces like those of medicines with water for a week itaflow kama nonzenze
God bless you so much for your boldness to talk this sensitive topic,you will a mum soon in Jesus Mighty Name,God is the one who gives children, Lynn God bless you,you don't know how many young girls you have helped, Love your self
Finally someone is talking about this!!!!!I sell ladies clothes and my customers have mentioned this too !!! It’s real btw !